Anytime I meet a man, I always introduce my son first even without introducing myself. He comes first so that whoever wants me must accept my baggage as well. So proud of him 😊
Why do some women hide their kids?why lie that your child is your sister?if a man loves you he will accept you and your child,I hope this comment doesn't get deleted.
These are the types of women who mock other ladies who give birth late.They call themselves happy single mothers but they didn't participate in raising the kid,they left it to their mother.They don't have shame,by the time they are 35 they brag around that they have big kids.
Girl child unaficha mtoto wako Kwa nini😂😂😂😂enyewe uyu ni mwongo number moja.never hide your kid no matter what ulipata msee mpoa lakini uongo nayo is on another level😂😂😂
Its very easy to say this when you are not in that situation of finding a good potential man.., yet he shows unwillingness to accept 'additional baggage'... So most ladies decide to be quiet about the issue as they date/test the man..., maybe planning to tell him later.., but soon they get pregnant, get stuck in the situationship, become insecure, etc..., then years go by without the courage to open up on the issue..!!! Lets no judge too harshly.... we are just observers of a 20 min episode... its not an issue to solve by the roadside, amidst heckling, rising emotions, confusion, etc...
Mothers in in-laws have become garbages,i am a living testimony,my friend sahi nikipenda kasichana kamtu,naenda kwa babake direct,hawa wamama ni wapumbavu sana!
No day ill hide my daughter every conversation utasikia tu jewel wangu ..mm naye mtoto siezi ficha juu ya mapenzi .. proud to be a mother of one beautiful daughter ❤
It seems we do live with strangers whom we doesn't know their secrets or their plan ooooh dear love don't continue blindfolding us we're tired sometimes show us we're dealing with the devil 😢
I like your comment,and many women will come in the comment section that a man who is in love will love me with my kids,my in-laws,research has been done on men who take up excessive responsibilities,at old age they end up broke,lonely and dejected in the name of love
Hata own family and relatives watu wajifunze kuwa independent, some relatives n family can also SCAM you big time...Mtu ajipende as an individual ajibuild peke yake until apatane na partner Ako nah akili timamu kama yake and visionary and ni WA kujituma zaidi...
@@DavidAnaswathis is what happened to my bro. Saa ii ndio anajaribu kurudi nyumbani (to embrace family love) cz pande ile ingine alitemwa alipo ishiwa kifedha.
When you accept a single mother in your life accept the baby daddy in your life. As long as he's alive the bond between them will forever be there no matter what the baby daddy did to her or whatever you're doing for her & her child.
Nawapedanga style yao..waweza ishi 40yrs na wao..unadhani unawajua na hujui.. Hata kwao labda si hapo.kwao malindi na hujui.uzuri wao Mtoto Wa mwenzako ni wako tayari
People think men cheat more in the relationship,,,while in reality..,women are serial cheaters and they will even make you raise a kid which is not yours...,venye huyu dem anajifanya yeye n polite ..,wacha tu
But whats so wrong about 'raising a kid thats not yours"..?? The kid is innocent, and if needy, and you love the mother.., why should it pain too much..?? There are many people catering for kids they dint sire.., adopting some, paying school fees, etc.. Lets not be so dramatic and selfish. This seems a very needy family from Likoni. This isnt so much a case of 'women cheating so much'... -but rather sour grapes and jealousy from men Ex's who dont want to ku'achika..., dont want to let go of their former women even when they have moved on...!! Why should this man be still lingering around, bitterly threatening his Ex that much..?? Now see.. messing up a marriage for the lady who may have decided to have a frsh start and bury her past...!!
I think once you know you are serious with a guy, let him know you and tell him the truth coz however much you hide one day it will come to light. And why should you love a man more than your child. Wanawake wanaficha watoto ni waongo hata kwa marriage.
So this man declaring that "naenda ku-report kwa OCS rafiki yangu..." as he walks away... So what exactly will he report as the crime this polite lady has committed ..? -is it having had a child before & not having told him..?? On that the lady 'allegedly' smashed na her jealous bitter Ex as claimed in the txts, bila proof..?? This being the mother of your other child.., whom just a few mins before you had pledged your love for.., What you need is to take some time.., sober up..., think through.., convene a meeting with the offending party, where openness can be guaranteed, talk things out.., listen to them, say your hurts & concerns..., of course under moderation of an independent arbiter.... then decide way forward..!! This may just be the woman God intended for you.., and she may be your only destiny propeller!! Having a baby in the past isnt a gauge for branding and condemning a woman to eternal condemnation! Many single mothers panic at the prospects of rejection by a promising man, when he discovers that they have a child... so some tend withhold such info for later.., then years go by so fast!
But again i must also condemn men/Ex's who.. even after breaking up.., keep popping their bitter/rude heads in the life of the lady who has moved on... If you even had a child together.., why the extreme bitterness and threats to your Ex who may have just found another man??? If it dint work.., let go.... with blessings...!! -achika..!!
Wueh... too shocking for life. Feel sorry for the young soul denied by both parents and living a lie with the grandmother. That's just so reckless I swear.
poor Benta your mom denying you for her happiness,if only she knew you could bring a lot of joy in her life,she would really appreciate you💪💪💪,mama Benta and Banice please embrace your kids,you will still get a man who will appreciate them‼️‼️‼️
No.... its not a good practice..!! He condemns and chocheas someone he barely knows..., or the real dynamics behind their decisions/situations.. -just 20 mins of encounter, and one or two sms's is being too rushy...!! -But huge life-long repercussions...!!
Eeeeeeish Nairobi Ina Mambo 😅 Ladies,,please be honest with yourself,,if you've decided for marriage or relationship be honest to your partner,tell him everything you've been through,, don't allow him get information from other sources,, Imagine loosing your marriage after so many years Of which we call it a total waste of your life Terrorist 😂😂😂😂😂this word cracked my ribs
Wah😮 don't say that sister, God is not a man to be joked with. Using God is small talk may not be a good idea.... remember the ten commandments says You shall not use the name of the lord in vain. God made us & of course he knows us better than we know ourselves. Hope you'll understand my point. May God forgive you for that
Anytime I meet a man ,I always introduce my son first , the men I meet have never committed to this all in all am proud to be a single mother at this time and age.
Kupata mtoto si issue, kuficha mtoto na kusmash when in another relationship ndio makosa. Lakini ukiona dame ako na nyash jua chances zake kuwa cheater ni 99%
The only problem ya huyu dem ni kusmash na huyo ex but kuficha mtoto sometimes it needs energy to reveal to your new man. Unaona hadi dem ako speechless. Sometimes lets try to read in between the lines. As a man i can feel that lady, she even got confused ako. Again the person to blam here is her mother. Thats a wrong parent.
hawa watu hupeana simu na wanajua tu kuna kimbaya wnafanya nini huwa inawasumbua na kuficha watoto nini huwa mbaya na nyinyi...na vile amevaa nguo ya kanisa...weeeeh aki women the earlier u start being honest the better for ur soul
Anytime I meet a man, I always introduce my son first even without introducing myself. He comes first so that whoever wants me must accept my baggage as well. So proud of him 😊
Same to me😅
Likewise,my son comes first😘😘
Due to the fact that we don't want to take other people's baggage,but its always wise to tell a man the number of children you have or if you dont
Same to me
I also talk about my son in everything ndio ajue my son comes first if he will love me he is aware of everything
The prettiest smile hide deepest secrets, the prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and the kindest hearts have felt the most pain.
True
Why do some women hide their kids?why lie that your child is your sister?if a man loves you he will accept you and your child,I hope this comment doesn't get deleted.
These are the types of women who mock other ladies who give birth late.They call themselves happy single mothers but they didn't participate in raising the kid,they left it to their mother.They don't have shame,by the time they are 35 they brag around that they have big kids.
Very sad when that child comes to learn that u denied him or her😢
Never hide your kid to fit into a man's life...
A good mother will never hide her daughters children.
Very true.
My kid is my first priority
Coast mothers do that all the time..... introductions mtapelekwa ninja karibu kumi.....
@@johnyjoe2894 Acha jokes
@@johnyjoe2894 😂😂😂😂yule ako na doh mob dio omuhusband omushidi..
Oh my God!!! it is wrong to think that you are the most clever person on earth!!! Being open is the key.
She really looks innocent, whoever said looks are deceiving was right 😂😂😂😂😂
😅😅😅😅😅waah
Mejja
Eeeh if you don't meet comrades you can't know whom you are staying with 😂😂😂
True
I gree with you 😂
@@MercyIndasi ni kubaya huko inche
Exactly !!kwanza hapo kwa introduction kila ni❤ ngoja ifike mwisho ujue the real person 😂😂😂
Mbona hatukusikia ya bwana. Frm phone yake?
Hiding her own child is a curse,she will never find peace not untill she stops hiding her kids,a man who loves u will love u with ur kids
Very correct
Your partner is never safe untill uve met up with comrade's 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Exactly
Simu ya bwana haikusomwa. Right there hiyo ni bias no.1
Comrades ni wale wale na yeye.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sijui mbona madem mnahide watoto wenu in the name of relationship😢😢,, ambia mtu ukweli niko na mtoto akupende ama akuache period
Ukweli uko mahali kwa hii comment
This single mothers look hot hata uezi jua mtu Akona mtoto wa 8yrs mahali waah..😅
😅😅😅ni kujimaintain
It's only God who knows our partners.
Most are dangerous 😅😅
*God* : Adam! Adam!! where are you ?
Genesis 3 : 9
Huyo apewe trophy,player of the year
Girl child unaficha mtoto wako Kwa nini😂😂😂😂enyewe uyu ni mwongo number moja.never hide your kid no matter what ulipata msee mpoa lakini uongo nayo is on another level😂😂😂
Its very easy to say this when you are not in that situation of finding a good potential man.., yet he shows unwillingness to accept 'additional baggage'... So most ladies decide to be quiet about the issue as they date/test the man..., maybe planning to tell him later.., but soon they get pregnant, get stuck in the situationship, become insecure, etc..., then years go by without the courage to open up on the issue..!!!
Lets no judge too harshly.... we are just observers of a 20 min episode... its not an issue to solve by the roadside, amidst heckling, rising emotions, confusion, etc...
Why must ladies hide their children 😂😂😅😅
NOT all. Personally I lie i have 4 boys mtu asonge akisonga
I'm a single mom of 3 girls and so proud of them because they're my 1st priority. Ukitaka unikubali nao au uniache tu
You're the only mother they know. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Exactly 💯
Exactly
Can I marry you with the kids?
Baba zao wako wapi ?
If someone anaeza ficha damu yake na kuikana that means they can do anything to you.
Be much careful much careful
Comrades remains a key to open doors for marriages
Not for marriage but broken marriage or for divorce
@@user-qf5vn6me7s To those who wants to marry BMS should sanitize them first
Being a mother especially single mother is not a crime just love and care for the innocent soul children's are blessings
Mothers in in-laws have become garbages,i am a living testimony,my friend sahi nikipenda kasichana kamtu,naenda kwa babake direct,hawa wamama ni wapumbavu sana!
No day ill hide my daughter every conversation utasikia tu jewel wangu ..mm naye mtoto siezi ficha juu ya mapenzi .. proud to be a mother of one beautiful daughter ❤
I dont even have a kid but any guy who comes my way in the name of love i usually tell him i have 2 kids nimpime
Njoo tulee afadhali wwe hufichi
You should be proud to be called a father or a mother it's not a crime
It seems we do live with strangers whom we doesn't know their secrets or their plan ooooh dear love don't continue blindfolding us we're tired sometimes show us we're dealing with the devil 😢
I normally introduce myself as mum Fulani,,,my babygirl my everything,heri hata mtu asinipende akie
WE SAID PAYING SCHOOL FEES AS WHO??? BUILDING A HOUSE FOR YOUR INLAWS AS WHO. DONT YOU HAVE YOUR OWN RELATIVES AND FAMILY??
I like your comment,and many women will come in the comment section that a man who is in love will love me with my kids,my in-laws,research has been done on men who take up excessive responsibilities,at old age they end up broke,lonely and dejected in the name of love
You decide to write in capital letters 😅
I ask the same
Hata own family and relatives watu wajifunze kuwa independent, some relatives n family can also SCAM you big time...Mtu ajipende as an individual ajibuild peke yake until apatane na partner Ako nah akili timamu kama yake and visionary and ni WA kujituma zaidi...
@@DavidAnaswathis is what happened to my bro. Saa ii ndio anajaribu kurudi nyumbani (to embrace family love) cz pande ile ingine alitemwa alipo ishiwa kifedha.
Wanapanga kunimaliza baba🎶
Wanapanga kunimaliza baba🎶
"Mamake mkora"truth will always set you free kama uliongea ukweli your mum hangeitwa mkora very shameful 😢
It's very painful mzazi akitukanwa coz of ujinga ya mtoto wake
Never trust a smiling face she looks like an angel kumbe ni saitan
Wanawake na Siri ogopaaa😂😂😂
Siri zetu ni Kali. The reason as to why hamutawahi jua vile tuliongea kwa shamba la Aden tukiwa na shetani
Women should know that talking the truth from the first day is the best thing.
BMS " Ako na cracked screen lakini I have uncracked it" Hehehe
As for me, that's the end of the marriage,, you can never hide your own kid from me
Lakini sasa how can someone hide his or her child like seriously it can't make sense for really
We share same birthday with Benta 😢😢 innocent girl I hope she heals from this drama
Cheers 🥂
Happy birthday
Ladies,we agreed here no more hiding of kids..too bad and shame on you..
I cannot hide my son no matter the circumstances, his mean a world 🌎 to me. I rather be a single mother 😊
Same here. My son my priority ❤
When you accept a single mother in your life accept the baby daddy in your life. As long as he's alive the bond between them will forever be there no matter what the baby daddy did to her or whatever you're doing for her & her child.
Ladies why hide your own blood and flesh??? Shame on you woman 💔💔💔💔💔
Ata Mama ya huyu Dame sio mzuri walicheza our Boychild nema ti gutheke 😔
My heart goes to the child 😢😢😢😢😢 mbona mungu hupatia watoto watu hawadeserve😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Its the 'ako na a cracked screen but I've cracked it...stevo being the pettiest as ever😂😂
Watu wa coast wacha too, the second girl to lie while her mother is involved😢😢😢😢
Nawapedanga style yao..waweza ishi 40yrs na wao..unadhani unawajua na hujui..
Hata kwao labda si hapo.kwao malindi na hujui.uzuri wao Mtoto Wa mwenzako ni wako tayari
True never die,so better to be open b4 the truth ijitetee
People think men cheat more in the relationship,,,while in reality..,women are serial cheaters and they will even make you raise a kid which is not yours...,venye huyu dem anajifanya yeye n polite ..,wacha tu
But whats so wrong about 'raising a kid thats not yours"..?? The kid is innocent, and if needy, and you love the mother.., why should it pain too much..?? There are many people catering for kids they dint sire.., adopting some, paying school fees, etc.. Lets not be so dramatic and selfish. This seems a very needy family from Likoni.
This isnt so much a case of 'women cheating so much'... -but rather sour grapes and jealousy from men Ex's who dont want to ku'achika..., dont want to let go of their former women even when they have moved on...!! Why should this man be still lingering around, bitterly threatening his Ex that much..?? Now see.. messing up a marriage for the lady who may have decided to have a frsh start and bury her past...!!
@@rickopats4950 The man is also innocent as the kid. Why should he raise another man's child unknowingly? Only weak men can agree with you.
Why would a man raise another man's kid whist the biological father is still alive and kicking? Women have perfected deception.
I think once you know you are serious with a guy, let him know you and tell him the truth coz however much you hide one day it will come to light. And why should you love a man more than your child. Wanawake wanaficha watoto ni waongo hata kwa marriage.
Na vile Dem amevaa kama angel kumbe wah
Mother in law na the lady are crooks they are using the guy for financial gain 😢
Crooks... how..?? Isnt he married to her..??
So this man declaring that "naenda ku-report kwa OCS rafiki yangu..." as he walks away... So what exactly will he report as the crime this polite lady has committed ..? -is it having had a child before & not having told him..?? On that the lady 'allegedly' smashed na her jealous bitter Ex as claimed in the txts, bila proof..??
This being the mother of your other child.., whom just a few mins before you had pledged your love for.., What you need is to take some time.., sober up..., think through.., convene a meeting with the offending party, where openness can be guaranteed, talk things out.., listen to them, say your hurts & concerns..., of course under moderation of an independent arbiter.... then decide way forward..!!
This may just be the woman God intended for you.., and she may be your only destiny propeller!! Having a baby in the past isnt a gauge for branding and condemning a woman to eternal condemnation! Many single mothers panic at the prospects of rejection by a promising man, when he discovers that they have a child... so some tend withhold such info for later.., then years go by so fast!
Acquiring money thru pretense😅😅😅😅😅
Simpson is your second name
But again i must also condemn men/Ex's who.. even after breaking up.., keep popping their bitter/rude heads in the life of the lady who has moved on... If you even had a child together.., why the extreme bitterness and threats to your Ex who may have just found another man??? If it dint work.., let go.... with blessings...!! -achika..!!
Wueh... too shocking for life. Feel sorry for the young soul denied by both parents and living a lie with the grandmother. That's just so reckless I swear.
poor Benta your mom denying you for her happiness,if only she knew you could bring a lot of joy in her life,she would really appreciate you💪💪💪,mama Benta and Banice please embrace your kids,you will still get a man who will appreciate them‼️‼️‼️
Don't rush to date single mother find out the truth .tulisema game inaanza zero zero😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Really 😅😢
Hakuna game inaanza dakika ya zero na iko 1:0 lazma ianze zero zero
And you have a daughter plus unmarried sisters😮😅
@@marionhope8960😂😂😂 maybe all his sisters are single mothers
Any child to both partners should be a first priority in any relationship.
Wale watu wa DRESSING CODE! Leo mnasemaje? ONG'ECHEGI
Lks deceive 😢
My kids ndio wa kwanza introduction aki mdem wengine waaaaaaaa 😮
Wah!!! My child comes first....kama huwezi nikubali Na mtoi Wangu,just walk away😅
Exactly, no need of hiding your kid because of a man!
Madem wamepata chance ya kusema "my son/daughter cometh first"
The first priolity my daughter kama hatampenda mtoto wangu anakanyanga kubwakubwa akiendaga na sio tafadhali..period
How can you hide your child surely;juu ya mwanaume
The lady and her mum were scamming the guy!waaah
Napenda vile stevo huwa anachoma😂😂😂
Alafu anajitoa😂😂
No.... its not a good practice..!! He condemns and chocheas someone he barely knows..., or the real dynamics behind their decisions/situations.. -just 20 mins of encounter, and one or two sms's is being too rushy...!! -But huge life-long repercussions...!!
Even though marriages get broken by BMS actions, lessons for the students of life outweigh pains of cons..
Niende na mwizi wapi? Siku 40 zimefika, she will regret big time, maybe if she was honest in the beginning he would have taken her and the kid
I think i need to do this too...Stevoo toka kanairo tembea county zengine pia
Most of the coast ladies hupata watoi wakiwa very young that's why wanaficha watoto
Crazy Kennah has done it again😂😂
Lets welcome a new single mother who belongs to the streets. She just lost a genuine man
Eeeeeeish
Nairobi Ina Mambo 😅
Ladies,,please be honest with yourself,,if you've decided for marriage or relationship be honest to your partner,tell him everything you've been through,, don't allow him get information from other sources,,
Imagine loosing your marriage after so many years
Of which we call it a total waste of your life
Terrorist 😂😂😂😂😂this word cracked my ribs
I will personally buy a new phone and nipeleke my boyfriend kwa stevo intentionally apitie kichungi kwanza
This lady has lost big-time, Likoni well presented
Ata mama mtoi hajui mtoi ni wa lini jeso😂😂😂😂
Stivo where do you stand on FinanceBill 2024. Silence is supporting the oppressors.
Fine gal wakipata wapoa wazuri sijui pepo ya kucheat inatokanga wapi😮😮
Unaongea na Mother inlaw over 30mins looh . Lazima there is something cooking.
Kitu inauma anasomeshea ex mtoto on top bado anakula mtu wake ,what was the need kuficha
Wenye huficha watoy huwa mnataka hao watoy iwe mama yao ni nani surely😢
Comrade please unaongezea chumvi sana kaka already you have broken this marriage
Nkikumbuka hua nandanganya nko na wanne...juu Sina interest.. I will NEVER deny my son,my world ❤
Hata mungu mwenyewe hajui our partners vizuri 😢
Wah😮 don't say that sister, God is not a man to be joked with.
Using God is small talk may not be a good idea.... remember the ten commandments says You shall not use the name of the lord in vain.
God made us & of course he knows us better than we know ourselves.
Hope you'll understand my point.
May God forgive you for that
Anytime I meet a man ,I always introduce my son first , the men I meet have never committed to this all in all am proud to be a single mother at this time and age.
Wasichana msifiche watoto, tell your guy at the earliest opportunity then he decides mapema. Alafu that's a jealous ex, i hope sio Crazy Kennar!😅😅😅
Kusema kweli, mtoto hafichiki, hata kama no miaka ngapi itajulikana tu, kwanza mtoto pia anaeza kuchukia kwa kumficha.... kimemramba 😂😂😂
Kupata mtoto si issue, kuficha mtoto na kusmash when in another relationship ndio makosa. Lakini ukiona dame ako na nyash jua chances zake kuwa cheater ni 99%
Kuna dem hachezi ata mwenye anakaa ngiri
"...No wonder babako aliacha mamako." 😂😂😂😂
Indeed your a toxic African king 😂😂😂 in the whole video u noted that😂😂😂
Eeh kwani kisumu hakuna waschana bro you have learn a lesson in a hard way I don't blame you
If you find a woman to marry, first look for Stevo to dig for her past.
😅😅😅unachoma
Kwani wanaume hawajui mwanamke ashazaa??,
But why would a woman deny having a kid to a man she is expecting to live with?
Uwezi jua
Wanawake wa Pwani sio wa kufanya mke. Ni waswahili.
🙌🙌🙌🙌
Mtoto dio atakuchukia zaidi akijua ulikua unamkana sababu ya mwanamme
Eery me sikwongeleshi stive sual😂
'Ako na cracked screen but at least I have uncracked it.'
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, wanaumme tutakipatapata......na vile kamefaa pure white.. angelic like😂😂😂😂😂, wuuuueeeee!!!
Nko confused, nioleke ama nibaki single coz weeeh,mambo kw grd ni different.
Hizi marange ni zile deadly deadly
Na i ro bi,,huyu anakupea ,pia ananipea,,,,,🎶🎵
This is mother /daughter conspiracy 😢sad
Dada Wa likoni😂😂panda ferry Na usijirushe ndani😂😂😂tafuta Teja mwenzako muongo mpendane.
Hata pengine benta Sio wa Kwanza.......napita tu
Tuache watu wa likoni jamani😅
@@stevewanga957 kama unajua huyu boy si unitafutie nimfute machozi plz🤣🤣
@@Hadijah-ro9lo lete namba nikupe connection faster
@@stevewanga957 🤣🤣🤣nitafute hapa marikiti
The only problem ya huyu dem ni kusmash na huyo ex but kuficha mtoto sometimes it needs energy to reveal to your new man. Unaona hadi dem ako speechless. Sometimes lets try to read in between the lines. As a man i can feel that lady, she even got confused ako. Again the person to blam here is her mother. Thats a wrong parent.
Checking in from united states of Ameruka 😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Me nko nimesota
hawa watu hupeana simu na wanajua tu kuna kimbaya wnafanya nini huwa inawasumbua na kuficha watoto nini huwa mbaya na nyinyi...na vile amevaa nguo ya kanisa...weeeeh aki women the earlier u start being honest the better for ur soul
Hawajuangi kuna anti delete 😊
Zile deleted hawajui zitarudi 😂
This is crazy kennar😂
Brothers, marry young women. They turn 18 every day.