How To Get A Divorce At Your Own Wedding - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! This is how to get a divorce at your own wedding! These wedding fails were signs that the marriage was doomed before it even began. Enjoy :)
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The whole purpose of the tradition of feeding each other cake is symbolic of being there for each other. Smashing cake just wrecks the message.
I'd be okay with a tiny bit on the nose or something, but yea keep the smashing for later xD
I got awesome picture of my husband and I smashing cake in each other’s faces
@@katelynwhitesnyder6404 It's fine if both are on the same page :) sometimes it just looks like she'll do a little bit and then the guy smacks them with the cake xD
I'm as old as dirt, and I do remember when the bride and groom would feed one another from the first slice cut from the wedding cake. It was also a photo moment. But at some point, someone decided to deliberately smash or smear the cake or frosting onto their new spouse's mouth or face. From then, it snowballed into cake being smashed and rubbed into faces (and sometimes it was obvious that this was a surprise to the one who got caked). Now we have full on food fights, with everyone at the reception joining in, and people grabbing and throwing food on the floor or at each other. It's stupid as it is mean-spirited. Then again, there was a time people didn't blow up themselves up (literally) during "gender reveals" because it involved having a cake that would be cut at some point to reveal either a blue or pink interior.
@@birdgirl2623 says something about the youth these days doesn’t it... not all of them but you know what I mean...
My late husband, who was a divorce attorney, said cake smashing couples rarely ended well.
Your husband did a survey on his clients?
"You guys wanted a divorce? Question 34. Did you smash cake on each other's face at your wedding?"
That's interesting and makes sense tbh. I'm sorry for your loss ❤
I knew a couple, whose wedding I attended, were aware of this piece of info and made a deliberate point to feed the cake to each other carefully and respectfully. They are now legally separated.
@@harleyquinn5774 Sorry their marriage did not work out. Hopefully, their divorce will be careful and respectful!
@@da96103 Greeting. No, we did not smash. We were married for 40 years. He died January 2018. I still encourage no smashing!
I got a call from a friend who was the maid of honor and she was laughing her rear off. Her sister told her soon to be husband if he purposely ruins her dress or smashed cake in her face, she'd anull the wedding. He called her bluff and smeared cake on her face then down her dress. She calmly wiped it off, walked over to the stage, took the DJ mic and told everyone to enjoy the night, her and her sister (my friend) will be enjoying a mini vacation and make sure they take their gifts and cash with them as they leave that night.
Good for her. I'd also be doing the same thing as it's disrespectful and shows that this person doesn't care about my boundaries. What else would they gladly ignore? I'd not take any chances.
That reminds me of how some people say "women always say the opposite of what they want". Maybe some do in certain situations, like all people do, but if you are going to marry me, I would hope you'd know when I'm being serious...
@@nadiar.4638 We'd all hope our soon-to-be spouse knew us better.
@@nadiar.4638 "women always say the opposite of what they want", that's a rapist mentality. "No" means "no".
My boyfriend ( who has 100% intentions of marrying me ) respects when we get married I want him to be involved with the planning. Also I have told him he can chose the song that the groom court can come into the reception for the party ( he’s already picked a song from his favorite video game which I personally find adorable ) .
My husband was joking for like, a year leading up to the wedding that he was gonna shove the cake in my face, and I was like "please don't." But he kept joking about it because he likes to push my buttons. When the time came, however, he fed me the cake without shoving it in my face. Then, because I was so proud of him for not doing it, I put a tiny bit of icing on the tips of both of our noses, which led to some cute photos.
Awww well that's cute❤
This! This is wonderful! It shows he respects your boundaries and you were willing to have a little fun with him.
Aww that shows how much he really respects your boundaries, he sounds like a keeper
Now this is wonderful! I wouldn't mind when I get married having me and groom take a bit of icing and put it on each of our noses or something. That just always sounds adorable to me.
Oh man, you took a risk. I felt stressed just reading about his "jokes"
The "worst" thing my husband did was kiss me before the priest actually said, "You may kiss the bride." Got to have the cute stories to balance out those poor weddings we just watched! 😀
He was excited! That is cute. Very wholesome ❤️
Our pastor asked about the whole giving away part like he was ask if he accepted me and a half second pause to the next line and my husband jumped in and said yes. It was so funny and sweet.
Yes funny stories have to exist with all the craziness. Your husband was so excited that is beyond cute
Ah, I appreciate your story. Balance is so necessary.
The definition of “couldn’t wait for it”! Great memory, thank you for sharing🌹
Yeah, see that’s adorable. You husband was so ready to marry you he couldn’t even wait to kiss you.
My sister and her husband flat out refused to do the cake thing. In their words, why would they waste good cake?
Saaamme!!!
Agree!!
A tiny bit of butter cream or whatever from your finger to your nose I'd be okay with, but ruining my makeup, hair and/or dress will have that cake knife end up in the guy's butt without hesitation. Future hubby be warned.
Yep. My ex wife asked not to smash cake on her. I agreed. I knew how much went into makeup and hair. And we didn't want to waste the cake.
That's why I think it's good to really know your partner because me and my husband had an extra small tier added just for that and we had fun with it. But some just don't like it and I think they should be respected because hair, makeup and the dress can be very costly
I was married in 1998 and widowed in 2018. Twenty years of (mostly) happy marriage. Decency and loyalty still exist. I miss her every day.
So sorry for your loss, I hope you feel better about it
I am sorry for your loss 😪
I am in the same box. 48 years of mostly wonderful. Iiss him every day, every night in every eay
If a new husband or wife put cake on my face, dress or suit, I would immediately leave him or herjust like one of the women did in your video. It's not funny, It's just stupid.
don't be sad that she's gone. be happy that it happened and she was in your life =)
5:42 *the night before our wedding,* my father-in-law tried talking my hubby *out of marrying me* because my parents had a bad attitude during our wedding!
So, my hubby kept asking him “so you want me to call off the wedding? And not marry Jaylin?” But his dad kept saying that’s “not” what he was saying, and that he wasn’t just marrying me, and that he was marrying my family too. 🙄
We’ve been married for 5 years now, and we spend *more time with my parents* than his! Lol My hubby even _looks forward_ to vacations with my parents! 😉
And at one point, my hubby fell off a roof and *broke both his feet!* _My parents_ came to help us, and they live *farther* away than his parents! 🤨
Toxic in laws are the worst 🙄
@@Kat_eyyyyy the weirdest part is, as soon as we got married, they asked my hubby why I was “afraid to be alone with them because they loved me”. *Also, now I’m their favorite daughter-in-law!* 🤨 lol
I will say this, it’s understandable why they like me more than my annoying sister-in-law. (All she does is ask for stuff and whine. Lol)
Actually, this sounds like it ended up well! As long as you knowledge that your own parents are toxic and you married just to a much better option! Your hubby is very lucky and you are too!!! 🥰🥰🥰
the fact that the username is "Jay Pritchett" is giving me life.
I found out after my wedding that there was a betting pool on how long we'd last.
On our 15th anniversary, I posted on Facebook that I hoped they'd paid their bookies.
We'll hit 19 years next month.
Shouldn't you get the money since no one won.
So far, so good!
What if somebody’s bet was 20 years?
@@oulart Then they're going to be out money in a year! XD
Thats amazing! Shove your love in their faces lol, I hate that some people are betting on the downfall of others love. I would definitely suggest that they collectively give you guys the money since you won the bet
Another thing to think about with smashing someone into the cake: Those multi tiered cakes have supports in them to keep them from collapsing or shifting. Often they have several wooden skewers in them! You could, quite literally, kill your new spouse by pushing their face into the whole cake, or pushing their body into it.
THANK YOU!!! My thought exactly, you can have your eyes or face pierced because of those wooden or even metal sticks, don't smash anything on the cake !!
That actually just happened to someone not too long ago. She died cause he smashed her face into the cake. And another person went blind from another incident.
It went way, way, way too far like most tacky wedding trends.
@@lilash6041 source? As far as I can tell, this did not happen. Why lie?
@@ShuhPond lol why would I lie about someone dying? You may be that sick. But Im not. My source? Uh it was on the news last year before covid hit. Sorry i don't log every "source" when I happen to see stuff on the news. Or an article lol. And for the girl who went blind in one eye. It's a simple Google search. She posted the video of her face being smashed into a cake. Then the pic after of her eye patched up. So clearly you didn't look to hard to find anything lol.
I happened to read one some time ago shared by a musician, def one that needs to be included in future!
Groom books my string quartet for the entire day. All seems to go well, though you can tell the groom’s family is much more well-off than the bride’s and she seems to love attention. But either way, ceremony and drinks went without a hitch, everyone seemed very happy.
Fast-forward to the meal. We played through the whole thing and as we were packing up, they started speeches. Usually, we’d have left by this point but our stuff was in a little side-room off the banquet room separated only by salon-style swing doors and we had no way of getting out unless we walked awkwardly between the guests’ tables and so we decided to stay put until the speeches were over and listen in.
Best Man and Father of the Bride’s speeches went well and then it was left to the groom. He thanked everyone for coming and then said that for his speech he needed everyone to open the envelopes that had been placed on the tables. There was an excited bustling as people appointed someone on each table to open the envelopes, followed shortly by a very quick change in the atmosphere.
Someone gasped and another person audibly said, “What the heck is this?!” amongst the general confusion. The groom gets back on the microphone and says, “Yes, I’m sorry to say that what you see in these pictures has been going on for about two months. Needless to say, I will be annulling the marriage. Thank you all for coming.”
Turns out the bride had been having an affair with the best man and the groom had found out and hired a private investigator to photograph them at it. He’d printed the pictures and put them in the envelopes. Of course, chaos ensued. The groom dropped mic and bailed immediately. The bride’s mother threw red wine all over her dress and kept screaming that she was a “lady of leisure,” along with an awful lot of things alluding to the fact that her daughter would never find another good, rich man again.
The groom’s two brothers beat up the best man pretty badly. There was a lot of screaming and glass-throwing. The bride was crying uncontrollably and everyone left as it was so awkward. We just hid in our little side room until everyone had gone and then emerged, slightly shell-shocked, to inspect the pictures. There could be no doubt as to what was happening in them.
The groom emailed us a few days later and apologized to us as he realized we’d got stuck. He explained that he’d only found out a couple weeks before the wedding, and having paid for everything with little chance of refunds, he just decided to go ahead with it and out her so that she couldn’t twist the story to her family after the fact.
How he made it through the entire wedding I will never know, but it certainly made for an interesting day at work.
That's horrific 😰😰😰
@@radiance65 it is, I don't think I'll be able to go through with it like he did, but it prob hurt him so much that he couldn't react otherwise... That's one way of tearing a family apart.. Publicly..
Absolutely hilarious!!
Ok that’s insane I can’t imagine that there would’ve been chaotic scenes where my dad holds his gigs at 🧍♀️ he’s a musician and band owner
@@julestatzz yep, but sometimes you'll get some people... Worst I've experienced is, we traveled very far to play at a wedding, stayed over. Father of the bride owned the place and they were extremely stingy. Ended up raining at the ceremony and this was up in the mountains (Drakensberge, South Africa). We ate our food in the kitchen, stayed in a room on the premises with no water. Found bride's brother passed out in the chapel's entrance the next morning. Was extremely cold, we thought he was dead. Father wanted to pay us according to the minutes we played. He actually went and wrote up each song's duration. Worst wedding ever.
My brother just got married last weekend, and he didn't even wait for the pastor to ask who was giving the bride away. She got most of the way to the stage before he sprinted off it and hugged her. Cracked the pastor up.
I hate the “apple doesn’t fall far from the tree thing” and I’m glad it didn’t scare my husband off 😂 Both our families are toxic AF but we are nothing like them and ran far away from their BS to raise our family 🙃
Smart choice!
That was probably the best thing to do.
God bless - I hope you guys are happy🥰
@@miriamceraman4932 Very happy, thank you! Our 8th wedding anniversary is next month 🥰
I feel like if the family doesn't like u for whatever reason, that's not enough of a reason for me to leave. If his family disrespected the bride tho and the groom doesnt do anything... doesn't correct them or stand up for her in anyway... f u c k thatttttt.. cuz I would stand up for my man against whoever..
As a home baker, seeing these cake smashed up is heartbreaking
Not sure if this makes you feel better but it's possibly a stunt smash cake. They make them specifically for the cutting ceremony and then guests are served another cake. I think because fondant tastes so bad but looks pretty. My mom use to decorate cakes including wedding cakes.
Why did I read that as “home wrecker” 😂 like you were a professional. - sorry. I’ll see myself out.
@Theempress Oftea I can only imagine the hardwork that goes into making these beautiful wedding cakes. Just to watch them getting smashed and being treated without an ounce of respect.
As an avid cake lover, I'm right there with you!
How stupid and disrespectful to smash cake all over your brand new spouse. All the expense and time invested in the event wasted for a moment of immature crap.
"All I can think about is how much her make-up + hair cost, & everything..."
All I can think about is how now no-one will get any cake.
[nod] and i'm thinking about how much money was just wasted for a moment of stupidity. i *_hate_* wasted food of any kind... even sh1tty "red velvet" cake.
@@kstormgeistgem461 it's actually my favourite flavour, but I would agree with you even if it was, say, that weird cake you can buy off-the-shelf in the supermarket, iced but unrefridgerated, which has a Use By date of like 6 weeks & tastes like sadness.
What do they mean the footys on?
@@mikeydoodle143 A sports game, soccer I believe.
Found out after the fact that my husband's entire family took bets on how long our marriage would last. They hated me.
We're still married more than 30 years later and some of them are divorced.
Without even knowing about it, we won the freaking pool. We're planning on outliving them all.
My ex-MIL called me White Trash BC I come from old-school Brooklyn, Dad was an NYPD Lieut., not a lawyer or doc, even though I had a good Wall St job, 2 Finance and bus degrees . When I got my Juris Doctorate later in life, H told her 'Carol said you can call her "DOCTOR White Trash, as Pink's Blow me played in the background. When I got Admitted to practice after the bar which I passed on the first try throwing up so much I missed 1/3 of both days and only 7 bathroom stalls for 3,500 women at the 7K venue,, I said now you can call me "White Trash, Atty at Law" and I guess growing up where I did made me super-tough". Someone from your snooty town WH fainted 5 minutes in..
Jeez what a bunch of haters!
Best. Revenge. Ever.
Please tell me you got the money! 🤣
Beat freaking comment ever! You have won the internet 💜
Legit, I don’t blame the Chinese bride for calmly getting out of the situation. I wouldn’t have blamed her for causing a scene, but she didn’t.
I feel bad for both her and the groom in that one. I hope they worked it out and redid the wedding with better security.
The whole thing was bad for everyone involved!
She did the classy thing and kept her dignity. I applaud her.
Isn't it a TV show..
That's just the way Chinese culture is (an a lot of other asian countries as well). They do their dirty laundry at home. You can see it in the groom's attitude too. For us the ex girlfriend is crazy? For them is almost death penalty crazy level.
So quick context for the second video. The garland is a very important part of an Indian wedding, it represents the acceptance of having the other person as their spouse. To place it on someone else's neck is super disrespectful. Essentially its like the groom pulling the Maid of Honour and placing the wedding ring on her hand instead of the bride. *edited for Indian wedding
Wow!
Thanks for the explanation! That makes total sense too.
“INDIAN WEDDING”
not South Indian wedding
I knew it was something like that. How embarrassing for the bride, I feel bad for her. Is it really socially acceptable for men to be inebriated during a wedding ceremony?
@@lilscenechick1995 nope, being drunk is certainly not the norm
At my parents wedding, each table had a different flavored mini wedding cake the bride lovingly made! Everyone loved it and just went to the different tables, talking and getting a new flavor.
The wedding favors were two macaroons she also made along with a little cand and card. Beautiful, fairly simple and small wedding everyone enjoyed, this year will be their 10th anniversary.
Love you dad and truly lovey step-mom 💗
That sounds like heaven. So many cakes.....
okay, now That's what i could get behind as far as these things go.
i'm not a wedding/funeral/etc person myself... too many people, there's Always a bunch of smarmy hogwash free floating at them. i have the sad misfortune to know too much about most of the people there and their closets full of skeletons not to be jaded.
but yeah, that's one in the positive energy column.
Don't mind me just borrowing the cake idea for my own wedding (if I have one lol)
Aww, that’s so wholesome and cute! Glad that worked out for the lovely couple. She put her heart and soul into those cakes.
That is the cutest wedding idea I’ve ever heard, I’m just trying to figure out the application of baking so many cakes right before the wedding with an oven with so much on the plate. Macarons aren’t easy to make either, how did they do that?
Funny at my daughter's wedding they were slowly having the first dance and the music changed and they did the entire Napoleon Dynamite dance. Then I understood why she insisted on a wedding dress with pockets. 10 years later they are still having fun.
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Call me old fashioned but if my husband’s ex showed up IN A WEDDING DRESS, my wedding theme would magically turn into WWF cage match and I would be The Ultimate Warrior. I’d have no choice but to teach her a lesson.
I was thinking the same thing. lol I would stone cold stun that B**** lol
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@llamababiez hell yeah At last, something I like about catholics!
@llamababiez hell yeah that just seems like a waste of alcohol, especially for some asshole. Maybe go with coloured water?
@llamababiez hell yeah YAASSSSS!!!
I completely agree that the cake fights are not funny, they're not cute. My husband, happily, also agrees and fed the cake to me nicely.
Yeah, why ruin the dress, hair and most importantly the cake!!!
EXACTLY!!!
My fiancee understands how important eating cake is ro me.
@@deathsecretary2055 Good ! Cake is so yummy, don't waste it
Same! I've attended a few weddings just for the cake (very distant relatives that I didn't really know well). If I'd seen a cake getting demolished, I'd have been pretty upset 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷🏻♀️
My uncle got really drunk at his wedding and he smashed the cake into his wife’s face who was pregnant…everyone just stood there silently. Surprisingly they are still married so I guess she didn’t have such a bad reaction.
My parents wedding…the night before the wedding my father decided to cut his shoulder length hair and give himself a mullet and a flat top. As my mother walked down the aisle she was mortified that he’d cut his hair like that for the wedding. I look at the photos and it had me dying from laughter.
😭😭😂😂😂
My husband and I had a rule that we were to only have one alcoholic drink at our wedding because we wanted to enjoy and remember every moment of it. We had an amazing time! You don’t need to get drunk at your wedding to have fun.
I'd say there's a period for sobriety.... And afterwards, go crazy if you want! But be sober enough for sex lolol
Agree. I didn't have any. After all, the wedding is as much for the family and guests as the bride and groom.
The wedding night is a completely different story. You definitely want to be sober for that!
I totally agree with that. I'd want to remember my special day and not be sick the next day with a hangover. I've been to a handful of weddings, but the best ones were the ones that nobody was wasted at. One was my cousin who's classy and a Dr. and doesn't drink a lot. The other was my friend who'd unexpectedly gotten pregnant (but they were overjoyed), so she didn't drink at all and most of us only had 1 or 2 to be respectful. Drinking seems to go hand in hand with drama.
@@marybean2231 lol! Yes!
@@stadot1427 agree!
When my brother got married, my sister and I both pulled my brother aside at the reception, before the cake, and said, "You have no idea how much effort she put into her make-up. Do NOT smash her face with cake!" Apparently, her mother, her best friend, her sister, and some random guest also did the same thing.
My brother fed her nicely from the fork, and she did the same with him. And then, we all enjoyed the undestroyed cake. Yay!
Charlotte, my dear, that wasn't a Bridezilla in the gaslighting story. That was a sociopath. She cheated on her groom and had absolutely no conscience about making him miserable. Creepy.
My sympathy only goes so far. The moment you agree to have another guy join your honeymoon, you're agreeing to an open marriage.
Can't believe he had kids with her.
@@silentsaturn7604 Ikr? She's the kind of person who should never breed.
@@silentsaturn7604 You'd be surprised how much manipulative snakes like that can break a person until they just start saying yes and hope things get better. Not a single finger has to be lifted
@@silentsaturn7604 Please don't put us polyamorous people who actually communicate ("agreeing to an open marriage") in the same bag as this abuser....
@@RavenSutcliffemost of these relationships turn abusive anyway 🤡
So story time. We have a family tradition of a cake face smash of our favorite family member or friend in attendance. Well we did that at our reception which was held at a Golden Corral (we had limited options). Cake got everywhere. Which made our waitress basically burst into tears. After calming her down and assuring her, we definitely would be helping her clean the room. We gave her cake, bought her dinner, a large tip, and cleaned the room. We didn't mean to distress her. All around good time.
good on you for doing right by the poor kid. i know a few folks who would've just left her to it with out a backward glance. no they aren't friends. they're just people i've had the misfortune to have known over the years.
Our wedding cake was a gift off my husband's twin sister. There was NO way we were going to be disrespectful and throw that round.
There's gotta be statistics saying that your marriage is most likely to last longer if you don't slap your partner with cake. 😅
Well me and my husband did it purely out of fun and we've been married now for 21 years. My brother in law didn't do it and he's in his second marriage his first ended in divorce two months after the wedding.
@@heatherboz saaammme! we did it even though we thought we wouldn't but it was fun! 10 years later still going strong
@@loliw. to some it's fun, I get where others don't like it but to us playful ones we love a good cake fight. That's why they make smoosh cakes.
@@heatherboz lol you can be playful and still not want cake smashed in your face ☺️
@@SusieQ3 I agree all I'm saying is that to us the ones who do it it's playful and both parties agree to it, I'm not saying that the ones who don't like it aren't playful
Definitely not a fan of the cake smush in eachother's faces. Hubby was instructed not to lol
Same here. ;)
Same!
Same
Is this a North American tradition? I’m from the UK and have never attended a wedding where this was done. Feeding each other a bite but not smushing it in each other’s faces.
I warned him if he did he would be at the wedding alone- I also had a reception two days later in another state I had to wear the dress for the start of. He didn’t do it thankfully and going on 12 years together. Lol
I've been engaged since March which is how I found this channel, and in this time this has given us so many helpful pointers as to and more importantly not how to do a wedding
Congratulations! Wishing you a beautiful wedding with no drama and a lifetime of love, luck, health and happiness! 💖
I knew a woman who was walking down the aisle at her wedding and turned to her dad and said, "This is a big mistake". She got married anyway (the guy was rich) and promptly started having an affair (with my boyfriend). Her husband found out (thanks to me) and after kicking her out of the house, found out she was pregnant. At this point, my (ex) boyfriend disappeared. Alls well that ends well.
except for the poor kid.
One of my cousins had the cutest “cake mess”. Her brand new hubby dipped his finger in the frosting and gently put it on the tip of her nose, then she did it to him, and they kissed. That picture is the one that’s poster sized, framed, in their living room.
Now *that's* adorable! 💕 Also, no expen$uve cake wasted. 🍰☺️
@@bettyveronica460
Exactly!!
Especially since she paid extra for carrot cake, instead of boring cake.
Carrot cake with cream cheese frosting. Was incredible.
Aww that is precious.
@@kitty62862 That cake sounds delicious. I love carrot cake. And cream cheese frosting, yes, please.
Thats what you do when you're in love, cute stuff like that 🥰 you don't want to hurt and humiliate them.
It isn’t so much about the in-laws treating you badly but the fact that your significant other is letting them!! Deal breaker for sure
My attitude is you aren't a man if you let your family abuse them. She ain't your queen if she lets them mistreat you. Period. You're supposed to have eachother's back no matter or they're not your one cause you don't matter to them either. I'd rather embarrass my family calling them out for bad behavior than bite my tongue and and let them think it's ok to mistreat my family. As oldest when i blow it's mount saint helen and they all run for cover. Don't do it often so they scramble faster when i do. They know better and if not they're about to get schooled cause mean is the worst level of ugly there is.
Definitely
yup i wouldnt go thru with the wedding lol
Yesss
The “wiped off the kiss” thing bugs me. You don’t know his reason for doing it. Like someone else mentioned, it may have just been the feeling of the lip gloss being weird to him. Personally, I’ve been wiping off my husband’s kisses (if they’re wet) since we started dating. I have a huge aversion to bodily fluids on my face, even if it’s just my own sweat.
Idk. My abusive ex started doing it two years into our relationship when he never did it before. I take it as a sign, but that's just me.
Same
Same
Who knows, maybe her breath was stinking of something 💁
Same. I hate wet kisses too unless I'm in a specific mood. But at a wedding I'd wait for a less noticeable moment and location.
I'd always hated my cousins bf, and knew it was gonna be trouble when they decided to get married. In every photo she posted, she'd make a little joke about how she'd had to force her "grumpy little cutie" to take a picture with her because he said "couple photos are gay" (yeah, real charmer, right?). He always looked so resentful to be with her. Wedding day rolls around and here are just a few of the things that happened: 1) Groom was late for the wedding and was so drunk he could barely stand during the ceremony. He didn't smile once the entire time. Slurred his vows and couldn't really repeat them, and the officiant ended up just giving it a pass. 2) Was extremely uncooperative and a belligerent asshole during photos. There's a reason the wedding photos never saw the light of day. 3) Was even drunker at the reception. Couldn't find his own phone in his drunken state, so stole someone's, called his friend's boss, and cussed him out for not letting his buddy have the day off (his "buddy", asked his boss the MORNING OF if he could take the day off for the wedding). 3) Reception was held in a dirt-floor barn. Groom and his party kept throwing beer everywhere, so soon the entire barn floor was a pit of beer mud. 4) Groom was so drunk during the garter removal that he stuck his head under her dress and started to try to do certain..ahem..activities. The bride was shoving his head away and begging him to stop. 5) The groom's long-term ex girlfriend was the bartender at the reception, and made it no secret that she and the groom still had a thing for each other. The best man speech was essentially "yeah, we really have no idea why our bud decided to go for a fat, girly girl. We really wanted him to marry his ex. Hey ex-gf, you're still hot as hell! Thanks for serving up drinks for us! Yeah, he and ex-gf were so good together. She was so cool but he decided to marry this girl instead, I guess. So good luck."
So yeah. They're divorced now.
My in-laws got married super young and pregnant with my husband. The siblings were taking bets as to how long the marriage would last. On their 25th anniversary, when ALL the siblings, had been divorced grandma made them all throw them an anniversary party. They’ve been together for 51 years now.
When I got married, my fiancee and I had agreed not to do the cake smush. At cake cutting time, my guy's boss (who thought he was a real comedian) kept trying to egg my new hubs on to smash cake in my face. I took a piece of the cake, had our friends hold the boss, and I smashed the cake in HIS face.
That’s an idea I’ll keep tucked in my pocket for my future wedding 😈
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That's actually great.
You make a secret list of people at your wedding you have always hated, and when the time has come, you smash the cake in their face.
Queen is here, everyone!😂🎉
Waste of good cake.
I had a neighbor who got married 3 times in 3 YEARS! We were a group of neighbors (from an apartment building) who hung out together and we were invited to all 3 weddings. The second guy she married came to my apartment later that night, looking for my roommate who he met at the wedding. I shut the door in his face. During the 3rd wedding, we sat on the sofa wondering who she was going to marry next year, but thankfully that was the one that stuck.
I can't feel that bad for the guy who was told by multiple people that his partner was cheating, but still decided to go through with the marriage. At some point, you take responsibility for allowing someone to use you, especially when everyone let's you know it's happening.
That's easy to say, but abusive people like that are great at getting into people's heads and never letting go. They REWIRE you into their own personal puppet and it can take years before you have the strength to cut the strings.
That's how manipulation works
Abusers will get into your head and mess you up like that. My mom was married to an abusive man for years. It took him yeeting a TV and almost hitting my youngest sibling for her to leave his ass. She just married her third husband last week and this one actually seems like a pretty good guy.
She was abusive as fuck. Go and put the blame on that bitch and not him, thanks
The groom drunk at the alter needs an ER not a wedding. Also, who destroys a cake that cost $400+ dollars?! I see this with birthday cakes which I don’t get but ruining an entire cake for revenge says a lot about that partner.
@MermaidOutofSea yep-hopefully she’s gotten away from him
Yeah, that first one where he picked her up and shoved her on to the cake because she squashed some in his face was insane. Squashing cake in eachothers face is dumb anyway, I feel, but that's not funny at all. It looked like it would have hurt.
Obviously people who had Someone Else Pay for it! Personally I would be getting my money back if I paid for my daughter or son's wedding! All that waste!!! 😠
@@JustKelso1993 How so? Last time I checked it was a pretty simple comment explaining an opinion lol And it does indeed look like being picked up and thrown on top of a table with that cake would hurt. Sorry that bothers you? 😂
@@JustKelso1993
So...what trailer park do y’all live in?
That whole cake thing does show how a person in that marriage can escalate something till it gets out of control. I just returned from a wedding where the husband put a small dot of icing on the bride's nose. He was going to rub it off. It was a cute gesture. She retaliated by pushing the whole piece against his face and rubbing it all over his face and shirt. He was "like what the hell?" She couldn't leave well enough alone and accept the cute gesture without escalating things over the top. He is still chipped about how she reacted, understanding that she will ALWAYS have to win a disagreement and for some reason she thinks it's a competition between them. She doesn't see anything wrong with what she did... because she ALWAYS has to win a disagreement.
If neither person is willing to stop escalating... even though it's "just cake" then that lack of respect will be a hard thing to overcome.
Don't tell me. The bride's name is K-A-R......
Sets a poor tone for the rest of the relationship.
The only thing he did wrong was not talking to her about it and see if she will be ok with the dotting and that she is welcome to do the exact same to him and wipe it off and move on. I can of course understand that he was trying to be cute with her, but clearly she is not a person that appreciates that and that should not have been the first time he noticed that. Therapy is needed. I hope they are ok.
My husband and I did the cake smash thing at our wedding. But we had discussed it before hand and both knew the other was okay with it. He did go a little overboard and ended up getting asked up my nose which was not pleasant but it's something we laugh about now (7 years later) It also helps that I did my own makeup. Yeah I had to to do the bathroom and fix it after but it wasn't a big deal cuz I was expecting it.
I think what it comes down to is communication and knowing if your new spouse is okay with it or not.
I actually have a cake smashing story that isn't terrible.
My cousin and his fiancé did the cake smashing thing at their wedding, but they talked about it and planned it before hand. When the time came to cut the cake, they help each other put on cheap plastic raincoats(which was cute), and they fed each other a bite of cake normally, the way that you should, then they took a small piece and smashed it in each other's faces. And they didn't smear it everywhere. Just on their cheeks a bit, not all over, and my aunt had wipes on standby to clean up.
They're still married several years later and are very happy.
My mom drunkenly called me a mistake at my brother's wedding. My brother shouted "Sorry Felicia" I shouted back "I'm use to it" and we tried to awkwardly laugh it off. Someone shouted wow, people came up to me to make sure I was ok afterwards. I've just been through so much by now that nothing phases me anymore.
My dear, you don't deserve to be treated badly. Try to physically distance yourself from her so that you can heal.
Sadly, there are a lot of jackasses in the world and sometimes they're on the same branch of the family tree. Cut toxic people out of your life sooner rather than later and never criticize yourself for doing what you need to protect yourself and be happy.
Woww
She will regret those words one day.
Sorry this happened to you.
I’ve been married 27 years now. We dated for two years married at the age 22, hubby was 26. Moved to another country, dealt with hardships and happiness. Never once have either of us thought of divorce. Marriage takes work, you get what you put into it!
Too many people believe the fairy tale ending. They want the wedding but don’t think about the marriage. They expect the payoff without the work.
@@davidguidry657 agreed! If you want a wonderful marriage it takes work for both partners. I have a friend who has been married 3 times. She asked me why her marriage wasn’t like ours. Told her it takes work, well she said wanted a man to save her! Omg, I lost my temper! How childish her thinking is! Just got a wedding invitation last week, here’s hoping number 4 will work!
I read a story on FML written by a newlywed who had a mad case of the toots. During the portion of the wedding reception where the groom went under her dress to remove the garter, she lit one that was so putrid, her groom came out gagging! She basically dutch ovened him with her wedding gown!
My friend and her hubby seemed like a perfect match, but after he yielded to peer pressure and painted her with cake...she spent the rest of their beautiful reception in the john, crying. So horrible!
Some of those were incredibly sad. Those poor little children crying as their mama begged her husband to go back with her! 😢
The one of the groom watching football on his wedding day just foreshadows the lovely years to come for these newlyweds 😂😂
...and for their subsequent spouses.
7:05 oh no the groom, is broken 😂
"WHY WOULD YOU GO THROUGH THE WEDDING" WISE WORDS MISS CHARLOTTE. this personally hits.🤣🤣🤣
Those wedding cakes didnt deserve that.
They cost to much for that
I feel so bad for the bride who had another woman show up to her wedding to try and steal the groom! Who does that?!?! I would have walked away from the situation too; if he's really not at fault they can set a new wedding date and evidently be more secretive about the date and time!
I mean the video was his ex girlfriend showing up at his wedding saying that she was sorry for whatever she did in their relationship…… it kind of seems like he wasn’t at fault and that this ex-girlfriend of his found out he was getting married realize she was never going to get him back and did this is the last ditch effort
Dear Faith Cronin, not quite at the wedding ceremony but I had a former pen friend show up on the morning of my wedding at the best man’s house where I staying. She later gate crashed the reception to apparently give me a gift. While I was a bit annoyed at her turning up on the morning of my wedding, I did have a small bit of sympathy for her. She was from the same small provincial town as the bride. For some reason the people in the town thought we were, against all the evidence, an item. When it was announced that I was marrying [name deleted] people kept bugging my former pen friend to the point where I think she told them that she had an invite. By the time of the reception I was a fairly happy man so I rescinded the instruction to security to have my former pen friend throw out if she turned up. I was still surprised she did show up though. At least she was able to tell her work that she attended the reception.
And her gift to me? A slightly inappropriate massage device, which mysteriously disappeared from the gift table. This was returned after I told the bride’s family that where I come from (another country) we have a custom that if someone presents a gift that goes missing they must grant the giver a wish as recompense! Needless-to-say, the gift mysteriously was returned! I think they were afraid my former pen friend may have had something more than massage device in mind. [Okay, I kept a straight face when detailing this “custom” but really I just hate theft!]
So, yeah, even nerdy and homely people like me sometimes have strange ghosts from the past materialise at weddings. I does happen.
My family member had guys set up as security just in case the groom's crazy ex showed up to cause trouble (she stayed away, fortunately). It helps when you anticipate a potential problem and can prepare for it. Nobody likes to be blindsided at their wedding.
@@melissablackwood Your family members planned that very well and all went ahead as planned. In my case I got blind sided by my former pen friend who I had not seen or heard of for some months prior. I might add the pen friend had no real claim on me and I had not so much as held their hand or smooched them. Also my letters to them were fairly bland (none of this you’re the only girl for me stuff, more like I live on the coast and the seagulls are restless tonight). And while the former pen friend was fairly young and a bit immature, nothing suggested they would turn up unannounced prior to my wedding or the reception. So, yeah, it can happen to anyone, even to people convinced that nobody other than the bride and family cares about the wedding!
I admire her for her calmness though, I mean she seems to know that this would happen. And the way she just walked away was like: "Yeah, I am out. This is my wedding, I am not having your BS!" The Ex just embarrassed herself. It literally looked like a Chinese Drama from the early to mid 2000.
Fortunately there wasn’t much drama at our wedding. If there was, my bridesmaids and groomsmen did a really good job of hiding it. The only thing I know of I found out afterwards. My MOH and I have been best friends since 1st grade and I always thought her day was just quirky like the creative type. Nope turns out he was an alcoholic while we were growing up. I had a bar at my wedding and her dad and her underaged sister got hammered. My husband is a cop and it was also a room full of cops. Idk how they didn’t get arrested. Funny story though- my rich uncle created a password with the bartender so his wife and adult kids could buy drinks and using the password put it on the tab. About 10 or 15 minutes into the reception the password got passed around somehow and he ended up paying for over half of the reception’s alcohol consumption. We also recently attended one of our friends weddings. The groom’s aunt would not stop talking about his ex wife in-front of the bride. He warned her several times but she didn’t stop. The bride and groom rescinded her invitation. He’s a cop too so almost everyone in attendance was also a cop or law enforcement. She called 911 saying she was going to bomb the wedding!!!
"the apple doesnt fall far from the tree" saying is definitely not always true. My parents are abusive and manipulating AF and I am nothing like them. Nothing.
Me too.
But, yeah, that saying is aggravating because some of us worked very hard to not be like our toxic FOOs and become our own persons in the process. I've been NC with mine for more than 10 years, got therapy, and did tons of work on myself. I would be super upset if anyone thought I was anything like that toxic mess of humanity that is my FOO.
It can go three ways, basically. Either you recognise what they did, even if it was out of "love" and unability/mental disability was wrong, and you do everything in your power to prevent it and you succeed and become a very wise and kind person.
Or you try it and you fail, becoming a very wise and kind but also abusive person. Or you don't see anything wrong with it and you become a (proud) abusive person.
Russian here: Getting the groom drunk is not a tradition
Is not tradition. Is law!
@@carolinegrova8707 how aweful
Thank god! My bf is Russian and I was about to ask that bc I don't want a drunk hubby at the wedding 😭
@@kappallysims1323 don't worry, it's not national tradition. It's common in Russia, but not everyone goes so far.
@@WWu2 Thank you!
I think the only way you can deal with overbearing in-laws is if your partner is willing to stand up to them
If they could do that, it would’ve been done and they wouldn’t be overbearing.
I get along with my ex in laws after they experienced me going scorched earth on them. After that they were as nice as can be. :) Show your claws, and they'll learn.
@@davidguidry657 Not necessarily true. Some people just have a very 'non-confrontational' personality until there's an issue where they really need to 'rock the boat' for the sake of their spouse/kid. Others can just take a while to 'grow up, or their parents aren't that bad until their kid becomes an adult who makes their own decisions.
@@KyrieChii I suppose I was basing my reply on my own experience. I too prefer non-confrontational relationships but I’ve learned to identify (some) red flags early and address them right away. My folks respected our marriage and our autonomy; my ex’s mother did not and played a big part in us becoming exes. It brings me no joy to repot that their toxic relationship has only gotten more so. And my kids have to see that! 😔😒
Yep.
I also agree about the cake smashing crap. I refuse to 1. Be disrespected like that at my own wedding, and 2. Waste expensive ass cake. Oh and possibly even ruin whatever dress/suits we wear. It's so annoying to me,
Couldn't agree more. It's just dumb.
The instant my groom dunks my head in the wedding cake is the very same instant I’m single again. Big facts
The guy that wiped off the kiss just didn't like lip gloss. No biggie.
Yeah, my bf’s the same. Likes smooches, HATES lip gloss or Vaseline or anything like that.
Right? It was probably lipstick and he didn’t want to walk around with it on his lips 🤷🏼♀️ I wipe off kisses occasionally and it doesn’t mean I love my husband any less
It just not a good look. He could have waited a few moments.
Read his body language.
As she was walking up to him, he tensely rolled his lips together.
He abruptly ended the kiss, even though she was still into it.
Then he grabbed her hands and pushed her back to arm's length.
And finally, he wipes off the kiss.
@@dicedrice7216 So he's nervous and not comfortable with PDA? I've been living with the same man for 6 years and we don't kiss in public. New Years Eve is always awkward with people staring at us waiting for us to kiss under the branch. More or less pans out like what happens in this video...
ITA that the “cake in the face” thing is straight-up horrible. When my new husband and I carefully fed each other a bite of cake, the guests said, “Awwwww”-not because we are so darn adorable, but because it was such a change not to witness a food fight at the cake cutting. Let’s shame this stupid “tradition” into obscurity.
My husband would never waste food. I did my own cake and it took 88 eggs. It was sooooo good the guests ate the whole thing....even the topper.
@@ShowdogTiger girl! 88 eggs?! That is insane! It must've taken a long time to make the cake right?
@@jennawebb4225 I did have help from my Matron of Honor and I used the local grade school's ovens.
@@ShowdogTiger that is amazing!
Surely there are people that actually want to eat the cake, right? Why pay possibly hundreds of dollars for cake that will end up on the floor?
I just got married a few days ago and we had a deal breaker of no cake smashing. We paid good money for the cake and make-up, I’m too Dutch to waste it.
That guy threw that bottle in the direction of those children. Jerk!
My husband and I agree that violently shoving cake at each other isn't kind or loving. We are 18 years and counting. He is my best friend, I don't understand trying to hurt or humiliate someone you love. We both put the other one first and we both think we got the best part of the deal. Self sacrifice and forgiveness on both sides make for a great marriage for the long run.
How long the marriage will last story: My friends fiancé was a spoiled daddy's girl, princess, needs all the attention type. At the rehearsal dinner she had some kind of nuclear freak out bridezilla moment and made a big messy spectacle of herself. Later she gave a half hearted "sorry" to my friends mom who stared her dead in the face and said "you're going to be a lifetime of sorries". 😬 Marriage lasted less than a year.
There was a game at the night of my sisters wedding. I heard comments about it during the reception, but it was very low key, and never disrespected the event. There was a great shot from the photographer where a line of tuxedos outside the ballroom were clustered around someone’s phone to watch the game. 🤣 Seriously, it was a beautiful night.
The cake thing:
My bestie got married I was MOH. I talked to both her and the groom and we all agreed no cake smooshing or I'd flash on folks. So the day arrives and they get ready to feed each other nicely and both get really awesome feisty looks on their faces, whipping around and shoving it at me and his groomsmen. I blocked the slice and looked at my bestie with such shock and betrayal and cursed at her before I could hold my tongue 😂 twas a good play and a good day 💜💜
Charlotte: "All I can think about is how much her makeup and hair cost and the dress and everything..."
Me: What about the cake? Now that yummi deliciuos cake is totally ruined without anyone having a single slice 😱
Yep. I'm all about the cake, too. Total waste! 😠🍰
Lol funny enough I was the on the part of the video where she said this, right as I was reading your comment 🤣 I was like wait a min... She is saying exactly what I'm reading 🤣😂
Agreed, not funny and then no cake to eat. I don't think it's a thing in my country, at least I never saw it.
Agreed! The wedding cake cost almost as much as my dress!
Some people get cakes that are specifically made to be smashed. Then, they get the cake for the guests.
Alternate title: If you’re planning your wedding, please put these on your list of things not to do.
The first video just scarred me for life. 🥰
Cake should never be ruined!! It’s yummy and people ruining it are evil! This is my hill!😂😂😂
This is why it makes more sense for the bride to HIRE the wedding dress she’s only going to wear once and for the groom to BUY his suit which can be worn multiple times
I think if you can't stop watching football 1 day to get married, you have an addiction and you need help
It depends on if it's a big match
@@Gooner333333333 Just no. Theres multiple big matchs in life but in the best case only one wedding. Its one day of your life. If you cant spend one day with only your future wife and nothing else, you dont really love her. besides, there will always be guests that arent interested in games and stuff. You dont invite family and friend for your wedding and then bore them with this ...
Why would you book a wedding on the day of a big match? Going to cause problems.
@@dees3179 you do know that you have to book a location almost a year ahead right? How would you know if theres a big match on that day? If i knew about anything like this i would not plan my wedding on that day because like you said why cause problems if you can avoid them. But like i said how are you gonna know such things a year ahead?
@@helenjonghya8033 seasons. She could have booked off-season.
The lady who made a whole TikTok about her husband not crying when she walked down the aisle and wiping off her kiss afterward seems a bit dramatic. I wouldn't expect many grooms to cry in this instance (I'm a woman and I wouldn't cry if I were in their shoes), and for the kiss-wiping, it took her 5 years to realize he did that (he wasn't doing it in an obvious way) and I can totally understand that lipstick and gloss can feel uncomfortable for the person kissed. She seems just pissed at him for some reason and just taking it to TikTok which is, let's say, not the best way to communicate with your husband. Plus, do people really re-watch their wedding videos years later?
they are probably getting divorced and she's bitter about it and is looking for ways to shame him on social media
He looked pretty happy and they shared a nice kiss. My husband and I look way more horrible in our Wedding photos because we were both very nervous and we are super happy still after a decade.
Why in the hell would a man cry at his wedding? How much validation do women need? We already are wasting an ass ton of money on a dress up party we'd rather not even have to go to (the wedding) all for you to have "your day", not "our day". That guy needs to divorce that wretch before they have kids and she's got him financially by the balls.
He looked happy to get the kiss
She sounds like hard work
It's not actually that uncommon. A lot of grooms tear up when they first see their bride walking down the aisle. A lot of brides tear up when they see their groom, too. Some people just happy cry at their wedding--but no, it doesn't mean anything if they don't. This is definitely a case of the couple breaking up and looking for more reasons to hate the soon-to-be ex.
When asked to make her wedding vows, my friend's cousin (soon-to-be bride) doesn't want to make any vow or promise. This is from someone who is fond of poetry and sometimes posts them in social media. Really made me question how long the couple will last (I personally think she just agreed to the wedding because she is pregnant).
Why can I not help but binge your videos 😂 I can’t take it!!! I’ve been here for 4 hours 🤣😍🥴 so glad I found your content! So grateful for you 😜
My awful wedding photographer in the early 2000s chased us around the reception insisting we do the cake feeding/smashing thing or we'd 'regret it forever.' We flat refused and my uncles (mother's brothers) found the whole thing hilarious, so, after the cake cutting, they smashed cake into each other's faces with my friends and family taking pictures and cackling (by this point the photographer was universally reviled for general obnoxiousness, including leaving his ringer on interminably through the vows *you have an incoming call-you have an incoming call-you have an incoming call*). Anyway, the photographer complained to my parents that he was being mocked by the cake smushing, was ignored, and sat in a corner through the rest of the reception, sulking.
I had to have someone stand guard when my bride's maids and I got dressed. Our photographer insisted on photographing that part too.
@@pamelasarris8262 that is disgusting
All my photos were taken by friends. Some were pros and I asked them to find couples and take really good photos of them, because, when else are you gonna be that dressed up? I sent them the photos with my Thank You cards and got SO many thank you's! Most hadn't had a true couple photo in a LONG time and they all framed them! My bouquet also divided into five smaller bouquets when I tossed it, so five ladies got lucky!
@@pamelasarris8262 how awful :(
@@pamelasarris8262 bruhhhhh disgustang
True story. When my step-brother got married about 30 years ago they had their function at a large hotel that could cater for two weddings at once. When the groom at the other wedding stood up to make his speech he said "As my bride has been cheating within my best man for the last year I’m off on honeymoon…on my own." Then he promptly walked out.
🤯 Good for him for calling their s&!t out, and leaving without her!
But he still went though the wedding? Which means now instead of just walking out and dumping her, they have to pay for a divorce. He should have walked before the wedding.
@@silverpotter1314 hopefully it can be annulled pretty easily. But if he wanted to call her out at the wedding, why not just do it when they ask for objections?
@@silverpotter1314 it’s possible that, by the time he found out about the cheating, everything was non refundable, so it was just cheaper to fo through with it and out her unfaithfulness than to pay a steep cancellation fee
@@caljones I think it's more about "why finish the ceremony?" than cancel the day altogether.
I remember some wedding party guest expressing actual disappointment that my husband and I actually very politely fed each other cake- even 30 years ago there seemed to be a trend of at least smearing some on each others' faces. The reception footage is on video, because we're that old, and I haven't gotten it transferred, so I am relying on my memory. Anyway, thank you for that last one as a "palate cleanser". Hopefully, they've gone on to have a good marriage. A lot of those, even if they didn't spell out that they ended in divorce, I'm sort of hoping they did. Yikes.
Lmao at 6:15 the husband also pushed the bride away and gave her a handshake lmfao wtf was that???
Agree with the wedding cake smashing not being funny and at times bordering on something more harmful. I also want to say though, wedding cakes are expensive! These folks paid hundreds of dollars for a cake without anyone actually eating it!
Right! My cake was almost as much as my dress!
Instead of cake; some are having cupcake ‘trees’. 90% of wedding cake gets thrown out anyway. Waste of $1,000.
I so agree. What started out as a sweet feeding each other a bite of wedding cake has become all out disrespect.
what about the little cake booop on the nose? i think that one’s cute!
@@cheyenne1082 I think as long as the couple discusses it before hand, so both parties know what to expect, it's not a big deal. I think the problem is that people tend to do it with no warning, which (fairly) upsets the other person. We were not about to waste our cake, lol
Kinda like gender reveals....
My partner and I watch these together and judge people 😂
People definitely betted on my marriage. My husband and I got the last laugh! This month we've been married 34 years.
Jeez that first bride could have gotten really injured tiered cakes almost always have wooden dowels supporting each individual tier and then one large one going through the whole thing , their flat on the top but she’s still probably lucky to not have been impaled with the force that he slammed her down with
I'm glad I wasn't drinking anything when Charlotte made the joke about exchanging bodily fluids forever. It was hilarious. If my family didn't like my bride, I just would not invite them, and live them from an extremely long distance. Why do some people think it is okay to cheat? The poor guy that married into an affair, he's not going to recover from that easily. Thank you, Charlotte for ending it on a wholesome note, and making your tater tots laugh! Have a great Wednesday everybody!!
The wedding didn't come on but my dad tried to remarry when he went out of the country on a business trip. He told the woman he was a widower and my mom was our nanny. Fortunately the woman's friend found parts of his story didn't add up so she investigated and found out the truth.
It’s so iconic, when she said Flash Dance instead of Dirty Dancing, I almost gasped. No, no, no. Two totally distant iconic movies. 💛
On the note of the cake thing not being funny .. about 2 years ago I was at a friends birthday party, where one of the aunts spent hours baking a beautiful, delicious looking cake, and one guy who was new to the group and noteven that close to the birthday boy, full on smashed the birthday boys face straight through the cake, to the point that it was litteraly just bits and pieces of cake all over. EVERYONE was maaaaaddd
Oh, yikes! 😨 I can just imagine the new guy looking around, swelled with pride and expecting everyone to laugh at his stunt, only for the smile and pride to fade as he realizes, "Oh, I just messed up..."
Seriously, I don't get the people who think, "Well, I'm new here, so I'd better pull a violent and disrespectful stunt to get attention!" Unless someone is a character in a prison movie or a stupid teen drama, that strategy doesn't work well.
My dad or i used to come out and instruct the kids and guests to not have a food fight. My 7th bday party had a nasty one. One kid fractured his leg and hurt head due to the slippery icing on the floor.
@@komal146 Oh, gosh! 😰 I’m starting to think someone should make an action/horror movie about birthday parties because some of them sound dangerous!
My sons and I were shocked when the 8 year old neighbor boy went to blow out his candles on his cake and his uncle slammed his face into the sheet cake. We were stunned. Everyone laughed but us. It wasn't funny. My boys would eat anything, but there weren't going to eat that cake. He could have gotten a candle in his eye or broken his nose.
When my future husband told me he was going to bring his gaming system to the HONEYMOON, it was at that point I decided NOT to marry him. LOL.
I feel like maybe that's a little shallow. If my boyfriend said that sort of thing, I would be glad that we can do all the things we enjoy on our honeymoon (which, I mean, is a glorified vacation after all). Imagine if someone broke up with you because of you wanting to engage in a hobby at your honeymoon. If I couldn't crochet on my honeymoon or paint or draw, that would be a red flag to me
@@robinskyemckenzie5448 the people that dont respect their partners hobbies are awful and shouldnt be married anyway
Bullet dodged.
I would've brought mine and played games with him... You are shallow.
@@NothingIsWrongToday It's a honeymoon, where, according to my people, it's a moment of intimacy with nothing besides the couple making love, chatting, and being together with each other.
Also, maybe he was always alone while playing and when she tried to join, he would not let her. We can't say she's all wrong.
first one had a wrapping over her dress, she was fully prepared for the slam, haha so cute
That last video, the bride looks so delighted by the prank in that first photo, I love it. Pure joy. Glad they both had a laugh about it.
I feel some couples think getting married is the end goal, the whole happy ever after thing. Got news for you couples, those vows mean everything in a relationship.
Yep - Having a wedding doesn't equal being married, at least once Day+1 comes around. You have to learn HOW to be married, and it's not always easy.
like a quote said somewhere... some people aren't ready for marriage. they're just ready for a wedding.
Yeah exactly. A marriage can be the most fun and most rewarding job you'll have. Awesome and makes you beyond happy, but there's still work you've got to do! Really seeing that 7 years in, it starts to become less easy if you're not careful and paying attention to your relationship.
People forget that it's your whole life you're hoping to spend with this person. It's not going to be like a wedding every day
That smackdown slam down on the cake was a lot!!! 🤦♀️😂
Right out the gate too
She was wearing a disposable top over the wedding dress, I think it was planned. I could be wrong.
2:05 being a man of value is the ultimate position of power. LOL
I used to work in wedding organizing. In my observation grooms are not into wedding ceremonies and they get start feeling the burned out when they proceed to the reception. In weddings usually people making it its all about the “bride” the main attraction is “the bride”while the groom just standing there as a “support” of the whole show which he supposed to be the main character too or get the same amount of attention like the bride gets. I understand the grooms lowkey frustrations that they don’t even realize in that moment 😆
“Price is Right rules” is universal!
Duh.....
Got to say, that African one is probably being misinterpreted as an affair or whatever, but in many West African countries men are legally allowed to take multiple wives. Her objection appeared to be to him taking another wife when he wasn’t supporting his existing family properly, which is usually one of the conditions of being allowed to take a second wife in the first place (being financially able to support them).
Edit: For people in my replies, ‘West African’ and ‘Christian’ are not mutually exclusive. A lot of you seem to think that I haven’t noticed they’re Christians. To be clear: the laws of a country and someone’s religion don’t actually have anything to do with each other, and the law can state that you can have multiple wives regardless of whether your personal faith is Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, it doesn’t matter. It’s the law, and people can take advantage of it, or not, as they choose. Religion has nothing to do with it unless, as a Christian, he decides it’s against his personal faith. In this case, that may be why he chose not to tell his first wife that he was getting married again, who knows? But you all should really get educated. African nations =\= America or any other Western country.
This is why that shouldn't be legal.
No it isn't. I have seen the video and he left and disappeared on his family and she heard through others that he was getting married. When she showed and let the preacher and guests know what happened they removed her and stopped the wedding and it was supposed to be investigated
I felt so sorry for those gorgeous kids--- All dressed up, cute as could be, only to find themselves in the middle of a raging shit show twixt their parents...
Ugh...
@@famprima monogamy can't make people be responsible toward their kids or spouses. People will be deeply shitty sometimes no matter how their relationships are structured. Polygamy can be done well or poorly, just like monogamy.
Don't think this situation would be consider polygamy tho because no one knew he was already married. I'd look into the actual story
That last one had me on the floor 😂😂😂😂
Side note: Charlotte's hair looks spectacular in the video!!