Yeah that's crazy but I really think he had feelings for her and so when she was hanging out with this new guy he felt some type of way so he did what HE THOUGHT she deserved (even tho she clearly didn't know). Very immature and fvcked up😕
Idk why it bothers me so much when a girl complains abt being ghosted by a one night stand. I don't feel like a complete stranger owes you an explanation.
That girl who catfished the dude. If you’re looking for any kind of love on the internet, it’s good to use an app or a site that you can upload pictures on, so that before they even start chatting with you they can see what you look like. It saves you the trouble of having guys ghosting mid conversation, and it makes it more likely for you to meet someone who actually likes you for you.
I’m thinking the second girl was about to get ghosted by the guy she went on the date with not her host 💀 I think he was probably looking for more with her coming to visit and was mad she was on a date. SMH
WTF ? So you wanting to fuck is supposed to lower your value + justify them acting badly when they wanted exactly the same ? Don't you think it's quite sad ? And SLIGHTLY sexist?
When people ghosting others, they are hella immature. Some people have good reasons, but most of the time, nahh. Just say this isn't what I want or what I thought it would be! Give them closure!!
I matched with a girl on tinder. We chatted a few times and she kept disappearing in the middle of a conversation. I got annoyed after the 3rd time and said: hey, if you feel we don't jive, ok, but say so. Ghosting sucks. She was shocked I was so forward and fast forward a year later, we're happily married.
Gush it's SO creepy i would have run as fast as i could. A MAN that i've barely spoke to and never met DEMANDING for me to be constantly on my phone when he talks to me and giving him a 100% of my attention even though, as everybody, i have a lot of things to do ? If he tries to control me at that stage (aka again few conversations without even meeting IRL) what is he going to do when we're dating. Your behaviour is SUCH a huge redflag and the fact that your'e telling it as if you're the victim not even realizing how worrying it is id another redflag...
People may say I was "wrong" for ghosting my best friend but I had confronted this problem several times over the last decade and it always came back to becoming friends again (and it had to be back to friends immediately and trust him 100% for him otherwise I'd never hear the end of his guilting me till I finally took him back) and the hurtful situation would happen again eventually. I felt after this last time he hurt me he didn't deserve a confrontation this time cause it wouldn't do any good, it wasn't getting to his head, and I had enough and I am NOT going through this again. NEVER again. And I've confronted him SEVEN times over the last decade over this. And our life will not be any different. The last two years we barely even saw each other (when we had definite opportunity to do so with the shut down) or did anything with each other and when we did it wasn't big or anything. Just a catch up and that's it. I've outgrown him and changed and he's still the same person he was a decade ago and probably expect the same me of 10 years ago. With that said if another person does this to me of course I'm confronting him as I should. But THIS situation I had to ghost cause if I didn't it wasn't going to stop and he wouldn't realize how much this was taking a mental heartbreaking toll on me every time it happened. He's out of my life. NEVER again.
Why does gen Z shout and repeat themselves so much for emphasis rather then letting the drama come out in the content of the story. Relax please my anxiety
Reality check from a man: 1. If a lady's bits are pungent, we stop the do and give phone excuse. Then ghost. 2. If the bits are a hallway, we refer to 1 above.
I don’t feel sorry for the catfisher at all. I met a really good friend on Omegle of all places years ago, I lied about my name and job (said my job was high security so I couldn’t have social media - to avoid giving out my private socials) but we hit it off, talked for hours and swapped emails. After a few days of consistent talking I told him the deal and why I lied and we continued our friendship for years after that because I told him immediately. You kept it up for years and tried playing the victim for clout and sympathy…no.
The couch dude may have been in the closet. A lot of young men will try to conform to please family, but their desires lie elsewhere. I realize this was humiliating for you, but put yourself in his shoes. I wonder what he's doing now or if she knows what he's doing.
Ima letbyall know guys ghost women because they have issues . Men don't know how to tell you there not interested or to hurt your feelings so the ghost you. It's terrible but true. Just move to the next arianan grande
Juan boy had standards. He was very smart not to hook up w a girl that would have sex the first 20 minutes she met him. She is gorgeous so he is either gay or really struggled so ended up on the couch.
@@annaelle9004 no. It’s just that you really think sexual contact on a first encounter is grounds to be ghosted. You sound like a man. Not calling you one but you sound and think like one
@@jama3997 giving yourself to someone you don't know doesn't really show much respect for yourself. Why would I expect someone to respect me if I don't respect myself. Youth is truly wasted on the young. But then again there are women well in their 30s that haven't learned this lesson. But thanks for giving your insights on the matter.
@@annaelle9004 but how is that not respecting themself, though. A consenting adult doesn’t have respect for themself if they have sex with someone they are attracted to. Doesn’t sound very sound and logical. Thinking from an older standpoint one could argue you don’t have respect for yourself bc you’ve more than likely has sexual contact out of wedlock. One could argue you don’t have respect for yourself bc as woman, presumably in your 30s you know the ins and outs of casual (which means open occasional) sex while speaking down on women for having sex with men they don’t know😂 I feel like you talked about yourself. A lot.
OMG SO LET ME TELL YALL ME AND THIS KID BEEN BEST FRIENDS SINCE I WAS 2 IM 13 HES 16 NOW K HAVNT SEEN EACHOTHER IN 8 YEARS MY GRNADMA HAD HIS DADS NUMBER GAVE IT TO ME SO I TEXT HIS DAD HES LIKE OMG DO U WANT TO TALK TO LETS CALL HIM BLAKE I SAID OFC SO ME AND "BLAKE" TEXT SO THEN WE WERE LIKE WE SHOULDFACE TIME WE DO FOR FOUR HRS ITS 1 AM WE BOTH TIRED WE GO TO BED I TEXT HIM DIDNT ANSWER ME FOR HRS I WAS IDC HE TEXT ME 3 OCLOCK SAYING SORRY JUST WOKE UP IM LIKE OKAY ITS FINE WE PLANED TO HANG OUT THAT WEEKEND CAUSE I WAS ON CHRISTMAS BREAK ABT TO GO BACK HOME FROM NC I SAID HEY TO HIM 3 DAYS BEFORE I LEAVE DOSNT ANSWER ME TEXT HIS DAD SAYING EVERYTHING GOOD"BLAKE" WONT ANSWER ME HIS DAD AINT ANSWER ITS ABT TO BE FEBRUARY AND THEY STILL HAVNT TEXTED ME
How do you ghost somebody in another country are you serious???!!
Omg poor lady in the foreign country! That's crazy!!
Yeah that's crazy but I really think he had feelings for her and so when she was hanging out with this new guy he felt some type of way so he did what HE THOUGHT she deserved (even tho she clearly didn't know). Very immature and fvcked up😕
Right he need his asx cussed out
That's straight sociopathic behavior
Idk why it bothers me so much when a girl complains abt being ghosted by a one night stand. I don't feel like a complete stranger owes you an explanation.
yeah and she was mad about him sleeping on the couch? that was weird.
Snacks at a movie does not equal money ladies! Let's bring up our values Please!
It’s a line from a popular movie theatre skit.
Shit for black people it do. That's a luxury l so . And outside of that it's a funny video line lol
@@shelocsher2396 what movie?
@@brownbeauty4923 what movie?
@@brownbeauty4923 Some black people have standards. Not all of us are that way, Love.
I felt really bad about the taiwanese girl. That man fetishizes Filipinas... I hate that, because I've had people doing the same sh*t with me.
Alot of these is literally God blessing you... getting too involved with the wrong person can destroy your life
I am horrified at ALL of the stories here but ghosting someone in another country is deplorable!
PSA: Don’t ghost people. Just be honest and say you aren’t interested. It’s so much better for the person and doesn’t leave questions unanswered.
U don’t owe anybody nothing. I can ghost if I want. I’ve been ghosted idgaf. Sure it sucks but it’s not a big deal
I prefer being ghosted than waste my time ..
I prefer being told the truth
That girl who catfished the dude. If you’re looking for any kind of love on the internet, it’s good to use an app or a site that you can upload pictures on, so that before they even start chatting with you they can see what you look like. It saves you the trouble of having guys ghosting mid conversation, and it makes it more likely for you to meet someone who actually likes you for you.
I’m thinking the second girl was about to get ghosted by the guy she went on the date with not her host 💀 I think he was probably looking for more with her coming to visit and was mad she was on a date. SMH
Exactly. He thought he was going to hit that and was upset when he realized he was just a friend
Stop sleeping with guys on the first date ladies!!! Do better!!
Exactly! A lot of these don't even qualify as ghosting because there was no relationship there to abandon anyway.
That’s why they’re disrespected. They’re CHEAP!
WTF ? So you wanting to fuck is supposed to lower your value + justify them acting badly when they wanted exactly the same ? Don't you think it's quite sad ? And SLIGHTLY sexist?
That Asian lady is so beautiful she deserves better
😂🤣 the air force story is hilarious. Wow
When people ghosting others, they are hella immature. Some people have good reasons, but most of the time, nahh. Just say this isn't what I want or what I thought it would be! Give them closure!!
I matched with a girl on tinder. We chatted a few times and she kept disappearing in the middle of a conversation. I got annoyed after the 3rd time and said: hey, if you feel we don't jive, ok, but say so. Ghosting sucks. She was shocked I was so forward and fast forward a year later, we're happily married.
Only a year?
@@LifeisaBeautifulting when you know you know.
Gush it's SO creepy i would have run as fast as i could. A MAN that i've barely spoke to and never met DEMANDING for me to be constantly on my phone when he talks to me and giving him a 100% of my attention even though, as everybody, i have a lot of things to do ? If he tries to control me at that stage (aka again few conversations without even meeting IRL) what is he going to do when we're dating.
Your behaviour is SUCH a huge redflag and the fact that your'e telling it as if you're the victim not even realizing how worrying it is id another redflag...
@@capucnechaussonpassion14 you just whined inccoherencies herewith your long name. Seek help.
@@capucnechaussonpassion14 agree. I would immediately block him. Wth
Shit, we've all ghosted and been ghosted but some of these people are CRAZY! 🤣
“go f yaself Joey” 😂😂😂😂😂 i screamed out loud too funny
Jeez gals you need to get good at ghosting too
People may say I was "wrong" for ghosting my best friend but I had confronted this problem several times over the last decade and it always came back to becoming friends again (and it had to be back to friends immediately and trust him 100% for him otherwise I'd never hear the end of his guilting me till I finally took him back) and the hurtful situation would happen again eventually. I felt after this last time he hurt me he didn't deserve a confrontation this time cause it wouldn't do any good, it wasn't getting to his head, and I had enough and I am NOT going through this again. NEVER again. And I've confronted him SEVEN times over the last decade over this.
And our life will not be any different. The last two years we barely even saw each other (when we had definite opportunity to do so with the shut down) or did anything with each other and when we did it wasn't big or anything. Just a catch up and that's it. I've outgrown him and changed and he's still the same person he was a decade ago and probably expect the same me of 10 years ago.
With that said if another person does this to me of course I'm confronting him as I should. But THIS situation I had to ghost cause if I didn't it wasn't going to stop and he wouldn't realize how much this was taking a mental heartbreaking toll on me every time it happened. He's out of my life. NEVER again.
The guy who said he’s not gonna perform for the girl who was horny THUMBS UP! We shouldn’t have sex before marriage! It’s a mortal sin.
I guy unmatched me once as soon as he found out I was Mexican and not Spanish 😂 like he just assumed because I know Spanish I was from Spain ??
It was the opposite for me I got ghosted for being Spanish instead of Mexican😂
A guy I matched with on bumble unmatched me because I wasn’t mix and he didn’t date out of his race
"I lost my virginity outside a church"
*proceeds to sits in front of crucifix*
Wtf 🤔🤔🤔 the Bahamas don’t have hotels??? 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🧏🏽♀️
Yeah but they’re very expensive!
And where was her luggage and stuff
All and any Asian girl is a beautiful girl and he’s lucky u even talk to him she’s gorgeous
Why does gen Z shout and repeat themselves so much for emphasis rather then letting the drama come out in the content of the story. Relax please my anxiety
Reality check from a man:
1. If a lady's bits are pungent, we stop the do and give phone excuse. Then ghost.
2. If the bits are a hallway, we refer to 1 above.
I don’t feel sorry for the catfisher at all. I met a really good friend on Omegle of all places years ago, I lied about my name and job (said my job was high security so I couldn’t have social media - to avoid giving out my private socials) but we hit it off, talked for hours and swapped emails. After a few days of consistent talking I told him the deal and why I lied and we continued our friendship for years after that because I told him immediately. You kept it up for years and tried playing the victim for clout and sympathy…no.
What if the person who ghosted is not responding cuz they're no longer alive?
This video was triggering 😹😹😹I related to every story
I'm here for inspiration.
The proper title of this video should be “how I catfished someone and then got upset with them for being upset with me for catfishing them“
What a terrible - not funny - reaction
The couch dude may have been in the closet. A lot of young men will try to conform to please family, but their desires lie elsewhere. I realize this was humiliating for you, but put yourself in his shoes. I wonder what he's doing now or if she knows what he's doing.
I was thinking that or he probably didn’t even want to do that.
Ima letbyall know guys ghost women because they have issues . Men don't know how to tell you there not interested or to hurt your feelings so the ghost you. It's terrible but true. Just move to the next arianan grande
What apps r good im looking for marriage and locals o won’t talk to no1 out state or working away no
Juan boy had standards. He was very smart not to hook up w a girl that would have sex the first 20 minutes she met him. She is gorgeous so he is either gay or really struggled so ended up on the couch.
You catfished , what did you expect?
Juan KOL jahajajajah he left u
These girls saying idky he ghosted me after giving it up super easy...... 🤦♀️
You thought you ate this didn’t you
@@jama3997 something must've hit you just right, didn't it
@@annaelle9004 no. It’s just that you really think sexual contact on a first encounter is grounds to be ghosted. You sound like a man. Not calling you one but you sound and think like one
@@jama3997 giving yourself to someone you don't know doesn't really show much respect for yourself. Why would I expect someone to respect me if I don't respect myself. Youth is truly wasted on the young. But then again there are women well in their 30s that haven't learned this lesson. But thanks for giving your insights on the matter.
@@annaelle9004 but how is that not respecting themself, though. A consenting adult doesn’t have respect for themself if they have sex with someone they are attracted to. Doesn’t sound very sound and logical. Thinking from an older standpoint one could argue you don’t have respect for yourself bc you’ve more than likely has sexual contact out of wedlock. One could argue you don’t have respect for yourself bc as woman, presumably in your 30s you know the ins and outs of casual (which means open occasional) sex while speaking down on women for having sex with men they don’t know😂 I feel like you talked about yourself. A lot.
Where can I find number 3?
OMG SO LET ME TELL YALL ME AND THIS KID BEEN BEST FRIENDS SINCE I WAS 2 IM 13 HES 16 NOW K HAVNT SEEN EACHOTHER IN 8 YEARS MY GRNADMA HAD HIS DADS NUMBER GAVE IT TO ME SO I TEXT HIS DAD HES LIKE OMG DO U WANT TO TALK TO LETS CALL HIM BLAKE I SAID OFC SO ME AND "BLAKE" TEXT SO THEN WE WERE LIKE WE SHOULDFACE TIME WE DO FOR FOUR HRS ITS 1 AM WE BOTH TIRED WE GO TO BED I TEXT HIM DIDNT ANSWER ME FOR HRS I WAS IDC HE TEXT ME 3 OCLOCK SAYING SORRY JUST WOKE UP IM LIKE OKAY ITS FINE WE PLANED TO HANG OUT THAT WEEKEND CAUSE I WAS ON CHRISTMAS BREAK ABT TO GO BACK HOME FROM NC I SAID HEY TO HIM 3 DAYS BEFORE I LEAVE DOSNT ANSWER ME TEXT HIS DAD SAYING EVERYTHING GOOD"BLAKE" WONT ANSWER ME HIS DAD AINT ANSWER ITS ABT TO BE FEBRUARY AND THEY STILL HAVNT TEXTED ME
Juan got a beautiful white gurl n did that lol