This lady is faithful but will easily be tempted to cheat koz of this gamblers behaviour, sanitize his phone n you will be shocked, he is the worst in disguise
Am a man, and i don't side with anyone, but this woman i cannot blame her. Man, betting with your family money to an extent of children being chased away from school, and house rent, yenyewe, a responsible woman will find a way to sort things out. Sisi wanamne ndio sometimes hufanya hawa madame wacheze nnje
She can do anything, but when you are doing sex (sins) to feed your children, it is like poisoning them. doing anything nikwenda kwa mjengo, ama do anything else which is not a sin.
I doubt she's innocent. Far from it coz if she was, she wouldn't have lied to her husband. And by the way, never say "sincerely", when you weren't there. Just say it's what you feel. And as we know, feelings are sometimes very far from the truth.
@@protichnarokwest6405 Eeh, mimi ni kama yeye...Unaumwa? Mbwa hii. Janadume lina bet pesa yake yote halijui majukumu ni nini unakuja kumtetea...Wewe pia ni irresponsible kama wewe.nugu.
Huyu bwege ajifunze yafuatayo: 1. Betting ni uhuni kama uhuni mwingine 2. Ukoloni ni ujinga usiofaa maishani,anapaswa athamini mkewe. 3. Afanye kazi awajibike kwa familia yake, neno la Mungu haliliwi. 4. Dini sio unafiki wa kama huu wake anaoonesha. 5. Mke wake hana tatizo, tatizo ni yeye mwenyewe. 6. Ujinga utamfanya afe masikini.
This can be salvaged. Even though I don't support this woman's actions of asking for another man's favor, this man needs to take total responsibility for his family.
Mwanamke n kama mtoto ukijituma na aone ukweli unajituma kama mwanaume atarelax kiac atakama ni kutafuta akusaidie kuna kiwango hatafika lakini akiona umekaa tu jua lazima hao watoto wake wafanye afikirie extra akuna kitu mama hawezi fanya ju ya mtoto wake
This man have been looking way of avoiding his responsibilities,how could he not even care if the children sleep outside if they fail to pay the rent?im shocked‼️😱😭
This man is destroying himself. Avoiding responsibility and ungrateful. The woman's story sounds truthful and logical. A coping strategy. She's the one holding the pieces of the family together. It's sad he's taken her for granted and she has realised it.... I doubt his phone is clean.
@GeorgeMukudi from the discussions involved and being objective here NOT subjective. You can see it's the bread winner who- willingly failed to do their part. And ignores all attempts to accept fault. He is also willing to throw his kids out yet they did nothing in this situation.
This woman has done nothing wrong. This man is trying to run away from responsibilities and he ain't worth it. This woman should leave this man and raise her kids cos the guy is pushing her backwards. He'll never stop betting and being irresponsible. The man trying to act as if the woman has cheated is insane. He's saying he's still a man with/without money but still he's an irresponsible man who doesn't deserve the title as the head of the family.
Betting is addiction and is too dangerous,I had this guy was betting knowing my m_pesa pin I was a sleep he transferred all what I had 😢to bet deleted everything it was this time landlord pressuring me rent I find nothing I cried and He came home drunk holding energy drink and khat chewing I walked out and never look behind 3yrs down the line
'This woman has done nothing wrong'. Your words exemplify why marriages can't work in our generation anymore. People no longer have principles. And the sad thing about it is they beat their chests and assert they have done nothing wrong. I 100% agree the man is almost a deadbeat at the moment. Using your kid's school fees for gambling is pure evil and irresponsible. But, does that mean the wife has the liberty to sleep with other men to fend for their kids? Is that how lowly people treat their marrigaes? Do you really think in all their marriage years, the wife hasn't done something irresponsible as well? And if you think your differences are irreconcilable, why not just separate?
Very unresonable man na mtu katili na yuko na machungu zake hasa za ku fail in life. Mimi sioni kama mama amaanguka ila may be angeanguka. Reasonable person gives the benefit of doubt and then keeps an eye. Man covering for his failures
Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 1 Timothy 5:8
Mapenz shikamoo 🤗.BMS MIE II GARI YA MAPENZ NLISHUKA WAKATI NLIKOSA FARE😒.Anyway yet looking for anyone who can adopt me and my gals for a while a beg 😌.
Once you're married,You must respect your marriage en always speak the truth cos the truth will always set you free;The fact that she lied to her husband that she's going to Chama yet she was going to Mwalimu shows that she's cheating 💔Some women can really disappoint 😔
Don't be ignorant. The man clearly BETs his money away, the woman asked for help and decided to drink some wine to distress..... soo.... the man isn't bothered with them being thrown out with the kids either
Men who have not gone through such, can not understand the pain of betrayal , shida ziko kila mahali, even now i go through financial huddles highs and lows , but if she comes with other men and i discover it , i will be a former hubby.
It will be very difficult for this man to continue living with his wife with the thoughts of her having a good time with Mr. Pius. Especially after he proved to be faithful. Let Mr. Pius now take over fully
The last words the man is realying on can mean either the woman was just appreciating the good attitude Mr.Pius did of giving her money.Her last action of removing rings show some one whose heart is in another place
If a man doesn't fulfil his responsibilities as a husband and father, even a good woman will go astray. Smooth speaking doesn't keep a good woman, my friend. Umeshundwa Mr man.
I don’t understand why some men want full respect from their women and don’t take their responsibilities. This man doesn’t love this woman neither doesn’t care about the children but craving for respect. The woman is saying he is mismanaging his money thus the woman is suffering and probably going to an extent of having an affair not for love but to provide for her child. Women will do everything they can to provide. You man tembea this woman respects you so much
Soooo watu wafanyanye Usherati,waibe,watoke nje ya ndoa for the sake ya pesa ,she should talk about the matter/address the matter involving even other people or get out of the marriage.
If you're betting the way this woman is saying you pushed her away betting is like alcohol but my dear going out with another man is not the solution a man cant just dashed you money for nothing kama hukukulwa uliekuwa ukulwe
This lady is faithful but will easily be tempted to cheat koz of this gamblers behaviour, sanitize his phone n you will be shocked, he is the worst in disguise
what if ameregea na ukumwi
Am a man, and i don't side with anyone, but this woman i cannot blame her. Man, betting with your family money to an extent of children being chased away from school, and house rent, yenyewe, a responsible woman will find a way to sort things out. Sisi wanamne ndio sometimes hufanya hawa madame wacheze nnje
Kunywa John Walker kwa bill yangu bro 👌
surely..then you call yourself a man of God
yeap.. but i think things should just be straight. Leave if the conditions don't suits you. Simple
Advice for men: Work hard and pay your bills so you don't get embarrassed and jealous when your wife is treated well by others
A cheater is cheater even if u give her what
a mother can do anything for her kids wellbeing... She will always hv good intentions
She can do anything, but when you are doing sex (sins) to feed your children, it is like poisoning them. doing anything nikwenda kwa mjengo, ama do anything else which is not a sin.
Mwanaume mzima unabet na school fees, ukafungisha duka, na hamjalipa rent. Hata wewe tumesema uchezwe kabisa.
Hapo sawa mwanaume hana responsibility at all.
Kabisa
This man is avoiding responsibility......
Once you're married you should always talk the truth.
Sincerly speaking this lady is innocent
So siku kazi yako itaenda chini, naweza kula bibi yako, right?
I doubt she's innocent. Far from it coz if she was, she wouldn't have lied to her husband.
And by the way, never say "sincerely", when you weren't there. Just say it's what you feel. And as we know, feelings are sometimes very far from the truth.
Mwanaume ana bet nnn nani mzazi aede@@DeeMcMunda-zk3hs
Olskia wapi innocent akatumiwa ubar wee kwani unatubeba aje na ww
This lady is good and innocent. Jamaa is just a fala! He should seek help for his gambling addiction
As a man I would feel bad too if my woman did this. This lady made a mistake not informing the hubby. But this lady is honest, she never cheated.
hati she has never,,,😂😂😂 labda ujaoa.
This is a stupid man. This lady is solo dealing with a Narccistic husband
Someone paying for the Uber just to meet and she also lends you a loan,watu sio wajinga
Masculinity is earned and femininity protected . Period
Huyu mwanaume anakaa tu mkoloni, pthoo😮.
juu amejua ukweli.. ndo akaka mkoloni sasa,,wewe ni kaa huyo mama tu😢
@@protichnarokwest6405 Eeh, mimi ni kama yeye...Unaumwa?
Mbwa hii.
Janadume lina bet pesa yake yote halijui majukumu ni nini unakuja kumtetea...Wewe pia ni irresponsible kama wewe.nugu.
Mama alikosea kuongea uongo😮
Kweli kabisa he sounds mean yes mean n avoiding his responsibilities.
So bibi Yako anatumiwa Uber na mtu mwingne na uko to how is your thinking
Sister leave this kind of a man he's not responsible and he's not worth it
He's not responsible! And already asking another man to take his family😏😂
Wewe in bure,mkebe tu
And she's a cheater
unakaa hio type
and when she does that you'll be the first to tell her......"don't come near my house/husband ,you're not married"
Huyu bwege ajifunze yafuatayo:
1. Betting ni uhuni kama uhuni mwingine
2. Ukoloni ni ujinga usiofaa maishani,anapaswa athamini mkewe.
3. Afanye kazi awajibike kwa familia yake, neno la Mungu haliliwi.
4. Dini sio unafiki wa kama huu wake anaoonesha.
5. Mke wake hana tatizo, tatizo ni yeye mwenyewe.
6. Ujinga utamfanya afe masikini.
The lady explained very well kulingana na message..the lady is genuine hapa.. husband is jealous and not responsible
This can be salvaged. Even though I don't support this woman's actions of asking for another man's favor, this man needs to take total responsibility for his family.
True
Very true
Simp Man
True
Simping... Huyu alienda kukuliwa na Pius
Mwanamke n kama mtoto ukijituma na aone ukweli unajituma kama mwanaume atarelax kiac atakama ni kutafuta akusaidie kuna kiwango hatafika lakini akiona umekaa tu jua lazima hao watoto wake wafanye afikirie extra akuna kitu mama hawezi fanya ju ya mtoto wake
this lady is innocent. she was doing her best to help her children
Na umalaya ama?
she innocent, we stand with her.....the guy is a betting addict hakuna kitu anaweza sikia tena
Ngombe ya mwanaume ,,kwenda kubaff ,,mama usijali all will be well
STEVE THIS LADY IS VERY INNOCENT. DO EVERYTHING TO RESTORE THIS MARRIAGE
Whaaaaat
How na unaskia mama anasema hajawahi skia hivyo 😢
Wewe ni wa wapi! being taken on a date by a teacher is innocent.
How do you know is innocent short hair cut women they are worse than a satan 😂😂😂😂😂😂
shiit who is this
This lady is innocent
At times you are pushed to do things unknowingly because of kids..
Stevo kindly restore this union and this man should man up...
That is not innocent at all , how did that teacher knew about stress and among the parents why he struck on her? There are alot deep inside.
I agreed with you until your last sentence. I had to take back my like. Who wants to live like this for the rest of their life???
This man have been looking way of avoiding his responsibilities,how could he not even care if the children sleep outside if they fail to pay the rent?im shocked‼️😱😭
We mama jipange na watoto wako..huyu mwanaume wa betting hamuendi mahali
Banah
Careless talk from this man.
Threat
True,,immature
Betting is a serious addiction that is breaking many homes and families 😢😢
This man is destroying himself. Avoiding responsibility and ungrateful. The woman's story sounds truthful and logical. A coping strategy. She's the one holding the pieces of the family together. It's sad he's taken her for granted and she has realised it....
I doubt his phone is clean.
This man talking of God first and bms is there listening keenly when he knows very well it's about to go down.
I think the guy is tired of taking care of his family ndio maana anajifanya ivyo. Alikua anataka tu excuse
Very true....
Hata kama mnasema reasoning ya huyu mwanaume is very low then anafanya betting hajui rent ina lipwa aje hajui school fees ya watoto ina lipwa aje.
This lady has a concern that must be addressed.
Why do I feel we should help this lady with rent for a couple months while they sort out their marriage
Bms aweke namba
Yes tupewe number
Help a cheating wife, not me
@GeorgeMukudi from the discussions involved and being objective here NOT subjective. You can see it's the bread winner who- willingly failed to do their part. And ignores all attempts to accept fault. He is also willing to throw his kids out yet they did nothing in this situation.
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Hadi mungu hataki betting 😂😂😂😂 this lady ako innocent
I like the wày this lady is explaining
This lady is innocent and the jamaa has taken advantage to run away from responsibilities
Not in agreement with you, that text has wait and so painful and the lady left it intentionally for her to make this guy mad
This woman has done nothing wrong. This man is trying to run away from responsibilities and he ain't worth it. This woman should leave this man and raise her kids cos the guy is pushing her backwards. He'll never stop betting and being irresponsible. The man trying to act as if the woman has cheated is insane. He's saying he's still a man with/without money but still he's an irresponsible man who doesn't deserve the title as the head of the family.
Betting is addiction and is too dangerous,I had this guy was betting knowing my m_pesa pin I was a sleep he transferred all what I had 😢to bet deleted everything it was this time landlord pressuring me rent I find nothing I cried and He came home drunk holding energy drink and khat chewing I walked out and never look behind 3yrs down the line
'This woman has done nothing wrong'. Your words exemplify why marriages can't work in our generation anymore. People no longer have principles. And the sad thing about it is they beat their chests and assert they have done nothing wrong. I 100% agree the man is almost a deadbeat at the moment. Using your kid's school fees for gambling is pure evil and irresponsible. But, does that mean the wife has the liberty to sleep with other men to fend for their kids? Is that how lowly people treat their marrigaes? Do you really think in all their marriage years, the wife hasn't done something irresponsible as well? And if you think your differences are irreconcilable, why not just separate?
Why did she lie about where she was going she a cheater acting holly
That true
@@janetnyanchera1252I feel you! Been there done that, got tired of bills and dumped his ass. Alcoholism and betting is a disease that never heals
The wife sounds genuine...her explanation is open
Team AVIATOR haloooooo😂😂😂😂 school fees flew away 🔥🔥🔥🔥
The only thing that this woman did wrongly is meeting Pius chini ya maji without mzees knowledge.
They said having beautiful wife is like planting quava near a school..I was thinking of making quava garden in my bedroom..people are wicked🚶🚶
Now How's this woman beautiful?
🤣🤣🤣niuwe na violence.Anyway good lucky 👌
@@johndalton23kwako kuwa mweupe ndiye beautiful,
This lady needs to be careful. This man aint shit
Bet responsibly. You can't bet with all the money hadi school fees, rent alaaaaaaar. Makosa no ya huyu mwanaume. Come beat me.
Very unresonable man na mtu katili na yuko na machungu zake hasa za ku fail in life. Mimi sioni kama mama amaanguka ila may be angeanguka. Reasonable person gives the benefit of doubt and then keeps an eye. Man covering for his failures
I love this man...he is my spirit
Ooh please huyu sio mwanaume ni mjinga mkuu hiding in Church!!!
It is betrayal to go behind your partner's back to make a deal with someone else
Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 1 Timothy 5:8
Sasa anajua God n kazi n kubet surely akweda huko mbali
But mtu anatumia pesa ya school fee kwa betting ni mwanaume mjinga mwenye hajajipanga
I don’t blame you mama, RUNNN!! Wah!
Hapo kwa kukunywa pombe imalize stress shows kumekuwa na communication going on for long
I see a Big 🧠 Brain in you Boss.
This people have been dating
Don't expect the lady to admit that she slept with mr pius.even though its quite evident that they slept together.no lady will ever admit.
They are calm, and I believe they can make a better home
Mapenz shikamoo 🤗.BMS MIE II GARI YA MAPENZ NLISHUKA WAKATI NLIKOSA FARE😒.Anyway yet looking for anyone who can adopt me and my gals for a while a beg 😌.
Bet responsibly young man
They haven’t done anything in that meeting but was in the process of dating now 🤷🏽
True
Once you're married,You must respect your marriage en always speak the truth cos the truth will always set you free;The fact that she lied to her husband that she's going to Chama yet she was going to Mwalimu shows that she's cheating 💔Some women can really disappoint 😔
Very wicked woman.
@@Penalty252 For real 😔
Sasa wakule bet ama
@@marionmuthoni2511 it's not advisable
Don't be ignorant. The man clearly BETs his money away, the woman asked for help and decided to drink some wine to distress..... soo.... the man isn't bothered with them being thrown out with the kids either
This man was finding a way to escape the responsibility cz amekua addict wa betting
God first is good advice but for him betting is his god. Beauty is not outward and God did not make a mistake when forming each one of us.
This lady is innocent, hiyo ndyo ukweli ya mambo ,young man thank God you have loyal woman ,
Men who have not gone through such, can not understand the pain of betrayal , shida ziko kila mahali, even now i go through financial huddles highs and lows , but if she comes with other men and i discover it , i will be a former hubby.
The man is not providing for his family…before God provide
But the lady make sense,issue hapa nikuenda out tu,no cheating evidence is there,so i cant judge
No man can give you money bila kunini, wife usitubebe ufala
Volume kiasi
The Woman is honestly honest
Weeee the people cheat let me be single to have peace of mind
Don't invite the spirit of singleness know that marriage works.
Your tongue has power you can build or destroy yourself through your words.
Aende kwa Pius but this mas should man up and take care of his family awachane na beting
This lady did not do a terrible thing as such. The man should forgive
The moment this lady went and share her dirty linen to this teacher that's infidelity and lied about chama while going to meet Aman.
How's ths man reasoning ATI watoto walale nje,a mother can do anything for the sake of her kids,run mama live your life
He is a wise man, though it's as if he has failed his responsibilities
A cheater is just a cheater even if you are responsible
So sad for this GUY
Una bwana ama una bibi whatever happens you should open to your family partner
Mwanaume akuchukulie Uber ndivo uende akununulie drink na akupe Loan without benefit? Really...
This guy is not damn responsible to his family, and pushed this lady this far. That's the bitter truth
Last part shows true colours of that guy.... But kukosa pesa messes men alooot!!
Sad to see such a good union breaking,, people should at least hv asecond chance
Betting is dangerous when one is addicted, it ruined my marriage, cheating wasn't the way out.Let me heal in peace 😮😮
Wanaume msipojukumika mtaishi kuanywa. A woman can do all she has to do to make sure her kids are ok
No one is responsible, nobody is to blame... Either all are guilty or none...”But this GUY Thooooooh
It will be very difficult for this man to continue living with his wife with the thoughts of her having a good time with Mr. Pius. Especially after he proved to be faithful. Let Mr. Pius now take over fully
This comment should be pinned
Faithful my foot! He is an irresponsible idiot!
How do someone stand such a man aki na hii thinking
Naweza enda niuze kila kitu kwa hio nyumba nirudi kwetu nipumzishe akili. Nitafte job gulf Nile watoto wangu hii kondoo ya mwanaume ni futile mbali
Steve working hard to protect his money- protect each other take the money and talk later💯she is innocent.
Truly speaking naogopa mwanaume wakuBET 😢😢😢
I won 6m am now a landlord
Am very proud of you boy child dem tembeza kiatu…na Una Funga macho fungua uende 😂😂😂
Trust worthy to your woman without being responsible is nothing bro
The last words the man is realying on can mean either the woman was just appreciating the good attitude Mr.Pius did of giving her money.Her last action of removing rings show some one whose heart is in another place
Huyu mama ❤️ 💕 alipewa hiyo pesa ya loyal couple. Coz she is warrior in hands of mkoloni mjinga 😢
Mama leave him alone..may God enlarge your territories
Walimu mko na bahati mnakagua tu fees balance za watoto mnapigia mama mnakagua kinembe vizuri fees balance inaisha.
Mamaa ondokea Huyu mtu ako na ufala… he’s avoiding responsibilities.. controller mbaya sanaa
This one is forgivable, tusiblame Sanaa dada , my brother bet responsibly.
When I see people who are married cheat and yet they have children it makes me give up on relationships
Having such kind of man as husband....u will die b4 your days. Run my sister....run...
Aki huyu ni stress tupu
Leave this idiot
Narcissist behavior, sister run and never look back
if you don't provide bibi naye utakuliwa
If a man doesn't fulfil his responsibilities as a husband and father, even a good woman will go astray. Smooth speaking doesn't keep a good woman, my friend. Umeshundwa Mr man.
I don’t understand why some men want full respect from their women and don’t take their responsibilities.
This man doesn’t love this woman neither doesn’t care about the children but craving for respect.
The woman is saying he is mismanaging his money thus the woman is suffering and probably going to an extent of having an affair not for love but to provide for her child.
Women will do everything they can to provide.
You man tembea this woman respects you so much
Aaya auze kinembe tu but ukimwi ikija ......
Hii Akili ulikubali kuvuka nayo mwaka 😂😂
I concur with you.
Why cheat instead of leaving the marriage?
Soooo watu wafanyanye Usherati,waibe,watoke nje ya ndoa for the sake ya pesa ,she should talk about the matter/address the matter involving even other people or get out of the marriage.
Haki this woman is TRUTHFUL!....she's hustling for her family. There's no proof haki Stevo ita yeye mpe iyo doo, wacha kuwa hivo.
This woman never cheated....when a man doesn't take responsibility for the family, the woman will have to take the masculine role
If you're betting the way this woman is saying you pushed her away betting is like alcohol but my dear going out with another man is not the solution a man cant just dashed you money for nothing kama hukukulwa uliekuwa ukulwe
Mama ondokea huyu mwanaume,ikiwa ni yy na betting muache.
Nkama mtu wa miraa na gomba no saving ni wasting money tu na ujinga za betting.
Wacha watu waongea
@purity SS tunakula Gomba na tuko responsible na hatujafilisika ni ujinga ya mtu
Huyu mwanaume akue responsible period! ndio heshima indumu
Sure
Haiwezi dumu baada ya usherati.