So Tamar can say all that in the words and manner that she expressed herself, but when someone used the word "mountain" to describe her husband in a joking way, she goes ballistic??? This was wrong on so many levels, because in the interim of her telling it like it is as an "outsider", she may have embarrassed her sister on national tv, by commenting on her financial situation. "I bought this... I bought that!" Not cool!
Tamar I agree with you, but maybe you should've delivered it differently. but still, you're right. you're buying things for YOUR sister, not for the husband to use.
If someone is married, anything you purchase for them is also for their spouse. Towanda is a married woman, they are one. If Tamar gave the gift freely and willingly, she shouldn’t have an issue with what Towanda did. Tamar doesn’t know how to behave herself or maintain relationships.
@@MiamiPush2theLimit But the thing about it is she knew Tuwana's situation...If you're going to give someone something, don't use it later as a weapon against them...I would be hurt if my sister did this to me...She should have kept her gifts, and Tuwana shouldn't have accepted them.
If this is how she really acts and her true self. I seriously wonder if she has NPD sometimes. Because they are always going to make themselves out to be the victim. No matter what.
Tamar is SOOO RIGHT in what she's saying to her sister.. Tamar is SOOO wrong in how she's saying it though... I understand what she's saying because I would be mad if my sister has her husband(that's not working) driving the car I purchased for HER and then on top of that he's living with your OTHER sister(again with no job) and doesn't appear to be eager to find one to support his family. You want to see your loved with great people and sometimes you feel that you have to SCREAM it for them to understand they can do SO MUCH BETTER so I get it.
MiamiPush2theLimit because he living off people like it’s all good and not providing 🤷🏽♀️ and plus they were separated but still living under one roof. So yeah Tamar was right to be upset.
@@MiamiPush2theLimitShe mean the car is for y'all to get on your feet. Don't be driving and living in the shit I got you forever. Married people are one two heads is better than one right why the hell she ain't got no car and home. I understand one but both Shiiid. Tamar is getting the heat from her own husband.
Lies only Towanda and Andre know the truth!!!Tamar looking out on the in and see mine yo business honey now years later Tamar going threw it lol l!!!towanda spill all Tamar tea to the world camer is a bitch it came back and bit you in yo ass tamar. Tamar my girl I'm just keeping it 💯💯💯
@@tabithabracy5059 he said that in his statement. He said she told the truth but have to find a better way to say it. Yall be trying to debate for no reason
But why can't andre get a job though? To be honest tamar does have a point. Towanda wouldn't be struggling and wouldn't have to live in her sister's house if andre had a job. It takes two to tango.
+Jo Dunk But Tamar is not in that relationship. Wouldn't it be simple if she just minded her business? Maybe just once say what she felt about Towanda's personal life. Get it out and never speak of it again. What would have been wrong with that? This circle these two keep going in accomplishes nothing but stress.
@@TheRetroWoman80look maybe she was minding her own business for a while but after a while it became exhausting seeing your sister doing all the heavy lifting and her partner not pulling his weight
Tamar told the whole truth! What kind of man lives in his sister in law house drives a car giving to his wife by another sister in law and WORKS NOT ONE DAMN PLACE! Welp
But that doesn't have anything to do with the relationship he has with his children that's what Towanda was saying. And honestly if Tamar want to say all that she shouldn't have said it during that time.
+Calani Garrett true most people think that tamar is mean and she is spoiled brat but most of time she will speak her mind and speak her truth and thats what i like about her and her as well
Yeah, Tamar told to truth, but her sister needed SUPPORT and that's why she was there. There is always time for BS later. Tamar has a way of SUCKING THE AIR OUT THE ROOM AND MAKING IT ALL ABOUT HER...
pepelishis This is about a particular person, not assigned to a specified gender or group of people. Do you see anyone saying "men this, men that?" No, they're talking about an INDIVIDUAL, so shut the FUCK UP. Most likely would be the same if it was a female put in his shoes.
i wouldnt be happy either if i bought my sister a car and her deadbeat husband is driving it around. but Tamar just needs to learn how to articulate herself better. Noone's saying "its your fault" to tamar, they are just saying you just need to learn how to talk.
xxxxmimi For real. That's why Tamar was ticked. She was trying to help her sister out, but she continued to let her husband take advantage. It's true, but sometimes you have to censor yourself, because you don't want your loved ones to feel attacked.
+xxxxmimi Maybe she should also learn when to let unspoken moments be unspoken. People don't always need to be told about themselves because we all learn some how, some way.
Tamar was only wrong bc that was not the time nor place to try & check Towanda. I agree with Tamar bc I know women who love to use the "he's still a good father" card when their men had them ass out on the street bc he didn't bring in a check. He should have been working to better their situation, a baby sitter is a small expense when you living rent free @ someone else's home. Apart of parenting is providing love, care, & SHELTER. If he's fully able to work but not doing so then he's not a good father to me. Sorry.
Jeanette ......I agree ....I just don't get how these women allow these men to rule n give them access to come n go n do all this shit n da women work cook clean homework for herr kids n themselves pay bills n run around EVVVVVVVERYDAY N DA MAN DOES ABSOLUTLY NOTHN ??????
Jeanette ......DONT SWEEP MOP DO HIS KIDS HOMEWORK BUT ALL WAAAAAAAAAAAYS GETTN ASS EVVVVVVVVVVERY SINGLE NIGHT ?????? NIGGGGGA GO STRAIGHT TA HELL !!!! ILL NEVER APOLOGIZE FA TRUTH ....EVVVVVVVVA
Lol what’s worse is that he was purposely not getting a job just to be home with the kids and play video games haha 🤦🏾♀️ the first season of Braxton Family Values was a mess.
Forreal Tamar is the type of person that is brutally honest and who can't respect an honest person. I think sometimes she's just inconsiderate of the other persons feelings but she READS what people not ready to accept.
+leggo my eggo Yes, why is that....even with all the offense and hurt she potentially may bring forth to others, her siblings especially? Interesting aspect I keep observing and trying to figure out.
sounds like he's a decent person, but just not a good man. Being a provider is part of being a good man. IMO, it's also part of being a good father. So, Tamar's right about that.
@iloveeecornstarch 92 you sound delusional. A father is a supporter of his children. On a daily basis kids need food and a place to live. Can someone with out a job provide a good home for their children? No he cannot. Wise up, and let a man be a man. Twanda is a idiot, to pay for everything.
there is a respectful manner to tell someone anything.. tamar has not learned that manner...Towanda is right...support is not just money..support comes in with communication, spending time. problem solving. comforting. loving. money. Towanda is saying he is mentally, emotionally physically, socially, spiritually their for his kids..just not financially...i understand..
Because Andre REFUSED to work when Towanda could not carry the load of the household funds and she shouldn't have to! Andre is a good father, loving, caring but not providing is irresponsible.
Tamar needs to learn communication skills sometimes she be speaking facts, but she is aggressive with it, she's argumentative, then she doesn't understand why people don't want to hear what she's saying and they get upset with her, she talks at people not to them, and don't want to hear what they are trying to say in the conversation, it then becomes about her and not the initial situation, she adds fuel to flames.
+Shayvonna Edwards after all these recent headlines about the domestic violence claims from several witnesses I'm gone have to disagree with you on that one. Financially he may be better off but that's it. Vince was hella mean to her on national Tv and he has now become physical abusive ..so he's no better in my eyes ..sorry not sorry
Towanda looked like she was about to take her hoops out and put some vaseline on I won't lie yes Tamar can the hurtful when she says things but she only says those things cuz she loves them
I get it Tamar told the Truth but at the Same time I understand Towanda about the babysitter and husband they wasn't talking about no husband they was talking about him being a Father but instead if her being there the has to do a little extra just to be heard
It looks like Tamar is judgmental and aiming darts when it comes to her sisters marriages. But Tamar also said herself that she's been there with her ex fiance (domestic abuse, cheating, verbal abuse). When she met Vince he was the total opposite of that and she wants the same happiness for her sisters that she has with Vince. Tamar just wants what's best for them but she's comes off as judgmental and mean because she's aggressive and bluntly honest and it could come off as rude. It happens to a lot of siblings that love each other. And Tamar loves hard that's all
Looks like he wasn't so different after all. Always be suspicious of a loud mouth speaking on someone else's personal business and throwing things they did for them in the face...time reveals all
Nah, it is rude. It doesn’t “come off as rude”, it is rude. And her sisters tell her all the fucking time that they don’t like the way she talks to them and she cries about it and plays victim when all they ask is that she learns the time and place for her the things she says. Then turns around and continues to do so.
there is a time and place for everything and that was not the time nor the place to air out her sister business like that, than she wonder why she is always at odds with her sisters, then play dumb like she is innocent
Pay attention people. Everyone in the comments that was in agreement with Tamar 4 years ago..... Look where this attitude gets you in the long run... Divorced, bald, on suicide watch while simutabauously having a restraining order put out against you 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
sometimes its hard when you love someone to keep ur opinoion to yourself....when you love someone and theyre making decisions you do not agree with that arent good for themselves, its hard....
That is true now Towandas husband really does need to get it together.I love how Trina says "I was in a marrige with a DEAAADDD beat ass dude" l0l all that neck rollin. Tamar i love her she was jus tellin it like it is
That's stupid if you ask me what I think I'm going to tell you the truth if I know you cause I wanna look out for a person the same way I hope they look out me instead of having me look like a d*** fool
I'm sorry but I'm not the one to take care of an able-bodied man, his kids and wife. NO. I will help the kids, let the parents figure out where they went wrong. Towanda should have been more keen on looking out for her and the children's interest when she first realize that the husband she picked starting lacking in AREAS.
Tamar did not have to speak on the fact of what she did for her sister. But of course she wants the world to know so therefore it didn't come from love ishe did those things for recognition cause she threw it up in her face.
Wow... Even if I felt that way, I would never have spoken like that towards my Sister. We would have a calm, serious conversation... but not in front of cameras!
Tamar always got to open her mouth and be judgmental.... if Vince had made her sign a prenump and left her ass tomorrow she would be sick and all that attitude would be gone. Only then would she be humbled.
Damontae Davenport no she couldn't she has severed many relationships in that business due to her attitude and tha way she treats people she is where she is because of him. And tap out this post was made last year.
I feel like being the youngest Tamar learned from her sisters and mother what was acceptable and unacceptable when it came to a man and she learned from her own past. It seems like she is the only one who actually applied what she has learned. A lot of people can't handle tough love. Sugar coating and hugging people all the time doesn't work if you are not honest. Over the show seasons they hadnt listened to her and were continuing the same cycle.
So here Towanda defended him but he tried to drag her through the ringer during the divorce. Threatening to take the kids from her just so he can get all he can from her.
Why is Tamar always so angry and controlling over everything? She doesn't care that her words hurt her sisters, as long as she can 'keep it real' by venting what's boiling up inside her. Maybe because she can't look too hard at her own marriage.
I guess Towanda does not have the same definition of father/babysitter that most people have. I personally thought father provided home, shelter, clothing, etc Sitter on the other hand comes over when you are not home and watches the kids until you return. They sometimes help with homework, feed the kids (food you provided) and get the kids ready for bed. Point is they go home and do not provide financial support-like Towanda husband who lives with his grandmother! and REFUSES to get a job.
Florence Kimondo She wasn't minimizing shit... Tamar needs to shut the fuck up and stop minimizing his role in his children's lives, all because SHE placed more value in a man who could provide financially...but was actually hitting on her! That's not her place. Sister or not! If Tawanda says he wasn't a good husband, but damn if you gonna call him a bad father, that should have been the end of it!
When you help your Sister out!! Your doing it for because it’s your Sister and you Love her . I understand. Tamar is mad at Andre because it cane to this . I would be mad at him too . Towanda just says he’s a Great Father but Not a Husband. Tamar is too Extreme sometimes . She don’t care if it hurts others or not . Sometime you just need to be there for support and keep Quiet!!! She don’t like it when they talk about Vince and all he has done .
They need to keep Tamar out their business if they haven't learned yet they learning now she just wanted to take the time out to put it out there that she bought the car
So if you don’t have a job that means you’re not a father? No! That means you’re not a good provider! Being a father is so much more! Towanda knows that which is partly why she was so upset. She sees how he is with his kids and shows fatherly love. I bet if Vince were to financially support her son but never spends time with him , listen to him c check on him teaches etc ... she wud understand then.
"You live wit your sister, he drivin' your car" ... LOL! I'm sorry she may have sounded harsh but she was keeping it 100 - Towanda's husband is not handling his business. If Towanda lit his ass up like that, maybe he'd get it together. I know she loves him but she's way too easy on that dude. I gotta go with Tamar on this one. It's hard to watch somebody you love be taken advantage of so understand Tamar's anger.
This chick got life effed up!!!!!! The Audacity to belittle your sister's husband and her situation she got some nerve,she is so wrong and not supportive at all.. Tamar in my opinion is a Narcissist at it's Finest on period. Oh by the way does anyone know if Tamar is Still Married to Vince?🤔
the lawyer 😂😂 "Tamar... DAMN"
The lawyer was upset that the session was over and he could not charge anymore.lol
+blackjet101 Lmao 😂😂
andrew mcdow 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
andrew mcdow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tamar a dry ass mess she only love herself and that's the sad truth the public seen her for her true face why her sisters don't just drop her
TAMAR 🗣 YOUR BEHAVIOR DIMINISHES YOUR MESSAGE!! 💯🤷🏾♂️
Damn thas a message for me too
Hahaha I say this often in my iyanla voice 😂
Rhonda
I needed this for my damn self lol #onpoint
So Tamar can say all that in the words and manner that she expressed herself, but when someone used the word "mountain" to describe her husband in a joking way, she goes ballistic???
This was wrong on so many levels, because in the interim of her telling it like it is as an "outsider", she may have embarrassed her sister on national tv, by commenting on her financial situation. "I bought this... I bought that!" Not cool!
Seriously, I wish I hav a sister like Towanda. She's fair, consistent, caring n calm.
Hugs for Towanda!
Tamar, right message but wrong delivery lol
Which is often the case with Tamar. I almost always agree with her but she says it wrong.
True! U R right!
FrozenRemix1 Now she is going through,,,, Tamar wants to run and hide,,,,where is all that mouth now
every single time damn!! When is she ever gonna get it?
Trina looking GOOD at that table 😏
she does look good
Trina and Tamar are over there looking gorgeous.
A short moment in time
Shady Tyrell LMAOO don’t do that
Shes the prettiest sister out of the bunch. Even prettier than Toni
Now Tamar looking like a dang on fool since she's now divorcing Vince!
IamDottieDandridge yep
IamDottieDandridge lol Okkk! Lol
@Revealed She used to be Gorgeous. Now her Mental Breakdowns get the best of her.
No they both are divorced & Tamar was right because he won't see his kids to this day because of whatever
Sami Well he dont see his kids?!
Tamar I agree with you, but maybe you should've delivered it differently. but still, you're right. you're buying things for YOUR sister, not for the husband to use.
When you buy someone something, you don’t get a say in how they use it. It’s a gift. It’s their business what they do with it.
Boom
If someone is married, anything you purchase for them is also for their spouse. Towanda is a married woman, they are one. If Tamar gave the gift freely and willingly, she shouldn’t have an issue with what Towanda did. Tamar doesn’t know how to behave herself or maintain relationships.
@@MiamiPush2theLimit Yep. Exactly.
@@MiamiPush2theLimit But the thing about it is she knew Tuwana's situation...If you're going to give someone something, don't use it later as a weapon against them...I would be hurt if my sister did this to me...She should have kept her gifts, and Tuwana shouldn't have accepted them.
Tamar at the end “I just don’t understand why it’s always my fault” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was so weak!
That part!!😂🤣😅
🤣🤣🤣
I was coming to say that! She NEVER understood why it was her fault after she blew shit up🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If this is how she really acts and her true self. I seriously wonder if she has NPD sometimes. Because they are always going to make themselves out to be the victim. No matter what.
Tamar is SOOO RIGHT in what she's saying to her sister.. Tamar is SOOO wrong in how she's saying it though... I understand what she's saying because I would be mad if my sister has her husband(that's not working) driving the car I purchased for HER and then on top of that he's living with your OTHER sister(again with no job) and doesn't appear to be eager to find one to support his family. You want to see your loved with great people and sometimes you feel that you have to SCREAM it for them to understand they can do SO MUCH BETTER so I get it.
I don't understand how anyone would give a car to one person in a married couple and expect the other not to drive it.
MiamiPush2theLimit because he living off people like it’s all good and not providing 🤷🏽♀️ and plus they were separated but still living under one roof. So yeah Tamar was right to be upset.
totally agree, I wish she learned how to read her tone, the room etc... this was just not the time.
@@MiamiPush2theLimitShe mean the car is for y'all to get on your feet. Don't be driving and living in the shit I got you forever. Married people are one two heads is better than one right why the hell she ain't got no car and home. I understand one but both Shiiid. Tamar is getting the heat from her own husband.
MélissaEnvy exactly
Tamar told the entire truth lol she may need to figure out how to talk to ppl she i didnt hear one lie come out of her mouth
Lies only Towanda and Andre know the truth!!!Tamar looking out on the in and see mine yo business honey now years later Tamar going threw it lol l!!!towanda spill all Tamar tea to the world camer is a bitch it came back and bit you in yo ass tamar. Tamar my girl I'm just keeping it 💯💯💯
Ray Ramseur it's not what you say it's how you say it. Yes she spoke the truth but she was rude with her words.
@@tabithabracy5059 EXACTLY... THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK.
ESPECIALLY IF YOUR INTENT IS NOT TO OFFEND ANYONE.
I agree with Tamar, but her deliverance was wrong
@@tabithabracy5059 he said that in his statement. He said she told the truth but have to find a better way to say it. Yall be trying to debate for no reason
“I don’t understand why it’s always my fault” cause it is always your fault!!!! TFOH
Lol
No it aint
😂
Because she is always popping her damn gums saying shit.
Ok grown man
But why can't andre get a job though? To be honest tamar does have a point. Towanda wouldn't be struggling and wouldn't have to live in her sister's house if andre had a job. It takes two to tango.
Yup!
+Jo Dunk But Tamar is not in that relationship. Wouldn't it be simple if she just minded her business? Maybe just once say what she felt about Towanda's personal life. Get it out and never speak of it again. What would have been wrong with that? This circle these two keep going in accomplishes nothing but stress.
@@TheRetroWoman80look maybe she was minding her own business for a while but after a while it became exhausting seeing your sister doing all the heavy lifting and her partner not pulling his weight
Tamar is right and wrong.
Tamar told the whole truth! What kind of man lives in his sister in law house drives a car giving to his wife by another sister in law and WORKS NOT ONE DAMN PLACE! Welp
But that doesn't have anything to do with the relationship he has with his children that's what Towanda was saying. And honestly if Tamar want to say all that she shouldn't have said it during that time.
+Calani Garrett true most people think that tamar is mean and she is spoiled brat but most of time she will speak her mind and speak her truth and thats what i like about her and her as well
Yeah, Tamar told to truth, but her sister needed SUPPORT and that's why she was there. There is always time for BS later. Tamar has a way of SUCKING THE AIR OUT THE ROOM AND MAKING IT ALL ABOUT HER...
funny because women have been doing that for centuries, but he's a deadbeat just bc he doesn't have a job omg women are such hypocrites
pepelishis This is about a particular person, not assigned to a specified gender or group of people. Do you see anyone saying "men this, men that?" No, they're talking about an INDIVIDUAL, so shut the FUCK UP. Most likely would be the same if it was a female put in his shoes.
Tamar giving the hard truth! something like this isn't for the cameras
Yes
Michelle Talley
right!!!!
Even though Tamar was kind of right, it’s a way to say stuff to people and consider someone’s feelings
i wouldnt be happy either if i bought my sister a car and her deadbeat husband is driving it around. but Tamar just needs to learn how to articulate herself better. Noone's saying "its your fault" to tamar, they are just saying you just need to learn how to talk.
Agreed! :-)
xxxxmimi For real. That's why Tamar was ticked. She was trying to help her sister out, but she continued to let her husband take advantage. It's true, but sometimes you have to censor yourself, because you don't want your loved ones to feel attacked.
Exactly!
+xxxxmimi Maybe she should also learn when to let unspoken moments be unspoken. People don't always need to be told about themselves because we all learn some how, some way.
+TheRetroWoman80 what..? and who is "she"
Tamar was only wrong bc that was not the time nor place to try & check Towanda. I agree with Tamar bc I know women who love to use the "he's still a good father" card when their men had them ass out on the street bc he didn't bring in a check. He should have been working to better their situation, a baby sitter is a small expense when you living rent free @ someone else's home. Apart of parenting is providing love, care, & SHELTER. If he's fully able to work but not doing so then he's not a good father to me. Sorry.
Yes it was all in her delivery
Jeanette ......I agree ....I just don't get how these women allow these men to rule n give them access to come n go n do all this shit n da women work cook clean homework for herr kids n themselves pay bills n run around EVVVVVVVERYDAY N DA MAN DOES ABSOLUTLY NOTHN ??????
Jeanette ......DONT SWEEP MOP DO HIS KIDS HOMEWORK BUT ALL WAAAAAAAAAAAYS GETTN ASS EVVVVVVVVVVERY SINGLE NIGHT ?????? NIGGGGGA GO STRAIGHT TA HELL !!!! ILL NEVER APOLOGIZE FA TRUTH ....EVVVVVVVVA
Sum work n still ent shit !!!!
Lol what’s worse is that he was purposely not getting a job just to be home with the kids and play video games haha 🤦🏾♀️ the first season of Braxton Family Values was a mess.
Forreal Tamar is the type of person that is brutally honest and who can't respect an honest person. I think sometimes she's just inconsiderate of the other persons feelings but she READS what people not ready to accept.
honest in their opinion and rudeness are different.. one's opinion is not fact it is only to them
Then years later say her father was always working "providing" crying saying he was never there
Can she take the same honesty?
It's a time and a place..
But she went into hiding and didn't anyone saying anything during her second divorce. She wasn't taking that same medicine too well.
Tamar is so so damn crazy but at the sane time she is so damn funny😂😂😂😂
:-)
+leggo my eggo Yes, why is that....even with all the offense and hurt she potentially may bring forth to others, her siblings especially? Interesting aspect I keep observing and trying to figure out.
Im busting up and her voice being so high makes It even funnier. Cuz the more irritated she gets the higher It goes.
sounds like he's a decent person, but just not a good man. Being a provider is part of being a good man. IMO, it's also part of being a good father. So, Tamar's right about that.
@iloveeecornstarch 92 you sound delusional. A father is a supporter of his children. On a daily basis kids need food and a place to live. Can someone with out a job provide a good home for their children? No he cannot. Wise up, and let a man be a man. Twanda is a idiot, to pay for everything.
Even the lawyer was like “Tamar… DAMN”. Idc, Towanda NEEDED to hear that in that moment.
Why did she need to hear that when she was literally there to file for divorce from him?
Tamar ain't lyin tho! 🙌🙌🙌
i love how it ends with i dont know how its always my fault
Simfan923 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
there is a respectful manner to tell someone anything.. tamar has not learned that manner...Towanda is right...support is not just money..support comes in with communication, spending time. problem solving. comforting. loving. money. Towanda is saying he is mentally, emotionally physically, socially, spiritually their for his kids..just not financially...i understand..
Fuck.boi16 Winning I understand as well
And she don't want her sisters talking about her divorce...
Wow
I agree with Tamar and think that Towanda still loves Andre
It's so funny to me when Tamar says at the end "I just don't understand why it's always my fault."
Because Andre REFUSED to work when Towanda could not carry the load of the household funds and she shouldn't have to! Andre is a good father, loving, caring but not providing is irresponsible.
Trina was SNATCHED HONEY!!!!
Damn Trina was GORGEOUS in this scene... my word 😍😍😍
Leslie Afua yesss
Yesss
I love when Towanda snaps honestly
Tamar needs to learn communication skills sometimes she be speaking facts, but she is aggressive with it, she's argumentative, then she doesn't understand why people don't want to hear what she's saying and they get upset with her, she talks at people not to them, and don't want to hear what they are trying to say in the conversation, it then becomes about her and not the initial situation, she adds fuel to flames.
Hmmm. Now tables are turned. And the worse is let out the bag Mrs Tamar.
Did Tamar forget they were on national TV..not cool at all but her feelings get hurt when somebody say something about Vince!!
+Shayvonna Edwards after all these recent headlines about the domestic violence claims from several witnesses I'm gone have to disagree with you on that one. Financially he may be better off but that's it. Vince was hella mean to her on national Tv and he has now become physical abusive ..so he's no better in my eyes ..sorry not sorry
+Shayvonna Edwards I was speaking in GENERAL but ok ✌
T F
Say that, hunny!!!!
Chy please..like they don't already. Get your life
Towanda looked like she was about to take her hoops out and put some vaseline on I won't lie yes Tamar can the hurtful when she says things but she only says those things cuz she loves them
what it mean to take vaseline to a fight???
Fuck.boi16 Winning They put on Vaseline in a fight so the scratches won't appear on their skin or sum shit idk.
Nia Nailor lol uhmm ok
Nia Nailor so the fist can glide. if you put on vaseline those hits won't connect
+chastity freeman kinda
Well. Now look. Towanda keeps it real on tmz and people call her a hater. Hmm
If you watch every single season (I plan to marathon this show) you'll realize 9/10 of the problems center around Tamar's mouth rofl
I get it Tamar told the Truth but at the Same time I understand Towanda about the babysitter and husband they wasn't talking about no husband they was talking about him being a Father but instead if her being there the has to do a little extra just to be heard
It looks like Tamar is judgmental and aiming darts when it comes to her sisters marriages. But Tamar also said herself that she's been there with her ex fiance (domestic abuse, cheating, verbal abuse). When she met Vince he was the total opposite of that and she wants the same happiness for her sisters that she has with Vince. Tamar just wants what's best for them but she's comes off as judgmental and mean because she's aggressive and bluntly honest and it could come off as rude. It happens to a lot of siblings that love each other. And Tamar loves hard that's all
I agree. Everything she says comes out as rude but she doesn't do that intentionally, she's just a very outspoken woman.
I have never seen someone put it better
I agree to the fullest
Looks like he wasn't so different after all. Always be suspicious of a loud mouth speaking on someone else's personal business and throwing things they did for them in the face...time reveals all
Nah, it is rude. It doesn’t “come off as rude”, it is rude. And her sisters tell her all the fucking time that they don’t like the way she talks to them and she cries about it and plays victim when all they ask is that she learns the time and place for her the things she says. Then turns around and continues to do so.
I think Tamar is only hard on her sisters cause she truly loves and care for them and tbh sometimes tough love is best
I would b pissed if i bought my sis a car and my sis broke ass man is drivin it like he a boss foh
That's why when you give a gift to someone, you should know that it is no longer yours, and they can do with it whatever they wish.
That wasn't Towandas point tho
But he has to shop and chaufer the children around while his wife works. Towanda can only trust the children's father to do that in any car. lol
I understand where Tamar was coming from..he is using you through me!
Sometimes support is shutting the f$$k up.
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Tamar is sooooo wrong for putting all that business out. She probably didn’t want to share all of that with us.
there is a time and place for everything and that was not the time nor the place to air out her sister business like that, than she wonder why she is always at odds with her sisters, then play dumb like she is innocent
Exactly!
I don't blame Towanda for finally snapping.
Trina was soo beautiful at this size and weight
Pay attention people. Everyone in the comments that was in agreement with Tamar 4 years ago..... Look where this attitude gets you in the long run... Divorced, bald, on suicide watch while simutabauously having a restraining order put out against you 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Not bald 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but u spoke facts here 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 took me out though 👀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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And she overcame it all while working, getting in good graces with her family and winning a competition tv show
What's wrong with being bald???
Yo that last comment from Tamar is most funniest thing, I heard today? 🤣Tamar will never understand why its always her fault!🤦🏾♀️
Like I said they're too involved in one another relationships... no boundaries
I am so glad I do not have a sister like Tamar.
I don’t think it’s what she said but how she delivered the message. There’s a way to do it sisss.
1:33 Tamar...DAMN. 🤣
Is she ever NOT on 10?! Damn!
Tamar talks to much. And,everyone's business but her own
sometimes its hard when you love someone to keep ur opinoion to yourself....when you love someone and theyre making decisions you do not agree with that arent good for themselves, its hard....
I have an "idk why it's always my fault" sister too... And it's almost always her fault. 😒
ik it's the wrong time but trina looks bomb here
That is true now Towandas husband really does need to get it together.I love how Trina says "I was in a marrige with a DEAAADDD beat ass dude" l0l all that neck rollin. Tamar i love her she was jus tellin it like it is
Tamar didn't get slapped enough by her older siblings growing up, and it shows.
She was spoiled!
Why does she always have something to say? Sometimes, just shut up and listen. No wonder Towanda got mad at her.
On point! :-)
That's stupid if you ask me what I think I'm going to tell you the truth if I know you cause I wanna look out for a person the same way I hope they look out me instead of having me look like a d*** fool
Jennymule1 BUT..... she NEVER asked what she thought or her opinion on it
I DO SEE WHAT TAMAR WAS SAYING BUT THAT JUST WASN'T THE TIME NOR PLACE.
Tamar wow!!!! She's mental!
I'm sorry but I'm not the one to take care of an able-bodied man, his kids and wife. NO. I will help the kids, let the parents figure out where they went wrong. Towanda should have been more keen on looking out for her and the children's interest when she first realize that the husband she picked starting lacking in AREAS.
Tamar did not have to speak on the fact of what she did for her sister. But of course she wants the world to know so therefore it didn't come from love ishe did those things for recognition cause she threw it up in her face.
Facts Tamar said support is not bsin u it's true Tamar is just the kind of person who just tells it like it is and a lot of people can't handle it
Wow that soliloquy from Trina at the end 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When Trina said “she needs a hug!” I felt that!!!
Tamar is right but the way she expresses herself puts her in the wrong
Wow... Even if I felt that way, I would never have spoken like that towards my Sister. We would have a calm, serious conversation... but not in front of cameras!
I'm on Tamar side like ALWAYS!
I miss Trina being small!!!!
Tamar was 100% correct. But PLEASE not now 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
One day Tamar gonna get snatched up by one of them. She says some very hurtful and mean-hearted things.
yep she still loves him TAMAR IS RIGHT!
Tamar always got to open her mouth and be judgmental.... if Vince had made her sign a prenump and left her ass tomorrow she would be sick and all that attitude would be gone. Only then would she be humbled.
I know right
Yup!
+kenyana white lol look at her now, bet she could do without him now
Damontae Davenport no she couldn't she has severed many relationships in that business due to her attitude and tha way she treats people she is where she is because of him. And tap out this post was made last year.
She still needs to humble herself
trina was whipping that hair back and forth
No wonder why Vince divorced her I would too if I was him with the quickness
Is that a lawyer or a marriage counselor?? 😂 Because how is any of this his business.
I feel like being the youngest Tamar learned from her sisters and mother what was acceptable and unacceptable when it came to a man and she learned from her own past. It seems like she is the only one who actually applied what she has learned. A lot of people can't handle tough love. Sugar coating and hugging people all the time doesn't work if you are not honest. Over the show seasons they hadnt listened to her and were continuing the same cycle.
No she didn’t, cuz Vince was putting hands on her for years.
So here Towanda defended him but he tried to drag her through the ringer during the divorce. Threatening to take the kids from her just so he can get all he can from her.
Why is Tamar always so angry and controlling over everything? She doesn't care that her words hurt her sisters, as long as she can 'keep it real' by venting what's boiling up inside her. Maybe because she can't look too hard at her own marriage.
They both have valid points, but I agree with Tamar!
I guess Towanda does not have the same definition of father/babysitter that most people have. I personally thought father provided home, shelter, clothing, etc Sitter on the other hand comes over when you are not home and watches the kids until you return. They sometimes help with homework, feed the kids (food you provided) and get the kids ready for bed. Point is they go home and do not provide financial support-like Towanda husband who lives with his grandmother! and REFUSES to get a job.
Trina looked so pretty!
Just happy that Towanda stopped wearing those ponytails
LMAOOO
And now look how then tables have turned
a good father is a provider.Stop minimizing that Towanda.
Florence Kimondo She wasn't minimizing shit... Tamar needs to shut the fuck up and stop minimizing his role in his children's lives, all because SHE placed more value in a man who could provide financially...but was actually hitting on her! That's not her place. Sister or not! If Tawanda says he wasn't a good husband, but damn if you gonna call him a bad father, that should have been the end of it!
When you help your Sister out!! Your doing it for because it’s your Sister and you Love her . I understand. Tamar is mad at Andre because it cane to this . I would be mad at him too . Towanda just says he’s a Great Father but Not a Husband. Tamar is too Extreme sometimes . She don’t care if it hurts others or not . Sometime you just need to be there for support and keep Quiet!!! She don’t like it when they talk about Vince and all he has done .
They need to keep Tamar out their business if they haven't learned yet they learning now she just wanted to take the time out to put it out there that she bought the car
So if you don’t have a job that means you’re not a father? No! That means you’re not a good provider! Being a father is so much more! Towanda knows that which is partly why she was so upset. She sees how he is with his kids and shows fatherly love. I bet if Vince were to financially support her son but never spends time with him , listen to him c check on him teaches etc ... she wud understand then.
"You live wit your sister, he drivin' your car" ... LOL! I'm sorry she may have sounded harsh but she was keeping it 100 - Towanda's husband is not handling his business. If Towanda lit his ass up like that, maybe he'd get it together. I know she loves him but she's way too easy on that dude. I gotta go with Tamar on this one. It's hard to watch somebody you love be taken advantage of so understand Tamar's anger.
I am team Tamar. She's definitely is smarter than the rest of them.
money can't buy happiness, people might call her a gold digger, but im pretty sure its more than just money
Shame on you Tamar you need to take several seats😂😂😂
Karma really does come
Back around huh Tamar
Hollup I didn't realize that was tamar that towanda was arguing with. Tamar looks almost completely different here than she does now.
I always thought Tamar was a mouth all mighty😂😂😂
This was despicable from Tamar! One of her lowest moments ever!
This is why I don't let people buy me shit they gonna throw it in your face
If as a sister I give you something you are not to throw it in my face.
This chick got life effed up!!!!!!
The Audacity to belittle your sister's husband and her situation she got some nerve,she is so wrong and not supportive at all.. Tamar in my opinion is a Narcissist at it's Finest on period.
Oh by the way does anyone know if Tamar is Still Married to Vince?🤔