My 35 year marriage came to an end when someone FINALLY told me some things. He had been cheating for over 14 years and spent a ridiculous amount of money in support or paying off blackmailers. After I learned everything, people came out of the woodwork to tell me what they had known for 17 years. A friend wouldn’t keep this kind of information from me. Not only did I lose a cheating husband, I lost “friends” that allowed him to make a fool of me. Good riddance to a lot of scummy people.
I think the most gut-wrenching part about “friends” not telling you something like that is that they basically chose their side by not doing anything. That’s so messed up!
My father tasked my older brother, when we were teens, to clean the storage in the laundry room. My brother cleaned it alright. He went through everything and found an explicit birthday card for my father from his mistress. So my brother cleaned the storage and the house of the garbage. He told our mum as soon as she got home from work. Our mum is happier without him.
It might have been a subconscious reaction out of disgust. I can see accidently swatting something away if it really gut punched me. But I agree it’s not a good response no matter why it happened.
I agree. It was immature and stupid to blame the girlfriend. Unfortunately, too many women and men blame the wrong person when the blame should be placed solely on the cheater (obviously this is only when the person didn't know the cheater was in a relationship). I don't see how anyone could subconsciously hit a phone out of someone's hand. Lol. She meant that. Her anger was like fireballs, hitting anyone in sight mario style.
If the "other" girl doesn't know about the wife or gf its not her fault. Women misplace the anger they need to be mad at the husband but want to beat up a girl that didn't know they existed.
Please tell your friends and neighbours if you know. My husband cheated on me for over a year and I had no clue. I am not blind but he was very loving and our relationship seemed very good. My job moved 4 hours away so I had an apartment weekdays. I unexpectedly came home during the week to find them in our bed. My "friends" and neighbours would not look me in the eye because they knew. On top of being devastated from the betrayal, I felt shamed because of their reaction. It took years of therapy to get over the hurt and shame. When I think about this 20 years later I can still picture their eyes slide to the side and down. It was a horrible feeling. I do not have any contact with any of them to this day.
I had a friend all through school and into our twenties. I caught her boyfriend of five years with another girl. They were like six feet in front of me, kissing and . . . stuff 😳 I immediately went to tell her. She was angry . . . at me! She said she "didnt want to know about it". Years of friendship ended, because i told her something she didnt want to hear. BE PREPARED to be SHOT AS THE MESSENGER!
Some people prefer to live in ignorance. They develop a way of not seeing whats in front of them. It’s very delusional. When they’re confronted with the truth, they take it out on that person for ‘ruining’ the relationship bc that’s how they view it. Ignorance is bliss for a reason. You did the right thing regardless.
@garbeaux9787 You worded that perfectly, much better than i could! And you are right, ignorance is bliss was the way she wanted to live. I have to be honest though, i think it's made me afraid to tell now 😔
Must be the initial shock. They don't know where to turn, so their brain short-circuits and they become very stupid for a while, and then their pride doesn't let them apologize for their stupidity. But it's worth it. It's better to get hurt sooner than to find out much later. You'll keep your clear conscious.
Oh god I’ve been dying to tell this story so here it goes. I work in a pub/restaurant as a waitress I was serving a couple in the main bar one Saturday night, they paid cash not a big deal its common, I remember them specifically because I liked the womans tattoo and red hair and I told her as such. The next day Sunday I serve the man in the function room a Sunday roast but a blonde woman was with him and both were wearing wedding rings. The red headed woman came back the next day with her friends as they liked our staff and who does she see. Said cheating scumbag. The wife is furious, the mistress is screaming and backing the wife, the man almost becomes violent so was thrown out. The women then proceeded to get drunk together plotting there revenge with our help and advice mostly from this channel. Drinks were on the house
What pleases me the most about this story is the victims in this situation didn’t turn on each other. They worked together to deal with the cheater who caused all of this.
lol I love that they teamed up instead of going after each other! If neither knew, then it’s not their fault. Side note- I’m petty af. When my ex cheated on me, I made it my personal mission to sleep with every single one of his ex girlfriends. Even the ones he cheated on me with except for one. Lmfao he still holds a grudge against me to this day when I’m the one who should be rightfully holding one. I’m not though. I did what I needed to and moved on happily knowing that this would haunt him the rest of his life 😂
People always seem to forget the horrific fact that when a partner cheats they are potentially exposing their other half to STIs. This is not something that should be ignored. Where I live that is considered sexual battery and the victim absolutely has a right to know!
My husband's good friend is a pilot. We live in the city where the airline is based while the friend lives in another state. The friend stays with us when he is in town instead of staying in a hotel, even if my husband is out of town. One time in the beginning of this arrangement, my husband had to work out of the country for a month. That same month pilot friend messed up his schedule and was staying at our house weeks at a time. We all three had a great laugh about what my neighbors must be thinking. It seemed every time my husband went out of town his friend would end up staying at our house. It just seemed to make it worse that he always showed up in his pilot uniform!
If I was your neighbor, I would've authored a telenovela in my mind staring the three of you. I've already named the pilot Antonio and your husband is Fernando. 😂😂😂
If I'd heard the neighbor yelling through the wall, "The neighbors made me do it! It's their fault!" I would have absolutely yelled back, "No, we didn't!" I mean, if someone is going to drag you into their mess, might as well defend your honor, right?
honestly the story could've been wholesome, like neighbors encouraging each other as they do it, but nah, the girl had to cheat because she got horny hearing OTHER people have sex
Tilly was looking for any excuse to try and justify her disgusting behaviour. It is always the partner or other peoples' fault in the cheaters eyes to try and get away with what they are doing. When they are caught in the act it is always "what are you doing here?" never taking accountability.
um even nastier? the slam that happened even when Buzz wasnt there,,,,, was her Magic Wand. she was getting 0ff to THEM! she fetishized her neighbors' Love life AND was cheating and proceeded to blame them. absolutely vile. vouyeur's version of "they were asking for it". barf.
My hubby & I were really good friends with another couple. This couple who had been married for a long time (over 20 years) also had next door neighbours, who they were good friends with. Then tragically the husband of the neighbour couple passed away in a car accident. The wife and kids were of course wrecked by this, then the husband of our couple friends, started helping out the now widow wife and kids. This went on for over a year. The wife (of our couple friends) was being more and more ignored. Until the day came when, they broke up because the husband was now seeing the neighbour! The husband MOVED INTO THE HOUSE RIGHT NEXT DOOR! They stayed that way until they sold their house and the wife moved away. So, while it’s hard to believe something like would happen, apparently it happens in a lot more cases then people might think.
Yeah Ive read enough books and watched enough movies to know that you NEVER should be okay with your spouse becoming someone elses surrogate spouse unless you want your relationship to end.
My dad cheated with our neighbor, our backyard’s literally touched. It was soooo embarrassing. The entire neighborhood knew. I was in high school at the time. I found out on Valentine’s Day when I was 16. It was less than awesome. My relationship with my father has never recovered and I just turned 37….
Our old neighbors would have screaming fights in the street on a semi-regular basis. My husband finally got fed up with it cause he goes to work super early and they'd usually start fighting at midnight or later, one night he threw open the door and yelled at them to calm their shit down cause the whole neighborhood could hear them. This apparently pissed the wife off cause after that she made it her mission to be a total bitch. I guess she was starved for drama and desperate to prove that she wasn't the only one in a miserable marriage, she was, cause she came to him with "proof" I was cheating. Her "proof" was pictures of me leaving at midnight and coming back at 1 or 2am with several bags. She was so confused when my husband laughed in her face cause she literally just got pictures of my insomniac ass going grocery shopping. This was pre-covid and most of the stores were open 24 hours at the time. I hate HATE crowds so I would always do my grocery shopping in the middle of the night, especially in the summer when it's stupid hot. My husband was well aware of my shopping preferences and his only request was that I keep pepper spray on me when I went out that late. We thankfully moved not long after that and never had to deal with their annoying asses again.
This video couldn't have come at a better time - I tend to watch videos when I've got a headache as distraction and auntie Charlotte is exceptionally good at that!
I know, but it's a weather headache that I won't get rid of until the storm hits regardless so I might as well be entertained while suffering lol@@sh.4409
The girl sitting in her car waiting for her daughter to wake up made me wonder. My best friend is a guy and comes over while my husband is at work sometimes. I wonder if any of my neighbors think I’m cheating on my husband 🤣 I’m all for catching a cheaters but just assuming they’re cheating because they have company while their spouse is gone is a stretch.
The guy literally could be gay too. Could be a hair stylist friend or brother or cousin. There's a lot of possibilities as well as also just a family bestie or he's wanting her opinion on something for a date he's got ext. and they just made tea to gossip. But also we dunno their lifestyle either. Poly and open is a thing, too. Hubby could be very aware and not mind it. Like I'd say AT NIGHT when you know a husbands away, yes okay get sus but maybe no gun jumping. But during the day unless you explicitly see them kissing, naw fam. Small town rumours are the worst.
For real… sticking her nose in other peoples business when she doesn’t know what the hell is actually going on with her neighbors… creating rumors. Mind your own business lady.
I have a couple male friends who come over sometimes when my husband isn't home. Just friends. If that woman was videoing from a driveway next door to me and posted it my husband and I would have a few things to say.
So this happened about a week ago in the kitchen at work - one of our newer chefs (calling him Lee for here) accidentally lets slip that he won a fairly large sum of money in the company sweepstakes, and looked immediately embarrassed about it when it proceeded to spread around the kitchen like wildfire. The chefs start their usual horseplay and start bugging the guy about when he planned to share his good fortune with the rest of them, and he tells them no, he's saving it for his future which might include a partner someday. One chef then tastelessly jokes that he'd gladly bend over and give up his ass and be the "good wife" if that meant he'd get a piece of that money. I immediately see a flash of irritation and anger in Lee's eyes - none of us had ever expressed any issues with him being gay, so I wondered if this might have crossed a line. Then I understand when he fires back, "You? Not even if you were the last guy on earth and looked like [insert celebrity name here]." Chef doubles down on his joke and asks why he can't get a chance, and Lee tells him, "Seriously? Dude you're married. That shit ain't even funny anymore." No one's talked about it since. More likely because jokes are jokes and at day's end we're all just a bunch of guys who know when to quit. But I also know now that while Lee is currently single, he definitely hates cheaters of all stripes and if anyone ever needed a big brother to count on he's gonna be there.
A woman at work lost her husband to alcoholism. He worked there too. We all knew he drank a lot, but the wife said she didn't know and wished someone would have told her. I don't know how she couldn't have known, he always smelled of alcohol. But denial runs deep. Same with cheaters I guess.
Some people just don't pick up on stuff they know nothing about. She may be smell impaired. Or associated it with cologne, cuz she didn't drink. I mean, you probably know more, but still, some poeple really don't get cues "normal" people pick up right away.
As someone who doesn't drink, that might be one possible reason. Maybe she doesn't recognize the smell. I know I couldn't point alcohol smells out, if asked. Edit: I do agree it's better to bring things up, though.
Charlotte Dobre "if you catch someone cheating...like caught red-handed, do not mind your business." Amen! I have told all my friends whether they or their partners like it or not, if any of them or their significant other cheats, I am telling. Not sorry! I would want someone to do the same for me.
Do you tell….? Well, it does backfire sometimes. I was the one who was naughty with a friend’s fiancé many years ago at a party . We were all having loads of fun and he got very friendly with me. He is good looking , I could not resist. You can imagine the rest. Anyways, I told our group of friends the next morning what had happened and her friend just had to tell her what had happened. I got excommunicated…. They still got married . Never seen the friends again. That was 2007.
@@monk3yboy69 You deserved that and more. I hope you get more karma your way. Sad that the ex friend is still with that worthless piece of garbage. You knew what you did was wrong and now want to play victim.
@@monk3yboy69 Were you expecting her to be like "Oh thanks for telling me, we can still be friends?" You CHOSE to be a homewrecker to your friend and he CHOSE to cheat on his fiance. You could resist you just didnt want to because you are selfish and dont care about others. They did the right thing excommunicating you because YOU are a problem. Doesnt mean the Fiance isnt also a problem but you are certainly not a friend and anyone with a brain would avoid you like the plague. Sucks she still married him because he is trash.
I’ve always exposed cheaters. Always. I’ve lost so many friends because of it. But the ones who appreciated it and everything stayed. And for that I’m grateful. Because they are amazing friends to me.
If my bf cheated I'd like someone to tell me. I have a close friend whos bf has been cheating on her for more than a year and all his friends knew. She was so grateful when one of his friends told her finally (but still way too late) and broke up with him instantly.
as someone who was cheated on, friends and family knew about it but no one told me: if you know someone is cheating or you have valid suspicions that they are cheating, tell their partner. please, tell them. wouldn't you want someone to do that for you, if they found out your partner is cheating on you? you would want to know, right? so tell them.
Finally something I can contribute to! So I was once the other woman and I found out in an underhanded way because the guy told me he was single. I believed him, we had fun in the park and then I thought I’d never see him again. And then I met him with friends of mine and he introduced himself as this woman’s fiancé. My jaw dropped. I immediately schooled my expression and then eventually I ended up turning it over on him when I left the area and told her everything. She wasn’t happy but she understood. Then I found out that she ran off with his best friend who treated her better. Fun fact; he also got himself snipped when she got pregnant with his last attempt at a kid and then he put her through so much stress she miscarried and now he could never have kids. Sad but also, karma.
So I have a story of my own. So my husband cheated on me when we were newly married his his best friends gf (this b was fully btw) while he was in the marine Corp. So how I found this out. Well he called and told me crying of what he just did. I cried and was very hurt. I still ended up marrying him and not being able to let go of the whole oral deal. I cheated on him back with his best friend. While he was away. (This was during the time I was preg with our kid) When he came back home. I told him how I cheated on him back. He was upset but he calmed down because he really couldn't get mad considering he had done it to me first. Ever since then we have hid nothing from one another and he nor I have cheated on each other since. We have been married for 10 years now our kid now 8 years old. We have known one another though for 15 years. Yes we could have done the immature way and leave one another. (That's how I see it anyway) yet we worked and talked it put and we honest with one another. Instead of up and quitting.
@@animfangirlkag22I'm glad your marriage is good now...but there is no excuse for cheating. It's the fact you cheated on him as well that bothers me. I believe in second chances, but only second, no more. But was it really necessary? Cheating on him too?
Had a girl accuse me of cheating once because her friend saw me with a girl and two kids.....um...yea turns out she saw me with my sister and my niece and nephew. Since we had only been dating a month, I hadn't met this friend yet and she hadn't met my family yet. Was incredibly awkward, and obviously things didn't work out.
Same shizz here man ex gf has a nosy friend who also happens to work with me in the same company tought she cought me cheating with multiple women 1 one was cousin who came to my workplace to get the keys of my place,2 lunch with a niece where she asked me to borrow a bike,3 drunk sleepover at sisters place ,4 2nd sister and kids came for summer vacation and stayed at my place,5 helping injured neighbor after her car crash with terapy coz im licensed therapist She compiled all the "evidence" of me beeing some womanizer and showed it to my ex who asked me and i told her they are family members except the last one im her therapist she had car crash so im helping out Welp relationship lasted for about 7 chaotic months before kinda violent end where she stabbed me, panicked and ran,only calling about 3 days later to apologize and sent me gift basket and 1000 euros to not report her. Weirdly she came back 2 years ago after not seeing eachother for a decade to hide at my place coz her family and friends found out she is loaded and never told them anything and im only one who didnt care about her money. So yeah we are friends now....i guess
the driveway parking neighbor gave me uncomfortable vibes of my '60's childhood and how mom's were nosy and gossiping about every little thing the neighbors were doing - and judging them. however, she redeemed herself to me when she said "and I'm bored" self-awareness is important, plus we do all manner of things when we're bored and don't want to wake the children.
Thank you because she literally mentioned how she had seen the car at barbecues. And all the stuff I've seen this car multiple times but didn't know who drove it and I'm like, could it be somebody sibling?
Yeah, me too. I kept thinking: what if it's her brother who's helping her being sneaky to prepare a divorce against his cheating or abusive husband? As Charlotte said before: only be nosy if you are 150% sure!
Just because a male family friend shows up when her husband isn’t there it doesn’t mean she’s cheating. Maybe he’s a relative or maybe he’s there for professional reasons. My friend’s husband has come to my house to help me with getting ready to list my house for sale. I sure as heck wasn’t messing around with him. That’s ridiculous.
Ummm, so we moved into a new house. We had been there about a year. A neighbor told my husband about this tall young man that was visiting our house while my husband was away. He asked for description of this tall much younger man. When she was done, he looked at her and said, “Interesting,,,,,sounds just like her 16 year old SON.” 😂
I exposed a cheater once. I was friends - not very good ones, rather just collegues - with this one girl. She had a husband. One day I was messeging with my other collegue, male, and he said that he's dating this girl. I was like "bro, but she has a husband???". He told me that she claimed they are divorced ... but they obviously weren't. He was crushed and decided to message the husband and told him everything. To out surprise the husband... didn't do anything about it! And about a year later he and the cheater wife had a baby! D:
Yeah the one with the girl sitting in her car had me thinking I have my brother, and my husbands friends come over occasionally, and sometimes they’ll get here before my husband, sometimes my husband will even be like “oh friend is coming over, I’m on the way home and they’ll get there before me” and then I get mad cause I gotta entertain the fuckers and talk to them until he gets home.
That woman should have her own show!!!, I was dying! lol...hey I don't get it when women fight over a man...why can't they just team up and beat crap out of him???, they've both been played and he clearly isn't worth a shit!, take him to court, make sure he pays for the fruit of his Loins and kick him to the Kerb!
Last year my husband and I went to a birthday party for his partner, I went to use the restroom and the partners wife was in the bathroom sauna with this really young employee of my husband’s company. I locked eyes with her and then I left. That night I told my husband what I witnessed. My husband told his partner what I saw and 3 months later they got a divorce. The employee was fired. To this day she absolutely hates me. I don’t care.
Mind your own business is how I feel about all this . It never goes well when you say anything. You’re the villain in the end. Best avoid the situation and those people.
@@monk3yboy69 Never hide the fact that someone is cheating, if someone finds out YOU are going to be just as hated as the one who did the cheating because YOU decided to avoid the situation. I was cheated on for three months and when my friend found out he told me. We were together nearly eight years and my friend is an absolute ANGEL for not letting me put a ring on her finger like I had planned. Nothing good comes from protecting a cheater.
@@Sorchia56dude, if it wasn't for OP, the guy would of been in the dark and the ex would of gotten away with it for way longer. The fall out would of been way messier had OP not stepped in. OP literally caught a cheater, told the cheated on about it, and the cheater got what was coming.
My old neighbor caught her partner cheating on her, and she asked all the neighbors with dogs to get some poop to throw at his car. All of us were more than happy to comply.
Wait so she smacks the phone out of the hand of the woman who was giving her the answers she asked for? Then don’t ask questions you can’t handle the answers to.
I can say from experience in a past relationship that finding out that everyone knew and no one bothered telling you or didn't care enough to do so makes it so much worse.
As a wife who was cheated on...we want to know. We may not be happy with you as the messenger; we may be in denial...but we want to know. If there is an open relationship, it's doubtful there will be any kind of negative confrontation. If there isn't, why should the betrayed spouse live in ignorance and risk venereal diseases or worse? Tell them.
Miss Charlotte: It’s your moral obligation to tell someone they are being cheated on! Me: Yes! Yes it is; only surpassed by the d-bag’s moral obligation not to cheat!
LOL this reminds me of when I moved in with my husband, we had a really cute old couple as our neighbors. The man was losing his marbles a bit but overall he was generally nice. He met me when I had box dyed blonde hair and then a few months later I dyed it back to brunette. He couldn't remember my face but he went to me and was like... "you know the man living here already has another lady" and I was at first thinking he was joking so I responded, "Oh yeah, I know I'm the side chick." Well he took me seriously and told his wife who told me what happened and we had a fun laugh. Lmao
Dirk and Tilly reminds me of a situation when I was staying at the Visiting Airmen's Quarters at a stateside base. I had an early class start time the next morning, and the couple in the next room had started to have their super happy fun time very loudly at about 10 PM. Traditionally, VAQ walls are very thin. I could hear everything they talked about from the moment they walked in. judging by the conversation, they were married, just not to each other. After it seemed like they were not going to stop until day break , I decided I'd had enough and took stock of my available resources. I knew their first names (because they'd been moaning them to each other for 90 minutes)- let's call them Chad and Mary, I knew Mary's husband's name (Bob), I knew the room number, and I had a phone. Plus, the VAQ had direct room to room dialing! So, I called the room. When Chad picked up, I said "This is Bob" and calmly asked if Mary was there. Then I hung up the phone. The next thing I heard was a quick argument, people getting dressed and then leaving - Mission Accomplished.
I caught my BF's boyfriend cheating with a mutual friend of ours, 6 years ago. The girl told me how she was together with the guy and acted like it was normal. I did not hold back and told my BF at the same time. I was the one that was almost kicked out of the friendgroup, because I "caused" drama lol. My BF and the guy are no longer speaking today. Mutual friend is also out of our lives. My BF just married her dream guy last month :)
You did the right thing! While the person being cheated on can sometimes initially direct their anger at the messenger, or other people without a back bone with criticize you for saying something, they will be very happy you told them in the end.
I am a man. Am I supposed to not like Charlotte and other female you-tubers who use a lot of comedy? 10 years ago my male insecurity wouldve never let me write this comment. But I find her so funny and enjoyable to watch. And to top it all off, she’s very pretty. Thank you Charlotte for all the years of making me laugh. Whatever success you are having is well deserved.
When I was in high school my entire class and I caught my teacher cheating on his wife. First of all we all saw him acting overly flirty with one of our other teachers. Secondly, he once forgot that he had his laptop connected to the digital school board. He was actively checking out different women on a dating website and we all saw it. Eventually he noticed we saw everything and got super embarrassed, he kept saying he was trying to find someone for his cousin. Needless to say, he got divorced pretty soon after that. Then he started dating the teacher he was flirting with..
If people won't tell you that someone is cheating on you, even when they know, they might say it's because "it's not their business" (that's a lie, if you saw and you know the people involved, it kinda is) , what they really want to say is that they don't think much of you. Your self-respect and feelings don't matter to them. They probably like the cheater more.
My neighbor once came over to let my hubby know I was cheating on him. She heard "noises" and a strange person came over. What the neighbor didnt know was that my DAD came to visit. The noises - us laughing over YT videos. My dad has long hair. Silly badly nosey neighbor. #getglasseslady
Always best to be sneaky when you tell someone they're being cheated on. You just never know how they will react. Even if they're your best mate, I have heard that some people will turn on the dobber and believe the cheater.
My ex best friend told me she cheated on her bf. When it got back to him she claimed she was attacked and sexually assaulted. She also interrogated and shamed everyone who knew about the cheating and said something, she even shunned people from our friends circle just because her secret was no longer safe. If she had just been honest, because it was just a stupid mistake, I'm sure her bf wouldn't have even cared much, but instead she lost friends over it.
‘We must assess and move in the shadows!’ I laughed a little too hard at that but you’re absolutely correct. You gotta be on the lookout without making it obvious. You got to do some social media stalkings. Take some pics of the vehicle and dude if possible. Start a whole investigation especially if you know the neighbors well. That said, folks really living in full neighborhoods where there’s always gonna be eyes watching. It truly is like they want to be caught. People know when something isn’t right.
I remember when I was like 12 I heard my mom's bf having sex with our roomate in her room. I felt sick all day. I hated that I'd have to tell my mom and I worried she wouldn't believe me. When she got home I asked her if we could talk privately. She seemed worried and agreed. I told her Michael was cheating on her with Terri and that I heard them having sex. My mother began laughing. She told me they were all in a relationship together and that she was okay with it. She told me I didnt have to worry and that they were all consenting adults. It was a bit weird to me but thats how I found out my mom is Poly. And always has been since 😅
It was a combo of that North Carolina accent and southern sayings that makes the first storyteller so good. Sounds exactly like girls night out with my friends, except we all have South Carolina accents😅.
twice i have had nosy neighbours tell my partner (who i don;t live with) that i'm cheating on them with 'multiple men' - these have included (on investigation of dates and times) my brothers, my male bestie, the gas engineer and my DAD. my GIRLFRIEND thankfully finds this hilarious. meanwhile, neighbour forgets that my house overlooks his and i can see directly into his bedroom.....
Listen, I get super pissed if I've talked to several people and no one had the decency to tell me I had something stuck in my teeth. I don't understand this obsession with not telling people they're being cheated on but that's absolutely disgusting you can get all kinds of gross things from it not to mention the heart-wrenching Betrayal. Every single person who thinks it's nobody's business to be telling other people they're being cheated when you know for a fact it's happening, they all suck. These are people who just probably want to get away with cheating themselves. Always talk about it. But only if you know for sure. Heck, I would want to know if someone had even suspicions of it, because I would be able to better ascertain what was going on from the inside. There isn't a worse offense in my book.
Very much agree. Plus your comment cracked me up. If friends and family know someone is doing you wrong and don't tell you they've done you wrong too. They set back and did nothing. That's just as sad.
Nosey neighbors can actually keep you safe! We only have a few families on my long country road. When something looks off it usually is. When a neighbor is gone and an amazon package is on the porch. A neighbor will grab it and text you they have it. It’s nice knowing someone is always paying attention. We also text alert for emergencies or sales people in the hood😉
People who still think they can get away with cheating, in the day and age where everyone has smartphones and home security systems, is crazy! Cheaters suck. Sorry to anyone who has ever been cheated on! Stay petty besties!
Many years ago I saw my best friend’s boyfriend holding hands with another girl. I told her right away. No way was I going to ignore that. My ex cheated on me many times with girls much younger than him. He had on his MSN profile (yeah I’m that old) that he was only 20 when he was almost 40. He did finally get into trouble, one of the girls accused him of SAing her and the police got involved (she ended up admitting that it was consentual). But even after that he kept cheating on me by meeting people in chat rooms and meeting up with the IRL. I am so much happier now in a great relationship
I own an older apartment complex that has pretty thin walls and you would be surprised how many times we have gotten this complaint. We always have to confront the "loud" couple and let them know to try and keep it down (lol). It never works because, you know, people do what people do in the moment. It usually ends with the "loud couple" moving.
I've had a past neighbor come up to my husband in the parking lot and tell us we apparently helped his sex life with his wife after hearing us do the deed one night while they were going thru a dry time, I guess. I was mortified after that 😂 At least they didn't blame us for cheating. I guess we helped in way.😅🤣
12:32 My friends brother came to visit us from Boston… he had a girlfriend back home he’d been with since HS. He ended up partying and sleeping with a bunch of girls- including one of my friends. I ended up getting the GF on Instagram video call and made my friend tell her what she did with her boyfriend. The brother/boyfriend ended up physically attacking me. He spit on my front door for a week. Poured beer over me from the balcony while I was walking my dogs. If he didn’t have my friend suck him he would’ve never had an issue. Also, the GF in Boston stayed with him afterwards; dumby. 😂 I’d do it all over again!!! Girl gang. Don’t cheat on ur partner in front of other people… someone’s gonna tell. 😂
Wow that first story had a little bit of everything. A cheating dirt bag, a crazy wife, a pissed off mistress, a wind storm, a weaponized kiddie pool, a cop who was a witness to a crime and did nothing. If they didn't say South Carolina I would have thought this was my neighborhood in Florida. 😂 I ❤️FL
you're right. we do as humans have a morale obligation to tell somebody if they are being cheated on. how many years would people waste of their LIVES being with a liar. c'mon people!!
I just wanted to say that I have two brothers, and they come over to visit me all the time. We got a new neighbor, a few months ago and she’s a very elderly lady. My brother sometimes would come over in the morning so I can make them breakfast. I’m a stay at home mama of four kids. One day she saw my husband outside washing his truck and she came over to tell him that I was cheating on him with two guys and described my brothers exactly.😂😂 My husband laughed and told her ma’am you don’t have to worry that’s just her two brothers and they do come over a lot in the morning so she can make them breakfast.😂 my brothers, and I are very close, and even though they’re adults, since my mom has passed, I make them breakfast all the time
There was a study done a few years back to see if a couple getting frisky in the next room could effect a solo woman in the next. They soundproofed the walls, but the woman was physically situlated all the same. That being said, she had her battery operated boyfriend to take off the edge, so cheating was not a foregone conclusion.
This is where the expression, "don't crap where you live." is very profound. Don't have relationships or issues or steal where you live. Take that stuff out of the neighborhood.
lol, we crap where we live every time we use the bathroom in our home to take a dump. The expression is, "don't sh-- where you _eat._ " Makes more sense now, right? 🤔
My 35 year marriage came to an end when someone FINALLY told me some things. He had been cheating for over 14 years and spent a ridiculous amount of money in support or paying off blackmailers. After I learned everything, people came out of the woodwork to tell me what they had known for 17 years. A friend wouldn’t keep this kind of information from me. Not only did I lose a cheating husband, I lost “friends” that allowed him to make a fool of me. Good riddance to a lot of scummy people.
I’m so sorry you had “friends” that kept this from you. You deserved better. ❤
It’s very heartbreaking to go through I know, however it’s so much better to have found out and get rid of those not good people ❤❤❤
It always did completely shocked the hell out of me when people don't tell. Especially so-called friends
I think the most gut-wrenching part about “friends” not telling you something like that is that they basically chose their side by not doing anything. That’s so messed up!
@@MicheleRBrown especially when it’s your BEST FRIEND! It’s insane to me
My father tasked my older brother, when we were teens, to clean the storage in the laundry room. My brother cleaned it alright. He went through everything and found an explicit birthday card for my father from his mistress. So my brother cleaned the storage and the house of the garbage. He told our mum as soon as she got home from work. Our mum is happier without him.
W brother/son
The wife in the first story shouldn't have slapped that girl's phone out of her hand.She wanted proof and she got it.
It might have been a subconscious reaction out of disgust. I can see accidently swatting something away if it really gut punched me. But I agree it’s not a good response no matter why it happened.
I agree. It was immature and stupid to blame the girlfriend. Unfortunately, too many women and men blame the wrong person when the blame should be placed solely on the cheater (obviously this is only when the person didn't know the cheater was in a relationship).
I don't see how anyone could subconsciously hit a phone out of someone's hand. Lol. She meant that. Her anger was like fireballs, hitting anyone in sight mario style.
I mean hey, the narrator told her friend to shut her mouth and she didn’t… it’s kinda on her for screwing with the rednecks.
If the "other" girl doesn't know about the wife or gf its not her fault. Women misplace the anger they need to be mad at the husband but want to beat up a girl that didn't know they existed.
Some people don't have the emotional intelligence to understand where thier anger should be focused
Please tell your friends and neighbours if you know. My husband cheated on me for over a year and I had no clue. I am not blind but he was very loving and our relationship seemed very good. My job moved 4 hours away so I had an apartment weekdays. I unexpectedly came home during the week to find them in our bed. My "friends" and neighbours would not look me in the eye because they knew. On top of being devastated from the betrayal, I felt shamed because of their reaction. It took years of therapy to get over the hurt and shame. When I think about this 20 years later I can still picture their eyes slide to the side and down. It was a horrible feeling. I do not have any contact with any of them to this day.
You feel like a really empathetic person, I'm sorry you had this experience. Have my virtual hug.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I wish you the best moving forward. You deserve better for sure!💖 Sending Love from a random internet stranger. 💖💖
Sorry this happened to you. ❤️🫂
Interesting your putting the blame on those when knew and not the cheaters.
Something very similar happened to me about 22 years ago! And it’s sad that we still have the pain from it. It’s hard to really trust people sometimes
Living in a messy neighborhood is both a blessing and a curse. You're living in hell but also have the first row seat for the shitshow.
I be loving it lmao because I got first row seats to a good showdown and hot tea every time. 🤣😭
The best part about living in hell is being the one playing the fiddle while everything burns
Popcorn enthusiasts
The State Trooper just laughing on his front porch part was my favorite. 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
I had a friend all through school and into our twenties. I caught her boyfriend of five years with another girl. They were like six feet in front of me, kissing and . . . stuff 😳
I immediately went to tell her. She was angry . . . at me! She said she "didnt want to know about it".
Years of friendship ended, because i told her something she didnt want to hear.
BE PREPARED to be SHOT AS THE MESSENGER!
Some people prefer to live in ignorance. They develop a way of not seeing whats in front of them. It’s very delusional. When they’re confronted with the truth, they take it out on that person for ‘ruining’ the relationship bc that’s how they view it. Ignorance is bliss for a reason. You did the right thing regardless.
@garbeaux9787 You worded that perfectly, much better than i could! And you are right, ignorance is bliss was the way she wanted to live.
I have to be honest though, i think it's made me afraid to tell now 😔
Sorry that you lost your friend. This can happen but you still did the right thing.
@stephenbanks5952 Thank You 🩷
Must be the initial shock. They don't know where to turn, so their brain short-circuits and they become very stupid for a while, and then their pride doesn't let them apologize for their stupidity. But it's worth it. It's better to get hurt sooner than to find out much later. You'll keep your clear conscious.
That first lady is a great storyteller !! I could listen to her all day
Saame lol.
XD i have a terible memory recall n i was like :.: wish i could recall a story like that.
XD kiddy pool weapon was a first for me😂
At some point I will be describing someone as being in hot water and the oven is on.
Oh god I’ve been dying to tell this story so here it goes. I work in a pub/restaurant as a waitress I was serving a couple in the main bar one Saturday night, they paid cash not a big deal its common, I remember them specifically because I liked the womans tattoo and red hair and I told her as such.
The next day Sunday I serve the man in the function room a Sunday roast but a blonde woman was with him and both were wearing wedding rings.
The red headed woman came back the next day with her friends as they liked our staff and who does she see. Said cheating scumbag. The wife is furious, the mistress is screaming and backing the wife, the man almost becomes violent so was thrown out.
The women then proceeded to get drunk together plotting there revenge with our help and advice mostly from this channel. Drinks were on the house
What pleases me the most about this story is the victims in this situation didn’t turn on each other. They worked together to deal with the cheater who caused all of this.
@@crazyminegamer2339 ikr!
lol I love that they teamed up instead of going after each other! If neither knew, then it’s not their fault.
Side note- I’m petty af. When my ex cheated on me, I made it my personal mission to sleep with every single one of his ex girlfriends. Even the ones he cheated on me with except for one. Lmfao he still holds a grudge against me to this day when I’m the one who should be rightfully holding one. I’m not though. I did what I needed to and moved on happily knowing that this would haunt him the rest of his life 😂
@@Thunderbussie123 slay that was badass
women teaming up on a the cheating man is what i LIVE FOR!!
People always seem to forget the horrific fact that when a partner cheats they are potentially exposing their other half to STIs. This is not something that should be ignored. Where I live that is considered sexual battery and the victim absolutely has a right to know!
My husband's good friend is a pilot. We live in the city where the airline is based while the friend lives in another state. The friend stays with us when he is in town instead of staying in a hotel, even if my husband is out of town. One time in the beginning of this arrangement, my husband had to work out of the country for a month. That same month pilot friend messed up his schedule and was staying at our house weeks at a time. We all three had a great laugh about what my neighbors must be thinking. It seemed every time my husband went out of town his friend would end up staying at our house. It just seemed to make it worse that he always showed up in his pilot uniform!
Love this!
If I was your neighbor, I would've authored a telenovela in my mind staring the three of you. I've already named the pilot Antonio and your husband is Fernando. 😂😂😂
Lmao they're probably convinced y'all are getting down in there 😂
@@2late4dateomg 😂😂😂 that's the funniest ish
And you probably were getting it on 😆
If I'd heard the neighbor yelling through the wall, "The neighbors made me do it! It's their fault!" I would have absolutely yelled back, "No, we didn't!" I mean, if someone is going to drag you into their mess, might as well defend your honor, right?
Honestly if it was bothering her that much she should've gone over to their door, knocked, and asked them to please quiet down, she can hear them.
@@xoxablade8345Or, there's this crazy thing she apparently hasn't heard of: solo m@stur6ation!
😂😂😂
honestly the story could've been wholesome, like neighbors encouraging each other as they do it, but nah, the girl had to cheat because she got horny hearing OTHER people have sex
@@jadeandbloodShe also had a vibrator which didn't help. Tilly comes off as a major pervert imo.
“We almost fist fought over a toaster oven and a fly swatter.” 😂😂😂 ohhhhhh, to be from the south.
I'm from the South and can confirm it's wild out here 😂😂😂
She cracked me up I was dying the whole time 😂
We do be crazy in the south 😂
She’s hillbilly, not southern.
Petition for videos dedicated just to the south because talk about some wild content
@@heezypeasy8611also from the south can confirm lol
Tilly was looking for any excuse to try and justify her disgusting behaviour. It is always the partner or other peoples' fault in the cheaters eyes to try and get away with what they are doing. When they are caught in the act it is always "what are you doing here?" never taking accountability.
She could also just have used her hotdog and not cheated.
um even nastier? the slam that happened even when Buzz wasnt there,,,,, was her Magic Wand. she was getting 0ff to THEM! she fetishized her neighbors' Love life AND was cheating and proceeded to blame them. absolutely vile. vouyeur's version of "they were asking for it". barf.
My hubby & I were really good friends with another couple. This couple who had been married for a long time (over 20 years) also had next door neighbours, who they were good friends with. Then tragically the husband of the neighbour couple passed away in a car accident. The wife and kids were of course wrecked by this, then the husband of our couple friends, started helping out the now widow wife and kids. This went on for over a year. The wife (of our couple friends) was being more and more ignored. Until the day came when, they broke up because the husband was now seeing the neighbour! The husband MOVED INTO THE HOUSE RIGHT NEXT DOOR! They stayed that way until they sold their house and the wife moved away. So, while it’s hard to believe something like would happen, apparently it happens in a lot more cases then people might think.
Yeah Ive read enough books and watched enough movies to know that you NEVER should be okay with your spouse becoming someone elses surrogate spouse unless you want your relationship to end.
Omg the same thing happened in my old neighbourhood, is this a universal neighbourhood thing 😂😂
Cheaters are the worst! Happy these videos can expose them more. Love you Charlotte!
Not to mention, it's so boring! I can't be the only one bored by just looking at others trying to date multiple people... right?
My dad cheated with our neighbor, our backyard’s literally touched. It was soooo embarrassing. The entire neighborhood knew. I was in high school at the time. I found out on Valentine’s Day when I was 16. It was less than awesome. My relationship with my father has never recovered and I just turned 37….
I am forever grateful for that nosy neighbor who told my friend about her husband’s affairs.
Our old neighbors would have screaming fights in the street on a semi-regular basis. My husband finally got fed up with it cause he goes to work super early and they'd usually start fighting at midnight or later, one night he threw open the door and yelled at them to calm their shit down cause the whole neighborhood could hear them. This apparently pissed the wife off cause after that she made it her mission to be a total bitch. I guess she was starved for drama and desperate to prove that she wasn't the only one in a miserable marriage, she was, cause she came to him with "proof" I was cheating. Her "proof" was pictures of me leaving at midnight and coming back at 1 or 2am with several bags. She was so confused when my husband laughed in her face cause she literally just got pictures of my insomniac ass going grocery shopping. This was pre-covid and most of the stores were open 24 hours at the time. I hate HATE crowds so I would always do my grocery shopping in the middle of the night, especially in the summer when it's stupid hot. My husband was well aware of my shopping preferences and his only request was that I keep pepper spray on me when I went out that late. We thankfully moved not long after that and never had to deal with their annoying asses again.
This video couldn't have come at a better time - I tend to watch videos when I've got a headache as distraction and auntie Charlotte is exceptionally good at that!
Light and screens makes headaches worse.
Feel better soon!
Cool washcloth on the forehead with closed eyes helps me best, best wishes.
I know, but it's a weather headache that I won't get rid of until the storm hits regardless so I might as well be entertained while suffering lol@@sh.4409
Thank you, I'll give it a shot! @@kgal9657
The girl sitting in her car waiting for her daughter to wake up made me wonder. My best friend is a guy and comes over while my husband is at work sometimes. I wonder if any of my neighbors think I’m cheating on my husband 🤣 I’m all for catching a cheaters but just assuming they’re cheating because they have company while their spouse is gone is a stretch.
The guy literally could be gay too. Could be a hair stylist friend or brother or cousin. There's a lot of possibilities as well as also just a family bestie or he's wanting her opinion on something for a date he's got ext. and they just made tea to gossip. But also we dunno their lifestyle either. Poly and open is a thing, too. Hubby could be very aware and not mind it. Like I'd say AT NIGHT when you know a husbands away, yes okay get sus but maybe no gun jumping. But during the day unless you explicitly see them kissing, naw fam. Small town rumours are the worst.
Yeah it totally is a bit much… like it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable lol
Tbh, it's kind of weird to have a man in your home when your husband is not there and he doesn't know about it.
For real… sticking her nose in other peoples business when she doesn’t know what the hell is actually going on with her neighbors… creating rumors. Mind your own business lady.
I have a couple male friends who come over sometimes when my husband isn't home. Just friends. If that woman was videoing from a driveway next door to me and posted it my husband and I would have a few things to say.
So this happened about a week ago in the kitchen at work - one of our newer chefs (calling him Lee for here) accidentally lets slip that he won a fairly large sum of money in the company sweepstakes, and looked immediately embarrassed about it when it proceeded to spread around the kitchen like wildfire. The chefs start their usual horseplay and start bugging the guy about when he planned to share his good fortune with the rest of them, and he tells them no, he's saving it for his future which might include a partner someday.
One chef then tastelessly jokes that he'd gladly bend over and give up his ass and be the "good wife" if that meant he'd get a piece of that money. I immediately see a flash of irritation and anger in Lee's eyes - none of us had ever expressed any issues with him being gay, so I wondered if this might have crossed a line. Then I understand when he fires back, "You? Not even if you were the last guy on earth and looked like [insert celebrity name here]." Chef doubles down on his joke and asks why he can't get a chance, and Lee tells him, "Seriously? Dude you're married. That shit ain't even funny anymore."
No one's talked about it since. More likely because jokes are jokes and at day's end we're all just a bunch of guys who know when to quit. But I also know now that while Lee is currently single, he definitely hates cheaters of all stripes and if anyone ever needed a big brother to count on he's gonna be there.
W lee
A woman at work lost her husband to alcoholism. He worked there too. We all knew he drank a lot, but the wife said she didn't know and wished someone would have told her. I don't know how she couldn't have known, he always smelled of alcohol. But denial runs deep. Same with cheaters I guess.
Some people just don't pick up on stuff they know nothing about. She may be smell impaired. Or associated it with cologne, cuz she didn't drink. I mean, you probably know more, but still, some poeple really don't get cues "normal" people pick up right away.
As someone who doesn't drink, that might be one possible reason. Maybe she doesn't recognize the smell. I know I couldn't point alcohol smells out, if asked.
Edit: I do agree it's better to bring things up, though.
Charlotte Dobre "if you catch someone cheating...like caught red-handed, do not mind your business." Amen! I have told all my friends whether they or their partners like it or not, if any of them or their significant other cheats, I am telling. Not sorry! I would want someone to do the same for me.
Do you tell….?
Well, it does backfire sometimes.
I was the one who was naughty with a friend’s fiancé many years ago at a party . We were all having loads of fun and he got very friendly with me.
He is good looking , I could not resist.
You can imagine the rest.
Anyways, I told our group of friends the next morning what had happened and her friend just had to tell her what had happened.
I got excommunicated….
They still got married .
Never seen the friends again.
That was 2007.
@@monk3yboy69 You deserved that and more. I hope you get more karma your way. Sad that the ex friend is still with that worthless piece of garbage. You knew what you did was wrong and now want to play victim.
Well that's ok you, monkeyboy.
What backfired was not the telling but the fact, you "couldn't resist".
@@monk3yboy69 Good, you deserved to be ratted out for betraying your friend like that. Honestly, your friend should've broken off the engagement, too.
@@monk3yboy69 Were you expecting her to be like "Oh thanks for telling me, we can still be friends?" You CHOSE to be a homewrecker to your friend and he CHOSE to cheat on his fiance. You could resist you just didnt want to because you are selfish and dont care about others. They did the right thing excommunicating you because YOU are a problem. Doesnt mean the Fiance isnt also a problem but you are certainly not a friend and anyone with a brain would avoid you like the plague. Sucks she still married him because he is trash.
People telling the OP to mind her own business while reading and commenting on somebody else’s business on Reddit… talk about being hypocritical….!
I was just going to comment this! lol
I’ve always exposed cheaters. Always. I’ve lost so many friends because of it. But the ones who appreciated it and everything stayed. And for that I’m grateful. Because they are amazing friends to me.
If my bf cheated I'd like someone to tell me. I have a close friend whos bf has been cheating on her for more than a year and all his friends knew. She was so grateful when one of his friends told her finally (but still way too late) and broke up with him instantly.
I like the way the first girl tells her story. She had me laugh at a very serious story!
as someone who was cheated on, friends and family knew about it but no one told me: if you know someone is cheating or you have valid suspicions that they are cheating, tell their partner. please, tell them. wouldn't you want someone to do that for you, if they found out your partner is cheating on you? you would want to know, right? so tell them.
Finally something I can contribute to! So I was once the other woman and I found out in an underhanded way because the guy told me he was single. I believed him, we had fun in the park and then I thought I’d never see him again. And then I met him with friends of mine and he introduced himself as this woman’s fiancé. My jaw dropped. I immediately schooled my expression and then eventually I ended up turning it over on him when I left the area and told her everything. She wasn’t happy but she understood. Then I found out that she ran off with his best friend who treated her better. Fun fact; he also got himself snipped when she got pregnant with his last attempt at a kid and then he put her through so much stress she miscarried and now he could never have kids. Sad but also, karma.
So I have a story of my own. So my husband cheated on me when we were newly married his his best friends gf (this b was fully btw) while he was in the marine Corp. So how I found this out. Well he called and told me crying of what he just did. I cried and was very hurt. I still ended up marrying him and not being able to let go of the whole oral deal. I cheated on him back with his best friend. While he was away. (This was during the time I was preg with our kid) When he came back home. I told him how I cheated on him back. He was upset but he calmed down because he really couldn't get mad considering he had done it to me first. Ever since then we have hid nothing from one another and he nor I have cheated on each other since. We have been married for 10 years now our kid now 8 years old. We have known one another though for 15 years. Yes we could have done the immature way and leave one another. (That's how I see it anyway) yet we worked and talked it put and we honest with one another. Instead of up and quitting.
@@animfangirlkag22I'm glad your marriage is good now...but there is no excuse for cheating. It's the fact you cheated on him as well that bothers me. I believe in second chances, but only second, no more. But was it really necessary? Cheating on him too?
Had a girl accuse me of cheating once because her friend saw me with a girl and two kids.....um...yea turns out she saw me with my sister and my niece and nephew. Since we had only been dating a month, I hadn't met this friend yet and she hadn't met my family yet. Was incredibly awkward, and obviously things didn't work out.
Same shizz here man ex gf has a nosy friend who also happens to work with me in the same company tought she cought me cheating with multiple women 1 one was cousin who came to my workplace to get the keys of my place,2 lunch with a niece where she asked me to borrow a bike,3 drunk sleepover at sisters place ,4 2nd sister and kids came for summer vacation and stayed at my place,5 helping injured neighbor after her car crash with terapy coz im licensed therapist
She compiled all the "evidence" of me beeing some womanizer and showed it to my ex who asked me and i told her they are family members except the last one im her therapist she had car crash so im helping out
Welp relationship lasted for about 7 chaotic months before kinda violent end where she stabbed me, panicked and ran,only calling about 3 days later to apologize and sent me gift basket and 1000 euros to not report her.
Weirdly she came back 2 years ago after not seeing eachother for a decade to hide at my place coz her family and friends found out she is loaded and never told them anything and im only one who didnt care about her money.
So yeah we are friends now....i guess
the driveway parking neighbor gave me uncomfortable vibes of my '60's childhood and how mom's were nosy and gossiping about every little thing the neighbors were doing - and judging them. however, she redeemed herself to me when she said "and I'm bored" self-awareness is important, plus we do all manner of things when we're bored and don't want to wake the children.
Thank you because she literally mentioned how she had seen the car at barbecues. And all the stuff I've seen this car multiple times but didn't know who drove it and I'm like, could it be somebody sibling?
Honestly and like it could’ve been her friend, are married women not allowed to hang out with male friends anymore unless their husbands around? 😂
Yeah, me too. I kept thinking: what if it's her brother who's helping her being sneaky to prepare a divorce against his cheating or abusive husband? As Charlotte said before: only be nosy if you are 150% sure!
Just because a male family friend shows up when her husband isn’t there it doesn’t mean she’s cheating. Maybe he’s a relative or maybe he’s there for professional reasons. My friend’s husband has come to my house to help me with getting ready to list my house for sale. I sure as heck wasn’t messing around with him. That’s ridiculous.
Ummm, so we moved into a new house. We had been there about a year. A neighbor told my husband about this tall young man that was visiting our house while my husband was away. He asked for description of this tall much younger man. When she was done, he looked at her and said, “Interesting,,,,,sounds just like her 16 year old SON.” 😂
TEA TIME! That first woman was hysterical!
I exposed a cheater once. I was friends - not very good ones, rather just collegues - with this one girl. She had a husband. One day I was messeging with my other collegue, male, and he said that he's dating this girl. I was like "bro, but she has a husband???". He told me that she claimed they are divorced ... but they obviously weren't. He was crushed and decided to message the husband and told him everything. To out surprise the husband... didn't do anything about it! And about a year later he and the cheater wife had a baby! D:
Oh, that poor insecure doormat...
open relationship? It's their kink???? She pays the bills? IDK, man, something is going on there.
Did Tilly really think blaming her neighbors was going to fly? All aboard the Delulu express!!! 😂😂😂😂
Choo choo 🚂🚃🚃🚃🚃 😂
@@CaseyAvalon Right? 😂
Yeah the one with the girl sitting in her car had me thinking I have my brother, and my husbands friends come over occasionally, and sometimes they’ll get here before my husband, sometimes my husband will even be like “oh friend is coming over, I’m on the way home and they’ll get there before me” and then I get mad cause I gotta entertain the fuckers and talk to them until he gets home.
Try to avoid that. or you may get in trouble for someone else's misconceptions.
@@graziaeliannatheyre actively communicating these things to each other, i think theyre fine lol
That woman should have her own show!!!, I was dying! lol...hey I don't get it when women fight over a man...why can't they just team up and beat crap out of him???, they've both been played and he clearly isn't worth a shit!, take him to court, make sure he pays for the fruit of his Loins and kick him to the Kerb!
Ikr? When it comes to cheating you should always be mad at your partner first, and their affair second.
The first one is freaking amazing! She told that story sooooo weeeeeeell
Last year my husband and I went to a birthday party for his partner, I went to use the restroom and the partners wife was in the bathroom sauna with this really young employee of my husband’s company. I locked eyes with her and then I left. That night I told my husband what I witnessed. My husband told his partner what I saw and 3 months later they got a divorce. The employee was fired. To this day she absolutely hates me. I don’t care.
Mind your own business is how I feel about all this .
It never goes well when you say anything.
You’re the villain in the end.
Best avoid the situation and those people.
@@monk3yboy69let the cheater be angey, that's on them. 🙆♀️ OP did everything right
@@monk3yboy69 Your comment screams ‘I’m a cheater!’ 😂😂😂 Your avatar backs it up! 😂😂😂
@@monk3yboy69 Never hide the fact that someone is cheating, if someone finds out YOU are going to be just as hated as the one who did the cheating because YOU decided to avoid the situation. I was cheated on for three months and when my friend found out he told me. We were together nearly eight years and my friend is an absolute ANGEL for not letting me put a ring on her finger like I had planned. Nothing good comes from protecting a cheater.
@@Sorchia56dude, if it wasn't for OP, the guy would of been in the dark and the ex would of gotten away with it for way longer.
The fall out would of been way messier had OP not stepped in.
OP literally caught a cheater, told the cheated on about it, and the cheater got what was coming.
Me and my sister watch your videos everyday, Shes yells “Rory!! Charlotte uploaded!! THE PETTY QUEEN HAD UPLOADED FOR HER SUBJECTS!!”
😂😂😂😂😂aha thats a hoot
"I should mind my own business"
Charlotte- "No you shouldn't" LOL😂
It was the State Trooper sitting on his porch, for me 😆
Bahahaha the kiddy pool one got me in tears 😂🤣 thanks Charlotte 🇦🇺💜🇮🇹
Char, I jus gotta say I love how you do reaction videos! You credit the OG creator and even share their links. youza good petty queen!!!
I try!
My old neighbor caught her partner cheating on her, and she asked all the neighbors with dogs to get some poop to throw at his car. All of us were more than happy to comply.
Wait so she smacks the phone out of the hand of the woman who was giving her the answers she asked for? Then don’t ask questions you can’t handle the answers to.
With the first story, she was an amazing story teller!
Right!
Like a country song.😊
He said the N word
Southern women are!! AND, THEY don’t take 💩, they RETURN it!!!!
Facts Char, If you catch someone cheating, they have officially made it your buisness
I can say from experience in a past relationship that finding out that everyone knew and no one bothered telling you or didn't care enough to do so makes it so much worse.
As a wife who was cheated on...we want to know. We may not be happy with you as the messenger; we may be in denial...but we want to know.
If there is an open relationship, it's doubtful there will be any kind of negative confrontation. If there isn't, why should the betrayed spouse live in ignorance and risk venereal diseases or worse? Tell them.
Miss Charlotte: It’s your moral obligation to tell someone they are being cheated on!
Me: Yes! Yes it is; only surpassed by the d-bag’s moral obligation not to cheat!
that first story 😆I need a kiddy pool now, just for that. Folding it up like it's not a problem, that anger level was piping hot!
On a different note...can we just applaud for the first lady's storytelling abilities! I would pay money to watch her to standup!
LOL this reminds me of when I moved in with my husband, we had a really cute old couple as our neighbors. The man was losing his marbles a bit but overall he was generally nice. He met me when I had box dyed blonde hair and then a few months later I dyed it back to brunette. He couldn't remember my face but he went to me and was like... "you know the man living here already has another lady" and I was at first thinking he was joking so I responded, "Oh yeah, I know I'm the side chick." Well he took me seriously and told his wife who told me what happened and we had a fun laugh. Lmao
The no-no words policy is a good thing. It gives us euphemisms like "sexy hotdog".
Dirk and Tilly reminds me of a situation when I was staying at the Visiting Airmen's Quarters at a stateside base. I had an early class start time the next morning, and the couple in the next room had started to have their super happy fun time very loudly at about 10 PM. Traditionally, VAQ walls are very thin. I could hear everything they talked about from the moment they walked in. judging by the conversation, they were married, just not to each other. After it seemed like they were not going to stop until day break , I decided I'd had enough and took stock of my available resources. I knew their first names (because they'd been moaning them to each other for 90 minutes)- let's call them Chad and Mary, I knew Mary's husband's name (Bob), I knew the room number, and I had a phone. Plus, the VAQ had direct room to room dialing! So, I called the room. When Chad picked up, I said "This is Bob" and calmly asked if Mary was there. Then I hung up the phone. The next thing I heard was a quick argument, people getting dressed and then leaving - Mission Accomplished.
I caught my BF's boyfriend cheating with a mutual friend of ours, 6 years ago. The girl told me how she was together with the guy and acted like it was normal. I did not hold back and told my BF at the same time. I was the one that was almost kicked out of the friendgroup, because I "caused" drama lol. My BF and the guy are no longer speaking today. Mutual friend is also out of our lives. My BF just married her dream guy last month :)
You did the right thing! While the person being cheated on can sometimes initially direct their anger at the messenger, or other people without a back bone with criticize you for saying something, they will be very happy you told them in the end.
I am a man. Am I supposed to not like Charlotte and other female you-tubers who use a lot of comedy? 10 years ago my male insecurity wouldve never let me write this comment. But I find her so funny and enjoyable to watch. And to top it all off, she’s very pretty. Thank you Charlotte for all the years of making me laugh. Whatever success you are having is well deserved.
When I was in high school my entire class and I caught my teacher cheating on his wife. First of all we all saw him acting overly flirty with one of our other teachers. Secondly, he once forgot that he had his laptop connected to the digital school board. He was actively checking out different women on a dating website and we all saw it. Eventually he noticed we saw everything and got super embarrassed, he kept saying he was trying to find someone for his cousin. Needless to say, he got divorced pretty soon after that. Then he started dating the teacher he was flirting with..
I love these videos, the tea is always piping hot!!☕️ these stories are very entertaining.
If people won't tell you that someone is cheating on you, even when they know, they might say it's because "it's not their business" (that's a lie, if you saw and you know the people involved, it kinda is) , what they really want to say is that they don't think much of you. Your self-respect and feelings don't matter to them. They probably like the cheater more.
My neighbor once came over to let my hubby know I was cheating on him. She heard "noises" and a strange person came over.
What the neighbor didnt know was that my DAD came to visit. The noises - us laughing over YT videos. My dad has long hair. Silly badly nosey neighbor. #getglasseslady
The first woman’s accent made the story 100x better
Do you know the videos gonna be good when it says caught in the title!
Do you know??. ..You should correct that. Start with saying...You know🤦🏾♀️
@@niyahtalley30sry I meant you know
Always best to be sneaky when you tell someone they're being cheated on. You just never know how they will react. Even if they're your best mate, I have heard that some people will turn on the dobber and believe the cheater.
Yes, shoot the messenger! I told my friend, she really didn't want to hear it. I sadly was the messenger who got shot.
@@Tokyo_Rose. 😞You did the right thing, but I am sorry. The only winner was the cheater.
@@Nina-rj4nu Yes, you're about that! 😧
People seem to forget that women and men can be friends. Just friends. And spend time together. Yes, even alone.
My ex best friend told me she cheated on her bf. When it got back to him she claimed she was attacked and sexually assaulted. She also interrogated and shamed everyone who knew about the cheating and said something, she even shunned people from our friends circle just because her secret was no longer safe. If she had just been honest, because it was just a stupid mistake, I'm sure her bf wouldn't have even cared much, but instead she lost friends over it.
‘We must assess and move in the shadows!’ I laughed a little too hard at that but you’re absolutely correct. You gotta be on the lookout without making it obvious. You got to do some social media stalkings. Take some pics of the vehicle and dude if possible. Start a whole investigation especially if you know the neighbors well. That said, folks really living in full neighborhoods where there’s always gonna be eyes watching. It truly is like they want to be caught. People know when something isn’t right.
Not in my neck of the woods. I am the only one.
I remember when I was like 12 I heard my mom's bf having sex with our roomate in her room. I felt sick all day. I hated that I'd have to tell my mom and I worried she wouldn't believe me. When she got home I asked her if we could talk privately. She seemed worried and agreed. I told her Michael was cheating on her with Terri and that I heard them having sex.
My mother began laughing. She told me they were all in a relationship together and that she was okay with it. She told me I didnt have to worry and that they were all consenting adults. It was a bit weird to me but thats how I found out my mom is Poly. And always has been since 😅
Wow! That's a lot for a young person. At least you had your moms back and tried to help. 😊
Ah, the visual of kiddie pool beat down that is running in my head!!😂😎
The first story was absolute sitcom material!!!
It was a combo of that North Carolina accent and southern sayings that makes the first storyteller so good. Sounds exactly like girls night out with my friends, except we all have South Carolina accents😅.
I just never get why people even cheat. Just end the relationship and move on.
twice i have had nosy neighbours tell my partner (who i don;t live with) that i'm cheating on them with 'multiple men' - these have included (on investigation of dates and times) my brothers, my male bestie, the gas engineer and my DAD. my GIRLFRIEND thankfully finds this hilarious. meanwhile, neighbour forgets that my house overlooks his and i can see directly into his bedroom.....
apparently kiddie pools are the new frying pan 🤷🏼♀️
Lol!
Who said “idle hands are the devil’s workshop “? Her bored hands be out there doing the lord’s work 😂
Thanks Char for another great video. Helps with dealing with all the crazy fires and smoke in BC right now.❤
7:13 Could this not be a family member in town or a platonic friend??? This sounds like a major conclusion to jump to
Listen, I get super pissed if I've talked to several people and no one had the decency to tell me I had something stuck in my teeth. I don't understand this obsession with not telling people they're being cheated on but that's absolutely disgusting you can get all kinds of gross things from it not to mention the heart-wrenching Betrayal. Every single person who thinks it's nobody's business to be telling other people they're being cheated when you know for a fact it's happening, they all suck. These are people who just probably want to get away with cheating themselves. Always talk about it. But only if you know for sure. Heck, I would want to know if someone had even suspicions of it, because I would be able to better ascertain what was going on from the inside. There isn't a worse offense in my book.
Very much agree. Plus your comment cracked me up. If friends and family know someone is doing you wrong and don't tell you they've done you wrong too. They set back and did nothing. That's just as sad.
Nosey neighbors can actually keep you safe! We only have a few families on my long country road. When something looks off it usually is. When a neighbor is gone and an amazon package is on the porch. A neighbor will grab it and text you they have it. It’s nice knowing someone is always paying attention. We also text alert for emergencies or sales people in the hood😉
People who still think they can get away with cheating, in the day and age where everyone has smartphones and home security systems, is crazy!
Cheaters suck.
Sorry to anyone who has ever been cheated on!
Stay petty besties!
Many years ago I saw my best friend’s boyfriend holding hands with another girl. I told her right away. No way was I going to ignore that. My ex cheated on me many times with girls much younger than him. He had on his MSN profile (yeah I’m that old) that he was only 20 when he was almost 40. He did finally get into trouble, one of the girls accused him of SAing her and the police got involved (she ended up admitting that it was consentual). But even after that he kept cheating on me by meeting people in chat rooms and meeting up with the IRL. I am so much happier now in a great relationship
I own an older apartment complex that has pretty thin walls and you would be surprised how many times we have gotten this complaint. We always have to confront the "loud" couple and let them know to try and keep it down (lol). It never works because, you know, people do what people do in the moment. It usually ends with the "loud couple" moving.
Fix the walls then
That first story! 🤣And she's right about that wind storm -- it was insane! Like "WTF, is there a hurricane I don't know about?!" level insane.
I've had a past neighbor come up to my husband in the parking lot and tell us we apparently helped his sex life with his wife after hearing us do the deed one night while they were going thru a dry time, I guess. I was mortified after that 😂 At least they didn't blame us for cheating. I guess we helped in way.😅🤣
Ew why'd he have to tell you though?
@TC-ku4vv I asked the same thing it was so awkward after that. I was just happy I wasn't there to experience it. We've moved since then, lol 😆
OH MY GOD!! How gross and why did he feel the need to tell you!?!? 😂
The kiddie pool lady just killed me with laughter💀🤣💀🤣💀
Cheaters suck!!! This video was awesome! 😂 thanks for the laughs.
That has to be one of the most southern story I’ve ever heard 😂😂
Settling in to wait out Hurricane Hilary..thanks for keeping me company!
Yup, my power came back on literally two minutes before this was uploaded lol
Stay safe, to both of you!! ❤
@@lisamelroy2855 I’m up in the mountains, so so far it’s basically been a typical rainy day for me. Lol hope everyone else is good, though!
@@lisamelroy2855❤️ thanks! The earthquake didn’t help but it’s not so bad so far 😸
@JMwhocares Hopefully it will be on the lesser side. Good luck, bestie! ❤️
That kitty pool story was hysterical 😂 and the fact that the State Trooper just SAT THERE AND WATCHED 🤣🤣🤣
12:32 My friends brother came to visit us from Boston… he had a girlfriend back home he’d been with since HS. He ended up partying and sleeping with a bunch of girls- including one of my friends. I ended up getting the GF on Instagram video call and made my friend tell her what she did with her boyfriend. The brother/boyfriend ended up physically attacking me. He spit on my front door for a week. Poured beer over me from the balcony while I was walking my dogs. If he didn’t have my friend suck him he would’ve never had an issue. Also, the GF in Boston stayed with him afterwards; dumby. 😂 I’d do it all over again!!! Girl gang. Don’t cheat on ur partner in front of other people… someone’s gonna tell. 😂
Wow that first story had a little bit of everything.
A cheating dirt bag, a crazy wife, a pissed off mistress, a wind storm, a weaponized kiddie pool, a cop who was a witness to a crime and did nothing. If they didn't say South Carolina I would have thought this was my neighborhood in Florida.
😂 I ❤️FL
you're right. we do as humans have a morale obligation to tell somebody if they are being cheated on. how many years would people waste of their LIVES being with a liar. c'mon people!!
I just wanted to say that I have two brothers, and they come over to visit me all the time. We got a new neighbor, a few months ago and she’s a very elderly lady. My brother sometimes would come over in the morning so I can make them breakfast. I’m a stay at home mama of four kids. One day she saw my husband outside washing his truck and she came over to tell him that I was cheating on him with two guys and described my brothers exactly.😂😂 My husband laughed and told her ma’am you don’t have to worry that’s just her two brothers and they do come over a lot in the morning so she can make them breakfast.😂 my brothers, and I are very close, and even though they’re adults, since my mom has passed, I make them breakfast all the time
There was a study done a few years back to see if a couple getting frisky in the next room could effect a solo woman in the next. They soundproofed the walls, but the woman was physically situlated all the same. That being said, she had her battery operated boyfriend to take off the edge, so cheating was not a foregone conclusion.
Hah,situlated...new word but I think I like it! Like get yourself situlated i.e.( you better be sitting down for this news!)
Can confirm a frisky couple affects a single. Was living in barracks and had to ask the neighbor to turn his music up when he had special company.
I'm here for all this Tea and drama today, that first segment I liiiiiiived for, thank you Charlotte, once again xx
This is where the expression, "don't crap where you live." is very profound. Don't have relationships or issues or steal where you live. Take that stuff out of the neighborhood.
lol, we crap where we live every time we use the bathroom in our home to take a dump. The expression is, "don't sh-- where you _eat._ " Makes more sense now, right? 🤔
Charlotte dobre once again a brilliant laugh ❤your content keep shining ✨️
It's called Integrity. All the way around.
Loving the longer videos! 💋