이 정신에 백일잔치는 했다는..ㅋㅋㅋ영상 못 만들고 사진으로 담았어요! instagram.com/gabiekook and we celebrated her 100th day in this chaos!lol you can check my IG for pictures of the day, couldn't vlog it!
My oldest son was feeding a lot he was so hungry I couldn’t sleep. He screamed all the time. My pediatrician recommended that add baby rice cereal, like the ones you can feed to babies when they start eating. So I found the instructions on the internet and did it. The first day I gave it to him he slept 8 HOURS!!! I THOUGHT HE DIED!!! I kept checking to make sure he was breathing. That night I still didn’t sleep because I was worried. I’d only enough rice to help with his hunger during the day. I felt so day because I was a new mom and I didn’t provide enough food for him cuz I didn’t know. The mom guilt is horrendous. Every one said you didn’t know. You know now but in my brain I was like I DESERVED TO BE BUT TO DEATH BY FIRING SQUAD. When I told my husband that he said who’d take care of the baby? My brain 🤯 My oldest son is grown now. When I told him about it he said if I wasn’t there to be with him he would have been so sad. He still eats a lot several times a day.
가비님 저 나이대 애들은 잘 때 완전히 어둡게 해야 해요 낮이든 밤이든. 수면 공간에는 무조건 암막커튼 사서 달아두시고, 수면등으로 온전하게 간접등으로만 수유나 기저귀 갈 수 있는 환경 조성해주시면 되구요. 그리고 목 힘을 더 기를 수 있는 터미타임도 곧 하게 되면 할 수 있게 해주는 게 좋고, 그래서 에너지를 최대한 스스로 소모할 수 있게 도와주는 게 좋아요. 그리고 밑에 분들이 얘기하신 것 같이 철분이나 비타민 등이 부족하거나 치아가 막 생성되는 시기라 수면 패턴 교육에 잠시 이슈가 생길 수 있는 부분이라 세 문제 우선 파악해보시는 게 좋아요. 내 자녀가 어떤 것에 불편함을 느끼는지 알아가는 것도 부모의 역할이니까요! 항상 조가비 부부와 쥴리를 응원하고 애정하고 있습니다. 아 그리고 가정에서는 되도록 하나의 언어만 사용해주시는 게 좋아요! 지금 나이대는 가정에서는 한국어만 사용하고, 외부에서는 영어 사용 비율을 높이는 게 더 언어 교육에 좋을 거예요. 쥴리가 두 언어를 혼란 없이 자연스럽게 받아들이고 사용하기도 좋아요! 영상 너무 잘 보고 있습니다❤
호옥~~~시 줄리 앞니가 올라오고 있는지 확인해 보세요. 보통 평균적으로 6개월령부터 나오기 시작하는데.. 조금 빨리 나오기도 하거든요. 제 큰아이가 아기때 줄리처럼 통잠 잘 잤었는데 자꾸 깨길래 알고보니 아래 앞니가 올라오더라구요.. 그때가 생후 4개월이었어요. 유치 빨리 나오는 아이들은 유치 빠지고 영구치 나오는 시기도 조금 빠르더라구요. 치아 때문에 그런 게 아니면.. 아기가 철분이 모자란 경우에도 자주 깨요. 모유수유의 경우... 한쪽 가슴을 보통 15분 이상씩 양쪽 다 먹이는 게 원칙인데, 짧게 먹으면 수분 성분이 많은 전유만 많이 먹고, 영양 성분이 많은 후유는 덜 먹어요. (전유는 묽은 쌀뜨물 색깔, 후유는 하얀 우유 같이 나와요.) 그렇게 짧게 자주 수유하는 습관이 들게 되면 아이가 철분이 부족해지는 경우가 있거든요. 너무 자주 깬다면 꼭 체크해 보세요. 두 아이 24개월씩 완모하느라 공부했던 것들이 그래도 아직 기억이 나네요 ^^;; 줄리 엄마 화이팅이예요~
Dear Gabie, watching you and Josh being parents really makes me have mixed feeling. I took care my baby by myself literally. No help at all. I didn't have enough sleep for a year or so and it caused brain fog that won't go away. Once my baby and I had high fever and I still woke up all night long to nurse her. She needed more milk because of the fever. Even the doctor wondered how I could still breastfeed the baby in that high fever. Moms could do impossible things. We cry but then we crawl if we have to. My babies are 18 and 6 today. Time flies. Fighting!
Fighting to all moms! 🤧🤧 I too take care to my baby alone at home. My husband was only able to take one week off during the C-section. It was hard but we're going strong! She's six months and one today. 🌸
Gabbie I just wanted to let you know that you're doing such an amazing job of interacting with and playing with Julie! No wonder she sleeps well when she gets to use all her senses so much🩷
This is when the grandparents can help on the weekends so you can get a nap or just a little time for rest. Take care of you. You look great and also like you are a wonderful mummy. Sometimes we mums just need a little me time.
I just wanted to take a moment to tell you how deeply moved I am by the way you love your daughter. The way you shower her with such kind, encouraging words and so much care is truly inspiring. It's clear that you are such an amazing mother, and your love for her shines through in everything you do. She is incredibly lucky to have you guiding her with such warmth and tenderness.
Gabie is glowing in every video since Julie is born. Motherhood suits her so so so much. Like we can see she’s so so so happy and bursting w love. Every vlog now is full of laughter.
1:54 😆 her eyes 🤭👀 the shock of waking up in a new spot on a more serious note though, it really does take a village to raise a child, ask for support from family and friends in need, I'm sure you won't be disappointed It's nice to have someone help out even if it's for like 4 hrs or something to help you sneak in naps and catch up on rest
I love watching these vlogs you put out with your baby. As someone who doesn’t have children and never will by choice. Its just healing for me to see how you’re raising your child with so much care and love while giving her all that she needs to develop and prosper in her life later on. Because i feel like i never had that growing up in a home where both parents were emotionally unavailable.
맞아요. 철분.비타민D 부족일수 있어요.. 고등학생 큰애. 정량 먹여도 영양 부족과 잦은 잔병치레. 유전자 검사를 해보니 철분과 비타민C.D가 흡수가 잘 안되는 몸인것을 뒤늦게 알았더랬죠. 철분이 부족한 사람은 손톱이 선천적으로 얇아요. 고되지만 행복한 육아~ 화이팅 하세요~😊
This is life Gabby and babies arent easy especially first five months when sleeping schedule is not set, it gets better. I did it myself as my husband passed. I never seem to sleep and it was even hard to bath if she was awake lol. Having kids changes your life wonderfully but at times not as wonderful an it’s ok to say it
You sleep when baby sleeps, eat properly and spend time bonding with Julie. Let everything else go. It’s a temporary situation and goes by so quickly. Your health and baby is more important than anything else. Don’t expect too much of yourself and set you and Julie as priority.
It looks like Juli is at the stage when she needs to adjust her schedule. When you don't have Josh there because of work, it isn't cold or cruel to let her cry if Juli been fed or doesn't have a soiled diaper or you already have had playtime. She will see that Mommy loves her but needs her time to unwind. Nap when she naps so you have the energy to continue without feeling so drained. You and Josh are excellent parents and will see it will get better. Bless you all
통닭구이 당하는 줄리 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 넘웃교 블라인드는 한국말로도 블라인드예요ㅋㅋ 아기 깨있을 때 계속 플레이해주지 말고 혼자 놀게 냅두고 가비님 쉬셨으면 좋겠어요 엄마가 덜 힘들었으면 좋겠어요! 근데 책잌ㅋㅋㅋ4개월 아기가 보기에 너무 어려운ㅋㅋㅋㄱ웃겨욬ㅋㅋ초딩 저학년책 아니냐며..엄마아빠사랑은 감동❤❤
Gabie you are doing a great job mothering and interacting with Julie … she is precious and growing up. It can be a challenge however taking naps when she does can help. Never forget yourself because you are just as important. Do your in-laws live close by..they can always help out. If I lived near you I would help you out 🤗. Lots of love to you, Josh and Julie 🙏🏻❤️
These stages go by in a flash. One day, not so long from now, you will turn around and wonder where the time has gone! Try to nap at least one time while Julie is sleeping. You're doing a wonderful job; your love for her shines from every pore of your body.🤗💗
soon you'll have to start planning solids and will get busier but she'll sleep better with a fuller belly (fingers crossed). you're doing great Gabie and Josh!
When a friends asks to help, let them. It feels impossible to do, like you're somehow a bad mom, and being selfish, I've been there. But let them watch Julie for a few hours so you can sleep. No chores. No cooking. Just sleep. You need it.
늘~ 응원하면서도 댓글은 남기지 않았었는데 오늘 한번 용기내어서! 저도 두 애들 만 두 살 전까지 모유 먹여서 키웠는데.. 분유 먹이면 더 잘 잔다고 주변에서 그렇게들 훈수들 두셔서 혹!하기도 했지만..꾹꾹 그 유혹 참고 모유를 고집했답니다. 이런 저런 육아 노하우들..경험치들에서 우러나오는 격려와 잔소리들 훈계들.. 다들 애들 키워 본 엄마의 마음이겠거니 하세요. 키워보니..같은 배에서 나와도 애 성향마다 너무 달라요..그에 따라 육아 방식도 부모가 맞추는 수 밖에 없구요. 정답이 없는 게 안타깝게도 육아 같습니다. 영상보면 충~~분히 잘 하고 계셔요~ 내 아이가 원하는 거 엄마인 내가 가장 잘 알지요. 잘 잤다가 잘 안 잤다가..편하게 지나가는 듯 하다가..갑자기 훅 바뀌기도하고.. 사람 하나 만드는 일이 정말 엄마에게는 온 우주의 힘을 빌어 정성을 쏟아내야하는..어렵지만 위대한 일임에는 틀립없으니! 통잠이 없어지고 쪽잠만 남은 지금의 어려운 날들도 조만간 또 금방 지나가고, 통잠의 시대가 다시 열리리라 믿습니다! 육아를 하고 계시는 모든 엄마들 사랑합니다! 그리고 존경합니다!
Your baby is so cute. Please don’t tape your mouth at night. It’s normal to open your mouth when you sleep. Just drink water when you wake up in the morning with a “dry mouth”.
You're doing such a great job of stimulating Julie both physically and mentally. You should be proud of that. However, one of the reasons you're so tired is that you aren't eating enough protein. Blueberry muffins are my favorite too, but there's no nutritional value in them. It seems as if all the food you film yourself eating is very high in carbs and very low in protein, so eat more protein and a lot less carbs.
아기 자기전에 맛사지 많이 시켜주세요 그럼 더 잘 자는것 같더라구요 글구 애기랑 노는거 체력 많이 들어요ㅋ 애기랑 최대한 많이 눈맞추고 대화하면 아이가 어휘능력도 좋아지고 정서발달도 좋아진다고 하네요 사실 저도 애기들 클 때 넘 힘들어서 운 적 많아요 가비씨 아직 산후우울증 올 시기라 더 그럴거에요 전 애기한테 제대로 못해주는 부족하고 이기적인 엄마라는 죄책감땜에 힘들었는데 엄마도 사람이고 처음 엄마된잖아요 완벽할순 없죠 다들 그러는거같더라구요 가비씨는 저보다 더 잘하고 있으니 지금처럼만 하시면 될거같아요 힘든시기도 금방 가요 힘내세요^^
I’ve noticed you and Josh don’t get a babysitter when you two go out to eat? Maybe you should get a part time babysitter, Gabie. Just for times when you and Josh wanna go out together or when you’re really tired and just want to sleep for a few hours.
During adult time 19:06 I'm cracking up at Brie, she's also going through it all with you guys. She looks like she had a lonnnnng day. I love watching your journey as a mother. You got this Gabie!
Girl you look and sound good being all sleep deprived. I don’t remember being able to leave the house much at all due to just not feeling like myself and panicking that this zombie mode would never stop 🥲 Of course it does end at some point but it’s so stressful to not know when.
Oh Gabie... I am so sorry sleep has been rough... it sounds like classic sleep regression. Up until this age babies have no circadian rhythm but around now they are starting to develop one.... it is a really rough deal and I remember being so sleep deprived and jealous of families who claimed their babies always slept thru the night. You've got this Gabie! You have a whole village behind you as you're going thru this rough sleep patch!!!
You are such a wonderful mother. And it’s so moving to see you interact with Julie. Because you mentioned sleep training: I know that sleep training is still a thing in UK. I don’t want to judge any other parents, but studies have shown that sleep training in all forms is really traumatizing for babies. They go into a state of dissociation if parents let them scream or limit physical contact. So, that is all I wanted to write for my peace of mind. As a mother I know how horrific sleep deprivation can be. And that sleep training seems like a good solution… but it is just for the parents. So I hope that you never consider this for sweet Julie. And I hope that Julie goes back to her long sleep stretches after her sleep regression. Fingers crossed for you! 🤞🏼🩷
Oh my heavens no! No, I have 7 incredible children and they were ALL sleep trained and it does NOT do anything of the kind. It usually lasts 2-5 days and then the child is a beautiful sleeper and HIGHLY attached.
Enjoy this time She will never be this cute and small for long. Once she starts walking and going to kindergarten school then and only then will you finally get a breather.
Baby Julie is the most adorable and beautiful baby girl I have ever seen…. She’s absolutely darling 💕She looks more like Josh, but just as pretty as her Momma ! I have been watching your channel from the beginning and love your cooking. I am now more addicted to watching little baby Julie!
She's so good at tummy time! Great strength. People forget how important tummy time is and then the baby ends up having to wear a helmet so they don't get a flat head.
From one mom to the next, get help. Breaks my heart to see you shouldering most of the responsibilities... I mean, if this is a typical day, then I can see why you're exhausted. Sleep deprivation is one thing but all that mental load to take care of a baby and the house is also taxing. When I had my baby (he's 14 now!), my husband and I were determined to do everything ourselves because we wanted that connection. Weirdly, we thought that if we handed off our baby to others to care for, the baby wouldn't recognize us anymore or something. There's also a thought that, others may not know the baby's schedules and habits intimately and deep down you're afraid of them "messing" Julie up - you seem to like organization and schedules so that might be a concern. BUT. All of this is unfounded worries. People say it takes a village to raise a child and they're right. If I can go back in time to do it again, I would hand off my kid to whoever is willing to care for him and take care of myself more.
I just want to say that i love this for you.. i know it's not an easy journey but the way your eyes shine when you look at that baby is just everything 🥺❤
피할수 없으면 즐겨라.... 전 아이 셋을 독박육아 했어요. 아기는 너무 사랑스러운데 육아는 피할수가 없쟎아요. 그럴땐 포기할껀 포기하고 취할것만 취해요. 빨래, 청소, 외모는 기꺼이 포기, 딱 필요한만큼만 하고 아기와 행복한 시간에만 집중해요. 초등학교까지... 인생을 돌아보니 육아로 힘들었을때 그때가 바로 나의 인생 최전성기였더라구요. 그래서 내가 혹시 치매가 걸리더라고 죽을때까지 기억하고 싶은 가장 행복했던 순간은 울아기에게 모유수유했던 그 시간이에요. 정말 행복한 시간이에요. 지금 이순간 듬뿍 즐기세요~~~~~
I love watching your videos, I find it so relatable. My husband and I had similar journey with IVF. We are now blessed with a 4 month old baby boy. Hang in there 😊 you are doing an amazing job
You are such a beautiful and loving family! Julie is absolutely precious! And I am completely impressed with Josh's ability to read and speak Korean. May I ask how he learned and how long he has known how to read/speak Korean?
Sleep regressions are difficult. Good news is she will settle again, and then there will be more regressions 6, 8, 10, 12, 18 month regression. It feels like it's never ending but time goes quick. Hang in there. My bub just turned 1, these regressions come and go and so does our time with our kids. We'll miss these times I'm certain. I just enjoy the extra middle of the night cuddles now ❤ Make the most of them ❤❤
이 정신에 백일잔치는 했다는..ㅋㅋㅋ영상 못 만들고 사진으로 담았어요! instagram.com/gabiekook
and we celebrated her 100th day in this chaos!lol you can check my IG for pictures of the day, couldn't vlog it!
My oldest son was feeding a lot he was so hungry I couldn’t sleep. He screamed all the time. My pediatrician recommended that add baby rice cereal, like the ones you can feed to babies when they start eating. So I found the instructions on the internet and did it. The first day I gave it to him he slept 8 HOURS!!! I THOUGHT HE DIED!!! I kept checking to make sure he was breathing. That night I still didn’t sleep because I was worried. I’d only enough rice to help with his hunger during the day. I felt so day because I was a new mom and I didn’t provide enough food for him cuz I didn’t know. The mom guilt is horrendous. Every one said you didn’t know. You know now but in my brain I was like I DESERVED TO BE BUT TO DEATH BY FIRING SQUAD. When I told my husband that he said who’d take care of the baby? My brain 🤯 My oldest son is grown now. When I told him about it he said if I wasn’t there to be with him he would have been so sad. He still eats a lot several times a day.
힝~ 백일잔치 영상이 없다고요?! 어찌 그런일이?! 믿을수가 없네요. 넘 속상합니다…😫
가비님 저 나이대 애들은 잘 때 완전히 어둡게 해야 해요 낮이든 밤이든. 수면 공간에는 무조건 암막커튼 사서 달아두시고, 수면등으로 온전하게 간접등으로만 수유나 기저귀 갈 수 있는 환경 조성해주시면 되구요. 그리고 목 힘을 더 기를 수 있는 터미타임도 곧 하게 되면 할 수 있게 해주는 게 좋고, 그래서 에너지를 최대한 스스로 소모할 수 있게 도와주는 게 좋아요. 그리고 밑에 분들이 얘기하신 것 같이 철분이나 비타민 등이 부족하거나 치아가 막 생성되는 시기라 수면 패턴 교육에 잠시 이슈가 생길 수 있는 부분이라 세 문제 우선 파악해보시는 게 좋아요. 내 자녀가 어떤 것에 불편함을 느끼는지 알아가는 것도 부모의 역할이니까요! 항상 조가비 부부와 쥴리를 응원하고 애정하고 있습니다. 아 그리고 가정에서는 되도록 하나의 언어만 사용해주시는 게 좋아요! 지금 나이대는 가정에서는 한국어만 사용하고, 외부에서는 영어 사용 비율을 높이는 게 더 언어 교육에 좋을 거예요. 쥴리가 두 언어를 혼란 없이 자연스럽게 받아들이고 사용하기도 좋아요! 영상 너무 잘 보고 있습니다❤
잘자던 애기가 자주 깨거나 보채는건
급성장기라 그런걸수도 있어요.
온몸이 찌뿌둥하고 뼈가 아프다고 하더라구요~ㅎㅎㅎ
신생아때 참 힘들고 언제크나 싶지만
나중엔 크는게 아쉬울정도로 빠르게 지나가는 시기가 올거예요~
힘내세요!!!
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호옥~~~시 줄리 앞니가 올라오고 있는지 확인해 보세요. 보통 평균적으로 6개월령부터 나오기 시작하는데..
조금 빨리 나오기도 하거든요.
제 큰아이가 아기때 줄리처럼 통잠 잘 잤었는데 자꾸 깨길래 알고보니 아래 앞니가 올라오더라구요.. 그때가 생후 4개월이었어요.
유치 빨리 나오는 아이들은 유치 빠지고 영구치 나오는 시기도 조금 빠르더라구요.
치아 때문에 그런 게 아니면.. 아기가 철분이 모자란 경우에도 자주 깨요.
모유수유의 경우... 한쪽 가슴을 보통 15분 이상씩 양쪽 다 먹이는 게 원칙인데, 짧게 먹으면 수분 성분이 많은 전유만 많이 먹고, 영양 성분이 많은 후유는 덜 먹어요.
(전유는 묽은 쌀뜨물 색깔, 후유는 하얀 우유 같이 나와요.)
그렇게 짧게 자주 수유하는 습관이 들게 되면 아이가 철분이 부족해지는 경우가 있거든요.
너무 자주 깬다면 꼭 체크해 보세요.
두 아이 24개월씩 완모하느라 공부했던 것들이 그래도 아직 기억이 나네요 ^^;;
줄리 엄마 화이팅이예요~
Dear Gabie, watching you and Josh being parents really makes me have mixed feeling. I took care my baby by myself literally. No help at all. I didn't have enough sleep for a year or so and it caused brain fog that won't go away. Once my baby and I had high fever and I still woke up all night long to nurse her. She needed more milk because of the fever. Even the doctor wondered how I could still breastfeed the baby in that high fever.
Moms could do impossible things. We cry but then we crawl if we have to. My babies are 18 and 6 today. Time flies. Fighting!
i am feeling so sorry for your bad memories😭. i hope you and your kids will feel amazing everyday and forever💗
@@saerahqww thank you 🥰. It's amazing to see how different people's life could be.
Fighting to all moms! 🤧🤧 I too take care to my baby alone at home. My husband was only able to take one week off during the C-section. It was hard but we're going strong! She's six months and one today. 🌸
다 차치하고 애기 진심 너무 예쁘게 생겨서 계속 보게됨ㅠㅠ 그냥 내애기여도 너무 예쁜데, 생긴 것 까지 너무 천사같으니 가비님은 얼마나 행복할까ㅠㅠ
이렇게 천사같은 애기 영상 공짜로 봐도 되는건가요...ㄷㄷㄷㄷㄷ 진짜 심장에 무리가ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 터미타임하는거 대박적으로 귀엽다는거...ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 쥴리야 랜선이모가 늘 잘 보고있어 건강하게 자라렴❤
영상에서 아기 분냄새꼬순내나요..❤️
초보엄마의 일기라고 할까요?
아름다운 엄마의 모습 너무 좋네요.
Gabbie I just wanted to let you know that you're doing such an amazing job of interacting with and playing with Julie! No wonder she sleeps well when she gets to use all her senses so much🩷
제 심장도 녹아버리겠어요 ㅠㅠ 이렇게 이쁜 아기가 있다니...천사 그 자체에요 꺄악♡♡♡♡
이해가요. 아기때 엄마는 잠과 피곤을 이겨내야 하는게 고통이였죠. 시간이 답이예요. 힘내요❤
엄마도 닮고 아빠도 닮고 너무 예쁘고 귀여워요..
와..남인내가 봐도 애가 너무이쁘고귀여운데 가비 눈엔 얼마나 귀엽고 사랑스러울까 ㅋㅋㅋ
This is when the grandparents can help on the weekends so you can get a nap or just a little time for rest. Take care of you. You look great and also like you are a wonderful mummy. Sometimes we mums just need a little me time.
I just wanted to take a moment to tell you how deeply moved I am by the way you love your daughter. The way you shower her with such kind, encouraging words and so much care is truly inspiring. It's clear that you are such an amazing mother, and your love for her shines through in everything you do. She is incredibly lucky to have you guiding her with such warmth and tenderness.
Brie is such a sweet and patient pup. Such a beautiful family.
she is the best ..seriously!
@@gabiekook Is she a poodle mix?
Gabie is glowing in every video since Julie is born. Motherhood suits her so so so much. Like we can see she’s so so so happy and bursting w love. Every vlog now is full of laughter.
지금까지 여러분은 출산장려 영상을 시청하셨습니다.😊
쥴리태어난후 편당 기본2~3번은 재시청하는것같아요ㅎㅎ
세상의 축복은 다 모아놓은것같은 추운겨울버티고 찾아온 봄햇살처럼 사랑스러운 공쥬님이예요❤❤❤
For me, I found that napping when baby napped helped me so very much. I did stuff for baby when baby was fed and happy. Give it a try. ❤
울부모님도 저리 키우셨겠지요.
눈마주치고 꼬순내 느끼면서 대학생,중딩된 딸아들보니 저 시기로 돌아가고픈 ....충분히 쟐하고 계십니다..중간중간 애기 잘때 같이 주무시고요.,많이드시고 홧팅...멀리서 응원하는 언니가~~~~
국가비씨 아주 오래전부터 구독자였는데 브리, 쥴리까지 네식구가 완성되는 모습을 보니 저까지 행복이 전해지네요 ㅎㅎ 항상 행복하시고 즐거운 인생이길 바래요. 동영상을보며 저도 행복하고 즐거우니까요!!
힘들지만 너무 예쁜시기죠 힘들겠지만 아이에 이쁨 충분히 느끼시는거 같고 예뻐해주시는거 같아 너무 따뜻하네요~그시절 전 힘들다고 우리 예쁜 아이를 충분히 사랑해주지 못한듯 해서 지금은 너무 아쉬워요ㅠ빨리 통잠 다시 자길😊
1:54 😆 her eyes 🤭👀 the shock of waking up in a new spot
on a more serious note though, it really does take a village to raise a child, ask for support from family and friends in need, I'm sure you won't be disappointed It's nice to have someone help out even if it's for like 4 hrs or something to help you sneak in naps and catch up on rest
I love watching these vlogs you put out with your baby. As someone who doesn’t have children and never will by choice. Its just healing for me to see how you’re raising your child with so much care and love while giving her all that she needs to develop and prosper in her life later on. Because i feel like i never had that growing up in a home where both parents were emotionally unavailable.
모유 먹었던 저희 애기 그맘때 밤에 자주 깼었는데 철분이랑 비타민D가 부족했던거였더라구요… 한번 체크해 보세요~ 화이팅❤
아직 철분 부족해서 보충 할 시기는 아닌 것 같아요. 이유식 할 때쯤 철분제 먹이면 되지 않을까요?
맞아요 모유수유라 철분이 부족하진 않을 것 같아용!
맞아요.
철분.비타민D 부족일수 있어요..
고등학생 큰애.
정량 먹여도 영양 부족과 잦은 잔병치레.
유전자 검사를 해보니
철분과 비타민C.D가 흡수가 잘 안되는 몸인것을 뒤늦게 알았더랬죠.
철분이 부족한 사람은
손톱이 선천적으로 얇아요.
고되지만 행복한 육아~
화이팅 하세요~😊
This is life Gabby and babies arent easy especially first five months when sleeping schedule is not set, it gets better. I did it myself as my husband passed. I never seem to sleep and it was even hard to bath if she was awake lol. Having kids changes your life wonderfully but at times not as wonderful an it’s ok to say it
You sleep when baby sleeps, eat properly and spend time bonding with Julie. Let everything else go. It’s a temporary situation and goes by so quickly. Your health and baby is more important than anything else. Don’t expect too much of yourself and set you and Julie as priority.
아구구 아기 웃음소리는 진짜 천사같아요 ❤ 아이구 넘 이뻐라~~ 사랑스러워라
영상 볼때마다 저희딸 애기때하고 똑같이 생겨서 남편하고 깜짝 놀라요^^ 저희딸은 지금 캐나다에서 행복하게 크는 13살 소녀인데 보여드리고싶네요^^ 행복한 육아하세요❤
영상보면서 생각했어요. 태어나서 제가 제~일 잘안일.. 자식을 낳은 일 입니다. 가비님 힘들어도 행복해보셔서 좋아요~
ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 너무 힐링돼요....❤❤❤❤ 가비 화이팅!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 애기 너무 사랑스러워요ㅠㅠㅠ😊😊
강아지 뛰는거 너무 귀여워
It looks like Juli is at the stage when she needs to adjust her schedule. When you don't have Josh there because of work, it isn't cold or cruel to let her cry if Juli been fed or doesn't have a soiled diaper or you already have had playtime. She will see that Mommy loves her but needs her time to unwind. Nap when she naps so you have the energy to continue without feeling so drained. You and Josh are excellent parents and will see it will get better. Bless you all
It takes 7 years for a woman’s body to return to normal. Be patient with yourself. You’re a wonderful mother and you’re doing amazing! ❤
세상에서 제일 중요하고 소중한일을 하시는거에요.
육아 !!
국가비님 아주 잘하고 계십니다.
통닭구이 당하는 줄리 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 넘웃교
블라인드는 한국말로도 블라인드예요ㅋㅋ
아기 깨있을 때 계속 플레이해주지 말고 혼자 놀게 냅두고 가비님 쉬셨으면 좋겠어요 엄마가 덜 힘들었으면 좋겠어요!
근데 책잌ㅋㅋㅋ4개월 아기가 보기에 너무 어려운ㅋㅋㅋㄱ웃겨욬ㅋㅋ초딩 저학년책 아니냐며..엄마아빠사랑은 감동❤❤
가비님 넘 힘들죠?😢그시기가 진짜 너~~~~~무 힘들었던 기억이 아직도 있는데요~ 다 크고나니 그시절이 너무그립네요ㅋㅋ 그때 아기아기한거 많이 즐길걸 하는후회가ㅋㅋ 힘내세요!!
어른들 말 틀린거없이 키울때가 제일행복하고 좋을때였다😊
Gabie you are doing a great job mothering and interacting with Julie … she is precious and growing up. It can be a challenge however taking naps when she does can help. Never forget yourself because you are just as important. Do your in-laws live close by..they can always help out. If I lived near you I would help you out 🤗. Lots of love to you, Josh and Julie 🙏🏻❤️
어른들이 아기를 너무 웃기면 밤에 잠자다 깜짝깜작 놀란다 하더라구요 혹시나해서 글써봐요 ㅎ
These stages go by in a flash. One day, not so long from now, you will turn around and wonder where the time has gone! Try to nap at least one time while Julie is sleeping. You're doing a wonderful job; your love for her shines from every pore of your body.🤗💗
아가.. 너무 이뻐… 가비님은 얼마나 이쁘실까..
soon you'll have to start planning solids and will get busier but she'll sleep better with a fuller belly (fingers crossed). you're doing great Gabie and Josh!
아이가 별탈 없이 건강해서 너무 좋습니당ㅠㅠ 건강하그라 아가야
When a friends asks to help, let them. It feels impossible to do, like you're somehow a bad mom, and being selfish, I've been there. But let them watch Julie for a few hours so you can sleep. No chores. No cooking. Just sleep. You need it.
애기가 잘 웃는 엄마 아빠 곁에서 행복한 기억 가득하게 크는것 같아요ㅎ 인사이드 아웃의 어린시절 라일리처럼... 이 가정에 축복이 가득하길
오랜만에 생각나서 찾아 들어왔는데 이미 이쁜 아기가 세상으로 나왔네요♡♡ 너무 귀여워요 그간 과정을 아니까 더 소중해보이고 귀해보이고! 언니 이제 행복한 날만 있기를 바라고 가요 잘 봤어요
늘~ 응원하면서도 댓글은 남기지 않았었는데 오늘 한번 용기내어서!
저도 두 애들 만 두 살 전까지 모유 먹여서 키웠는데..
분유 먹이면 더 잘 잔다고 주변에서 그렇게들 훈수들 두셔서 혹!하기도 했지만..꾹꾹 그 유혹 참고 모유를 고집했답니다.
이런 저런 육아 노하우들..경험치들에서 우러나오는 격려와 잔소리들 훈계들.. 다들 애들 키워 본 엄마의 마음이겠거니 하세요.
키워보니..같은 배에서 나와도 애 성향마다 너무 달라요..그에 따라 육아 방식도 부모가 맞추는 수 밖에 없구요. 정답이 없는 게 안타깝게도 육아 같습니다.
영상보면 충~~분히 잘 하고 계셔요~
내 아이가 원하는 거 엄마인 내가 가장 잘 알지요.
잘 잤다가 잘 안 잤다가..편하게 지나가는 듯 하다가..갑자기 훅 바뀌기도하고..
사람 하나 만드는 일이 정말 엄마에게는 온 우주의 힘을 빌어 정성을 쏟아내야하는..어렵지만 위대한 일임에는 틀립없으니!
통잠이 없어지고 쪽잠만 남은 지금의 어려운 날들도 조만간 또 금방 지나가고, 통잠의 시대가 다시 열리리라 믿습니다!
육아를 하고 계시는 모든 엄마들 사랑합니다! 그리고 존경합니다!
이목구비 뚜렷한 셋이서 너무 한국같은 동화책 읽으몀서 18:11 웃는 거 너무 웃기고 재밋어요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Your baby is so cute. Please don’t tape your mouth at night. It’s normal to open your mouth when you sleep. Just drink water when you wake up in the morning with a “dry mouth”.
기도할게요❤️몸과 마음 모두 건강하시길! 줄리의 앞날도🥹크리스마스를 기대하며
아기들이 발육을 시작하면 뼈와 근육이 아파서 유난히 많이 울고 칭얼댄다고 하네요ㅠㅠ 아기도 힘들거에요. 음악을 틀어주시는 것도 괜찮을거 같아요~ 화이팅요❤
줄리 너무 사랑스러와❤ 엄마 아빠 다닮았어요😊 브리도 귀여와 사랑스러와 심장에무리가와❤ 가비 너무 행복해 보여서 내가 기부니가 더 좋아요❤ 조쉬 가비 줄리 브리 네식구 항상 건강하고 행볻하길 기도할게요😊
즐거운 주말되세요
당근이 진짜 넘 이뻐요 어쩜 안이쁜 구석이 없어 ㅠㅠ 저희 아기는 이제 돌 지났는데 저때 찍은 영상이나 사진보면 너무 그리워요 ㅠㅠ 힘들었던 기억은 잘안나고 😂😂 가비언니가 힘들지만 또 행복해보여서 너무 기분좋네요
You're doing such a great job of stimulating Julie both physically and mentally. You should be proud of that. However, one of the reasons you're so tired is that you aren't eating enough protein. Blueberry muffins are my favorite too, but there's no nutritional value in them. It seems as if all the food you film yourself eating is very high in carbs and very low in protein, so eat more protein and a lot less carbs.
쓰러지시면 안돼요. 가끔 엄마들 기절하는 영상 올라오던데 ㅠ ㅠ 아기 오래 재우는 방법이 없으면 가비씨도 하루에 세번 네번씩 주무시는 법 말고는 없을 듯요. 아기가 잘 때 무조건 옆에서 같이 자세요~♡
가비씨 힘내세요 아가가 너무 예뻐서 보는내내 저도 행복해요~❤❤❤
I love that your channel is turning into a mommy channel ❤❤❤
9개월 아기 재우고 보고있어요ㅎㅎ 요즘 너무 공감하며 보게되네요. 육아는 정말 힘들지만 정말 행복하죠..ㅎㅎ 같이 힘내요!! :) 나중에 가비님이 아기랑 요리하는 모습도 벌써 기대되요 ㅋㅋ
모든 아기들이 이렇게 사랑만 가득 받으며 자라났으면 좋겠어요 두분을 보며 방긋방긋 웃는 걸 보니 얼마나 많은 사랑을 주고있고 아가는 그 사랑을 받아 행복해보이는게 너무 잘보여요.. 평생 이 가족이 이렇게 행복하길🥹🥹
애기용의자에 슬슬 앉혀 보세요~. 그리고 뒤집기 연습도 슬슬 시켜보시구 에너지가 좀 소모되면 잠도 잘 잘텐데 원래 성장하면서 낮잠 수가 적어지면서 격는 과도기 일 수 있어요^^
아기용 의자 고고씽 해봅니다
@애기용 의자 아직 너무 일러요 허리에 무리가요gabiekook
@ 범보의자는 100일 전후로도 앉을 수잇어요~
정말 아기마다 성장과 잠이 다 다르니 가비님과 줄리의 방식을 잘 찾으시길 바래요. 너무 잘 하실거에요~^^
평생할 효도를 이맘때 다 한다하죠ㅎㅎ 아이가 커도 저 시간은 늘 어른거려요 :)
아기 자기전에 맛사지 많이 시켜주세요 그럼 더 잘 자는것 같더라구요 글구 애기랑 노는거 체력 많이 들어요ㅋ 애기랑 최대한 많이 눈맞추고 대화하면 아이가 어휘능력도 좋아지고 정서발달도 좋아진다고 하네요 사실 저도 애기들 클 때 넘 힘들어서 운 적 많아요 가비씨 아직 산후우울증 올 시기라 더 그럴거에요 전 애기한테 제대로 못해주는 부족하고 이기적인 엄마라는 죄책감땜에 힘들었는데 엄마도 사람이고 처음 엄마된잖아요 완벽할순 없죠 다들 그러는거같더라구요 가비씨는 저보다 더 잘하고 있으니 지금처럼만 하시면 될거같아요 힘든시기도 금방 가요 힘내세요^^
I’ve noticed you and Josh don’t get a babysitter when you two go out to eat?
Maybe you should get a part time babysitter, Gabie. Just for times when you and Josh wanna go out together or when you’re really tired and just want to sleep for a few hours.
Yes! If not a babysitter, then someone to cook and do household chores like cleaning and laundry
점점 엄마 얼굴이 나오네요. 😂😊
조금만 더 힘내세요!
그 힘듬에 보상 받는 순간
순간들이 넘쳐날꺼니깐!
지금도 잘하고 계세요!
힘내세요!😂
During adult time 19:06 I'm cracking up at Brie, she's also going through it all with you guys. She looks like she had a lonnnnng day. I love watching your journey as a mother. You got this Gabie!
Girl you look and sound good being all sleep deprived. I don’t remember being able to leave the house much at all due to just not feeling like myself and panicking that this zombie mode would never stop 🥲 Of course it does end at some point but it’s so stressful to not know when.
thanks! the day before this i stayed in and made me feel really down...really helps to just walk around the park for mental health 🥲
가비님 난임으로 고생 하시던 모습 보면서 같이 마음아파하다가 이렇게 줄리가 태어나서 너무너무 행복해 하시는 모습 보니까 저도 덩달아 너무 행복해져요❤❤❤
Oh Gabie... I am so sorry sleep has been rough... it sounds like classic sleep regression. Up until this age babies have no circadian rhythm but around now they are starting to develop one.... it is a really rough deal and I remember being so sleep deprived and jealous of families who claimed their babies always slept thru the night. You've got this Gabie! You have a whole village behind you as you're going thru this rough sleep patch!!!
가비님 영상 볼때마다 요즘 정말로 행복해요..ㅠㅠ 넘 아름다운 영상입니다♥︎
저 1~2년이 그때는 너무 길었던것 같은데 10년 20년 지나면 정말 짧았고 그나마 육신은 힘들어도 정신은 편했던것 같네요.사춘기,성년 크면 클수록 정신이 너무 힘든건 더 힘들었던것 같아요.금방 지나 갑니다.
ㅠㅠ 징짜 쥴리.. 너무너무 기여워서 부모님도 입덕하심(?)❤️
You are such a wonderful mother. And it’s so moving to see you interact with Julie. Because you mentioned sleep training: I know that sleep training is still a thing in UK. I don’t want to judge any other parents, but studies have shown that sleep training in all forms is really traumatizing for babies. They go into a state of dissociation if parents let them scream or limit physical contact. So, that is all I wanted to write for my peace of mind. As a mother I know how horrific sleep deprivation can be. And that sleep training seems like a good solution… but it is just for the parents. So I hope that you never consider this for sweet Julie. And I hope that Julie goes back to her long sleep stretches after her sleep regression. Fingers crossed for you! 🤞🏼🩷
Oh my heavens no! No, I have 7 incredible children and they were ALL sleep trained and it does NOT do anything of the kind. It usually lasts 2-5 days and then the child is a beautiful sleeper and HIGHLY attached.
Enjoy this time She will never be this cute and small for long. Once she starts walking and going to kindergarten school then and only then will you finally get a breather.
가비님 어느 영상보다 줄리와 브리 산책영상이 정말 힐링이에요^^ 저도 아이 키워 보니 이 시간 짧게 지나가니 힘드시더라도 꼭 즐기세요!!!!!❤
Baby Julie is the most adorable and beautiful baby girl I have ever seen…. She’s absolutely darling 💕She looks more like Josh, but just as pretty as her Momma ! I have been watching your channel from the beginning and love your cooking. I am now more addicted to watching little baby Julie!
전부터 생각한건데 애기가 이마라인이 예술이네요..
너무 이뻐요 ❤❤
물론 얼굴도 엄마 아빠 닮아서 너무 이뻐요 ❤️❤️
She's so good at tummy time! Great strength. People forget how important tummy time is and then the baby ends up having to wear a helmet so they don't get a flat head.
From one mom to the next, get help. Breaks my heart to see you shouldering most of the responsibilities... I mean, if this is a typical day, then I can see why you're exhausted. Sleep deprivation is one thing but all that mental load to take care of a baby and the house is also taxing. When I had my baby (he's 14 now!), my husband and I were determined to do everything ourselves because we wanted that connection. Weirdly, we thought that if we handed off our baby to others to care for, the baby wouldn't recognize us anymore or something. There's also a thought that, others may not know the baby's schedules and habits intimately and deep down you're afraid of them "messing" Julie up - you seem to like organization and schedules so that might be a concern. BUT. All of this is unfounded worries. People say it takes a village to raise a child and they're right. If I can go back in time to do it again, I would hand off my kid to whoever is willing to care for him and take care of myself more.
i'm soo happy for you omg i keep crying whenever i see these baby vlogs coz of how happy i am for you omg.. julie is such a cutie
수유하는 모습이 행복해보여요
I’ve gotten really attached to your family. Started out watching Jolly, which I still love but there is so much sweetness here I crave it.
우리줄리도 너무 이쁘지만 그 모습을 정말 사랑스럽게 보는 가비님 모습이 더 눈에 들어오네요 행복이란게 뭔지 보여주는 영상❤❤❤
모유먹이면 아무래도 수분이 많다보니 배가고파 금방깨고 못자는 거 같아요 7개월까지 모유먹였는데 너무 못자고 칭얼대서 왜그럴까했는데 시간이 지나고보니 분유를 먹여 속 든든하게 재웠어야 했더라고요 전 너무 고생했어서 한번 바꿔보세요 엄마가 잘자야 육아도 잘하죠
자기 전에 목욕 해야지 잘 자요 ㅎㅎㅎㅎ
I just want to say that i love this for you.. i know it's not an easy journey but the way your eyes shine when you look at that baby is just everything 🥺❤
육아 힘들어도 지나고보면 진짜 잠시예요! 제일 좋을때이기도하구요! 힘내시고 화이팅 합시다!😊
피할수 없으면 즐겨라.... 전 아이 셋을 독박육아 했어요. 아기는 너무 사랑스러운데 육아는 피할수가 없쟎아요. 그럴땐 포기할껀 포기하고 취할것만 취해요. 빨래, 청소, 외모는 기꺼이 포기, 딱 필요한만큼만 하고 아기와 행복한 시간에만 집중해요. 초등학교까지... 인생을 돌아보니 육아로 힘들었을때 그때가 바로 나의 인생 최전성기였더라구요. 그래서 내가 혹시 치매가 걸리더라고 죽을때까지 기억하고 싶은 가장 행복했던 순간은 울아기에게 모유수유했던 그 시간이에요. 정말 행복한 시간이에요. 지금 이순간 듬뿍 즐기세요~~~~~
Gabie I can feel the delirious feeling coming out towards the end- you’re so funny 😂
아기 너무 귀여워요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 졸려도 후회는 없으시겠어요
I love watching your videos, I find it so relatable. My husband and I had similar journey with IVF. We are now blessed with a 4 month old baby boy. Hang in there 😊 you are doing an amazing job
잘하고 있어요~
육아는 정답이 없으니 지금처럼 사랑 뜸뿍주면서 키우시면되요~^^
화이팅입니다!!!!❤
폭풍업로드 너무 좋아요❤❤
걱정마세요~충분히 아름답고 예뻐요❤
행복하게 해줘서 고마워요 😄
브리도 보여주셔서 감사해요! 줄리랑 브리가 함께 놀 모습이 기대되네요
첫돌까지는 반전의 연속이라고 볼 수 있죠. 벌써 100일이네요. 백일 축하해 줄리~
You are such a beautiful and loving family! Julie is absolutely precious! And I am completely impressed with Josh's ability to read and speak Korean. May I ask how he learned and how long he has known how to read/speak Korean?
언니 힘들다하셔도 조쉬형부랑 쭐리랑 브리랑 넘 행복해보여요.. 팀가비 화이팅 💗 쭐리의 건강한 성장 화이팅 💗
Sleep regressions are difficult. Good news is she will settle again, and then there will be more regressions 6, 8, 10, 12, 18 month regression. It feels like it's never ending but time goes quick. Hang in there. My bub just turned 1, these regressions come and go and so does our time with our kids. We'll miss these times I'm certain. I just enjoy the extra middle of the night cuddles now ❤ Make the most of them ❤❤