Shes too by the book. I started self harm at 7 yrs old. Its trauma and insecure attachment usually with your mother. This goes way back to primal feelings from childhood. The feelings are too painful to sit with and it is a mish mash of painful feelings that start probably in infancy.
@grace, I randomly came across this video. I pray you're able to read this message & have found a coping mechanism. I'll never know if I'm too late unless you reply. If no one has told you, you are loved, even by me some random stranger. Please know I don't know why you want to harm yourself but know that I know what it feels. May you experience love & friendship- sometimes it's easier to share what your going through with a stranger.
Please don’t harm yourself. You can get through whatever is hurting you with the help of other people. And there are more supportive and caring people than you could ever realize. For some reason there aren’t that many people in this thread but please try to reach her directly. And there are many people that would love to support you if you can find a place on Skype, social media. And the best uf you can find it would be a 12 Step recovery group. Im not very knowledegable in this field but being in 12 step groups i know there are groups for just about every issue imaginable. Help and support are all around us. Don’t give up or withdraw. We can’t overcone these things alone.
There is so much contained emotion in this woman's face
I feel it's the providers decision in whether they treat a patient who has " self injury."
Amazing presentation
Thank you for posting this presentation!
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Shes too by the book. I started self harm at 7 yrs old. Its trauma and insecure attachment usually with your mother. This goes way back to primal feelings from childhood. The feelings are too painful to sit with and it is a mish mash of painful feelings that start probably in infancy.
How can one help and support then? What to do exactly, other than what is shared here? It would be great to hear from you
@@TJ-yg3cb I'd like to know as well
Why aren’t there more views on this?
Please I need help with self harm
@grace, I randomly came across this video. I pray you're able to read this message & have found a coping mechanism. I'll never know if I'm too late unless you reply. If no one has told you, you are loved, even by me some random stranger. Please know I don't know why you want to harm yourself but know that I know what it feels. May you experience love & friendship- sometimes it's easier to share what your going through with a stranger.
Please don’t harm yourself. You can get through whatever is hurting you with the help of other people. And there are more supportive and caring people than you could ever realize. For some reason there aren’t that many people in this thread but please try to reach her directly. And there are many people that would love to support you if you can find a place on Skype, social media. And the best uf you can find it would be a 12 Step recovery group. Im not very knowledegable in this field but being in 12 step groups i know there are groups for just about every issue imaginable. Help and support are all around us. Don’t give up or withdraw. We can’t overcone these things alone.
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There is no such thing as emotional intelligence. It is a term made up by a journalist.