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КОМЕНТАРІ • 161

  • @KiraUnofficial
    @KiraUnofficial Місяць тому +172

    Man, I started following Ben ten years ago. I was so inspired by his Instagram that I changed mine to reflect his style, with vibrant colours and happiness. I am not an influencer, but I tried to watch most of his videos. Now, at 28, I've gone through the ups and downs of life that everyone goes through. Whenever I watch Ben go through similar situations, I always feel for him like he's my brother. Sometimes I think about what has happened over all these years, and I reflect on where I am right now, Knowing that I am nowhere near him. Everyone faces struggles somehow, and I am glad to see him getting up and picking things up. Thanks, Ben!

    • @sammgrady
      @sammgrady Місяць тому +4

      Same here. I have been a long time watcher. I used to live in the USA when I started watching, now I live in the UK. I hope that one day one of my adventures take a path with Ben!

    • @lewiscuff8439
      @lewiscuff8439 Місяць тому +1

      Couldn’t resonate with this more! And then I bumped into his sister the other day and recognised her! Hopefully all our paths will cross 👌 blessings

    • @CentralCoastTop10
      @CentralCoastTop10 Місяць тому +3

      Same brotha we’re the same age actually I owe him and people like fun for Louis everything! 💯🙏 they started my love for adventures, photography, and even had a had part my weight loss journey! Truly thank you Ben

    • @shivamrai2886
      @shivamrai2886 Місяць тому +1

      same here

    • @HarryKay_
      @HarryKay_ Місяць тому +3

      yep. been watching Ben since my very early teens. now 24 years old. watching his journey - his ups and downs - does help oneself be at peace with our own. the internet is crazy.

  • @snapsbyiry
    @snapsbyiry Місяць тому +262

    Remember to work hard, be nice to people and try to not get lost or killed!
    Good job, Ben! 💚🤙

    • @MrBobmarleylegend
      @MrBobmarleylegend Місяць тому +20

      Mad nostalgia reading this

    • @BellHarrington
      @BellHarrington Місяць тому +2

      This outro needs to be brought back 👍

    • @snapsbyiry
      @snapsbyiry Місяць тому

      @@BellHarrington yes mate 🤙

    • @snapsbyiry
      @snapsbyiry Місяць тому

      @@MrBobmarleylegend indeed 😁

    • @kthnxlucas
      @kthnxlucas Місяць тому +1

      lol why am i crying...?

  • @anil_taneja
    @anil_taneja Місяць тому +22

    Ben, a normal job is good. It brings stability and routine into our life. I'm super happy for you and wish you well

  • @YoutuberJeremy
    @YoutuberJeremy Місяць тому +35

    Love these banters - growing up is weird, friends going in different directions is weird, feeling the pressure of how to act at each age is weird - but like you said. I want to enjoy my life. Keep up the lovely journey.

  • @dmdominator
    @dmdominator Місяць тому +30

    “Wheres alfie?”
    *georgie looking back*😂

  • @FlorenceRyan
    @FlorenceRyan Місяць тому +32

    Hey! Usually, I'm a silent watcher but just wanted to say hi, and thanks for these little vlogs and updates. It's nice to see you evolve and go through different chapters in life. It seems like this job is good for you, now you can be creative just for fun and without any pressure of results. All the best!☺

    • @ingvar1996
      @ingvar1996 Місяць тому +2

      What a surprise to see you here! 😃 I am loving project africa, looking forward to the rest of your films!

  • @Sxvxn
    @Sxvxn Місяць тому +3

    It can be so refreshing having those personal experiences without actually sharing them publicly after. I feel as though it reduces so much stress at times.

  • @ItsMadzHD
    @ItsMadzHD Місяць тому +6

    What an incredible opportunity for you! You being a kayak champion and being massively into cycling in your early youtube days is what got me into your vlogs and now you can mash that up with your incredible creative backround. Congrats!

  • @Lisa-km3gt
    @Lisa-km3gt Місяць тому +9

    I respect you so much for this! Good luck with your new career, you seem at peace and serene. Happy for you.

  • @rolo_061
    @rolo_061 Місяць тому +4

    congratulations Ben. We all know you will smash it. You were one of the best at one point when your creation was aired on BBC and not many UA-camrs made it back in the day.

  • @lolsaXx
    @lolsaXx Місяць тому +8

    I met Roaman while travelling 10 years ago. I actually met him through Sam Garrett who I met on a rainbow gathering in Spain and recognised from your vlogs. That feels like a very long time ago.. I used to live a very alternative and free life. Travelling on somewhat of a spiritual journey discovering more about myself, life and existence itself. Since becoming a mother 6 years ago I have found happiness in a sort of "normal" life. Living in one place, making a home and finding routines. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @bradglaum1432
    @bradglaum1432 Місяць тому +3

    I'm happy to see how well this video is doing. 29K views!!! This obviously complements your decision to work in the corporate environment. Congrats Ben! Best of luck.

  • @Mapleneckguitar
    @Mapleneckguitar Місяць тому +11

    You are doing great. All is well and you're living in the moment and planning for the future like us all. You're a pure talent I hope you know this. This art/craft isn't easy and you make it seem like it is. I love and enjoy all your vlogs. You are a HUMAN BEING, a real person who's not afraid to speak out loud to figure this all out like us all. And thats why we love following along as you face the challenges of your life, and thank god for them-yes? Think whatever you want, but I enjoy watching in the morning while making and having my coffee. You are wide awake.

  • @ellamcknight8946
    @ellamcknight8946 Місяць тому +3

    Hey Ben! I admire you speaking about social media and becoming more present in your life. I’m a yoga teacher, teaching through a pandemic online… as you can imagine it was a lot. I no longer have an online presence with my yoga business which I had built over a number of years. It is sad in a way. However, it made me realise how deeply unhappy I was being on my phone and creating so much content online that felt like it was getting lost and standing in just an echo chamber . It was really refreshing listening to you, made me feel a little less alone in our new digital world! So thankyou, new job sounds great 🥰

  • @jasminjaeger
    @jasminjaeger Місяць тому +2

    My addiction to the internet and my phone is a similar experience to yours. It has a negative effect on my life, my relationship with myself and others and most importantly, my overall health. So I am really conserned about changing it in my own pace. Being humble with myself as much as I can ❤ Wishing you the best Ben, nice to see you thriving and keep growing!

  • @ElizaBez
    @ElizaBez Місяць тому +2

    These years of making money with your vlogs were also seeds you planted for something greater in your life, everything are phases and everything changes, but what we build for ourselves don’t 💪 proud of your clarity and determination for a new path, you go Ben!!! 🎉

  • @JefferyRThomas
    @JefferyRThomas Місяць тому +1

    Normalcy and anonymity are a warm blanket money can't buy. I am a proud big brother watching your journey thru all these years

  • @theolympus593
    @theolympus593 Місяць тому +2

    Good to see you back mate!

  • @2785Luke
    @2785Luke Місяць тому +3

    I love going for walks without my phone. Makes me feel like a kid again when they didn’t exist! Social media is great but you’re right I do feel like I consume too much and scroll for the sake of it! Much love Ben

  • @kurtmilla1994
    @kurtmilla1994 Місяць тому +4

    Good to see Ben, gonna be honest i haven't caught up with your videos in quite some time, but glad to see the same old Ben i watched and admired. only up from here!

  • @pmaagphotog
    @pmaagphotog Місяць тому +1

    Loved this one Ben!! Been following for a long time and couldn’t agree more, sometimes a “job” isn’t so bad, it allows a bit of structure, consistent pay, and the best jobs still allow you to have freedom in your everyday life! Best of luck brotha!!

  • @DalshyTech
    @DalshyTech Місяць тому +1

    You have been one of my favorite creators man. Your talent is incredible and I'm glad you're getting into it again. So talented!

  • @seanjamescameron
    @seanjamescameron Місяць тому +4

    Nice to see you out and about, nights are starting to draw in already.

  • @julianveliz8659
    @julianveliz8659 Місяць тому +1

    It feels like if I was watching Ben 10 years ago. I can't wait to see what you have planned for us and your future. Always enjoy life and be grateful, thank you like always

  • @hudbud22
    @hudbud22 Місяць тому +4

    Love it, sometimes a bit of consistency can help a ton. Always wishing the best for you, Ben! Love from San Francisco

  • @primrose64au
    @primrose64au Місяць тому +1

    Hi Ben, nice to see you again. Glad the doggos are still around too. Good luck with your new ( real) job.

  • @iamraya
    @iamraya 26 днів тому

    Dude you are a master in your craft, some of the most epic videos I’ve watched are the ones you have made, like the Arctic Visual Vibes and many others you have done. You're sooooo skilled. Give yourself the credit you deserve, give yourself permission to let in acceptance of how gifted and talented you are.

  • @L0reburne
    @L0reburne Місяць тому +1

    Well done Ben....great to see fixed up with a job you will love!

  • @amberjane7889
    @amberjane7889 Місяць тому +2

    what a great development for you! So many talents to share and get paid for.

  • @ChrisBrainMusic
    @ChrisBrainMusic Місяць тому +1

    Well done Ben, I'm glad you realise how talented you are as a film maker, seriously. The Visual Vibes videos back in the day were and still are at the top of the game in terms of a 'DIY' filming approach. I'd love to see you channel more of your creativity in to your videos in the future if/when that feels right.
    I just know from my own perspective as a musician I'm always looking for film makers to help give visuals to my work. Maybe something to bear in mind x

  • @whoaitsbenn
    @whoaitsbenn Місяць тому +9

    Been watching and following since 13’~ 14’ can’t wait to see the growth

  • @AlphaCharly7
    @AlphaCharly7 Місяць тому +1

    Hey ben, i love all the life updates you give us. I am happy to be on this side of youtube where we all share our lives with no judgment.
    Keep sharing your love for life with other brothers online. It’s beautiful to have a community of people with the same mission to love life. ❤

  • @louisaeb
    @louisaeb Місяць тому +1

    so happy to see you happy :) been watching your videos for over 10 years now...much love

  • @mastandstars5869
    @mastandstars5869 Місяць тому +1

    Always nice to hear from you 🥰
    You look peaceful and happy

  • @Mapleneckguitar
    @Mapleneckguitar Місяць тому +2

    Can't wait to hear about the new job. Engaged with people. Tackling issues and problems - alright! Honestly I'm surprised a company hasn't hired you to do PR and helping them with there companies PR/Products/Employees.

  • @chrxsk
    @chrxsk Місяць тому +1

    This was a really calming video to watch, glad to see you're doing well mate

  • @SisterJanet
    @SisterJanet Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations on the new job and this exciting new phase of your life. I'm sure you'll smash it.

  • @Electricalwav
    @Electricalwav Місяць тому +1

    This new job just made me remember the early kayak vlogs!

  • @zandershouse
    @zandershouse Місяць тому +1

    finding your peace mate! glad to see you on this new journey

  • @phynx2006
    @phynx2006 Місяць тому +1

    The scenery on your early morning walk was beautiful, there's no other word for it 🌅. All the best on the new work chapter👍👍

  • @luckehandyman
    @luckehandyman Місяць тому +1

    Glad to hear about your new job, This is a great thing!

  • @57northphoto32
    @57northphoto32 Місяць тому +3

    Your bang on about the doom scrolling, we’re all guilty. Put the phone/pad down and just get on with it. Keep it for the things you really want to interact with, easier said than done but with a bit of practice. Good luck with the job👍🏻

  • @nshoopns
    @nshoopns Місяць тому +1

    Enjoyed your vibe - Being happy & doing things you enjoy definitely energises you

  • @RichStays
    @RichStays Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for sharing these thoughts. I can relate to your story and still inspired!

  • @tralalanick9318
    @tralalanick9318 Місяць тому +1

    Proud of you, Ben. You are one of the most creative youtubers that I follow.

  • @jessemather-moore9145
    @jessemather-moore9145 Місяць тому +2

    We love you Ben no matter what it is you do

  • @tljoshh
    @tljoshh Місяць тому +1

    Keep at it, Ben. Lovely to hear your updates. 💪

  • @PatDellzena
    @PatDellzena Місяць тому +1

    Ben I've watched you since you started vlogging. Happy your back in England with your family. Love seeing your mom and dad and the dogs. Hope "Stinky" is also doing well. Best wishes on your new job. Take care.

  • @sabinemetz
    @sabinemetz Місяць тому +1

    Love this for you, Ben!! Such a beautiful opening ✨🌼 Thanks for sharing as always :-)

  • @lucian_73
    @lucian_73 Місяць тому +6

    That's crazy. I needed this vlog. Just last week I decided to delete my Facebook,Snapchat, Twitter and TikTok and I already sleep better. I am 51 years old and i have no joy of any of those things. Thank Ben!!!

  • @mandyabusahliya2660
    @mandyabusahliya2660 Місяць тому +1

    I would love to see some behind the scenes vlogs of your new "normal job", sounds interesting ❤

  • @patdinco
    @patdinco 21 день тому

    Happy to see you uploading again Ben

  • @GaryStockton
    @GaryStockton Місяць тому +1

    That’s great to hear Ben, I think that’s a really great path.

  • @makesharevictoria
    @makesharevictoria Місяць тому

    Can I just say ~ that you are one in a million when it comes to what you created/offered for all of those years of vlogging! Your storytelling, cinematography, music matching and expressed passion were outstanding (for all those years of videos/films). I am only using 'past tense' as you are doing something quite different now, and that's a positive thing, healthy evolution it seems. Past Ben meet Now Ben!

  • @jessicarossman2966
    @jessicarossman2966 Місяць тому

    This job sounds super cool and totally in your lane.

  • @amitkhatri883
    @amitkhatri883 Місяць тому +1

    Congrats Ben! On the new job and another beautiful video.

  • @nexusyang4832
    @nexusyang4832 Місяць тому

    2:49 - i think that is great that you can choose that for yourself and i hope you will continue to just share what you want to share. It's healthy and at least to me seems more sustainable in the long run.

  • @daniel1996johnson
    @daniel1996johnson Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations on the new job, hope it all works out well for you 😊

  • @DaniloSantanaSilva
    @DaniloSantanaSilva Місяць тому +1

    Hope everything goes well for you. Sending you love from Brazil

  • @garrisonlocking4234
    @garrisonlocking4234 Місяць тому +1

    i freaking love and miss you Ben!!

  • @mattie_world
    @mattie_world Місяць тому +2

    Wow, Ben is so back!!!!

  • @amritmangharam9292
    @amritmangharam9292 Місяць тому +1

    You used to make spectacular vlogs! Good to have you back.

  • @marguiWaterland
    @marguiWaterland Місяць тому +1

    Cograts Ben for all this new feelings ✨✨✨✨

  • @guilleflor3566
    @guilleflor3566 Місяць тому +1

    Happy for you Ben!🙌🙌🙌

  • @earthenclay
    @earthenclay Місяць тому +4

    100% have been experiencing a similar feeling with the internet, filling life with meaningful moments, and releasing to make space for what the universe has next. Great stuff Ben :)

  • @LukeBland
    @LukeBland Місяць тому +1

    The hoodie looks great, Ben! 🙌🏼

  • @liamgell
    @liamgell Місяць тому +1

    Definitely having a similar experience, Ben. I deleted Instagram 5 weeks ago, after realising that it contributed nothing to my life. I don't have any social media now, only UA-cam for entertainment. I feel lighter and do not reach for my phone anymore. I hope more people my age (I'm 25) can experience similar. Good to see you Ben.

  • @TunnelJumper
    @TunnelJumper Місяць тому +2

    6:31 Aries Moon mode engaged!

  • @KoohaEbuyer
    @KoohaEbuyer Місяць тому +1

    I like it Ben where this is going, bravo

  • @bradspence8346
    @bradspence8346 Місяць тому

    Good to see and hear from you Ben!

  • @maxinerobson5336
    @maxinerobson5336 Місяць тому

    Really happy for you, Ben. Excited to see more content too; one of the first people I watched on YT with any great conviction back in the day. (OG from the old, old days) Nothing you’ve done so far has been wasted; life is a wiggly old path. Wishing you all the best, young man. ✌️ ❤

  • @hennagal7360
    @hennagal7360 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks - really enjoyed that walk - feels like the same exciting, open-minded exploration Ben , you describe your new job as a conventional option but its outside of the box for you because its outside the paradigm of your previous chapter - I have a family member whose hobbies are animation and football who got a job with a football club in their video editing suite and he is thriving on the energy of combining interests - what a great chance to bring your excitement and experience of sporting trials, dedication, and triumphs and add them to the mix they must be thrilled to have a new crew member who is so relateable for the athletes they sponsor - well done Universe - thats not humility thats flexibility - Respect I am just learning this week about the brain chemistry angle on social media - wow the phone can be like an xbox controller , choose what you stream and open the tap to stream adrenaline, cortisol , hypnotic calm and the most addictive ....dopamine whoah in to your brain 😵‍💫 - never been a more vital time to be part of a collective consciousness though - thanks for bringing your energy to it

  • @teeganegerton5472
    @teeganegerton5472 Місяць тому +1

    Ben! this is so awesome! everything you shared, excited for you even though I don't know you; I've been following you for years and it's beautiful to have a very small insight into your journey! Your vulnerability and courage to heal, to walk, to fail, to stay curious, true to self and also surrender to the process too whilst staying in alignment to your values!! I feel really inspired and encouraged as I am embark on my next steps with big decisions regarding how I make money/ invest in my time; so what you shared there was spot on!! so thank you! All the best with this new venture!! wise decision and I have a good feeling about this for you :)

  • @michaela_prochazkova
    @michaela_prochazkova Місяць тому +1

    I resonate with words in the vlog so much! 🙏🏼✨

  • @sbutler66
    @sbutler66 Місяць тому

    Soounds like an awesome confluence of interests! Everything happens for a reason, enjoy the journey!

  • @alyttpijpker7625
    @alyttpijpker7625 Місяць тому

    Big step for you, you're looking healthy and happy Ben

  • @hawkmaza5551
    @hawkmaza5551 Місяць тому +1

    Great words said in this video.

  • @Mr.Jaap8
    @Mr.Jaap8 Місяць тому +1

    Fun fun fun, great seeing you have fun😇

  • @MattNav
    @MattNav Місяць тому

    Congrats on the new job Ben! Always love seeing your videos pop up on my notification page 👍🏻😎

  • @lewiscuff8439
    @lewiscuff8439 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for being real 🙏

  • @sanderthorsen5797
    @sanderthorsen5797 Місяць тому +2

    YES BEN

  • @CaseyWiggin
    @CaseyWiggin Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations Ben

  • @gulden_lover
    @gulden_lover Місяць тому

    That's the best video that I've seen recently.
    So happy for you.

  • @living_silence
    @living_silence Місяць тому +1

    Congrats Ben, I think this job is gonna be really good for you. And.. the true essence of life in unsharable anyway, let's not forget that. Best, Luis

  • @Albert5522
    @Albert5522 Місяць тому +1

    Time for humanity as a whole to discern what is good and what is not in terms of internet usage. We've ploughed head first without thinking, into a world less connected while thinking it was more so. It's complex as we have personal relationships maintained via the internet that can put extra pressure on things, but I think it's time we make it serve us than visa versa, IRL over everything!

    • @Albert5522
      @Albert5522 Місяць тому

      Is that St Catherine's Hill Christchurch? Thought you were based somewhere in this area having met you once near the New Forest if so

  • @TobiasDahlhaus
    @TobiasDahlhaus Місяць тому +1

    Pf&H? Nice one mate! Great to see you back on it.

  • @soaljack
    @soaljack Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for being so honest. I am also struggeling with the hungry ghost of content consumption.

  • @GuidedByMark
    @GuidedByMark Місяць тому

    Brother this is awesome, your journey and your look on life, experiences is meaningful. As you grow and learn, constantly challenging yourself and not afraid to deal with real life. Trying new things and see what works for you and what doesn’t is important. Internet limits is and puts in a box and of course depending how we use social media, what we share. It’s all about wether it’s with purpose and our choice, we must continue grow and evolve outside of social media and bring our growth and knowledge to social media to inspire and to help others

  • @MrT4sure
    @MrT4sure Місяць тому +1

    I'm so pleased you have a job, and in an industry that you enjoy - I hope this van life idea fades - it's a lonely life and sooooo done already, do van weekends instead if you must. Real life is family and friends, having hobbies and passions. I bought into YOU, all those years ago, and that's what I like now.
    You have an audience, of people who just like what you get up to, you don't have to try hard, just include us every so often and we will still watch.
    Grasp what you now have and you'll make a go of it for sure. Enjoy!
    And I'm another vote for the OG outro too... and maybe a paddle on a river somewhere .- just saying 🙏

  • @WildwoodCastle
    @WildwoodCastle Місяць тому +1

    Ben you have to find what is right for you and do it... All of us out here in internet land will follow along...

  • @JamesLaveryPhotography
    @JamesLaveryPhotography Місяць тому +1

    Put the phone in gray scale mode! You'll significantly reduce the screen time with that one tip!!!

  • @saranrain
    @saranrain Місяць тому

    happy for you ben!! :)

  • @benpye2376
    @benpye2376 Місяць тому

    Ben that is some serious nostalgia, the days of Jeremy and SP.

  • @KarlMarkusAntson
    @KarlMarkusAntson Місяць тому +2

    Looking like Orlando Bloom

  • @julienlanglois1576
    @julienlanglois1576 Місяць тому +1

    Hell YEAH Ben ! I am so so happy for you. So good to see you so light and free!
    Love love from Québec

  • @christianadventure
    @christianadventure Місяць тому

    It sounds like you are on a very good path. I once was on a path to try to make a living on UA-cam making videos (didn’t ever come anywhere close. Haha!). But having income coming from other sources and just being able to enjoy making videos that I enjoy making is truly a breath of fresh air and a feeling of freedom for sure. Having a reason and purpose for making videos other than views and money really takes pressure and stress out of a persons life and makes it feel more meaningful. God bless!

  • @LPMOVIESTVSofficial
    @LPMOVIESTVSofficial Місяць тому

    hope you been good ben mate

  • @louis93189
    @louis93189 Місяць тому

    Loved this

  • @niquilnumba2
    @niquilnumba2 Місяць тому +1

    Wow its nice to see a familiar face 😊

  • @justrelaxxxxx
    @justrelaxxxxx Місяць тому +1

    Hi Ben, I hope you get the chance to read this. I have been a follower of yours since the old days. (2015 more or less)
    I think the main reason you lost most of your audience might be because your channel became very introspective. And to be honest, there is nothing wrong with that. But it doesn't scream out to the wider (youthful / younger) audience that wants instant gratification and immediate laughs. But I will say this - your "newly introspective" take on life and intellectual views DO indeed apply to some people. Myself included.
    I guess the big question is ... where do you want your revenue and audience to come from? Do you be genuine and do what you do now or keep things a bit more compact and less deep? It totally up to you at the end of the day. But just know I still listen to your words and appreciate them fully. Much love - keep going brother (Fellow Cape Townian)