Tribute to Timmy Memorial Video (view instructions to watch with sound👇)

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  • Опубліковано 19 вер 2024
  • It has taken me a while to upload Timmy’s Memorial Video. It brings me to tears each time I watch it so it was rather emotional to pull it together.
    This video is a 25 minute journey from diagnosis to death and everything in between.
    It is a tribute to friends, family, neighbors, and the first rate care team at Froedtert Memorial Hospital who walked with us so many steps along the way. It takes a village to keep a family and farmstead running amidst a time like this. Your presence, and presents!, allowed us to keep our focus on Tim’s care. We THANK YOU and we LOVE YOU more than words can say!
    For best listening, set yourself up to watch in a quiet space with a box of tissue.
    If you want to watch WITH music, as shown during Tim’s Memorial Service, here is the Apple Music playlist.👇
    / tribute-to-timmy-video
    **IMPORTANT**
    Cue the video and music up on two separate devices and press start on each device at the same time! For copyright reasons, I could not embed the music directly into the video. Sound quality will be better this way anyway😁!
    If you don’t have Apple Music but have another way to cue up songs, they are as follows in this order:
    1. What’s Up (4 Non Blondes)
    2. Let it Be (The Beatles)
    3. Three Little Birds (Bob Marley and The Wailers)
    4. Ripple (Grateful Dead)
    5. Into the Mystic (Van Morrison)
    6. Time to Say Goodbye (Sarah Brightman and Andrea Bocelli)
    Timmy listened to the lyrics in these songs often as they really resonated with his heart. I invite you to listen to them too. Crossing my fingers this works for those of you who want to see it!
    Godspeed!
    Kelly

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  • @Marymary999-h8s
    @Marymary999-h8s Місяць тому

    Simply beautuful.
    Thank you Kelly.
    💚💚💚💚🙏🏻

  • @westfield90
    @westfield90 Місяць тому +4

    Ahhh rest in peace my friend. Free from the stress, worries and pain of life living with such a terrible disease. God bless you and all of your wonderful family.

  • @lindarice8876
    @lindarice8876 Місяць тому

    not many words...only love and admiration for your entire lovely family, friends, neighbors, helpers, hospital staff

  • @sueberg5685
    @sueberg5685 Місяць тому

    Truly a “Superman” with a “SUPERFAMILY”. Thank you for sharing🫶🏻✌🏻🙏🏻.

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому

      Your welcome. Thanks for watching Sue! And for your kindness and support along the way.

  • @alligator_pie
    @alligator_pie Місяць тому +1

    He was, and still is, loved by so many. I felt connected to humankind viewing this . Our bodies are frail and our time is short, but one senses something beyond those limitations .

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому +3

      Yes indeed. I felt that too so much as I was preparing myself to release him on his final rite of passage. I felt him slip behind a veil that’s for his eyes only. I knew it was coming and then I felt it instantly when he exited his body. We treat life here as if it’s permanent and we mourn a death as if it’s a forever goodbye. I like the idea of death being a rite of passage as it somehow makes the hardship of this life that we all go through to one degree or another more bearable.

  • @magnoliamonkeyd4457
    @magnoliamonkeyd4457 Місяць тому

    J'aime votre philosophie de vie. Que votre mari repose en paix aupres du seigneur. Vous etes vous même un super-héros

  • @vancekershaw6876
    @vancekershaw6876 Місяць тому

    Thank you Kelly and you have a beautiful family

  • @lesliefortie8347
    @lesliefortie8347 Місяць тому

    Beautiful tribute to Tim and all of your family and friends❤

  • @bernadettedevine3085
    @bernadettedevine3085 Місяць тому +2

    Couldn’t watch more than a couple of minutes.
    What a beautiful and wonderful soul.
    Sending everyone love as he did did x❤❤❤

  • @PoetSkyMSA0227
    @PoetSkyMSA0227 Місяць тому +1

    I don’t have the words .. but Kelly ~ Ty . 🙏

  • @tomnewhouse7782
    @tomnewhouse7782 Місяць тому +1

    RIP Tim your wife has this along with help!

  • @carmenjones1045
    @carmenjones1045 Місяць тому

    Beautiful tribute, thanks for sharing Kelly! ❤

  • @AnneMarieBibby1966
    @AnneMarieBibby1966 Місяць тому +1

    Kelly and the girls. Tim/dad was a modern day super hero. He fought with courage, grace, and strength. It was truly an amazing feat for all he had endured.
    Kelly, you did a beautiful job on this video. Tim will be forever imprinted on your hearts and lives on through the girls.
    Girls,
    You had an amazing dad, a superhero who I'm sure is watching over you all.
    Sending much love.
    Annemarie in Massachusetts ❤
    O "fly on" by Coldplay for you, Tim. It's a beautiful song ....Rest easy.

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому +1

      Anne Marie, thank you! Your words are so kind. I will share them with the girls. Since I first read your comment I’ve listened to Fly On so many times. I’ve heard that song many times before but listened in a new way. The lyrics are perfect. Thank you for that💕

    • @AnneMarieBibby1966
      @AnneMarieBibby1966 Місяць тому +1

      @kellyisabelledemarco You are so welcome. I knew it would 🩷
      Songs are funny - as you said, you've listened to it many times before. The difference is now you feel it, and it changes the way we listened to it. 🤗
      Music I personally feel has been my best therapy over the last 5 decades. 😊 ( working on 6 ) LOL
      Sending love and hugs! Ox

  • @forlisac1
    @forlisac1 Місяць тому

  • @josephflynn8158
    @josephflynn8158 Місяць тому +3

    I wept.

    • @Marymary999-h8s
      @Marymary999-h8s Місяць тому

      Me too

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому +1

      Me too. Every time. It’s strange how you can watch and re-live it over and over. Each time I do, I’m struck by how many times he smiled amidst the hardship. That gives me peace to see. He truly experienced each day as a gift of more time with those he loved.

    • @josephflynn8158
      @josephflynn8158 Місяць тому

      @@kellyisabelledemarco You are both true warriors.

  • @GreenSangha
    @GreenSangha Місяць тому

    What a beautiful family, beautiful community, beautiful tribute. Your music selections are perfect. You have shown such grace and love, and have honored Tim's unique and special life well. I don't know what happens after our bodies fail us, but I know we are more than our bodies. Some part of who we are will continue to exist and Tim will always live inside of you, your family, and all who knew him. He is also alive in the farm that you two dreamed, planned and labored into being. Each day as the sun rises on your beloved home and land - as you feed the chickens, work the soil, and harvest and prepare your food - it reflects Tim's presence in the world. Love those girls, feel all the feelings, and keep Tim's story going as you continue the beautiful life that you and Tim built together. May you find beauty and peace in each day.

  • @christinesorensen8050
    @christinesorensen8050 Місяць тому

    Wow, Kelly I’m sure that was hard to make. Since I wasn’t here until after his passing, this was a great summary of what you all experienced during that time. And a nice introduction to Tim and something of him as a person. I’m so sorry your life together was shortened by a terrible disease. It appears you made the most of your time together as a family.

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Christine. I’m glad you felt you got a sense for Tim as a person a little more. He was quite a likable gentle spirited guy with a lot of passion and persistence. I’m so thankful I had the wherewithal to snap these pics along the way so that I, and anyone else close to him who wants to, can remember him and the journey we all traveled together during this phase of his life. I shared it with his oncologist too. What a blessing that man was to us. He shot straight about his prognosis but always left room for determination and miracles…and leaned in hard to match Timmy’s will to survive.

  • @people_watcher
    @people_watcher Місяць тому +1

    I don't have another device until my husband gets home but I watched (watching) anyway. I'll watch again with music later. How are you doing Kelly?

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for asking. I’m good. My big transition from driving to the office to working from home starting a business and farming and being full time mama begins Friday. I’m delighted for this shift. 💕✨

    • @people_watcher
      @people_watcher Місяць тому

      @@kellyisabelledemarco Sounds exciting and a like a full plate. I wish you the best and I'll stay tuned for your progress report ❤

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому +1

      @@people_watcher thank you!

  • @wendymichiko
    @wendymichiko Місяць тому

    Oh Kelly, this was absolutely beautiful. Look at all
    that love surrounded him. I can’t believe we’re already in the month of August…time is just flying. Thank you for sharing this incredibly heartfelt, tender, warm video.
    Question, how are your furry family members dealing with Timmy’s absence?

    • @kellyisabelledemarco
      @kellyisabelledemarco  Місяць тому +1

      They are doing okay. The cats have been resorting back to pre-kitty litter trained days. I bought metal bins to replace the plastic and that’s helping a lot. Cash is living his final days I believe. He’s 15 and age is catching up with him a lot.