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Omg this is golden!!! Hope you'll make a part two. :D And as a ENFP ADHDer I'd like to say that your video is really hey, my cat just shoved her head in a paper bag!
"Why do INFP ghost?" Because I didn't have a mental energy to text you back immidietally and after that I feel like it would be weird to answer so late
Im an INFP and i dont usually ghost, or idk if it counts as ghosting but i find myself not texting to my INFP friend for days on end I think we might be ghosting each other idk 😂
@@peacejoy3629 OMGGG I FEEL U dude whenever tell someone about my problems I feel immediately better but after a while I just hate the thought of them knowing I have this kind of mental-ish problem
I’m INFP but I feel this so hard. What do I want 🤯 going out with a group of friends and they ask me where I want to go 😱 just give me three options you like and I’ll pick one!
@@kaydincathey I dated an INTJ and a lot of my female friends are INTJs. Let me tell you. The girls are SO good at pretending to be extroverted. They aren't, and they don't like to be, but they can fake like nobody's business.
The INFP one is SO accurate. The worst thing is that when I'm the one getting ghosted, I get all anxious and worried, making up scenarios in my head explaining why someone ghosted me lol.
I cracked up as an INFJ, because he knows exactly what he wants, he just doesn’t trust you enough to tell you, and he’s pretending he doesn’t know so he won’t hurt your feelings.
As an INFJ, I honestly have no idea what I even want. Life is just meaningless. Edit: lol so turns out I was probably feeling that way cause of depression. Didn't know I was depressed at the time but now I'm completely fine. Also, I may have been mistyped cause I think I'm more of an INTJ. Anyway, my opinions have changed and now I have suddenly gotten kind of a very energetic and optimistic attitude towards life and I want to explore different things, have wonderful experiences and enjoy life to its fullest. I used to hate the phrases "the destination doesn't matter, the journey does" and all cause I used to think that what's the point of doing anything when you're gonna die at the end and lose everything one day but now I do agree that life is a journey that is meant to be enjoyed. Death comes to everyone, but those who make their lives memorable and make the world a better place to live in are always remembered and looked up to. If you feel like nothing interests you anymore, try meditation (guided meditation or something with positive affirmations preferably), make a list of things you're grateful for (this may sound childish or stupid at first cause that's what I thought too but I did it and it helped), treat yourself the way you would treat others (show compassion towards yourself, compliment yourself). Try to be happy. Even if you hate yourself or think that you don't deserve it, just try it for once and believe me after you're okay you would realise that you didn't deserve that hell after all and that you should have tried earlier. Personally, I hated myself so much I didn't even want to be happy and thought that I deserved to be depressed but now that I'm over it I realise that I'm not as bad as I thought myself to be. If I had found someone to explain to me that I'm worthy of happiness earlier I would have escaped from this darkness way sooner. So yeah, thought of writing this for anyone who feels the same.
@@thejazzthatsoundedlikefart4371 exactly… i just feel like if I focus on one thing I’m dismissing all the other available opportunities out there and so I just have to drown in the overwhelming desire to do something meaningful with my life but unable to because I know it won’t be enough and I’ll never be satisfied with myself
@@aarnzoo5124 yeah, that's why I've decided that I'll just do whatever my family asks me to cause till yet my only "goal" is to just keep them happy lol and probably some big social work before I die
Everytime ppl ask me what do i wan, it is just so hard to answer.. like for example colleagues ask what kind of food do i wan to eat during the celebration in the office..... everyone knew what to write but i just have no idea 🤣 i wrote 1. food 2. food 3. food and they got rejected...
I'm INFJ and my french teacher once asked me what is my dream ( in french obviously). It was supposed to be just a quick question, only to practice some sentences. My reaction was EXACTLY like the one in video
I'm enfp and I wouldn't be able to answer that too lol😂....I would probably give some generic answers like happiness, peace etc..don't get me wrong I want Happiness and Peace but wouldn't be able to give specific answer. On the other hand if you ask what I hate I would be able to answer that very quickly 😂
Exactly! so basically I lied most of the time in the language class just to respond quickly otherwise I will take too much time thinking about the real answer 😆
As an INFJ, all I wanna say is... yes. It's easier to stay silent than to EXPLAIN people that I want to live in the middle of a very big forest where I'm undisturbed and forgotten by society.
So you’ve also imagined that????!! I was so interested in that a few months ago totally I just wanted to go away from everyone and stay away of the stupid pain before even knowing I'm an INFJ I dreamed about a place where its a forest surrounded by ocean
@@mzafor3081 oh yeah I SO feel you. My dream house is a small gothic cottage surrounded by nature with a small creak behind it. But tbh I'm not even sure if that's specifically an INFJ thing or just a... "normal" thing?
INFJ be like "I want this, want that" when someone is not asking but when someone is asking, we don't know what we want. It's like when there are so many choices of food, I can't choose anything, I don't know what to eat but when there aren't any food at the moment, I find my self craving for almost anything. Why am I so complicated 🤣
Ha ha exactly I know what I want until someone ask me about it...then I have to think about if what I want I also can get and risk that the other person tells me that I can have it and then I have to come up with an excuse to why I don't go get it...and you say you're complicated 😉😁 Also my husband always say I crave anything or everything that is NOT in our fridge 🤷♀️
As an INTP, I find the interpretation SO accurate. Everyone always asks me how I'm playing like 10 hours of video games a day and still getting high 90s in school. Idk...I'm just thinking about random things at times where you don't expect...I could be watching anime and there'll be a math equation going in my head...
Fr I watch k/c/j/tdramas, Netflix series, movies, anime, reality shows, vlogs. I read books, manhwas, manhuas, manga. I listen to music, podcast. I play pubg, free fire. All this on a daily basis and stuff and yet I get good grades. I mean I got an exam tomorrow yet here I am watching this with equations in my head. Maybe it's bcz intps are super curious. I thought it was normal until ppl pointed it out and I'm secretly enjoying the admiration lol.
True ❤ but I've been stressed out these days I freaking got 70 on two of my exams and 60 on English damn I was about to get crazy when I saw my results 😂
"What do you want?" INFJ: *Suddenly thinking about life or the universe, the reason why humanity exist and flashback about their life choices. Also INFJ: "I want to know what you're thinking about me thinking about what I thinking about what I think I want" *Edit: JK, of course they want something meaningful that makes their quality of life even better, it can be literally anything as long as everyone around them is happy too. So here's the real question... "What do you need?"
Whenever someone asks why I’m lazy (INTP here) I either say, “I’m not lazy, I’m just using my energy wisely.” Or I shrug because opening my mouth and answering the question properly is such a pain :/
Fellow INTP. I do also have a problem with laziness, but what aggravates it is having my household chores taking up all the little energy I have that I would use to write my novel, learn Norwegian, digitalize my drawings and convert obscure black metal songs to chiptune.
When I heard the question, "Yeah but what do YOU want," I laughed, but then looked up from the computer, staring at the wall, at the same time he was looking around in the video and there was a weird mutual moment of... not knowing what the hell we wanted. lol
Question: “Do ENFP’s have adhd?” ENFP: “No.” ENFP: “wait, what was the question” Relatable Edit: Oh yeah and if any of you are wondering, I’m INFP :) Edit 2: Update! I retook the quiz and I’m now an INTP-T :D
As an INFP, I sometimes don’t like to respond or send things because sometimes they reply back right away and I don’t want to have a convo because I’d rather do something else but it’s too anxiety inducing to tell them that we could talk later.
I like how he mentioned we get ghosted in return 😅 so I have to not only mentally ready myself before texting an "avid texter" that replies at the speed of light, I have to simultaneously ready myself at the possibility of being ignored. I hope that makes sense 😄
That's just selfish and lacking a spine. I was good friends with an INFP and it was the same thing. I'm an ENFJ and I did all I could to maintain a friendship with them but you won't get the same out of them. It's better to keep these people as acquittances. They are generally good people and will be there for you but only when they're in the mood. They'll leave you high and dry when they're not. It's better not to invest emotions in to this personality type.
@@niranjanarangaraj I'm INTJ, an architect :') And the crazy thing is that I already acted exactly like in the video. Most of the time it's to know how people would think or react if I was someone else haha
As an INFJ, I often have and think the things that I want when I'm alone. But when they ask me personally about what I want, my mind suddenly went BLANK.
Like i need to plan first everything that i should say so that next time i could answer them but there's also a big chance that i can't really answer them when the time comes.
@@riverdale381 exactly! Like it's just not easy to answer a question THAT complicated, I need some time, probably a long time to figure out exactly how to answer that Question.
Don’t take this the wrong way, but I have seriously considered that this could be true. ‘Cause…like….INTJs scare me. I lie awake wondering how many hits are out on me and my family, how many deals are being made for golden fiddles vs my soul, etc… 😬
Yes thats true it made me feel proud but then i googled to see others and i saw "Why are ENFJs so hated" and then i read it. Later i get them all personal. I was happy but now im sad 😩🔫
My ISTJ bf gives me hugs to raise my oxytocin. Other than that he finds cuddling a, quote, "boring activity". He is very utilitarian: he uses my cuddles to fall asleep. I'm ENFP x)
Are the rest of my fellow ISTJ’s okay? ‘Cause I’m sitting here, loving hugs because they make the brain go :D. I do tend to change my opinion based on research but I like to enjoy simple useless stuff like drawing or binge-eating or whatever. Am I the weird one or..? I’ve taken like 3 different tests and they’ve all spit out ISTJ so I’m relatively certain of it.
INFJ: When someone asks me what do I want….. *internal screaming intensifies* -panic sets in -sudden memory loss of all cognitive function -awkwardly looking around the room to find someone to tell me what I want -pulls out a list of reminders of things I want
LOL! Y’all are great! This is why I have one specific playlist in my phone of “songs I like to sing”… because when people find out I can sing (not because I advertise that because I dislike the spotlight).. they ask me to sing something and I’ve been singing my entire life and suddenly forget that all music exists the moment they ask… I have to keep things around like this! The worst thing is food… apparently I seem to forget what I like every day.. it’s quite exhausting !
ENFP here, I have literally been looking into getting tested to see if I have ADHD. I talked to my friends and family about it, most people thought I had already been diagnosed.
How did you bring it up with your friends? I’m considering asking them casual to see, but don’t know how to ask about it. Like do I just go “Yo, do I seem like someone that has ADHD?” 🤔
@@lettucesalad716 howdy, I first picked the person I deemed most open to the conversation. I also didn't just have a convo about it to start with, I used it more as a topic I casually brought up. I wanted to not only ease myself into exploring that topic but also my friends and family. I also wanted to spare my mums feelings as I didn't want her to feel guilty for having not noticed it when I was little. I started talking about depression and adhd in general, mentioning that I just found out the depression can be a symptom not just a disorder on its own. I also talked about how there is comorbidity between adhd and depression. I realise that talking openly about depression is a hard convo on its own but its something i worked on feeling comfortable talking to people about for a while so it was easier (not easy) for me to start that way. For other people I mentioned my forgetfulness and hyperfocus and how I had always thought it was just my personality. That I had never realised those were symptoms of ADHD. I never mentioned at first that I had thoughts that I might have it. I just kind of planted the idea to gauge their reaction and see if they would be open to a full conversation at a later time about it and to see if I felt comfortable approaching that with them as well. I also started with talking about the stereotypes of adhd that I had and how I had recently found out that what I had thought was adhd was actually ADD and these misconceptions are often the cause of late diagnoses for people, specially women (yes i know there are a bunch of reasons why woman do not get diagnosed properly just mentioning what I said) For context, Im a 29yr old mixed race woman and when I had thought about adhd I had only ever pictured a white male child who is running around screaming because at school there was a little boy with adhd who acted like that. I didn't really have a clue what adhd actually was so he was my only example I based things off of. A little more context, I never really struggled in school so no teacher would have flagged me, don't get me wrong I got into trouble cus I forgot to do assignments and homework but I always managed to pass despite my forgetfullness/general chaotic nature. If its easier, try make a list of the symptoms you think you have. Circle the ones you think you can talk about the most easily. Think of examples from your life that can illustrate what you have circled. Pick a couple people from your life that may be the most open to chatting about mental illness or exploring harder topics (id suggest a fellow enfp if you have one), possibly picking people who have been there when you have displayed one of the symptoms that you have circled may be a good choice too. Sorry about the novel, I thought it best that I just give you a thorough explanation rather the bullet points so you can better see my process and potentially adapt it for your way of conversing/thinking. best of luck.
@@lettucesalad716 depending on the persons reaction and how what they said/ how what they said made me feel I would bring up that I think I might have adhd and that it may be something that I start seeing a doctor to help figure out if I do have it.
I'm in the same situation 😂 I missed the enfp part of the video, because I was reading the comments, and had to turn back and search for it, and it's just.. *Chef's kiss* #ishouldgetcheckedforadhd
@@TheGuyWhoCantPickAName Me. Like if I never ghost "Sup, Im back, sorry not answering sooner, I've been busy..." Me, that spent those 3 months just watching videos and reading
I kinda give people a death stare while I am in deep thoughts. Maybe thats why I dont have much friends which is awesome. I dont want to get surronded by stupid people
I ignore my little brother all the times (when there’s nothing important) simply because I had no energy to show emotions and talk to people, I’m a quiet type too but he misunderstood it as I am evil and didn’t love him🧍♀️
As an INTJ who has been given a very innocent looking face it doesn't happen much to me but when I do get lost in thought people think I'm mad or judging them. Even my little brother thinks I like to drink bleach, Idk how that came to be but yeah.
As an INTJ I've often been described as "someone who'd beat you to death without batting an eye while eating a croissant with one hand" and I find it accurate
I could be sleeping right now, but I’m watching a video with my eyes open, and I took time to type a reply to a comment. That’s practically working. It counts as working, right?
As an INFP, I can attest to this. Even went and deleted messaging apps on my phone to avoid responding to people. How I miss SMS where there’s no seen/read feature. 😅
As an INTP it hits hard when he said "I'm not lazy, I'm doing a lot of work up here (mind) while playing videogames or lying in bed until 2pm". The accuracy! Right now is 2:15 pm and I'm in bed thinking about humans' evolution...
"Why do INFP's ghost?" Me: "Noooo, I don't ghost. Definitely not, that's just mean. I mean... Wait a minute... do I?? Wait, that one person I never... oh no. Oh, Lord help me, I'm a terrible person!"
“Are INTJ’s evil?” No, we aren’t. We just have a very honest personality, sometimes we don’t care if we hurt your feelings but as the time passes by we kinda regret saying it (then move on). Ps. Well, that’s the case on me sometimes.
so different from INFJ, we having soo many "ideal" scenarios in head to tell somebody what we think.. and its staying in the head till the fu*king end never going out from there. I would be so grateful for "brutal honesty" ability
As an INFJ, I can confirm that THAT is correct (And judging by how Frank uploaded this video and put lots of effort into it, I think it's safe to say that he'd want a like, a sub, and a comment)
"What do INFJ's want?" Well, for starters a fair, sustainable life for me and everyone. The biggest problems being solved such as a save environment, true equality, acknowledgement of mental health. And personally, to live in the countryside surrounded by flower fields and forest in my little home with an art studio. Sounds unrealistic but it's what I want. OH and a dog and a cat Edit: Finally people who don't put it down, whenever I do say what I want I receive backlash for immaturity or for being a lazy person or more. Then people wonder why I'm so cautious about saying what I want to say. Hopefully I'll be able to fulfill this in some way, and I hope you all too
Q: Are INTJs evil? A: If you define "doing something ultimately correct with no consideration for others" as being evil, yes. A2: Also if you define "despising ESFP people for being nonsense with all my strength and all my heart" as being evil, yes.
For A2, no joke, Frank's ESFP persona increased my desire to backhand with every word. For the ESFP most asked question, "why are they dumb?" Because they're the complete opposite of INTJs, obviously. ... Says the INTJ.
The ENFJ one is real though- My class used to do rap battles where they'd "diss" each other by pointing out things. It turned into a compliment rap whenever I tried to join in. Like, I wanted to actually do it but we just couldn't. They wouldn't say anything mean and it just made me so happy inside. I still smile thinking about it..
@@laya1077_ Nah.. I think I just find the right groups. I've had some people be pretty crummy to me in the past, too. Another comment under here I'd made (then deleted, being an over-thinking ambivert-) said that the people from this class I mentioned hardly talk to me anymore. Not because we don't like each other.. more because we just don't hang out. I remind myself that they're just busy and we don't do things together and that's why we don't talk.. It's like people are nice when I'm around, and we become friends to a certain level.. but I don't think anyone ever really knows me for who I am inside, or that they care about these relationships as much as I do. So I just have to accept that and be happy with the days I've had, the friends I've made and the ones I've still got. Sometimes it makes me a little sad, or frustrated, thinking about where things are now. But I still have to smile when I think about that day when a class-member decided to say nice things about me instead of dissing, and everyone went with it. dang, that got long. Sorry, bud.
"Do you like to be surrounded by stupid people who have the wrong opinions on everything?", Sounds exactly the thing an ENTP like me would say and be scolded out of the classroom after arguing with my math teacher whether the answer was 66.7 or 66.78
"Why INFP ghost?" Because we don't have energy to explain things and also we don't know what to reply. We need time to think, to do all that overthinking and then when we finally come up with something to reply it's already too late & it will awkward now so we just don't do anything. Even after all that struggle we go through, it seems like we are the arrogant jerks P.s sometimes it's not about you it's about ourselves, we cut connection to deal our own shit and when we're done we open the door to world again
this is so true. also times when we type our honest reply just to realise at the end that we accidentally wrote a long essay instead of a simple text. so we tried to simplify it and make it short but our ideas and thoughts can't be expressed without all the explanations then we just gave up and not reply at all.
I don't even get messages. Every single person that try to socialize with me (since i have no friend and you probably know how 'socialization' work), finds me boring and just leave me there. But to be honest it's ok I like being alone, I can't keep up a conversation for more than 5 minutes and it becoms awkward easily when you are around me
@@toomuch5484 Yes. My texts are ridiculously long… and often the other person replies back with short texts. It’s come to the point I have to draft and edit on my cell’s notepad (so I don’t accidentally hit send) before I cut/paste to text. It’s a very long process. Pathetic, I know.
Well said. I wish others could see our overthinking. I’ll spend the better part of the day (or days) thinking about that one text and trying to get the mental energy to reply. We’re not jerks who are ignoring them, it’s an “all consuming” ordeal thinking about what to say.
I program games for fun, and I have a whole developer team I started. But after about a month or two of programming and organizing, I get super drained, and I just leave with no explanation. Everyone who hasn’t been on the team very long absolutely flips out and is like, “WHERE DID HE GO, WHY ISN’T HE RESPONDING” and the others who have been with me for years are like, “oh he just went into hibernation. It’s normal.” I always come back after like 6 months to a year and pretend like nothing happened.
It’s crazy. As an infj, I made myself to want what other people wanted, so much so that until something drastic happened and I was unable to attain what I thought I wanted, I sort of remembered what I actually wanted before all of my infj trauma.
I’m an INTP and my istj friend literally asked me “what do you do for a living” because I always say I’m busy and have a lot of things to do but I don’t get anything done
I know right so spot on! Once, one of my friend pointed out to me how I can never take a compliment without complimenting the other person in return. So she spoiled it for me but I still can't stop so she just made things worse lol.
Same here! I was not expecting to see that for our type, usually we're portrayed as some kinds of controlling hippies who have way too much knowledge on people
I showed that one to my ISTP bf, and he just said "exactly, its enough to be me", "I don't know, I'm normal(yes, Im cool)". Ofc punched by his natural honesty I laughed so hard on him, making him confused what is so funny in that 😂 😂 😂
INFJ one is definitely on spot!! It's been two years I believe since I've finally learned how to prioritise my own feelings. Kinda proud of myself😂 Sometimes it's really sad that I'm the only one who's noticing every minor change in person's behaviour(that way I can figure out how I should act in order to make them feel comfortable)
As an INTJ: When asked what mbti personality I have, my mates guessed extrovert or at least the goody type.... I am an INTJ, and suddenly everything made sense to them (yeah, I am rather good at pretending to be extrovert and spontaneous, which I am absolutely not. It's just because I know them, or to be precise, have psycho-analysed them)
INTJ happened to be the first personality listed on the 16 personalities website. I read it so I could understand what each personality was like, and INTJ checked every box.
I’m an intj but In person most ppl can’t tell because I am extremely neurodivergent so I am a master at masking, some of my good friends can tell tho because I don’t know when to lie so I tend to be blunt and I’m not good at telling emotions
Yeah people think I'm an extrovert too because my Te is constantly talking, putting out ideas and asking others what they think. But in reality I'm severely introverted. Also I do psychoanalysis to the point where I adapt to how others communicate and what they wanna focus on. But its all pretend to facilitate communication. I sometimes get sad because I make the effort to adapt to others but others (no matter how dear) do not make the effort to speak my Ni-Te language and adapt to me. The Infj comes close tho, but not the same, like a strange twisted dialect lol... :(
@@jessicamoore5690 yes this is what i face most of the time as an infp, i know what's "realistic" and what our society should do but i prefer not to because of my morals, and people would say that i'm lame or naive. People sucks sometimes.
The ENFP one is too accurate. When I finished the video I was like “why didn’t he put ENFP this isn’t fair.” So I rewatched just to check and then I realized that you put the ENFP but I’m just dumb, I need therapy.
Just realised I'm a mix between INFJ, INTP and INFP: studying/reflecting about other people but not knowing what I want, 'lazy' and 'ghosting' people because I don't feel like texting....what a perfect mix🤣
ENTJ here that is completely accurate. I get told a lot that I’m unemotional or not as expressive. But I do feel emotion deeply I just don’t outwardly express it unless it benefits me
@@imnobodyatall6577 because intps are the ultimate thinker type, they love the internal world more than the external world and it’s a lot harder to execute those ideas out into the external than the internal world
“Why do ENTPs like to argue?” I mean, the answer given by Frank for this was perfect. It’s not that we wanna argue, but it’s irritating when you’re literally surrounded by so many people, but you’re the only one who sees which opinion is correct-
Took the words right out of my mouth. Also we always have a mountain of evidence/arguments to back our stand. We can’t let people walk around being so uneducated
@@montsemazon3968 Arguing is already my default mode of conversation. Also it isn't that others are wrong, but they don't take enough points into consideration
As an INTP, I support and love you guys. You’re the version of INTPs that actually say the things we want to say. But we INTPs just wanna say the things when we are 100% sure of everything and every detail of the subject so when we explain we say a lot and usually ppl don’t get it. But ENTPs do get it most of the time
Makes you think though our relatives the ENFJ’s are beloved by all so basically the moment an INFJ turns their I into an E we become some type of super hero.
This has already happened to me. I didn't do anything except raise an eyebrow in mild surprise but they looked absolutely horrified. And I wasn't even feeling negative at that time
"Why are INTP's so lazy?" I hate being called lazy. I prefer writing stories and doing something else I find interesting. I also willingly clean, as it's fun and it's cleaning. When it comes to school work, I can do it, but I just get distracted and focus on listening to music or writing a story or something. I can do work though, it's just that I need motivation to and/or I have to find it interesting enough.
As an INTJ - A, here's the truth... We are the nicest,most generous people around and the most innocent.... But.... F*** around and Find out ,types 😂😂😂😂😂
@@joshuabaskett2936 Sorry that you got ghosted by your INFP friend. I can't speak for all INFPs , but I will say that most of them need some time to recharge themselves and after they're recharged they'll be back and act like nothing happened. ~ INFP
You really did us dirty with this one. INTP here. You know that the statement is true, but you make it sound like we are actually lazy. We are not. We just need a lot of procrastination to let our brain figure stuff out. And it's not like there is nothing to learn for life by playing some video games. And if we are passionate about something, I dear you to find me someone else who can keep up with our energy and dedication.
"What do INFJs want?" Me, an infj: I-....I don't know...(now I am going to think about this the next 2 hours so I can give an answer) Edit: After long thinking and processing and questioning the meaning of life I have come to the conclusion that I want to live and be happy, and I also want to help other people with their own problems and most important I want a cat and a library for myself.
As an INFP it was soooo accurate. When you don’t text me something important then you will have to Wait till I find the energy to text you back or feel bad enough for ghosting you 😭😂
@@azulablue6988 too often, people expect you to set yourself on fire to keep them warm, and accuse you of being selfish if you don't. It's always a good idea to check in with yourself to figure out if that's what's going on. If your intuition tells you someone is making unreasonable demands on you, take a closer look at why you feel that way.
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@@brokeneggshell5041 I haven't heard that in a long time 😄
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Nice video! This is great fun idea, having the 16 people explain themselves.
Omg this is golden!!! Hope you'll make a part two. :D
And as a ENFP ADHDer I'd like to say that your video is really hey, my cat just shoved her head in a paper bag!
"Why do INFP ghost?"
Because I didn't have a mental energy to text you back immidietally and after that I feel like it would be weird to answer so late
Same
Trueee
Exactly!
Yessss
Im an INFP and i dont usually ghost, or idk if it counts as ghosting but i find myself not texting to my INFP friend for days on end
I think we might be ghosting each other idk 😂
“You have a great personality!”
INFJ: Thanks, I made it just for you!
Damn! That has been exactly my thought!
The pain
you just caught me by 4k
🤣🤣
Oh jeez, that caught me-
INFJ: What?, It’s a GifT, so yOu caN Feel bEttEr!…
"What do YOU want?"
INFJ: "We don't do that around here."
Yep secretive .
But for me I say that but I end up opening up and be extremely spontaneous and regret it later on ( why I said thaaat whyy )
@@peacejoy3629 omg i feel exactly the same
I relate to that as an INFP-
Hahaha!
@@peacejoy3629 OMGGG I FEEL U dude whenever tell someone about my problems I feel immediately better but after a while I just hate the thought of them knowing I have this kind of mental-ish problem
As an INTJ, when he started laughing maniacally and then just went "no," I felt that
It's more of a disgusted stare and a "wtf, no" from me 🙃
@@MoonieLovesAnime it's more of a deadpan "sure" from me
@@dietotaku"Are you evil?"
Eh, why not?
I actually start laughing at that part like lol no
I'll just stay quite and stare
"What do YOU want?"
INFJs: *having an existential crisis*
I’m INFP but I feel this so hard. What do I want 🤯 going out with a group of friends and they ask me where I want to go 😱 just give me three options you like and I’ll pick one!
This is me 100%
INFJs: a stable mental health
@명작 희승 Erm... as a INFP, I have the same issue...
well yes actually
"Are INTJ's human?"
"Do INTJ's feel emotion?"
"Am I an INTJ?"
"Are INTJ's sociopaths?"
As an INTJ I can say I am pretty emotional sometimes but pro in hiding it
@@nrmlyaroy7135 yeah same I've been best friends with someone for over 7 years and I still haven't opened up lol
@@nrmlyaroy7135 Sounds like you and my husband have a lot in common. Lol
Haha! I don't understand these questions. I love my INTJ friend🤣
@@kaydincathey I dated an INTJ and a lot of my female friends are INTJs. Let me tell you. The girls are SO good at pretending to be extroverted. They aren't, and they don't like to be, but they can fake like nobody's business.
ISTP - 0:21
ENFP - 0:28
INTJ - 0:35
ISFJ - 0:44
ENTP - 1:10
ENFJ - 1:27
ESTP - 1:47
ISTJ - 1:54
ISFP - 2:11
INTP - 2:31
ESFP - 2:48
ENTJ - 3:08
ESFJ - 3:24
INFP - 3:39
ESTJ - 3:58
INFJ - 4:11
ENFJ here! Hope this helps someone out😁
ahh....i was finding these. That's so enfj of you. Thank you!
Thanks!- from an INFJ 😁
Thank you fellow enfj🙌🙌
The ENFJ was really the BEST!
Thanks for this
appreciate it
The INFP one is SO accurate. The worst thing is that when I'm the one getting ghosted, I get all anxious and worried, making up scenarios in my head explaining why someone ghosted me lol.
Well, for me, I will then get anxious when I have to explain why I disappeared and feel like my excuses are inadequate.
Accurate
Had it a lot and tbh it was something that ruined an old friendship of mine…
@@Masked_SVincent Same
That's literally me 😭
“Why are INTPs lazy?”
“Because we have the basic needs of a houseplant so we don’t need to do the things everyone else does”
Yes!!!! Lol exactly
Exactly :-D
And let me tell you, I resent those needs so very much. Automate everything.
I can relate to it too. INFP
Why don’t my parents understand this? 🙄
"why is INTP lazy?"
me, an intp with 5 assignment due in half hour: uhm its complicated
I am procrastinating right now with a project due tomorrow
I'm sure you guys can finish it in 30 minutes.
Ey best of luck mate hope the assignments went well
Yes so am I my exams are starting this Monday but I have not started studying yet
I don't even know what's in the syllabus
~INTP
@ bruh you're a legend😂
Once I had an interrogation and studied while the prof was listening to other students. Turned out quite well
I cracked up as an INFJ, because he knows exactly what he wants, he just doesn’t trust you enough to tell you, and he’s pretending he doesn’t know so he won’t hurt your feelings.
As an INFJ, I honestly have no idea what I even want. Life is just meaningless.
Edit: lol so turns out I was probably feeling that way cause of depression. Didn't know I was depressed at the time but now I'm completely fine. Also, I may have been mistyped cause I think I'm more of an INTJ. Anyway, my opinions have changed and now I have suddenly gotten kind of a very energetic and optimistic attitude towards life and I want to explore different things, have wonderful experiences and enjoy life to its fullest. I used to hate the phrases "the destination doesn't matter, the journey does" and all cause I used to think that what's the point of doing anything when you're gonna die at the end and lose everything one day but now I do agree that life is a journey that is meant to be enjoyed. Death comes to everyone, but those who make their lives memorable and make the world a better place to live in are always remembered and looked up to. If you feel like nothing interests you anymore, try meditation (guided meditation or something with positive affirmations preferably), make a list of things you're grateful for (this may sound childish or stupid at first cause that's what I thought too but I did it and it helped), treat yourself the way you would treat others (show compassion towards yourself, compliment yourself). Try to be happy. Even if you hate yourself or think that you don't deserve it, just try it for once and believe me after you're okay you would realise that you didn't deserve that hell after all and that you should have tried earlier. Personally, I hated myself so much I didn't even want to be happy and thought that I deserved to be depressed but now that I'm over it I realise that I'm not as bad as I thought myself to be. If I had found someone to explain to me that I'm worthy of happiness earlier I would have escaped from this darkness way sooner. So yeah, thought of writing this for anyone who feels the same.
@@thejazzthatsoundedlikefart4371 100%... I feel aimless
@@thejazzthatsoundedlikefart4371 exactly… i just feel like if I focus on one thing I’m dismissing all the other available opportunities out there and so I just have to drown in the overwhelming desire to do something meaningful with my life but unable to because I know it won’t be enough and I’ll never be satisfied with myself
@@aarnzoo5124 yeah, that's why I've decided that I'll just do whatever my family asks me to cause till yet my only "goal" is to just keep them happy lol and probably some big social work before I die
Everytime ppl ask me what do i wan, it is just so hard to answer.. like for example colleagues ask what kind of food do i wan to eat during the celebration in the office..... everyone knew what to write but i just have no idea 🤣 i wrote 1. food 2. food 3. food and they got rejected...
I'm INFJ and my french teacher once asked me what is my dream ( in french obviously). It was supposed to be just a quick question, only to practice some sentences. My reaction was EXACTLY like the one in video
I'm an INFJ too ! And what heppened to you in that class happened to me too in the exact way !
I'm enfp and I wouldn't be able to answer that too lol😂....I would probably give some generic answers like happiness, peace etc..don't get me wrong I want Happiness and Peace but wouldn't be able to give specific answer.
On the other hand if you ask what I hate I would be able to answer that very quickly 😂
Im too 😌
Exactly! so basically I lied most of the time in the language class just to respond quickly otherwise I will take too much time thinking about the real answer 😆
THE EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME TT
As an INFJ, all I wanna say is... yes.
It's easier to stay silent than to EXPLAIN people that I want to live in the middle of a very big forest where I'm undisturbed and forgotten by society.
I'd love to live in a forest too.
I feel you.
So you’ve also imagined that????!!
I was so interested in that a few months ago totally
I just wanted to go away from everyone and stay away of the stupid pain before even knowing I'm an INFJ
I dreamed about a place where its a forest surrounded by ocean
@@mzafor3081 oh yeah I SO feel you. My dream house is a small gothic cottage surrounded by nature with a small creak behind it. But tbh I'm not even sure if that's specifically an INFJ thing or just a... "normal" thing?
omgggg hahahhahahhaha that is so me.
"Why do INFPs Ghost?"
As an INFP, Yeah it takes so much Energy even just for texting and I also need motivation to text someone 🤣🤣
Yep, this was totally accurate. - INFP
I need an interesting topic to text someone
Yuppp
It took me more than 2yrs to finally pick up my friend's phone call. But honestly, it was because I pressed it by accident :(
Text someone? Like when it’s not an emergency? You guys are nuts! I’ll never do that!
INFJ be like "I want this, want that" when someone is not asking but when someone is asking, we don't know what we want.
It's like when there are so many choices of food, I can't choose anything, I don't know what to eat but when there aren't any food at the moment, I find my self craving for almost anything. Why am I so complicated 🤣
Ha ha exactly I know what I want until someone ask me about it...then I have to think about if what I want I also can get and risk that the other person tells me that I can have it and then I have to come up with an excuse to why I don't go get it...and you say you're complicated 😉😁
Also my husband always say I crave anything or everything that is NOT in our fridge 🤷♀️
Bruh...you got me
Am i ... am i INFJ?
Exactly 🥺🥺my birthday is coming and my parents are asking that what I want for gift? And seriously idk
@@sussiemiao3597 take a quiz
As an INTP, I find the interpretation SO accurate. Everyone always asks me how I'm playing like 10 hours of video games a day and still getting high 90s in school. Idk...I'm just thinking about random things at times where you don't expect...I could be watching anime and there'll be a math equation going in my head...
This!!
Fr I watch k/c/j/tdramas, Netflix series, movies, anime, reality shows, vlogs. I read books, manhwas, manhuas, manga. I listen to music, podcast. I play pubg, free fire. All this on a daily basis and stuff and yet I get good grades. I mean I got an exam tomorrow yet here I am watching this with equations in my head. Maybe it's bcz intps are super curious. I thought it was normal until ppl pointed it out and I'm secretly enjoying the admiration lol.
True ❤ but I've been stressed out these days I freaking got 70 on two of my exams and 60 on English damn I was about to get crazy when I saw my results 😂
FACTS
The worlds lucky we think to much
"do ENFP's have ADHD"
"No... wait, what was the question?"
WHY IS THIS SO MEEEE?? I get distracted every 3 seconds:(
I actually got tested for ADHD, and I do have it. AND IM A ENFP
@@ShaynaCommenter me too 🥲
Feel this
@@ShaynaCommenter same
@@ShaynaCommenter Yup, same👋
"What do you want?"
INFJ: *Suddenly thinking about life or the universe, the reason why humanity exist and flashback about their life choices.
Also INFJ: "I want to know what you're thinking about me thinking about what I thinking about what I think I want"
*Edit: JK, of course they want something meaningful that makes their quality of life even better, it can be literally anything as long as everyone around them is happy too.
So here's the real question... "What do you need?"
Oh my! Our complexity gawwdd😭😭😭
INFJ: I don’t understand the question
Accurate
too accurate. I literally contemplated the meaning of life this morning as I woke up and that's borderline scary xD
This is so accurate it hurts🤣🤣🤣
Whenever someone asks why I’m lazy (INTP here) I either say, “I’m not lazy, I’m just using my energy wisely.” Or I shrug because opening my mouth and answering the question properly is such a pain :/
Fellow INTP. I do also have a problem with laziness, but what aggravates it is having my household chores taking up all the little energy I have that I would use to write my novel, learn Norwegian, digitalize my drawings and convert obscure black metal songs to chiptune.
Same...
😐🙌
*Shrug*
Same
Just pull the ‘im postponing the heat death of the universe’
As an INFJ.. why the heck is it so accurate 😂
Ditto
When I heard the question, "Yeah but what do YOU want," I laughed, but then looked up from the computer, staring at the wall, at the same time he was looking around in the video and there was a weird mutual moment of... not knowing what the hell we wanted. lol
😂😂😂 oh boy….
I don't even know why I am alive
@@Taffypalaciop 😅 That has run through my head millions of times . That is why i like Albert Camus Absurdist philosophy
INFJ wants:
Our own quiet space, good food, and someone who really understands us (for starters)
As an INFJ, p l e a s e hand it over
So true, about food especially
Why is that too much to ask😩😩
yea.
Yes
Question: “Do ENFP’s have adhd?”
ENFP: “No.”
ENFP: “wait, what was the question”
Relatable
Edit: Oh yeah and if any of you are wondering, I’m INFP :)
Edit 2: Update! I retook the quiz and I’m now an INTP-T :D
I felt that right in my soul
I am an ENFP and I have been diagnosed with ADHD😭💀
@@lacrima24 I think I have adhd, but it’s undiagnosed
@@PolarImpulse me too, and i am enfp 😭☠️
I m ENFP and i probably have that but who cares, i certainly dont!!
"Why are INTPs lazy?"
INTP: This is not laziness. I'm living my life
"Its not laziness, it's energy conservation"
@@hachi1340
Like, I'm really says people that i live in energy saving mode
Yes
OMG 🤣
@@hachi1340 Facts
As an INFP, I sometimes don’t like to respond or send things because sometimes they reply back right away and I don’t want to have a convo because I’d rather do something else but it’s too anxiety inducing to tell them that we could talk later.
Sometimes i text later on purpose so the person will reply later too
That's same with me. I am an INFP too🤣
I like how he mentioned we get ghosted in return 😅 so I have to not only mentally ready myself before texting an "avid texter" that replies at the speed of light, I have to simultaneously ready myself at the possibility of being ignored. I hope that makes sense 😄
That's just selfish and lacking a spine. I was good friends with an INFP and it was the same thing. I'm an ENFJ and I did all I could to maintain a friendship with them but you won't get the same out of them. It's better to keep these people as acquittances. They are generally good people and will be there for you but only when they're in the mood. They'll leave you high and dry when they're not. It's better not to invest emotions in to this personality type.
Just taking notes, don't mind me
0:21 ISTP (Virtuoso) 🛠️
0:29 ENFP (Campaigner) 🏞️
0:34 INTJ (Architects) 🔎
0:44 ISFJ (Defender) ⚕️
1:11 ENTP (Debater) 🗯️
1:28 ENFJ (Protagonist) 🦸
1:48 ESTP (Entrepreneur) 🕶️
1:54 ISTJ (Logistician) 🛂
2:12 ISFP (Adventurer) 🎨
2:30 INTP (Logician) 🧪
2:47 ESFP (Entertainer) 🎉
3:10 ENTJ (Commander) 🎖️
3:23 ESFJ (Consul) 🎁
3:39 INFP (Mediator) 🦋
3:58 ESTJ (Executive) 📏
4:12 INFJ (Advocate) 🎗️
small correction, enfp is campaigner and infp is a mediator which is me
@@niranjanarangaraj oh yes thanks I changed it ✓
@@luwna :) so what about you
@@niranjanarangaraj I'm INTJ, an architect :')
And the crazy thing is that I already acted exactly like in the video. Most of the time it's to know how people would think or react if I was someone else haha
@@luwna yeah so these videos are really relatable
As an INFJ, I often have and think the things that I want when I'm alone. But when they ask me personally about what I want, my mind suddenly went BLANK.
Infj ✊
Like i need to plan first everything that i should say so that next time i could answer them but there's also a big chance that i can't really answer them when the time comes.
Yes!!
@@riverdale381 exactly! Like it's just not easy to answer a question THAT complicated, I need some time, probably a long time to figure out exactly how to answer that Question.
#VeryAccurate as an INFJ
As an INTJ, the INTJ one cracked me up 😂💀 of course we aren’t evil, what a peculiar notion... *commence light yagami laugh in internal monologue*
Don’t take this the wrong way, but I have seriously considered that this could be true. ‘Cause…like….INTJs scare me. I lie awake wondering how many hits are out on me and my family, how many deals are being made for golden fiddles vs my soul, etc… 😬
Mm, of course, Light Yagami, a mass murder and fellow INTJ
@@anvi-vv3qv I thought he was ENTJ
as an INTJ this is Hilarious 😂😂
Just not the ones that watch anime they're harmless
As ENFJ I'm honestly moved, that was so sweet and the reaction was spot on what I would say, mabey with less crying and more blushing
Same!!
Yes thats true it made me feel proud but then i googled to see others and i saw "Why are ENFJs so hated" and then i read it. Later i get them all personal. I was happy but now im sad 😩🔫
INFJs: * look in the mirror *
* have an identity crisis *
"Who am I?! Do I even have an identity??"
Voice in their heads: "No."
I’m feeling attacked 😆
And then
Me : Oh No!!
Anyway
Google: Do ISTJ’s like hugs?
Me, an ISTJ: no
Frank: Hugs improve cardiovascular health
Me: They are bearable
I recently started giving and receiving hugs because I hear it helps. I still can't stand it if it lasts too long. (ISTJ)
So me!!! Lol
Pro tip: Plushies.
My ISTJ bf gives me hugs to raise my oxytocin. Other than that he finds cuddling a, quote, "boring activity". He is very utilitarian: he uses my cuddles to fall asleep. I'm ENFP x)
Are the rest of my fellow ISTJ’s okay? ‘Cause I’m sitting here, loving hugs because they make the brain go :D. I do tend to change my opinion based on research but I like to enjoy simple useless stuff like drawing or binge-eating or whatever. Am I the weird one or..? I’ve taken like 3 different tests and they’ve all spit out ISTJ so I’m relatively certain of it.
INFJ: When someone asks me what do I want….. *internal screaming intensifies* -panic sets in -sudden memory loss of all cognitive function -awkwardly looking around the room to find someone to tell me what I want -pulls out a list of reminders of things I want
relatable as fellow INFJ, but I dont have a list... yet.
Is it wrong that I LITERALLY have the list in my phone?
I tend to ask my twin sister (INTJ). I also do that when I don't remember things I like/dislike. She is a life saver guys
LOL! Y’all are great! This is why I have one specific playlist in my phone of “songs I like to sing”… because when people find out I can sing (not because I advertise that because I dislike the spotlight).. they ask me to sing something and I’ve been singing my entire life and suddenly forget that all music exists the moment they ask… I have to keep things around like this!
The worst thing is food… apparently I seem to forget what I like every day.. it’s quite exhausting !
@@amaiarost5860 man I wish I had a life saver twin… I’m the baby but was so much younger I was basically an only child for half my childhood..
ENFP here, I have literally been looking into getting tested to see if I have ADHD. I talked to my friends and family about it, most people thought I had already been diagnosed.
How did you bring it up with your friends? I’m considering asking them casual to see, but don’t know how to ask about it. Like do I just go “Yo, do I seem like someone that has ADHD?” 🤔
@@lettucesalad716 howdy, I first picked the person I deemed most open to the conversation. I also didn't just have a convo about it to start with, I used it more as a topic I casually brought up. I wanted to not only ease myself into exploring that topic but also my friends and family. I also wanted to spare my mums feelings as I didn't want her to feel guilty for having not noticed it when I was little.
I started talking about depression and adhd in general, mentioning that I just found out the depression can be a symptom not just a disorder on its own. I also talked about how there is comorbidity between adhd and depression.
I realise that talking openly about depression is a hard convo on its own but its something i worked on feeling comfortable talking to people about for a while so it was easier (not easy) for me to start that way.
For other people I mentioned my forgetfulness and hyperfocus and how I had always thought it was just my personality. That I had never realised those were symptoms of ADHD. I never mentioned at first that I had thoughts that I might have it. I just kind of planted the idea to gauge their reaction and see if they would be open to a full conversation at a later time about it and to see if I felt comfortable approaching that with them as well.
I also started with talking about the stereotypes of adhd that I had and how I had recently found out that what I had thought was adhd was actually ADD and these misconceptions are often the cause of late diagnoses for people, specially women (yes i know there are a bunch of reasons why woman do not get diagnosed properly just mentioning what I said)
For context, Im a 29yr old mixed race woman and when I had thought about adhd I had only ever pictured a white male child who is running around screaming because at school there was a little boy with adhd who acted like that. I didn't really have a clue what adhd actually was so he was my only example I based things off of.
A little more context, I never really struggled in school so no teacher would have flagged me, don't get me wrong I got into trouble cus I forgot to do assignments and homework but I always managed to pass despite my forgetfullness/general chaotic nature.
If its easier, try make a list of the symptoms you think you have. Circle the ones you think you can talk about the most easily. Think of examples from your life that can illustrate what you have circled. Pick a couple people from your life that may be the most open to chatting about mental illness or exploring harder topics (id suggest a fellow enfp if you have one), possibly picking people who have been there when you have displayed one of the symptoms that you have circled may be a good choice too.
Sorry about the novel, I thought it best that I just give you a thorough explanation rather the bullet points so you can better see my process and potentially adapt it for your way of conversing/thinking.
best of luck.
@@lettucesalad716 depending on the persons reaction and how what they said/ how what they said made me feel I would bring up that I think I might have adhd and that it may be something that I start seeing a doctor to help figure out if I do have it.
I'm in the same situation 😂 I missed the enfp part of the video, because I was reading the comments, and had to turn back and search for it, and it's just.. *Chef's kiss* #ishouldgetcheckedforadhd
Fellow enfp. waiting on adhd diagnosis
INFP
me thinking of all the briges i've burned unintentionally: ah yes... ghosting
Ne kicks in: well, anyway back to my self exploring
some people don't even notice it-
@Rêveries this is literally me aswell omg
Anyone else just pops back in 2 months later like “what’s poppin’ chief”
@@TheGuyWhoCantPickAName Me. Like if I never ghost
"Sup, Im back, sorry not answering sooner, I've been busy..."
Me, that spent those 3 months just watching videos and reading
‘Why do infp’s ghost?’
I don’t want to be associated with reality.
This!
Haha
Understandable
Yes-
YES
As an INTJ, I learned that it makes you seem more evil if you just simply relax and don't say anything at all.
I kinda give people a death stare while I am in deep thoughts. Maybe thats why I dont have much friends which is awesome. I dont want to get surronded by stupid people
I ignore my little brother all the times (when there’s nothing important) simply because I had no energy to show emotions and talk to people, I’m a quiet type too but he misunderstood it as I am evil and didn’t love him🧍♀️
@@Mavri_Lyveis my situation exactly… people have commented that I look like the type of person who could beat you up even tho I’m so short/petite
As an INTJ who has been given a very innocent looking face it doesn't happen much to me but when I do get lost in thought people think I'm mad or judging them. Even my little brother thinks I like to drink bleach, Idk how that came to be but yeah.
As an INTJ I've often been described as "someone who'd beat you to death without batting an eye while eating a croissant with one hand" and I find it accurate
The fact that I (an INTJ) started chuckle hysterically as soon as i heard the "Are INTJs evil" question 😂 you're getting too relatable man
Lol.
“What does INFJ want?”
Me an INFJ: “hmmmm. Idk”
I wanted everyone to like me but when I told a counsellor that she just laughed in my face.
Me at literally almost every question: Idk man you decide
@@marieindia8116 that's hurt.. The counsellor supposed to make things better but she didn't :(
Yeahhh... I'm like, I want to do sooo many things but whe I you ask me what I want I'm like : "Idk"
Maybe we like so many things we cannot choose? T_T
To busy making everyone around me happy and forgetting about myself 🤡🤡🤡
“Why are INTPs so lazy” eh i’m not gonna argue with that. I am indeed lazy.
As an INTP, I agree.
Yep.
INTP
Same thing happened with my INTP friend XD
I agree. I won’t even deny it
I could be sleeping right now, but I’m watching a video with my eyes open, and I took time to type a reply to a comment. That’s practically working. It counts as working, right?
As an INFP, I can attest to this. Even went and deleted messaging apps on my phone to avoid responding to people. How I miss SMS where there’s no seen/read feature. 😅
That is why i have the read feature on WhatsApp turned off
I had a match with someone in a dating app, the next day I delete the app jajajjajaj
If you have an iPhone you can go to settings and under messages there’s an option to turn the read feature off.
That's why I just check my messages from notifications
SAMEEEEE😭😭😭@ deleting messaging apps
as an ISTP yes... alot of people in school has said that i give out this cool personality and literally that is my answer🤣🤣
As an INTP it hits hard when he said "I'm not lazy, I'm doing a lot of work up here (mind) while playing videogames or lying in bed until 2pm". The accuracy!
Right now is 2:15 pm and I'm in bed thinking about humans' evolution...
you still haven't moved to quantum mechanics yet?
@@kelilahfiles1823 it will take time. Chill
No one can be like us 😪
Hahaha true
Frrr
"What do INFJs want?"
*cue existential crisis
Meanwhile INTJs: *know exactly what they want but still doubt it*
As an INTP I'm not entirely sure what I want, it's very zen
@@greatwavefan397 Yup!
My friends asked me the same exact question yesterday and I gave them the exact response. Frank can be pretty scary sometimes.
"Why do INFP's ghost?"
Me: "Noooo, I don't ghost. Definitely not, that's just mean. I mean... Wait a minute... do I?? Wait, that one person I never... oh no. Oh, Lord help me, I'm a terrible person!"
It's only a problem if the person wasn't someone you were prepared to lose.
@@Takisan111 man, that's deep
@@Takisan111 Short but deep, I must say.
@@junebug115 I know , right ?
@@junebug115
Your name is adorable
As an INFJ, I can confirm it's true. I do read body language.
aaaa, me vv specific with voice (like the quality-) ... voice = intelligence
0:22 ISTP
0:30 ENFP
0:35 INTJ
0:45 ISFJ
1:11 ENTP
1:27 ENFJ
1:48 ESTP
1:53 ISTJ
2:12 ISFP
2:29 INTP
2:46 ESFP
3:08 ENTJ
3:23 ESFJ
3:38 INFP
3:57 ESTJ
4:11 INFJ
I am an INFJ and that is so accurate! I really have to work on actually knowing what I want 🤣
“Are INTJ’s evil?”
No, we aren’t. We just have a very honest personality, sometimes we don’t care if we hurt your feelings but as the time passes by we kinda regret saying it (then move on).
Ps. Well, that’s the case on me sometimes.
that is so true people always tell me, i am extremely honest and blunt. Cuz of this a lot of people dont like me :(
This is so passive-aggressive its sounds so evil lmao
@@sakutard3471 Well, I'm actually avoiding that now to reduce sin and be more... approachable, but I don't know how much longer I can do it though.
so different from INFJ, we having soo many "ideal" scenarios in head to tell somebody what we think.. and its staying in the head till the fu*king end never going out from there.
I would be so grateful for "brutal honesty" ability
I don’t think I’m evil for assessing if smth is worth my time and acting accordingly
As an INTP, I totally agree to the INTP one 😌
As an INTP, I totally agree to you agreeing to the INTP one
Yeaah me too we're rare
I also concur -INTP
Lol I was exactly searching for an intp comment. And I expected it somehow😂
Hahaha
Legend says that INFJ is still thinking about what he wants...
I affirm 😂😭😭
As an INFJ, I can confirm that THAT is correct
(And judging by how Frank uploaded this video and put lots of effort into it, I think it's safe to say that he'd want a like, a sub, and a comment)
Yes not boring but I do get bored
thats a good one 😂 (assuming you're joking)
"What do INFJ's want?"
Well, for starters a fair, sustainable life for me and everyone. The biggest problems being solved such as a save environment, true equality, acknowledgement of mental health. And personally, to live in the countryside surrounded by flower fields and forest in my little home with an art studio. Sounds unrealistic but it's what I want. OH and a dog and a cat
Edit: Finally people who don't put it down, whenever I do say what I want I receive backlash for immaturity or for being a lazy person or more. Then people wonder why I'm so cautious about saying what I want to say. Hopefully I'll be able to fulfill this in some way, and I hope you all too
👏👏👏👏👏
Hey i also want same but for realise it take hours 😅
Nailed it.
Same! Except I'm a city person so I'll take a nice apartment near a park, and I don't like dogs (will happily take two cats, or a cat and a rabbit).
Ditto
As an INTJ, I am both flattered and also that reaction is accurate.
Q: Are INTJs evil?
A: If you define "doing something ultimately correct with no consideration for others" as being evil, yes.
A2: Also if you define "despising ESFP people for being nonsense with all my strength and all my heart" as being evil, yes.
YES
For A2, no joke, Frank's ESFP persona increased my desire to backhand with every word.
For the ESFP most asked question, "why are they dumb?" Because they're the complete opposite of INTJs, obviously. ... Says the INTJ.
I'm in this reply and I don't like it
The ENFJ one is real though-
My class used to do rap battles where they'd "diss" each other by pointing out things.
It turned into a compliment rap whenever I tried to join in. Like, I wanted to actually do it but we just couldn't. They wouldn't say anything mean and it just made me so happy inside.
I still smile thinking about it..
🥺🥺
That's cute
Omg for me INTJ that I'm always mad at people you sound like from a different galaxy
damn you must have such a good aura that people can't hate you no matter how much they tried.🥺🥺
-INFJ
@@laya1077_ Nah.. I think I just find the right groups. I've had some people be pretty crummy to me in the past, too. Another comment under here I'd made (then deleted, being an over-thinking ambivert-) said that the people from this class I mentioned hardly talk to me anymore. Not because we don't like each other.. more because we just don't hang out. I remind myself that they're just busy and we don't do things together and that's why we don't talk..
It's like people are nice when I'm around, and we become friends to a certain level.. but I don't think anyone ever really knows me for who I am inside, or that they care about these relationships as much as I do. So I just have to accept that and be happy with the days I've had, the friends I've made and the ones I've still got.
Sometimes it makes me a little sad, or frustrated, thinking about where things are now.
But I still have to smile when I think about that day when a class-member decided to say nice things about me instead of dissing, and everyone went with it.
dang, that got long. Sorry, bud.
"Do you like to be surrounded by stupid people who have the wrong opinions on everything?", Sounds exactly the thing an ENTP like me would say and be scolded out of the classroom after arguing with my math teacher whether the answer was 66.7 or 66.78
Jesus kid you must really fun to be with
Well I think if we're only going to use 1 decimal we should at least round it up to 66.8 🤷🏻♀️
@@Ruby-lp7hj 😂 Lol so I was wrong figures
Yes, Entp are not try to argue, we just want to correct fact guys :(
lol I felt that so hard 😂😂 I don’t remember exactly what my Myers Briggs type was, so now I’m guessing it may have been entp haha
As an INTJ, when the question came up my reaction was to look around suspiciously and then say no 🤣
I don't know how you nail this so well
"Why INFP ghost?"
Because we don't have energy to explain things and also we don't know what to reply. We need time to think, to do all that overthinking and then when we finally come up with something to reply it's already too late & it will awkward now so we just don't do anything. Even after all that struggle we go through, it seems like we are the arrogant jerks
P.s sometimes it's not about you it's about ourselves, we cut connection to deal our own shit and when we're done we open the door to world again
this is so true. also times when we type our honest reply just to realise at the end that we accidentally wrote a long essay instead of a simple text. so we tried to simplify it and make it short but our ideas and thoughts can't be expressed without all the explanations then we just gave up and not reply at all.
@@toomuch5484 omg yess so damn true! It always become a long essay no matter how much we try to fit our explanations into few sentences
I don't even get messages. Every single person that try to socialize with me (since i have no friend and you probably know how 'socialization' work), finds me boring and just leave me there. But to be honest it's ok I like being alone, I can't keep up a conversation for more than 5 minutes and it becoms awkward easily when you are around me
@@toomuch5484 Yes. My texts are ridiculously long… and often the other person replies back with short texts. It’s come to the point I have to draft and edit on my cell’s notepad (so I don’t accidentally hit send) before I cut/paste to text. It’s a very long process. Pathetic, I know.
Well said. I wish others could see our overthinking. I’ll spend the better part of the day (or days) thinking about that one text and trying to get the mental energy to reply. We’re not jerks who are ignoring them, it’s an “all consuming” ordeal thinking about what to say.
INFJs having an existential crisis when asked what they want is accurate.
Honestly I'm so glad to know it's not just me
Every day of my life is a constant existential crisis, so yeah. Pretty dang accurate :)
Me as an infj can relate
yup
@@sagesorceress4245 same at this point it’s exhausting
"Why do INFP ghost?" I feel so attacked.
But hey people, we have nothing against you. We're coming back in a year or two, worry not we are okay.
we aren’t. we’re depressed. don’t sugarcoat it babe 😭😭 we do love you all though we promise
I program games for fun, and I have a whole developer team I started. But after about a month or two of programming and organizing, I get super drained, and I just leave with no explanation. Everyone who hasn’t been on the team very long absolutely flips out and is like, “WHERE DID HE GO, WHY ISN’T HE RESPONDING” and the others who have been with me for years are like, “oh he just went into hibernation. It’s normal.” I always come back after like 6 months to a year and pretend like nothing happened.
It’s crazy. As an infj, I made myself to want what other people wanted, so much so that until something drastic happened and I was unable to attain what I thought I wanted, I sort of remembered what I actually wanted before all of my infj trauma.
I’m an INTP and my istj friend literally asked me “what do you do for a living” because I always say I’m busy and have a lot of things to do but I don’t get anything done
Same
As an ENFJ, I would like to thank the internet for being so kind to me! I love you guys!
Yesss yesss mate... yessss😂😂
I know right so spot on! Once, one of my friend pointed out to me how I can never take a compliment without complimenting the other person in return. So she spoiled it for me but I still can't stop so she just made things worse lol.
Same here! I was not expecting to see that for our type, usually we're portrayed as some kinds of controlling hippies who have way too much knowledge on people
the intj reaction to being asked if he is evil is too realistic
As INTJ i felt insanely good by answering the EXACTLY same way he did, it was almost weird 🤣
Laughs in chaos 😈
I am glad an INTJ is my shadow type lol
That means you have a sense of humor
I thought INTP would be an attack well aimed, but OOF. They got me.
Same
You caught me with the ENFP and ADHD 💀 I got both and I literally died laughing.
I died laughing too. I'm an Enfp and trying to get diagnosed with ADHD rn... 🤣💀💕
LMAO SAME
omg y'all i really actually think we might be the same braincell bc sAME
:'v
Same bestie
The ISTP would have actually said “idk bro, I don’t even do anything”
true - istp
Or he would have chuckled and stared at the camera. No need for words here
I showed that one to my ISTP bf, and he just said "exactly, its enough to be me", "I don't know, I'm normal(yes, Im cool)".
Ofc punched by his natural honesty I laughed so hard on him, making him confused what is so funny in that 😂 😂 😂
Me too, I don't even know..
-istp
Ying'er how's the business?
INFJ one is definitely on spot!!
It's been two years I believe since I've finally learned how to prioritise my own feelings. Kinda proud of myself😂 Sometimes it's really sad that I'm the only one who's noticing every minor change in person's behaviour(that way I can figure out how I should act in order to make them feel comfortable)
INTJ on Internet: Psychopath
INTJ in real life: I felt 2 emoshons today, I cri
I'm nowhere near a psychopath on the internet! Unless... you would like me to.
emoshons... cute word. I will add it to my favourite word collection. Thanks. -infp
@@orxihui Ehehe I'm INFP too
@Erza Scarlet XD
"phelingz"
As an INTJ:
When asked what mbti personality I have, my mates guessed extrovert or at least the goody type....
I am an INTJ, and suddenly everything made sense to them (yeah, I am rather good at pretending to be extrovert and spontaneous, which I am absolutely not. It's just because I know them, or to be precise, have psycho-analysed them)
INTJ happened to be the first personality listed on the 16 personalities website. I read it so I could understand what each personality was like, and INTJ checked every box.
I’m an intj but In person most ppl can’t tell because I am extremely neurodivergent so I am a master at masking, some of my good friends can tell tho because I don’t know when to lie so I tend to be blunt and I’m not good at telling emotions
😂 same here
Yep. Same here.
Yeah people think I'm an extrovert too because my Te is constantly talking, putting out ideas and asking others what they think. But in reality I'm severely introverted. Also I do psychoanalysis to the point where I adapt to how others communicate and what they wanna focus on. But its all pretend to facilitate communication. I sometimes get sad because I make the effort to adapt to others but others (no matter how dear) do not make the effort to speak my Ni-Te language and adapt to me. The Infj comes close tho, but not the same, like a strange twisted dialect lol... :(
I'm an INFP. I want to know why am I childlike and an old soul at the same time?😂
Because moral wisdom isn't always practical in modern situations and being impractical gets mistaken for being naive?
@@jessicamoore5690 yes this is what i face most of the time as an infp, i know what's "realistic" and what our society should do but i prefer not to because of my morals, and people would say that i'm lame or naive. People sucks sometimes.
ISFP - same situation.
Dominant Fi just messes us up...
@@jessicamoore5690 Good answer.
Childish? Like "infantile manurisms and speech" childish?
Infp here... currently doing exactly this and didn't even realize why until this video. God bless you, man ❤️🩹
The ENFP one is too accurate. When I finished the video I was like “why didn’t he put ENFP this isn’t fair.” So I rewatched just to check and then I realized that you put the ENFP but I’m just dumb, I need therapy.
Just think of it as life being full of pleasant surprises, because you can't remember what happened 5 minutes ago. At least that's my cope 😅
Same!
Nah, getting distracted easily is not the same thing as being dumb, don't be so harsh on yourself ❤
You're not dumb, you're just an ENFP.
OMG same for me...
This is a fun idea! 😁 you could also do 16 personalities playing other parody interview games or 16 personalities as celebrities in interviews
Ooh, good ideas! 👍
Isfj just described my perfect day, except I prefer to do that alone:
-INTJ
Yeah, that doesn't seem boring at all.
@@Diaming787 make the coffee full caff and the park after dark - perfect.
I don't mind having a full caff coffee in the evening, but I thought the decaf sounded like a great idea to please everyone.
Just realised I'm a mix between INFJ, INTP and INFP: studying/reflecting about other people but not knowing what I want, 'lazy' and 'ghosting' people because I don't feel like texting....what a perfect mix🤣
@@NumberKyuu While reading a book about quantum mechanics, I'm on board!
ENTJ here that is completely accurate. I get told a lot that I’m unemotional or not as expressive. But I do feel emotion deeply I just don’t outwardly express it unless it benefits me
“Why are INTPs so lazy?”
It’s not that I’m lazy, I’m just working through problems of society in my head, okay?
Agreed, i just spend alot of time inside my head and yeah too lazy to finish what i thought of.....
And I do have some of my best ideas about the problems of society while playing video games, or lying in bed.
@@freregregoire2685 i do too, why is that?
@@imnobodyatall6577 because intps are the ultimate thinker type, they love the internal world more than the external world and it’s a lot harder to execute those ideas out into the external than the internal world
@@kcfanforlife8300 that explains my situation perfectly🤔
INFJ be like soul-searchy and weird as a result of existential crisis
4:00 HUGE missed opportunity to say “facts don’t care about your feelings”
Bruh, that’s my motto… I’m also an ESTJ, my gf questions all the time if I even have feelings
As an ISTP, this is 98% accurate.
but im not cool :(
@@Gabriel_JudgeofHellyou would be if you acted like me
- istp
classical ISTP (im an intp apparently)@@ClassicCrystal_10
“Why do ENTPs like to argue?”
I mean, the answer given by Frank for this was perfect. It’s not that we wanna argue, but it’s irritating when you’re literally surrounded by so many people, but you’re the only one who sees which opinion is correct-
Yes and I don't know about the other ENTPs but talking and what people call "arguing" helps to arrange my thoughts and points of view
Took the words right out of my mouth. Also we always have a mountain of evidence/arguments to back our stand. We can’t let people walk around being so uneducated
@@montsemazon3968 Agreed, “arguing” helps me form an opinion and compare viewpoints so I can see it from different perspectives
@@montsemazon3968 Arguing is already my default mode of conversation. Also it isn't that others are wrong, but they don't take enough points into consideration
@@therainbowziege2317 exactly! It’s not arguing, to me I see it as debating. And just like you and all the other replies, I feel you all man :’)
As an ENTP this was accurate, it is just SO hard having the burden to show everyone that I am always right.
Having social media accounts doesn't help either cause stupid people are everywhere and we just can't keep our mouth shut
lmao this is so me it's concerning
As an INTP, I support and love you guys.
You’re the version of INTPs that actually say the things we want to say. But we INTPs just wanna say the things when we are 100% sure of everything and every detail of the subject so when we explain we say a lot and usually ppl don’t get it. But ENTPs do get it most of the time
@@azzahrafty the only social media I do is youtube my mental health was declining
Thank you for accurately describing my plain of existence!
“Why the ENFJs are the best”
Oh my god, guys for real😭
How sweet are you
These clearly can make every enfjs day 😩
No you
I was like 😭😭😭 wow
Made me so happyyy🥺
Y’ALL R DA BEST! ;(
The "Why are INTP's lazy?" got me feel like I'm personally attacked. 😂
Bro as an INFJ, that shit was way too fucking accurate holy shit.
Makes you think though our relatives the ENFJ’s are beloved by all so basically the moment an INFJ turns their I into an E we become some type of super hero.
As an INTJ, I can confirm I'd have reacted the exact way if someone asked me whether I'm evil or not lol
I've practiced the laughter and evil monologue just in case someone would ever ask
This has already happened to me. I didn't do anything except raise an eyebrow in mild surprise but they looked absolutely horrified. And I wasn't even feeling negative at that time
Same here too dear ☺️
What's up fellow INTJ .
I have been asked when I plan to start a shooting. I react the same way, fake laugh with a wtf expression
"Why are INTP's so lazy?" I hate being called lazy. I prefer writing stories and doing something else I find interesting. I also willingly clean, as it's fun and it's cleaning. When it comes to school work, I can do it, but I just get distracted and focus on listening to music or writing a story or something. I can do work though, it's just that I need motivation to and/or I have to find it interesting enough.
@Sarah Baker Oh wow lol
Sameee 😩
Here I absolutely totally agree with you, the stuff I am doing has to be interesting for me to do it
Exactly !
As an INTJ, I'm very nice. I'm not evil.
exactly what an INTJ would say
@@jeshellecerbito6697 lol
As an INTJ - A, here's the truth... We are the nicest,most generous people around and the most innocent.... But.... F*** around and Find out ,types 😂😂😂😂😂
“Why INTPs so lazy”
“Well that’s bcuz our brains work harder than most of yall”
“WHY YOU STILL IN BED AT 1 PM”
“Exactly mom”
I have ghosted people for like 2-3 months, but I honestly can't help it. There's a point where I just go into a hermit mode. ~ INFP
I literally got ghosted by my infp friend since last week-
@@joshuabaskett2936
Sorry that you got ghosted by your INFP friend. I can't speak for all INFPs , but I will say that most of them need some time to recharge themselves and after they're recharged they'll be back and act like nothing happened. ~ INFP
Istg ENFJs are literally the best , the coolest, funny , caring, charming and give the best hugs 😭
- infj
Awwww no y'all infj's are truly the best😭💚we love you guys
@@user-kg4do9pb7d 🤧 tysm !!!!!!
@@azaniacrystal8424 ♥️♥️♥️
Ikrrr my sis is enfj and it's a blessing I have her by my side 😊
- infj
Because I'm 50/50 between ENTP and INTP, they're both hilariously relatable
You really did us dirty with this one.
INTP here.
You know that the statement is true, but you make it sound like we are actually lazy.
We are not. We just need a lot of procrastination to let our brain figure stuff out. And it's not like there is nothing to learn for life by playing some video games.
And if we are passionate about something, I dear you to find me someone else who can keep up with our energy and dedication.
I have been procrastinating an assignment so long its due 3 weeks ago:P - fellow INTP
As an ENFJ
that’s exactly how I’d react
"What do INFJs want?"
Me, an infj: I-....I don't know...(now I am going to think about this the next 2 hours so I can give an answer)
Edit: After long thinking and processing and questioning the meaning of life I have come to the conclusion that I want to live and be happy, and I also want to help other people with their own problems and most important I want a cat and a library for myself.
Bro same my life goal is just to help others and have a cat lmao.
Sounds boring
lol
Same here, but add a dog. 😃
Help others, have a cat, play videogames and working on what i love
As an INFP it was soooo accurate. When you don’t text me something important then you will have to Wait till I find the energy to text you back or feel bad enough for ghosting you 😭😂
The evil laugh after being asked if INTJs are evil is such an accurate reaction lmao
"why are INTPs so lazy"
the several forms i should've submitted today that I haven't even started yet: i
We sure do want to know
"Why are ISFPs selfish?"
Because we don't exist to please your whims, that's why.
Yeah.
Don’t worry guys, it’s not fun being selfish either T-T we’re trying alright -ISFx
@@leah8894 There is an area between 'selfish' and 'other people's unreasonable expectations' that should really be explored here.
Yeah, If only you could share that trait to anyone. It's so painful to always have an internal argument whether i should care about them or not.
@@azulablue6988 too often, people expect you to set yourself on fire to keep them warm, and accuse you of being selfish if you don't. It's always a good idea to check in with yourself to figure out if that's what's going on. If your intuition tells you someone is making unreasonable demands on you, take a closer look at why you feel that way.