are you kidding me?! I'm so sorry guys! I just watched part 2 and I cant even wrap my head around it! especially after how excited you were to have twins! It makes me cry! Praying for you and will continue to! lysm❤
you guys are two great ppl you guys are always there for each other. i would he so grateful to have friends like you guys and abby you are a great mom and i cant wait to see your other little baby.
My children are adopted. I went through all of this. As soon as you said twins I knew it was an adoption scammer. They are emotional scammers that get off on it and I’m SO sorry it happened to you guys. Please as soon as you connect with an expectant mother get an agency or attorney involved to get proof of pregnancy.
How do they know that the twin are identical already? Isn’t it too soon to tell? I thought you’d have to get them tested once they’re born or a couple years old to tell if they’re actually identical?
This is so disgusting that anyone could fake a pregnancy. I’m so so sorry you had to go through this. One day you two will make the best parents because you have so much love to give ❤
I'm praying everything is okay. I know adoption is tricky. I pray you weren't lied to or misled. I'm praying for you guys. I want this so badly for you.
😳 😳 The reactions of the parents and family broke my heart. I came from part 2 and oh my goodness. How could someone do that to another human being? I am extremely sorry for your experience
@@Rfllllllll she’s saying she can’t wait until they can finally bring home a baby…meaning…she can’t wait for that moment in the future whether that’s tomorrow or 5 years from now.
As someone who was adopted my heart breaks for you. I know my parents struggled and it's so hard seeing someone go through it. Im sure you'll find the right baby for you. My sister and I were both adopted through wide horizons for children which is a non profit so you only cover legal fees. No matter what happens I know you guys will make it through to the end and eventually when things work out you're gonna be the best parents ever.
Unfortunately this is so common. My sister and brother in law have been on the adoption journey for years and I can’t tell you the amount of times they’ve had this happen. People can be such a disappointment and so cruel and I’m so sorry this happened to you. I really encourage you to refer any potential birth moms to your social worker to have them vetted before getting too emotionally invested. Praying for you guys ❤
Your happiness in this video is so beautiful 😭❤️ What an emotional roller coaster you guys have been on. Anxiously awaiting part 2 and hoping for good news. Sending you so much love!!!
I can tell people didn’t read the full title or watch to the end. I am praying for you guys on this journey. I am so hopeful you weren’t lied to, misled, or taken advantage of. Hopeful you get the happy ending you guys are praying so hard for.
I watched the whole thing, but I don’t know how they ran out of room? They have posted a lot longer videos before. But I understand it’s their journey.🙏
Usually a silent follower, and my husband and I are very different from you guys, we don’t even want children. That being said, I truly cannot express how sorry I am that this happened to you guys. I hope you guys get the support you need. Much love, I hope you find the missing piece to your family soon 💙💙
I went through infertility for 3 years. The emotional toll is almost unbearable. I am wishing nothing but the best for you guys. You will make wonderful parents. Have faith.
I can imagine when you want something this much it’s easy to miss the red flags :( I truly hope these identical twin girls really do exist and that they’ll be in your arms some day.
@@leighg7039 yes but also sometimes right before giving birth they might look and see something is off do there best to have the mother give birth the best way possible and then see any possible complications. That was what I was saying.
What a rollercoaster of emotions. In tears watching your joy all the way through to your sadness. Please don’t be discouraged - you will be amazing parents one day. 💗
I watched part 2 first and I have cried the whole 5 minutes in watching this. My heart is breaking watching this. I can not fathom someone doing that to anyone. You guys are in my prayers ❤️
I'm so sorry you guys for whatever happened with this... I know this video was far from easy to make... Thank you for sharing this with us and I am praying for a miracle!
I know that putting out a cliffhanger gets you more views on your next video but I feel that your followers are all hoping and praying for you and waiting for good news. I don't think this is a moment for a cliffhanger because it seems cruel and does not give it the importance it deserves. I pray and hope there is a beautiful outcome for you but please in the future, think of your followers as well because I think there are many who follow you because it gives them hope in their journey as well and this type of cliffhanger may add to their anxiety. Just my thoughts. xoxoxox
My first thought: “why are they doing all this before having the babies??” You guys should talk more to people that went through adoption process. That is not an easy or for sure process. I have friends that spent lots of money with nursery room, with the pregnant mom, fees and other shit and the birth mom changed her mind the days she gave birth.
It is sad to say but clearly you are using this situation for views as well. This video is only 10 minutes so It wouldn’t be long at all even if it was 30 mins or 1hr. Anyways, I hope you guys are doing well.
As someone who worked in this field, I sincerely hope your agency went through the process and helped prepare you for what could happen during this rollercoaster process. I always tried to always being on the side of excitement but also be realistic in what could happen. Wishing you all the best!
I have no words. I am absolutely heartbroken for you both. I’ve been following your story as I wasn’t able to have children and felt close to you. Watching this video I cried all the way through. And to get to the end 💔 I know what a rollercoaster infertility is. Please know how loved you are. Stay strong. Your dream will come true. I know that doesn’t take away the pain you’re feeling. Sending love and strength from the uk 🇬🇧 ❤
I watched part 2 first and I cried throughout this whole video because the amount of joy you both were basking in was so beautiful to watch, only for it to be stripped away. My heart is breaking with yours!! Praying that you are wrapped with so much love from everyone around you and that God brings you peace in knowing that He’s still faithful and will bring you the babies you’ve always dreamt of!! Also praying for healing of your hearts. We love you Bella and Dallin🤍
Whenever i see your struggle I remind of myself. No matter how many applications i sent, i wasnt called for one interviewsl atleast... its been 18months being jobless. Every time i see ur lil fails/upsets and you getting up again is true feeling of strength
Whatever happened, Lauren doesn’t sound genuinely surprised (though she’s trying, bless her heart). Even if it was wildly premature, that gender reveal looked like a lot of fun - especially the foam party.
It’s one thing to loose a baby you were looking forward to meeting, but another thing to find out the babies you were waiting to meet never even existed💔
I am an identical twin. Tracey and Stacey. My heart breaks for the both of you, your family and friends. I wish there was a way to be your twin... but I know that your little one will be a surprise like no other. You see... one day your baby will come and you will realize why it could not work with anyone else... and that the light shines bright at the end of this deep dark tunnel... so please dont give up ❤❤
Praying PRAYING that the next video ends as happy as the beginning of the video. You guys will be on my mind constantly until video number 2 comes. Whatever happens, you WILL be parents, and God knows exactly your future holds. 🤍 There is a bright light at the end of the tunnel, and I’ll be praying that the next video brings you to that!
You’re PRAYING that a baby is born to a mother who can’t raise it so these people can have a little baby accessory?! That it will experience primal would trauma and be 4x more likely to kill itself? Do you realize what you’re saying???
@@rebekah8979 um NO, I don't think she's praying for that. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE CHILDREN THAT ARE NEEDING ADOPTION and of course its HORRIBLE but its *way* better than being in social care, like fostering for example where the child does not have security and is constantly being moved around and away from people they are just starting to love. Also, this couple are obviously very committed because they have spent 5 years waiting and they will definitely make their child/ children feel wanted and happy. And I don't know the stats but I think that the chance of suicide would be much higher in the case of an abusive mother or one that is able not able to care for their children praperly than in the care of bella and her hubby. Sorry if I'm wrong x
@@rebekah8979 exuse me? What about what YOU’RE saying? Before attacking me, you better check yourself. I’m not praying that babies would be conceived in unplanned or unfortunate circumstances, but in the millions of cases that that does happen, my alternative to praying that those babies get placed in happy, loving homes like the one Dallin and Bella would provide, would never and has never been for them to not be born and have the chance to live their lives! I know many people that were or adopted or have adopted and all of them are happy and living great lives, not sure where you’re getting your facts. Based on your other comments you’ve made, cause UA-cam shows those, you have nothing better to do that attack people who want happiness for Dallin and Bella and a happy, loving home for all the women who are pregnant with babies who need homes. I pray you have a change of heart, cause what a horrible way to view something that is so beautiful!
@@mckennaknapp8040 it is my lived experience so it’s very triggering to see comments that completely disregard the experience of the adoptee and my hope is to change the very misguided and misinformed current narrative on adoption. Adoption is a billion dollar industry with no governing body. Adoption causes trauma. Adoption is not a perfect solution to someone not having the means to parent their child. It is amazing to be willing to open your home to a child that needs one but praying for an adoption to go through isn’t centering the child. It is quite literally betting against them.
@@pianora the stats are not higher. The stats show that adopted people and children and 4x more likely to kill themselves than non adopted people. There will always be children needing safe home, not legal process of adoption. And on the flip side of that, since the adoption industry is big business, where there is a customer (a couple wanting a baby) there will also be a supply (a baby) and adoption agencies are often predatory and coercive towards birth mothers who are often poor and uneducated. Having money and being a good person will not and cannot undo adoption or primal would trauma.
This breaks my heart. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us. I'm praying for you and all of your beautiful children that you WILL one day enjoy ❤❤❤❤
Oh guys, my heart is in my mouth. I really hope you haven’t been lied to. You both deserve the world and your time will come and when it does you will be amazing parents. Surround yourself with your friends and family and we will wait to find out what has happened. Xxxx
@@shelbylitche9698 well of course they’re actually sad about whatever happened. You do realize it can take hours to upload a UA-cam video right? And they deserve time to deal with what’s going on and their emotions regarding it before coming onto the internet and saying things due to your emotions.
I also want to say that before I watched these last 2 videos I had NO IDEA that adoption scams were a thing. It is incomprehensible. Im just at a loss for words. I can't be the only one who was oblivious to this disgusting thing that sick people are doing.
Not trying to sound uncaring but you NEVER just "contact someone "to say, "hey, im pregnant with twins and ive been watching your videos. I want to give you my twins a be on one of your videos making your DREAMS COME TRUE!" 🤦
I don’t even know what the bad news is yet and I already feel sick to my stomach. You guys deserve so much better than all the rough patches you’ve been put through. I truly pray everything works out❤
This is literally devastating i cried my eyes out When I found out that you guys finally got the chance to be a mommy and a daddy! Then to just have it ripped right out from under you is so disgustingly wrong and I am truly from the bottom of my heart sorry and know that one day you will get exactly the baby you deserve and have waited for!
I think reading the comments… even though you guys can share what you want about your lives… this is such a delicate subject that I’m not sure leaving people hanging is a good idea. I hope there’s just been a little speed bump and everything works out. But I do agree that celebrating babies should not happen until they are healthy and home with you.
I manifest y’all get your kids from the right people, at the right time, and healthy baby/babies. I know adoption is expensive but going thru the legal way would make it permanent 💕
I cried throughout the whole video ugh this was such an emotional video. I can’t imagine what you guys are going through. I’ll be praying while I wait for part 2.
I’m so sorry about this but I’m very confused. Your contact with birth mom wasn’t limited to just social media exchanges was it? Did an attorney or adoption agency verify pregnancy and did you all meet in person with her? None of that was clear. Sadly even when all the proper steps are taken birth moms can change their minds. However please don’t use social media conversations as your line to adoption. There are simply too many scammers out there. Even if this doesn’t work out.. there is a baby waiting for you. Please proceed with caution though.
Love you guys but not agreeing with how you are handling this. A lot of your viewers are going through fertility/adoption issues of their own, and are heavily invested in your journey. Leaving people hanging on such an emotional ending could be triggering for many who are going through such agony of their own, be it miscarriage, infertility, failed adoptions etc. I hope you consider them when you are leaving them wait for part 2. Thanks.
I laughed!!!! I cried!!!! And then I prayed!!! I know God has a sovereign plan. Della, your Mom‘s reaction literally made my entire body laugh. She is adorable!!!!
Having twins myself....one of my daughters is still in the hospital 14 months. It is a difficult and complicated pregnancy. It's not all rainbows and butterflies when people think "twins". With pregnancy and a premature birth you have to get to the finish line. It's sooo hard. Don't give up
I’m so sorry for your experience. And you’re absolutely right. People are very naive because they see twins as something “super cute and special” because they will get more attention. It’s very wrong. Twins are individual people with needs and issues and their own personalities just like the rest of us, and they must be treated as more than cute accessories!!
Yes she's doing great she will be home soon but it's been a long and hard Rd. Identical twins are even more at risk for twin to twin transfusion syndrome that can be deadly
I’m so sorry for everything you’re going through. My brother went through a failed adoption and it was awful. But my nephew is turning 3 in august and he is their greatest blessing. What’s meant for you will ALWAYS find you. Prayers for you two. ❤
I've never been this happy for people I don't know and then my heart just broke. I'm so sorry you guys. I hope you get your happy ending as soon as possible❤
So sorry for whatever happened. I had friends that tried to adopt for years and there are so many adoption scammers and loopholes. I know u wanted it to be super quick and easy but just go into it knowing it may not be as easy as u thought. Even if its not a scammer, bio parents can change their minds. Such a hard road, especially when u are looking for a newborn
SO STRANGE that you would literally plan all this crap over a DM from a stranger?? Seriously are you two that naive? DONT celebrate to this extreme until those babies are home with you … not while some stranger promised you babies over Instagram really??? Such a strange reaction to something not set in stone
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Honeys I am so sorry. They didn’t just break your heart, they broke your families and friends hearts, they broke your followers hearts. I can’t wait for your happy ending. You are both so deserving!!
I had to come back to watch part 1 again after seeing part 2. I am so sorry. It's clear you are going to be amazing parents and I have no doubt you will one day look back and see that it was all worthwhile on the end. I hope that that woman gets the help she clearly needs. Hugs to you and all that were impacted.
Always have a licensed adoption agency and adoption lawyers representing both parties from the start. I speak from experience. Know the adoption laws in your state as well as the birth mother’s. It’s an emotional time- don’t get caught up in the dreams. I’m so sorry for your heartbreaking experience.
I know im not anyone important or whatever but Cmon guys that’s not cool, could’ve just done one video. It honestly makes me feel like it’s just for the views. I like y’all and have watched your videos for a long time now. And I don’t want to start feeling like yall are just another family wanting views. Like I don’t even know if I should say congratulations or im sorry for whatever happened. Hope y’all are okay.
Omg Bella I so want to hug you and cry with you from this video. I don't even know what happen will wait for number 2. Love you saying that as a mother that hurts for the children I have lost.
I am amazed your social worker would not discourage you from having a gender reveal before having rights to the child(ren). Adoption can turn at any moment... I hate you guys are dragging out such a tragic thing for views, but 🤷🏼♀️
Sorry this happened to you. But how do you prepare a whole nursery when you have not confirmed the pregnancy? You never went to the hospital with the pregnant woman? I would think before you start preparing a whole nursery and buying stuff, you would at least do your due diligence. Or am I missing something?
Hi I’m adopted. My parents have been the in the same positon as you at least 3 times. Where the mom changed her mind or picked different parents. Then they met my birth mom. My mom has no doubt in her mind that i was meant to be their kid. Don’t give up. The right mom and child will come into your life. You’ll completely understand why everything happened the way it did. Love you guys!!❤
You can just see the happiness and love in their eyes when talking about the twins, knowing they’ll be great parents one day and I’m praying that all goes well in what comes next in this sad ending to things❤ and also Matt not realizing as Abby was pointing it out😂
I just started watching your journey. I think I was searching for anything adoption related and your channel came up. I can’t express how happy, vulnerable, and heartbroken I felt with you both. I was crying the whole time with a different emotion just as you were. I pray that in God’s perfect timing the right birth mother will come to you just as I pray for myself and my husband. Thank you so much for being brave enough to share your journey!
I’m so incredibly sorry that this happened to you guys I will never understand how a person can be so cruel and not think about how painful this is on everyone involved. I’m so incredibly sorry sending you guys so much love ❤️
I’m heartbroken for you guys, it makes me cry thinking about how much you guys have been through and then going through this. I can’t imagine the pain you guys have gone through. You guys are so incredibly strong and I know you guys will get through this. Don’t give up! You’ll find your little Ray of sunshine soon. I love you guys so much! And we’re all here for you! ❤
They are monetizing heavy on this with the cliffhanger and excuse if two videos. I pray to God is a happy ending because using such heartache to get more views just doesn’t sit well with me. There are people genuinely worried for your family. We are all rooting for you 🩷 don’t toy with out feelings please…
Ever since watching this video, you two have been on my mind. Praying for peace and comfort for both of you. I pray that someone comes along with a baby or babies for you to adopt.
I’m sorry but is no one going to comment the fact that we don’t actually know what the bad news is yet? It just seems so weird. We don’t know what’s heartbreaking and shouldn’t assume.
Guys , you cant do that to us. We have been praying , and suffering and rejoicing with you guys. We are too emotionally invested in your journey . Praying you guys are okay 💖💖🙏
Praying that the next video isn’t as bad as I’m imagining it to be. You guys deserve so much to be parents and I can see Bella and Dallin you both with twin girls. I pray that you get your healthy twin girls. ❤❤❤
As soon as she said identical twins i felt bad because i don't think you can tell if they're identical while still in the womb. I hate that someone would do this to someone
I don't follow you guys and didn't know who you were until I watched this video... But I am praying you get the baby/babies you deserve. What happened to you is down right evil. Just have faith that God will bless you with all the things you deserve. ❤️🙏
I was bawling my eyes out, tears of joy. You guys deserve to be parents! Thinking and praying for y’all! God works in ways we don’t understand, he will carry y’all through this Can’t wait for Part 2 ❤️
Hi Dallin and Bella, I am so sorry for whatever bad news you have to share in the next video. I am also sorry that anyone would post an even slightly rude comment in a time like this for you guys. Your pain is valid and your story is yours to share however you choose. Thank you for even sharing your story to make others who may be in the same position not feel alone. Praying for you both as you grieve and ride the wave of emotions for whatever has happened.
I was about to cry watching this but I am so scared what happend . But know matter what happens you have so many people watching that are here for y'all . I hope that nothing to dad happend
Omg I am so sorry. But I do have to say the love you both have is just infectious. You are such an amazing couple. I'm so glad you got your fairytale ending of a baby she's so beautiful. So excited to watch your journey as new parents to your beautiful baby girl. Will you share your journey with her? And the adoption process xx
This is hard to watch. I hope y’all were smart enough to get confirmation before y’all told everyone, started a nursery and had a huge $$$$ gender reveal. I know when you really really want something it’s easy to put blinders on but save yourselves and everyone around you the heartache until you have confirmation that this person is real and actually planning on giving her babies up for adoption and not catfishing you. I saw the red flag from the moment “twin girls” and y’all talked about possibly being able to adopt twins the first adoption video.
Im honestly devastated for you both & your families, as well as all the other families experiencing this horrendous trauma. Its truly beyond words. Im so soooo very sorry. Please STAY STRONG AND HOPEFUL 💖 your rainbow baby is out there!
watch part 2 here! ua-cam.com/video/k92wZJAF-oE/v-deo.html
are you kidding me?! I'm so sorry guys! I just watched part 2 and I cant even wrap my head around it! especially after how excited you were to have twins! It makes me cry! Praying for you and will continue to!
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My heart goes out to you two! I will keep you in my prayers. I pray that God will bless you with babies in the near future!
Our hearts are breaking for you guys. I’m so sorry this happened to you
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you guys are two great ppl you guys are always there for each other. i would he so grateful to have friends like you guys and abby you are a great mom and i cant wait to see your other little baby.
Luv u Matt and Abby ❤❤❤
I am sorry😢
@@cet8123 there friends they would already know “what happened”
Please watch till the end of the video.. no matter what happens we will be ok!
When is the next video
@@r2488 I agree 😢 praying everything is ok
@@r2488 OMG shut up crying. People like you are so unsupportive and make matters worse for UA-camrs.
When is part 2?
Not clickbait. It says bad news at the end. Imagine what they are going through. Have some heart there buddy……
My children are adopted. I went through all of this. As soon as you said twins I knew it was an adoption scammer. They are emotional scammers that get off on it and I’m SO sorry it happened to you guys. Please as soon as you connect with an expectant mother get an agency or attorney involved to get proof of pregnancy.
They get detailed proof of pregnancy with doctors etc. and won’t just accept a picture of a sonogram. Praying for you guys.
Thnx for the information 😮😢
How do they know that the twin are identical already? Isn’t it too soon to tell? I thought you’d have to get them tested once they’re born or a couple years old to tell if they’re actually identical?
@@Maverick-zy7yu No it’s based on if they share a sac which they can tell early on
@@ilovetumblr99 You can't. They need a dna test.
This is so disgusting that anyone could fake a pregnancy. I’m so so sorry you had to go through this. One day you two will make the best parents because you have so much love to give ❤
I LOVE that you have Story now. I’m watching all of these backwards because that’s what brought me here.
This lady has broken so many hearts and you did the right thing to share this to spread awareness, you both are so strong
I'm praying everything is okay. I know adoption is tricky. I pray you weren't lied to or misled. I'm praying for you guys. I want this so badly for you.
😳 😳 The reactions of the parents and family broke my heart. I came from part 2 and oh my goodness. How could someone do that to another human being? I am extremely sorry for your experience
Same. Exactly 💔🙏❤️
Bella’s mom’s reaction literally gave me goosebumps. I can’t wait until you guys are finally able to bring a baby home with you.
There’s no baby
@@Rfllllllllthey’re saying they can’t wait for them to finally (meaning eventually) bring home a baby
@@Rfllllllll she’s saying she can’t wait until they can finally bring home a baby…meaning…she can’t wait for that moment in the future whether that’s tomorrow or 5 years from now.
@@Rfllllllllthey actually adopted the most perfect baby girl.
@@fall.vibezz yep I saw but I was talking about the twins before
As someone who was adopted my heart breaks for you. I know my parents struggled and it's so hard seeing someone go through it. Im sure you'll find the right baby for you. My sister and I were both adopted through wide horizons for children which is a non profit so you only cover legal fees. No matter what happens I know you guys will make it through to the end and eventually when things work out you're gonna be the best parents ever.
Unfortunately this is so common. My sister and brother in law have been on the adoption journey for years and I can’t tell you the amount of times they’ve had this happen. People can be such a disappointment and so cruel and I’m so sorry this happened to you. I really encourage you to refer any potential birth moms to your social worker to have them vetted before getting too emotionally invested. Praying for you guys ❤
Your happiness in this video is so beautiful 😭❤️ What an emotional roller coaster you guys have been on. Anxiously awaiting part 2 and hoping for good news. Sending you so much love!!!
I can tell people didn’t read the full title or watch to the end. I am praying for you guys on this journey. I am so hopeful you weren’t lied to, misled, or taken advantage of. Hopeful you get the happy ending you guys are praying so hard for.
I was thinking the same thing. Should really watch the whole thing before commenting 😢
Yeah what’s happening 😢😢😢
I watched the whole thing, but I don’t know how they ran out of room? They have posted a lot longer videos before. But I understand it’s their journey.🙏
Yeah I watched it, do you know what happened?
@@rcg224 Truth!
I cant believe someone would do this. Bella and Dallin you guys deserve the world, nobody should have to go through this.
Usually a silent follower, and my husband and I are very different from you guys, we don’t even want children. That being said, I truly cannot express how sorry I am that this happened to you guys. I hope you guys get the support you need. Much love, I hope you find the missing piece to your family soon 💙💙
I went through infertility for 3 years. The emotional toll is almost unbearable. I am wishing nothing but the best for you guys. You will make wonderful parents. Have faith.
Please don't wait too long to post part two. But in the meantime, I'll be praying you guys get the comfort you need! ❤️🥺
I can imagine when you want something this much it’s easy to miss the red flags :( I truly hope these identical twin girls really do exist and that they’ll be in your arms some day.
What happened?
The red flags sometimes during pregnancy are hard to miss if the ultrasound doesn’t show something or the pregnancy doesn’t seem right
@@BlueButterfly-kf5or I think the original commenter meant red flags with the birth Mother. As in either it not being real or her changing her mind.
@@leighg7039 yes but also sometimes right before giving birth they might look and see something is off do there best to have the mother give birth the best way possible and then see any possible complications. That was what I was saying.
@@averyr0128 I'm wondering the same thing you are I must have missed something
What a rollercoaster of emotions. In tears watching your joy all the way through to your sadness. Please don’t be discouraged - you will be amazing parents one day. 💗
I watched part 2 first and I have cried the whole 5 minutes in watching this. My heart is breaking watching this. I can not fathom someone doing that to anyone. You guys are in my prayers ❤️
i watched the other vid first too. i bawled for them this whole vid. what a awful thing for someone to do, i cant fathom how they feel. 😢
Please go through an actual adoption agency.. not random people on Instagram.. praying for you guys
The way Lauren reacted at the end has me worried about the news…I’m praying for you both no matter the outcome.
I'm so sorry you guys for whatever happened with this... I know this video was far from easy to make... Thank you for sharing this with us and I am praying for a miracle!
I know that putting out a cliffhanger gets you more views on your next video but I feel that your followers are all hoping and praying for you and waiting for good news. I don't think this is a moment for a cliffhanger because it seems cruel and does not give it the importance it deserves. I pray and hope there is a beautiful outcome for you but please in the future, think of your followers as well because I think there are many who follow you because it gives them hope in their journey as well and this type of cliffhanger may add to their anxiety. Just my thoughts. xoxoxox
My first thought: “why are they doing all this before having the babies??” You guys should talk more to people that went through adoption process. That is not an easy or for sure process. I have friends that spent lots of money with nursery room, with the pregnant mom, fees and other shit and the birth mom changed her mind the days she gave birth.
It is sad to say but clearly you are using this situation for views as well. This video is only 10 minutes so It wouldn’t be long at all even if it was 30 mins or 1hr. Anyways, I hope you guys are doing well.
As someone who worked in this field, I sincerely hope your agency went through the process and helped prepare you for what could happen during this rollercoaster process. I always tried to always being on the side of excitement but also be realistic in what could happen. Wishing you all the best!
I don’t think they went through one
They didn’t go through an agency, which is how this happened unfortunately.
I have no words. I am absolutely heartbroken for you both.
I’ve been following your story as I wasn’t able to have children and felt close to you.
Watching this video I cried all the way through. And to get to the end 💔
I know what a rollercoaster infertility is. Please know how loved you are. Stay strong. Your dream will come true. I know that doesn’t take away the pain you’re feeling.
Sending love and strength from the uk 🇬🇧 ❤
I watched part 2 first and I cried throughout this whole video because the amount of joy you both were basking in was so beautiful to watch, only for it to be stripped away. My heart is breaking with yours!! Praying that you are wrapped with so much love from everyone around you and that God brings you peace in knowing that He’s still faithful and will bring you the babies you’ve always dreamt of!! Also praying for healing of your hearts. We love you Bella and Dallin🤍
Whenever i see your struggle I remind of myself. No matter how many applications i sent, i wasnt called for one interviewsl atleast... its been 18months being jobless. Every time i see ur lil fails/upsets and you getting up again is true feeling of strength
Whatever happened, Lauren doesn’t sound genuinely surprised (though she’s trying, bless her heart). Even if it was wildly premature, that gender reveal looked like a lot of fun - especially the foam party.
It’s one thing to loose a baby you were looking forward to meeting, but another thing to find out the babies you were waiting to meet never even existed💔
I am an identical twin. Tracey and Stacey. My heart breaks for the both of you, your family and friends.
I wish there was a way to be your twin... but I know that your little one will be a surprise like no other.
You see... one day your baby will come and you will realize why it could not work with anyone else... and that the light shines bright at the end of this deep dark tunnel... so please dont give up ❤❤
Praying PRAYING that the next video ends as happy as the beginning of the video. You guys will be on my mind constantly until video number 2 comes. Whatever happens, you WILL be parents, and God knows exactly your future holds. 🤍 There is a bright light at the end of the tunnel, and I’ll be praying that the next video brings you to that!
You’re PRAYING that a baby is born to a mother who can’t raise it so these people can have a little baby accessory?! That it will experience primal would trauma and be 4x more likely to kill itself? Do you realize what you’re saying???
@@rebekah8979 um NO, I don't think she's praying for that. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE CHILDREN THAT ARE NEEDING ADOPTION and of course its HORRIBLE but its *way* better than being in social care, like fostering for example where the child does not have security and is constantly being moved around and away from people they are just starting to love. Also, this couple are obviously very committed because they have spent 5 years waiting and they will definitely make their child/ children feel wanted and happy. And I don't know the stats but I think that the chance of suicide would be much higher in the case of an abusive mother or one that is able not able to care for their children praperly than in the care of bella and her hubby. Sorry if I'm wrong x
@@rebekah8979 exuse me? What about what YOU’RE saying? Before attacking me, you better check yourself. I’m not praying that babies would be conceived in unplanned or unfortunate circumstances, but in the millions of cases that that does happen, my alternative to praying that those babies get placed in happy, loving homes like the one Dallin and Bella would provide, would never and has never been for them to not be born and have the chance to live their lives! I know many people that were or adopted or have adopted and all of them are happy and living great lives, not sure where you’re getting your facts. Based on your other comments you’ve made, cause UA-cam shows those, you have nothing better to do that attack people who want happiness for Dallin and Bella and a happy, loving home for all the women who are pregnant with babies who need homes. I pray you have a change of heart, cause what a horrible way to view something that is so beautiful!
@@mckennaknapp8040 it is my lived experience so it’s very triggering to see comments that completely disregard the experience of the adoptee and my hope is to change the very misguided and misinformed current narrative on adoption. Adoption is a billion dollar industry with no governing body. Adoption causes trauma. Adoption is not a perfect solution to someone not having the means to parent their child. It is amazing to be willing to open your home to a child that needs one but praying for an adoption to go through isn’t centering the child. It is quite literally betting against them.
@@pianora the stats are not higher. The stats show that adopted people and children and 4x more likely to kill themselves than non adopted people. There will always be children needing safe home, not legal process of adoption. And on the flip side of that, since the adoption industry is big business, where there is a customer (a couple wanting a baby) there will also be a supply (a baby) and adoption agencies are often predatory and coercive towards birth mothers who are often poor and uneducated. Having money and being a good person will not and cannot undo adoption or primal would trauma.
This breaks my heart. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us. I'm praying for you and all of your beautiful children that you WILL one day enjoy ❤❤❤❤
I had a feeling when I saw the ultrasound it was fake. It just looks so different and off to me! Praying for you guys during this hard time!
Oh guys, my heart is in my mouth. I really hope you haven’t been lied to. You both deserve the world and your time will come and when it does you will be amazing parents. Surround yourself with your friends and family and we will wait to find out what has happened. Xxxx
Yeha but you can easily find them online if you just google
@@yesie8375 have you not heard of adoption scammers?
My heart is with you guys right now. I hope and pray you guys weren’t lied to or misled.. anxiously waiting for part 2!
Please don’t leave us on this cliffhanger for too long. There are a lot of people really invested in your journey and they want to know you’re ok
Click bait too “watch till the end” 🙃
Are they actually sad and grieving or are they gearing up for more views? So sad that people do that
@@shelbylitche9698 well of course they’re actually sad about whatever happened. You do realize it can take hours to upload a UA-cam video right? And they deserve time to deal with what’s going on and their emotions regarding it before coming onto the internet and saying things due to your emotions.
I can’t believe they didn’t just put it all in one video? It’s only 10 minutes long cmon now…
Yes I have been following their journey for a little while as I’m trying for a baby this year too 🤞🏻🤞🏻
I also want to say that before I watched these last 2 videos I had NO IDEA that adoption scams were a thing. It is incomprehensible. Im just at a loss for words. I can't be the only one who was oblivious to this disgusting thing that sick people are doing.
Not trying to sound uncaring but you NEVER just "contact someone "to say, "hey, im pregnant with twins and ive been watching your videos. I want to give you my twins a be on one of your videos making your DREAMS COME TRUE!"
🤦
Yep, if it's too good to be true, it is.
@@valeriejkelly absolutely!!
I don’t even know what the bad news is yet and I already feel sick to my stomach. You guys deserve so much better than all the rough patches you’ve been put through. I truly pray everything works out❤
My daughter went through this and I am so sorry for your pain. Prayers and love, God will bless you, don’t give up❤🙏🏻❤️
This is literally devastating i cried my eyes out When I found out that you guys finally got the chance to be a mommy and a daddy! Then to just have it ripped right out from under you is so disgustingly wrong and I am truly from the bottom of my heart sorry and know that one day you will get exactly the baby you deserve and have waited for!
I think reading the comments… even though you guys can share what you want about your lives… this is such a delicate subject that I’m not sure leaving people hanging is a good idea. I hope there’s just been a little speed bump and everything works out. But I do agree that celebrating babies should not happen until they are healthy and home with you.
I manifest y’all get your kids from the right people, at the right time, and healthy baby/babies. I know adoption is expensive but going thru the legal way would make it permanent 💕
You guys can just take as much time as you need❤️We'll all be here whenever❤️🫶
I cried throughout the whole video ugh this was such an emotional video. I can’t imagine what you guys are going through. I’ll be praying while I wait for part 2.
I’m so sorry about this but I’m very confused. Your contact with birth mom wasn’t limited to just social media exchanges was it? Did an attorney or adoption agency verify pregnancy and did you all meet in person with her? None of that was clear. Sadly even when all the proper steps are taken birth moms can change their minds. However please don’t use social media conversations as your line to adoption. There are simply too many scammers out there. Even if this doesn’t work out.. there is a baby waiting for you. Please proceed with caution though.
Love you guys but not agreeing with how you are handling this. A lot of your viewers are going through fertility/adoption issues of their own, and are heavily invested in your journey. Leaving people hanging on such an emotional ending could be triggering for many who are going through such agony of their own, be it miscarriage, infertility, failed adoptions etc. I hope you consider them when you are leaving them wait for part 2. Thanks.
I laughed!!!! I cried!!!! And then I prayed!!! I know God has a sovereign plan.
Della, your Mom‘s reaction literally made my entire body laugh. She is adorable!!!!
Don’t get excited until your lawyer, case worker, and documents are signed!!!
i’m sure this would have been helpful information 2 months ago, but i’m sure they’ve found alternatives to certify the woman is pregnant.
Having twins myself....one of my daughters is still in the hospital 14 months. It is a difficult and complicated pregnancy. It's not all rainbows and butterflies when people think "twins". With pregnancy and a premature birth you have to get to the finish line. It's sooo hard. Don't give up
I’m so sorry to hear about your daughter. Hope she recovers, and stay positive. Sending love from the uk x
As a twin, can confirm. Spent the first 3 months of my life in a incubator.
I’m so sorry for your experience. And you’re absolutely right. People are very naive because they see twins as something “super cute and special” because they will get more attention. It’s very wrong. Twins are individual people with needs and issues and their own personalities just like the rest of us, and they must be treated as more than cute accessories!!
Yes she's doing great she will be home soon but it's been a long and hard Rd. Identical twins are even more at risk for twin to twin transfusion syndrome that can be deadly
so so sorry to hear this. sending your family so many prayers and so much love🙏🏻💗💗🫶🏻
I’m so sorry for everything you’re going through. My brother went through a failed adoption and it was awful. But my nephew is turning 3 in august and he is their greatest blessing. What’s meant for you will ALWAYS find you. Prayers for you two. ❤
I've never been this happy for people I don't know and then my heart just broke. I'm so sorry you guys. I hope you get your happy ending as soon as possible❤
I don't understand.. why would you host a party and celebrate so much when the adoption isn't legally sanctioned and approved? It doesn't make sense..
I am so glad you finally have gotten your happily ever after, this was so emotional to follow, what a roller-coaster and what a blessing in the end!
So sorry for whatever happened. I had friends that tried to adopt for years and there are so many adoption scammers and loopholes. I know u wanted it to be super quick and easy but just go into it knowing it may not be as easy as u thought. Even if its not a scammer, bio parents can change their minds. Such a hard road, especially when u are looking for a newborn
I’m so sorry. Seeing you experiencing absolute bliss was so beautiful. Disrupted adoptions are unfortunately so common.
SO STRANGE that you would literally plan all this crap over a DM from a stranger?? Seriously are you two that naive? DONT celebrate to this extreme until those babies are home with you … not while some stranger promised you babies over Instagram really??? Such a strange reaction to something not set in stone
Like did they ever talk to this person over the phone or IRL…it’s beyond naive to believe random text messages and dms
I loved Matt’s little dance walk thing when he realized it was twins😂
Beep bop... I'm the Philosophy Bot. Here, have a quote:
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration"
~ Frank Herbert
YALL DESERVE TO BE PARENTS DALLIN AND BELLA ❤
And if this woman is actually pregnant, she deserves to parent her child and has that right as well. If she actually is pregnant
End* not when
@@miria0508 It's her own choice to put up the child for adoption though...?
@@miria0508 no one ever said she couldnt
Honeys I am so sorry. They didn’t just break your heart, they broke your families and friends hearts, they broke your followers hearts. I can’t wait for your happy ending. You are both so deserving!!
I had to come back to watch part 1 again after seeing part 2. I am so sorry. It's clear you are going to be amazing parents and I have no doubt you will one day look back and see that it was all worthwhile on the end. I hope that that woman gets the help she clearly needs. Hugs to you and all that were impacted.
Always have a licensed adoption agency and adoption lawyers representing both parties from the start. I speak from experience. Know the adoption laws in your state as well as the birth mother’s. It’s an emotional time- don’t get caught up in the dreams. I’m so sorry for your heartbreaking experience.
I really hope everything is okay… praying for y’all! I’ll be waiting for part 2!
I know im not anyone important or whatever but Cmon guys that’s not cool, could’ve just done one video. It honestly makes me feel like it’s just for the views. I like y’all and have watched your videos for a long time now. And I don’t want to start feeling like yall are just another family wanting views. Like I don’t even know if I should say congratulations or im sorry for whatever happened. Hope y’all are okay.
They say to not celebrate before it happens, yet, sometimes better celebrations are ahead, so, head held hight, never lose faith.
Omg Bella I so want to hug you and cry with you from this video. I don't even know what happen will wait for number 2. Love you saying that as a mother that hurts for the children I have lost.
I am amazed your social worker would not discourage you from having a gender reveal before having rights to the child(ren). Adoption can turn at any moment... I hate you guys are dragging out such a tragic thing for views, but 🤷🏼♀️
I NEED A PART TWO!!!!!! I dont exactly know what happened or idk but what ever it is it will get better and you two will be AMAZING parents!
Sorry this happened to you. But how do you prepare a whole nursery when you have not confirmed the pregnancy? You never went to the hospital with the pregnant woman? I would think before you start preparing a whole nursery and buying stuff, you would at least do your due diligence. Or am I missing something?
I mean, they had a video to post
"Subscribe for part 2" in the bio, doesn't sit quite right
Hi I’m adopted. My parents have been the in the same positon as you at least 3 times. Where the mom changed her mind or picked different parents. Then they met my birth mom. My mom has no doubt in her mind that i was meant to be their kid. Don’t give up. The right mom and child will come into your life. You’ll completely understand why everything happened the way it did. Love you guys!!❤
This is so heartbreaking. So so sorry for these lovely people. They will be amazing parents.
You can just see the happiness and love in their eyes when talking about the twins, knowing they’ll be great parents one day and I’m praying that all goes well in what comes next in this sad ending to things❤ and also Matt not realizing as Abby was pointing it out😂
U obviously didn't watch the whole video
Yeah tht was funny
You definitely didn’t watch the whole video, so please do! It’s sad, not happy at the end
I just started watching your journey. I think I was searching for anything adoption related and your channel came up. I can’t express how happy, vulnerable, and heartbroken I felt with you both. I was crying the whole time with a different emotion just as you were. I pray that in God’s perfect timing the right birth mother will come to you just as I pray for myself and my husband. Thank you so much for being brave enough to share your journey!
This means so much to us. Thank you.
@@DELLAVLOGS really shouldn’t keep ppl in suspense like this
@@DELLAVLOGS Can you please upload the part 2 soon?🥺🥺
I’m so incredibly sorry that this happened to you guys I will never understand how a person can be so cruel and not think about how painful this is on everyone involved. I’m so incredibly sorry sending you guys so much love ❤️
I’m heartbroken for you guys, it makes me cry thinking about how much you guys have been through and then going through this. I can’t imagine the pain you guys have gone through. You guys are so incredibly strong and I know you guys will get through this. Don’t give up! You’ll find your little Ray of sunshine soon. I love you guys so much! And we’re all here for you! ❤
I'm so sorry you guys had to go through this. We are here for you. ❤ your son or daughter is still waiting for you guys to be her amazing parents.
They are monetizing heavy on this with the cliffhanger and excuse if two videos. I pray to God is a happy ending because using such heartache to get more views just doesn’t sit well with me. There are people genuinely worried for your family.
We are all rooting for you 🩷 don’t toy with out feelings please…
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Agree!!
I literally cried almost the whole video and I hope it works out you guys will be amazing parents
Ever since watching this video, you two have been on my mind. Praying for peace and comfort for both of you. I pray that someone comes along with a baby or babies for you to adopt.
I’m sorry but is no one going to comment the fact that we don’t actually know what the bad news is yet? It just seems so weird. We don’t know what’s heartbreaking and shouldn’t assume.
They're uploading the second part in 45 minutes
Guys , you cant do that to us. We have been praying , and suffering and rejoicing with you guys. We are too emotionally invested in your journey . Praying you guys are okay 💖💖🙏
Praying that the next video isn’t as bad as I’m imagining it to be. You guys deserve so much to be parents and I can see Bella and Dallin you both with twin girls. I pray that you get your healthy twin girls. ❤❤❤
Oiiii oiii vas happenin
@@a_a28132 not the place for these jokes
As soon as she said identical twins i felt bad because i don't think you can tell if they're identical while still in the womb. I hate that someone would do this to someone
Usually you can. Identical twins most of the time share a placenta and a sac where fraternal twins don't share either, just the same womb.
These videos just show how happy you both will be for when your baby of joy comes!!! Keep on hope and faith!!!
I don't follow you guys and didn't know who you were until I watched this video... But I am praying you get the baby/babies you deserve. What happened to you is down right evil. Just have faith that God will bless you with all the things you deserve. ❤️🙏
This video gave me chills. I laughed and cried through it. Hopefully the bad news is just a bump in the road. I’m praying for you guys!!
I don’t know how adoption works but do most birth moms reach out directly? Don’t they need to be matched through an agency?
I was bawling my eyes out, tears of joy. You guys deserve to be parents! Thinking and praying for y’all! God works in ways we don’t understand, he will carry y’all through this Can’t wait for Part 2 ❤️
I thought it was strange that it was someone texting you through their number most people go through adoption agencies…
Yea I found that a little weird but in some cases that can happen. I just felt incredibly sad watching this😞
You guys are going to make the best parents one day 😢
Watching this again after seeing part 2 breaks me.... sending my best wishes to both of you xx I'm so sorry this happened
Hi Dallin and Bella, I am so sorry for whatever bad news you have to share in the next video. I am also sorry that anyone would post an even slightly rude comment in a time like this for you guys. Your pain is valid and your story is yours to share however you choose. Thank you for even sharing your story to make others who may be in the same position not feel alone. Praying for you both as you grieve and ride the wave of emotions for whatever has happened.
So true ❤
It’s so cute how everyone react to them have a kid it’s great
Finish the video 😢
I was about to cry watching this but I am so scared what happend . But know matter what happens you have so many people watching that are here for y'all . I hope that nothing to dad happend
Omg I am so sorry. But I do have to say the love you both have is just infectious. You are such an amazing couple. I'm so glad you got your fairytale ending of a baby she's so beautiful. So excited to watch your journey as new parents to your beautiful baby girl. Will you share your journey with her? And the adoption process xx
This is hard to watch. I hope y’all were smart enough to get confirmation before y’all told everyone, started a nursery and had a huge $$$$ gender reveal. I know when you really really want something it’s easy to put blinders on but save yourselves and everyone around you the heartache until you have confirmation that this person is real and actually planning on giving her babies up for adoption and not catfishing you. I saw the red flag from the moment “twin girls” and y’all talked about possibly being able to adopt twins the first adoption video.
Im honestly devastated for you both & your families, as well as all the other families experiencing this horrendous trauma. Its truly beyond words. Im so soooo very sorry. Please STAY STRONG AND HOPEFUL 💖 your rainbow baby is out there!