For those people who wrote negative comment about this video..i dont think there is any wrong thing.. I am also a nonworking mother and i know what difficulties i face to manage baby and house..its too difficult to manage everything..everyone knows it.. But when u r working so u have to manage baby house plus your job..so it becomes more difficult as compared to non working mother.. In this video she only tell about benefits of being a working mother not about nonworking mother..
I want to add few things. I was a working woman before delivery. I left my job after delivery, I will also join back but when my doll will turn 3 years then. I feel that initial 3 years in a child's life are very crucial and they need a mother the most. Job u can always join back but these years will not come back again. If u really have financial problem then condition is different but if it's OK then I feel u should spend these initial 2,3 years with your kids. U can do part time job oif someone is there at home to look for or work from home is always the best option if u get. I miss my job life but I am more happy and feel proud to raise my doll the way I wanted, there are so beautiful moments which I have spend with her, so much to love. So I would like to say please live these moments. Money, job,fame, all u can earn again.
Really feeling gud after seeing your comment...i have done the same and its been a year that i have left my job...but aomewhr i keep feeling i shud not have and feel guilty always...i too want to join back once she turns 3.
Hi Mansi. I completely agree with you on few of ur points.My mother too is a working mom.So many things that u shared I relate myself with it.I too was working full time almost 8years before I had my baby.My daughter is 18months old now and I chose to take a break till my daughter is 3yrs old.I was a full time working woman till I conceived .And I dont regret it at all.A stay at home mom also spends a lot of quality time with kids it's absolutely not necessary that only a working mom does that.I truly and totally respect working Mothers infact I many a times feel it's a tough task they do . HATS OFF to them.But spending quality time with ur kid doesn't depend on whether u r working or no.U are in a way demeaning moms who are staying at home for whatever reason be it by (choice or force).Hence I feel u should also rethink on this.Hope u take this in the right spirit. Lastly u r doing a great job and continue doing it.Best wishes to u.
Hats off to all mother's, not just working mom's.. stay at home mom role is not that easy or light as all thinks, they might be cribbing frustrated or whatever but at the end of the day their baby is everything to them.
hi there I am a 23-year-old mother of an 11 months old baby boy ... I got my baby very early in life thanks to my destiny and good fortune but being an ambitious girl I always had a dream to work and have a job. after 1and a 1/2 year I am back to studies and have started preparing for banking jobs ..so guys wish me luck!!
I'm a working mother bt my experience was not good.It is too hard to handle a house & work & we can't even focus on baby's current life & future except financial support.
The all points are good... I have been suffering from postpartum depression.. But when I join my school as I am teacher,it suddenly disappeared... Thanks for these positive points... Feeling me good that I am a working mother...
This is the best topic...really needed for this orthodox society..I was a working women, after birth of my daughter. I am not working, my baby girl has turned 7 months, I will resume my job once she completes one year..though my in laws are supportive, and hubby is super supportive..
Thank u mam for bringing out these points ❤️. As a working mother , me roj apni job ke liye thankful hoti hu and inn sab benefits ko feel krti hu but fir ghar jakr vohi tanne sunne pdte hai pati se ,ki ap krte hi kya ho ,pura din toh mummy sambhalte hai bache ko , baat baat pr achi maa na hone ke liye sunaya jata hai . Mujhe bilkul bhi guilt nhi hai working mother hone ka ,but baar baar taane maar kr guilty feel krwaya jata hai . I agree with your point ki koi maa achi ya buri nhi hoti , jo bhi maa apne bache ko paalne ke liye koshish kr rhi hai , roj kuch naya seekh rhi hai ,vo achi maa hai . 6 months maternity leave me i suffered from post partum depression, and no one including my husband understood my problem. It is my job only ,jiski vjah se aj me theek hu , khush hu and most importantly apne bache ka khush rakh pa rhi hu .
Great video but sometimes children becomes very offensive and feel lonely if they don't see their parents whole day .. Quality time can be achieved by work from home or a simple homemaker too. Bcoz travelling to office n coming back n doing all stuff at home makes you tired.. It totally depends on person to person n baby to baby. I think no small baby wants her mother to stay away from her. Especially in a nuclear family it's very difficult. We cannot rely on daycare. It affects the mental growth of a baby. May be he become very much offensive in nature throughout his life. Majburi me job like financial condition k karan v krna Hota h sometimes. In that case family support is a must so the they can take care of baby. But if there is an option like work from home then we can opt it. I m also planning to do job, Ryt now work from home as my baby is 19 month old only. Once he will be 5 yr then I can go out n work if circumstances will be good at that time.
Very nice video. Brought tears to my eyes. I am also a working mother to a 2 year old girl. I joined office back when she was 6 months old. Since then i have always felt guilty of not spending time with her but now i have learnt that whatever time i have, i have to spend quality time. And the thought of being a role model for her is always in my mind whenever I feel frustrated or feel like quitting my job. That gives me strength to carry on with life and continue my career dreams. Thanks for the video Mansi. 🙂
Hi..nice video, very motivating for mothers thinking to resume with the career. Can you also suggest what are the options if we want to "work from home" as I have to manage all alone, ofcourse husband will support me but no one else.
Felt really proud of myself today after this video! Thank u guys for this one. One benefit which i feel of being a working mom is the kid has started staying and feeling comfortable with other family member and is not stuck just to mom or dad particularly. He has started to adjust the surrounding instantly. And i feel proud of taking him to a toy shop and letting him choose his toy and pay myself.
Thanks mansi...... My baby is 20 months..... Now i m joining job from next month.... I was feeling very guilty.....thanks for ur dis video.... It help me to motivate me..... I cant explain u how much it motivated me...... Love u lot mansi..... Plz do video of financial saving for baby....
Yes Mansiji.. I am a working mom.. I can relate to it so much.. my baby will be of 2 years this month. I joined my work when he was 6 months old. Still my dilemma is there.. now also I sometime want to leave my job and dedicate my all time to my baby. but I know the reality. Practically nothing is easy whether u r a working mom or stay at home mom. Stay at home mom also have to do lots of work and cannot give give all her time to her baby. We all r overburdened & r dying to get some me time..also worried for ur baby's all round growth. Dilemma is always there what will be best for my baby. So now a days I try to give as much quality time I can give to our baby.. and rest leave it to god. I think giving too much time to a baby will make him or her dependent. We must try to be satisfied first with whatever we r doing. A happy and relax mom is d best because than only baby will be grown up as a happy and relax person and will enjoy his mother's company.
I m also working woman .. sometime we bored our life..gar PE bhi Kam or bahar bhi Kam..Lekin work karne ka Maja he vo alag hi hota he..we feel freedom..bacche hote he tab taklif Hoti he Lekin bacche jab thode bade ho jate he tab no problem and also lot of benefits being a working woman..
Mansi ji your situation of working from home seems ideal becoz you are always around Kabir.👍 In my opinion both parents should share household and/or kid(s) responsibilities if both of'em are working otherwise it would be unwise and like doing overtime for woman to look after kid(s), her house, her office, her husband and obviously herself. If she is working to support and not solely for her passion then husband MUST share responsibilities. point# 1 parents become role model based on their behaviour with the child and not by being a working parent. A mother can stay at home and even then can inculcate gender equality in her kids mind by showing them practical example of their father helping their mother in household chores and on contrary a working mother can feed gender inequality in her kids' minds by complaining about office politics at home and how her promotion was withheld and a male peer was promoted.
Hi mansi I'm Shraddha I'm a teacher I'm working since baby was old months old Mansi I'm unable to take care of my health as I have morning 8.30- 4pm school due to this I have a weight loss, hair fall etc I have watched many UA-cam videos but unable to overcome my problem please do a video regarding how to take care themselves as ur a working mom
Each of the points mentioned are perfect and I totally relate to the last point .. I'm not a working mother my son is 2 yrs 7 months...the issue is v r a family of 3 so there is nobody to look after my baby..would love to start working soon...
Hey Mansi, first of all thanku for making video on this topic, it really means a lot because i am also a working woman and all lady out there deserve huge respect. As you asked more points according to me working woman earns self respect which is very important, and she is a independent woman, she can buy anything for her baby, she doesn't need to compromise or she doesn't need to be depend on husband's money, every mother wants to do best for her child. Salute to all mother and respect.
Whatever benefits you listed about working mother are great I appreciate it.. but the only mistake you did in this video is that you didn't stick to your topic. Your topic wasn't 'stay at home mom (vs) working mom's' your topic was only about benefits of working mom.. you shouldn't have compared a working mom with a stay at home mom. This is the reason why people are leaving negative comments on this video.. being your well-wisher I thought I must tell this to you.. stick to the topic and never compare or judge a great person on planet called MOM
101% true! My mom n my mil both are working till date... Currently I am enjoying being stay at home mom to be phase... In future i will be a working doctor mother 😊
@@MomComIndia go n once watch ur videos.. then say this repeated lines to us,which you have commented in every rply.. you were right about working moms but not for the non working mothers.. go and watch
The name of video is benefit of working mother obviously points will be related to that if you don't feel like video's on non working will be also available
@@vinitadiwan6422 ohky,,,video is about benefits of working mom than why she is comparing with homestay mom.. i dont think this is homestaymom v/s working mom...
I agree with you Mansi completely. Another advantage of working mom, what I feel is, after some years when babies grow up in their teens they are not at all dependent on their mothers and the create their own world on the other hand mom who's world consists of only their children are left alone and this disparity creates loneliness in mom's life .. but if she is working chances are she will not succumb to this loneliness at a later age when joining or rejoining a job is impossible..
Oh you just made my day. My daughter is 9 months old and I resumed work post 6 months of leave. Since then each day I feel guilty of not getting to spend time with her and miss watching her milestones and contemplate about whether to continue working or leave the job. But having been on maternity leave I know the other side too where one gets bored staying at home and having worked for so many years you really can't sit at home. But yes at the same time managing work, home, our own health sometimes gets really overwhelming. Especially when you get only that one hour with your kid daily you leave everything and spend that time with your baby as you so rightly said.
Hi Mansi i am myself a working mom. I hv a 2 month old baby princess.. Been following ur videos since before my baby was born.. I hv genuinely got a lot of help n insights about even the most little issues related to a new born or a new mom which normally ppl dnt bother about much.. Absolutely love all ur videos.. Especially loved the most recent video i watched u did with Saurabh about the role of a husband.. U both r doing good work.. Keep going.. All the best wishes.. :)
It's a great video for many working women but still I disagree with your 'quality of time' point. I quit my job to take care of my kid as many mom's did and we don't waste our time just for house hold works as you said, we try to make entire day as a quality of time with our baby. Thanks alot for your videos because it helps me alot as I don't have anyone to help me except my hubby.
Well mansi.just loved this video..Maine apka is topic pe dusra video dekha tha..wo b bahut inspiring tha.but i left my job for my baby coz main trust ni kar pa rahi thi...kisi pe..so i started my own business and now work at home and baby ko b dekh leti hu.mansi aap parenting seminar karo.apka way of explanation bahut acha h.
Working mom are more stressed coz they leave their baby at day care or with someone else, whole day they think about their babies usne khaana khaya hga, koi uska khyaal thikse rakh raha hga ,etc. I’m sharing this experience coz i was working and i have gone through this and than I decided to work from home job and my life is happy now. I can earn and take care of my baby too.
Hello, am mom of six months old baby, i need to join back to my work agn in d nxt week. as u said i was worried and guilty abt it. ur words clear my mind, nw feeling free. perfect video at perfect time. thnk u soo much.
thanks mansi di to make such a vdo...salute to all working moms...i dont hv in laws n dont get any help from mothers side. till date i feel fearful to join job again....so i am with my 1 yr 9 mnth daughter all the time... depression was there with my life just when my husband went ofc n i used to b with the baby...i hv tried freelance option which dint work, i felt my daughter is getting ignored... now from this mnth i m providing just one pvt tuition right after husbnd returns n recently i hv taken admisn in b.ed ... once a wk on sundays i attend classes n i hv to stay out of home for 10 hrs ... bt i feel content now... Moms who r in my situation, i would suggest to increase own skills. So that u never feel urself underestimated
Hi Mansi...loved ur video....even I was a working lady before I delivered my baby....but I left my government job to take care of my baby...now as being a mother at home...I feel depressed often and get angry on small things... My baby girl is now 19 mths old...and I want to start working once again when she is 3 yrs old... Thanks soooooo much 🥰 🥰🥰🥰 for this inspiration video...
Hi Manasi..Salute to you as well..Very well explained the benefits of working women. This video really brings smile and satisfaction to each working women.
Mansi It's a really feel good video. It must have helped many working mothers. When I got married (love marriage) a very jealous relative from my in-laws side kept on asking me when will I leave my govt job ( working as senior officer since last 11 years) and how will I manage after baby. Being reticent at most times and being just married that too love marriage I never tried to reply her back. However I told my mom in law who is a very good lady and she said she will help me in every possible way and there is no need for me to think negative. Her daughter is not working and she is so very jealous of me see me grow, earn etc. Now after I gave birth to my baby I sometimes felt homesick and thought of leaving my job someday in future but after watching your feel good video it worked as a short therapy for me and now I have enough points to shut her mouth whenever she restarts her verbal diarrhoea. Thanks..
I also have same situation ..now I'm on leave but I feel very stressed wen I thinking to join office. Because my baby will live with her grandmother in another city.
It's such a refreshing change to listen to the pros of being a working mom. Most of the videos or podcasts or articles talk about the challenges of being a working mom but it was such a relief to listen to the benefits. I would request if you could ponder and do a video on being single parent. It might be difficult since *touchwood u have a wholesome family. But these days more and more parents are either getting separated or getting widowed so it would be helpful for them. Thanks a Lot You are my Favourite Xoxo
i really totaly agree wid u ... i m also a working mother bt from last 6th month i m not working... to spend time with my baby the each and every point u said all that happens with me bcoz of not working from some days i used get depressed i cnt express only.. bt all u said is so true..i liked ur video very much
Aapki maa always sath me rhti hai Kabir k care liye isliye aapk liye easy hai Verna dono working hone pe ladai hoti h jissse bache pe bht bura asar hota hai
Ladai working hone se nhi hoti, Agar aisa hota to not working mother and working father ke bitch to kavi ladai nhi honi chahiye...... It's about understanding...... If the couple is understanding respect each other then both situation can be handled.....
Well ..I m a working mother ..bt everything has got advantage n disadvantages... Don't set trends for women it's dere wish to do whatever Dey want ..a non working mother gave dere whole life to dere children only Dey deserves respect also ..n children r also hpy to be around dere mother n could nt imagine dere life widout dem...plz jst repect every mother ..my mom is non working bt m still proud of her..
Ise dekhne k bad proud feel ho rha h... m also a working mother.. bt iski wjh s mai hmesha tension me rhti hu.. bt aaj benefits pta chl gye... thank u so much... 😊
Tha last point...is very very true... I recently join my office after two year of my delivery. Feeling good after watching video. The points u discussed are very very practical. Thanku manci
Hey mansi di... Mai bi ek ca hu a working mother.. N facing a lot..besides all dis work load I have to handle pressure of living in a joint family.. Bt i have my hudbands support mera baby 23 month ka boy h.. N I mean proud to be working mom... Thanks a lot for such valuable n motivational video..
You guys always bring unique content. My parents were working parents, and we taught so many things and discipline. Now I’m a mother of 13 months girl and about to start my work. But it really motivates me as well give me a thinking of self care.
You r right manasi.... I am also a working women,..... Working women honese bacha jaldi methuer ho jata hai.... Our bacha apne mom per proud fill karata hai
U knw mansi i nw a days i ws thinking to quiet my job bcoz i m not giving proper time to my 2 yrs old baby.. after delivery i started working form 5th month i ws so guilty like as u said in video...bt u have done grt job by motivating such working moms like me .. thank u so much god bless u
You always explain everything very nicely. You have a lot of experience on every topic you make.. very helpful and motivating video for Working mothers. Good job👍
Thank you Mansi di and Sourav da for all the inspiring videos. I was undergoing depression and had almost given up when I suddenly received your helping hands when noone was there to be by my side. I really can't express in words what you mean to me. I wish you all the success in your life. Love you really from the deep core of my heart.
Good one. Gives a boost to all the working women out there.... But as someone already said I too do not agree with quality time point. Quality time doesn't depend on the length of it. Please do not demean the stay at home moms for all the time they dedicate to their child.
Hi Mansi.. this video was just at the moment when i was about to put down my papers to take care of my 9 month old.. i m glad i watched this.. i got emotional seeing the video.. u hav put my feelings into exact words.. even my mom is works 9 to 7.. so I can understand.. tysm.. u r doing a fantastic job..
Wah Medam superb It's really genuine thought for working woman You are very mature and perfect woman You are very easily fill our working woman problemes feelings So salute too
Agr mom ghar pr hi rehti h tu bacha hmesa hi Mom ko aapne pas chahta h .agr kisi Kam se Mather ghar se bahr jati h tu ose bache ko sath hi lejana padta .kyu k bacha or kisi ke pas rehna sikhta hi nahi h .
In my case, thats not right... my baby has no objection to stay with her father in my absence... she has stayed with dadi n all also for long 6-7 hrs ... how that person is keeping the baby also matters
Bahot acha topic hain..really super.. Ek video hum home maker k liye v banao manshi...papa jab bahar hain mama ko v bohot paresani hoti hain..so plz yea v difficult hain.aap ne jo last point bola wo sahi hain.after a long day bohot paresani hoti hain..gussa to bahot ata hain...aap bilkul sahi ho...partner k saath v prblm hota hain.koi ek solution v do mansi...plz
Oh Mansi you are amazing! I joined job again last week, after 2 years of break, my baby stays at daycare I feel confuse many times whether I am doing right or wrong. But this video has given my such a positive boost. Love you mansi love your spirit of spreading so much motivation. Thanks a lot 🙏💕
Mansi, you are inspiration for me. You make me confident to resume my office after 3 months by sharing your beautiful and positive thoughts about working mom. Hats off to you.
Just loved d video Mansi... U have covered mostly all d benefits of a working mom... A working mom plans her entire day In a productive way.. coz she doesn't have tym to really waste on petty issues... Dats y she z active nd happy... N d same she reciprocates to her kid n her partner
Thank you mansi.. your all videos have been very helpful in this amazing journey of motherhood. Thank you. If possible can you people share your views /ideas for financial planning for baby's future?
Mansi that's very nice to see such stuff in ur channel. I never comment in any video but trust me after seeing this I can't resist myself to do so. More power n success to you!
Hello Mansiji, I really got emotional after watching this video. I am a working mother and was always feeling guilty to leave my baby. But now I know whatever I am doing is for the wellbeing of my family only. Than you so much for this video and boosting my confidence.
Hi.mansi..ur video is really inspiring.. I like the way u portrait the benefits of working mother.. Even I have the same thinking especially about both partners working and grooming their child accordingly as kids learn from actions n not words.. Thank you dear for lovely video.. Keep sharing more stuff like this🙏👍
Totally i agree me bhi job karti thi but abhi brek liye h bhut jald wapad working ho jaungi i noticed ki apko bhut kuch bolna h mbahot feelings h apke ander is topic k liye bhut kuch kehna chate ho but limited timing h apke pass but i feel ki ap jhud proud ho or hame bhi proud krwana chahte ho overall very nice topic☺️
One major benefit is also the respect a working mother has towards her in laws, parents or other family members as they let the mother feel stressfree regarding their baby when at work. However there is an act called 'Maternity benefit act' which needs to be stressed upon on all organisations.
Mam, very good info , me too working mother, my son is 9 month old now, but really i m feeling proud to b like this, sab hamare relatives tarif karate hai k me sab manage karake office b jati hu,
I also think one more advantage of being a working mother is sending kid to daycare/montessori.. initially you feel guilty of separation but when you see good changes in your kid because he/she learns new things and is not clingy to parents and likes to mingle around it feels good
Thank you so much....I really need this... because sometime we as working mother suffered a lot of things...I was very upset now a days..cause there is my 1.5 yr old and I can't give her proper time.. thanks for this nice video.. really appreciating..😊
Loved this video..even I m proud working mom of an proud independent 3 year old girl..only after I started working I could see a lot more positive changes in me n my daughter as well..I totally agree with all the points u mentioned.. Working environment will also teach us how to build a positive personality in our child..my. At 3 years age my daughter can defend herself with confidence infront of others when she is right..it's not always she expect me to take her side even when I am at home..we both share our updates in the evening..this helps me to correct her behavior, encourage her to do good things n appreciate her to good things done..she does her things on her on like going bro washroom, changing her dress n putting it in laundry basket, putting used plates in wash basin, putting her lunch box in her bag n lot more things..
For those people who wrote negative comment about this video..i dont think there is any wrong thing..
I am also a nonworking mother and i know what difficulties i face to manage baby and house..its too difficult to manage everything..everyone knows it..
But when u r working so u have to manage baby house plus your job..so it becomes more difficult as compared to non working mother..
In this video she only tell about benefits of being a working mother not about nonworking mother..
I want to add few things. I was a working woman before delivery. I left my job after delivery, I will also join back but when my doll will turn 3 years then. I feel that initial 3 years in a child's life are very crucial and they need a mother the most. Job u can always join back but these years will not come back again. If u really have financial problem then condition is different but if it's OK then I feel u should spend these initial 2,3 years with your kids. U can do part time job oif someone is there at home to look for or work from home is always the best option if u get.
I miss my job life but I am more happy and feel proud to raise my doll the way I wanted, there are so beautiful moments which I have spend with her, so much to love. So I would like to say please live these moments. Money, job,fame, all u can earn again.
Esmrita Singh u are absolutely right.
Really feeling gud after seeing your comment...i have done the same and its been a year that i have left my job...but aomewhr i keep feeling i shud not have and feel guilty always...i too want to join back once she turns 3.
My baby just turned 6 months. I too want to quit and spend time with her but they say its not easy to get a job after a break. I am in very confused
Hi Mansi. I completely agree with you on few of ur points.My mother too is a working mom.So many things that u shared I relate myself with it.I too was working full time almost 8years before I had my baby.My daughter is 18months old now and I chose to take a break till my daughter is 3yrs old.I was a full time working woman till I conceived .And I dont regret it at all.A stay at home mom also spends a lot of quality time with kids it's absolutely not necessary that only a working mom does that.I truly and totally respect working Mothers infact I many a times feel it's a tough task they do . HATS OFF to them.But spending quality time with ur kid doesn't depend on whether u r working or no.U are in a way demeaning moms who are staying at home for whatever reason be it by (choice or force).Hence I feel u should also rethink on this.Hope u take this in the right spirit. Lastly u r doing a great job and continue doing it.Best wishes to u.
Aptly said. Quality time doesn't depend on length of it.
Aptly said. Quality time doesn't depend on the length of it....
Hats off to all mother's, not just working mom's.. stay at home mom role is not that easy or light as all thinks, they might be cribbing frustrated or whatever but at the end of the day their baby is everything to them.
hi there I am a 23-year-old mother of an 11 months old baby boy ... I got my baby very early in life thanks to my destiny and good fortune but being an ambitious girl I always had a dream to work and have a job. after 1and a 1/2 year I am back to studies and have started preparing for banking jobs ..so guys wish me luck!!
Hi aditi ....me kud 25 yr ki hu or mere 2 yt ka baby hai..ap kud se preparations kr rhe ho ya coaching le rhe ho
Same here dear
khud se prepare kri hu for
I'm a working mother bt my experience was not good.It is too hard to handle a house & work & we can't even focus on baby's current life & future except financial support.
For me every mother irrespective of working,non working ,single mother etc deserve a great round of applause...
The all points are good... I have been suffering from postpartum depression.. But when I join my school as I am teacher,it suddenly disappeared... Thanks for these positive points... Feeling me good that I am a working mother...
This is the best topic...really needed for this orthodox society..I was a working women, after birth of my daughter. I am not working, my baby girl has turned 7 months, I will resume my job once she completes one year..though my in laws are supportive, and hubby is super supportive..
Thank u mam for bringing out these points ❤️. As a working mother , me roj apni job ke liye thankful hoti hu and inn sab benefits ko feel krti hu but fir ghar jakr vohi tanne sunne pdte hai pati se ,ki ap krte hi kya ho ,pura din toh mummy sambhalte hai bache ko , baat baat pr achi maa na hone ke liye sunaya jata hai . Mujhe bilkul bhi guilt nhi hai working mother hone ka ,but baar baar taane maar kr guilty feel krwaya jata hai . I agree with your point ki koi maa achi ya buri nhi hoti , jo bhi maa apne bache ko paalne ke liye koshish kr rhi hai , roj kuch naya seekh rhi hai ,vo achi maa hai . 6 months maternity leave me i suffered from post partum depression, and no one including my husband understood my problem. It is my job only ,jiski vjah se aj me theek hu , khush hu and most importantly apne bache ka khush rakh pa rhi hu .
Hi this is ankita here, one of the major benefit is as a women u gain confidence alot and u became the inspiration for others
Who covers such topic....I totally admire this channel
Great video but sometimes children becomes very offensive and feel lonely if they don't see their parents whole day .. Quality time can be achieved by work from home or a simple homemaker too. Bcoz travelling to office n coming back n doing all stuff at home makes you tired.. It totally depends on person to person n baby to baby. I think no small baby wants her mother to stay away from her. Especially in a nuclear family it's very difficult. We cannot rely on daycare. It affects the mental growth of a baby. May be he become very much offensive in nature throughout his life. Majburi me job like financial condition k karan v krna Hota h sometimes. In that case family support is a must so the they can take care of baby.
But if there is an option like work from home then we can opt it. I m also planning to do job, Ryt now work from home as my baby is 19 month old only. Once he will be 5 yr then I can go out n work if circumstances will be good at that time.
Very nice video. Brought tears to my eyes. I am also a working mother to a 2 year old girl. I joined office back when she was 6 months old. Since then i have always felt guilty of not spending time with her but now i have learnt that whatever time i have, i have to spend quality time. And the thought of being a role model for her is always in my mind whenever I feel frustrated or feel like quitting my job. That gives me strength to carry on with life and continue my career dreams. Thanks for the video Mansi. 🙂
Hi..nice video, very motivating for mothers thinking to resume with the career. Can you also suggest what are the options if we want to "work from home" as I have to manage all alone, ofcourse husband will support me but no one else.
Felt really proud of myself today after this video! Thank u guys for this one. One benefit which i feel of being a working mom is the kid has started staying and feeling comfortable with other family member and is not stuck just to mom or dad particularly. He has started to adjust the surrounding instantly.
And i feel proud of taking him to a toy shop and letting him choose his toy and pay myself.
Thank you so much....mujhe iss video ki jarurat thi.....
Thanks mansi...... My baby is 20 months..... Now i m joining job from next month.... I was feeling very guilty.....thanks for ur dis video.... It help me to motivate me..... I cant explain u how much it motivated me...... Love u lot mansi..... Plz do video of financial saving for baby....
Yes Mansiji.. I am a working mom.. I can relate to it so much.. my baby will be of 2 years this month. I joined my work when he was 6 months old. Still my dilemma is there.. now also I sometime want to leave my job and dedicate my all time to my baby. but I know the reality. Practically nothing is easy whether u r a working mom or stay at home mom. Stay at home mom also have to do lots of work and cannot give give all her time to her baby. We all r overburdened & r dying to get some me time..also worried for ur baby's all round growth. Dilemma is always there what will be best for my baby. So now a days I try to give as much quality time I can give to our baby.. and rest leave it to god. I think giving too much time to a baby will make him or her dependent. We must try to be satisfied first with whatever we r doing. A happy and relax mom is d best because than only baby will be grown up as a happy and relax person and will enjoy his mother's company.
I m also working woman .. sometime we bored our life..gar PE bhi Kam or bahar bhi Kam..Lekin work karne ka Maja he vo alag hi hota he..we feel freedom..bacche hote he tab taklif Hoti he Lekin bacche jab thode bade ho jate he tab no problem and also lot of benefits being a working woman..
Mansi ji your situation of working from home seems ideal becoz you are always around Kabir.👍
In my opinion both parents should share household and/or kid(s) responsibilities if both of'em are working otherwise it would be unwise and like doing overtime for woman to look after kid(s), her house, her office, her husband and obviously herself. If she is working to support and not solely for her passion then husband MUST share responsibilities.
point# 1 parents become role model based on their behaviour with the child and not by being a working parent. A mother can stay at home and even then can inculcate gender equality in her kids mind by showing them practical example of their father helping their mother in household chores and on contrary a working mother can feed gender inequality in her kids' minds by complaining about office politics at home and how her promotion was withheld and a male peer was promoted.
Hi mansi I'm Shraddha I'm a teacher I'm working since baby was old months old Mansi I'm unable to take care of my health as I have morning 8.30- 4pm school due to this I have a weight loss, hair fall etc I have watched many UA-cam videos but unable to overcome my problem please do a video regarding how to take care themselves as ur a working mom
Each of the points mentioned are perfect and I totally relate to the last point .. I'm not a working mother my son is 2 yrs 7 months...the issue is v r a family of 3 so there is nobody to look after my baby..would love to start working soon...
Mera v yahi haal h.
Hey Mansi, first of all thanku for making video on this topic, it really means a lot because i am also a working woman and all lady out there deserve huge respect. As you asked more points according to me working woman earns self respect which is very important, and she is a independent woman, she can buy anything for her baby, she doesn't need to compromise or she doesn't need to be depend on husband's money, every mother wants to do best for her child. Salute to all mother and respect.
Whatever benefits you listed about working mother are great I appreciate it.. but the only mistake you did in this video is that you didn't stick to your topic. Your topic wasn't 'stay at home mom (vs) working mom's' your topic was only about benefits of working mom.. you shouldn't have compared a working mom with a stay at home mom. This is the reason why people are leaving negative comments on this video.. being your well-wisher I thought I must tell this to you.. stick to the topic and never compare or judge a great person on planet called MOM
There is no comparison between a working and a non-working mother in this video
@@MomComIndiamight be unintentionally but there was Manasi
Work from home ka idea dijiye mam
101% true! My mom n my mil both are working till date... Currently I am enjoying being stay at home mom to be phase... In future i will be a working doctor mother 😊
Bilkul sahi baat bataya apne mam.ye vedio se bahut kuch dekhne mila he sach me thankyou
Plzz dont judge a mom .. sincere request
(Yes mom is mom )chahe wo working ho ya non working...
Giving respect to working mothers do not take away the respect from the non-working ones, you have not got the message from the video
@@MomComIndia go n once watch ur videos.. then say this repeated lines to us,which you have commented in every rply.. you were right about working moms but not for the non working mothers.. go and watch
The name of video is benefit of working mother obviously points will be related to that if you don't feel like video's on non working will be also available
@@vinitadiwan6422 ohky,,,video is about benefits of working mom than why she is comparing with homestay mom.. i dont think this is homestaymom v/s working mom...
I agree with you Mansi completely. Another advantage of working mom, what I feel is, after some years when babies grow up in their teens they are not at all dependent on their mothers and the create their own world on the other hand mom who's world consists of only their children are left alone and this disparity creates loneliness in mom's life .. but if she is working chances are she will not succumb to this loneliness at a later age when joining or rejoining a job is impossible..
Oh you just made my day. My daughter is 9 months old and I resumed work post 6 months of leave. Since then each day I feel guilty of not getting to spend time with her and miss watching her milestones and contemplate about whether to continue working or leave the job. But having been on maternity leave I know the other side too where one gets bored staying at home and having worked for so many years you really can't sit at home. But yes at the same time managing work, home, our own health sometimes gets really overwhelming. Especially when you get only that one hour with your kid daily you leave everything and spend that time with your baby as you so rightly said.
Hi Mansi i am myself a working mom. I hv a 2 month old baby princess.. Been following ur videos since before my baby was born.. I hv genuinely got a lot of help n insights about even the most little issues related to a new born or a new mom which normally ppl dnt bother about much.. Absolutely love all ur videos.. Especially loved the most recent video i watched u did with Saurabh about the role of a husband.. U both r doing good work.. Keep going.. All the best wishes.. :)
It's a great video for many working women but still I disagree with your 'quality of time' point. I quit my job to take care of my kid as many mom's did and we don't waste our time just for house hold works as you said, we try to make entire day as a quality of time with our baby. Thanks alot for your videos because it helps me alot as I don't have anyone to help me except my hubby.
Well mansi.just loved this video..Maine apka is topic pe dusra video dekha tha..wo b bahut inspiring tha.but i left my job for my baby coz main trust ni kar pa rahi thi...kisi pe..so i started my own business and now work at home and baby ko b dekh leti hu.mansi aap parenting seminar karo.apka way of explanation bahut acha h.
Which type of business u r running?
@@loveyourself8958 running Parlour at home and tiffin service..
Working mom are more stressed coz they leave their baby at day care or with someone else, whole day they think about their babies usne khaana khaya hga, koi uska khyaal thikse rakh raha hga ,etc. I’m sharing this experience coz i was working and i have gone through this and than I decided to work from home job and my life is happy now. I can earn and take care of my baby too.
bache ko cerelac dena sahi h ya galt
Hi deesha Singh pls tell me which type of work u r doing I am also looking for work from home bcz of my baby is only 2 years
Yes deesha plzz tell me about the work from home job which you are doing ... I am also looking for the same... My baby has turned 2 years old now
Hello, am mom of six months old baby, i need to join back to my work agn in d nxt week. as u said i was worried and guilty abt it. ur words clear my mind, nw feeling free. perfect video at perfect time. thnk u soo much.
thanks mansi di to make such a vdo...salute to all working moms...i dont hv in laws n dont get any help from mothers side. till date i feel fearful to join job again....so i am with my 1 yr 9 mnth daughter all the time... depression was there with my life just when my husband went ofc n i used to b with the baby...i hv tried freelance option which dint work, i felt my daughter is getting ignored... now from this mnth i m providing just one pvt tuition right after husbnd returns n recently i hv taken admisn in b.ed ... once a wk on sundays i attend classes n i hv to stay out of home for 10 hrs ... bt i feel content now... Moms who r in my situation, i would suggest to increase own skills. So that u never feel urself underestimated
Superb ... thanks dear :)
Hi Mansi...loved ur video....even I was a working lady before I delivered my baby....but I left my government job to take care of my baby...now as being a mother at home...I feel depressed often and get angry on small things...
My baby girl is now 19 mths old...and I want to start working once again when she is 3 yrs old...
Thanks soooooo much 🥰 🥰🥰🥰 for this inspiration video...
U left a govt job😌
Nice video mam...mam aapne kabir k liye savings k kya plan liye hain us pr b video bnaiye
Most awaited video. 👍 i am also in WFH profile. Feeling motivated and proud for myself. Thanks a lot mansi☺️
I am from Pakistan. I watch all your videos. Your content quality is so good. You do proper research before making a video. Thumbs up
Hi Manasi..Salute to you as well..Very well explained the benefits of working women. This video really brings smile and satisfaction to each working women.
I really need this type of motivational talk.Thanks alot .
Hii Mansi.. Such a nice video n very helpful for all working mothers 👍😊
Mansi It's a really feel good video. It must have helped many working mothers. When I got married (love marriage) a very jealous relative from my in-laws side kept on asking me when will I leave my govt job ( working as senior officer since last 11 years) and how will I manage after baby. Being reticent at most times and being just married that too love marriage I never tried to reply her back. However I told my mom in law who is a very good lady and she said she will help me in every possible way and there is no need for me to think negative. Her daughter is not working and she is so very jealous of me see me grow, earn etc. Now after I gave birth to my baby I sometimes felt homesick and thought of leaving my job someday in future but after watching your feel good video it worked as a short therapy for me and now I have enough points to shut her mouth whenever she restarts her verbal diarrhoea. Thanks..
I also have same situation ..now I'm on leave but I feel very stressed wen I thinking to join office. Because my baby will live with her grandmother in another city.
@@archanasonawane5844 I'm sailing on the same boat as you dear
I have just started working. My baby is one year and I was not sure if I was doing it right but yes your words helped me a lot. Thanks 😊😊
It's such a refreshing change to listen to the pros of being a working mom. Most of the videos or podcasts or articles talk about the challenges of being a working mom but it was such a relief to listen to the benefits. I would request if you could ponder and do a video on being single parent. It might be difficult since *touchwood u have a wholesome family. But these days more and more parents are either getting separated or getting widowed so it would be helpful for them.
Thanks a Lot
You are my Favourite
Xoxo
I totally agreed....loved this video 😍
i really totaly agree wid u ... i m also a working mother bt from last 6th month i m not working... to spend time with my baby the each and every point u said all that happens with me bcoz of not working from some days i used get depressed i cnt express only.. bt all u said is so true..i liked ur video very much
Aapki maa always sath me rhti hai Kabir k care liye isliye aapk liye easy hai Verna dono working hone pe ladai hoti h jissse bache pe bht bura asar hota hai
Depend krta hai males k upar 😂kuch log hote hi aese hai
Ladai working hone se nhi hoti,
Agar aisa hota to not working mother and working father ke bitch to kavi ladai nhi honi chahiye......
It's about understanding......
If the couple is understanding respect each other then both situation can be handled.....
Loved the video... Glad to know the benefits.. As I am also working... Thank you.. 😊😊..... 👍👍
Well ..I m a working mother ..bt everything has got advantage n disadvantages... Don't set trends for women it's dere wish to do whatever Dey want ..a non working mother gave dere whole life to dere children only Dey deserves respect also ..n children r also hpy to be around dere mother n could nt imagine dere life widout dem...plz jst repect every mother ..my mom is non working bt m still proud of her..
Absolutely right u r
Well said dear
Giving respect to working mothers do not take away the respect from the non-working ones, you have not got the message from the video
Ur absolutely right mam.. Aapki bate tolaly realty pr based hote h sun k esa feel hota h ki ha ye mere sath bhi hota h..
Mansi always u gives a positive energy. Thanks
Thnq for the vdo....very nic points.....I am not a working mother but a studying mother.
Ise dekhne k bad proud feel ho rha h... m also a working mother.. bt iski wjh s mai hmesha tension me rhti hu.. bt aaj benefits pta chl gye... thank u so much... 😊
Thank u so much Mansi mam ! Really feeling better after listening this as i was stressed regarding my job, baby and household work.
Tha last point...is very very true...
I recently join my office after two year of my delivery. Feeling good after watching video. The points u discussed are very very practical.
Thanku manci
Well done mansi mam for providing such type of informative video for working mom's like us..👌
Hey mansi di... Mai bi ek ca hu a working mother.. N facing a lot..besides all dis work load I have to handle pressure of living in a joint family.. Bt i have my hudbands support mera baby 23 month ka boy h.. N I mean proud to be working mom... Thanks a lot for such valuable n motivational video..
You guys always bring unique content. My parents were working parents, and we taught so many things and discipline. Now I’m a mother of 13 months girl and about to start my work. But it really motivates me as well give me a thinking of self care.
You r right manasi.... I am also a working women,..... Working women honese bacha jaldi methuer ho jata hai.... Our bacha apne mom per proud fill karata hai
U knw mansi i nw a days i ws thinking to quiet my job bcoz i m not giving proper time to my 2 yrs old baby.. after delivery i started working form 5th month i ws so guilty like as u said in video...bt u have done grt job by motivating such working moms like me .. thank u so much god bless u
Among all those, u can be far away from ur mother in law...this is the best benfit of being working women for me😅
You always explain everything very nicely. You have a lot of experience on every topic you make.. very helpful and motivating video for
Working mothers. Good job👍
Thank you Mansi di and Sourav da for all the inspiring videos. I was undergoing depression and had almost given up when I suddenly received your helping hands when noone was there to be by my side. I really can't express in words what you mean to me. I wish you all the success in your life. Love you really from the deep core of my heart.
Good one. Gives a boost to all the working women out there.... But as someone already said I too do not agree with quality time point. Quality time doesn't depend on the length of it. Please do not demean the stay at home moms for all the time they dedicate to their child.
Superb mam... very nice video.. thanks for feeling us special
Hi Mansi.. this video was just at the moment when i was about to put down my papers to take care of my 9 month old.. i m glad i watched this.. i got emotional seeing the video.. u hav put my feelings into exact words.. even my mom is works 9 to 7.. so I can understand.. tysm.. u r doing a fantastic job..
Wah Medam superb
It's really genuine thought for working woman
You are very mature and perfect woman
You are very easily fill our working woman problemes feelings
So salute too
Agr mom ghar pr hi rehti h tu bacha hmesa hi Mom ko aapne pas chahta h .agr kisi Kam se Mather ghar se bahr jati h tu ose bache ko sath hi lejana padta .kyu k bacha or kisi ke pas rehna sikhta hi nahi h .
As they grow older wo maa ke bina rehna seekh jayega.. we must give some time for everything
In my case, thats not right... my baby has no objection to stay with her father in my absence... she has stayed with dadi n all also for long 6-7 hrs ... how that person is keeping the baby also matters
Bahot acha topic hain..really super..
Ek video hum home maker k liye v banao manshi...papa jab bahar hain mama ko v bohot paresani hoti hain..so plz yea v difficult hain.aap ne jo last point bola wo sahi hain.after a long day bohot paresani hoti hain..gussa to bahot ata hain...aap bilkul sahi ho...partner k saath v prblm hota hain.koi ek solution v do mansi...plz
Oh Mansi you are amazing! I joined job again last week, after 2 years of break, my baby stays at daycare I feel confuse many times whether I am doing right or wrong. But this video has given my such a positive boost. Love you mansi love your spirit of spreading so much motivation. Thanks a lot 🙏💕
Wow!! Tears in my eyes😞😞 amazing video 🥰🥰love you for making such a motivational video Mansi!! Cheers to u!!
Mansi, you are inspiration for me. You make me confident to resume my office after 3 months by sharing your beautiful and positive thoughts about working mom. Hats off to you.
Best topic ever👍👍
Sabhi working mother ki tenson kam kar di ek vidio se.... Thanks for motivation 🙏🙏
Just loved d video Mansi... U have covered mostly all d benefits of a working mom... A working mom plans her entire day In a productive way.. coz she doesn't have tym to really waste on petty issues... Dats y she z active nd happy... N d same she reciprocates to her kid n her partner
Definitely whatever you have explained is worth every penny to me as being a working mother I feel the same thing. You have just stole my heart
Thank you Mansi. I was really feeling guilty for my baby as I'm working mother. Now I m feeling little bit better about it.
Thank you mansi.. your all videos have been very helpful in this amazing journey of motherhood. Thank you. If possible can you people share your views /ideas for financial planning for baby's future?
Mansi that's very nice to see such stuff in ur channel. I never comment in any video but trust me after seeing this I can't resist myself to do so.
More power n success to you!
Amazing video 👏 I never watched any video like this before
Hello Mansiji, I really got emotional after watching this video. I am a working mother and was always feeling guilty to leave my baby. But now I know whatever I am doing is for the wellbeing of my family only. Than you so much for this video and boosting my confidence.
Hi.mansi..ur video is really inspiring.. I like the way u portrait the benefits of working mother.. Even I have the same thinking especially about both partners working and grooming their child accordingly as kids learn from actions n not words.. Thank you dear for lovely video.. Keep sharing more stuff like this🙏👍
Totally i agree me bhi job karti thi but abhi brek liye h bhut jald wapad working ho jaungi i noticed ki apko bhut kuch bolna h mbahot feelings h apke ander is topic k liye bhut kuch kehna chate ho but limited timing h apke pass but i feel ki ap jhud proud ho or hame bhi proud krwana chahte ho overall very nice topic☺️
Thanks for encouraging working moms.. I am going to join office new month,so was bit worried but this video just changed my mind.
Superb Mansi! Love the video ❤️ Kabir has the best mom ever! 😊
Aap ka aakhri vichar mujhe sabse jyada pasand, or bahut hi powerful Laga, thank you very much working women ke liye aapne Aisa video banaya
One major benefit is also the respect a working mother has towards her in laws, parents or other family members as they let the mother feel stressfree regarding their baby when at work.
However there is an act called 'Maternity benefit act' which needs to be stressed upon on all organisations.
Mam, very good info , me too working mother, my son is 9 month old now, but really i m feeling proud to b like this, sab hamare relatives tarif karate hai k me sab manage karake office b jati hu,
Yeahhh that's true... I am also working mother and I proud my self.... Thanks for the video 😍
mam.. ap kya work krte ho ghr pr hi... meko bhi kuch.... krna he .. plz Kya kru.... plz advice
Mujhe bhi kuch karna hai mam....plzzzz batao na
Mansi mem Apna channal chala rahi hai yahi job hai unka....
Awesome video
first time i heard positive points of being working otherwise everyone keeps saying bachhe ko time hi ni deti.
Lov u
Thanku thanku sooo much.. i really need this motivation.. i was also thinking for a job.. n now i'll definitely do this.. thanku again.
I also think one more advantage of being a working mother is sending kid to daycare/montessori.. initially you feel guilty of separation but when you see good changes in your kid because he/she learns new things and is not clingy to parents and likes to mingle around it feels good
Thank you so much....I really need this... because sometime we as working mother suffered a lot of things...I was very upset now a days..cause there is my 1.5 yr old and I can't give her proper time.. thanks for this nice video.. really appreciating..😊
Ds video is wow,,,u r amazing ,,,im also a nurse n now a mom of 2month baby ..... Im feeling v happy n proud being a working mom
Loved this video..even I m proud working mom of an proud independent 3 year old girl..only after I started working I could see a lot more positive changes in me n my daughter as well..I totally agree with all the points u mentioned.. Working environment will also teach us how to build a positive personality in our child..my. At 3 years age my daughter can defend herself with confidence infront of others when she is right..it's not always she expect me to take her side even when I am at home..we both share our updates in the evening..this helps me to correct her behavior, encourage her to do good things n appreciate her to good things done..she does her things on her on like going bro washroom, changing her dress n putting it in laundry basket, putting used plates in wash basin, putting her lunch box in her bag n lot more things..
Absolutely:)
Last point- very true. People judge working mother’s and criticize, though we do our best in our situation.
Very nice video thnx. 😊