Right he s mommy's boy who is self indulged . Kids is like having puppies to him, he about what he want, but see him in ten yrs. In front of your friendly 711 store with his hand out, he doing her a favor, she is wife material and a lot of real men would line up for her, she want have any problems.
Lord when I first saw him and what he chose to wear I thought he looks like he's been to jail but I didnt want to offend anyone but it seems I was right. Lol.
I don't know why grandma is taking up for him. My grandma would have been smacking me upside my head if I had 4 kids by two different men at 27 yrs old.
He's BEEN telling you he doesn't want you. He was your second choice while he was in jail and he's been cheating ever since. What have you been thinking for 7 years?
JessehGames His ignorance is shocking. I can't believe he admitted his money was his and hers was for their children. Plus, they lived an unstable life, sleeping in cars?
This woman is just desperate to have a man. Any mapn. She needs to wake up and smell the coffee, donuts and what ever is cllooking can't she see this man doteson himself, not any woman and certainly not his kids. RUN! RUN! RUN! For your life your sanity and your kids!
"My money is for me." that pretty much sums it up. Lord have mercy, this is the definition of being unconscious and he has the nerve to talk about being straight. This man equates being compatible with someone as someone who puts up with his crap. He sounds like a big ol' baby! Pathetic!
Why would a reasonably intelligent female want a low down trifling 🐕. Grandma need to mind her own business and check her trifling 🐕. Get child support and alimony. Sue sue sue tap that pocket
Right bruh!! ASAP!! little immature chumps like this boy creates an army of bitter heart broken women. Leave this bish boy in the gutter before you ruin your own happiness forever ladies!! Run!!!
Homegirl isn't very articulate or sensible and her husband is just shameful. I was SHOCKED when he said his money is for Him. When you have FOUR kids, there's no such thing as "My money is for me." I hope she figures it out.
women please stop thinking you can change a man, stop trying it's impossible please don't them let them guys fool you around the market is not that tight, be you do what you love and the right guy will come along never settle down for less than you deserve!!!! i'm begging y'all!!
Everything else I understand but she did wreck his car if u break it u fix it don’t give af who u is this ain’t got shit to do with being a man n this don’t got Shit to do with being a women u owe what u owe
Leave when he started cheating? He was sleeping around before you got together with him, you knew him that way, what made her think he's going to change
no one knows how he acts or tells her in their alone time. I bet he gives mixed signals and she should've kicked him in his throat and divorced him a long time ago!
This is what I do not understand about this BEAUTIFUL woman! She has it going on, WHY hang in there to take that disrespectful shit! My ex's disrespected me in that SAME WAY! When I finally got my act together, even before, I started acting out some of their behavior, PRETENDING that I was cheating on him! I would stay overnight with my girlfriend, leaving him BABYSITTING his son and you better believe he could NOT HANDLE IT! Isn't it funny, that we women in love, CANNOT have sex with another man, whereas some men, whom claim they love you, their "small heads" gets hard, just looking at another woman! I CAN look at a GOOD LOOKING man to say how good he looks, but I don't get excited wanting to have sex with him! Heck, I can say that about GOOD LOOKING WOMEN TOO, and ADMIT, understanding WHY some men wants to have sex with her (like Hallie Berry)! But some men would have sex with the fattest & ugly women on this planet, JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN!
Dorrett P yesss I agree... I've been watching DC since Judge Maybeline days. Now I'm 26...married with a daughter. Hopefully I can get access to this show when she's older
She is a beautiful woman that didn't know her worth. She chose to procreate with and marry a loser. The problem always stems from children not having a solid foundation at home. They grow up to behave the same way thier parents did, it's sad.
The best revenge for this beautiful woman is success. Take your ass out there work hard have a great career raise your baby and eventually you will meet an amazing man who is all about you and guess what he will still be splitting his cheques to pay child support.
She was REALLY in there trying to save her marriage with the dude she KNEW wasn't shit when she started hooking up with him. THEN married him KNOWING he wasn't shit. BEYOND stupid! 🤦🏾♀️
The judge's reaction at 4:57-5:05 is exactly how I was feeling. How stupid and desperate and lonely do you have to be in order to stick around for this type of foolishness?? He has another kid, he cheats, doesn't spend his money on the kids, lies and plays games. Yet you still wanna make things work with him? yet you still had kids with him, had a relationship with him?? I mean what the hell is going on with some of these women.
Yng women often believe in men when they don't believe in themselves. Once she changes her focus she will be ok. She needs to concentrate on herself and her children
This is also the result of not appreciating a friendship. She saw who he was and for some reason she wanted it. He's a self-centered CHUMP who has no respect for women or himself. He's 27 but still 17 in the mind-set. Hopefully they can co-parent successfully and in time she'll be happy as hell that she got rid of THAT PROBLEM
She's so beautiful...with so much pain in her....eyes.....sistah, you chose him. Now make a better decision and un-choose. It's okay, everything will be okay.
Yea its ok you are a beautifull woman ,dont let this grandmas baby boy bring you dwn,i'm sure b4 you know it God will send someone special in your life ,dont be crying over him he's not worth it
These dudes are water down, diluted, and sifted multiple times. Damn! Put some bass in your voice, brotha. Just sad, how manhood is gradually being stripped away.
Veda Brown I wonder what type of man grandma had when she was younger because she most definitely help create this monster. With his sorry ass. Shame on you grandma.
You cannot blame a grown man's behavior and choices on the grandmother or the mother for that reason. We are all responsible for our own choices. Where does the father come in....his absence speaks volumes!
This is an amazing show Judge Lynn. I may be 16, but the advice you give to these various couples change people's lives greatly, and that's a good thing. Your advices are fantastic..
Hey Everyone I'm the young lady everyone had so much to say about , Me and me kids are doing great and happy me and the Dad are not together it's was really over after the show lol 😂 Rip to Sharron Curry , known as Gannie she passed away last month, The Dad is in a relationship and happy,but still refuses to give money,but my God always provide so all is well hopefully y'all enjoy the show, I'm so grateful for growth 💙💫🧿🏁😁💯😂
Oooh, I know I shouldn’t be judging anyone, but I am, and his new lady gets the 🗑 because she settled for a deadbeat that doesn’t financially support his children. Nothing good will come from that. I’m so happy for YOU and your babies, though💖
Yeah he did not have a daddy to guide him into manhood. He is lost. His grandma probably did the best she could. Most time the boys are babied and ruin No matter how old he gets, he is always going to be a grown boy. And once grandma has transitioned, his only cheerleader is no more. She did not insure he got survival skills.
The woman is beautiful. Her melanin is fierce, though she isn't too smart. She allowed this nothing to give her babies. She is getting just what she asked for. Therefore, she is not worthy of sympathy.
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He kind of looks like Dino from H-Town. And I wonder why she married him if he said he didn't want one woman from jump street. He's saying now that he doesn't want her and she's still trying to hold on. I don't get it.
she hags 3 kids with him and I think she loves him its marriage some people want to try you know so I guess that's why she fighting to keep them together
Going by what he said at the beginning of the case, she was excited by the fact that he that he had multiple women and even had couple of them fighting over him, she wanted to know what they was fighting over, so her her curious ass jumped in the mix, so with that being said what is she complaining about, she knew exactly what she was getting into, so i have no pity for this woman at all..
And years from now, he'll still be stringing her along with the whole "wife" title telling her that he go change just so he can get some. She's weak so she go take him back every time cause he's her "husband"
Smh. He’s a trifling excuse for a “husband” and “father” and I’m glad the judge didn’t award him the $ he was asking for. She and her children deserve so much better.
sherrod000 It's the media brainwashing women that they have no options. Being alone is ALWAYS an option. I have been alone for years and absolutely love it.
the media makes black women feel as though they have to settle for less. She's beautiful, and from the sound of it, nice and caring. She could have done better but probably believed only a womanizing black man would want her.
sherrod000 When you've been taught to believe you're nothing, you choose things that confirm that. There are also better men in the world but the outcome is still the same when you are you've been psychologically damaged and It hasn't been dealt with through a legitimate mental professional not a pastor.
Girl leave him alone, which is what she should've done in the first place. He said his income I'd his....dude you have 4 kids none of the money you make now is yours...kids cost a lot of money....She should move on and co-parent bc being friends at this point won't work especially for her bc he's done. That's terrible that they had children in thus situation. Take care of your children so we don't have to. She should be happy because now she doesn't have to worry about who they're sleeping around with....I say who bc the women he has sec with she does too! She's a beautiful woman and she probably had low self-esteem with 3 kids, probably thinking no good man would want all that baggage. At this point she shouldn't be worried about that bc her kids needs come before hers. I feel sorry for all the kids they both selfishly bought into this world.
His grandmother must have zero discernment acting like she didn't know his character was so vile, selfish, and immature... ignorance is so blissful but chickens always come home to roost. Roots n Fruits
I’m heartbroken for her. The way she looks at him, she deeply cares for him in a way he doesn’t. I get the feeling grandma doesn’t like her because she doesn’t do what grandma wants her to do... as a result grandma isn’t bothered about them saving their marriage.
you could see the hurt in her eyes shes beautiful and his just nasty i hope she gets herself together and looks after her kids the honourable man will show up in due time
Charlene Williams what honor is there in taking care of someone else's baggage? Men of Honor do not take care of women who make bad choices you made your bed now lie in it and rest well real talk black men stop simping for some of these sorry ass women and in particular black women who keep doing the same old dumb s*** over and over and over again and then they have the audacity to call themselves Queens?
Just finished watching this episode....They both are at fault: like my mother always said everyone you meet as a friend isn't always a relationship. I am sure when they were friends she knew how he was by the conversations they had. Somewhere down the line she stopped listening and decided to try and change him and you can't change a grown person(man or woman). Change comes from within and he isn't ready yet and that is okay. As for the young lady...she needs to focus on herself and her children and decide that she doesn't need a man right now. Once she has done the work of self cleaning everything will fall into place. Heartache brings strength if you learn to embrace it. As for the young man...I won't bash him because some people just are ready to settle down. He definitely needed to be more open and honest with her point..blank..period. I wish them both the best and I pray they always do right by their children.
this is so sad....but definitely reality. I hope he does right by the kids and she waits on God for her next husband. i would say to her just focus on being the best mom u can be and stack yo paper. don't let what happened break you but learn from it. your still young. keep your head up
This was definitely a learning experience and I'm not dating anyone but I'm truly happy with my kids,trips and food 😂😂😂😂 and he been in a relationship for two three years now, he happy I hope, we all live and learn 😁
This is such a sad mess. This is what a “desperate woman who will accept any piece of a man” looks like. Trust me, I know!! I recently broke out of this bad cycle once I realized it but Praise God that I didn’t have kids to trap me in anything, it was easy to walk away. This is hard to watch, it’s so sad... I really feel for this lady 😫
This guy is the typical loser, four kids and not stable financially to take care of them. This lady needs to run for the hills and find a "man" that is responsible enough to help her take care of her kids. With that being said she needs to take up a skill and further her education to be able to take care of her kids on her own, even if the dad is deadbeat and won't help. These guys and women needs to wrap it up!!!!! They want to play but can't pay!!!!
Melody Pure find a responsible guy to help her take care of her kids?? You kidding me right? Women fuck around with bums then expect a simp to take on her baggage from previous relationships
@@slimflex1 So I guess every woman who remarries and has prior children makes the man a simp? There are hundreds of thousands of blended families but I BET you only feel that way about black women
Yet another woman who believes she can "change" him if she gets him down the aisle. If he was a player when they met and continued to play after they became "official", then he will always be a player and not Ward Cleaver.
This ninja is so trifling if i was her i would probably move out of state to get away from him ....YUCK! this situation is just sad he should be embarrassed. Girl please let him go hold your head up pick up your crown Queen you got this . my heart hurts for her because she doesn't realize her worth
Judge Lynn is just a timeless beauty! She's so gorgeous! I have a cousin. She's mixed... Hawaiian, Filipino, Native American and Black. She reminds me a lot of judge Lynn. God bless you Judge Toler and Toler Ohana! :)
I learnt not to get involved with people in need, meaning I had guys in a bad situations who reached out for help, and because I was there, or so helpful they tried to start a relationship, but I always explain, sometimes gratitude can be misinterpreted for love, this man wanted her while in prison, while someone else dumped him, need need need, give them a chance to get financially healthy and watch the gratitude turn to attitude , it works out better for both persons.
Going by what he said at the beginning of the case, she was excited by the fact that he that he had multiple women and even had couple of them fighting over him, she wanted to know what they was fighting over, so her her curious ass jumped in the mix, so with that being said what is she complaining about, she knew exactly what she was getting into, so i have no pity for this woman at all..
Why is such a beautiful, seemingly sweet woman so in love with trash like him? He is absolutely disgusting, but why in the WORLD would she want to keep putting up with it and believing in him?
"You get the guy you pick, not the one you hope he becomes."
I love this.
Facts!
Well he is a looser but the chick is a fool for messing with a dude like that.
Preach on
"You get the guy you pick not the guy you hope he becomes." - Judge Lynn
Pearls of wisdom right there.
GREAT ADVICE AS USUAL JUDGE LYNN!! "Never make a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once." - L. Toler
MrSeanPix That's my favorite qoute by her. Also, " You get the man you choose, not the man you hope he will be." She needs to write a book.
Kiyoko Ellison She has written more than 3 books.
My Name Doesnt Matter My bad, thanks for the info. Definitely going to be checking those out.
MrSeanPix people say what they mean, once is enough. They meditate on that shit! Drunk or not, you shouldn’t take it!
@@kiyoko5523 +sf
Come on dude. You brought your grandma to divorce court? Really? There's so much wrong with this episode.
Jessica K And she was so happy to be there smh, she was quite proud of this fool.
He a sissy type man. Prop sleeps in grandmas bed .
@@gregblack8550 🤮😂😂
Right he s mommy's boy who is self indulged . Kids is like having puppies to him, he about what he want, but see him in ten yrs. In front of your friendly 711 store with his hand out, he doing her a favor, she is wife material and a lot of real men would line up for her, she want have any problems.
And she made no sense being there. She was all giggly instead if setting them straight as an elder. She probably enables him. Black male worship!
He said he went to jail and his original girlfriend left him so he decided go with her oh my God
He is the worse
Lord when I first saw him and what he chose to wear I thought he looks like he's been to jail but I didnt want to offend anyone but it seems I was right. Lol.
Lucky ex-girlfriend! She escaped!
@@cynthiajosiej1833 fr, tho!
And after that she should have said Judge Toler I've changed my mind!!!
Her husband is my biggest nightmare.
Tina right!!!
Tina His grandma is my biggest nightmare. He actually has someone on his team cosigning his choices.
Veda Brown, and grandma will NEVER go against her grandson. She meddles and see no wrong in what he doing..
La Vida Loca How is that? What did grandma say to show she consign his bad behavior?
Serena Quaye Why grandma come. Momma's boy or Granny boy
I don't know why grandma is taking up for him. My grandma would have been smacking me upside my head if I had 4 kids by two different men at 27 yrs old.
Kiyoko Ellison IKR! she's sick
Kiyoko Ellison His grandma sitting there all proud and ish Lol!
Kiyoko Ellison Well grandma did tell her to leave him because he isn't going to change. I thought that was a pretty good advise.
Some things can’t be helped, so good for you and your granny but it’s 2017 and women aren’t forced to stay with a man just because they have children.
Kiyoko I didn't really see her sticking up for him. She barely claimed dude
He's BEEN telling you he doesn't want you. He was your second choice while he was in jail and he's been cheating ever since. What have you been thinking for 7 years?
Erin Williams She was HIS 2nd choice whilst he was in jail!
Erin Williams sad
Erin Williams she hasn’t bc she’s a dumb bitch
A lot of us are the second choice. We just don’t know it.
7 long years
“My money is for me.” That statement of his tells more about his character than anything. He’s a POS.
Shut up b!tch u don’t know him so don’t speak on his character
He had a girlfriend but was friend with benifits with her? Classic case of someone thinking they can change a cheater.
Yes, true
IssaNoFromMeDog
But he didn’t want to share her? And then she smiled.
He isn’t a cheater. He is a polygamist
@@AkinolaWilliams You don't know what a polygamist is.
halloween482 yes I am. I am African.
Sorry...I can't be friends with someone who destroyed my life.
this is a classic case of if someone shows you who they are, believe them.. move on. both of u
SuperPhdiva YAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSS!!!!! 🙌🏽
LOLOOL!! Amen!!
Drop him like a Hot Rock!!
weather. in. greenville. nc
you are absolutely right. once a cheater always a cheater...
The fact that he wants money from her makes me wanna puke
JessehGames right! What a low life.
JessehGames His ignorance is shocking. I can't believe he admitted his money was his and hers was for their children. Plus, they lived an unstable life, sleeping in cars?
Veda Brown Cars, at friends houses maybe
Certified bum
JessehGames
ladies , never let a man tell you that they do not want you more than once ...move on there is other men out there
alim3611 Ameeeeeeeeen!!!!!!!
not so much of other men. but the fact is to do you. get an education love you first more than him.
@@bracketvilletexas very true and well said
He told the truth about himself, she chose not to listen.
Felicia Woods So...he's "community dick" and she's dickmatized...all of this stems from these two having ADHD(AintNoDadInTheHouse)😏
THIS
His grandma needs to shut up and stop defending him
Exactly
Needs to shut all the way up
This woman is just desperate to have a man. Any mapn. She needs to wake up and smell the coffee, donuts and what ever is cllooking can't she see this man doteson himself, not any woman and certainly not his kids. RUN! RUN! RUN! For your life your sanity and your kids!
Shut up??? I know she shouldn't involve in their matter.. You don't say that to an old person.
@@CarolineAnandSiddiqui don't say it to an old person?
It's okay to disrespect younger people?
"My money is for me." that pretty much sums it up. Lord have mercy, this is the definition of being unconscious and he has the nerve to talk about being straight. This man equates being compatible with someone as someone who puts up with his crap. He sounds like a big ol' baby! Pathetic!
Why would a reasonably intelligent female want a low down trifling 🐕. Grandma need to mind her own business and check her trifling 🐕. Get child support and alimony. Sue sue sue tap that pocket
When he said that!🤯😤.
Run ,Run Run my sista as far as you can
Some other fool with no self respect will have his trifling behind. Get a job fool and mental therapy he's definitely slow. It's their car not his.
Right bruh!! ASAP!! little immature chumps like this boy creates an army of bitter heart broken women. Leave this bish boy in the gutter before you ruin your own happiness forever ladies!! Run!!!
Exactly all these women out there need to run from him to
Homegirl isn't very articulate or sensible and her husband is just shameful. I was SHOCKED when he said his money is for Him. When you have FOUR kids, there's no such thing as "My money is for me." I hope she figures it out.
Pop
women please stop thinking you can change a man, stop trying it's impossible please don't them let them guys fool you around the market is not that tight, be you do what you love and the right guy will come along never settle down for less than you deserve!!!! i'm begging y'all!!
Marco Pierre Solid!
Dr. Amos Wilson said the same thing in his lecture Black Male Female Relationships lecture.
Wise words!
you would think it would be common sense but sometimes it takes situations like these to make you learn a lesson
Marco Pierre
Thank you
He's cheated throughout, violated his probation, wants money from her and "she has hope for this relationship"
Yes, unbelievable
Everything else I understand but she did wreck his car if u break it u fix it don’t give af who u is this ain’t got shit to do with being a man n this don’t got Shit to do with being a women u owe what u owe
@@kingtyworld8816 are you the husband. Sounds like it. You under every comment with the same comment. So are you still polygamous?
Warning. If you find a man like this. Run, don't look back and if you trip make sure you have a condom.
not worth it! keep moving forward take a 23 year break ask yourself what are you looking for in a man
You don't need a condom, don't give him any.
She should have left when he started cheating. SMH
Why she didn't leave is the billion dollar question...I don't know why women put up with crap like this...it's irritating....
Joyce J / ASouthernWriter rift, I agree. She should’ve left … it as friends
Shouldn’t have had sex with him to begin with, she already knew who he was.....guess she didn’t believe he would do it to her!!!!
Leave when he started cheating? He was sleeping around before you got together with him, you knew him that way, what made her think he's going to change
When he gets older, he is going to be sad and alone. That's if he makes it.
Crying on a picture of granny ...
Or she’ll be sad and alone in her marriage if she doesn’t count her loses, thank her angels and leave for good
Why because he didn't wanna be married anymore? Good luck to fhe boyh of them
The Judge is so gorgeous and her makeup and hair is ALWAYS on point!
Flawless... Just started watching since I've retired. Enjoy, wish she was still on.
How many times does he have to show her that he doesn't want her?
Torie Townsend it's hard to walk away when you're in love.. Sad but true..
yes and it seems she love him, a good girl that she choose the wrong dude poor thing
Toni-Ann Stewart praying for this young woman!!
no one knows how he acts or tells her in their alone time. I bet he gives mixed signals and she should've kicked him in his throat and divorced him a long time ago!
Dr. Amos in his lecture in Black Men Female Relationship says "maybe it is not love. Maybe it is addiction."
Ladies as Judge Toler said..."IF A MAN IS SHOWING YOU "B" BELIEVE IT!" "A" is who he wants you to believe.
the wife is beautiful, I love her skin tone and her hair line
Hair line? Really
Shamara B yep. Really
Yessssssss, she is!!!
GORGEOUS
This is what I do not understand about this BEAUTIFUL woman! She has it going on, WHY hang in there to take that disrespectful shit! My ex's disrespected me in that SAME WAY! When I finally got my act together, even before, I started acting out some of their behavior, PRETENDING that I was cheating on him! I would stay overnight with my girlfriend, leaving him BABYSITTING his son and you better believe he could NOT HANDLE IT!
Isn't it funny, that we women in love, CANNOT have sex with another man, whereas some men, whom claim they love you, their "small heads" gets hard, just looking at another woman! I CAN look at a GOOD LOOKING man to say how good he looks, but I don't get excited wanting to have sex with him! Heck, I can say that about GOOD LOOKING WOMEN TOO, and ADMIT, understanding WHY some men wants to have sex with her (like Hallie Berry)! But some men would have sex with the fattest & ugly women on this planet, JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN!
I LOVE JUDGE LYNN TOLER!!!!!!!
This is a sad, sad, SAD situation. This guy should not have kids. He seems incredibly selfish and immature
Moni Que W all women married, single esp blacks...
all tweens and teens should watch DIVORCE COURT.
Dorrett P yesss I agree... I've been watching DC since Judge Maybeline days. Now I'm 26...married with a daughter. Hopefully I can get access to this show when she's older
SEEMS? HELL HE IS SELFISH 🙄 11/16/2020
She is a beautiful woman that didn't know her worth. She chose to procreate with and marry a loser. The problem always stems from children not having a solid foundation at home. They grow up to behave the same way thier parents did, it's sad.
Jenell Newsome true!
Not necessarily true nowadays. People with good foundations even do that nowadays.
The women all like these sissy acting fools nowadays. He think he is prettier than she is. Bet he wears pretty panties.
Beautiful but dumb.
Yesssss💯 honey and I had to break that generational curse💙💫🧿🏁😁
The best revenge for this beautiful woman is success. Take your ass out there work hard have a great career raise your baby and eventually you will meet an amazing man who is all about you and guess what he will still be splitting his cheques to pay child support.
Imelda So right!
Have a great career AND raise your children.. : \ Sm1 else will be raising them.
Yes yes yes 👑
she needs a real man not this selfish piece of hoeing trash
Me I wouldn't want nothing from him. He can keep his money... I hope she moved out of the state...
Don't get child support or anything from him but I'm happy with my kids without him 💙💫🧿🏁
She was REALLY in there trying to save her marriage with the dude she KNEW wasn't shit when she started hooking up with him. THEN married him KNOWING he wasn't shit. BEYOND stupid! 🤦🏾♀️
The judge's reaction at 4:57-5:05 is exactly how I was feeling. How stupid and desperate and lonely do you have to be in order to stick around for this type of foolishness?? He has another kid, he cheats, doesn't spend his money on the kids, lies and plays games. Yet you still wanna make things work with him? yet you still had kids with him, had a relationship with him?? I mean what the hell is going on with some of these women.
Yng women often believe in men when they don't believe in themselves. Once she changes her focus she will be ok. She needs to concentrate on herself and her children
Tiler never divorce anyone. Good advice yes.
I JUST got to this point and yes, that face is accurate! I always read the comments while watching to see who’s thinking what I’m thinking😂
Exactly!! What the hell is going on!!! As a woman, I don't understand this s*** I never tolerate this kind of stuff. She's desperate.
This is also the result of not appreciating a friendship. She saw who he was and for some reason she wanted it. He's a self-centered CHUMP who has no respect for women or himself. He's 27 but still 17 in the mind-set. Hopefully they can co-parent successfully and in time she'll be happy as hell that she got rid of THAT PROBLEM
I am very grateful and happy, I left 💙💫🧿🏁
She's so beautiful...with so much pain in her....eyes.....sistah, you chose him. Now make a better decision and un-choose. It's okay, everything will be okay.
Imagine being that gorgeous and wasting it all on a guy like him. Smh
Yea its ok you are a beautifull woman ,dont let this grandmas baby boy bring you dwn,i'm sure b4 you know it God will send someone special in your life ,dont be crying over him he's not worth it
Awwww thank you guys,and I did and happy and grateful about it,time pass so fast I didn't even realize it's been 5 years without him 💙💫🧿🏁😁
@@cybermom5681 That makes me SO happy to hear! 🌹🌹🌹
@@cybermom5681 YES siSTAR! SO HAPPY AND PROUD for you! Many wonderful blessings to you! 🖤✊🏾🖤
"When a man tells you A and does B, believe B. Cause A is what he's trying to get you to believe, and B is who he is!"
She pretty she look like a dark skinned black Barbie doll
Sweet Tee I know right!
@@idkihaveaname845 she is beautiful she dont need him just child support
@@ivyalston7277 so true lmao
She’s not dark. But I get it 🤷🏽♀️
A pretty fool 🥴
When a guy wants to commit while in jail🙄🙄🙄, ladies Wake Up!!!
Damn she dumb!!! And he don't give a fuck! Them kids going be like them dumb and don't give a fuck.
These dudes are water down, diluted, and sifted multiple times. Damn! Put some bass in your voice, brotha. Just sad, how manhood is gradually being stripped away.
It's slipping away at a RAPID pace.....I'm beginning to think that these women act MORE manly than these dudes do. It's pathetic and sad...
When women are left to raise the children by themselves they have to step up and be stronger, they have no other choice at that point.
Myshan Amakisi Yes Educate !!!!!
Myshan Amakisi ikr
He needs to move in with another sissy boy and they can preen around in dresses all day and not work. He ain’t no man really.
so sad it hurts to see a wasted married and the children have to pay for their clumsy mistakes.
Crystal Mo Precisely!
Children, who may go on to have a very difficult life, emotionally and otherwise😡
Not clumsy but stupid mistake.
MISTAKES? No, he never cared
grandma needs to be quiet
‘You’re building your own private? personal hell, one baby at a time’
Wisdom
Sis had a front row seat to a horror movie, and still took the leading role 😔ladies we have to do better 😒
She married a player and now she has to accept fate... tough luck but you are to blame as well...
Whew, I'm so glad I have no children. When a man shows his bad character, I don't have to work at shit. I can and will bounce immediately.
I don't know what this man is going to do when his grandma is gone.
Veda Brown
I wonder what type of man grandma had when she was younger because she most definitely help create this monster. With his sorry ass. Shame on you grandma.
Tina Hall She is an insult to the best meaning of the word grandmother.
You cannot blame a grown man's behavior and choices on the grandmother or the mother for that reason. We are all responsible for our own choices. Where does the father come in....his absence speaks volumes!
YaYa Nobody playing the blame game on this post, merely pointing out the grandmother is an enabler.
For sure Veda! She is definitely an enabler.
This is an amazing show Judge Lynn. I may be 16, but the advice you give to these various couples change people's lives greatly, and that's a good thing. Your advices are fantastic..
And it really did 💙💫🧿🏁
I just can’t bring my self to feel sorry for this beautiful woman. He is telling you who he is.
LIke grandma said she don't listen. She do what she want to do. She got 3 kids with this jail dude, cheater. self centered nobody.
Hey Everyone I'm the young lady everyone had so much to say about , Me and me kids are doing great and happy me and the Dad are not together it's was really over after the show lol 😂 Rip to Sharron Curry , known as Gannie she passed away last month, The Dad is in a relationship and happy,but still refuses to give money,but my God always provide so all is well hopefully y'all enjoy the show, I'm so grateful for growth 💙💫🧿🏁😁💯😂
Oooh, I know I shouldn’t be judging anyone, but I am, and his new lady gets the 🗑 because she settled for a deadbeat that doesn’t financially support his children. Nothing good will come from that. I’m so happy for YOU and your babies, though💖
Yeah he did not have a daddy to guide him into manhood. He is lost. His grandma probably did the best she could. Most time the boys are babied and ruin No matter how old he gets, he is always going to be a grown boy. And once grandma has transitioned, his only cheerleader is no more. She did not insure he got survival skills.
The woman is beautiful. Her melanin is fierce, though she isn't too smart. She allowed this nothing to give her babies. She is getting just what she asked for. Therefore, she is not worthy of sympathy.
@@pookienempooky9339 Yes He Will Always Be A Grandmom Boy I Have One Was A Mom Boy And Still Is Everything he do they Think It Right He Was A No Good Cheat After I Didnt Marry Him He Went A Marry A Church Going H Just For To Say He Live In A House But He Want Me To Cheat With Him I Told Him To Get The H Step After three Minth Are Marry Her And Her Son Pull Two Gum Out On Him. HE Still A No Good Cheat Girl Let that Marry Go And Do Better For You And Your Kids I Am More Happy And Doing Much Better Sometime I Get A Little Lonely But I Grab My Bible and God Pick Me Up Read Palmas 35 and 37 27 you Feel The Press Move. GOD BLESS LOVE YOU KEEP GOD FAITH AND MOVE PN IN LIFE
I love that Judge Toler doesn't allow cosigning from the peanut gallery!
The grandmother appears as if she is trying to keep the mother on her feet by informing her just how disinterested her grandson is.
It sucks loving someone who doesn’t love you back. It’s hard but you just gotta move on.
He kind of looks like Dino from H-Town. And I wonder why she married him if he said he didn't want one woman from jump street. He's saying now that he doesn't want her and she's still trying to hold on. I don't get it.
AJ Writer He's kinda cute. I guess that counts. 😑
He is not even cute and looks like he is high lol
she hags 3 kids with him and I think she loves him its marriage some people want to try you know so I guess that's why she fighting to keep them together
Maybe cos hes got the good wood
Going by what he said at the beginning of the case, she was excited by the fact that he that he had multiple women and even had couple of them fighting over him, she wanted to know what they was fighting over, so her her curious ass jumped in the mix, so with that being said what is she complaining about, she knew exactly what she was getting into, so i have no pity for this woman at all..
When all the women(options) are gone ... he's not going to end up with the one he wants.
And years from now, he'll still be stringing her along with the whole "wife" title telling her that he go change just so he can get some. She's weak so she go take him back every time cause he's her "husband"
He was who he was when but she choose to ignore the warning signs. she think she can make him to be her ideal guy but all it false.
Daisy flower Yup she saw the physical features & how other ladies was fighting over him, and thought she could fix the rest. Now she caught up...smh.
He sounds like a drug dealer,- I bet by now he's back in jail and she brings him cigarettes. The pickings of men must be slim in her neighborhood.
Not just in her neighborhood but everywhere!!!
Geena Lyon i
Naw these days sister's just love brother's like that it's just the mindset of our generation that's how I look at it.
you get the guy you pick not who you hope he becomes!!!#realtalk the judge is a wise woman💯💯
Smh. He’s a trifling excuse for a “husband” and “father” and I’m glad the judge didn’t award him the $ he was asking for. She and her children deserve so much better.
He seriously wanted it too.
Ms. Enjoli you knew this guy was bad news from the JUMP .
sherrod000 It's the media brainwashing women that they have no options. Being alone is ALWAYS an option. I have been alone for years and absolutely love it.
the media makes black women feel as though they have to settle for less. She's beautiful, and from the sound of it, nice and caring. She could have done better but probably believed only a womanizing black man would want her.
So yes the media does a great job in Blatanlty Belitiling the Black Women. Birth Control is always an option. We learn about this in school.
sherrod000 When you've been taught to believe you're nothing, you choose things that confirm that. There are also better men in the world but the outcome is still the same when you are you've been psychologically damaged and It hasn't been dealt with through a legitimate mental professional not a pastor.
Tina Maybe
When a man tells you A and does B, believe B. Having all these baby mama's builds your own personal hell. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“You get the guy you pick, not the one you hope he becomes”
- L. Toler
NEVER let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once.
So much wisdom from the judge 👨⚖️
Girl leave him alone, which is what she should've done in the first place. He said his income I'd his....dude you have 4 kids none of the money you make now is yours...kids cost a lot of money....She should move on and co-parent bc being friends at this point won't work especially for her bc he's done. That's terrible that they had children in thus situation. Take care of your children so we don't have to. She should be happy because now she doesn't have to worry about who they're sleeping around with....I say who bc the women he has sec with she does too! She's a beautiful woman and she probably had low self-esteem with 3 kids, probably thinking no good man would want all that baggage. At this point she shouldn't be worried about that bc her kids needs come before hers. I feel sorry for all the kids they both selfishly bought into this world.
Wow ! 😦this crazy! why? dude is ok with being trifling ??? sickening
You never need anyone to tell you if a relationship is worth saving.
His grandmother must have zero discernment acting like she didn't know his character was so vile, selfish, and immature... ignorance is so blissful but chickens always come home to roost. Roots n Fruits
So gorgeous and classy with no self esteem!
I listen to most videos 2x but when The Judge is dropping knowledge it is time to slow down and listen!
I’m heartbroken for her. The way she looks at him, she deeply cares for him in a way he doesn’t. I get the feeling grandma doesn’t like her because she doesn’t do what grandma wants her to do... as a result grandma isn’t bothered about them saving their marriage.
you could see the hurt in her eyes shes beautiful and his just nasty i hope she gets herself together and looks after her kids the honourable man will show up in due time
Charlene Williams what honor is there in taking care of someone else's baggage? Men of Honor do not take care of women who make bad choices you made your bed now lie in it and rest well real talk black men stop simping for some of these sorry ass women and in particular black women who keep doing the same old dumb s*** over and over and over again and then they have the audacity to call themselves Queens?
He is a real pitiful excuse for a man honey move on to someone that will help take care of you and your kids and that will love you for you
Damn people he just hiding his love for men behind all them women. He gay he gay he gay he gay as hell.
I'm gonna change him!! Lol classic case
he's a bum. He also seems high as hell
Just finished watching this episode....They both are at fault: like my mother always said everyone you meet as a friend isn't always a relationship. I am sure when they were friends she knew how he was by the conversations they had. Somewhere down the line she stopped listening and decided to try and change him and you can't change a grown person(man or woman). Change comes from within and he isn't ready yet and that is okay. As for the young lady...she needs to focus on herself and her children and decide that she doesn't need a man right now. Once she has done the work of self cleaning everything will fall into place. Heartache brings strength if you learn to embrace it. As for the young man...I won't bash him because some people just are ready to settle down. He definitely needed to be more open and honest with her point..blank..period. I wish them both the best and I pray they always do right by their children.
Best comment on this video by a mile.
Thank you so much...appreciate it.
this is so sad....but definitely reality. I hope he does right by the kids and she waits on God for her next husband. i would say to her just focus on being the best mom u can be and stack yo paper. don't let what happened break you but learn from it. your still young. keep your head up
ashmoe317 Amen girl!
Yes!Then he's off to capture another woman to do the same thing all over again. Young women, wake up and raise your standards!
ashmoe317 she's ratchet with 3 kids. Who's marrying her???
This was definitely a learning experience and I'm not dating anyone but I'm truly happy with my kids,trips and food 😂😂😂😂 and he been in a relationship for two three years now, he happy I hope, we all live and learn 😁
This is such a sad mess. This is what a “desperate woman who will accept any piece of a man” looks like. Trust me, I know!! I recently broke out of this bad cycle once I realized it but Praise God that I didn’t have kids to trap me in anything, it was easy to walk away. This is hard to watch, it’s so sad... I really feel for this lady 😫
This guy is the typical loser, four kids and not stable financially to take care of them. This lady needs to run for the hills and find a "man" that is responsible enough to help her take care of her kids. With that being said she needs to take up a skill and further her education to be able to take care of her kids on her own, even if the dad is deadbeat and won't help. These guys and women needs to wrap it up!!!!! They want to play but can't pay!!!!
Melody Pure find a responsible guy to help her take care of her kids?? You kidding me right? Women fuck around with bums then expect a simp to take on her baggage from previous relationships
It's doubly sad because now she has to deal with this BUM, for the sake of those babies...
@@slimflex1 So I guess every woman who remarries and has prior children makes the man a simp? There are hundreds of thousands of blended families but I BET you only feel that way about black women
Yet another woman who believes she can "change" him if she gets him down the aisle. If he was a player when they met and continued to play after they became "official", then he will always be a player and not Ward Cleaver.
This ninja is so trifling if i was her i would probably move out of state to get away from him ....YUCK! this situation is just sad he should be embarrassed. Girl please let him go hold your head up pick up your crown Queen you got this . my heart hurts for her because she doesn't realize her worth
Grandma say “He don’t have THAT MANY women.” 😱🤦🏾♀️
When you hear a screen heard around the world, that's him realizing who and what he is.
"You get the guy you pick, not the guy you want him to become". Drops mic. I gave her a standing ovation in my kitchen for that one.
You're not the husband type but you got married, make it make sense
“We were currently friends at that time...” 😩😂😐
Lmao
4:58 yes ma’am judge your actions is well sending a powerful message to all women that ignore the danger signs
Judge Lynn is just a timeless beauty! She's so gorgeous! I have a cousin. She's mixed... Hawaiian, Filipino, Native American and Black. She reminds me a lot of judge Lynn. God bless you Judge Toler and Toler Ohana! :)
she is so beautiful..can do so much better than him..
“My money is for me.” Wow. He’s absolutely despicable.
What A Beautiful Woman! It's So Shocking To See Her Go Through This. She Knows Her Worth Now!
I love Judge Lynn she’s too funny 😂 REAL and very genuine
she knew what he was when she married him
I learnt not to get involved with people in need, meaning I had guys in a bad situations who reached out for help, and because I was there, or so helpful they tried to start a relationship, but I always explain, sometimes gratitude can be misinterpreted for love, this man wanted her while in prison, while someone else dumped him, need need need, give them a chance to get financially healthy and watch the gratitude turn to attitude , it works out better for both persons.
Going by what he said at the beginning of the case, she was excited by the fact that he that he had multiple women and even had couple of them fighting over him, she wanted to know what they was fighting over, so her her curious ass jumped in the mix, so with that being said what is she complaining about, she knew exactly what she was getting into, so i have no pity for this woman at all..
Why is such a beautiful, seemingly sweet woman so in love with trash like him? He is absolutely disgusting, but why in the WORLD would she want to keep putting up with it and believing in him?
What saddens me is that she's not by herself. It seems like women are putting up with this crap more and more...
This is 100% HER FAULT... and she had the audacity to bring a child into this fuckery.... I swear y’all can pick em’
Is it me ? Or I kinda do not like the grandma at all. I feel like she was a mean mother in law 🤔lol
aww honey the things you want he's not capable of providing!