Khaya Mthethwa on Finding Truth and living Authentically

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  • Опубліковано 24 січ 2023
  • On today's episode Mpoomy Ledwaba talks to Khaya Mthethwa about finding his way to truth, dealing with depression and operating in authenticity.
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    Khaya Mthethwa is the first Black Idols SA winner and award winning Gospel Superstar as well Lead Pastor of Oasis Church.

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  • @nontuthukomadondo6438
    @nontuthukomadondo6438 Рік тому +136

    When Khaya said, "until you're willing to do it God's way, then you're not ready for marriage..." 👏🏽

  • @vhiekagola
    @vhiekagola Рік тому +10

    Who else is running to search for Khaya's songs after watching this :) 🙃

  • @gugumavundla
    @gugumavundla Рік тому +250

    Huge props to Mpoomy to be able to interview both ex husband and ex wife so gracefully giving both a chance to tell their life story so beautifully. I really enjoyed both interviews. Khaya is as thoughtful and wise as he is goofy and fun. Such a charming young man. Bravo guys 🙌🏾❤️

    • @munashejosiahchipatiso1748
      @munashejosiahchipatiso1748 Рік тому +2

      @@ronellecandice1536ex-wife is Ntando Kunene - The podcast was flighted 2 months ago it was about ..... acceptance

    • @splendidwittyman2611
      @splendidwittyman2611 Рік тому

      What's the ex-wufe's name. When was she interviewed? I wanna the side of her story...

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 Рік тому

      Love it. So remarkable

    • @leratokhubone
      @leratokhubone Рік тому +2

      Right, I had to go listen to Brando and I must compliment them both for telling their journeys with respect for the other 🙏🏽

    • @leratokhubone
      @leratokhubone Рік тому +1

      Meant Ntando

  • @phelomohale4686
    @phelomohale4686 Рік тому +12

    And I just want to apologise to Kaya, after his divorce I didn't care much about him anymore. There's really a thin line between love and hate, he is as human as I am, but because he is a king 👑 of the 1st`s. I looked up to him so much.how ever when he was down I had no right and he doesn't even know me, but I judged him, Ntando seemed so perfect for him. I'm sorry my brother. I forgot that all of us in this journey we are thriving and God loves us all. You seemed to be in a better space and I tap into that energy. love you Kaya Mthethwa.

    • @mfundoskindwandwe9590
      @mfundoskindwandwe9590 Рік тому +1

      Me too...I can relate to your sentiments😰...n am truly sorry for that

  • @globalchar
    @globalchar Рік тому +21

    Khaya’s laugh is straight from his heart, it’s so contagious😂❤️

  • @shamelesskay2737
    @shamelesskay2737 Рік тому +63

    “The stock that we must take is not what has happened but who we have become.” -Khaya Mthethwa
    That spoke to me🙌🏾

  • @nompumelelomziba
    @nompumelelomziba Рік тому +97

    Mpoomy your conversations are sooo wholesome 😩❤❤. I'm early in my twenties and i just love how you keep educating yourself and drawing so much from books, interviews etc. There isn't a podcast I've listened to that you hadn't mentioned something powerful you've drawn and learnt from what you consume. Inspirational ❤

  • @bosslady8621
    @bosslady8621 Рік тому +30

    3am l am listening to this and l felt like praying l am going through a process and l need grace. Seeing young minds that’s are spiritual unwind l got so motivated. I prayed for forgiveness tonight l am starting a process of healing today. Thank you for this

  • @andyzitho9625
    @andyzitho9625 Рік тому +164

    After listening to the Podcast, I couldn’t wait to come here and repeat this conversation. Khaya is so well spoken, loved and enjoyed this conversation. He MUST please come back❤️

  • @boipelomogudi6861
    @boipelomogudi6861 Рік тому +6

    "Taught me who I'm not by getting the things I thought I wanted"

  • @nompumelelomsimango8722
    @nompumelelomsimango8722 Рік тому +23

    Khaya's laughter is so contagious 😂

  • @ntombizethulubisi260
    @ntombizethulubisi260 Рік тому +9

    It's 2018, 3 December I had just moved to Joburg & started a new job. Mkhulumsebenzi has been playing since my morning drive from Mpumalanga. I'm leaving work to get essentials at Newtown Mall. I'm driving out, 2 minutes into it I'm stuck in traffic in an unfamiliar road to my place. Relying on my phone as my GPS, I'm looking scared thieves saw through me. They demanded my week old phone at gun point while inside the car. At first I thought I'm being hijacked.
    Phone was insured at 15:00 and 18:00 it was gone.
    Fast forward to 2023 I'm seeing lowo Msebenzi that done. Thank you Khaya for the gift of song. My current theme song is "This I know, Unguzungezile". Thank you Mpoomy, I appreciate you a lot.

  • @neosweedo4962
    @neosweedo4962 Рік тому +16

    The most authentic interview I have ever watched…. Mpoomy you are phenomenal at what God had called you to do.

  • @mpusengmosupye311
    @mpusengmosupye311 Рік тому +45

    This was your best podcast. Mpoomy's flow in conversation and the questions she asked gave Khanya an opportunity to be authentic and express himself in the most graceful way.

  • @leratomamabolo2081
    @leratomamabolo2081 7 місяців тому +2

    I also went through a divorce during lockdown so I can relate to what khaya is saying and ya having to look at yourself in the mirror and admitting your own mistakes it’s hard. Thank God I never got to a point of drinking antidepressants but to this day I don’t know how because I was at the verge of depression but only God knows how I survived. My daughter who was then 8 years old was my saviour and she prayed for me daily and said to me don’t worry mommy everything will be alright. It’s been 3 years and wow she was right. I thank God for her but I’m still rediscovering myself and I do love the process and the journey I’m at. Thank you Mpoomy for this and I only saw it today I guess God led me here. I am enjoying my journey with God. The good thing is me and my ex husband have a good relationship/friendship and we co-parenting smoothly. That’s another topic on its own because it was hell but I thank the Holy Spirit for advocating for me. God is good

  • @mandymkhwanazi1763
    @mandymkhwanazi1763 Рік тому +5

    Listening to this just made me realize what a power house we have in Mpoomi. Our own Oprah Winfrey at such a young age 😍😍

  • @thee_toot
    @thee_toot Рік тому +5

    I co-sign Khaya’s statement that he was late for the Idols auditions because if I remember correctly he was the last audition of that day

  • @noluyolongceke9777
    @noluyolongceke9777 Рік тому +28

    The most beautiful podcast yet! I weeped on this one! Khaya is the true definition of a human! Absolutely love him. Well done Mpoomy! Don't be shy to bring him back again ❤

  • @philisiwebengu1154
    @philisiwebengu1154 Рік тому +4

    Umfundisi wami bakithi, forever humble and inspiring and full of drive , super proud of him, Love you guys both.

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu Рік тому +7

    Unless you are ready to doit God's way, you are not ready to get married. that was it! for me. Thank you Khaya and Mpoomy, I learnt a lot from this talk💞

  • @wandiswahlabe
    @wandiswahlabe Рік тому +7

    This is what I love about abantwana baNkulunkulu, God is always using every portion of your story to save people’s souls. Listening to Khaya’s life story has revived me and given me hope. Siyabonga Nompumelelo and Khaya for this interview 🙌🏾🙏🏽

  • @siamisangsia6840
    @siamisangsia6840 Рік тому +3

    I love Khaya's sense of humour😅.. what a beautiful personality. Also, he doesn't look like he's close to turning 40, fine wine 👌.

  • @siba92
    @siba92 Рік тому +29

    It's so interesting to watch Mpoomy grow in all her platforms. It's an inspiring journey. Khaya Mthethwa is well spoken, his story or this conversation is one for the books, the one which I'll always come back to it and re-listen. ❤️

  • @debrahabraham2705
    @debrahabraham2705 Рік тому +36

    Powerful, raw, emotional and full of wisdom loved every minute of this 🙌❤️

  • @Keekssithole
    @Keekssithole Рік тому +22

    Always been a fan of Khaya, what a wholesome and beautiful conversation ♥️

  • @FufuSithole
    @FufuSithole Рік тому +7

    This was so beautiful , I don't know how many times I shed tears cause I can relate to Khaya. I discover most of his songs when i'm in a dark place and I find comfort. He's so annointed.

  • @SylvieSij2506
    @SylvieSij2506 Рік тому +21

    This was your best podcast ever. It's like 2 buddies having a convo. When Khaya spoke on leadership being hard I resonate so much...I'm in a leadership position & truly it is hard. You must think for & of everyone when it comes to decision..

  • @rejoicemokokolisi4022
    @rejoicemokokolisi4022 Рік тому +3

    NOT Brandon moving right in front of us 🤣🤣. The episode we have all been waiting for! Loved loved loved this!❤🤌

  • @InspiredBy_
    @InspiredBy_ Рік тому +8

    I had the conversation with my partner last night about how much I never celebrate myself. I feel like I keep looking for a new challenge. But it does bother me. I do feel I work hard but when I get my outcome - it feels like I focus on what I could have improved. I hate parties so much that I am trying to get out of having a wedding as well. Argh, I am seeking therapy as well

  • @MalindiN223
    @MalindiN223 Рік тому +5

    Just watched this for the third time now.
    Mama your grace and kindness is something else, I see it , I feel it.
    My God continue working through you and in you . ❤thank you

  • @queenrefiloe7287
    @queenrefiloe7287 Рік тому +2

    I think if we remove labels we surrounding ourselves with,we won't be too hard on ourselves.we going through the same challenges in a different scale ,it's doing the same damage.lets learn to be easy with ourselves,we have to go through the journey for our spiritual growth.at the end we going to be fine. Take it easy people ❤khaya you doing very well for yourself,you are such an inspiration and I love lots❤

  • @thatoolga
    @thatoolga Рік тому +17

    The mantle on Mpoomy's life 😭🔥🙌🏽
    What a beautiful episode! The ability to gracefully interview Khaya and Ntando and there is so much to learn from both episode, also both their level of maturity 🙌🏽
    It's not always where you hear someone who's divorced speak so highly of marriagelike Khaya did 🙌🏽🔥
    I also love love Art and Worship! Ngambulele is my song too, it's a song of revelation 🙌🏽 While Avulekile is Declaration, Love it!
    Definitely will be attending one of the events on the 4th or both ! 🏌🏌🏌

  • @Lebogang_ct
    @Lebogang_ct Рік тому +11

    This made me to speak life again and again to myself and every season matters

  • @DrKeabetsweAfrika
    @DrKeabetsweAfrika Рік тому +10

    Oh man! This podcast 😭👏🏼🔥 really really really enjoyed it! You don’t realise how much you need to hear a certain message until you actually hear it and you’re like wow! 😮🤯

  • @siphosethu222
    @siphosethu222 Рік тому +4

    I was smiling on this conversation throughout. Have always loved Khaya yhoooo ❤️❤️. He is anointed, thank you for bringing him to us Mpoomy .

  • @DripcastWithKhuzeka
    @DripcastWithKhuzeka Рік тому +6

    You and bringing incredible people, week after week 🥺❤️🔥🔥 let us give Mpoomy her flowers by reaching 500K subscriber's before the end of this year. 🕯️🕯️

  • @naremarakalala7590
    @naremarakalala7590 Рік тому +8

    Khaya's views on leadership are outstanding. Love it

  • @nomzamomtshali7713
    @nomzamomtshali7713 Рік тому +6

    The intro alone just spoke to a part of my life that is messy, leadership is hard and that's a fact you'll never understand until you are a leader yourself. Thanks Khaya for unpacking this so authentically and gracefully. You spoke for us all.

  • @bwalyamukuka9441
    @bwalyamukuka9441 Рік тому +8

    Wisdom and Wellness is in this interview. I'm overwhelmed. Thank you.....and that conversation about leadership!!Tjo!!! I'm just like..Heavenly father..speak!!

  • @pumezasaleni9627
    @pumezasaleni9627 Рік тому +4

    I just love him shame, he is sooooo genuine and authentic

  • @sphelelenadia5903
    @sphelelenadia5903 Рік тому +6

    Khaya is wise ❤

  • @tshegofatsokwenda204
    @tshegofatsokwenda204 Рік тому +8

    I literally remain in awe of how sis Mpoomy navigates and leads a conversation, it's so amazing how she does it.❤️ Literally would be blessed to be around such an individual filled with such wisdom. Thank you for sharing you greatness with us and thumbs up to yet another great episode👍❤️

  • @Ulo-Mungochi
    @Ulo-Mungochi Рік тому +7

    Eish ! Mpoomy, this is so refreshing. Let’s have more male guests. Khaya is such a gem. Such an authentic soul. Great way to start the year 💕

  • @Andiswajonas
    @Andiswajonas Рік тому +8

    I listened on Spotify in the afternoon..I must say I've been waiting for @mpoomy to upload on UA-cam cause I wanted to see Khaya's face expressions..I enjoyed this conversation alot

  • @anitamathenjwa4089
    @anitamathenjwa4089 Рік тому +10

    What a beautiful podcast! ♥Khaya is such an incredible human! I've been a huge fan of his work and my love for him has grown!

  • @thulanindaba2831
    @thulanindaba2831 Рік тому +7

    Absolutely loved this! 🙌🏾😭
    “Ngambulele” is literally on repeat man. I’ve gone through so much in my spiritual walk and it’s one of those songs that I sing when I have no words of prayer left in me.
    Khaya thank you for your heart and musicianship. 👌🏾
    Mpume thank you for such amazing content. 👌🏾

  • @bongiwemakhaza1833
    @bongiwemakhaza1833 Рік тому +1

    Ngambulele got through the toughest time in my life. I love Khaya Mthethwa Soooo much ❤️

  • @mrmanq9517
    @mrmanq9517 Рік тому +7

    Ive gained so much respect for Khaya...always thought he's too FEMININE
    The brain and the way he reasons is very mature. Much respect ndoda!

  • @mabongikhoza
    @mabongikhoza Рік тому +4

    Beautiful conversation, as usual, siyabonga. I am currently obsessing about Khaya's collaboration with Bishop Benjamin on the song "You will never leave". Respect bhuti. I love all your albums - still have "All about Jesus", I love every song but "Lendawo" & "Atmosphere" gets me boasting about Christ 🙌 you are an incredible songwriter.

  • @nonkolo_faith
    @nonkolo_faith Рік тому

    Forgot how much I love Khaya... needed this!!!

  • @mbalimaseko4201
    @mbalimaseko4201 Рік тому +3

    A legend in his own right, a gifted blessing to all of us through his talent and God's work and presence in Him. I never will forget how the " The Uprising" carried me through the most painful time of my life. The Lord kept me sane and intact through Khaya's ministry. Great conversation. Well done Mpoomy!

  • @CindymASikAne
    @CindymASikAne Рік тому +10

    I had goosebumps when I was lessoning to this …..Mpoomy and Brandon God is using you guys immensely to teach and heal people .Khaya buti wami I’m very proud of you of a man Jesus is transforming you too 😭

  • @sylviashavuka8638
    @sylviashavuka8638 Рік тому +4

    Listened on Spotify now i am here. Loved every bits of it❤️

  • @nosiphonxumalo9897
    @nosiphonxumalo9897 Рік тому +1

    Mina bengithi sicela abuye uKhaya futhi 🙌🏽. . . So inspiring, literally feels like I am chilling with my older siblings who are very honest about their journey.

  • @lihlelaurasibanda1003
    @lihlelaurasibanda1003 Рік тому +2

    good to see man in the house as well.... new year new year levels... the honesty and accountability, Khaya you're a gem

  • @Sibumagazine
    @Sibumagazine Рік тому +6

    Love this man, may God keep him and continue to serve the Lord with his gift

  • @jp-pp7wr
    @jp-pp7wr Рік тому +1

    Wow. The kind of conversation I love.

  • @olwethukhowa5713
    @olwethukhowa5713 Рік тому +3

    I needed to watch this and hear it again! 🙆‍♀️

  • @luthomatiwane9158
    @luthomatiwane9158 Рік тому +16

    Already listed on Spotify but definitely watching the whole thing again 🤩 After listening to the podcast, I played The Uprising the whole day 🤣 Thank you for this conversation!!

  • @ntandomtwa2220
    @ntandomtwa2220 Рік тому +1

    We love you Nyambose... Thank you for your ministry and honesty. May God continue to shield You and walk with you all the days of Your life mfundisi...

  • @vuyilemagwaza3236
    @vuyilemagwaza3236 Рік тому

    This is by far one of the best epispdes, I have watched on WW beautiful ❤

  • @nothandongubeni7978
    @nothandongubeni7978 Рік тому +6

    Khaya is actually funny and wise. Great one guys❤

  • @slindilelee1323
    @slindilelee1323 Рік тому

    We Love you Bhuti Khaya May Go Bless You more we are Blessed to Have you

  • @blessedveryblessed7655
    @blessedveryblessed7655 Рік тому +3

    The ONLY podcast that I listened to and HAD TO COME back and watch!!!

  • @karabomosia261
    @karabomosia261 Рік тому

    Yho Pastor Khaya , what an incredible man. Mrs Mom you are a force . God is soo good man

  • @thandombatha8242
    @thandombatha8242 Рік тому +1

    This was such an amazing interview, can’t listen to it once and move on, its the type one needs to revisit now and again. I really enjoyed it

  • @amandan20
    @amandan20 Рік тому

    I absolutely love this young man!!! A man of quality👌🏼

  • @lihlemkhwanazi3152
    @lihlemkhwanazi3152 Рік тому +1

    I listened to the Podcast in the morning, wow. I’m glad I listened, I learnt a lot.

  • @shabangungenzeni562
    @shabangungenzeni562 Рік тому +7

    This episode is soo beautiful to watch. I love the fact they alluded a phase in maturity that you get to grow to understand not every good or glittering thing that exist its good for you, You decline!!! WooW! These are faves❤️🙌

  • @celesterooi5657
    @celesterooi5657 Рік тому

    Thank you my dear.thanks for the wisdom that you and khaya bring on the podcast.i appreciate it so much

  • @thatotr8954
    @thatotr8954 Рік тому +11

    I'm a great fan of the work God does through you Mpoomy.

  • @karabopearl9527
    @karabopearl9527 Рік тому

    What a beautiful conversation,thank you for being so vulnerable .

  • @Official_Sammy_M
    @Official_Sammy_M Рік тому +1

    I always loved Khaya. He is my favourite guy..Khaya is authentic mahn..

  • @ntombikidomazibuko4980
    @ntombikidomazibuko4980 Рік тому

    Thank you for this, wow, I am so blessed.

  • @yonelamasala2802
    @yonelamasala2802 Рік тому +1

    All i can say is Wow...blessed by Khaya .Thank you mpoomy.

  • @gail_hlatshwayo
    @gail_hlatshwayo Рік тому +14

    I’ve listened to the podcast already but I just have to watch it again 😄❤️ that’s how much I’ve enjoyed our first this year! I didn’t know some guests on this podcast but after each episode I end up a fan or relate to their journey, somehow it makes me like them even more. I just love your work Mpoomy. Great way to start the year! ❤❤

  • @brendamabusela1168
    @brendamabusela1168 Рік тому

    Thanks Mpoomy for inviting Khaya, great episode. Loved it.

  • @MrsRayleneMartin
    @MrsRayleneMartin Рік тому

    Thank you, This is what I needed the season is spot on, and God speaking to the future and not to the current, I must say the feeling is something else cause YOU know it God even thou we don't see him or Feel him We just know its GOD, Thank you

  • @mawandemayekiso6610
    @mawandemayekiso6610 Рік тому

    Really enjoyed this, so much wisdom from both you and Khaya. Thank you 🙏

  • @ntsatsi_light9782
    @ntsatsi_light9782 Рік тому +4

    you guys are amazing, you bring light to your audience, I used to not celebrate myself, I am bit of perfectionist myself and always focuses on next thing, I was too hard on myself. I stopped beating myself with tomorrows tools(lessons learned) and celebrate my wins today, the present moment matters too and is all we have right now, yesterday already passed and tomorrow is not promised.

  • @ayandaduma1274
    @ayandaduma1274 Рік тому +3

    Genuine. Refreshing. Beautiful❤️

  • @maphanganomcebo4584
    @maphanganomcebo4584 Рік тому

    Mpoomy Ledeaba is such a gem 💎
    Guys what a way to start off this year
    Siyabonga 😊

  • @EverHopeful555
    @EverHopeful555 Рік тому +4

    Looking forward to having more men on the podcast 🙏🏾👏🏾💙

  • @nondumisosambo404
    @nondumisosambo404 Рік тому +3

    This podcast contains so much wisdom 🙌

  • @nonkululekokubheka356
    @nonkululekokubheka356 Рік тому

    Thank you Mpoomy..... I'm inlove with Khaya now🥺 he is such an amazing man

  • @sizwemondlane7464
    @sizwemondlane7464 Рік тому +3

    This was so beautiful. Well done, nana 👏🏽 Thank you, Khaya 👏🏽

  • @theophilousmathema7097
    @theophilousmathema7097 Рік тому

    I enjoyed this conversation 🙂. Please come back, Khaya.

  • @litemba_dlamini
    @litemba_dlamini Рік тому +6

    stunning, stunning work Mpoomy. always been a khaya fan, he's just so special. so inspired to just live authentically and strive for greatness because it is within me. thank you.

  • @ratanangjacobeth5366
    @ratanangjacobeth5366 Рік тому +13

    This is my favorite podcast by far. I'm also going to listen to Khaya's music from now on all thanks to this interview 🥰🥰

    • @zinhleangel804
      @zinhleangel804 Рік тому

      I love bhuti wam wisdom ekuwe ngiyayihlonipha uJehova qhubeke akugcwalise ngo moya wakhe ongcwele🙌❤️

  • @nkululekolekositholeonlife1980

    To be where I am currently and have God lead me to this conversation, has been life changing. Been on a journey myself and ngiyadinga ukwambulelwa ngalokhu uThixo akusho ngam engidala engine that emhlabeni. Got so emotional watching this and realizing that some day soon ngzobubona ubukhulu bomsebenzi UNkulunkulu awenzayo empilweni yam...sengingaphesheya. S/O to you guys for this🥰🥰

  • @leratokhubone
    @leratokhubone Рік тому +6

    So many gems from this interview. Thank you to you both 🙏🏽

  • @Withlove.K95
    @Withlove.K95 Рік тому

    Smiling throughout the whole conversation...🙂😀❤

  • @buhlekumalo2619
    @buhlekumalo2619 Рік тому

    Beautiful done, great questioning! Love it🥰

  • @bonolomakoko1293
    @bonolomakoko1293 Рік тому +4

    Oh my gosh I loved this! Great one guys ❤

  • @makhosazanangubane9945
    @makhosazanangubane9945 Рік тому

    "When God is doing things differently".... beautiful interview

  • @sitdownswithsphiweLevenim6417
    @sitdownswithsphiweLevenim6417 Рік тому +2

    This was just beautiful to watch. Loved it so much.

  • @lutriciaramalepe3741
    @lutriciaramalepe3741 Рік тому +2

    Wow I loved everything about this podcast. Khaya is so out spoken love him...

  • @zikhonasiswana2719
    @zikhonasiswana2719 Рік тому +2

    🙌♥️♥️♥️ I don't even know which part struck me the most, the entire conversation is ministering to my current season. I always say I will never allow my current season to discredit all the great things God has done for me. Mkhulu umsebenzi awenzayo empilweni zethu♥️🙌

  • @remofilweserame1384
    @remofilweserame1384 Рік тому +1

    Mpoomy thank you so much for your podcasts ..helps one to reflect on self and so satisfying to listen to,thank you so much sis…

  • @snemhlongo3738
    @snemhlongo3738 Рік тому +1

    I actually have no words, thank you Mpoomy and Khaya!!! 😭👏 wheeeeh 🥺