Love this video! My best friend of 18 years is a guy, we’re literally family, my mum is his mum vice versa, Iv sacked off guys that don’t accept it before because at the end of the day, a 18 year long friendship is more important than someone who won’t accept my best friend especially when we are basically family, however, developing a guy bestfriend after a relationship and choosing them over your partner is a huge NO
I do want to point out that arguing also doesn’t have to be a solution. Been living with my partner 2 years, we’ve had maybe 2 arguments. It’s about working on your communication, and of course it depends on personality types. Neither me or my boyfriend like arguing, so we always ensure our communication is thorough and respectful and therefore, an argument is never necessary. We communicate extremely well before it gets to “argument”. AS I SAY, we have had two arguments, and as long as both parties are respectful and apologies are given afterwards then that’s fine, but I really don’t believe that frequent arguing is normal. (I once did when I was with the wrong person, but now I’m with my right person it’s genuinely just not an issue 98% of the time) everyone’s different - but I think sometimes it’s ok to say no actually, this isn’t normal, this person isn’t respecting me and is not good at communicating/ is trying to trigger me - either that needs to change, or I need to move on and find someone who does align with me so these arguments can be eliminated. I HOPE THIS MAKES SENSE😅❤
I also will say that if you live with someone, you’ll both have bad days and that’s ok. You can’t be perfect all the time. If one of you snaps, it may be up to the other person to provide space as to not add fuel to the fire and vice versa. A mutual understanding of “we’ve always got each other, this is just a bad day” is super helpful ❤
Lets not normalise arguing in relationships being normal! Been with my boyfriend 4 years and weve not had one argument, just talk to each other! Also, liking photos being a bad thing?? Come on girls🙄
Same with me and my boyf. We have been together 18months moved in together after 3 months and have never had an argument. We bicker where he doesn’t make the bed if he’s last out or doesn’t take the bin out. But nothing serious. Only reason he moved in was bcuz he was always at mine house anyway. Happiest relationship I’ve ever been in. ❤️❤️
Definitely make this a series, I love it! 😊
Ahhhh yay thanks so much!!!
I agree
Love this video! My best friend of 18 years is a guy, we’re literally family, my mum is his mum vice versa, Iv sacked off guys that don’t accept it before because at the end of the day, a 18 year long friendship is more important than someone who won’t accept my best friend especially when we are basically family, however, developing a guy bestfriend after a relationship and choosing them over your partner is a huge NO
IMOGEN U SHOULD TOTALLY START A PODCAST! GIRL ID LISTEN TO EVERY EPISODE 😍
Ahahah stop it because I’ve been so tempted xxxxx
I do want to point out that arguing also doesn’t have to be a solution. Been living with my partner 2 years, we’ve had maybe 2 arguments. It’s about working on your communication, and of course it depends on personality types. Neither me or my boyfriend like arguing, so we always ensure our communication is thorough and respectful and therefore, an argument is never necessary. We communicate extremely well before it gets to “argument”. AS I SAY, we have had two arguments, and as long as both parties are respectful and apologies are given afterwards then that’s fine, but I really don’t believe that frequent arguing is normal. (I once did when I was with the wrong person, but now I’m with my right person it’s genuinely just not an issue 98% of the time) everyone’s different - but I think sometimes it’s ok to say no actually, this isn’t normal, this person isn’t respecting me and is not good at communicating/ is trying to trigger me - either that needs to change, or I need to move on and find someone who does align with me so these arguments can be eliminated. I HOPE THIS MAKES SENSE😅❤
I also will say that if you live with someone, you’ll both have bad days and that’s ok. You can’t be perfect all the time. If one of you snaps, it may be up to the other person to provide space as to not add fuel to the fire and vice versa. A mutual understanding of “we’ve always got each other, this is just a bad day” is super helpful ❤
Make this a series. Love both points of view. Gives more insides.😊
I think this would be a really good series both you and Jed give really good advice ❤
I really enjoyed this thank you❤️
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I loovvveeeeddddd this so much just need more of u too ❤
Ahhhh thankyou so so much! Coming right up hehehe xxx
Imogen you really sound and look like Jordan lipscombe ❤xx
Newish follower! Re watching all you vids and loving them. Would be so up for a run club my goal this year is to ask try a run a 10k x
Omg!!! I do maths when I’m trying to prove I’m not drunk but I am 😂
When are you going to upload another UA-cam video again ❤
I disagree about the liking thing.
As I like things everyday without even looking at what I’m liking. Liking to me it just a habit
Lets not normalise arguing in relationships being normal! Been with my boyfriend 4 years and weve not had one argument, just talk to each other!
Also, liking photos being a bad thing?? Come on girls🙄
Agreed! Been with mine 20 years (since we were 17) and I can count on one hand the rows we've had
Loved this video. Your lamp is giving me OCD 😂😂
My eyes went like this 😌and I went like this👇
awesome video imogen
Love your videos so much!!! 💗
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SERIES PLEASE 😍
Love it xx❤
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me and my boyf have been together 5&1/2 years and been living together for 1 year and still don't argue 💁🏻♀
Same with me and my boyf. We have been together 18months moved in together after 3 months and have never had an argument. We bicker where he doesn’t make the bed if he’s last out or doesn’t take the bin out. But nothing serious. Only reason he moved in was bcuz he was always at mine house anyway. Happiest relationship I’ve ever been in. ❤️❤️
Great video
Love the mug queen ❤❤
Ahhhh ty so muchhhh
Third Imogen and Jed I love your videos and Julie Anastasia Saffron Nasey Family can I get a shoutout I love you Imogen and Jed 💖💖
I love this so funny ❤
Imogen you talk soooo fast! Slow down girl! 😅
Love your videos xx
Loved this defo do more 🤍
Eeeee coming right up! Xxxx
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Imogen needs to hokd a mug all the timr so she dont talk with her hands
14:04😂
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