My math teacher in high-school said he decided it was time to get married. So he went back to Korea and saw a woman standing outside a library and she was pretty so he asked her name and chatted her up. Asked her to marry him. She said I would have to ask my mother first. They plan to meet there the next day with her mother. She approves. They get married. He's almost 70 and they are still married and he says he couldn't imagine being married to someone else. I was like. WHAT?!
Wow similar to a story I heard tonight. An acquaintances husband told us how his parents met. He went to Italy and saw a girl sewing outside a shop. They ended married and had 7 kids. Likely to still be married had he not passed away.
I heard about a couple who didn't speak each other's home language that met at Comic-Con. They discovered they both spoke Klingon. The rest is history! ❤
I'm American, my wife is Guatemalan. When we met I didn't speak a lick of Spanish and she couldn't speak English. We had to bring her 11 year old son with us on dates to translate! Married 8 months later and after 17 years we're still happily married.
How did you know that you liked her? How did you know that you had anything in common? I don’t really understand how people fall in love without speaking the same language.
@@lokiblue5125 I'll admit it was just lust on my part at the beginning. I wasn't looking for anything more than a casual physical relationship. Part of what made it become more was the effort that went into communicating, on both sides. It drew us closer and I'm quite happy it did.
@@sunsetskye483 So far so good. Already planning the next anniversary celebration (coming up in just two short months)! We're thinking maybe Michigan this year.
The reason a break-up comes as a surprise to one of the party (usually the man), is because the other one gave up a long time ago. I don't mean on the relationship, I mean on the partner. If we use as an example a straight couple where the woman has given up on the man: She loves to go hiking in the woods. He doesn't. He goes with her a few times, but he hates it and lets her know without actually saying it (moaning about blisters, bugs, wet ground, too hot, too cold, tired.....), in the end she will stop going, or at least stop taking him with her. They both work full time, but at home he may not be doing his share of the housework. She gets tired of nagging him and in the end just does it herself because she doesn't want to live in a sty. For dinner he will only eat things he likes, and is never willing to try something new. If she wants to experiment in the kitchen she has to make two dinners. He does "allow" her to choose some of the movies they watch at home, but if he doesn't like it he will be on his phone the whole time. He would rather spend time with his friends than with her, and thinks she's happy to do her own thing too. If she wants to make their home a little nicer, buy some decoration or upgrade some furniture, he will say something like: "we don't need it" or "I like it the way it is". In the end she is doing hobbies alone, cooking the same boring food over and over, picking up, and cleaning after another person, who doesn't want to spend free time with her, and cannot improve the home she lives in (assuming here they have a shared economy, and neither can make large purchases by themselves). This is a great deal for him. He doesn't have to go hiking with her, she does most of the housework and the cooking, he gets to eat all the food he likes, and hang out with his friends on the weekends. Then one day completely out of the blue (to his mind) she ups and leaves. He cannot understand it, he thought they were so happy together. No dude, you were happy. She wasn't.
Met my wife 15 years ago in a Yahoo chat room (they used to be a thing). 6 months later, she had moved from her home country of Sweden and came to live with me in New Zealand. Still happily together ❤️
These are brutal 🤣 I've only ever broken up with one person. 7 years of an unhealthy relationship and yet it was still the hardest thing I ever had to do. Not because I was breaking up with him, but because I was putting myself first for the first time ever.
Been there and done that. At first it felt as if I were throwing away 5 years when in all actuality I was gaining my life back!! It was a super hard decision yet the most fulfilling if that makes sense!!
I think everyone of the likes you’ve got are all saying "Well done". A very wise person once told me you’ve to put yourself first to really care for others. Not being selfish and grabbing the biggest piece of cake (though I do that too), but to look after your own welfare and state of mind. You can’t give what you don’t have,
Back before mobiles and internet (yes, I am that old!) a boyfriend broke up with me by post. I corrected the spelling and punctuation mistakes and gave Mark's out of 10 with a red pen then returned the letter to him.
My grandad was from England and my nan was from Germany. They couldn't speak each others language when they met but they would write letters to one another and had translators read the letters to them. They were married a month after they met and have been married for over 50 years.
The woman my husband was dating before me was still friends with him (and she became and is one of my closest friends; he introduced me to her!). It was a case of, they were friends, became good friends, tried to do the boyfriend/girlfriend thing, and mutally realized they were better off as buddies than romantic partners. This was over 30 years ago, and she's still one of my best friends.
I had a boyfriend and we decided we’d be better as friends. We broke up and agreed to not talk for a month then just be friends. 30 days almost to the minute he called, we went out for drinks and are still friends today (both now married to other people and we both have kids). We just figured when we broke up that the reasons we got together in the first place hadn’t changed, we really liked each other as people, just not “the one”. Just because the dress didn’t look perfect on you doesn’t mean it’s not a great dress or that it won’t look better on someone else I guess 🙂
100% this! My ex and I are still great friends! I've helped him get back in the game after out breakup, gave him dating advice that landed him a cool girl and we talk all the time. He is a great person and we still thank each other for shit we learned all the time.
When I was 19, My ex broke up with me because I wouldn't spend the night with him and give my pain meds. I just had a major surgery few weeks before, and my mom passed away that day and it was sudden and I was already traumatized. He had no respect for the fact I was literally sitting by my dead mothers side in the ER when he did this. His lost. Few months later I met the love of my life and we've been married now 10yrs. :-) ♥♥♥
When I was 21 I had a girlfriend to whom I got VERY close. We actually started talking about a "permanent" relationship without using the 'M' word. Plans extending out for years were discussed. One day I met her in a public place after work. As I approached, she got real smiley, took me by the hand, and said, "There's someone I want you to meet." She led me to some guy wearing a trench coat. "This is my NEW boyfriend. But I still want to be friends with you." It took me a few seconds to put one and one together. If HE was her NEW boyfriend, that made me her OLD boyfriend. Huh! I turned around and walked out without saying a word. It took me until I was half way home before I realized that she was seeing him at the same time we were making those long-range plans. I rapidly went from sad to infuriated. Jump forward a year and a half. In the meantime I joined the military and at the moment I was at my mother's house on leave. Knock comes at the door. It's her. "I was in the neighborhood and I saw your car out in the street, so I knew you were home. We should hang out!" Again while smiling bigly. I told her, "Why would I want to do that? YOU dumped me!" Then I slammed the door in her face. Felt good, I gotta tell ya. It was years later that I learned about the concept of the "rebound guy." The girl was married when we met. I made no moves; I am not a homewrecking dick. She broke up with her husband for (what sounded to me) like legit reasons. I was there for her. Held her when she cried. Fed her when she was hungry. Made love to her when she was feeling unlovable. Helped her move, set up her new place. Cooked for her. Paid to get her car fixed when it was broke. Picked her up at bars at 3:00 am when she was too drunk to drive herself home (she said it was girl's night). I did most of that as a friend, but fell for her through the ordeal. She said she fell for me, too. Apparently not. After the breakup, I came to understand what a "rebound guy" was from an episode of "Roseanne" on TV. That episode hit me like a ton of bricks. Like a building collapsed on top of me. I realized I WAS THAT GUY!!! A couple of years later, I met another girl. She had just left her husband but hadn't filed papers for divorce yet. I was there for her. Held her when she cried. Fed her when she was hungry. Made love to her when she was feeling unlovable. Helped set up her new place. Cooked for her. Sound familiar? Yeah, me too, and I knew it at the time. But I learned from my first mistake and, even though I fell for her and she for me (so she said), I wasn't going all in with this one. We actually started talking about a "permanent" relationship without using the 'M' word. Plans extending out for years were discussed. BUT I was still in the military, and just as things were starting to warm up, I got transferred to another post thousands of miles away. She looked me up in the Global Post Locator System, called me at my new post, and we started talking regularly. Fast forward 38 years. We have two children and three grandchildren and still love each other as much as we did the day we married. Maybe more. Yeah, definitely more. Happy ending, except the story isn't over.
I've had the whole "Can we still be friends?" talk work exactly once in my life, because we were friends first, tried to be more, and realized pretty quick that that wouldn't work. We were just both waiting for the other to say something. We are still friends. I was at her wedding. Im buddies with her husband. I still see thrm over the holidays when I go back home. Her father still hates my guts for some reason.
Woman I dated a while back: “I have never been dumped.” Me: “Really?” Her: “Yeah, nobody has ever dumped me, but I have dumped plenty of guys. I’m just that awesome.” Me: “So let me be the first.” Her: “What?” Me: “Yeah, I’m breaking up with you.” I walked out and left. I had no intention of breaking up with her when I walked in, but I couldn’t pass up the opportunity, plus hubris demanded it.
Yeah. I have never been dumped either, but I see no situation where that would come into discussion with my husband. Such a weird brag. Breaking up with someone is horrible.
I broke up with a few guys before I figured out I was a lesbian. It’s actually something I still feel bad about to this day. These were great guys and they did nothing wrong.
When I was 18 I broke up with my boyfriend. 2 weeks later he called me and said this isn’t working, we should break up. Then he went batshit crazy when I said I broke up with him 2 weeks ago. Weird dude!!
When I met mt husband my English was awful! He's English, I'm Brazilian, we met at the airport, we barley could speak to each other and now we're happily married haha ❤️ this things happens!
Hurt,? Shit yes..tears at the soul for a 80% guy, because he knows that he isnt going to find anyone else, for a long time. A Chad/Tyrone (the 20%ers?) Be for real, they don,t have compassion or a conscious. The girl? Shit. She already has potential guys just waiting to make her happy. Compassion and conscious? In 20-30 yr olds? Person...you really need to wake up.
@@FrauIndian sounds similar to my fiancee. Although I didn't propose through text lol. She was my next door neighbor and childhood best friend and we kept in touch every few years. But last year I messaged her and it never ended. She ended up surprising me with a trip to my favorite beach and proposed to me at sunset on the beach. But she had a bad picker before me and said she wasnt letting me get away lol. I hope you find someone just as great as him!
Yeah, that felt staged actually. Even if it’s not, there’s no way the proposal is sincere if you do it in a text message. (Unless it’s part of a bigger plan...)
I have had a boyfried who was telling me he never had a relationship lasting over a Year. I recognized it and buried it deep inside my heart becuase I coulnd´t understand. He was awesome, handsome and tall ;) After nearly a year everything was going soo well.. I told him I think we positively would make it. He just sat there and his face was frozen... I kinda knew what was coming up next.. Gues what? Yeah.. He broke up the day after. Crazy o.O
In the 7th grade I dated this guy for 2 months, and I wanted to break up with him but it was my very first time doing it, so my friend helped me build up the courage, she watched from afar, I walked up to him confidently, told him I didn’t want to be his girlfriend anymore and then ran away screaming. She came up to me laughing and said “I was so proud of you!!!!….up until the moment you ran away screaming” 😂 also I ran away like the Naruto run…very classy
When I was younger I had a girlfriend for around 2-3 years. We had an off an on relationship that was highly toxic. Whenever I broke up with her, she tried to claim that I was emotionally abusive. It didn't help that she had a history of cutting, though I always thought it was for attention due to the point that she bragged about it. A majority of my friend group believed her, and I would often get back together with her in order to get her to dismiss the claims. The claims had gotten so bad that the school (I was in highschool) had called in my parents in to take about my behavior. I already had a history of anger issues, thus the school took her side. Eventually, I acted like a complete bitch to her in order to get her to be the one to dump me. It worked, though she did spread rumors around the school. Eventually she moved away. Then a few years later she makes a post talking about our relationship and how she feels guilty about breaking up with me. The post was filled with comments from people who didn't know the situation, all insisting she tried to get back together with me. When she asked me out, I rejected her and blocked her. The was, and still is, one of the worst relationships I had in my entire life so far. The fact that she denies what she did and that everyone continues to believe she was right still affects my relationships with a lot of my old friends and family.
She does, doesn't she?? Lol I am so glad she started her own channel. For the past week or so I've been on a Charlotte binge! Been needing some laughs during these CrAzY times! 🤣🤣
I broke up with my ex and he slept with someone the day after. I found out he slept with two other girls when we were together and one now he has a child with. Sucked at the time, but I’m happier now in my new relationship and it was the right thing to do for the reasons above. I heard that the girl he has a child with thinks I was just his crazy housemate, not his girlfriend. He also proposed to me when he was sleeping with her so the situation was mad but I had a lucky escape 👌🏻
Wuraola Kayode it was. Definitely happier in my new relationship though. He posted all over snapchat a night out he was having with his future baby mama (even a picture of them in bed) less than a week after we broke up. I went to collect my stuff 2 days later and the bedroom smelt of sex, that upset me at the time.
That top you are wearing is so close to flesh colored that for a few seconds I thought it possible that you were trying to compete with the neighbor nudists
Dude!! Legit! I was going to post that I thought she was nude for a moment. It’s even funnier because in the last video I watched she mentioned she makes Thirst Traps on her insta, so I was all “that’s some def thirst!”
Here's my break-up story... we dated for 8 months. Around month 6, HE GOT MARRIED. She didn't know about me, I didn't know about her (yet). Two months later, he "needs some space", but only after I had a conversation with his wife. He divorced soon after, too. 🤣
15yrs ago I dated a marine so it was a long distance relationship, he broke up with me through text but he was determined to reconcile the relationship anyway we ended becoming best friends & a few years later we got married lol been married 12 yrs now!
The "We'll still be friends" serves three purposes for the one initiating the break up. 1 - It makes them feel like they are not as bad as they are , and not being cruel and heartless, if they are still willing to be friends. 2 - They think they are so awesome that the offer of just being friends, so they can still be in your life, is a kindness to you so you don't suffer withdrawal or something. 3 - Some times they want to keep a connection so they can keep tabs on ya, either mess with you or try to come back when the new love faded fast.
If caught wind that someone was going to break up with me, I wouldn't try to "beat them to the punch" I would pretend to be oblivious. then when they dropped the hammer on me, I would pretend to be crushed. Like "Ugly Crying" crushed. Like Nancy Kerrigen crying out "Why! WHYYYYYYYY!" crushed. That way: 1) she would feel like a bad person and 2) she would never come back scratching around years later! WIN/WIN!
My Papa died in Dec 2008 at age 97. My Gimma, his wife obviously lol, passed away one month shy of her 107th birthday, in March 2018. They were the same age. And they were married for 62 years when he passed away. We always joked how he was up in heaven waiting on a bench at the "bus station" at the Pearly Gates, just waiting on his lady. They were SO IN LOVE. The best part of their love story is that they met via letters! He'd been a penpal to her sister, and when her sister got married, she passed his address on to my grandmother. And that's how they fell in love, through their letters. They met face to face two weeks before their actual wedding in 1946. They were both in their 30s when they got married. They thought of my Gimma as an "old maid." I love their whole story. I saw how in love they always were. At the end of his life, he'd forgotten a lot of us. But at the care center, where he was for the last six months of his life, he'd tell visitors that those other ladies there "look like my Tressie, but they aren't my Tressie." That kind of love is all I ever wanted and my husband and I have been married over 16 years now. They were the BEST role models for a marriage.
Girl! Your 12 min video feel like 2 mins ones. You are damn entertaining and I bet that's the result of a lot of learning through your experiences in the life. Lots of love and respect for you. Thanks for making my day so much better. Take care and have a wonderful day ❤️💖
Being friends with exes is a special kind of bond usually when a mutual breakup happens. Recently my partner and I broke up, we still care about each other, but we’re not happy in the relationship right now. So we decided to just be friends. It does suck and I miss him, but I know we will both be ok.
There is no such a thing like "mutual break-up" and being friends with exes. One person is dumped and the same person wants to be friends to finally be together again.
@@SpicyNuddle 🤔 well, it was mutual between us because the reasoning behind it all, we both agreed being in a relationship together wasn’t working for us and splitting was the best option. We’re definitely better off as friends. It’s been almost a year. He’s got a new lady and he moved in with her. We’re still friends. We don’t talk as much as we used to, but I’ve met his new lady and she’s super chill. We’re all friends now. I think this situation with him moving away and me meeting his new SO actually helped. It’s an unusual situation, but able to work with the circumstances. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore and he doesn’t have any for me. He’s planning a whole new life with his SO and I’m happy for him. That’s what he really wanted. 👍🏽 We hang out once in a while when they come down to visit. I think if he was still living nearby and didn’t have a new SO, that would be the problem. I feel fortunate everything worked out the way it did because it could have been a sh*t-show. 😵💫
I've had many exes as friends after breakup.. Cause you've gotten to know each other so well, so why waste that person just because the relationship didn't work.. Depends on the crimes that were made ofcourse
Mclean Uwuses well I respectfully disagree. I loved my husband dearly but I do agree we were better off as friends from the beginning. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Sounds like you have had some issues you should address
I am best friends with one of my exes. We still love each other but we work better as friends than as a couple. He's happily married now and I have a great, healthy relationship and we still are able to chat and give each other a hard time. He is truly the only ex that I have truly stayed true friends with and my current boyfriend knows and respects this.
These breakup texts are harsh...damn. I was stalked after I broke up with my ex (before my hubby) he would sit out in front of my house and wait for me to come home. I would have to enter through my back door so he would not see me. He started drinking and became verbally abusive so I broke up.
Thinking about the older couple you mentioned - 1 speaks Portuguese & the other Italian. I wonder if during the initial days & weeks of meeting, that they ended up making up their OWN, NEW, LANGUAGE, based on what & how they were able to communicate at the beginning. I find that fascinating! Imagine having a secret language between you & your partner! Probably, though, they each learned the other’s language? It would be very helpful when visiting each other’s families, traveling, etc.
Before texting and DM's, I had a girl break up with me at the movies. She went to get us some popcorn and never came back. I ran into her about six months later and she was like, "I didn't want to watch that movie." It was Twister. 1996. :)
I lived with my GF for 2yrs. After work one day we met at a mutual friends house for dinner( 2 separate cars). After the dinner I drove home. When I entered the apt. I saw that she had moved out earlier in the day, and never came back. All her stuff was gone, including some of my furniture. I slept on an inflatable mattress for 2 months!😲😳
@@h.borter5367 My friends were brutal. They would say "She took the bed and you had to sleep on a pool float"...they would laugh and laugh and laugh. They actually helped me get over her, quickly!😊
The fact that you feel bad for hurting your ex says a lot about how wonderful you are! Also... I met a guy once who had 3 girlfriends and 5 friends with benefits ;-)
Isnt it enough to "handle" one? I had a friend who had literally so many boyfriends she gave them letters so she wouldn't screw up there names. She was a mad genius
Regarding the story about the couple mentioned at 4:40: I once met a couple who had met as teenagers on a ski vacation in Finnish Lapland in the 1950s. She spoke only Swedish, he only Finnish. Next summer, during school break, this guy took a job in Stockholm, just to learn Swedish. Few years later they got married and ... well, till death did them part.
I had a guy I dated right after breaking up with my ex(the father of my kids). we were together for 9 and a half years. this guy was jumping through hoops for my ex in order for him to be around our kids. 6 months into the relationship he says that he has to go to Texas to help his uncle out for a couple weeks. only come to find, 2 weeks later, that he MOVED to Texas! without telling me. everyone else knew, his mom, sister, best friend, and dad. all who I saw while he was gone. worst breakup ever.
When i broke up with my abusive ex it was pretty much him playing his mind games again. He'd completely broken and isolated me and i felt like if he left me i was completely stranded so whenever he'd feel like i was regaining some clarity during fights he'd switch to "i don't see the point in even staying with you if you're gonna treat me like this" so you know... he becomes the victime while also having me beg for him to stay. Expect too bad for him, some of his friends actually really liked me and since he was abusive to literally everyone around him, including his mom, a lot of people could see through his bullshit so a lot of his friends were also friends with me "in secret". So after about a year of having normal relationships with normal people again i'd progressively started being aware his emotional manipulation and soon came one of his rages again. Except this time i wasn't taking any of his shit so he went full "guess i'll talk to you in a few days" but this time i replied with "no you won't." and i blocked him everywhere. So then he posted a sad story about how i'm "probably fucking Jesse and that's why i left"... I still don't even know who's Jesse. Commented his post only to say "no i left because you're a cunt." and then blocked him on facebook too. Also gainned a couple of friends because i wasn't the only one who was tired of his shit.
Was in a year long relationship with a guy from Europe. He travels a lot for work and I trusted him. Found out a few months after our anniversary that he has a fiance back home, a girlfriend in Macau, and another girlfriend in Thailand.
Broken up with people, been broken up with. Cheated on people, been cheated on. None of it is fun from either side. Married twice, divorced twice and now 37 trying to figure out where to go from here. Love your videos 🤙💯💯💯
I was dating a guy for about a year, long-distance, and we mostly communicated through email because he lived in the boonies with no cell service most of the time. He had started hinting at marriage, but then told me something that he had been hiding from me (not necessarily a deal-breaker, but it startled me a bit) I needed some time to think about it, and a few days later, I emailed him asking if we could talk about it in person the next time we got together. He came UNGLUED on me, and started accusing me of all kinds of crazy things, saying I hated his family (I loved them!), that I thought I was better than them, all sorts of junk. I'm not sure why he didn't just say he wanted to break up if he thought all of this was true, but I guess he wanted me to do it. We went back and forth a couple times, and I kept telling him we should talk in person, and he just wasn't having it, so finally I had to say it wouldn't work out. Certainly showed a whole different side of him!
I'm absolutely loving this channel!! I'm usually not one for reaction videos but I find Charlotte very relatable n she has a warm presence plus she makes me laugh😄 still think you should get t-shirts saying ooohh naked man! Lol
I broke up with one guy in my entire life and he came back, won my heart within 20 minutes of talking. I was sure I wasn't going back before picking up the call. I was even seeing someone. He just came and destroyed my plan for the better because I'm married to the sweetest guy ever.
I was dumped over a text on Christmas Eve bc he only had “friend feelings” for me. I was devastating. But now I can see the humor in it, and we’re actually good friends now
You must be one of the most forgiving people ever. If someone dumped me via text, I don't think I could be friends with that person. I'm glad you were able to get a friendship out that, though.
This makes me so grateful that when I was dating, before marriage lol, I’m grateful that there were no cell phones or texting or Facebook or any social media the. .
Ur doing a great job on here Char. Just found your content about a month ago.I watch everyday now. ☕ &Charlotte when I get to work in the morning. Thanks!
I had a guy I was seeing for quite awhile then one day he called me to tell me that after not being together for years he was going to try to make things work out with his wife. HIS WIFE!! And he hoped I wouldn't be to upset and mad at me. Then about a few years later it didn't work out. Funny.
I broke up with my ex a year ago and he immediately wanted to have a friends-with-benefits thing going on with me. I told him no because I'm not a slut that just sleeps with anyone. Anyway, fast forward to last week and I invite a couple of his mates that I'm friendly with to my 24th birthday party. He finds out and flips out at me and them for not telling him and that I (quote) "have to inform him whenever I want to hang out with his friends because it's weird". Like dude, you are NOT our keeper. His mates have even said he's being an assh**e about the entire situation and he said to one of them that "they wouldn't like him (ex) hanging out with HIS (friend's) ex" and the guy was just like, I really couldn't care less. Fun times. Feel bad for the guys though as it's making it awkward between me and them vs my ex
I mean, I get the sentiment here, but you hanging out with an ex's guy friends is "weird". Bro code = never hangout with a homie's ex-gf (least in the 90's, IDK about nowadays. Zoomer logic can be outta whack at times). My 2 cents = he still cares about you and his friends wanna smaaaaaaashhhh. Just a guess! Take care now, bye bye then.
@@lmoral222 I became friendly with them whilst I was still with this guy. They are typical Kiwis who dont have the same attitude as most of the rest of the world. If youre friendly to them, theyre friendly back sort of attitude. Its too much effort to start fighting over a failed relationship. They dont see what the issue is from my ex because they came to like me as my own individual person, and not just an extension of ex, which is all I pretty much was. Theyre in their mid-late 20's whilst Im early-mid 20's. They are hardly Zoomers in any sense of the word. One of the lads is in a relationship himself and the other broke up not long before ex and I and doesnt want to start looking for a new relationship. I also have severe anxiety that makes it difficult and in really bad cases stops me from socializing and making friends. I moved to this country 3 years ago and they became my first real friends in this country who are interested in me as a person and not a piece of meat or an object to be owned and flaunted like most men that I have met have wanted to do.
@@megannowicki2650 depends on how youve been raised and in what society. Which sounds strange but makes sense. I'm very old fashioned and will not just sleep with anybody, especially if Im not in a relationship with them. To me, that makes me look cheap. I get that its more acceptable for things like that to happen, but its not how Ive been raised and I most CERTAINLY wouldnt do that straight after breaking up with the person.
My ex fiancé broke up with me by saying, “we’re like oil and water, we look beautiful mixed together but we always end up separating.” He left me for another guy...
since i´m gay i gotta say this: if he leaves you for a guy, you still are a good woman. don´t question your worth over another persons sexuality, preferences or feelings for someone else. he might have just figured it out or was simply bi and clicked with a guy. im 25 and i literally found out/was sure about myself last year. being oneself and honest with feelings doesn´t equal being an asshole.
@@alexej2509 before finding out about your sexuality,did u date with girls?I mean did you find them attractive throughout your teen years and then adult life or not???
@@irumnageen2443 kinda yes. I identified as bi/pan for a long time and had some girlfriends. But over time I got less and less interested in them. One of them is still my best friend and like a sister to me. I never liked boobs tho except for like...using them as pillows (with consent obviously) bc they're comfy xD
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think "a couple of times" is often used as an euphemism to mean "many times". Feeling a little like nitpicking today, Jo Crooms ?
5:00 My dad was in the Air Force in the mid 1960's and stationed in the Azores. He was writing to his room mates sister but there was really nothing there. Then when the sister was getting married she gave her room mate my dad's address. Mom wasn't really interested in writing to some guy in the Air Force so she just put his address away and forgot about it. My mother was a ward clerk in a hospital. It was her job to take all the doctor's orders and notes from the nurses, type them up, and add them to the patient's medical records. She wasn't feeling well and one of the doctors took her in for an exam and discovered she had pneumonia. He prescribed anti-biotics and told her not to come back to work for a week. She was feeling better a few days later but was still not allowed to go back to work. She was staying at her mom's house and found dad's address so to beat out the boredom she wrote him this crazy letter. He wrote back ad they started writing back and forth. When his assignment in the Azores ended he was transferred to Travis AFB in California. He was given a couple of weeks leave to visit his family in Oregon. But on the way he stopped in Michigan to meet my mom. They hung out for a couple of days then he flew on to Oregon to see his parents and sister before moving down to California for his next assignment. They day after Dad left for home mom quit her job, packed up her little VW beetle and moved to California. She found a place in Vacaville (yes there really is such a town. It's not as funny as Manteca (Lard) though). When dad's time in the Air Force ended he got a really good job in Benicia, Ca and decided to settle in Fairfield. They got married in 1968 and I came along in 1969 and my sister in 1972. My parents were still married in 2016 when mom passed sleeping in his bed next to him. It was kind of weird growing up. By the time I was in high school I was the only one out of my friends who had parents that were still married to each other.
My relationships always begin and end the same way, it starts with her saying “ Oooh you ride a motorcycle” and ends with “that thing is dangerous either it goes or I go”, but hay it’s just a matter which one I rode the most.
Motorcycles, although I don't personally ride them are not a valid reason for me to dump someone over. I have my passions and hobbies, I expect my partner to support and understand my passions therefore I support theirs. The right person will do the same for you. :)
This happened a long time ago, when texting and smart phones were the stuff of science fiction movies. In my junior year of college, I had been dating a girl for about a year and a half. I was totally mad about her and before her, had dated a dozen or so girls for several months months or more, 1 girl for 2 years. No one ever broke up with me, it was usually just drifting apart. That night, we had gone to see a movie that involved a couple breaking up. On the way home she asked my how I would break up with someone. I went on to describe how I would consider their feelings, tell them that we just aren't a good match, that the man of your dreams is out there, but we can't continue seeing each other, yada yada. After I got through with my monologue, she said "Maybe you should listen to your own advice". I was stunned. No girl breaks up with me!!!!! ( 🙄🙄🙄). Took me down a peg or three. I didn't see her again for about 5 months even though we went to the same college. I ended up asking her out again just before I graduated from college. Fast forward and as of today, we've been married for 52 years!!!!
Hey Charlotte, how’re you doing? Thank you for the new vid, your daily videos are the highlight of my day 🤩. Sending love 🇬🇧 💛 see you tomorrow x lol. PS I’m planning to visit Toronto, once the global pandemic is over, to see my grandparents 🤞🏽 🇨🇦 ✈️
My grandma and late grandpa only dated two weeks. Before they really knew each other, my grandpa told one of his friends that, one day, he was gonna marry my grandma. They told him, “but Gene, you don’t even know her.” He told them, “I’mma marry her.” And a couple years later they were married. They stayed married until my grandpa’s death in 2003. My grandma hasn’t seen anyone since his death.
It's pretty hilarious that you react the same way I would haha. Oh man, entertaining. This is the first of your videos I watch and I'm definitely going to keep watching and supporting!
I’m still friends with my most recent ex. He’s my closest friend. And he’s still the one person I can trust with anything. We ended on good terms and we both can see a life where we aren’t in each others lives.
i've had alot of online relationships, half my ex gf's were garbage by personality, the rest are treasures, the only reason i broke up with those treasures we couldn't schedule things right and because of differences between time zones we couldnt be online at the same time as the other, so we broke up, but when doing so, i told them i am not doing it out of hate or any kind of spite, were jsut unable to find the time to come online i tell them we will eb friends, noting will change for i still love them and i will always be happy to see them when they come online, i'm the same during the firendship, the same during the relationship and i'm the same after the relationship, i'm a silly guy who likes to put smiles on the faces of others, all the ex's i am on good terms with are always happy to see me because i always give them a happy message, never over doing it, i am a very huggy person in messaging
@@nancysmith2389 i met them on secondlife, an online relationship is not as easy to manage as you think, people only come online when their work doesn't get in the way, a lot of them i was with for a long time because the scheduling worked, some of my exes i broke up with because they caused drama, they were either a catfish or just an asshole, secondlife is an adult game, its a social network too, but those that treat it as a simple game and treat those they meet like they're not real or like their garbage usually have no sense of self comprehension or reality, were all real people behind our screens, i say this because i came across so many people who by treating secondlife as a game and not as an extension of their reality, do not comprehend their own existence or their reality, in all honesty i am simplifying it or i'd be here for hours explaining how their view point makes not sense or is illogical, and i am simply trying to state in the best way i can that seconlife is a social network on a game format and many people fail to understand its a social network formatted as a game
My fiancé is friends with all his ex girlfirends, meet one of them and they are cool ^^ Nothing wrong being friends with an ex, it all deppends how it ended!
Some relationships are already in the friend zone when they break up so thats why they can ask can we still be friends. Yes I stayed for the kids when I should of left loooonnngggg ago. Thankfully we are only friends now.
I love these break up text for entertainment purposes only, for the solution for making my quarantine, And your funny vids you post, And on inform overload as well for me as a 14 year old (15 years old in September) To enjoy so, Sending lots of love, And appreciation from San Antonio, Texas USA!!! Stuff were in TX.. Thanks for making my quarantine,, And keep going, Because your making my quarantine!!!:D Stay safe, And Stay awesome!!!! TTYL!!!!!
My math teacher in high-school said he decided it was time to get married. So he went back to Korea and saw a woman standing outside a library and she was pretty so he asked her name and chatted her up. Asked her to marry him. She said I would have to ask my mother first. They plan to meet there the next day with her mother. She approves. They get married. He's almost 70 and they are still married and he says he couldn't imagine being married to someone else. I was like. WHAT?!
Wow similar to a story I heard tonight. An acquaintances husband told us how his parents met. He went to Italy and saw a girl sewing outside a shop.
They ended married and had 7 kids. Likely to still be married had he not passed away.
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That is a wonderful story!!
I heard about a couple who didn't speak each other's home language that met at Comic-Con. They discovered they both spoke Klingon. The rest is history! ❤
Oooooooo I love that! Awesome!
LoL cute and hilarious
I'm American, my wife is Guatemalan. When we met I didn't speak a lick of Spanish and she couldn't speak English. We had to bring her 11 year old son with us on dates to translate! Married 8 months later and after 17 years we're still happily married.
That’s adorable, I hope you’re all doing well!
That is so cute!💜💕
How did you know that you liked her? How did you know that you had anything in common? I don’t really understand how people fall in love without speaking the same language.
@@lokiblue5125 I'll admit it was just lust on my part at the beginning. I wasn't looking for anything more than a casual physical relationship. Part of what made it become more was the effort that went into communicating, on both sides. It drew us closer and I'm quite happy it did.
@@sunsetskye483 So far so good. Already planning the next anniversary celebration (coming up in just two short months)! We're thinking maybe Michigan this year.
The reason a break-up comes as a surprise to one of the party (usually the man), is because the other one gave up a long time ago. I don't mean on the relationship, I mean on the partner. If we use as an example a straight couple where the woman has given up on the man:
She loves to go hiking in the woods. He doesn't. He goes with her a few times, but he hates it and lets her know without actually saying it (moaning about blisters, bugs, wet ground, too hot, too cold, tired.....), in the end she will stop going, or at least stop taking him with her.
They both work full time, but at home he may not be doing his share of the housework. She gets tired of nagging him and in the end just does it herself because she doesn't want to live in a sty. For dinner he will only eat things he likes, and is never willing to try something new. If she wants to experiment in the kitchen she has to make two dinners.
He does "allow" her to choose some of the movies they watch at home, but if he doesn't like it he will be on his phone the whole time. He would rather spend time with his friends than with her, and thinks she's happy to do her own thing too.
If she wants to make their home a little nicer, buy some decoration or upgrade some furniture, he will say something like: "we don't need it" or "I like it the way it is".
In the end she is doing hobbies alone, cooking the same boring food over and over, picking up, and cleaning after another person, who doesn't want to spend free time with her, and cannot improve the home she lives in (assuming here they have a shared economy, and neither can make large purchases by themselves).
This is a great deal for him. He doesn't have to go hiking with her, she does most of the housework and the cooking, he gets to eat all the food he likes, and hang out with his friends on the weekends.
Then one day completely out of the blue (to his mind) she ups and leaves. He cannot understand it, he thought they were so happy together. No dude, you were happy. She wasn't.
This is lowkey the best explanation I’ve seen in a while, this is exactly how I felt in my last relationship
then theres the exact opposite.u bust your ass off at work, you please her with everything, and "you're too nice for me".
That's a very stereotypical situation though. Yeah, it happens a lot, but a lot of breakups are also a completely different scenario
@@thesirensystem True, but to prove a point stereotypes work best, as there is a reason why they're stereotypical in the first place. :)
Oh my
Met my wife 15 years ago in a Yahoo chat room (they used to be a thing). 6 months later, she had moved from her home country of Sweden and came to live with me in New Zealand. Still happily together ❤️
Was it a typo or an autocorrect at (they used to be a thing) instead of (it used to be a thing)
@@Theonly_z_Official Oh yep, a typo. Sorry. Or maybe I was referencing chat rooms with the 'they'? I don't remember now
These are brutal 🤣
I've only ever broken up with one person. 7 years of an unhealthy relationship and yet it was still the hardest thing I ever had to do. Not because I was breaking up with him, but because I was putting myself first for the first time ever.
Well done , being un-attached is scary .
Been there and done that. At first it felt as if I were throwing away 5 years when in all actuality I was gaining my life back!! It was a super hard decision yet the most fulfilling if that makes sense!!
Good for you Ellie!!!!
Waaaay too relatable! I'm so happy for you!
I think everyone of the likes you’ve got are all saying "Well done". A very wise person once told me you’ve to put yourself first to really care for others. Not being selfish and grabbing the biggest piece of cake (though I do that too), but to look after your own welfare and state of mind. You can’t give what you don’t have,
Back before mobiles and internet (yes, I am that old!) a boyfriend broke up with me by post. I corrected the spelling and punctuation mistakes and gave Mark's out of 10 with a red pen then returned the letter to him.
I like that one!
Genius!
Now that is awesome.
*Marks, no apostrophe needed. I'm guessing autocorrect got in the way.
HAHAHA love that
My grandad was from England and my nan was from Germany. They couldn't speak each others language when they met but they would write letters to one another and had translators read the letters to them. They were married a month after they met and have been married for over 50 years.
The woman my husband was dating before me was still friends with him (and she became and is one of my closest friends; he introduced me to her!). It was a case of, they were friends, became good friends, tried to do the boyfriend/girlfriend thing, and mutally realized they were better off as buddies than romantic partners. This was over 30 years ago, and she's still one of my best friends.
I had a boyfriend and we decided we’d be better as friends. We broke up and agreed to not talk for a month then just be friends. 30 days almost to the minute he called, we went out for drinks and are still friends today (both now married to other people and we both have kids). We just figured when we broke up that the reasons we got together in the first place hadn’t changed, we really liked each other as people, just not “the one”. Just because the dress didn’t look perfect on you doesn’t mean it’s not a great dress or that it won’t look better on someone else I guess 🙂
Same! Dated a friend I had had for awhile. We did a 6 month break before talking again and are still great friends to this day.
100% this! My ex and I are still great friends! I've helped him get back in the game after out breakup, gave him dating advice that landed him a cool girl and we talk all the time.
He is a great person and we still thank each other for shit we learned all the time.
When I was 19, My ex broke up with me because I wouldn't spend the night with him and give my pain meds. I just had a major surgery few weeks before, and my mom passed away that day and it was sudden and I was already traumatized. He had no respect for the fact I was literally sitting by my dead mothers side in the ER when he did this. His lost. Few months later I met the love of my life and we've been married now 10yrs. :-) ♥♥♥
Geeze what a JERK! I'm sorry about your mom and I hope you are living a the good life with your husband! Sending good vibes your way 😁
Happy for you! but in retrospect that prior standard was pretty low, easy to beat. An intestine parasite would still beat that ex.
He was not there for ur mom in the ER wtf
Im sorry about your mama hun that's awful.
I'm still surprised about people like that existing....anyways, happy that you found someone better :)
Welcome to dumpsville, population you!! Straight from a 20yr old simpsons episode
Also, a reference from Iron Giant (if no one has said yet).
“Welcome to Coolsville....population.....US”
It's actually from a song from 1999 from a group called Caustic Soda. ua-cam.com/video/-FQxCXeSdiY/v-deo.html
Huh, it reminded me of ConnorFranta video when he was talking things girls dont know about guys...he said the same thing XD
Paused the video as soon as I read that to see if anyone else recognized it. S3E16: Bart the Lover (1992).
@@jenmetzger9796 The Simpsons episode with that quote is from 1992
When I was 21 I had a girlfriend to whom I got VERY close. We actually started talking about a "permanent" relationship without using the 'M' word. Plans extending out for years were discussed. One day I met her in a public place after work. As I approached, she got real smiley, took me by the hand, and said, "There's someone I want you to meet." She led me to some guy wearing a trench coat. "This is my NEW boyfriend. But I still want to be friends with you." It took me a few seconds to put one and one together. If HE was her NEW boyfriend, that made me her OLD boyfriend. Huh! I turned around and walked out without saying a word. It took me until I was half way home before I realized that she was seeing him at the same time we were making those long-range plans. I rapidly went from sad to infuriated.
Jump forward a year and a half. In the meantime I joined the military and at the moment I was at my mother's house on leave. Knock comes at the door. It's her. "I was in the neighborhood and I saw your car out in the street, so I knew you were home. We should hang out!" Again while smiling bigly. I told her, "Why would I want to do that? YOU dumped me!" Then I slammed the door in her face. Felt good, I gotta tell ya.
It was years later that I learned about the concept of the "rebound guy." The girl was married when we met. I made no moves; I am not a homewrecking dick. She broke up with her husband for (what sounded to me) like legit reasons. I was there for her. Held her when she cried. Fed her when she was hungry. Made love to her when she was feeling unlovable. Helped her move, set up her new place. Cooked for her. Paid to get her car fixed when it was broke. Picked her up at bars at 3:00 am when she was too drunk to drive herself home (she said it was girl's night). I did most of that as a friend, but fell for her through the ordeal. She said she fell for me, too. Apparently not. After the breakup, I came to understand what a "rebound guy" was from an episode of "Roseanne" on TV. That episode hit me like a ton of bricks. Like a building collapsed on top of me. I realized I WAS THAT GUY!!!
A couple of years later, I met another girl. She had just left her husband but hadn't filed papers for divorce yet. I was there for her. Held her when she cried. Fed her when she was hungry. Made love to her when she was feeling unlovable. Helped set up her new place. Cooked for her. Sound familiar? Yeah, me too, and I knew it at the time. But I learned from my first mistake and, even though I fell for her and she for me (so she said), I wasn't going all in with this one. We actually started talking about a "permanent" relationship without using the 'M' word. Plans extending out for years were discussed. BUT I was still in the military, and just as things were starting to warm up, I got transferred to another post thousands of miles away. She looked me up in the Global Post Locator System, called me at my new post, and we started talking regularly.
Fast forward 38 years. We have two children and three grandchildren and still love each other as much as we did the day we married. Maybe more. Yeah, definitely more. Happy ending, except the story isn't over.
Wonderful story ^_^ glad things worked out and I hope it continues to do so.
This is so wholesome 💖💖
10 months later this warms my heart!
Is anyone cutting onions right now? 😢
😭 ❤️
I've had the whole "Can we still be friends?" talk work exactly once in my life, because we were friends first, tried to be more, and realized pretty quick that that wouldn't work. We were just both waiting for the other to say something. We are still friends. I was at her wedding. Im buddies with her husband. I still see thrm over the holidays when I go back home. Her father still hates my guts for some reason.
To juggle multiple relationships you need a spreadsheet.
Woman I dated a while back: “I have never been dumped.”
Me: “Really?”
Her: “Yeah, nobody has ever dumped me, but I have dumped plenty of guys. I’m just that awesome.”
Me: “So let me be the first.”
Her: “What?”
Me: “Yeah, I’m breaking up with you.”
I walked out and left. I had no intention of breaking up with her when I walked in, but I couldn’t pass up the opportunity, plus hubris demanded it.
Yeah. I have never been dumped either, but I see no situation where that would come into discussion with my husband. Such a weird brag. Breaking up with someone is horrible.
I have a feeling you dodged a bullet, tbh.
It had to be done.
Respect hubris…😳
A definite “challenge accepted” moment.
I broke up with a few guys before I figured out I was a lesbian. It’s actually something I still feel bad about to this day. These were great guys and they did nothing wrong.
that´s like my first love :). still friends after 30yrs
When I was 18 I broke up with my boyfriend. 2 weeks later he called me and said this isn’t working, we should break up. Then he went batshit crazy when I said I broke up with him 2 weeks ago. Weird dude!!
He was upset you beat him to the punch and wasn't the one crying and begging to be with him hahaha good for you.
@@qwandary Yeah, that was all about his bruised ego. :D
I hear a lot of these stories for some reason, a lot more than you'd expect XD
When I met mt husband my English was awful! He's English, I'm Brazilian, we met at the airport, we barley could speak to each other and now we're happily married haha ❤️ this things happens!
Omg that is such a beautiful story! I’m so happy for you!
With you replying all my latest comments I'm feeling we're becoming friends grl haha Thanks for making us laughing so much in this difficult time ❤️
@@anabee6545 a melhor foi eu dizer ao meu colega k falava inglês. Depois olho para o empregado aponto para a cerveja e fiz 2 dedos.
If it hurts and you feel bad when you break up with someone, that means you have compassion and a conscious.
Hurt,? Shit yes..tears at the soul for a 80% guy, because he knows that he isnt going to find anyone else, for a long time.
A Chad/Tyrone (the 20%ers?) Be for real, they don,t have compassion or a conscious.
The girl? Shit. She already has potential guys just waiting to make her happy.
Compassion and conscious? In 20-30 yr olds? Person...you really need to wake up.
Charlotte,
I will never dupe you nor leave you! Just look across the balcony!
Naked Man!
I’m not kidding, I am so jealous!! I never get naked man sightings. Maybe it’s time to move
LMFAO is this really Naked Man??
Ok Naked Man...?
We are going to need some proof.
WHY would you propose to someone in a text message?? 🤣
that was MY thought
@@FrauIndian why was it such a huge regret tho
@@FrauIndian sounds similar to my fiancee. Although I didn't propose through text lol. She was my next door neighbor and childhood best friend and we kept in touch every few years. But last year I messaged her and it never ended. She ended up surprising me with a trip to my favorite beach and proposed to me at sunset on the beach. But she had a bad picker before me and said she wasnt letting me get away lol. I hope you find someone just as great as him!
Yeah, that felt staged actually. Even if it’s not, there’s no way the proposal is sincere if you do it in a text message. (Unless it’s part of a bigger plan...)
Sound like youngins. Lol
I have had a boyfried who was telling me he never had a relationship lasting over a Year. I recognized it and buried it deep inside my heart becuase I coulnd´t understand. He was awesome, handsome and tall ;) After nearly a year everything was going soo well.. I told him I think we positively would make it. He just sat there and his face was frozen... I kinda knew what was coming up next.. Gues what? Yeah.. He broke up the day after. Crazy o.O
Wtf? He has an expiration date on relationships? 😂
Maybe if you didn't remind him... you could have made it?
Anyways, hope you find the love of your life 😂
@@asileginger8223 Thx! I did :)
Y can i relate to this💀😂
How do like someone beause they are tall?
In the 7th grade I dated this guy for 2 months, and I wanted to break up with him but it was my very first time doing it, so my friend helped me build up the courage, she watched from afar, I walked up to him confidently, told him I didn’t want to be his girlfriend anymore and then ran away screaming. She came up to me laughing and said “I was so proud of you!!!!….up until the moment you ran away screaming” 😂 also I ran away like the Naruto run…very classy
When I was younger I had a girlfriend for around 2-3 years. We had an off an on relationship that was highly toxic. Whenever I broke up with her, she tried to claim that I was emotionally abusive. It didn't help that she had a history of cutting, though I always thought it was for attention due to the point that she bragged about it. A majority of my friend group believed her, and I would often get back together with her in order to get her to dismiss the claims. The claims had gotten so bad that the school (I was in highschool) had called in my parents in to take about my behavior. I already had a history of anger issues, thus the school took her side. Eventually, I acted like a complete bitch to her in order to get her to be the one to dump me. It worked, though she did spread rumors around the school. Eventually she moved away. Then a few years later she makes a post talking about our relationship and how she feels guilty about breaking up with me. The post was filled with comments from people who didn't know the situation, all insisting she tried to get back together with me. When she asked me out, I rejected her and blocked her. The was, and still is, one of the worst relationships I had in my entire life so far. The fact that she denies what she did and that everyone continues to believe she was right still affects my relationships with a lot of my old friends and family.
I feel like ur hair has a different color and personality each day
She had never dyed her hair.. 😊 At least she said so in another video! She is super beautiful no matter 💗💗 And funny as hell lol
@@amandaburks8577 Yeah I know😋 but she styles it in a way that makes it look different each time
She does, doesn't she?? Lol I am so glad she started her own channel. For the past week or so I've been on a Charlotte binge! Been needing some laughs during these CrAzY times! 🤣🤣
@@amandaburks8577 yeah I agree😃
I think she changes it because people were making a big deal abt how she styled it before now.
I broke up with my ex and he slept with someone the day after. I found out he slept with two other girls when we were together and one now he has a child with. Sucked at the time, but I’m happier now in my new relationship and it was the right thing to do for the reasons above. I heard that the girl he has a child with thinks I was just his crazy housemate, not his girlfriend. He also proposed to me when he was sleeping with her so the situation was mad but I had a lucky escape 👌🏻
Wild
Wuraola Kayode it was. Definitely happier in my new relationship though. He posted all over snapchat a night out he was having with his future baby mama (even a picture of them in bed) less than a week after we broke up. I went to collect my stuff 2 days later and the bedroom smelt of sex, that upset me at the time.
yesterday I found out that my ex, when I was talking with him, sent a text to one of my bff's saying ''hello love
My Ex-husband was cheating on his work wife with his real wife 🤷🏽♀️ .
Dodged a huge ass bullet! Lucky you 😂
That top you are wearing is so close to flesh colored that for a few seconds I thought it possible that you were trying to compete with the neighbor nudists
Dude!! Legit! I was going to post that I thought she was nude for a moment. It’s even funnier because in the last video I watched she mentioned she makes Thirst Traps on her insta, so I was all “that’s some def thirst!”
I love her and can’t drop laughing! She is terrific! Needs her own REALITY SHOW! Hugs from Texas!
Here's my break-up story... we dated for 8 months. Around month 6, HE GOT MARRIED. She didn't know about me, I didn't know about her (yet). Two months later, he "needs some space", but only after I had a conversation with his wife. He divorced soon after, too. 🤣
First girl I fell in love with broke up with me on stage in front of 200 people... I was 15...
Uggggghhh that's bad 😵
Uuuff that sucks but. I admire how you survived that
Oh dude, that's the worst.
oohhh. I'm so sorry! 😳
Ouch! That's harsh 😱
15yrs ago I dated a marine so it was a long distance relationship, he broke up with me through text but he was determined to reconcile the relationship anyway we ended becoming best friends & a few years later we got married lol been married 12 yrs now!
Why did he want to break up with you in the first place
Might've been bc the long distance wasn't working well but idk
The "We'll still be friends" serves three purposes for the one initiating the break up.
1 - It makes them feel like they are not as bad as they are , and not being cruel and heartless, if they are still willing to be friends.
2 - They think they are so awesome that the offer of just being friends, so they can still be in your life, is a kindness to you so you don't suffer withdrawal or something.
3 - Some times they want to keep a connection so they can keep tabs on ya, either mess with you or try to come back when the new love faded fast.
If caught wind that someone was going to break up with me, I wouldn't try to "beat them to the punch" I would pretend to be oblivious.
then when they dropped the hammer on me, I would pretend to be crushed. Like "Ugly Crying" crushed. Like Nancy Kerrigen crying out "Why! WHYYYYYYYY!" crushed.
That way: 1) she would feel like a bad person and 2) she would never come back scratching around years later!
WIN/WIN!
The old couple in the cruise story was cute, thank you for sharing that.
lmao the brake up one reminded me of the Kelly song Text Message Break Up. “You couldn't even spell break right
B-R-A-K-E?
That's in your car, dummy”
Thanks for reminding me of Liam Kyle Sullivan's Kelly. Those were some quality videos.
My Papa died in Dec 2008 at age 97. My Gimma, his wife obviously lol, passed away one month shy of her 107th birthday, in March 2018. They were the same age. And they were married for 62 years when he passed away. We always joked how he was up in heaven waiting on a bench at the "bus station" at the Pearly Gates, just waiting on his lady. They were SO IN LOVE. The best part of their love story is that they met via letters! He'd been a penpal to her sister, and when her sister got married, she passed his address on to my grandmother. And that's how they fell in love, through their letters. They met face to face two weeks before their actual wedding in 1946. They were both in their 30s when they got married. They thought of my Gimma as an "old maid." I love their whole story. I saw how in love they always were. At the end of his life, he'd forgotten a lot of us. But at the care center, where he was for the last six months of his life, he'd tell visitors that those other ladies there "look like my Tressie, but they aren't my Tressie." That kind of love is all I ever wanted and my husband and I have been married over 16 years now. They were the BEST role models for a marriage.
Beautiful ❤️
Girl! Your 12 min video feel like 2 mins ones. You are damn entertaining and I bet that's the result of a lot of learning through your experiences in the life. Lots of love and respect for you. Thanks for making my day so much better. Take care and have a wonderful day ❤️💖
I don't feel these break ups are brutal at any level. They are just childish and idiotic.
The format is so damn old I think they’re mostly fake
Being friends with exes is a special kind of bond usually when a mutual breakup happens.
Recently my partner and I broke up, we still care about each other, but we’re not happy in the relationship right now. So we decided to just be friends.
It does suck and I miss him, but I know we will both be ok.
There is no such a thing like "mutual break-up" and being friends with exes. One person is dumped and the same person wants to be friends to finally be together again.
@@SpicyNuddle 🤔 well, it was mutual between us because the reasoning behind it all, we both agreed being in a relationship together wasn’t working for us and splitting was the best option. We’re definitely better off as friends.
It’s been almost a year. He’s got a new lady and he moved in with her. We’re still friends. We don’t talk as much as we used to, but I’ve met his new lady and she’s super chill. We’re all friends now. I think this situation with him moving away and me meeting his new SO actually helped. It’s an unusual situation, but able to work with the circumstances. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore and he doesn’t have any for me. He’s planning a whole new life with his SO and I’m happy for him. That’s what he really wanted. 👍🏽
We hang out once in a while when they come down to visit.
I think if he was still living nearby and didn’t have a new SO, that would be the problem. I feel fortunate everything worked out the way it did because it could have been a sh*t-show. 😵💫
I've had many exes as friends after breakup.. Cause you've gotten to know each other so well, so why waste that person just because the relationship didn't work.. Depends on the crimes that were made ofcourse
That’s very healthy. I tried to be friends with my ex husband but it just became too draining. It does depend on circumstances for sure
@@alyteima4185 to be friends with an ex means either you are still inlove or were never inlove!
Mclean Uwuses well I respectfully disagree. I loved my husband dearly but I do agree we were better off as friends from the beginning. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Sounds like you have had some issues you should address
I am best friends with one of my exes. We still love each other but we work better as friends than as a couple. He's happily married now and I have a great, healthy relationship and we still are able to chat and give each other a hard time. He is truly the only ex that I have truly stayed true friends with and my current boyfriend knows and respects this.
Tamara Briedwell that’s awesome, truly 😊✌️
These breakup texts are harsh...damn. I was stalked after I broke up with my ex (before my hubby) he would sit out in front of my house and wait for me to come home. I would have to enter through my back door so he would not see me. He started drinking and became verbally abusive so I broke up.
So glad to read you got away from this person
Thinking about the older couple you mentioned - 1 speaks Portuguese & the other Italian. I wonder if during the initial days & weeks of meeting, that they ended up making up their OWN, NEW, LANGUAGE, based on what & how they were able to communicate at the beginning. I find that fascinating! Imagine having a secret language between you & your partner!
Probably, though, they each learned the other’s language? It would be very helpful when visiting each other’s families, traveling, etc.
Before texting and DM's, I had a girl break up with me at the movies. She went to get us some popcorn and never came back. I ran into her about six months later and she was like, "I didn't want to watch that movie." It was Twister. 1996. :)
I lived with my GF for 2yrs. After work one day we met at a mutual friends house for dinner( 2 separate cars). After the dinner I drove home. When I entered the apt. I saw that she had moved out earlier in the day, and never came back. All her stuff was gone, including some of my furniture. I slept on an inflatable mattress for 2 months!😲😳
She didn't love you. She took the bed, too.
@@h.borter5367 My friends were brutal. They would say "She took the bed and you had to sleep on a pool float"...they would laugh and laugh and laugh. They actually helped me get over her, quickly!😊
OH MY GOD!
imagine planning to be clever at the moment you knife someone's heart out.
Yeah
The fact that you feel bad for hurting your ex says a lot about how wonderful you are!
Also... I met a guy once who had 3 girlfriends and 5 friends with benefits ;-)
I met one girl that her dad was a trucker and had 2 families
I remember the DO YOU LIKE ME? note you’d receive and there would be a “NO” box. 😑☹️😬
Isnt it enough to "handle" one? I had a friend who had literally so many boyfriends she gave them letters so she wouldn't screw up there names. She was a mad genius
Please tell me more.
This could be helpful.
Regarding the story about the couple mentioned at 4:40: I once met a couple who had met as teenagers on a ski vacation in Finnish Lapland in the 1950s. She spoke only Swedish, he only Finnish. Next summer, during school break, this guy took a job in Stockholm, just to learn Swedish. Few years later they got married and ... well, till death did them part.
I would listen to the backtrack of these vids almost 24/7.
I think that one with the “get back with my ex” was just being cute.
I had a guy I dated right after breaking up with my ex(the father of my kids). we were together for 9 and a half years. this guy was jumping through hoops for my ex in order for him to be around our kids. 6 months into the relationship he says that he has to go to Texas to help his uncle out for a couple weeks. only come to find, 2 weeks later, that he MOVED to Texas! without telling me. everyone else knew, his mom, sister, best friend, and dad. all who I saw while he was gone. worst breakup ever.
When i broke up with my abusive ex it was pretty much him playing his mind games again. He'd completely broken and isolated me and i felt like if he left me i was completely stranded so whenever he'd feel like i was regaining some clarity during fights he'd switch to "i don't see the point in even staying with you if you're gonna treat me like this" so you know... he becomes the victime while also having me beg for him to stay.
Expect too bad for him, some of his friends actually really liked me and since he was abusive to literally everyone around him, including his mom, a lot of people could see through his bullshit so a lot of his friends were also friends with me "in secret".
So after about a year of having normal relationships with normal people again i'd progressively started being aware his emotional manipulation and soon came one of his rages again. Except this time i wasn't taking any of his shit so he went full "guess i'll talk to you in a few days" but this time i replied with "no you won't." and i blocked him everywhere. So then he posted a sad story about how i'm "probably fucking Jesse and that's why i left"... I still don't even know who's Jesse. Commented his post only to say "no i left because you're a cunt." and then blocked him on facebook too. Also gainned a couple of friends because i wasn't the only one who was tired of his shit.
Was in a year long relationship with a guy from Europe. He travels a lot for work and I trusted him. Found out a few months after our anniversary that he has a fiance back home, a girlfriend in Macau, and another girlfriend in Thailand.
Damn...he was a very busy guy. How the fuck does anyone keep up with all those lovers? Sheesh....he was doing wayyy too much. Smh.
😕omg...
As long as Carlotta doesn’t break up with us, we’ll be ok.
Who dat?
Broken up with people, been broken up with. Cheated on people, been cheated on. None of it is fun from either side.
Married twice, divorced twice and now 37 trying to figure out where to go from here.
Love your videos 🤙💯💯💯
I was dating a guy for about a year, long-distance, and we mostly communicated through email because he lived in the boonies with no cell service most of the time. He had started hinting at marriage, but then told me something that he had been hiding from me (not necessarily a deal-breaker, but it startled me a bit) I needed some time to think about it, and a few days later, I emailed him asking if we could talk about it in person the next time we got together. He came UNGLUED on me, and started accusing me of all kinds of crazy things, saying I hated his family (I loved them!), that I thought I was better than them, all sorts of junk. I'm not sure why he didn't just say he wanted to break up if he thought all of this was true, but I guess he wanted me to do it. We went back and forth a couple times, and I kept telling him we should talk in person, and he just wasn't having it, so finally I had to say it wouldn't work out. Certainly showed a whole different side of him!
The emoji breakup and the one with the wife are my favorites, although the "do you want to go out? You ARE my ex" one was pretty witty
I'm absolutely loving this channel!! I'm usually not one for reaction videos but I find Charlotte very relatable n she has a warm presence plus she makes me laugh😄 still think you should get t-shirts saying ooohh naked man! Lol
When I feel down, I just watch your videos, they make me laugh and then I'm okay and not so sad anymore ❤️
I have never been this early 😅 I only have one breakup story from my teenage years but now, years later, we're actually good friends so that's nice !
I broke up with one guy in my entire life and he came back, won my heart within 20 minutes of talking. I was sure I wasn't going back before picking up the call. I was even seeing someone. He just came and destroyed my plan for the better because I'm married to the sweetest guy ever.
I was dumped over a text on Christmas Eve bc he only had “friend feelings” for me. I was devastating. But now I can see the humor in it, and we’re actually good friends now
You must be one of the most forgiving people ever. If someone dumped me via text, I don't think I could be friends with that person. I'm glad you were able to get a friendship out that, though.
Best part of the videos Charlotte does is the 3 second pause at the end with "SUBSCRIBE!" So cute.
Don't most of these seem staged? Like 80% of the names in the phone was just "girlfriend" or "babe". And all of them are made with an iphone 3. lol
Brinstar Media I do not know what’s the problem is but you’re probably right, it is weird that all of them have that
Ofcourse, they all seemed sooo fake. But still funny, though
Lol. Definitely fake
11:44 Who would break up with Someone as Clearly Amazing, Beautiful, Smart, and Fun as You Clearly Are
I wanna move to Canada to get a chance to meet her and be friends. I love her so much. She seems like a cool person. I love you Charlotte 💕
Canada is a big place lol. Her and I live in the same country but it would take me 3 days of driving to get there lol
OMGoodness, some of those were brutal LMAO. Thanks as always for putting a giggle back into my heart after a long day at work. Love u girl!
I am very glad the dating part of my life is over. I got anxiety just watching this and remembering my own breakups.
This makes me so grateful that when I was dating, before marriage lol, I’m grateful that there were no cell phones or texting or Facebook or any social media the. .
Ur doing a great job on here Char. Just found your content about a month ago.I watch everyday now. ☕ &Charlotte when I get to work in the morning. Thanks!
Hello from Germany 👋 hope you're all safe & healthy
HI from the US same to you
Hope you're safe and healthy, too.
Being safe is a pipe dream
Hello from New Hampshire USA!!! Happy, healthy and safe here buddy I hope you are as well!! 💙
I had a guy I was seeing for quite awhile then one day he called me to tell me that after not being together for years he was going to try to make things work out with his wife. HIS WIFE!! And he hoped I wouldn't be to upset and mad at me. Then about a few years later it didn't work out. Funny.
It is easy to juggle people. Vary your mind. Open yourself up to the happiness of the world. You have the power.
Charlotte is so pretty 🥺
Edit: I have a question.. do you have a crush on any of the naked mean?
They seasonal.
I broke up with my ex a year ago and he immediately wanted to have a friends-with-benefits thing going on with me. I told him no because I'm not a slut that just sleeps with anyone. Anyway, fast forward to last week and I invite a couple of his mates that I'm friendly with to my 24th birthday party. He finds out and flips out at me and them for not telling him and that I (quote) "have to inform him whenever I want to hang out with his friends because it's weird". Like dude, you are NOT our keeper. His mates have even said he's being an assh**e about the entire situation and he said to one of them that "they wouldn't like him (ex) hanging out with HIS (friend's) ex" and the guy was just like, I really couldn't care less. Fun times. Feel bad for the guys though as it's making it awkward between me and them vs my ex
Having a friends with benefits doesn't mean someone is a slut. 🙄
I mean, I get the sentiment here, but you hanging out with an ex's guy friends is "weird". Bro code = never hangout with a homie's ex-gf (least in the 90's, IDK about nowadays. Zoomer logic can be outta whack at times). My 2 cents = he still cares about you and his friends wanna smaaaaaaashhhh. Just a guess! Take care now, bye bye then.
@@lmoral222 I became friendly with them whilst I was still with this guy. They are typical Kiwis who dont have the same attitude as most of the rest of the world. If youre friendly to them, theyre friendly back sort of attitude. Its too much effort to start fighting over a failed relationship. They dont see what the issue is from my ex because they came to like me as my own individual person, and not just an extension of ex, which is all I pretty much was. Theyre in their mid-late 20's whilst Im early-mid 20's. They are hardly Zoomers in any sense of the word. One of the lads is in a relationship himself and the other broke up not long before ex and I and doesnt want to start looking for a new relationship.
I also have severe anxiety that makes it difficult and in really bad cases stops me from socializing and making friends. I moved to this country 3 years ago and they became my first real friends in this country who are interested in me as a person and not a piece of meat or an object to be owned and flaunted like most men that I have met have wanted to do.
@@megannowicki2650 depends on how youve been raised and in what society. Which sounds strange but makes sense. I'm very old fashioned and will not just sleep with anybody, especially if Im not in a relationship with them. To me, that makes me look cheap. I get that its more acceptable for things like that to happen, but its not how Ive been raised and I most CERTAINLY wouldnt do that straight after breaking up with the person.
You are the better person, my dear. Good for you 👍
My ex fiancé broke up with me by saying, “we’re like oil and water, we look beautiful mixed together but we always end up separating.” He left me for another guy...
“I would not have penetrated her”? Good god.
since i´m gay i gotta say this: if he leaves you for a guy, you still are a good woman. don´t question your worth over another persons sexuality, preferences or feelings for someone else. he might have just figured it out or was simply bi and clicked with a guy. im 25 and i literally found out/was sure about myself last year. being oneself and honest with feelings doesn´t equal being an asshole.
@@alexej2509 before finding out about your sexuality,did u date with girls?I mean did you find them attractive throughout your teen years and then adult life or not???
@@irumnageen2443 kinda yes. I identified as bi/pan for a long time and had some girlfriends. But over time I got less and less interested in them. One of them is still my best friend and like a sister to me. I never liked boobs tho except for like...using them as pillows (with consent obviously) bc they're comfy xD
@@alexej2509 thanks for replying....for taking out time to reply you will have a favour in return....I will keep you in my prayers☺️
Charlotte's facial expressions and reactions are so funny!!!!🤣
Charlotte calls it 50/50 then says she has broken up with "a lot" of people and been dumped "a couple of times."
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think "a couple of times" is often used as an euphemism to mean "many times". Feeling a little like nitpicking today, Jo Crooms ?
@@cardinalgin Lol. I jest in Charlotte's comments cause I love her content, not to be negative.
5:00 My dad was in the Air Force in the mid 1960's and stationed in the Azores. He was writing to his room mates sister but there was really nothing there. Then when the sister was getting married she gave her room mate my dad's address. Mom wasn't really interested in writing to some guy in the Air Force so she just put his address away and forgot about it.
My mother was a ward clerk in a hospital. It was her job to take all the doctor's orders and notes from the nurses, type them up, and add them to the patient's medical records.
She wasn't feeling well and one of the doctors took her in for an exam and discovered she had pneumonia. He prescribed anti-biotics and told her not to come back to work for a week.
She was feeling better a few days later but was still not allowed to go back to work. She was staying at her mom's house and found dad's address so to beat out the boredom she wrote him this crazy letter.
He wrote back ad they started writing back and forth.
When his assignment in the Azores ended he was transferred to Travis AFB in California. He was given a couple of weeks leave to visit his family in Oregon. But on the way he stopped in Michigan to meet my mom. They hung out for a couple of days then he flew on to Oregon to see his parents and sister before moving down to California for his next assignment.
They day after Dad left for home mom quit her job, packed up her little VW beetle and moved to California. She found a place in Vacaville (yes there really is such a town. It's not as funny as Manteca (Lard) though).
When dad's time in the Air Force ended he got a really good job in Benicia, Ca and decided to settle in Fairfield. They got married in 1968 and I came along in 1969 and my sister in 1972.
My parents were still married in 2016 when mom passed sleeping in his bed next to him.
It was kind of weird growing up. By the time I was in high school I was the only one out of my friends who had parents that were still married to each other.
My relationships always begin and end the same way, it starts with her saying “ Oooh you ride a motorcycle” and ends with “that thing is dangerous either it goes or I go”, but hay it’s just a matter which one I rode the most.
Talk about a double standard !
That's rough buddy
Motorcycles, although I don't personally ride them are not a valid reason for me to dump someone over. I have my passions and hobbies, I expect my partner to support and understand my passions therefore I support theirs. The right person will do the same for you. :)
robert mcriley LMFAOOO 😂😂😂😭
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This happened a long time ago, when texting and smart phones were the stuff of science fiction movies. In my junior year of college, I had been dating a girl for about a year and a half. I was totally mad about her and before her, had dated a dozen or so girls for several months months or more, 1 girl for 2 years. No one ever broke up with me, it was usually just drifting apart. That night, we had gone to see a movie that involved a couple breaking up. On the way home she asked my how I would break up with someone. I went on to describe how I would consider their feelings, tell them that we just aren't a good match, that the man of your dreams is out there, but we can't continue seeing each other, yada yada. After I got through with my monologue, she said "Maybe you should listen to your own advice". I was stunned. No girl breaks up with me!!!!! ( 🙄🙄🙄). Took me down a peg or three. I didn't see her again for about 5 months even though we went to the same college. I ended up asking her out again just before I graduated from college. Fast forward and as of today, we've been married for 52 years!!!!
Hey Charlotte, how’re you doing? Thank you for the new vid, your daily videos are the highlight of my day 🤩. Sending love 🇬🇧 💛 see you tomorrow x lol.
PS I’m planning to visit Toronto, once the global pandemic is over, to see my grandparents 🤞🏽 🇨🇦 ✈️
I wouldn’t want to date someone who says “I think we should BRAKE up” either. Dodged a bullet there. Holy shit.
The one who had the bed pee'd in suggests they see other people.
Hum. A urologist, perhaps?
My grandma and late grandpa only dated two weeks. Before they really knew each other, my grandpa told one of his friends that, one day, he was gonna marry my grandma. They told him, “but Gene, you don’t even know her.” He told them, “I’mma marry her.” And a couple years later they were married. They stayed married until my grandpa’s death in 2003. My grandma hasn’t seen anyone since his death.
It's pretty hilarious that you react the same way I would haha. Oh man, entertaining. This is the first of your videos I watch and I'm definitely going to keep watching and supporting!
I can't believe no one noticed your hair! It looks lovely. Thanks for the giggles.
"Can we still be friends?"
(Translation)
"Booty call?"😏
I’m still friends with my most recent ex. He’s my closest friend. And he’s still the one person I can trust with anything. We ended on good terms and we both can see a life where we aren’t in each others lives.
I feel like there’s more than one person living in dumpsville. 😂
Yeah probably XD
Portuguese and Italian share considerable similarities in both vocabulary and grammar, they could communicate somewhat.
To be honest I can't even get a date let alone a chance to break up with someone lol
i've had alot of online relationships, half my ex gf's were garbage by personality, the rest are treasures, the only reason i broke up with those treasures we couldn't schedule things right and because of differences between time zones we couldnt be online at the same time as the other, so we broke up, but when doing so, i told them i am not doing it out of hate or any kind of spite, were jsut unable to find the time to come online i tell them we will eb friends, noting will change for i still love them and i will always be happy to see them when they come online, i'm the same during the firendship, the same during the relationship and i'm the same after the relationship, i'm a silly guy who likes to put smiles on the faces of others, all the ex's i am on good terms with are always happy to see me because i always give them a happy message, never over doing it, i am a very huggy person in messaging
????? This was all online? Much easier to handle a relationship all online. LOL
@@nancysmith2389 i met them on secondlife, an online relationship is not as easy to manage as you think, people only come online when their work doesn't get in the way, a lot of them i was with for a long time because the scheduling worked, some of my exes i broke up with because they caused drama, they were either a catfish or just an asshole, secondlife is an adult game, its a social network too, but those that treat it as a simple game and treat those they meet like they're not real or like their garbage usually have no sense of self comprehension or reality, were all real people behind our screens, i say this because i came across so many people who by treating secondlife as a game and not as an extension of their reality, do not comprehend their own existence or their reality, in all honesty i am simplifying it or i'd be here for hours explaining how their view point makes not sense or is illogical, and i am simply trying to state in the best way i can that seconlife is a social network on a game format and many people fail to understand its a social network formatted as a game
My fiancé is friends with all his ex girlfirends, meet one of them and they are cool ^^
Nothing wrong being friends with an ex, it all deppends how it ended!
Some relationships are already in the friend zone when they break up so thats why they can ask can we still be friends. Yes I stayed for the kids when I should of left loooonnngggg ago. Thankfully we are only friends now.
I love these break up text for entertainment purposes only, for the solution for making my quarantine, And your funny vids you post, And on inform overload as well for me as a 14 year old (15 years old in September) To enjoy so, Sending lots of love, And appreciation from San Antonio, Texas USA!!! Stuff were in TX.. Thanks for making my quarantine,, And keep going, Because your making my quarantine!!!:D Stay safe, And Stay awesome!!!! TTYL!!!!!
Love your videos for making my quarantine!! Stay awesome!!!
Best movie break up line.
Last scene from the movie "Casablanca".
😁👍
♫ Don't take your love away from me
Don't you leave my heart in misery
If you go then I'll be blue
'Cause breaking up is hard to do ♫