I’m glad I’m not the only one who has no career goals lol, seems like everyone around me knows exactly what they want to do! Fingers crossed this is the year we both figure it out! Loved the video as always💖
I’m so sorry you’ve been so stressed recently! About buying a car - i’ve bought my last two cars off of facebook marketplace (my first one lasted me 6 years and i just got a new one a year ago). i don’t know anything about cars lol so i was always nervous buying a car like that, but you can hire a mechanic to come out and look at the car with you/for you and they’ll give you a full write up on the condition of the car and what work they think it’ll need done in the next few years. really handy way to negotiate prices and to get a third party opinion on if the car is worth what they’re selling it for. dealerships always feel kind of sleazy to me and i also feel like i do NOT have dealership type of money lol. my last two cars i bought for between $5k-$6k and they’ve been great :) just my experience! i know it’s super daunting and overwhelming - good luck!! ❤
thank you so much for listening!! xxx i think that’s a very smart way to do it!!! atm i just don’t have enough money saved up to do that, but maybe i can keep the family’s friends car for a bit longer and continue to save up! because at this point this crap is wild 🤣
I’m so sorry you’ve been dealing with so much anxiety and uncertainty 😔 my husband and I have a Dacia and it’s been so reliable and cheap to run but a nice quality car. We’ve had it for 5 years now and we got it used but on finance. I would 100% get one again. The car market in the UK is ridiculous as well, used cars with really high mileage are going for the price of what used to be the price of a new car. I can imagine it’s really stressful 😣 I hate moving as well, the whole packing and unpacking process completely unravels me. I hope you get settled soon. Are you buying or renting the house? It sounds really exciting! I’d love to be a therapist but it’s getting up the courage to do it 😂 I’d also love to write a book but publishing sounds like an absolute nightmare. I’m one of those people who’s never known what to do with their lives, like you I’m really jealous of people who have a set plan of what they want to do career wise. My 2024 has been a whirlwind so far, my sister had her baby which has been incredible and we’re all so happy! She had a little boy and he’s the most precious little thing 🥰 I’ve followed your instagram! I’ve just started painting again and I really love it, I want to get back into vintage/junk journaling again because I used to love that as well. I’m going to be painting my own set of tarot cards which is super exciting. I’m so glad you’re finally going to have your library!!! I know it’s been a dream of yours! 😍 Pleaaaase can we have a tour when it’s done? I think your family would be so proud of you and your channel! I personally think it is a big deal, you should be proud of yourself and what you do for this community, you’re amazing ❤❤ As always I’m sending all my love and light to you, you’re a beautiful human ❤❤❤❤ Edit: winged eyeliner is one of my few talents, I’ve been doing it now for over ten years so I’ve perfected it but when I look at photos from my first couple of years doing…yeahhh…it needed some work 😂 my advice is to practice a lot and in my opinion there is a wing to work with any eye shape/type! Maybe look up hooded eye wing tutorials in particular and experiment 😊😊
i've actually just purchased a car this week!!! i'm very happy about it and glad that the whole process is over lmaooo. yeah the market is absolutely insane right now, sucks that it's the same in the UK!! we are renting the house atm and hopefully will buy it in the future!! adult thingssss lmao. I WOULD BUY & READ YOUR BOOK SO FASSSTTTT. omg if you want to do it you should really give it a go!!! i'm sure there are parts of the process that are no fun but i think it would be absolutely worth it!!!! i'm sorry you also struggle with this whole "career" thing... it's no fun and i wouldn't wish the feeling on anyone. sending you love xxxx CONGRATULATIONS ON BECOMING AN AUNTIIEEE!!!! ahhhh that's so exciting!!! it is such a blessing and that relationship is so special, i'm so happy for you and your sister!! ok i followed you back on insta and can i just say your instagram is so wonderful???? so creative and beautiful and i can't wait to see what you read and read your thoughts :) hahahaha ngl i can't wait to give ya'll a tour on the library!!! i'll FOR SURE do a bookshelf tour somewhat soon and then in the future when the actual library is all set up i'll do a tour of that as well :))) thank you so much, i'm not gonna lie i've already fallen back into the "eehhhhh i'm not gonna tell them" feeling and idk whyyyy ugh i just think it's a weird thing for me to bring up when i've been posting for such a long time now lol. i really just need to frickin do it. hahahah i love that for you!!! yes definitely need to do lots of practicing and need to watch a million videos lolol. hope you're having a fantastic day!!! xxxxx you're the best!!!
@@raeasmr17 you’re actually the sweetest 😭😭 I’m so glad your car situation is sorted and that you’re happy with it! Adulting is sooo much funnnnn 😂😂😂 I’ve recently redesigned my instagram the beginning of this year and I’m so happy with it! ❤️❤️❤️
It is stressful but you need to be patient and keep looking! If you find the right dealership they will help you out. Also go to your bank and ask them about what loans they offer.
I swear we are the same person lol. I'm in the process of moving and it is EXTREMELY stressful and overwhelming and I just want to shut down and sleep and not deal with it. I have trouble figuring out what to pack and what to keep out and I hate change. I also have to move before we have a house we are renting because I'm trying to get my credit a little better because I don't want to run the risk of being denied a bunch and to get too many hard hits on my credit because it's not high enough, so I have to go pack up everything and stay at a weekly rental until I am sure I can get into a place without being denied because right now my credit falls short of the requirements. Also, don't feel bad because I'm 28 and still don't have a career lined up. I had a plan to be a touring photographer for live music since high school, was in an arts school for digital photography, and unfortunately I had a kid and can't do that now, so I did the stay at home mom thing and worked a retail job, but I'm trying to find out what I can do while having a family and it's tough.
feeling seen is the best!!!! you are not alone!!! 🥰🥰 that sounds sooo stressful i’m so sorry!! having to move multiple times like that must be so difficult. it’s good to know we’re not alone out here!! those of us who don’t know what the f*** we want to do with our lives 🤣 thank you for listening!!!
i’m feeling much better now!! it’s still not sorted but i was just have a couple of stressful days (tmi but i was definitely PMSing 😂)but yeah, feeling better. thank you for listening!!! 🥲🧡
I have a psychology degree and did nothing with it 😂😂 so probably a wise choice! Thankfully I had an ece teacher degree first so thats what I do- teach kindergarten! So I guess I kinda use it lol
bless your souullllll!!!!! i’m sure that’s a lot to handle 😂 and i think psychology has a huge impact at that age so you definitely use it!! one of my favorite psych classes what child psychology! such formative years you’re spending with these kids!! 🥰
The binaural setting works really well with your voice/whispering! I got so many tingles
thank you for the feedback!! 🥰 i’ll use the binaural setting more in the future 😊
I’m glad I’m not the only one who has no career goals lol, seems like everyone around me knows exactly what they want to do! Fingers crossed this is the year we both figure it out! Loved the video as always💖
it’s so haarrddd lol it’s a huge decision to make!!! you’re not alone 🧡
I’m so sorry you’ve been so stressed recently! About buying a car - i’ve bought my last two cars off of facebook marketplace (my first one lasted me 6 years and i just got a new one a year ago). i don’t know anything about cars lol so i was always nervous buying a car like that, but you can hire a mechanic to come out and look at the car with you/for you and they’ll give you a full write up on the condition of the car and what work they think it’ll need done in the next few years. really handy way to negotiate prices and to get a third party opinion on if the car is worth what they’re selling it for. dealerships always feel kind of sleazy to me and i also feel like i do NOT have dealership type of money lol. my last two cars i bought for between $5k-$6k and they’ve been great :) just my experience! i know it’s super daunting and overwhelming - good luck!! ❤
thank you so much for listening!! xxx i think that’s a very smart way to do it!!! atm i just don’t have enough money saved up to do that, but maybe i can keep the family’s friends car for a bit longer and continue to save up! because at this point this crap is wild 🤣
I love your clicky whispers. ❤
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I’m so sorry you’ve been dealing with so much anxiety and uncertainty 😔 my husband and I have a Dacia and it’s been so reliable and cheap to run but a nice quality car. We’ve had it for 5 years now and we got it used but on finance. I would 100% get one again. The car market in the UK is ridiculous as well, used cars with really high mileage are going for the price of what used to be the price of a new car. I can imagine it’s really stressful 😣 I hate moving as well, the whole packing and unpacking process completely unravels me. I hope you get settled soon. Are you buying or renting the house? It sounds really exciting!
I’d love to be a therapist but it’s getting up the courage to do it 😂 I’d also love to write a book but publishing sounds like an absolute nightmare. I’m one of those people who’s never known what to do with their lives, like you I’m really jealous of people who have a set plan of what they want to do career wise.
My 2024 has been a whirlwind so far, my sister had her baby which has been incredible and we’re all so happy! She had a little boy and he’s the most precious little thing 🥰
I’ve followed your instagram! I’ve just started painting again and I really love it, I want to get back into vintage/junk journaling again because I used to love that as well. I’m going to be painting my own set of tarot cards which is super exciting.
I’m so glad you’re finally going to have your library!!! I know it’s been a dream of yours! 😍 Pleaaaase can we have a tour when it’s done?
I think your family would be so proud of you and your channel! I personally think it is a big deal, you should be proud of yourself and what you do for this community, you’re amazing ❤❤
As always I’m sending all my love and light to you, you’re a beautiful human ❤❤❤❤
Edit: winged eyeliner is one of my few talents, I’ve been doing it now for over ten years so I’ve perfected it but when I look at photos from my first couple of years doing…yeahhh…it needed some work 😂 my advice is to practice a lot and in my opinion there is a wing to work with any eye shape/type! Maybe look up hooded eye wing tutorials in particular and experiment 😊😊
i've actually just purchased a car this week!!! i'm very happy about it and glad that the whole process is over lmaooo. yeah the market is absolutely insane right now, sucks that it's the same in the UK!! we are renting the house atm and hopefully will buy it in the future!! adult thingssss lmao.
I WOULD BUY & READ YOUR BOOK SO FASSSTTTT. omg if you want to do it you should really give it a go!!! i'm sure there are parts of the process that are no fun but i think it would be absolutely worth it!!!! i'm sorry you also struggle with this whole "career" thing... it's no fun and i wouldn't wish the feeling on anyone. sending you love xxxx
CONGRATULATIONS ON BECOMING AN AUNTIIEEE!!!! ahhhh that's so exciting!!! it is such a blessing and that relationship is so special, i'm so happy for you and your sister!!
ok i followed you back on insta and can i just say your instagram is so wonderful???? so creative and beautiful and i can't wait to see what you read and read your thoughts :)
hahahaha ngl i can't wait to give ya'll a tour on the library!!! i'll FOR SURE do a bookshelf tour somewhat soon and then in the future when the actual library is all set up i'll do a tour of that as well :)))
thank you so much, i'm not gonna lie i've already fallen back into the "eehhhhh i'm not gonna tell them" feeling and idk whyyyy ugh i just think it's a weird thing for me to bring up when i've been posting for such a long time now lol. i really just need to frickin do it.
hahahah i love that for you!!! yes definitely need to do lots of practicing and need to watch a million videos lolol.
hope you're having a fantastic day!!! xxxxx you're the best!!!
@@raeasmr17 you’re actually the sweetest 😭😭 I’m so glad your car situation is sorted and that you’re happy with it! Adulting is sooo much funnnnn 😂😂😂 I’ve recently redesigned my instagram the beginning of this year and I’m so happy with it! ❤️❤️❤️
It is stressful but you need to be patient and keep looking! If you find the right dealership they will help you out. Also go to your bank and ask them about what loans they offer.
thank you for listening 🧡🧡 patience is key!! definitely don’t want to be in a position where i feel forced to purchase something out of desperation
I swear we are the same person lol. I'm in the process of moving and it is EXTREMELY stressful and overwhelming and I just want to shut down and sleep and not deal with it. I have trouble figuring out what to pack and what to keep out and I hate change. I also have to move before we have a house we are renting because I'm trying to get my credit a little better because I don't want to run the risk of being denied a bunch and to get too many hard hits on my credit because it's not high enough, so I have to go pack up everything and stay at a weekly rental until I am sure I can get into a place without being denied because right now my credit falls short of the requirements. Also, don't feel bad because I'm 28 and still don't have a career lined up. I had a plan to be a touring photographer for live music since high school, was in an arts school for digital photography, and unfortunately I had a kid and can't do that now, so I did the stay at home mom thing and worked a retail job, but I'm trying to find out what I can do while having a family and it's tough.
feeling seen is the best!!!! you are not alone!!! 🥰🥰 that sounds sooo stressful i’m so sorry!! having to move multiple times like that must be so difficult. it’s good to know we’re not alone out here!! those of us who don’t know what the f*** we want to do with our lives 🤣 thank you for listening!!!
Just moved myself so I feel you. Sending you lots of love and stamina! 🫶💪
thank you so much!!! hope your move went as smoothly as possible 😊
I love how you pause after asking how everyone is doing :)
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Binaural sounds great, hope you use it in more videos!
thank you for letting me know you enjoy it!! i can definitely do that 😊
How about leasing a car? Do you need to own it in the end?
that’s definitely something i’m thinking about!! just need to look into it a bit more 😊
Poor you that’s so much anxiety 😥
i’m feeling much better now!! it’s still not sorted but i was just have a couple of stressful days (tmi but i was definitely PMSing 😂)but yeah, feeling better. thank you for listening!!! 🥲🧡
I have a psychology degree and did nothing with it 😂😂 so probably a wise choice! Thankfully I had an ece teacher degree first so thats what I do- teach kindergarten! So I guess I kinda use it lol
bless your souullllll!!!!! i’m sure that’s a lot to handle 😂 and i think psychology has a huge impact at that age so you definitely use it!! one of my favorite psych classes what child psychology! such formative years you’re spending with these kids!! 🥰
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just buy a new car
It's not that easy for everyone 🤷🏻♀️
just buy it for her ❤️