Absolutely 💯 % correct in this video. One may find themselves trying to apply the things from easy Peasy but it’s not 100% internalized yet they have to keep reading it over and over.
great video man thanks for helping , I've been struggling with this addiction for over one and a half a year, and a thought my last resort(after using the willpower method) was the easy peasy but i slipped and didn't know what to do for like 6 months , I shall read it as many times as possible and get those belifs out of my head . THIS ADDICTION CAN'T BEAT ME!!!
Good video man, very well explained! What you also could've mentioned is the reason people struggle to quit, is because of fear. Fear that they are giving up something, rather than making a life changing positive decision. Once you see there is nothing to fear at all, it makes quitting sooo much easier.
Yeah, I'm having a real problem w/ this brute force method too. Hopefully you can revisit this topic after learning more about it from other people's experiences with it. Personally it doesn't feel like it goes from 100% belief that porn is pleasurable to 60% then 40% then 20% then 15% then 10% then one day it's gonna be close to 0%. I'm sorta doubtful too that there can ever be a 100% once-and-for-all solution to turning readers into never-again, clean-slate people. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think somewhere in the book, the Hackauthor even acknowledges that the neural pathways may not ever go; even if it's easy to starve the little monster, there's little prospect of deconstructing the waterslide itself after it's built. (Perhaps I'm wrong about that though; I also remember him saying that people have lived and died without having known they've suffered and kicked PMO addiction since the pangs are non-existent.) For me, It feels more like it goes down initially from 100% all the way to 1%, but from then on, it oscillates and goes up and down from 2% back to something like 50%, depending on how often you read the book (i.e. brute force method). I wish I wouldn't have to read this book so many times every year, but I know that I'm a forgetful and fickle person. If that's what it takes to be free from the lifelong nightmare of porn, then a few hours every few months won't be so bad. Maybe even spending a couple minutes memorizing the lessons every few days could be helpful. Not too sure about that though. I've been trying to do that but I've still fallen even though I can recite many lessons from the book. Depending on the type of person you are, I think a dedicated afternoon or something like that is needed in order to re-solidify the lessons. For me, perhaps that's just the way it'll have to be.
People live and die without realising they're addicts because the physical withdrawal is so small and it goes very fast. Trust me you can definitely get to 100% disbelief. There are so many addicts from Allen Carrs other addictions who have kicked it forever, Allen Carr himself smoked 60-100 a day and broke down the waterslides easily. I'm an example myself also. If there's some residual belied that pmo gives you value then that's the big brainwashing monster that is still alive that you need to kill. If you don't kill that, yes, that can stay in your mind for years, there are addicts who have quit using thw willpower method who haven'tdrunk alcohol in 14 years who still hold the belief that alcohol gives them value. But if they killed the brainwashing that wouldn't be the case. The little monster dies quick, the big brainwashing monster dies even quicker IF you use easypeasy. If you don't use easypeasy, the big brainwashing monster will persist in your mind indefinitely. I'd advise reading easypeasy and understanding that there's nothing to give up, once you have that mindset your onto a winner. Hope that helps, if you have any other questions feel free to comment
Thinking freely about the book's messages also helps. When you think "porn" and you connect it directly with a life of slavery and unfulfilled dreams, it becomes more obvious. And you accept the truth.
Great video. I’d 100% agree with it being a level of belief issue. That’s something I’m working on at the minute - picking away at the belief system of porn being at all valuable. I love your point on using hypnosis to reset beliefs in one’s mind. I’ve been wondering recently if that is possible and if it would be a method worth looking into perhaps.
I agree with your theory! It's necessary to rewire those inner beliefs, but since they are at subconscious level it takes either repetition, or a short cut, maybe taking a few sentences from the book and having them spoken by a human voice over a theta wave binaural sound, and listening to it with headphones could help. Because I think theta waves brain pattern opens up subconscious gates, especially 6 hz. I'm a musician/producer, so I'm working on these tracks and trying, I'll update this comment in the future if I see progress!
Yeah man, I read it twice a while ago, quit for a full year. Then I relapsed and slowly starting pmoing a ton. Now I've read it like 15 times probably. Going to read it today.
Ok so, do not read the book 20 times, read it once or twice, and really think about what youve read, spend as much time thinking about the message the book gave you as youve spent reading AND THEN if that still doesnt work i guess try "brute forcing" it
The only reasons why I keep slipping is because I keep checking a specific site with my fetishes that took me years to find. So my brain thinks it’s special than other sites. My brain keeps screaming to check for new videos. I also try not to count days but mentally I still automatically keep tracking it. Any tips on overcoming these issues. Thanks
quick answers. You visit these sites because you believe strongly that these sites give you some kind of value whwre the alternative, abstinence from pmo or pmoing using other sites, give you less positive value. You need to question those beliefs using logic, and then consider that you could be happier without it, by considering the positives of not using it. You also need to view yourself as a non addict by debunking addiction as a concept. With regard to counting days, I don't currently see them as a big deal, what's important is the value you see in use, the value you see in abstinence, and how you view yourself as an addcit, which urges happen to. Its too long to explain all this in a comment, the book "the freedom model" talks about this all in depth, read it that will help you.
@@TheOriginalUnoriginal either. I personally find reading better cause its easier to go back and re read certain bits, and I find that I understand better from reading. but I can only speak for myself
I did the final visit the first time I read the book, but afterwards I find that whenever I am reading easypeasy I'm already in the mind-state that the visit won't do anything good for me. So I try reading the book already considering myself done
My last slip was so stupid, I had a moment of revelation, and so on and was happy for like 3-4 months, but I went on too much weed and suddenly became too lonely and too horny. Hated every moment of it and now breaking off of all of the addictions I had, that was the mistake
I suggest reading it once more as consciously as possible if you still find it hard. But watching these videos is you still believing your addicted witch is what the easy method explains is false. It’s all a false illusion. ITS A FALSE ILLUSION
Absolutely 💯 % correct in this video. One may find themselves trying to apply the things from easy Peasy but it’s not 100% internalized yet they have to keep reading it over and over.
sometimes the long way is the short way. when you try to take a short cut it will take longer
great video man thanks for helping , I've been struggling with this addiction for over one and a half a year, and a thought my last resort(after using the willpower method) was the easy peasy but i slipped and didn't know what to do for like 6 months , I shall read it as many times as possible and get those belifs out of my head . THIS ADDICTION CAN'T BEAT ME!!!
Good video man, very well explained! What you also could've mentioned is the reason people struggle to quit, is because of fear. Fear that they are giving up something, rather than making a life changing positive decision. Once you see there is nothing to fear at all, it makes quitting sooo much easier.
Thank you so much, You gave a answer to a problem I have been stucked over a 1 Year.I acknowledge this theory is 100% True
I've made some updates, I'm now recommending the freedom model which i now believe is better than easypeasy
@@Jay-Quit-PMO Okay Jay, I downloaded it from your links. I will give it a try.Thank you ❤️
100% correct. You're doing good work Jay.
I read it loads and the same happened to me, glad this video exists
You're a bloody legend
Yeah, I'm having a real problem w/ this brute force method too. Hopefully you can revisit this topic after learning more about it from other people's experiences with it. Personally it doesn't feel like it goes from 100% belief that porn is pleasurable to 60% then 40% then 20% then 15% then 10% then one day it's gonna be close to 0%. I'm sorta doubtful too that there can ever be a 100% once-and-for-all solution to turning readers into never-again, clean-slate people. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think somewhere in the book, the Hackauthor even acknowledges that the neural pathways may not ever go; even if it's easy to starve the little monster, there's little prospect of deconstructing the waterslide itself after it's built. (Perhaps I'm wrong about that though; I also remember him saying that people have lived and died without having known they've suffered and kicked PMO addiction since the pangs are non-existent.)
For me, It feels more like it goes down initially from 100% all the way to 1%, but from then on, it oscillates and goes up and down from 2% back to something like 50%, depending on how often you read the book (i.e. brute force method). I wish I wouldn't have to read this book so many times every year, but I know that I'm a forgetful and fickle person. If that's what it takes to be free from the lifelong nightmare of porn, then a few hours every few months won't be so bad.
Maybe even spending a couple minutes memorizing the lessons every few days could be helpful. Not too sure about that though. I've been trying to do that but I've still fallen even though I can recite many lessons from the book. Depending on the type of person you are, I think a dedicated afternoon or something like that is needed in order to re-solidify the lessons. For me, perhaps that's just the way it'll have to be.
People live and die without realising they're addicts because the physical withdrawal is so small and it goes very fast. Trust me you can definitely get to 100% disbelief. There are so many addicts from Allen Carrs other addictions who have kicked it forever, Allen Carr himself smoked 60-100 a day and broke down the waterslides easily. I'm an example myself also. If there's some residual belied that pmo gives you value then that's the big brainwashing monster that is still alive that you need to kill. If you don't kill that, yes, that can stay in your mind for years, there are addicts who have quit using thw willpower method who haven'tdrunk alcohol in 14 years who still hold the belief that alcohol gives them value. But if they killed the brainwashing that wouldn't be the case. The little monster dies quick, the big brainwashing monster dies even quicker IF you use easypeasy. If you don't use easypeasy, the big brainwashing monster will persist in your mind indefinitely. I'd advise reading easypeasy and understanding that there's nothing to give up, once you have that mindset your onto a winner. Hope that helps, if you have any other questions feel free to comment
Thinking freely about the book's messages also helps. When you think "porn" and you connect it directly with a life of slavery and unfulfilled dreams, it becomes more obvious. And you accept the truth.
Thanks for your help bro 👍
I fw you heavy 🙏 gobbless
I love this series
appreciate that mate
Great video. I’d 100% agree with it being a level of belief issue. That’s something I’m working on at the minute - picking away at the belief system of porn being at all valuable. I love your point on using hypnosis to reset beliefs in one’s mind. I’ve been wondering recently if that is possible and if it would be a method worth looking into perhaps.
I agree with your theory! It's necessary to rewire those inner beliefs, but since they are at subconscious level it takes either repetition, or a short cut, maybe taking a few sentences from the book and having them spoken by a human voice over a theta wave binaural sound, and listening to it with headphones could help. Because I think theta waves brain pattern opens up subconscious gates, especially 6 hz. I'm a musician/producer, so I'm working on these tracks and trying, I'll update this comment in the future if I see progress!
This is just so good
Completely agree. If you believe that 100% porn is not giving you pleasure, then that is the truth.
THIS IS A REALLY INTERESTING THEORY
You are a GOAT
needs more views ngl
Yeah man, I read it twice a while ago, quit for a full year. Then I relapsed and slowly starting pmoing a ton. Now I've read it like 15 times probably. Going to read it today.
How are you doing now?
Ok so, do not read the book 20 times, read it once or twice, and really think about what youve read, spend as much time thinking about the message the book gave you as youve spent reading AND THEN if that still doesnt work i guess try "brute forcing" it
Agreed
Interesting look into hypnosis or maybe some kind of therapy with magic mushrooms
Also Ayahuasca, Snake venom/bites
@@ayanbhattacharjee1076 yep snake piss and meth fix u right up
I slipped recently, but I'm reading through the book a second time.
Edit: I was probably 50/50 on my belief that porn gave me pleasure.
The only reasons why I keep slipping is because I keep checking a specific site with my fetishes that took me years to find. So my brain thinks it’s special than other sites. My brain keeps screaming to check for new videos. I also try not to count days but mentally I still automatically keep tracking it. Any tips on overcoming these issues. Thanks
quick answers. You visit these sites because you believe strongly that these sites give you some kind of value whwre the alternative, abstinence from pmo or pmoing using other sites, give you less positive value. You need to question those beliefs using logic, and then consider that you could be happier without it, by considering the positives of not using it. You also need to view yourself as a non addict by debunking addiction as a concept. With regard to counting days, I don't currently see them as a big deal, what's important is the value you see in use, the value you see in abstinence, and how you view yourself as an addcit, which urges happen to. Its too long to explain all this in a comment, the book "the freedom model" talks about this all in depth, read it that will help you.
So, just view them as slip-ups, and keep rereading?
Read the freedom model free link in my latest vids description
@@Jay-Quit-PMO I got the audiobook. Do you recommend reading or listening bro
@@TheOriginalUnoriginal either. I personally find reading better cause its easier to go back and re read certain bits, and I find that I understand better from reading. but I can only speak for myself
do you do the final visit when rereading easypeasy?
I did the final visit the first time I read the book, but afterwards I find that whenever I am reading easypeasy I'm already in the mind-state that the visit won't do anything good for me. So I try reading the book already considering myself done
If we are re-reading the book after a relapse do we have to continue using porn until we have finished reading the book again
My last slip was so stupid, I had a moment of revelation, and so on and was happy for like 3-4 months, but I went on too much weed and suddenly became too lonely and too horny. Hated every moment of it and now breaking off of all of the addictions I had, that was the mistake
Ofc I've started rereading the book, but by this time I've pretty much memorized it almost by heart lol
I suggest reading it once more as consciously as possible if you still find it hard. But watching these videos is you still believing your addicted witch is what the easy method explains is false. It’s all a false illusion. ITS A FALSE ILLUSION