facts the ones sending mixed signals are the ones who usually have several men for different things and she entertains you when she is bored or to kill time when her real boo deals with her lol its all good i have no time for that honestly
The best revenge would be to maximize yourself through self-improvement and forgetting about her. If she decides to come crawling back you reject her with a smile.
Nothing but 📠 in this video. Happened to me and I decided to give her a shot. Turned out to be the best relationship of my life. I would have married her too. However, a week after my 40th birthday, she died of cancer. Been 3 years since that happened, but overall, I'm glad I took a chance on the relationship. The best thing that made that relationship work was that we both worked on our character and being better people before we got together. May she rest in peace.
Ignoring them hurts and raises their attraction as well. But you can’t ignore them seeming butt hurt but ignore them cause you just don’t care and they feel if.
I remember a girl i wanted in high school did this now fast forward to us being in our 20s she has time to talk but now has 2 kids and Rom Wills crossed my mind about how women use men to be clean up men
I was reject by a girl I was feeling for a while back in school..that motivated me grind & I thought I would throw it in her face..but she has 2 kids & I wish her all the best she's a good women.
I got into the revenge mode after this girl rejected me. I took her out to date and she tells me she doesn't date coworkers... Irked me that she agreed to go out if that was the case from the beginning. Done a lot of growth over the past year, actually grateful for that because my desire to become a better man came from my revenge desire.
I stopped caring about yourself as motivation when a woman rejects you. Any improvement would mainly benefit her. The best advice is to just keep it moving. Over time she will fade into irrelevance. a chick rejected me in HS and I saw her picture recently and she is overweight. All the career and financial success I had since HS would have gone towards a woman I'm not even attracted to anymore.
yes. theres girls who i was just a little hesitant about and they were crazy about me. i may have gave it a fee seconds too many and she WILL NOT give me the time of day lol
When I get rejected or feel like a woman is playing games, I keep it pushing. I'm cordial and speak only when necessary. And when I do speak, I speak without being mad or bitter, but not all nice and fawning over them either. When you're mad and bitter, women know that they have control over your emotions more than you do.
Got rejected a few weeks ago by ghosting despite all the choosing signals and approach by this woman. My handling would be saying hi if I run into this woman and being cool just like I was before she approached me. I also pretend like it never happened. It’s all about being cool. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
It’s probably best not to do it. A lot of dudes are gonna dog em out. It’s gonna be a lot of hostility or other ish. That revenge ish creates bad karma. So just smile and take the compliment and move on in life.
@@almosthelpless9374 Exactly. It’s a million reasons why a person rejected you that has nothing to do with money. If a person comes back to you; it’s because they truly believe you’re a good person. Prove em right and just walk away.
@@casillasangel yeahhh. A lot of dudes mess up their reputation dogging chicks out and trying to get revenge. If she comes back to you; it’s because she saw something good in you and you just ruined that. Thanks but no thanks is the best response. I had to learn to do that myself, and what I’ve found out is that people will always think the world of you.
Great video Mr. Rom 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 Me personally, if a woman rejected me in the past, I'll be cordial, but if they were in the same area as me, I wouldn't go out of my way to say anything to them. I never felt like I should get revenge because a woman turned me down because I personally don't think they're important to take up space in my mind. I much rather move on and focus on meeting new women, where there is genuine mutual attraction. I want quality interactions with compatible women, and dealing with women who turned me down in the past is not apart of that. At the same time, there is no hard feelings for her turning me down in the past either.
Too many options often times leads to bad decisions & then reflection.. that’s why they circle back… the little things you did for her to make her day better matters more when the F boy they’re laying with won’t make much of an effort regardless how much sex they give him.
@@marlboropike.D exactly i realize how i have that effect i even took time to greet her in her language and make her laugh without trying much so that taught me to cherish that about my self instead of being bitter it wasnt reciprocated or if it was taken advantage of
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 as a man I’ve made the same mistake with women… can’t be mad or a victim all the time… I’ve definitely had some try to circle back though… although it feels like you’re vindicated when they try and circle back, it’s not worth dealing with them… just gotta let em go… I don’t need any participation trophies lol!
The revenge thing is so hard because our ego and the teen is still in us wanting the get back because we still want to conquer the woman and her body because we couldn’t in the past. If that’s makes sense.
I call it "Multiplying by Zero". It's impossible to deal with a women who you've totally multiplied by zero straight out of your mind, and existence. (Keisha who? Cheryl who?)
I already knew the right answer even before I watched the video all the way through it. We strictly DON'T deal with women who rejected us in the past UNLESS they've changed but even then we gotta take our time to find out what they're really about and we can't be quick to get into anything with them. And if we are being revengeful and we being on our grind and bossing up because of them only then it means they got in our head. I feel like your videos impacted me a lot just as the whole Game Kings. Respect Uncle Rom!
I had one of recent told me and quote "Said to me I like hanging out with you but I'm not looking for anyone etc etc but we can hang out" now mind you myself listening to her consciously I could see yellow red lights anyway. So last we ran across each other Sunday football out with the crew she says hello etc then leads into well I haven't heard from you blah blah. I'm looking at her in her face reply hey good to see ya alls well and I walked the f_k off. Don't need that attachment to bowl's__t.."save it for David cause I know what time it is" 😅
Once you reject me that’s it , it’s over with. Humiliate me once shame on you but twice shame on me. Nothing is more unattractive to me then a girl who don’t know what she wants. I’m not nobodies 2nd option .
Haha I’m glad for you brother!! This sentence reminds me of my struggle! I was a hot shot USMC vet with multiple tours overseas and got out and went back to my hometown. I started falling for this woman. She rejected me rudely but I don’t blame her because I was dealing with PTSD, alcoholism & homelessness. Years later I’m sober, bought a Harley and a travel van and started using my government scholarship to pay for pilot school…. Guess who shows up to all my holiday parties now?!! 😂
If she rejects you, walk away and be cool about it. She most likely will come back at some point out of curiosity. I've had this happen on more than one occasion. You know the old saying about the cat and curiosity...if you're picking up what I'm laying down👊🏾
Good stuff Don Rom, a girl was feeling me but I had to put her in check for some disrespect and then she ghosted me found out she is a convert narcissist
Younger dude here, my method is to create a illusion opportunity for them, I like seeing how far a person is willing to go for the chance(for kicks), I let them do all the work because they’re the only one who wants the job, I ignore everything they got going on and live my life, if I’m doing better then why would I want you 😂😂😂😂😂😂 it isn’t so much revenge I just be bored honestly 🤣🤣🤣
When a woman rejects me i simply move on im not dwelling on that because thats wasted time and energy i mean why would i stress myself out it makes no senses lol.
Weight loss and focusing on building your self you will incur this very often. Along with “I always thought you were but [insert illogical reasoning for rejecting you the first time]. I’ve dealt with women who have changed once they’ve gotten older and all that chasing the clubs & streets wore off. Usually that’s a result of Father Time and wisdom playing a hand.
Older women tend to be easier to deal with it, especially when she's still single & not married. They lower their standards & now all of a sudden they make themselves an easier target for the very same men that they would have turned down in their youth.
I just wouldn't deal with them and tell them to have a nice day. I don't wanna go backwards because im moving forward. What was done in the past is in the past.
Im trying to do better Rom. 😅 Option 2.5 , I take the 2nd route, but NEVER forget the rejection. No matter what she does, she will be capped/limited in terms of a relationship. But i dont be hostile or nothing like that.
Been waiting for this one. Honestly, i can't really go against my morals. Mainly because i don't slow down or hold back for anyone. That includes people from the past. If you wanna come with me, cool. If you don't believe in me, cool. I did have to get over the revenge thing, not fully over it since my sense of justice is very high, so it's kinda hard trying to make stand within their proximity, let alone talk to them. I've gotten more used to rejection though, and i'm happy i did.
I got rejected a few months ago at my gym and didn't handle it well. I avoided her and refused to make eye contact. I'm planing to apologize for that when I get the chance. I got rejected a couple days ago by another woman at my gym but I'm taking it much better this time. I plan on keeping an open line of communication. I'm working on healing my avoidant nature.
Bro, mine was the exact opposite😂 This girl rejected me and refused to make eye contact with me. It blew my mind. I should be the one ignoring her, and since I didn't plan on doing so, everything should have been "normal". But then she started ignoring me. The situation was so funny, bro. And it's not like I became way better or anything that she grew shy of me.
What do you think about the girls that will reject you, then try to make you their best friend, then get mad when you not feeling the buddy buddy shit? You dont like me, thats fine but im definitely not about to be your lap dog.
Whenever I have been rejected, the women always linger around me for a couple of weeks. Is this their ego at play or are they gauging how I react to being rejected? I always keep it cool, acknowledge them and keep it professional/friendly after being rejected.
Never accept the ReachBack... The main reason is you might be mean or heavy handed... I could see if she's different though. I've known one young lady who genuinely changed, but she didn't reject me... I simply didn't see her that way, and she worked on herself...
The revenge thing fuels you for a while, then you have to let it go for your own sake.
Soooo facts use that rage revenge fuel to hit the gym wake that beast inside you grow that confidence and do what you want to do. 💯
True
Exactly, it's simply dead weight living rent-free.
yup exactly
Very true Bud, its when we are messing with our own minds. When we let go of it and she means NOTHING to us, thats the only revenge we need.
Rejection truly is protection
Bingo
@@kennethyoung4892 facts
Remember it’s not about how you feel about her, but how she makes YOU feel. Don’t play the game if she’s sending mixed signals
facts the ones sending mixed signals are the ones who usually have several men for different things and she entertains you when she is bored or to kill time when her real boo deals with her lol its all good i have no time for that honestly
The best revenge would be to maximize yourself through self-improvement and forgetting about her. If she decides to come crawling back you reject her with a smile.
Nothing but 📠 in this video. Happened to me and I decided to give her a shot. Turned out to be the best relationship of my life. I would have married her too. However, a week after my 40th birthday, she died of cancer. Been 3 years since that happened, but overall, I'm glad I took a chance on the relationship. The best thing that made that relationship work was that we both worked on our character and being better people before we got together. May she rest in peace.
I always say, keep it friendly whenever you bump into them.
Exactly
Ignore her
Ignoring them hurts and raises their attraction as well. But you can’t ignore them seeming butt hurt but ignore them cause you just don’t care and they feel if.
Success is the best revenge. She did you a favor, and moved out of the way for the right one.
I couldn't agree more.
The best thing to do is keep it moving
I remember a girl i wanted in high school did this now fast forward to us being in our 20s she has time to talk but now has 2 kids and Rom Wills crossed my mind about how women use men to be clean up men
I was reject by a girl I was feeling for a while back in school..that motivated me grind & I thought I would throw it in her face..but she has 2 kids & I wish her all the best she's a good women.
Holding onto that negativity would've blown up in your face so it's good you've moved on.
That's growth right there brotha! Great attitude to have
I got into the revenge mode after this girl rejected me. I took her out to date and she tells me she doesn't date coworkers... Irked me that she agreed to go out if that was the case from the beginning.
Done a lot of growth over the past year, actually grateful for that because my desire to become a better man came from my revenge desire.
I stopped caring about yourself as motivation when a woman rejects you. Any improvement would mainly benefit her. The best advice is to just keep it moving. Over time she will fade into irrelevance.
a chick rejected me in HS and I saw her picture recently and she is overweight. All the career and financial success I had since HS would have gone towards a woman I'm not even attracted to anymore.
The best revenge for being rejected...
Moving on while living life peacefully on your terms.
"If she didn't want you when you were building, then she don't deserve you when you have built". Uncle Rom cooked here!!!
The real revenge is when you have improved yourself. Let them look. But keep it moving
Rejection hurts women more according to uncle rom
yes. theres girls who i was just a little hesitant about and they were crazy about me. i may have gave it a fee seconds too many and she WILL NOT give me the time of day lol
When I get rejected or feel like a woman is playing games, I keep it pushing. I'm cordial and speak only when necessary. And when I do speak, I speak without being mad or bitter, but not all nice and fawning over them either. When you're mad and bitter, women know that they have control over your emotions more than you do.
All respect due OG! I don’t double back on any woman that rejected me.
Got rejected a few weeks ago by ghosting despite all the choosing signals and approach by this woman. My handling would be saying hi if I run into this woman and being cool just like I was before she approached me. I also pretend like it never happened. It’s all about being cool. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
It’s probably best not to do it. A lot of dudes are gonna dog em out. It’s gonna be a lot of hostility or other ish. That revenge ish creates bad karma. So just smile and take the compliment and move on in life.
Amen
I agree. I bet it won't make you feel any better to hurt someone who didn't have malice towards you to begin with.
Absolutely excellent truthful comment.
@@almosthelpless9374 Exactly. It’s a million reasons why a person rejected you that has nothing to do with money. If a person comes back to you; it’s because they truly believe you’re a good person. Prove em right and just walk away.
@@casillasangel yeahhh. A lot of dudes mess up their reputation dogging chicks out and trying to get revenge. If she comes back to you; it’s because she saw something good in you and you just ruined that. Thanks but no thanks is the best response. I had to learn to do that myself, and what I’ve found out is that people will always think the world of you.
There was a lot of compassion in this video.
Great video Mr. Rom 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥
Me personally, if a woman rejected me in the past, I'll be cordial, but if they were in the same area as me, I wouldn't go out of my way to say anything to them.
I never felt like I should get revenge because a woman turned me down because I personally don't think they're important to take up space in my mind.
I much rather move on and focus on meeting new women, where there is genuine mutual attraction.
I want quality interactions with compatible women, and dealing with women who turned me down in the past is not apart of that. At the same time, there is no hard feelings for her turning me down in the past either.
remember.. to "get" someone requires a different skill set than to "keep" someone
Remember fellas, if you could pull her then you can certainly pull someone even better 💯
I don't understand these girls that come back after they reject you
Too many options often times leads to bad decisions & then reflection.. that’s why they circle back… the little things you did for her to make her day better matters more when the F boy they’re laying with won’t make much of an effort regardless how much sex they give him.
@@marlboropike.D exactly i realize how i have that effect i even took time to greet her in her language and make her laugh without trying much so that taught me to cherish that about my self instead of being bitter it wasnt reciprocated or if it was taken advantage of
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 as a man I’ve made the same mistake with women… can’t be mad or a victim all the time… I’ve definitely had some try to circle back though… although it feels like you’re vindicated when they try and circle back, it’s not worth dealing with them… just gotta let em go… I don’t need any participation trophies lol!
The revenge thing is so hard because our ego and the teen is still in us wanting the get back because we still want to conquer the woman and her body because we couldn’t in the past. If that’s makes sense.
💯
Be nice. Say hi, then say bye and move on.
I call it "Multiplying by Zero". It's impossible to deal with a women who you've totally multiplied by zero straight out of your mind, and existence. (Keisha who? Cheryl who?)
I already knew the right answer even before I watched the video all the way through it. We strictly DON'T deal with women who rejected us in the past UNLESS they've changed but even then we gotta take our time to find out what they're really about and we can't be quick to get into anything with them. And if we are being revengeful and we being on our grind and bossing up because of them only then it means they got in our head. I feel like your videos impacted me a lot just as the whole Game Kings. Respect Uncle Rom!
100% Facts
I had one of recent told me and quote "Said to me I like hanging out with you but I'm not looking for anyone etc etc but we can hang out" now mind you myself listening to her consciously I could see yellow red lights anyway. So last we ran across each other Sunday football out with the crew she says hello etc then leads into well I haven't heard from you blah blah. I'm looking at her in her face reply hey good to see ya alls well and I walked the f_k off. Don't need that attachment to bowl's__t.."save it for David cause I know what time it is" 😅
It all comes down to preparation or preference at times.
Either way, my show don’t stop. Great video uncle rom🤝🏾
Once you reject me that’s it , it’s over with. Humiliate me once shame on you but twice shame on me. Nothing is more unattractive to me then a girl who don’t know what she wants. I’m not nobodies 2nd option .
i'm jet fly at 1600 mph she will never find me because i'm always in the sky .
Haha I’m glad for you brother!! This sentence reminds me of my struggle! I was a hot shot USMC vet with multiple tours overseas and got out and went back to my hometown. I started falling for this woman. She rejected me rudely but I don’t blame her because I was dealing with PTSD, alcoholism & homelessness.
Years later I’m sober, bought a Harley and a travel van and started using my government scholarship to pay for pilot school…. Guess who shows up to all my holiday parties now?!! 😂
Ooooweeee Unc cooking on this one 💯
If she rejects you, walk away and be cool about it. She most likely will come back at some point out of curiosity. I've had this happen on more than one occasion. You know the old saying about the cat and curiosity...if you're picking up what I'm laying down👊🏾
Good stuff Don Rom, a girl was feeling me but I had to put her in check for some disrespect and then she ghosted me found out she is a convert narcissist
Younger dude here, my method is to create a illusion opportunity for them, I like seeing how far a person is willing to go for the chance(for kicks), I let them do all the work because they’re the only one who wants the job, I ignore everything they got going on and live my life, if I’m doing better then why would I want you 😂😂😂😂😂😂 it isn’t so much revenge I just be bored honestly 🤣🤣🤣
perfect timing for real
If she rejected me because she was in a relationship and it just so happens that relationship didn't work out that's different too.
Salute Rom and keep dropping jewels 💯
When a woman rejects me i simply move on im not dwelling on that because thats wasted time and energy i mean why would i stress myself out it makes no senses lol.
Thank you for the video Ron ❤ 👍🏿 Spot on.
Exactly, good advice bruh!
Its good to see you looking strong and healthy
God’s redirection is a good thing. We move forward and do the right thing 🙏🏾
Weight loss and focusing on building your self you will incur this very often.
Along with “I always thought you were but [insert illogical reasoning for rejecting you the first time].
I’ve dealt with women who have changed once they’ve gotten older and all that chasing the clubs & streets wore off. Usually that’s a result of Father Time and wisdom playing a hand.
Older women tend to be easier to deal with it, especially when she's still single & not married. They lower their standards & now all of a sudden they make themselves an easier target for the very same men that they would have turned down in their youth.
Perfect timing . But man tired of going thru it
This sounds like a Patreon exclusives..🔥🔥🔥
Looking fresh rom. your advice always makes me feel good.
I just wouldn't deal with them and tell them to have a nice day. I don't wanna go backwards because im moving forward. What was done in the past is in the past.
Im trying to do better Rom. 😅 Option 2.5 , I take the 2nd route, but NEVER forget the rejection. No matter what she does, she will be capped/limited in terms of a relationship. But i dont be hostile or nothing like that.
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Great video Mr. Rom! thanks
Been waiting for this one. Honestly, i can't really go against my morals. Mainly because i don't slow down or hold back for anyone.
That includes people from the past. If you wanna come with me, cool. If you don't believe in me, cool.
I did have to get over the revenge thing, not fully over it since my sense of justice is very high, so it's kinda hard trying to make stand within their proximity, let alone talk to them. I've gotten more used to rejection though, and i'm happy i did.
💯 thank you maine ima take the the to make it right and keep it pushing nd keep my distance
Thank you for the clear insight and wisdom on this one! 🙏🏽 ❤
I had the opossite problem, I Fumbled two 10/10 when i was young, what is to do in those cases?.
I fumbled one last week i was insecure about her being younger then me 🥹
I got rejected a few months ago at my gym and didn't handle it well. I avoided her and refused to make eye contact. I'm planing to apologize for that when I get the chance. I got rejected a couple days ago by another woman at my gym but I'm taking it much better this time. I plan on keeping an open line of communication. I'm working on healing my avoidant nature.
Bro, mine was the exact opposite😂
This girl rejected me and refused to make eye contact with me. It blew my mind. I should be the one ignoring her, and since I didn't plan on doing so, everything should have been "normal".
But then she started ignoring me. The situation was so funny, bro. And it's not like I became way better or anything that she grew shy of me.
don't apologize keep ignoring her
Don’t apologize bro, just move on.
@@Playyaa oh I definitely won't, thanks. I will call her out on it if I see her again. I think it'll be fun to see her reaction
@@MarBarkins dont do it. I have been igoring one girl now she chase me I focus on other girls
Should you delete womens on socal media or # if they reject you
Facts
After you done all the work, and then realize the chick that is a baddie aint got alot goin for her beyond her looks.
What do you think about the girls that will reject you, then try to make you their best friend, then get mad when you not feeling the buddy buddy shit? You dont like me, thats fine but im definitely not about to be your lap dog.
This happens too often, they really think they can be geniune friends with the men they reject that’s just pitiful.
I think it depends on the reason for the rejection. Did she just get out of a bad relationship and she told you no?
Just block her you'll be at peace
Whenever I have been rejected, the women always linger around me for a couple of weeks. Is this their ego at play or are they gauging how I react to being rejected? I always keep it cool, acknowledge them and keep it professional/friendly after being rejected.
they just want attention
SHE DID ME A FAVOR 😤
Never accept the ReachBack... The main reason is you might be mean or heavy handed... I could see if she's different though. I've known one young lady who genuinely changed, but she didn't reject me... I simply didn't see her that way, and she worked on herself...
🔥🔥🔥🔥
I just told my ex that her rejection was God's protection.. she looked dumbfounded
Bamboozled infact she was quite flabbergasted
I see you spitting the facts Unk. 💯