"Pick The Nice Guy Before You're Divorced Like Me..." 40-Year-Old Woman Says Women Always Pick Wrong

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  • @AntonDaniels
    @AntonDaniels  Місяць тому +17

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  • @polkeats
    @polkeats Місяць тому +754

    The fact that a “boring man” is even a thing implies that women get into relationships looking to be entertained.. and my name ain’t Cedric.

    • @Fireandknives
      @Fireandknives Місяць тому

      That’s why they tend to say they like men dumber than them, easier to manipulate.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Місяць тому +42

      Kings of comedy

    • @Micosboo
      @Micosboo Місяць тому +38

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Joke approved!

    • @polkeats
      @polkeats Місяць тому +16

      @@Micosboo”I do this for Miss Gladys.”

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Місяць тому +12

      Bars!!!!

  • @rayburr80
    @rayburr80 Місяць тому +508

    As a Black geek, we know we're not wanted until they're not wanted by the men THEY desire😏

    • @SekouTooFroze
      @SekouTooFroze Місяць тому

      Wym I’m in tech and I get females wym. Go to the gym and make yourself physically appear better and stop tricking. Power of the tongue can get you anything

    • @sonicwarp71
      @sonicwarp71 Місяць тому +100

      THIS!!!!!! When the ball players, hood 🥷🏾s, and smooth talkers not trying to fuck on them anymore, that’s when we start to get those, “where all the good men at” posts 😂😂

    • @rayburr80
      @rayburr80 Місяць тому +27

      @@sonicwarp71 Exactly 💯

    • @kbrabson
      @kbrabson Місяць тому +60

      Yes, now that they're broke and been tossed around they want to marry me. 😂 nope, never

    • @DangleSan
      @DangleSan Місяць тому +50

      Yep it's the reason Donald Glover and Jordan peel both have white wives it's not for lack of them being pro black, I mixed grew up on the East Side of Detroit for 22 years I did sports I didn't get any play from black women till I had a car and it was known in the hood I was moving to the suburbs, By then it was too late Greek and Albanian girls were giving me attention

  • @Viejitosoyyo
    @Viejitosoyyo Місяць тому +458

    No one under 35 is going to listen to her 😂😂😂😂

  • @theengineer704
    @theengineer704 Місяць тому +344

    I hear her. Men, grab a passport and find your wife overseas.

    • @Koh569
      @Koh569 Місяць тому +16

      😂😂😂😂

    • @juliansearcie1758
      @juliansearcie1758 Місяць тому +20

      More power to you and the best of luck to all passport brothers 💪💪💪💪

    • @Dipset415
      @Dipset415 Місяць тому +11

      Latvia ✊🏿🥳

    • @Mellolyfe
      @Mellolyfe Місяць тому +8

      Literally looking for remote work until I get clients overseas in da hair industry

    • @justmythoughtjustmythought4101
      @justmythoughtjustmythought4101 Місяць тому +8

      u must haven’t seen them passport bros video lol location doesn’t matter there’s no good women on all 4 corners soo trend lightly when seeking

  • @wutang23361
    @wutang23361 Місяць тому +897

    The "nice guy" is a retirement plan

    • @dmoneyas24
      @dmoneyas24 Місяць тому +54

      Fact!

    • @Koh569
      @Koh569 Місяць тому +63

      Good to say at the beginning, but a bad thought process to say because of relization. I am not a rebound and don't look in my direction.

    • @humblemole9878
      @humblemole9878 Місяць тому +14

      Lol true

    • @TheWholeWorld1
      @TheWholeWorld1 Місяць тому +19

      Boom! 💥

    • @jdawson6487
      @jdawson6487 Місяць тому +16

      Facts

  • @melindakay-rp6po
    @melindakay-rp6po Місяць тому +136

    Im so sick of hearing women with that tired “When I was young I thought nice guys were boring” stuff. Really?!? You thought being loved, respected and being treated well by a man is boring?

    • @teresworrell7973
      @teresworrell7973 Місяць тому +11

      Say it again

    • @aarongray1981
      @aarongray1981 Місяць тому +8

      That’s exactly what they thought🤦‍♂️

    • @reggiestockton8166
      @reggiestockton8166 Місяць тому +5

      Forreal 🤣 I'm perplexed

    • @partingalano
      @partingalano Місяць тому +14

      Deep down they know they are undeserving of such love and respect so they see the guy who gives them that as suckers.

    • @gcforTRUTH
      @gcforTRUTH Місяць тому +3

      Most of them are undeserving.

  • @JM-qn3tf
    @JM-qn3tf Місяць тому +181

    If she could go back & do it all over again… knowing what she knows now…. She’s still not picking the nice guy. They are full of it

  • @jasminedtucker
    @jasminedtucker Місяць тому +110

    As the dude who women used to cheat with (not bragging, just being truthful), I been telling dudes this. Vast majority of women are superficial and only want what turns them on. They will still marry the boring guy, but will cheat on him, or simply not give him their all because they are still attracted to looks, charm, and an edge. Basically things that dont matter much long term. I had women tell me many times that they are with their "boring" guy because he is stable. Yall have to be smart and choose women who truly want you, for you.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 Місяць тому +14

      I assume they all cheat my solution is always have another woman as the nice borning guy

    • @RidewithDEEbesttransportation
      @RidewithDEEbesttransportation Місяць тому +18

      Same here mayn..similar experiences as well myself...being on that side you hear and see alot,and take it for what it is

    • @arubarobinson4663
      @arubarobinson4663 Місяць тому

      Niggad come on here and vsnt is crazy😂😂😂😂
      I used to be on the other side. Man go sit down somewhere 😂😂😂

    • @reggiestockton8166
      @reggiestockton8166 Місяць тому +11

      Yup the first time a girl cheated on her man with me I was like 15. I'm not gonna lie, when you see how alot of them really move, you can't help but develop trust issues. I've never been cheated on to my knowledge, but I think it would have made me less jaded than being the guy she cheats with. When she's cheating with you, you really see how ruthless and merciless they are 😂 Men are cheaters too, but they don't resent their woman for treating them well and being too nice 😂 if you treat some women too well they will literally start to resent you 😂

    • @RidewithDEEbesttransportation
      @RidewithDEEbesttransportation Місяць тому +5

      @@reggiestockton8166 man u said a word..lol
      I def then been on both sides..and I can tell you the only time I got treated disrespectfully..was when I treated a woman to well..
      Ish azz backwards..lol
      Noe I dont have any emotion and just move accordingly and it seems to reel them in..smh
      I dnt understand female nature nor do I try.🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @user-fm3tu6gu4r
    @user-fm3tu6gu4r Місяць тому +160

    Find a woman that likes you for you.

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 Місяць тому +31

      And find a woman that you like in character, not just looks

    • @rigil5477
      @rigil5477 Місяць тому +7

      As long as you are willing to put in the leg work and pay for a few dates then you can get 'fit, feminine, friendly.'

    • @realistrick
      @realistrick Місяць тому +12

      @@misskeah8893 might as well be searching for hay in a stack of needles...

    • @TianaThompson90s
      @TianaThompson90s Місяць тому +1

      ​@@realistrick😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Artburn360-Trojanhorse
      @Artburn360-Trojanhorse 28 днів тому +1

      Found her ❤❤❤

  • @screwed_chopped_77095
    @screwed_chopped_77095 Місяць тому +235

    40 and divorced twice...sit this one out ma'am.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 Місяць тому +7

      😂😂😂😂😂right ✅️

    • @factsunloaded4808
      @factsunloaded4808 Місяць тому +5

      She still believe that every one deserves a prince of white armour 🎉

    • @adamp.8571
      @adamp.8571 Місяць тому +12

      ?… she’s giving good advice to younger women. We need more of this.

    • @TianaThompson90s
      @TianaThompson90s Місяць тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @thebrokenretailtrader3033
      @thebrokenretailtrader3033 Місяць тому

      Black armor looks better 🥱

  • @heirtothethrone000
    @heirtothethrone000 Місяць тому +184

    If I'm a womans second choice, then she will be no choice ✌️💯✌️

    • @michaelwilliams4687
      @michaelwilliams4687 Місяць тому +11

      FACTS!

    • @invalidaccount2315
      @invalidaccount2315 Місяць тому +18

      if i am her second choice she will be 3rd in rotation

    • @crashHypnotize
      @crashHypnotize Місяць тому +5

      Hate to break it to you buddy, but the sad reality is that most people that are in relationships. One of those people were not the others first option. Often than not thats just life. We don't get the car or the house we dream of, we get the one most time we can afford, we don't get the dream job and corner office, but we have a job. Don't make it too superficial. But that is your right to move accordingly.

    • @fabrikskhadafi9473
      @fabrikskhadafi9473 Місяць тому +11

      @@crashHypnotizethat’s fine and we have a right to decline that and put ourselves first because we refuse to work hard to be a woman’s back up plan. This is why we want 50/50 as a fair ground with these harlots

    • @lovely12660
      @lovely12660 Місяць тому

      ✅✅✅✅Good for your. BeacuE this woman will get you cheated on for sure

  • @UtdG01
    @UtdG01 Місяць тому +230

    Lmao… and people wanna tell me nice guys DON'T finish last???😂😂 Nice, stable and "boring" will almost always get you all the leftovers, without fail

    • @KingMK31
      @KingMK31 Місяць тому +80

      Nice, stable, and boring will keep your life great! Its the wrong chicks that will f*ck everything up!

    • @LeekedBeats
      @LeekedBeats Місяць тому +15

      @@KingMK31facts

    • @johncalhoun916
      @johncalhoun916 Місяць тому +13

      @@KingMK31 Ultra Facts!!!!!!!!

    • @Koh569
      @Koh569 Місяць тому +12

      ​​@@KingMK31MEGA facts !!!

    • @HindSight-hl7jf
      @HindSight-hl7jf Місяць тому +7

      Facts😂😂😂

  • @hamadul-shattan8899
    @hamadul-shattan8899 Місяць тому +111

    "You're the kind of guy I'd love to marry; but not the kind of guy I want to date."
    Hey, nice guys! Never, ever chase the woman that you immediately desire to date; according to this young lady, you will get expired box, a bad attitude, and a strong desire to empty your bank accounts.
    Always connect and build with the woman that desires you.

    • @StrongandGrand
      @StrongandGrand Місяць тому +1

      Don’t forget another dude’s kids, usually.

  • @newmoneymarcus
    @newmoneymarcus Місяць тому +42

    I'm so glad my ex from the past broke up with me for being a nice guy. Every time I randomly run into her, she gets all emotional. It doesn't help that I'm driving a 911. 😂 I’m glad she chose a bad boy over me. The dude got eight different women pregnant. 🤦🏾

    • @soundcheck2k7
      @soundcheck2k7 Місяць тому +9

      The good Lord protected you. Keep on brother!

  • @Colt19
    @Colt19 Місяць тому +107

    Trust me.. them nice guys ain’t checking for yall..

    • @JUSTDON34
      @JUSTDON34 Місяць тому +28

      finally somebody said it's difference between nice guys and simps lol

    • @rz8753
      @rz8753 Місяць тому +9

      😂😂😂😂yes nice guys are not Simps , she sound kinda money hungry and I’m a woman ..

    • @305VERSATILE
      @305VERSATILE Місяць тому +3

      No Cap

    • @leohawkins1737
      @leohawkins1737 Місяць тому

      @@Colt19 I agree with you on that 👍

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 25 днів тому

      Correct nice guys don't want to be bothered with them

  • @TheBulletzgottishow20
    @TheBulletzgottishow20 Місяць тому +106

    She telling women to keep using men

    • @justmythoughtjustmythought4101
      @justmythoughtjustmythought4101 Місяць тому +7

      exactly cause nice get run thru and still be in denial bout it smh

    • @jayscott5618
      @jayscott5618 Місяць тому +1

      Well everybody gets used. It’s up to the individual how one gets used.

    • @keem7910
      @keem7910 17 днів тому

      @@jayscott5618no everyone do not get used. Bc being used leads to being abuse.

  • @GentlemensDialogue
    @GentlemensDialogue Місяць тому +37

    If a woman thinks you're boring or corny let the streets have her, she's looking for help not love

  • @greysaku
    @greysaku Місяць тому +34

    She'll demand u at your best, but expects u to except her at her worst...

  • @jimmyjay689
    @jimmyjay689 Місяць тому +102

    40 yrs old? No thnx...too late

  • @user-qo9tz8pq3d
    @user-qo9tz8pq3d Місяць тому +36

    Women think that peacefulness is boring.

  • @kcmarie3774
    @kcmarie3774 Місяць тому +44

    I love me a good ol nice guy, always have and married one. Most of my friends at the time were chasing bad boys and are all single moms now. I've been a married stay at home wife/ mom for 10 years. Now those same women finally want a nice guy and we are in our 40s lol.

    • @georgepauljr5810
      @georgepauljr5810 Місяць тому +7

      You were the only wise one in the group. 💯🌴

    • @reggiestockton8166
      @reggiestockton8166 Місяць тому +5

      Yup, a tale as old as time itself. 😂

    • @amirhoagland9668
      @amirhoagland9668 Місяць тому

      Thank you for saying this because most women will deny this is a thing when you ask them, trying to make it seem like what men have experienced for decades isn’t true and men are just suffering from a mass delusion

    • @Leeotheelyon
      @Leeotheelyon 2 години тому

      Same with my ex she's in her 40's and she's on dating apps and all those apps are is a meat market. She had a nice guy like me and left me for a cheating narcissistic scum bag. What a great choice lol good riddance

  • @andrebeauchamp6897
    @andrebeauchamp6897 Місяць тому +119

    She’s telling women to settle which will eventually result in divorce and/or infidelity. Never be a woman’s 2nd choice.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 Місяць тому

      If she not a virgin your her second choice

    • @oamatic723
      @oamatic723 Місяць тому +11

      @@canadianbrotv1303big fact 💯

    • @lovely12660
      @lovely12660 Місяць тому +15

      EXACTLY... I'm like this is the worse advice ever. You're better off single and lonely than being with someone you don't want..

    • @Lou_Da_4th
      @Lou_Da_4th Місяць тому +7

      Idk, I think what she's trying to say is, what ladies think is "settling" is actually not settling, its actually choosing correctly for the long run.

    • @andrebeauchamp6897
      @andrebeauchamp6897 Місяць тому +5

      @@Lou_Da_4th That’s problem, most women doesn’t know how to properly vet and select a good man. Most were raised by Single Mothers who selected poorly and are bitter and pass that vitriol down to their daughters which also includes encourage their daughters to be independent and not need a man. In addition, some mothers encourage their daughters to seek out a man for his money. Most of these women also grew up in households without their father nor a positive father figure which means they wouldn’t know what a “good man” looked like if 10 of them were placed in front of them. I have asked women age 50+ to describe a good man and most of them describe only what a man do for them financially or some other superficial trait or characteristics, none consistent with being a good husband and father to children. Most of them are a lost cause.🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @iomegaprime2.087
    @iomegaprime2.087 Місяць тому +118

    Is it just me or has the NICE GUY narrative become a “ last resort/ break in case of emergency” option for women?

  • @pebbles9908
    @pebbles9908 Місяць тому +120

    When I was in school, girls wanted that Thug. They wanted the, "Girl, he so fine..." or "girl, he plays football, or basketball..."
    I was the quiet, dorky type. I stayed to myself, didn't drink, didn't smoke, didn't hang out with the boys.
    Those girls wanted NOTHING to do with me. Until the thug went to jail, the sports guy didn't make it in college or lost his scholarship doing drugs. The fine dude had 5 kids by 5 different women!
    10 to 15 years later, suddenly the dorky, shy guy who wasn't invited to the parties and didn't have the big name friends, and the girls wouldn't give the time of day, didn't drink and smoke, suddenly was a college graduate making good money with a home and a family. Married for going on 20 years.
    I've had several of those ladies see me and lament that they wish they had chosen different. Suddenly I was a very attractive man.
    I say to the dorky, quiet guys, don't change who you are!!
    I'm 53 and loving life.

    • @realistrick
      @realistrick Місяць тому +7

      amen

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 Місяць тому +7

      😂😂😂😂😂same here bro

    • @R_W_Goodson
      @R_W_Goodson Місяць тому +11

      My response to all of them would be: “We weren’t checking for each other back then. It wasn’t going to work out anyway.” [Then carefully watch their body language]

    • @Nick_Nightingale
      @Nick_Nightingale Місяць тому +4

      Thanks for sharing

    • @user-wk8mw6to2g
      @user-wk8mw6to2g Місяць тому +1

      The story of Black America.
      I've seen sooooo many of these females and dudes that were "hot" in high school totally fall off 10 - 20 years after high school. It's scary!
      Losing on every level. They're old and beat up, poor low wage job, no education, still living in the ghetto, etc.

  • @melliwi7723
    @melliwi7723 Місяць тому +9

    She's right. I picked the nice guy (8 years ago) and since then my life is peaceful, finances are great and I have a family, I'm happy as never before. Greetings from Switzerland

  • @babyfunk7512
    @babyfunk7512 Місяць тому +65

    If some of the young girls aren’t so hard headed, they wouldn’t have to go through this mess.

    • @dante2730dp
      @dante2730dp Місяць тому +9

      Comment of the year

    • @ericrobinson1789
      @ericrobinson1789 Місяць тому +5

      They too busy wanting to live their best lives.

    • @zayinseven7923
      @zayinseven7923 Місяць тому +6

      @@ericrobinson1789 Why they "best lives" ends in the WORST Results?? Smh
      Sounds like a lie devils sell

    • @ericrobinson1789
      @ericrobinson1789 Місяць тому +2

      @@zayinseven7923 right

  • @1Blastarr
    @1Blastarr Місяць тому +22

    I've had an ex-girlfriend like that. She would run in and out of my life every few years but, this time when she came back. I told her, "I was getting married".

    • @ReceptiveKing93
      @ReceptiveKing93 Місяць тому +3

      It’s like God said “I’m tried of this woman using this man as an option” 😂

  • @Thadopeera
    @Thadopeera Місяць тому +42

    I’ve had a few women whom I dated in my 20s and 30s tell me years later that they should’ve stayed with me 🤣 They didn’t want me when I stopped selling cocaine and went back to school 💯

    • @seanmoore6245
      @seanmoore6245 Місяць тому +6

      That's most of guys bro, minus the booger sugar

    • @chrispeeples6961
      @chrispeeples6961 Місяць тому +3

      Nasty work

    • @chrispeeples6961
      @chrispeeples6961 Місяць тому +6

      I hear you. When I stopped dressing like a SoundCloud rapper they got from 'round me. But you know life is about success and reaching harmony. So it's a win

    • @JamesBrown-dc9sg
      @JamesBrown-dc9sg Місяць тому +5

      That life change was dope and not expected but you right

  • @Aja_Says
    @Aja_Says Місяць тому +8

    So glad that I picked the “boring nice guy”. Life is peaceful and stable. I couldn’t have chosen a better father for our children. I love the family and life we have built over the past 20 years.

  • @smitht1988
    @smitht1988 Місяць тому +76

    Sitting in a chick’s friend zone is crazy 😂😂

    • @bootcamprag
      @bootcamprag Місяць тому +2

      Absolutely not.. that is why I could never be friends with women...

  • @JustChill2x
    @JustChill2x Місяць тому +44

    Pick the nice guy so you can cheat on him and leave with half of his shit smh nope 😤

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 Місяць тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂facts

    • @bootcamprag
      @bootcamprag Місяць тому +2

      And go back to the toxic guy

  • @kenyattaali5356
    @kenyattaali5356 Місяць тому +42

    “Boring Guys” don’t settle for this type of hyena

    • @to2768
      @to2768 Місяць тому +2

      Ya they do😂 I see it all the time

    • @kenyattaali5356
      @kenyattaali5356 Місяць тому +4

      @@to2768 the “quotes”, were a cue for those labeled boring, to focus on their purpose. Also go where they are celebrated first, not tolerated later. Guess it went over your head.

    • @to2768
      @to2768 Місяць тому

      @@kenyattaali5356 🥱🥱 😂

  • @DeCurtaRican
    @DeCurtaRican Місяць тому +30

    No nice dude wants to be someone that women settle for and is only valued for his stability and ability to provide.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 Місяць тому +4

      😂😂😂😂😂sure don't

    • @Eman14128
      @Eman14128 Місяць тому +2

      they act like the nice guys kindness is going to be unconditional to them, kind people are normally kind to the people who are kind and good to them.

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 25 днів тому

      This video just proves how mentally disgusting they are they expect a clean well mannered dude to play financial provider and Mr stability to them after they've had they backside rammed into half by the stud badboy for years it's like getting excited over buying a rear ended Honda Accord thats been sitting in the junk yard since 2001and paying original MSRP

  • @MrCj_Common
    @MrCj_Common Місяць тому +6

    I once heard it said:. When you're dating someone, you're dating their representative. They are showing you what you want or need to see. Some can play the role longer than others. Pay attention folks. Real situations will show you who the person REALLY is.

  • @cryptomgtow3928
    @cryptomgtow3928 Місяць тому +40

    dont want no used up baby mama puntang ..nice guys...get your passport and run

  • @Dwbulldog04
    @Dwbulldog04 Місяць тому +10

    I saw a video where the man said women hate the passport bro movement because it consists of the men who are in the friendzone that women were using as backups leaving and finding love elsewhere. Women simply want to have their fun then have their backup man save them when they are ready.

    • @amirhoagland9668
      @amirhoagland9668 Місяць тому +3

      All facts, man have woken up and ain’t staying in the friendzone forever like they used to decades ago. Especially when they realize women overseas value men who are stable and on their purpose unlike American women

  • @IsaiahKeivon
    @IsaiahKeivon Місяць тому +19

    This is why I don’t bother with women past a certain age. I’m not about to be some ran through woman’s second option fall back man

  • @LovelyEJ21
    @LovelyEJ21 Місяць тому +7

    Theses birds ain’t wife material 😂 Keisha and Becky just wanna have fun😂😭 For the streets

  • @jasonross2439
    @jasonross2439 Місяць тому +14

    To all the nice guys……. Just use them and leave them. Don’t settle with them.

    • @no-mayo-please
      @no-mayo-please Місяць тому +3

      Literally the definition of being a wolf in sheep's clothing.

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield Місяць тому +2

      The game is so simple just be the man women are complaining about

    • @FreeAgent797
      @FreeAgent797 Місяць тому +3

      I was just about to say that🤣🤣

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 25 днів тому +1

      Right cause all they doing is viewing the nice guy as the responsible financially stabile guy to come and rescue her and make life easy for her it's a gimmick and scam they in it for benefiting a easy life so they ain't gotta work hard no more

  • @1983jcheat
    @1983jcheat Місяць тому +4

    If a divorced woman is expecting to Marry me. I'm gonna interview the ex husband. First question: Why did you get divorced? I wanna know what I'm walking into. 😂😂😂

  • @Operalta1629
    @Operalta1629 Місяць тому +11

    Crazy thing is that even if she had the opportunity to go back and do what she’s saying she wouldn’t take her own advice lol

  • @tiyalewhitehurst338
    @tiyalewhitehurst338 Місяць тому +11

    Never understood why you wouldn't want a Man who is Safe

  • @PureYang0
    @PureYang0 Місяць тому +9

    Ladies, if you are reading this don’t just “pick” guys like us if you aren’t going to enthusiastically love us and be loyal.
    If you are going to get with us just because you think we are “boring”, I’d rather you leave guys like us to ourselves.

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 25 днів тому +1

      Correct because that's disrespectful she basically saying she wants the good well mannered guy after pookie has left her with a sore a** and she's too tired to take care of herself financially so now she's looking a responsible clean man to rescue her so she can live a easy life

  • @thewatcher486
    @thewatcher486 Місяць тому +7

    My boring brothers....passport.

  • @jdh1969
    @jdh1969 Місяць тому +10

    I'm a middle aged man and it's a sad sight to see these gen-x women in their 40s and 50s who married pookies and Ray-Rays and rejected the nice guys. They are completely broken down and are now trying to reach back to the good men they should have chosen 20 years prior.

    • @michaeljohnson-ym8zp
      @michaeljohnson-ym8zp Місяць тому

      That’s funny because there’s a lot of videos of women in that age range who talk about how all these gen x men who are riddled with disease debt and regret trying to find a hospice care wife.

    • @kevincarballo6303
      @kevincarballo6303 Місяць тому

      @@michaeljohnson-ym8zpboth can be true at the same time ….

  • @nikkomccarroll8919
    @nikkomccarroll8919 Місяць тому +10

    Sexless marriage + 304 that been ran through = nice guy relationship.

  • @DWIL7401
    @DWIL7401 Місяць тому +22

    the face AD making is hilarious! keep stopping these young men from ruining their lives AD

  • @Spooner125
    @Spooner125 Місяць тому +4

    The good man isn’t boring. It’s just that the woman is too immature when it comes to doing what has to be done to make your way through adult life. She doesn’t see it until she’s 30 plus. . and they say women mature quicker than men!

  • @JD-te6vm
    @JD-te6vm Місяць тому +10

    That’s why we want younger and less experienced women!

  • @gregoryevans671
    @gregoryevans671 Місяць тому +2

    I respect her position and honesty. This lady is being frank and I think she has had a wake up call.

  • @archiejones340
    @archiejones340 Місяць тому +8

    Boredom is a privilege
    Boring life is a good life

    • @to2768
      @to2768 Місяць тому

      Definitely in theory. In practice, it's sooo different😅

    • @ronp-eb9bh
      @ronp-eb9bh Місяць тому

      Yes it definitely is. No chaos, griping, and unnecessary stress.

  • @princessg4100
    @princessg4100 Місяць тому +11

    I would NEVER understand calling a guy "boring" because he doesnt come with drama or treat you like crap. These so called boring men are so much fun. They like to enjoy the moments, likes to travel, dont take no crap from women or anyone, and lets not forget STABILE! Ill take my "boring" husband over and over again!

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r Місяць тому +2

      Shout-out to The Godfather Kevin Samuels, but he always said that modern society has made life too easy for these women. And now we see the results of this.

  • @44oksland81
    @44oksland81 Місяць тому +19

    Women choose the guys that don't want them but the guys that want them they don't choose and they try to go back to the guy that wanted them too late😂

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh Місяць тому +8

    0:21 that wont even go in through one ear because female attraction doesnt work that way. that kind of guy does not excite her emotions.

  • @rickettesimone
    @rickettesimone Місяць тому +8

    “The wall is undefeated “ is wild 😂

  • @Cahluvca
    @Cahluvca Місяць тому +10

    Nonhelpmeets are irreconcilable differences divorcing the nice guy.

  • @PhoenixPrime396
    @PhoenixPrime396 Місяць тому +10

    Passed on the man thats best for them, and its usually the father of their children.

  • @kennethdale4480
    @kennethdale4480 Місяць тому +15

    Anton was slick how he tried to cover up that fart at 7:23-25 of the content!!! 😂😂😂 But great video, though.

    • @dixbowman3452
      @dixbowman3452 Місяць тому

      I heard it too.

    • @Gsrxq
      @Gsrxq Місяць тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kennethdale4480
      @kennethdale4480 Місяць тому

      @@dixbowman3452 😂😂😂

    • @derwoodhamburger
      @derwoodhamburger 27 днів тому

      I didn't notice until I saw this now I can't stop laughing. Hilarious!
      Next chick I meet I'm gonna fart on her. That'll keep me outta nice guy territory. Plus it will amuse me. So inspired

  • @tommies3772
    @tommies3772 Місяць тому +7

    They only want the nice guy when they feel they're losing their sex appeal and Pookies and Brads don't want them. It'll never change.

  • @adriengadson3544
    @adriengadson3544 Місяць тому +13

    The nice guy treats you right and is loyal and handles Business. All of us aren't simps or Punks so don't get fooled.

    • @jeremy4600
      @jeremy4600 Місяць тому +2

      They do get that part messed up tho. Everytime. Kindness is weakness to them and they learn too late.

    • @PrinceJancelot
      @PrinceJancelot Місяць тому +2

      @@jeremy4600 Sadly many take kindness for blindness and meekness for weakness. Its unfortunate but it is what it is.

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield Місяць тому

      Yeah um being "loyal" isn't attractive to women

    • @PrinceJancelot
      @PrinceJancelot Місяць тому +1

      @@GoatHolyfield Yeah a man that is loyal and does the right thing is "boring"

    • @bootcamprag
      @bootcamprag Місяць тому

      Facts. Every time when I showed I didn't care, it messed her up emotionally. Women love drama and toxicity. In conclusion, she stayed around

  • @mharp6166
    @mharp6166 Місяць тому +5

    Whew. All i hear is "entertain me." i just stopped caring, its not worth my time or effort

  • @k.browne4489
    @k.browne4489 Місяць тому +8

    We're going around in circles. Weaponized rap music, wholly owned and directed by people who do not like us, has been and is destroying us.

  • @shaheemtaylor960
    @shaheemtaylor960 Місяць тому +5

    It’s a combination between SIMPS and Social Media which destroyed dating in this era. A lot of women prefer toxic relationships. Know a girl who bf pulled a gun out on her. Got arrested for a situation with his ex and she still went back to him lol the amount of women that routinely date the same guy for years upon years repeating a toxic cycle is insane . By the time their finally done and want a “nice guy” that ship sailed already.

  • @amandlaawethu1538
    @amandlaawethu1538 Місяць тому +10

    All she said was me, me, me, me

  • @truthbetold9257
    @truthbetold9257 Місяць тому +10

    Then they divorce the nice guy because they aren’t “happy”!

    • @to2768
      @to2768 Місяць тому

      @@truthbetold9257 whew! I sure did😅 I admit it. I was bored to literal tears.

    • @amariantiquity8543
      @amariantiquity8543 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@to2768Your PH probably stank down there 🤢🐟 , that brother shed real tears, lol 😂

    • @patrick106309
      @patrick106309 Місяць тому

      ​@@to2768I hope you have a poor mismanaged life

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 23 дні тому

      @@to2768we didn’t ask broken home’s Keisha

  • @Newyearnewbeginning
    @Newyearnewbeginning 18 днів тому +2

    That's adultery. You can't marry someone else, if your first husband is still alive

  • @briant40
    @briant40 Місяць тому +5

    Good men. Keep your money. Don’t share it with traumatized damaged women.

  • @eliot5220
    @eliot5220 Місяць тому +2

    They do this a lot. I tried to be with a lady even got engaged, but since she wanted more and couldn’t wait for me to graduate college she left married someone else then got divorced after three kids. We tried again but I still wasn’t good enough for her. Now she’s a single mom.

  • @wutang23361
    @wutang23361 Місяць тому +15

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Jokes and jokes and jokes and jokes. Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti.

    • @fookyu1691
      @fookyu1691 Місяць тому

      No, the “nice guy” is an entitled incel who LIES TO HIMSELF about being nice. What he IS is repulsive, and his energy is disgustingly…that’s why women don’t even do him when they have nothing else to do. lol To keep saying women only want “nice guys” when they’re washed up shows you that said men ARE NOT NICE, and women sense it. lol The “bad boys” even hide it better than y’all😂😂

    • @williamhermann6635
      @williamhermann6635 Місяць тому +1

      "Dave Chapelle"
      Written and directed by: Dave Chapelle

  • @DaneBMP
    @DaneBMP Місяць тому +6

    What about what the nice guy wants? 😂😂😂

    • @impervious99
      @impervious99 Місяць тому

      Agreed.
      Somehow being a good man is equated taking anything

  • @DeCurtaRican
    @DeCurtaRican Місяць тому +48

    Imagine being a man and saying to a woman, “I don’t want a sexy, beautiful woman. I’d rather have YOU.”
    How would most women react to that?

  • @codyaugustin3019
    @codyaugustin3019 Місяць тому +1

    She try to rebrand a 40 year old car with 2 break downs and say I’m a Telsa cyber truck now yall yayyyy me 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @user-rb8cu4hb3r
    @user-rb8cu4hb3r Місяць тому +3

    If a person doesn’t have their shit together, they’re in survival mode.

    • @TianaThompson90s
      @TianaThompson90s Місяць тому

      Very true unfortunately

    • @user-rb8cu4hb3r
      @user-rb8cu4hb3r Місяць тому

      @@TianaThompson90s That’s called survival of the fittest. The ability to adapt.

  • @intellectualsavage431
    @intellectualsavage431 Місяць тому +5

    If they have to force themselves to date nice men, then obviously they're not attracted to nice men. It's crazy that being nice is repulsive to women smh.

    • @reggiestockton8166
      @reggiestockton8166 Місяць тому +2

      I saw a meme of a picture of a girl combing her hair while crying and the caption was: " When you're getting ready to go out with the nice boring guy because you actually want to be married someday" 🤣🤣🤣 thats a relatable meme for women because they really do that 😂 its literally painful for some of them to pick a guy that isn't toxic

    • @intellectualsavage431
      @intellectualsavage431 Місяць тому +2

      @@reggiestockton8166 I agree, except it's not some women but practically all women. I'm learning that you don't have to be "toxic" though, just don't be a gentleman. That dries them up. Just treat them like one of the boys. Be rough with them, speak loud and authoritatively (or extra laid back), don't bite your tongue, curse around them, curse them out when necessary, call them n words and b words, roast them, don't lie about lame stuff, put hands on them if necessary, cut them off for disrespect and disloyalty, talk explicitly about sex, etc. That gets them wet.

    • @lonniejolly5882
      @lonniejolly5882 Місяць тому

      ​@intebllectualsavage431 facts bro.

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 Місяць тому +14

    Keisha only wants Pookie.
    Good Men get Used.
    That's the truth.
    In other words, from her, get a nice guy to use. Lock him down early. And once he's comfortable go behinds his back with Pookie.
    Non of these women want the Good Guy because she actually likes him. They only want a Good Guy because he's easy to use and is Mr. reliable.
    Good Men wake up to the bs. They don't like you. They don't want you. They only want to use you because the man she wants don't wanna act right. That's a bs relationship. Save yourself Men.

  • @TheJuwile
    @TheJuwile Місяць тому +1

    LMAO..no matter how many warnings they get from women who been through it..they will ALL think they don't have to follow their advice and the cycle repeats😅

  • @ericreed6947
    @ericreed6947 Місяць тому +9

    In the bible, Fathers always approved or disapproved the daughters husband, or had arranged marriages and they lasted at 99.9 percent.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 Місяць тому +1

      Wont work in a society where the women are told they are free sexually

    • @thealisterr
      @thealisterr Місяць тому

      This is why women SHOULD NOT be choosing, they should be CHOSEN

  • @rayelee1301
    @rayelee1301 Місяць тому +1

    Its not only about picking the nice guy...it's being nice to the guy you pick, as well. Dont pick him because he's nice and think he's a pushover because of it...they wont put up with it for long, either.

  • @ScoutsHonor.
    @ScoutsHonor. Місяць тому +7

    Yall not listening to her.. she’s saying go for the nice guy so you can control the situation. The opposing man doesn’t relinquish the power she seeks.

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r Місяць тому

      We are listening to her, that’s why so many bruhs are crapping all on her in this comment section. We know that she is full of nonsense.

    • @ScoutsHonor.
      @ScoutsHonor. Місяць тому

      @@willia3r no dudes are saying “yeah you should’ve been with the good guy”. That’s the terrible angle. Because what the woman calls good and what we know to be good are two different things. We need to start identifying that for young men

  • @cameron_fairchild
    @cameron_fairchild 27 днів тому +1

    I'm single, streetwise and also have higher education, and now I'm comfortably retired.... I ain't got shiit to do with your bad decisions prior to meeting me...and I'm not about to involve myself in it.

  • @blitztactique4689
    @blitztactique4689 Місяць тому +3

    BLESSINGS! OFF TOPIC! BUT I MUST SAY IT! I'm Aboriginal Australian. I support my BLK American brothers!!. European males enslaved, colonized and subjugated our people for over three generations! European men tried to breed the melanin out of our skin! I respect you DBN for speaking out for the oppressed people globally, much love man!!!!!

  • @PleaseXplane
    @PleaseXplane Місяць тому +15

    Her nature requires chaos of some sort. If you give her "everything", there is nothing left of you for her to "want". Breadcrumb her. Never give her "all" of you. She requires "mystery" to remain stimulated. Curve your enthusiasm of her. Keep it to yourself. Stay aloof at all times. It will open a world, most guys can never understand. Certain MEN know exactly what I'm saying. There is NO type of chick, just how she reacts to the person she encounters.

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Місяць тому

      Bingo. This is all biblical. Women have an Eve complex. They want to be worshipped by all. A man who worships his woman is of no use any longer. She will seek someone else who she can dangle his worship of her just out of her reach. It's that hot/cold maybe so that keeps them hooked.

  • @twotwentyfour
    @twotwentyfour Місяць тому +5

    Choose the man that has a heart for Jesus

    • @impervious99
      @impervious99 Місяць тому

      No shade but that Jesus talk hasn't helped the black community

  • @rainman3003
    @rainman3003 Місяць тому +1

    That fart had me rolling..... That for sure left a stain😂😂. Love the content.

  • @THulk85
    @THulk85 Місяць тому +1

    Absolute classic! "Step Crash Dummy"

  • @robertsontirado4478
    @robertsontirado4478 Місяць тому +3

    That serial killer with tattoos on his face just got 4000 love letters.

  • @adaboy4z
    @adaboy4z Місяць тому +3

    There are nice women out their for us nice guys. I found my nice woman!! She is affectionate, creative, loving, hard working, beautiful, curvy and equally boring like me.

  • @Alamoe1
    @Alamoe1 Місяць тому +7

    The part about us all being generally normal people, and in the same boat, is one of the most crucial messages I've heard. People have a warped reality and are delusional as far as expectations these days.

  • @user-fx4nn3cc9y
    @user-fx4nn3cc9y Місяць тому +1

    So true. I picked the boring, dorky guy and it turns out to be so interesting. Everyday i learn something new about him, laugh with him and love with him.... and he is my best friend. He has substance and change my life. He has been and will always be my greatest love. You also hace to be someone of substance and know that this man is priceless and never taking him for granted. Dont just walk out the house, tell him where you atw going. After sex, make him something healthy so whem he wakes up, he feels cared for? There are many ways to be a woman of substance.

  • @leonblack7637
    @leonblack7637 Місяць тому +2

    Define "boring" please .......

  • @crashHypnotize
    @crashHypnotize Місяць тому +2

    She is saying this message while still being a pretty older woman. Most can't even stay in shape in their twenties among being pretty. So that in itself still gives her a chance depending on how many children she has to have a good chance at another relationship if she follows her own rules.

  • @jadrainscurry2972
    @jadrainscurry2972 Місяць тому +8

    Boring is always best

  • @Scylithen
    @Scylithen Місяць тому +11

    1:17 'I learned the hard way'
    Don't forget, she'll throw that boring guy away when she sniffs out a better option thou, she has learnt nothing 😣

    • @DeCurtaRican
      @DeCurtaRican Місяць тому

      No, just a “more exciting” option. Grown a$$ chicks are like kids.

  • @FFTsteel
    @FFTsteel Місяць тому +5

    Now she knows how it felt when she was younger doing it to guys😂😂.

  • @Zaphenathpaneah24HIM
    @Zaphenathpaneah24HIM Місяць тому +3

    Not boring just specific. Actually more fun than u think. Plus any negative thoughts, throw them out the window. Just dont know o well right! Sometimes they have to talk to us. Show us u want it

  • @MetaLavish
    @MetaLavish Місяць тому +3

    If you’re a nice guy, don’t fall for this TRAP!

  • @1Blastarr
    @1Blastarr Місяць тому +2

    No, please stay away. Why make him unhappy?

  • @raharmonnelson7537
    @raharmonnelson7537 Місяць тому +5

    All they gone do is get bored and cheat..... but she already knows that 0:53

  • @DHeagleBBQ
    @DHeagleBBQ Місяць тому +9

    7:25 damn Anton 😂

    • @Winnieboiiii
      @Winnieboiiii Місяць тому +3

      🤣 I was strolling waiting to see this comment

    • @DHeagleBBQ
      @DHeagleBBQ Місяць тому +2

      @@Winnieboiiii 😂 I was strolling 2 .

    • @wscottsmith010
      @wscottsmith010 Місяць тому +1

      If you smelt it, you dealt it

    • @dixbowman3452
      @dixbowman3452 Місяць тому +1

      I heard it too

    • @Gsrxq
      @Gsrxq Місяць тому +3

      It's not healthy to hold farts 😂😂😂😂