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whenever i look at your videos you emit such a wholesome vibe. genuine non pretentious, informative perspectives delivered with life and a smile! you can tell when someone is in their zone by the way their eyes light up in speaking, it’s that inner child spark. love it!
I saw this video last night and decided to watch it the next day. And this morning, I sat down to do my daily reading. The two of cups card showed up! It then got clarified by the lovers card. That's when I knew, I had to watch this video asap and get things working. Thanks for all that you do❤
I love your well thought out intro. Tradition and pop culture conflate love with limerence and within the boundaries of said tradition. While limerence can be an incredible source of creative energy and motivation, its "reward" is usually its danger, whether we receive the outcome of our imagination or not!
Thank you SO MUCH for presenting this exactly as you did. I’ve wanted to be on the other side of the finish line for so long, but I know I’m still at the very beginning of step one still. It’s been disheartening to not be able to move forward so far, especially at 42 years old. Sigh…I’m a hopeless romantic but it’s time to put more hope and work into it. Thank you for being the most reasonable explanation on this topic I’ve ever found. You’ve actually inspired me to start correctly. Just…thank you. 💖✨
Did a particular magical working to find love... and immediately after came across this video. Thank you Dennis! Always helpful, clear, and solid advice.
Denis, lots of love to your family, thanks for sharing your personal & endearing love story from beautiful park setting 🥰🙏 Wish lists are uncanny, basic & brilliant 🌜🌞🪐💖
As weird as it sounds, I came across your channel about 3 years ago or so and watched it not more than twice at the time. Lately, my love life has been giving me concerns, and something urged me to look for your channel, and here I am. You had a message for me. I'll start writing to myself from tomorrow, showing myself love and asking God what I desire specifically while believing it's granted. I'll listen to this video over and over Thank you so much
I absolutely totally agree with you about self-love.I also want to mention this. I feel like there is a Divine connection of love which is being lost. In the modern age. It's kind of like throwing two firecrackers together and seeing if they are going to make a waterfall. AKA fairy tale, it is true. I know, that's not what we're talking about in this video. Ah, the days before catfishing 😢 oh Mr foolish fish I have been so blessed to have had so much love in my life ❤
I see your Trojan horse of getting us to tend to the true purpose of love (just when we need it most) in the guise of boosting attraction, and I approve. 😉
Oh my goodness. Is something in the stars right now? I felt randomly inspired today to begin creating a devotional mainly art journal to Venus and was just creating the first pages with the seals, squares etc. of Venus. And then another youtuber I follow uploads a song video chanting Venus mantras and now this!
Wow! I've been working on this for a good couple of months now! I'm glad it's finally ready... I was wondering - should I hold it back until February, but no, people need love all year round!
So I have made these types of lists before, but very detailed. And I have never found love. I am now 40 and still single (been single all my life)... I want a family (I am a woman so time is kind of running out) with children and a husband but I have never even managed to get a boyfriend. I think here is subconcious programming since childhood (my parents are both single since I was one year old) There is nothing wrong with my looks (average, absoluely not ugly) and I believe I am an interesting and caring person. But obviously my self-esteem and self confidence isnt great. I am also chronically ill and I guess I think "Who would want a person that isnt perfectly healthy"... but then I see people that are crippled, or very ugly, and so on and so forth, that has found their match, so that can't be it. There is something in my aura that deflects people and it makes me so sad because all I want is a husband and a family. I have never experienced love so I guess I feel beaten down after like twenty years of looking for love. I havent dated in many years now. Last guy l dated did love me, but I didn't love him. I tried, because I really want a husband but.. you cant force these things. Any other recommendations except for what you said in this video?
If I could give you this analogy: say you wanted to run a marathon. You need to train for months, slowly increasing from being able to run to the end of the street to, little by little, round the block, and slowly increasing until you can run the entire marathon. On the big day you might eat a slow-release special sports shake that will give you that extra bit of stamina, and possibly a red-bull at the three quarters mark. Doing the list (also, please notice how I said detailed with your non-negotiables but leave space for possibility) is like taking the food supplements and having the energy drink. They will help, but they won't replace the fundamentals of self-esteem and self-confidence. Watch those two segments again and practice the recommendations there. I hope that helps! 🙏
Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure magic cannot be used to make someone do something they dont want to do. If someone does something based on magic it's because they are open to the option and going along with the influence of the energy. Otherwise they will not be influenced by it. And the power of the energy will naturally move over to the person who is most readily available and who does match your intention.
@@FoolishFishBooks hmmm, thanks for the feedback. I suppose I should do research to make sure people aren't coercing me without me knowing it. I didn't think it was possible.
The area you were walking and talking through is so gorgeous! I always appreciate a lovely couple meet story. Making that bulleted list of who you want in your life is so key as I've noticed some folks in my life take whoever happens to cross their paths instead of really waiting for the person that is a true partner.
Same park featured in my "a problem with my religion" video, just a different time of year :) Yes! the impulse to "get into a relationship asap and at any cost" can be so counter-productive!
I have a question, what is one supposed to do with different characters of a given planet? For example, page 189 of the Veritible Key of Solomon has the “Mystical Characters of Venus,” then it lists the first, second, and third characters. How do I use these functionally?
Thank you for providing viewers with pieces of advice for a better life rather than those magick techniques boiling down to what you knew didn't have to be spelled out for the viewers ! (Oh, and... Congrats on your 20th wedding anniversary!)
Should one write one's list in the same way one might word a talisman - i.e. to write it as though one has already attained a partner with the desired traits? I'm currently single and finally, after many years of self-growth, am becoming prepared to enter the next phase of my life, so long as the right kind of person is availed to me.
It certainly won't hurt to write them as present tense statements, What's most important is for them to be positive statements, but they can be more like bullet points: "likes classical music", "beauty spot on cheek" etc...
@FoolishFishBooks Understood! And thank you for all your work! Your recommendations have helped me immensely in beginning my journey and finding the kind of magic I am drawn start with.
It was just on a piece of paper that got lost somewhere along the way. The process of creating the list was important. What happened to the piece of paper wasn't important. I likely threw it away shortly after making the request satisfied that the message had been put across.
💙 I’ve noticed a theme over your last couple of vids.. which is that respect, focused intention and humility can potentially create meaningful and productive engagement as much as ‘paint by numbers’ ceremonial approaches can 👍
Once I had a ex visit me while in town shortly. We've been broken up months ago, things were amicable. And hour before she arrived I pulled one card out of the Thoth Deck, just one. The two of cups. The rest is self explanatory.
No protocol. Just throw it away when it feels right to throw it away, e.g. you know it's contents very well etc.. The process of writing it is the magic, not the piece of paper. 😄
OMG you made the lady running behind you disappear in your head :o if that is not a proof of a wonderful magician ! ( :D ). Personally, I never found a partner when I was looking for one but when I finally say to myself '' f...this I'm done searching ''. Thought I did attracted magically 3 persons with some unorthodox ways, all 3 of them brought to my life great insight but ultimately not destined to stay... So I wonder now if I just get the karma of my actions by being alone. Also once you love being alone the idea of having someone by your side is not really THE exciting thought that it was before. So after the first part there is also a possibility that the desire itself vanish no ?
It's another reason why being in a healthy relationship with yourself - to the point that a relationship with someone else is no longer a necessity - is so vital when searching for love. Love only comes when we are able to happily survive without it. There's a terrible 2000s movie called "The Tao of Steve" about exactly this!
If i do not find love now, Poisson, I'm coming to haunt you. 😂😂 J/k, great advice really - this info is so so valuable! May i add something to the point of "be in a relationship with yourself": You can also be in a full-blown relationship with, say, an Angel, your holy guardian angel, even a Demon / Spirit, whatever. This also boosts your self esteem and confidence, when you feel loved and protected by that higher being - And when you know said being takes care of your matters.
My father and my step-mother were always fighting over stupid shit, so a couple years back I decided to do a little something with honey and the help of Aphrodite to mellow them out so they wouldn't live such an awful wedding for god knows how long, but mainly for the sake of my sister so she wouldn't have to witness so much bullshit for the rest of her life. They've since become much more normal and patient with each other. I always used to ask how things were going when my father called me, but the last time I asked I got the feeling he was a bit pissed with me since I kept asking the same question for years lol I've never done anything for me yet, though
Yes! Not such a silly question. Many people who think they love themselves by default even don't realise how much they self-sabotage. Please check the Audible hypnosis resource in the description for a short-cut key to overcoming self-doubt and self-loathing that is way more common, (I would even say standard!) than people imagine.
@FoolishFishBooks I don't think it's a silly question. I've been avoiding self-love my whole life. Pride was the sin of Lucifer, and up until recently I've treated any form of self-aggrandizement as if it were refined plutonium, to not be interacted with. Plus so many people out there hate everybody except for themselves, it made sense to me to not focus on oneself at all.
@@ares333x2 I'm already one of the kindest people I know. By the time I'd heard of self-esteem, I was used to 'barking orders like a drill sergeant' to myself in an attempt to better myself so the idea sounded silly. Recently I discovered I'm the only person I know who doesn't believe in self-love. Every romance ends with advice to fix self-love,
@ares333x2 I'm already one of the most loving people I know. I learned to be hard on myself when I was young. When introduced to self-love, I thought it was ridiculous, even dangerously close to vanity. But I recently realized I'm the only person I know who doesn't believe in it. Problem is, I don't know what to do. Affirmations just make my subconscious mind angry and quickly devolves into a yelling match.
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whenever i look at your videos you emit such a wholesome vibe. genuine non pretentious, informative perspectives delivered with life and a smile! you can tell when someone is in their zone by the way their eyes light up in speaking, it’s that inner child spark. love it!
😄 thank you for your very kind words! I'm very fortunate to be able to do what I love 🙏🙇♂️
Parents Logic at its best Lol: teaching english in unstable country? Out of The Question...joining the army? Why not...lol
xD
I saw this video last night and decided to watch it the next day. And this morning, I sat down to do my daily reading.
The two of cups card showed up! It then got clarified by the lovers card.
That's when I knew, I had to watch this video asap and get things working.
Thanks for all that you do❤
That's beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
I love your well thought out intro. Tradition and pop culture conflate love with limerence and within the boundaries of said tradition. While limerence can be an incredible source of creative energy and motivation, its "reward" is usually its danger, whether we receive the outcome of our imagination or not!
Thank you SO MUCH for presenting this exactly as you did. I’ve wanted to be on the other side of the finish line for so long, but I know I’m still at the very beginning of step one still. It’s been disheartening to not be able to move forward so far, especially at 42 years old. Sigh…I’m a hopeless romantic but it’s time to put more hope and work into it. Thank you for being the most reasonable explanation on this topic I’ve ever found. You’ve actually inspired me to start correctly. Just…thank you. 💖✨
Wishing you all possible success! ♥️
Did a particular magical working to find love... and immediately after came across this video. Thank you Dennis! Always helpful, clear, and solid advice.
Excellent advice AND a heartwarming story. Honestly, a must watch video.
I'm so glad you liked it! Thank you for the kind words! 😄🙏
Denis, lots of love to your family, thanks for sharing your personal & endearing love story from beautiful park setting 🥰🙏 Wish lists are uncanny, basic & brilliant 🌜🌞🪐💖
Very heart-warming video with excellent advice. And I usually roll my eyes 🙄 at love-talk on UA-cam.
This is beautiful, i will definitely be giving it a try.
As weird as it sounds, I came across your channel about 3 years ago or so and watched it not more than twice at the time.
Lately, my love life has been giving me concerns, and something urged me to look for your channel, and here I am. You had a message for me.
I'll start writing to myself from tomorrow, showing myself love and asking God what I desire specifically while believing it's granted.
I'll listen to this video over and over
Thank you so much
I'm so glad I could help! Wishing you every success in your process and deep, meaningful connection 🙏
I absolutely totally agree with you about self-love.I also want to mention this. I feel like there is a Divine connection of love which is being lost. In the modern age. It's kind of like throwing two firecrackers together and seeing if they are going to make a waterfall. AKA fairy tale, it is true. I know, that's not what we're talking about in this video. Ah, the days before catfishing 😢 oh Mr foolish fish I have been so blessed to have had so much love in my life ❤
Already the first few line are gems 💎
THIS IS WHAT IVE BEEN ASKING FOOOOOOORRRR
YOU ABSOLUTE UNIT
So happy to serve! 😄🙏
@@FoolishFishBooksMy husband of twenty-six years has just left me. This couldn’t be more aptly timed. Thank you. 🙏
@@priestessthea Oh wow. I'm so sorry... I hope the advice here helps in a little way 🙇
I see your Trojan horse of getting us to tend to the true purpose of love (just when we need it most) in the guise of boosting attraction, and I approve. 😉
🥰
Amazing. I liked this advice. Thanks for sharing
My pleasure! There are hopefully a few gems in here for anyone with the patience to listen 😄🙏
Oh my goodness. Is something in the stars right now? I felt randomly inspired today to begin creating a devotional mainly art journal to Venus and was just creating the first pages with the seals, squares etc. of Venus. And then another youtuber I follow uploads a song video chanting Venus mantras and now this!
Wow! I've been working on this for a good couple of months now! I'm glad it's finally ready... I was wondering - should I hold it back until February, but no, people need love all year round!
The lighting in this video looked excellent
Thank you! I think I've finally (after 6 years!) got it a way I like 😄
So I have made these types of lists before, but very detailed. And I have never found love. I am now 40 and still single (been single all my life)... I want a family (I am a woman so time is kind of running out) with children and a husband but I have never even managed to get a boyfriend. I think here is subconcious programming since childhood (my parents are both single since I was one year old) There is nothing wrong with my looks (average, absoluely not ugly) and I believe I am an interesting and caring person. But obviously my self-esteem and self confidence isnt great. I am also chronically ill and I guess I think "Who would want a person that isnt perfectly healthy"... but then I see people that are crippled, or very ugly, and so on and so forth, that has found their match, so that can't be it. There is something in my aura that deflects people and it makes me so sad because all I want is a husband and a family. I have never experienced love so I guess I feel beaten down after like twenty years of looking for love. I havent dated in many years now. Last guy l dated did love me, but I didn't love him. I tried, because I really want a husband but.. you cant force these things. Any other recommendations except for what you said in this video?
Yes! Taking the steps in the video in the correct order!
If I could give you this analogy: say you wanted to run a marathon. You need to train for months, slowly increasing from being able to run to the end of the street to, little by little, round the block, and slowly increasing until you can run the entire marathon. On the big day you might eat a slow-release special sports shake that will give you that extra bit of stamina, and possibly a red-bull at the three quarters mark.
Doing the list (also, please notice how I said detailed with your non-negotiables but leave space for possibility) is like taking the food supplements and having the energy drink. They will help, but they won't replace the fundamentals of self-esteem and self-confidence. Watch those two segments again and practice the recommendations there.
I hope that helps! 🙏
the qualities I want in a partner are more intangible so harder to articulate and not as easy to recognize (initially)
Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure magic cannot be used to make someone do something they dont want to do. If someone does something based on magic it's because they are open to the option and going along with the influence of the energy.
Otherwise they will not be influenced by it. And the power of the energy will naturally move over to the person who is most readily available and who does match your intention.
First paragraph, I'm afraid you're thinking of hypnosis, not magic. The second paragraph is just incorrect 🙇♂️
@@FoolishFishBooks hmmm, thanks for the feedback. I suppose I should do research to make sure people aren't coercing me without me knowing it. I didn't think it was possible.
The area you were walking and talking through is so gorgeous! I always appreciate a lovely couple meet story. Making that bulleted list of who you want in your life is so key as I've noticed some folks in my life take whoever happens to cross their paths instead of really waiting for the person that is a true partner.
Same park featured in my "a problem with my religion" video, just a different time of year :)
Yes! the impulse to "get into a relationship asap and at any cost" can be so counter-productive!
Thank you so much for sharing this ❤
there is really good energy coming from you :) thank you for the video, now I am going to bewitch... ehm charm... my ex, hahaha 🧙🏻♀️
thanks very nice video as always
I have a question, what is one supposed to do with different characters of a given planet? For example, page 189 of the Veritible Key of Solomon has the “Mystical Characters of Venus,” then it lists the first, second, and third characters. How do I use these functionally?
Let me refer you to Sara Mastros's "The Sorcery of Solomon". 🙏
Lovely video
Fantastic advice ❤
Thank you for providing viewers with pieces of advice for a better life rather than those magick techniques boiling down to what you knew didn't have to be spelled out for the viewers ! (Oh, and... Congrats on your 20th wedding anniversary!)
Whats the video called where you go in depth about being bilingual? Ive been taking a second language myself
ua-cam.com/video/jBJ9Qn8CISk/v-deo.html
Should one write one's list in the same way one might word a talisman - i.e. to write it as though one has already attained a partner with the desired traits? I'm currently single and finally, after many years of self-growth, am becoming prepared to enter the next phase of my life, so long as the right kind of person is availed to me.
It certainly won't hurt to write them as present tense statements, What's most important is for them to be positive statements, but they can be more like bullet points: "likes classical music", "beauty spot on cheek" etc...
@FoolishFishBooks Understood! And thank you for all your work! Your recommendations have helped me immensely in beginning my journey and finding the kind of magic I am drawn start with.
Thanks
Your video put a muckle smile on my face so there ya go,
Oh wow! Thank you very much indeed! This is deeply appreciated! All my very best wishes to you 🙏
@@FoolishFishBooks Money can sometimes be at bit embarrassing I know however when you acknowledge someones work I feel a bit indebted
Just curious, What did you do with the list when you’d acquired your partner?
It was just on a piece of paper that got lost somewhere along the way. The process of creating the list was important. What happened to the piece of paper wasn't important. I likely threw it away shortly after making the request satisfied that the message had been put across.
@ Makes sense. Thanks Denis.
💙 I’ve noticed a theme over your last couple of vids.. which is that respect, focused intention and humility can potentially create meaningful and productive engagement as much as ‘paint by numbers’ ceremonial approaches can 👍
Once I had a ex visit me while in town shortly. We've been broken up months ago, things were amicable.
And hour before she arrived I pulled one card out of the Thoth Deck, just one.
The two of cups. The rest is self explanatory.
In regards to the written list, is there a protocol for it's disposal, kind of like with sigils?
No protocol. Just throw it away when it feels right to throw it away, e.g. you know it's contents very well etc.. The process of writing it is the magic, not the piece of paper. 😄
@@FoolishFishBooks Thank you. As the the entity you mentioned, should we set up a circle of protection first?
@Misanola not at all necessary. But feel free to set up a circle to ISOLATE if you wish 🙏
❤hiiiiii🎉
Hi there :D
OMG you made the lady running behind you disappear in your head :o if that is not a proof of a wonderful magician ! ( :D ). Personally, I never found a partner when I was looking for one but when I finally say to myself '' f...this I'm done searching ''. Thought I did attracted magically 3 persons with some unorthodox ways, all 3 of them brought to my life great insight but ultimately not destined to stay... So I wonder now if I just get the karma of my actions by being alone.
Also once you love being alone the idea of having someone by your side is not really THE exciting thought that it was before. So after the first part there is also a possibility that the desire itself vanish no ?
It's another reason why being in a healthy relationship with yourself - to the point that a relationship with someone else is no longer a necessity - is so vital when searching for love. Love only comes when we are able to happily survive without it. There's a terrible 2000s movie called "The Tao of Steve" about exactly this!
If i do not find love now, Poisson, I'm coming to haunt you. 😂😂
J/k, great advice really - this info is so so valuable!
May i add something to the point of "be in a relationship with yourself":
You can also be in a full-blown relationship with, say, an Angel, your holy guardian angel, even a Demon / Spirit, whatever. This also boosts your self esteem and confidence, when you feel loved and protected by that higher being - And when you know said being takes care of your matters.
💯 spot on! 🙏🙏🙏
you still goin?
@@user-cr7u1iue7g still goin indeed! 😂
I just cant get over that fact that u look like my dead brother.
A good day for rememberence. Wishing you and your late brother peace and love.
@@FoolishFishBooks I appreciate that. Wishing you and ur wife an eternal love
My father and my step-mother were always fighting over stupid shit, so a couple years back I decided to do a little something with honey and the help of Aphrodite to mellow them out so they wouldn't live such an awful wedding for god knows how long, but mainly for the sake of my sister so she wouldn't have to witness so much bullshit for the rest of her life.
They've since become much more normal and patient with each other. I always used to ask how things were going when my father called me, but the last time I asked I got the feeling he was a bit pissed with me since I kept asking the same question for years lol
I've never done anything for me yet, though
Self Love? Is that even possible?
Yes! Not such a silly question. Many people who think they love themselves by default even don't realise how much they self-sabotage. Please check the Audible hypnosis resource in the description for a short-cut key to overcoming self-doubt and self-loathing that is way more common, (I would even say standard!) than people imagine.
@FoolishFishBooks I don't think it's a silly question. I've been avoiding self-love my whole life. Pride was the sin of Lucifer, and up until recently I've treated any form of self-aggrandizement as if it were refined plutonium, to not be interacted with. Plus so many people out there hate everybody except for themselves, it made sense to me to not focus on oneself at all.
Oh yes! Find love inside... The more you love yourself the more you can love others
@@ares333x2 I'm already one of the kindest people I know.
By the time I'd heard of self-esteem, I was used to 'barking orders like a drill sergeant' to myself in an attempt to better myself so the idea sounded silly. Recently I discovered I'm the only person I know who doesn't believe in self-love. Every romance ends with advice to fix self-love,
@ares333x2 I'm already one of the most loving people I know.
I learned to be hard on myself when I was young. When introduced to self-love, I thought it was ridiculous, even dangerously close to vanity. But I recently realized I'm the only person I know who doesn't believe in it.
Problem is, I don't know what to do. Affirmations just make my subconscious mind angry and quickly devolves into a yelling match.