Your content is very valuable. Thank you for sharing your understanding of this topic, it has benefited me greatly over the years. Also, your hair is looking awesome.
Brilliant this is so very true . Thank you ... living with one is difficult enough ... having the tools to deal with them is what you really need !. Thanks for your precious help!.
💛 Such good reminders! I love watching these and seeing how far I’ve come in my mindset when it comes to dealing with toxic people, 100% because of using NARP!! It really is an essential life skill at this point! 🎉
The trauma bond keeps you stuck, ive noticed that your lower self dominates your higher self and your mind keeps going to those endless questions...they dont like you as you tremendously like them, the guy that you very painfully watch them holding their hands is an option as will be and has been always, they are wired as such, they suffer and thinks thats the way. You are not the rescuer...its painful ...if yiu break from the trauma bond...100% can be done...you are free and much more than the past. Keep working hard and the results will ne more than amazing...i watch 100 Gurus on YT...they are absolute..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ to melanie.
How do I cope when I know of the abuse or some of the abuse that happened to my adult son: isolated, framed, lied about, gaslighted, got committed, got into trouble with law, financial abuse, my son ended his life. Everyone believes and supports the abusive father including Authorities. How do I cope? I already said to the abuser that I'm going to expose him and that I've got his number and I have told other people. Over and over. I am blocked. I am exhausted, have nothing left. Nor did my son.
It takes so much time to ‘learn’ the correct way to deal with a narc Especially once you’ve long left but have to deal with children I remind myself “The only way to win is not to play” Which is reportedly what the computer said to itself when it tried to win a nuclear war Wish I could say I always remember. Often I forget and suffer the consequences then I’m back here for a revision course Melanie is the only teacher that knows truly how to help us
Roseanna I'm very pleased that my material has been able to help guide you. Ideally id love for you to not need to revisit this information, because you have experienced your new empowerment 🎉❤ Are you a member of our wonderful NARP Community, where we can help support you to break through, for you, on the inside, so that you can leave this battle behind in the dust, and begin your True Thriving Life? If not, here is the NARP Program and Community information www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp I hope that this helps! 🦋❤️
#1. Never tell anyone this. Ultimatums don’t work on anyone with self respect and shows you’re manipulative. If you need to leave just leave. Narc or not.
My children’s father was diagnosed by a professional psychiatrist as one of the worst narcissist cases he’d ever seen he’s been in business for over 40 years. He diagnosed me with post traumatic stress disorder so why is it that my children won’t talk to me won’t pick up the phone to say I love you I miss you don’t even acknowledge I’m alive when I stop co signing for their cars or their colleges, they just stopped talking to me like I had died they never called me back they never respond and one of them told me if I try to call her she will call a lawyer to have me put in jail whatever that meant
@@sharonducci7089sadly this is my fear if I stay. My kids are still small… But it sounds like maybe y’all were together too long and he was able to manipulate the kids into believing you are the bad guy This is a risk we take with narcs It doesn’t matter that a therapist diagnosed him he’s still gonna play victim to the kids and he’s better at manipulating than you so he wins
@@sharonducci7089the kids are being used as his “ flying monkeys “ to make you doubt yourself now…. Just pray God opens their eyes to the truth… it’s such a sad mess we end up with because of narcissists it makes me so mad
Just don't exist anymore around them and you'll be fine.
Your content is very valuable. Thank you for sharing your understanding of this topic, it has benefited me greatly over the years. Also, your hair is looking awesome.
You are so welcome! Thank you for your lovely comment ♥️🦋
Brilliant this is so very true . Thank you ... living with one is difficult enough ... having the tools to deal with them is what you really need !. Thanks for your precious help!.
Please know how welcome you are! ❤🦋
💛 Such good reminders! I love watching these and seeing how far I’ve come in my mindset when it comes to dealing with toxic people, 100% because of using NARP!! It really is an essential life skill at this point! 🎉
Thank you, Angel 🙏🏻 you are saving souls and lives every day.
Awww it takes one to know one! Thank you for your comment ❤🦋
Thank you so much Melanie! You are the world’s best healer in this area. I’m so grateful for your help. Hope we meet in ‘25.
I'd love that too ❤🦋
Thank you. Great job.
Thank You Melanie🌹
Maybe more on a content of long term narcissistic friends…would be beneficial for many , I do believe
TRUTH!
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The trauma bond keeps you stuck, ive noticed that your lower self dominates your higher self and your mind keeps going to those endless questions...they dont like you as you tremendously like them, the guy that you very painfully watch them holding their hands is an option as will be and has been always, they are wired as such, they suffer and thinks thats the way. You are not the rescuer...its painful ...if yiu break from the trauma bond...100% can be done...you are free and much more than the past. Keep working hard and the results will ne more than amazing...i watch 100 Gurus on YT...they are absolute..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ to melanie.
Exactly! Once we heal the trauma bond we become healthier and happier than ever! ❤🦋
Thrive on.
How do I cope when I know of the abuse or some of the abuse that happened to my adult son: isolated, framed, lied about, gaslighted, got committed, got into trouble with law, financial abuse, my son ended his life. Everyone believes and supports the abusive father including Authorities. How do I cope? I already said to the abuser that I'm going to expose him and that I've got his number and I have told other people. Over and over. I am blocked. I am exhausted, have nothing left. Nor did my son.
GOD…. narc warfare is spiritual
My heart goes out to you. This is awful. The solution is always the same. Heal ourselves and then all else can follow ❤🦋
Thrive on
It takes so much time to ‘learn’ the correct way to deal with a narc
Especially once you’ve long left but have to deal with children
I remind myself
“The only way to win is not to play”
Which is reportedly what the computer said to itself when it tried to win a nuclear war
Wish I could say I always remember. Often I forget and suffer the consequences then I’m back here for a revision course
Melanie is the only teacher that knows truly how to help us
Roseanna I'm very pleased that my material has been able to help guide you. Ideally id love for you to not need to revisit this information, because you have experienced your new empowerment 🎉❤ Are you a member of our wonderful NARP Community, where we can help support you to break through, for you, on the inside, so that you can leave this battle behind in the dust, and begin your True Thriving Life? If not, here is the NARP Program and Community information www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp I hope that this helps! 🦋❤️
#1. Never tell anyone this. Ultimatums don’t work on anyone with self respect and shows you’re manipulative. If you need to leave just leave. Narc or not.
Thriver ❤
Great! Loved it!
The goal is to never be duped by one again. Co-Dep's attract them.
Thriver
My children’s father was diagnosed by a professional psychiatrist as one of the worst narcissist cases he’d ever seen he’s been in business for over 40 years. He diagnosed me with post traumatic stress disorder so why is it that my children won’t talk to me won’t pick up the phone to say I love you I miss you don’t even acknowledge I’m alive when I stop co signing for their cars or their colleges, they just stopped talking to me like I had died they never called me back they never respond and one of them told me if I try to call her she will call a lawyer to have me put in jail whatever that meant
I guess what I’m asking is at what point did I become the bad guy or did all my children become narcissist??
@@sharonducci7089sadly this is my fear if I stay. My kids are still small…
But it sounds like maybe y’all were together too long and he was able to manipulate the kids into believing you are the bad guy
This is a risk we take with narcs
It doesn’t matter that a therapist diagnosed him he’s still gonna play victim to the kids and he’s better at manipulating than you so he wins
@@sharonducci7089the kids are being used as his “ flying monkeys “ to make you doubt yourself now….
Just pray God opens their eyes to the truth… it’s such a sad mess we end up with because of narcissists it makes me so mad
❤
Keep your for forgiveness to your self and God that it
Thrive
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NL
Hello🎉😂
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