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  • @BlehisaBleh
    @BlehisaBleh 7 місяців тому +70

    Let your kids attend extra-curricular activities. Why are you holding hostage of your kids' learning?

    • @ibendover4817
      @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +5

      This is a scummy thing to do man... why are you harassing him based off a one sided story. Tell her to see a psychologist if you really care, there is definitely something wrong with her.

    • @goddessoftruth6811
      @goddessoftruth6811 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@ibendover4817you are in every comment! Are u tattoo s...? Maybe PINOKIO need therapy more than his ex wife or you😂😂😂

    • @ibendover4817
      @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +3

      @@goddessoftruth6811 Every comment? I don't have that much free time my dude. I do not know those terms or wtf you're talking about. Looks like you're the one that needs therapy and are more obsessed over their drama and with how much enjoyment you get out of this. No adult speaks like this, grow up kid.

    • @ashleyise6071
      @ashleyise6071 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@ibendover4817how so ? What evidence are you basing this off of ? Seek psychiatric help.

    • @ibendover4817
      @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +1

      @@ashleyise6071 haha, you commented with the wrong account. Seek psychiatric help yourself obsessive stalker. How many accounts did you make to harass the guy?

  • @Serraphina
    @Serraphina 7 місяців тому +35

    At the end of the day, the kids will mostly remember about their childhood that their parents were always fighting in front of them, you may have not live that but I can assure you that this is really traumatizing. When they grow up, they will try everything to keep their future children from a divorce even if this means staying in a sad marriage. Take care.

  • @TigerPony
    @TigerPony 6 місяців тому +69

    Your wife and kids deserve better than an abusive husband/father. I’m glad she has spoken up about it and divorced you. 😊

    • @karinajas
      @karinajas 6 місяців тому +8

      I guess you missed all the recordings of HER abusive a$$? I love how y'all ignore that skanks BS. The best thing he did was leaving her. Now she is with her friends man that she went after.

    • @love_is_charity
      @love_is_charity 5 місяців тому +8

      Pity for the kids
      The wifey is in a better place now and the family’s happy without this man😂

    • @gregmasters8558
      @gregmasters8558 5 місяців тому

      ​@@love_is_charityI thought he was marrying an African since he kept saying he needs an African queen all of a sudden I see him with an albino. I'm so confused.

    • @mandyelectronicmaker
      @mandyelectronicmaker 4 місяці тому +2

      U didn't see her cheating and abusive behavior ohh please get out of here and go back to them ...

    • @mandyelectronicmaker
      @mandyelectronicmaker 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@gregmasters8558what did u want him to do? What if ur so called lilly was lying about him and the gal?

  • @Bunnygreen25
    @Bunnygreen25 7 місяців тому +108

    Just remember you not hurting lily but hurting those kids and don’t be shocked when those kids grow up and are able to make their own decisions and decide they want nothing to do with their dad… makes one really think when do you really spend time with those kids. You always up and down on the road.

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +21

      they aren't going to hate their dad just because he decided to do something else with them besides take them to dance 😂 you guys are delusional

    • @nadyajjl
      @nadyajjl 7 місяців тому +30

      @@lilmamagc oh trust they will. Kids know who raised them and who didn’t. James will blame lily anw

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +12

      ​@@nadyajjlnot doing dance except every other week is not going to hurt them. yuri even said she wanted to do the solo next year and was ok, but mom still signed her up anyway and made her do double time to practice for it. Yall can't see that lily is a tiger mom. James just wants his kids to enjoy their childhood instead of coming home at 10pm after going to practice.

    • @mn8931
      @mn8931 7 місяців тому +2

      How delusional are you, James just wants his kids to enjoy their childhood by being an absentee dad? haha And no, telling your kid to do solo is not tiger parenting dumbo, it is being upset about not winning the trophy that is tiger parenting. And Lily is far from that, she was very encouraging and you could see Yuri's sense of accomplishment and the admiration of her schoolmates after her dance, that act build up the self confidence in Yuri that will last forever, THATS parenting. As parents you want to give structure to your kids which very often includes yes making them do things they dont want to. Thats what parenting is all about, its definitely not whatever Chris is doing. @@lilmamagc

    • @ibendover4817
      @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +9

      ​@@lilmamagc I know man. Korean culture just glorifies the entertainment industry when in reality less than 1% of dancers are successful or stable. You can tell she is pushing her kid to do this and it's the parent's dream based on how many competitions they make them enter and how disappointed she gets when her daughter doesn't win. I don't know what kind of parent would make a kid train that seriously when there is going to be serious job competition in the market for young people with all the Ai changes coming up. Better off prioritising academics/entrepreneurship.
      Or even better, let kids be kids instead of filling their time with all these extra curricular activities. Most of the people I know around me who didn't lose their job or get laid off this year are extremely social and form connections quickly... the kind of people how hung around with friends. The ones I know who shoved their faces in books and extra curricular activities with no friends got laid off multiple times.

  • @Melody033
    @Melody033 7 місяців тому +76

    Hey James I hope you know that your daughters need you and if you want a good relationship with them in the future you have to put in the work and effort to spend time with them and be there for them despite the fact of court cases and stuff like that

  • @sankky2000
    @sankky2000 7 місяців тому +23

    You are lost and tired Bro. Some proverb of some Tribes say when a man stop loving his wife, he will gradually stop loving his kids and move on with his life. It looks like gradually you handed over your fatherhood to Chris where your own child said she loves him.
    Don't take it personal though since you discuss your private life online, so I guest you don't mind if I'm telling about how I see what you revealed. I hope your kids are happy with Chris. May you find your happiness too

  • @SierraRomeoh
    @SierraRomeoh 7 місяців тому +77

    I'm not a subscriber of his or anything, I just normally come over here to see a second side whenever Lily posts some ape shit on her ex-husband. But goddamn, watching these vlogs makes me lose brain cells. Half the time I'm here trying to see what coherent thoughts he's spewing out. Yep, those kids definitely deserve full custody by their mama.

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +10

      He seems more stable than her. It's literally a travel vlog. Can you not comprehend?

    • @SierraRomeoh
      @SierraRomeoh 7 місяців тому +36

      @@lilmamagc More stable? Yeah ok, a stable father would totally compromise the emotional and educational benefits of his children lmao

    • @Wyurmmv
      @Wyurmmv 7 місяців тому +11

      Maybe you should take some time to watch his videos explaining why he does not want his kids to do dance and gymnastics. He has his ways of how he wants to mould his kids and he doesn’t expose them online like how Lily does.

    • @goddessoftruth6811
      @goddessoftruth6811 7 місяців тому +14

      ​@@Wyurmmvyou are laughable 😂😂😂

    • @lindy8077
      @lindy8077 7 місяців тому +8

      So it’s “his children” whenever lily wants a babysitter, because that’s what she’s really mad about. She can’t travel with Chris and she doesn’t have an “educational” activity excuse to use to drag the kids out of school with. All that stuff is to benefit Lily. She’s a control freak.

  • @evolvingwithdebbie2502
    @evolvingwithdebbie2502 7 місяців тому +11

    As much as i would love to say a few things, i am holding back because it will be wicked to jump to conclusions without details of what is happening on your end. May I appeal to your sense of reason to prioritise your kids interest regardless of happenings between you and your ex. They are in their formative years and they really need you to have a rounded upbringing. Regarding their extra curricular activities, if it's not affecting their academic excellence, kindly reach a consensus with their mum on an agreed arrangements. Who knows they could become National representatives at international competitions. Once again prioritise the kids interest over whatever you and their mum are going through.

    • @njerikiarie8928
      @njerikiarie8928 6 місяців тому

      He's a narc. He doesn't care. He's going to "win" by all means.

    • @Lollol0l
      @Lollol0l 6 місяців тому

      True. He may win his ex but he’ll lose his kids eventually

  • @NL-zx3is
    @NL-zx3is 7 місяців тому +4

    What happened to miss mahianyu? Lol

  • @Cinjo6
    @Cinjo6 7 місяців тому +18

    A previous video said that James sold his home and was moving to Texas before traveling, but now lives in Utah, again. Very confusing.

    • @Bunnygreen25
      @Bunnygreen25 7 місяців тому +25

      James says a lot of things
      Remember he also sold us dreams with the Kenya house and the owner said it’s not his and lied about everything

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@@Bunnygreen25he never sold his home? that was a renovation flipped property. He was advertising vacation rentals in kenya. you guys are so gullible it's scary

    • @Wyurmmv
      @Wyurmmv 7 місяців тому +6

      @@lilmamagcthey are Lily’s subscribers, what do you expect😂

    • @ibendover4817
      @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +3

      @@lilmamagc These are a bunch of entitled women that don't work and are siding with her coz they're similar. She could commit armed robbery and they'd still make excuses and come here to harass this guy.

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +1

      @@ibendover4817and you side with a man who gets mad when lily calls them African American and Black even that’s what they are so please stfu

  • @nathanielsimpsonsr.1327
    @nathanielsimpsonsr.1327 7 місяців тому

    Maybe next time you play some Loju(featuring Wizkid) on your videos 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @maxineplummer2036
    @maxineplummer2036 7 місяців тому +1

    #I am Marwa is doing amazing things in his village. As a Jamaican I’m proud to see when a successful native returns to help others❤️👌🏾💯

  • @Teech_
    @Teech_ 6 місяців тому

    Good luck. Live life happy 💯💯

  • @elijahali7934
    @elijahali7934 7 місяців тому

    When you referred to Chris as a slave what did you mean by that?

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  7 місяців тому +1

      I meant exactly that. He a slave boy

    • @martham.83
      @martham.83 6 місяців тому +1

      @@JustJamesfor-lifecoming from a black African man living im the states lol, sounds more like you are the slave

  • @sublime1061
    @sublime1061 7 місяців тому +2

    James, i hope you remember King Solomons wisdom. If you have to cut the child into two, it will kill them. It is best to let them go with the lying woman. Chill get a life of your own together and forget about them. Just pray for them and trust God to father them for you now that the mother has given them another father. All fights are just going to get ugly for nothing and will only hurt the children. For their sakes, let them go, just like God let us go with the fallen liar, because there is yet another wise saying by Slolomon:Throw your bread on the waters, if it is yours, it will return to you. With these two wise sayings, you know what to do. We were left with the liar but we still find our way back to God despite everything, because we are His. Above all, never try to go back to Lilly now that she has moved on because that so angers the Lord it is even recorded in the law of God - for a woman never to return to an old man after that she has been defiled by another. So with these three nuggets, it us clear which direction is the best for you even spiritually. Chill, get out of the situation as far as you can and stop all ugly fights, they cut the children into two. Stay away, only give the financial support they need and if possible from as far away as possible. Otherwise your own children will begin to hate you. They have been indoctrinated by the mother. Let them grow old and make their own decisions. While you are at it, dont stop your own life. Move on get a new wife and kids because there is a chance that these are gone for good. Get others that will be truly yours and with people of similar understanding.

  • @namjoonsmoonchild6322
    @namjoonsmoonchild6322 7 місяців тому +4

    Moving like Russel Simmons🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  7 місяців тому +2

      I am Russel Simmons

    • @Fusemoree
      @Fusemoree 7 місяців тому +2

      @@JustJamesfor-lifeyou know russell Simmons is black right? And we all know how much you abhor black Americans. So anyway when are you returning to Africa? Since Africans are so “superior”. And yet you all dont stay in Africa you come to America like roaches. Funny how that works.

  • @user-bi1ey5fv5o
    @user-bi1ey5fv5o 7 місяців тому +16

    왜사냐?

    • @user-gx2iz1hg6t
      @user-gx2iz1hg6t 6 місяців тому +3

      제임스 = 나르시스트 악마

  • @anthonyrose7576
    @anthonyrose7576 7 місяців тому +3

    Take care brother 🙏

  • @shewr4664
    @shewr4664 7 місяців тому

    Are you related to Mr. Obina?

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  7 місяців тому

      Yes

    • @shewr4664
      @shewr4664 7 місяців тому

      @@JustJamesfor-life Oh wow Am glad.. keep ur head up… fight for ur kids Wewe ni wetu…Karibuni Ohio

  • @wongsiawee8373
    @wongsiawee8373 Місяць тому

    Lily seems happy now with her new man. You have to send her a congrat gift.

  • @junesingh5167
    @junesingh5167 7 місяців тому +9

    Take care jems,just forget what happens behind,, make your life happy ever.

  • @pitanoen
    @pitanoen 7 місяців тому +7

    What is wrong with you??>?

  • @erinbarrow4819
    @erinbarrow4819 7 місяців тому +4

    Hey glad that you made it back safely

  • @mandyelectronicmaker
    @mandyelectronicmaker 4 місяці тому +1

    Ppl coming here to bash this man really r delusional thst Chris guy looks unstable you cant tell me nothing. I hope Lilly is ready for whats in store for her...

  • @nathanielsimpsonsr.1327
    @nathanielsimpsonsr.1327 7 місяців тому +4

    Bruh you’re hilarious 😂but the music had me dancing with my fiancé 😂😂

  • @anopta
    @anopta 7 місяців тому +17

    I followed your story from the mini blogs during your dating days in Seoul as a hagwon substitute teacher. The first date at itaewon club.....
    Man. Cheers up. You will be okay. I have no idea what went wrong. But Chris is a hasty and bad decision. We all know what will happen. I hope he doesnt leave the family because the kids are counting on him. When you meet the kids, show them more love. They need it. Stay blessed ❤❤❤

  • @ibendover4817
    @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +9

    Hey man, I'd really take what people say here being rude or lecturing you like parenting experts with a grain of salt. Most of them are kids and young adults with no direction in their lives just addicted to youtube dram and have never been in relationships themselves, living vicariously through others. You know what's best for your daughters (and your own mental health) rather than a bunch of strangers that watch 8 min videos every few weeks.
    When people shove cameras in their kids faces during sensitive moments and air out all their dirty laundry online, these are the type of people you attract sadly. It might really be best for everyone involved if you could get your partner to a psychologist or family specialist. Too many yes-men on her channel giving her advice and gassing her up when she posts drama content.

  • @TULboard5982
    @TULboard5982 5 місяців тому

    Arguments are a part of life, married or not, kid exposed to it or not. No one here has any right to judge a situation they never lived. Get on with your life and ignore the "Hypocrites" with their holier than thou made up lives. "You without sin cast the first stone", Any real takers? Didn't think so.......

  • @almerichendricks5425
    @almerichendricks5425 7 місяців тому +1

    James you miss your girl

  • @sakidickerson
    @sakidickerson 7 місяців тому +14

    Lily's fans are here in force

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому

      Cause he’s a man child

    • @Thunders6381
      @Thunders6381 7 місяців тому

      He is literally racist against his own kind lol

    • @lenjon7478
      @lenjon7478 5 місяців тому

      And by keeping the nonsense going on she earns some UA-cam money 😂🤔😤

  • @TheTmm1114
    @TheTmm1114 7 місяців тому +2

    😊👋🏾

  • @Mapule150
    @Mapule150 6 місяців тому +1

    I can see miserable all over you😢

  • @bettymoy4082
    @bettymoy4082 7 місяців тому

    FINALLY YAA SEE HOW BLACK'S? KENYA WORKS?

  • @hoosiertejano5835
    @hoosiertejano5835 7 місяців тому +1

    I Am Legend..... Starring just James

  • @RipiCRose
    @RipiCRose 7 місяців тому +4

    Everyone seeing james reality slowly . Thank God! They calling him out on his shit now

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  7 місяців тому +3

      Hope it’s not too slow,would you like for me to make it faster?

    • @Wyurmmv
      @Wyurmmv 7 місяців тому +1

      ⁠@@JustJamesfor-lifeslow and steady is good for the long run😉

  • @love_is_charity
    @love_is_charity 5 місяців тому

    The least you can do is be a good father to your kids🌚
    Small pikin man,you too wicked abeg🤮

  • @rachelcallahan2612
    @rachelcallahan2612 7 місяців тому +10

    Hi James,
    I feel so sad for you as it appears that you've handed your kids over to another man to parent them. James, those girls are YOUR seeds. So please don't allow another man to plant them in the ground.
    Just saying........... as I continue to pray for you and yours! 🙏❤🙏

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  7 місяців тому +9

      Keep praying! And thanks for watching!

    • @rachelcallahan2612
      @rachelcallahan2612 7 місяців тому +3

      @@JustJamesfor-life Indeed, I will keep watching and I will keep praying as I watch. And, I will keep praying because I BELIEVE that prayer changes things! ♥🥰♥

    • @mutzle
      @mutzle 7 місяців тому +10

      he’s ignoring the kids on purpose but just uses them for winning the sue case. no worries

  • @gabedubya4969
    @gabedubya4969 7 місяців тому +5

    Welcome back

  • @user-yg8cg6df8x
    @user-yg8cg6df8x 7 місяців тому +19

    You need to know who is always bringing up gossip about the family's drama. When both were divorced, Lily announced the divorce praying for James's happiness. and she didn't mention him anymore in her channel and unsubscribed him. But James started uploading awkward videos about her privacy contained with lies and rumors unproven.
    He released viewers her boyfriend first despite Lily didn't want to.
    Some people say Lily always plays the victim. But James is the one who makes videos that harass Lily. Why would he do that if he already moved on? He controls his children and ex-wife to be miserable. And eventually, Lily made videos about family drama caused by James which she cannot endure. And some ppl blame her for playing a victim and being a drama queen to make money through UA-cam. You can see that James doesn't care about the kids's interests and doesn't care for kids until the case is done. Can see that James was absent during the summer, fall, winter, and during even Dasomi's birthday. Oh, he said that Yuri and Dasomi were doing gymnastics until 10 pm? Haha, he fooled you. They didn't ever do gymnastics until 10 pm. And they didn't come home after 10 pm every day. You guys always believe one side no matter what is true without listening to others. I agree Lily is sometimes immature, but she does not neglect her kids. And to James, you always say Lily's fan comes here and bothers you through her accusation video, they don't come here to blame you but criticize you. If you stop making nasty drama videos, they won't attack you.

    • @Wyurmmv
      @Wyurmmv 7 місяців тому +6

      In Lily’s first video of divorce, she mentioned that he took the furniture, curtains, and a rice cooker. She did not just wish James’ happiness in her first video and if that was her intention, why mention all the unnecessary stuff to get him blamed? Both of the two are at faults but I guess you can blame James the most for outbringing her cheating with Chris lol

    • @user-yg8cg6df8x
      @user-yg8cg6df8x 7 місяців тому +6

      @Wyurmmv Seriously, THE CURTAIN??? She mentioned it because she felt disappointed ,not to attack him. And she didn't mention the rice cooker in her first divorce video.
      She can't even express her feelings about the disappointment?
      And James is the one who cheated with a Kenyan woman for years lol.

    • @Wyurmmv
      @Wyurmmv 7 місяців тому +3

      ⁠​⁠@@user-yg8cg6df8xhow do you know he cheated with the kenyan woman earlier? If we are believing stories, James mentioned Lily cheated on him from Day 1 with her ex bf and her boss lol. You don’t make sense when you said she mentioned the curtains bc she felt disappointed to not attack him like wtf does that mean? Lol why are you being so lenient on Lily but not James?

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  7 місяців тому +1

      @user-yg8cg6df8x Please subscribe and share!

    • @user-yg8cg6df8x
      @user-yg8cg6df8x 7 місяців тому +5

      ​​@Wyurmmv Yeah, you believed him no matter what without the evidence and without listening to other's stories.
      The Kenyan woman, who is James's ex-girlfriend, was spotted in a hotel promotional video where she works, and James's Facebook video of partying in Kenya was revealed to be at the same location. 😆

  • @latinacuban2237
    @latinacuban2237 7 місяців тому +7

    bla bla

  • @AwakenNpcBots
    @AwakenNpcBots 5 місяців тому

    Just James you as an african can’t do this to your kids you know that you and lily werent supposed to divorce that was the easy way out, you guys took your vows before God

  • @lindamartial6348
    @lindamartial6348 7 місяців тому +7

    Chris can't take james place in their heart.

    • @rachelcallahan2612
      @rachelcallahan2612 7 місяців тому +11

      Children are so very impressionable, and their hearts can be easily swayed. Therefore, it is entirely up to James to ensure that he remains in the heart of his children. And he can do that by reaching out to them on a regular basis and making sure that they know that they remain in his heart.

    • @lilac8794
      @lilac8794 7 місяців тому +4

      he can, if they grow up around chris more

    • @Oldman1912
      @Oldman1912 7 місяців тому

      ​@@rachelcallahan2612like you got swayed from your father. Perhaps your culture failed you....

    • @rachelcallahan2612
      @rachelcallahan2612 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Oldman1912 - What??????????????

    • @Oldman1912
      @Oldman1912 7 місяців тому

      @@rachelcallahan2612 did I stutter?

  • @lindy8077
    @lindy8077 7 місяців тому +14

    Well, Lily got what she called for. She jumped out the frying pan into the fire, hope Chris doesn't disappoint her too much. It was only a matter of time that James was going to get tired, and move on. You can't expect any man in his right mind to continue living in such a dysfunctional way. Now Chris taking long(er) trips, and she's over there draining the girls for her own emotional support. Over exaggerating things, grooming them to be victims. She wants James to jeopardize his sanity and freedom in order to be a father to his children. That's wild!

    • @heartbreakerkevv1380
      @heartbreakerkevv1380 7 місяців тому +7

      Ikr? Cant wait to see how this plays out long-term. If Chris leaves her tho, that would be INSANE and EMBARRASSING for her and the fans.

    • @Oldman1912
      @Oldman1912 7 місяців тому +6

      Chris is here to stay. Stop making up stories. Chris genuinely loves James' ex and the girls.

    • @carolinemuchengetwa4298
      @carolinemuchengetwa4298 7 місяців тому +3

      Till now I don't trust Chris at all lm just having a feeling that he is going to leave Lilly heartbroken more

    • @Oldman1912
      @Oldman1912 7 місяців тому +1

      @carolinemuchengetwa4298 nothing new. Lily will be fine. Breakups happen all the time.

    • @lindy8077
      @lindy8077 7 місяців тому +3

      She would just search online for another simp to replace Chris with. Maybe she’ll give him a chance to get his foot out the door, before bringing his replacement in.

  • @pugito4525
    @pugito4525 7 місяців тому +2

    Turn the page James.

  • @bettymoy4082
    @bettymoy4082 7 місяців тому

    TYPCIAL? THIS WAS WHY LILY PETAL FATHER KNEW JUST AS USA?

  • @hiddenhope7569
    @hiddenhope7569 7 місяців тому +10

    Can all of you shut up and get off his back. Remember non of this was his idea. Hang in there bro, the world is NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. the girls will be fine. Because they have over 60 years of lofe to live. Now isn't forever, and children become adults. You just remain a good man, time and God will put things into place 🙏. Ignor these single women on here, they're single for a reason.

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +5

      PREACH

    • @ibendover4817
      @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +2

      "Single women"
      "Single for a reason"
      Truest thing spoken on here. That really seems to be most of the people here. No one with a family or kids has time to be this invested or angry. Single because they're toxic and love drama. Its scary how much they love throwing petrol onto 2 strangers' divorce based off few minute videos. Even though one side provides evidence and the other just provides hearsay. Even more scary how angry and abusive they get in the comments even though they don't know these people and there are kids involved.

    • @elpink5424
      @elpink5424 7 місяців тому +1

      @@lilmamagc It's interesting how y'all are talking about "single women," but here you guys are up and down the comment section riding James' meat for what exactly? You claim that no one has time to do exactly what you all are doing unless they're single? So then wouldn't that just make you all single familyless men? Who are single for a reason, can't forget that part. Neither party is mature and it's sad how people with mindsets like y'all take public divorce cases as an opportunity to hate, so severely, on the opposite gender

    • @hiddenhope7569
      @hiddenhope7569 6 місяців тому

      @@elpink5424 you don't know what you're talking about.

    • @elpink5424
      @elpink5424 6 місяців тому

      @@hiddenhope7569 Are you sure about that buddy?

  • @ceceberry6051
    @ceceberry6051 7 місяців тому +10

    A lot of hateful comments here , let the guy live. You all see him spend time with his girls. Stop hating. This is only a fraction of what you can see.

    • @ibendover4817
      @ibendover4817 7 місяців тому +6

      The only thing that will make this better is if his wife gets a better job. She is relying heavily on extra views from youtube drama, resulting in people flocking here harassing him every few weeks if he doesn't meet every single demand. I remember other ex-family vloggers talking about this at a creator conference... people get addicted to the easy boost in views from drama or embellishments in their stories and it destroys their relationships.

    • @namjoonsmoonchild6322
      @namjoonsmoonchild6322 7 місяців тому +7

      @@ibendover4817dude James literally started the drama be f ING serious lily wouldn’t have to make these videos if it wasn’t for jAmes being a jealous ex that should move on with his life so no he deserve it

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +5

      @@ibendover4817isn’t that what he’s literally doing James strated this first so that’s his fault

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@namjoonsmoonchild6322really? what started this is lily announcing divirce and whining about james taking the bed. James was mia on youtube before then. James started this because lily was leaving her young girls ALONE at home witb chris, literally weeks after james moved out. Chris was telling the girls to LIE to their dad. Thats what started all this mess.

    • @quasar4472
      @quasar4472 7 місяців тому

      ​@ibendover4817 it's hilarious that Chris is doing all the work and inserting his girlfriend as part of his business while everything is under Chris's name only.
      Lily so broke and Chris feeling awful for his broke gf...what happen to her side hustles...photography and teaching korean...all of those been dead and in the swamps for months.

  • @Virtues162
    @Virtues162 7 місяців тому +1

    Just James ______The Man______The Myth_________The Legend !!

  • @sweetiesuccess8435
    @sweetiesuccess8435 7 місяців тому +2

    That ex wife videos are so DEPRESSING, It's like going to a FUNERAL with her PITY and sad mess, she is the only one who can change her situation NO ONE ELSE, Her divorce, co-parenting toxic mess is so played out and BORING now...When the divorce 1st came out it was sweet, hot topic and juicy...Now after 2 years she is still dragging this old boring story that happen months ago...James is out their living his best life while she is sitting at home blaming James day in and day out...what a SAD Life to live.

  • @Wyurmmv
    @Wyurmmv 7 місяців тому +8

    I find it amusing how Lily wants you to co-parent with her but she didn’t co-parent with you from the beginning😂 (i.e. bringing cheeseboy into the scene too early) keep going James and don’t let her push you around

    • @goddessoftruth6811
      @goddessoftruth6811 7 місяців тому +1

      Big feet too 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +8

      I find it amusing how she’s not allowed to move on but this blob can bffrn you men are so childish plus he started

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +3

      Hope he never sees his daughters again

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +4

      ​@@arianakim5699she cheated with chris. chris cheated on shu with lily. that man abandoned 2 sets of kids and gave the moms full custody IMMEDIATELY because he didn't want to be bothered with the children. Please leave James alone😂

    • @ashleyise6071
      @ashleyise6071 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@lilmamagcJames cheated on Lilly first.

  • @qobonyoni3010
    @qobonyoni3010 7 місяців тому +6

    In the long run I see James get full custody of the kids. This is all part of his long game.

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +7

      I hope that never happens

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +8

      He don’t even want to teach his daughters his language but lily teaches them her language that man is ashamed of being Kenyan FRFR

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@arianakim5699quit crying

    • @shirlthepearl3167
      @shirlthepearl3167 7 місяців тому

      ​@arianakim5699 I've thought this because of his speech pattern. Speaking "proper" the old folks called it.😅

    • @elpink5424
      @elpink5424 7 місяців тому

      @@lilmamagc You're the one up and down not only this, but also Lily's comment section, hop off James' meat

  • @lilmamagc
    @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +7

    James you are a great father! You should sue for defamation tbh.

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  7 місяців тому +4

      Life is too good to worry about defamation. YOLO!

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +4

      ​@@JustJamesfor-lifeI'm glad you are still able to be happy through all this. ❤

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +1

      No he ain’t stop lying he’s a horrible father plus lily should sue because technically James started it by posting her personal stuff which sparked this bs so stfu

    • @arianakim5699
      @arianakim5699 7 місяців тому +2

      He’s a horrible fathers he will never see his kids again

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 7 місяців тому +5

      @@arianakim5699 you must live with him? i can't believe you are siding with someone who let their young daughter sleep in the bed with that grown man (accused molestor) and saw nothing wrong with it. Your opinion was UNASKED for and WILL BE dismissed!