Can I just say that Caitlyn’s consistency with uploading videos is so awesome! As one of the only UA-camrs that focuses on femininity and how to grow in it and hone in on our God given gift of being feminine women, I’m always so excited to know what she has to say😊
Amber thank you for saying this! I’m not naturally very routine-based, so consistency has been a huge priority for me. Thank you for noticing! 🥰 so happy you’re here.
I feel the same way!! I love how consistent she is and I really appreciate her always uploading on time/as promised! Her channel is by far my favorite on UA-cam right now! ❤️
I am close to tears as I'm typing this. Watching your videos, this one is particular, has led me to do some serious self-evaluation. You've helped me realize how much I've been suppressing my own femininity in fear of being perceived as weak or passive. For so long, I've held the notion that I can't be feminine if I want to be strong, and only now am I hearing that it doesn't have to be the case. I have suffered so much because I refused to let my innate nurturing spirit come out, and instead decided to hide it behind a facade of assertiveness and anger. It felt like hacking off my own limbs. But when I stop to think about it, I have felt the happiest when I allow myself to be feminine and nurturing to myself and others. Thank you, Caitlin. Your words and advice have deeply touched and resonated with my soul. I'm aware that I am one of your younger viewers, and I don't have as much life experience as the rest of you, but I am so eager to learn more of myself through you. From now on, I'm going to try and integrate femininity in my day-to-day life. With your guidance, I hope to become and better, kinder, and overall happier person. Thank you for doing what you do.
"Women are never stronger than when they arm themselves with their weaknesses." ~Marie de Vichy-Chamrond. You are not weak! Perhaps exchage the word weaknesses with open gentle vulnerability, and innocence of need. Men love your vulnerable sensitive feminine nature. One that's not hurting inside from the promiscuity dynamic we find ourselves in. Embrace your soft and tender loving nature and let men be strong for you. It's ok dear, I can promise you that. You can be feminine and rest your head on the right man's chest and collectively you may all do so. You can rest in him, trust in him and sigh gently. You're safe with the right man and he will love you more than you will ever know. You can be safe in your feminine in the arms of the right man I promise you that and it's where your power really lies. Men need it now adays more than ever.
I tend to be a people pleaser, I definetely needed to hear this video. Especially since I'm naturally very feminine and I don't won't people to abuse me of my generosity.
@Camille Collas ... sounds like you are on the path to success! Don't give up, be brave. Remember Caitlyn's last point, "as hard as it is, continue to approach each new relationship with a fresh spirit" ... I'm sure you get your reward!
This channel is a godsend, and I am so very grateful to have come across it. I struggle with embracing my femininity so very much (especially when it comes to my appearance), so it really helps to see someone helping young women who aren't as in touch with that aspect of themselves. I've never had the opportunity to explore being feminine, as my female relatives (my mother and sister in particular) were not in touch with their own femininity. I also don't have friends to help me with this, so I've been trying to learn this on my own. It also doesn't help that I experienced trauma as a child, and I think that really affected my ability to embrace myself as a person in general, let alone as a girl or woman. I also fell for the trap of going against beauty standards to the point of making myself hideous internally and externally, which could have been influenced by said trauma. I am hoping to become a feminine woman so that I can feel a sense of inner peace, to not feel as isolated in society and show others that I do have value. I want to feel comfortable and confident in myself, to no longer hold myself back from my full potential. I apologize for this wall of text and for getting too personal, though I just wanted you to know how much of an impact your videos made on me. I truly cannot thank you enough for sharing this content for all the world to see, and while I am not a woman of faith, I still hope that you are blessed greatly in life.
On my heart to say, regarding to ‘show others I have value’ the only person you really need to show that to is yourself and believe in yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that, I am loved, I am created for a purpose. I have value and I always will. No one no thing can EVER take that away from me. Amen! Look in the mirror and tell yourself the things you want to create in life, i encourage you to do it morning and evening. Journal it, mark your calendar / planner that you have so you’ve tracked your progress. And you will see the change in your beliefs. One of the greatest things I learned was this right here what I’m telling you now. No trauma can take away your value. Don’t seek value or validation in others, people will try to control you with that, it’s people pleasing. If they see who you are or they don’t it’s not your job to convince them. Please take it to heart. People’s opinions as it is are fickle and change. Praying you receive this message May God reveal it to you, in Jesus name amen 🙏!
I really like how you hit on being assertive and honest. I’m naturally submissive and I learned the hard way how much better it is to be upfront rather than accept things and let it eat away at you. Why sacrifice your own peace of mind? Still working on gentleness lol, that’s like learning to drive the car well after finally learning to properly drive it at all!
That is the sweetest thing!! I didn’t have any sisters growing up so it’s fun to have this channel to connect and share life tips with women! So happy you’re here. Xoxo
I've been looking for my online identity and I thought to call myself "Midwest Missus" or "Missy" since I'm from the midwest and I am a miss. I looked to see if anyone used this already and happened across your channel, and I found it immediately refreshing! I'm going through my own journey to embrace my femininity after years of avoiding it. I love your presentation style and the topic of your channel is so very important. Subscribed :)
Such a great video!💕 I love that you spoke about femininity not being a weakness. I think in today’s society, femininity is definitely seen as making a woman weak which it 100% doesn’t!
"Women are never stronger than when they arm themselves with their weaknesses." ~Marie de Vichy-Chamrond. You are not weak! Perhaps exchage the word weaknesses with open gentle vulnerability, and innocence of need. Men love your vulnerable sensitive feminine nature. One that's not hurting inside from the promiscuity dynamic we find ourselves in. Embrace your soft and tender loving nature and let men be strong for you. It's ok dear, I can promise you that. You can be feminine and rest your head on the right man's chest and collectively you may all do so. You can rest in him, trust in him and sigh gently. You're safe with the right man and he will love you more than you will ever know. You can be safe in your feminine in the arms of the right man I promise you that and it's where your power really lies. Men need it now adays more than ever. We are truly eachothers gift in every way. We are meant for eachother.
I literally jotted down notes in my journal :) I felt like I was at church for a sec lol. Great video ! you are stunning and thank you for teaching me that femininity is not a weakness rather it is a strength that God gave us as women
Ok, I have to be honest about a few things. I have been very skeptical about your videos until this one. I'm a man going on 32. I align closer to "MGTOW" in the way i live my life but not because i want to because its the only way to emotionally survive. I still try to date because I am still young and want to enjoy this aspect of my life. And everything you said in this video are the character traits in a woman that makes me question living my life in a solace way. It's just unfortunate that women rarely embody these traits. The vulnerability thing is massively attractive to me when i meet a woman like that. But its rare, and i think if i were to be truly honest with my self because i think its important for other men to see a man be honest about this. I think these things are rare because i isolate my self. I guess we will see i plan on trying to reconnect with the world around me this summer and this video has helped me not feel so jaded towards women. Thank you.
Yeah. Caitlin is a unicorn in today's society. How many feminine and beautiful women are out there? 1 in 1,000? I hope she leads more women down this path. Don't isolate yourself Jason. Nothing good can come from it. Get out there, take risks, make mistakes... live.
I'm more on the MGTOW side also. My advice though is date enough to learn to associate traits of women who have had a lot of sex, get burned, keep dating men above their station who gladly date them for months on end and have sex with them but never had marriage in mind, get burned by these men and continue the cycle thinking one will commit. You'll learn the difference between these women and those that know what men they are eligable for by not handing out sex so easily, enjoy the growth of a relationship and find for some reason this suitor is persistent because he thinks she's a wonderful human being. Maybe she even waits untill marriage..even better. Feminine self respecting marriage minded women weed through the wrong men quickly this way and find marriage more quickly. The weak men leave her for sex..good let them. That leaves her available to you. They go fast but you increase your odds by learning how to spot them. It's a blessing that they are rare now as this creates vivid contrast. You will also learn to spot the fake chaste values minded women as well. The former type of woman loses her femininity in a way you'll learn to spot. You're on the right track by coming here. I'm here to hone my radar a bit, and remind myself what a high quality woman is. She's not bad on the eye either. Good luck brother and stay strong! The burned ones reveal this in a way you'll learn to spot. Take your time. Date her for years on end first. Never ignore you insticts. No room for mistakes.
Honest Jason I could say the same for men.. feels like what’s the point in me being vulnerable with men if they are going to ghost me and be emotionally unavailable ANYWAY
Also be open to women of diverse cultures and countries. When I first came to US, I was shocked how unfeminine the women were - cursing, competing with men to win, their dressing, even their walk. These kind of videos always surprise me as femininity should come naturally to a woman. But the West is a different kettle of fish altogether. So my dear, before you give up, be sure you give yourself a fair chance to experience and learn from women from other cultures. Cheers!
@@gigglypuff3589 Then I guess you should give up. But sitting here playing the "poor little me" is going to keep you right where you are. If you want to find something different you have to be different. If men are ghosting you its because you are fishing in the wrong pond or because there is something wrong with you that you need to be honest with your self about. Nothing makes me ghost a girl quicker than when she plays the victim, women like that just cause problems in my life and i have no time for that crap. Food for thought. How old are you just out of curiosity?
Some say "marry for money, love ends". "Love is a temporary feeling". Love can be ever lasting if you nourish it daily. It´s not like a mountain that is always there regardless, it´s like a plant that you have to water every day. Most people never experience it fully, so if you are in love, don´t let it go!
EVERYTHING you said in this video is for me. I was hurt and super submissive in my past & most toxic relationship and I reached a breaking point in my new relationship where I had to reveal that I wasn’t allowing him the same access I gave the wrong man in my last relationship. He’s an amazing guy and I didn’t want to be vulnerable for fear of what could happen. It wasn’t until my cousin told me that I needed to be open, honest, gentle. & nurturing that my boyfriend became happier & surprisingly I’ve been happier. I’m really working on seeing my femininity as a strength. Thank you for all of the helpful tips in this video 😌💕
you have a greaaaaattt energy thanks a million for your great videos. beauty is not just about face its about inner qualities.something you have darlinh.❤
!!!!!! Gentleness!!!! That is something I recently learned and it is so true. My relationship has been flourishing since I’ve learned to be more gentle. Still vocal, but gentle.
Normally, I do not comment but...I had to. While laying in bed listening to this video. Towards the end when you mentioned that you know someone who has been hurt and whenever they enter into a relationship, they push people away. Immediately thinking that other people are going to hurt them. That brought tears to my eyes and open up my heart. I am someone like that and have spend pretty much my whole life like this. I am going to work on that now...it is not a wonderful way to live or be. It is very painful and destructive. Thank you so much for your words.
i was searching for a channel like this, you inspire me, your advices are so so good, thank you you are helping me to change my life, may Jesus be always with you and your family
Love the tip on being upfront and honest! I tend to want to please people all the time, which often gets me twisting myself into knots trying to make everyone feel good. While I am also very honest, I struggle to convey unpleasant truths when I know it may hurt someone's feelings, resulting in me just rather saying nothing. This aspect of honest and pro-active womanhood reminds me of the story of Abigail in the Bible, wife of Nabal. There is something very feminine and attractive about how she handled the dilemma with David's imminent attack on her family and farm. She didn't bemoan her fate at her husband's hand, but saw a loophole in the system and went for it with all her (gentle and feminine) might. So lovely. This sort of outright insubmission are rare situations that call a woman to have her wits about her, navigating male politics with the powers of her womanly graces and nurturing spirit to bring about peace (bringing him food and provisions).
It’s great to have people like you spreading messages on femininity but the fact that we have to do it is also quite saddening - says a lot about how low the society has come such that we need advice like yours to lift us up again. But regardless, really appreciate your content and thank you very much!
I loved your honesty-point! Being gentle and kind but honest is very feminine. Feminine women are firm but gentle in their communication. I also find, not being "reactive" on your emotion feminine. I might feel hurt from a conversation with my sister as her tendency to be critical often comes up - my reaction would be to criticise her for being so critical - but that makes no sense, then I'm being hurtful to her. Next time I want to tell her something, I'll introduce what I'm saying with something along the lines of "Name, I have something I want to tell you. And I know you're always up for some advice, but I would just like you to listen this time - without giving advice afterwards. Would that be okay?" and then appreciate her afterwards for it :) I have yet to try it, but I feel way better about this approach :)
So True...Showing others that they are Valuable / Worthy of being listened you will nurture YOUR OWN femininity. "It is not about fluffing somebody up...A healthy relationship comes w a Healthy Dose of Honesty"- Love that! If you KNOW YOURSELF you will be able to listen AS WELL as communicate your own needs (in a gentle way). Thank you Caitlyn...I don't know how you got to be so balanced at such a young age (I am 45 and just learning the things you are talking about)!
New subscriber from Italy here!☺🙋 love the way you express your thoughts, I can see the Holy Spirit really working through you. I especially appreciate that you're all about balance and armony, that - to me - is truly the compass in our lives. Keep up the good work! Hugs 🏵🤗
Your outfit is so pretty and tropical ! 💕🌴 Femininity is so powerful and strong! What a lie of the enemy that we as women think our very strength is our weakness !!
Great advice 👏. I have to admit though that this took me by surprise. I thought this was going to be another one of those "don't speak, the husband is always right even if he mistreats you; etc" video's.
Thank you for your advice. You are such a strong woman. Knowing all the stuff you know now, you must have gone though a lot. And you can be very very proud of yourself to have the knowledge that you have now. I am so proud of you that you are so aware about yourself and your being. Thank you for sharing this with us.
I just discovered your UA-cam channel today and IM OBSESSED!!!! I love how true you are to yourself!!!! Could we see more of your style and sense of fashion!!?!? PLEASE I WOULD LOVE
You word things so beautifully and articulately. I truly believe God wanted me to watch the videos. I've been struggling and withdrawing from a lot of things and this is such a lovely refresher. Also, please do a feminine modest look book and a hair tutorial!
I'm totally blessed to have found your channel! I realize I've been almost indoctrinated with modern day Feminism ideals and somehow I realized what I believe in is not right - part of it was because of my religion and part of it because of my parents😁. I want to embrace my femininity and I'm eager to see more from you soon!
Thank you, you make me so calm, I used to struggle a lot with the expectation of being hurt and your words about being tender and vulnerable are on point I'm glad I found you 😘
Hey! Id love to see a video about your workout or yoga routine and how you nurture your body in that way. I know movement is a powerful way to connect with the divine feminine! thanks!
I feel like you have a unique message, Caitlyn. Your subscription count reflects this. I can’t remember exactly how much you had when I last looked, but I’m pretty sure it’s doubled.
I'm from Belgium and I really thank you of creating this channel. The content is really great and I totally agree with your view on life. :) Thanks for helping likeminded women out there
Hi Caitlin! Thank you so much for making these videos. I had been binge watching your videos these holidays. You are a heaven sent for me as it shed some light on some of my issues in life. I hope you know I really appreciate your videos and the content that you are trying to promulgate. Lots of women can learn a lot from your elegant intellect and beautiful soul. anyhows, lots of love from the Philippines!
I really enjoy the content you focus on... I've subscribed from when you had like 1k subscribers and I think I watched all of your videos! I really like your energy and I can tell that you are passionate about this topic! I'm sending you love all the way from Tanger~Morocco 💗
Its been an awkward time growing my femininity in the sense that I developed a love for my morning routine, or getting ready to go out. Its been this journey of being mocked by family, and friends about my choices that I feel is cultivating my elegant self. But its this society that isn't used to seeing women take the time to do these things. Recently, I am working on purging my closet for a more elegant wardrobe as a work towards graduating college, I felt it was time. Where as, from my parents they feel that is a unnecessary task to do. Do you have any advice?
You had 5k when this video was made and now you're about to hit 100k girl :) and jaclynn glenn talking trash on you brought you a few thousand subscribers lmao, me included!!
Thank you so much for this, you are unaware about the impact you’re having.. I have a video idea for you: how to dress more feminine/womanly (I know it might sound shallow) but it’s needed.. you’d kill a video like this. You’re amazing.
It’s hard to approach life in a nurturing way when all the men are so abusive, don’t simmer down first, and are so selfish. I feel like it takes a good man to cultivate a good woman and a good woman to cultivate a good man. And rarely do I see two good spouses. So sad, people bring each other down instead of having a symbiotic relationship.
It is true that over angry partner mean he/she hiding something they are upset about or secret they dont want you to know , that kind of relationship end up toxic. So be honest on both side is the best relationship
I am a very passive person ! It all started because i dont like to hurt people , but recently its hurting me . I forgot how to be not passive !!! I please people alot but i am the one that gets hurt .
Hi, loved your message in this video. Although it's a little difficult to picture being femenine but at the same time honest and not passive. I guess is maybe because many examples of femenine women are presented exactly as passive and people pleasers, sometimes even as dumb and insecure. Is there any example of a character or celebrity that you could maybe put as example of the balance of this two things feminine but not passive or pleasing. I know nowadays most femenine roles are portrayed as agressive and demanding and feminist. So could you give an example of a woman you look up to because of these traits you mention in your video? Thanks!
Nerd alert! But Arwen and Galadriel in Lord of the Rings. They’ve had a good influence on me since high school. Also seeing Aragorn as an incredibly healthy picture of masculinity.
Yeah, I would agree on those three characters as role models. And to be honest, I have not seen the movie Alita yet. I have seen Avatar and Titanic though. And Cameron has a special talent for writing a compelling romance. Personally, I liked the characters in Avatar. Particularly Neytiri ... As a role model.
Hey Caityln! I really love your channel & look forward to every video. May you please create a facebook group that your subscribers can all join so that we can continue these discussions and continue inspiring each other, learning from each other and supporting each other. There are are so many amazing women from all over the world in this community and it would be great to have a facebook group. I think the questions pple ask in groups also give great video ideas.
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Summary - How to nurture relationships in a feminine way:
1. Communication & Listening
2. Gentleness
3. Honesty
4. Avoiding passivity
5. Tender & vulnerable spirit
I don't see what's particularly feminine about these qualities. Both men and women need these qualities to maintain a healthy relationship.
6. Avoid promise , avoid unfair agreement
Can I just say that Caitlyn’s consistency with uploading videos is so awesome! As one of the only UA-camrs that focuses on femininity and how to grow in it and hone in on our God given gift of being feminine women, I’m always so excited to know what she has to say😊
Amber thank you for saying this! I’m not naturally very routine-based, so consistency has been a huge priority for me. Thank you for noticing! 🥰 so happy you’re here.
I feel the same way!! I love how consistent she is and I really appreciate her always uploading on time/as promised! Her channel is by far my favorite on UA-cam right now! ❤️
"Femininty doesn't mean being weak" can we repeat that for the people in the back !
I am close to tears as I'm typing this. Watching your videos, this one is particular, has led me to do some serious self-evaluation. You've helped me realize how much I've been suppressing my own femininity in fear of being perceived as weak or passive. For so long, I've held the notion that I can't be feminine if I want to be strong, and only now am I hearing that it doesn't have to be the case. I have suffered so much because I refused to let my innate nurturing spirit come out, and instead decided to hide it behind a facade of assertiveness and anger. It felt like hacking off my own limbs. But when I stop to think about it, I have felt the happiest when I allow myself to be feminine and nurturing to myself and others. Thank you, Caitlin. Your words and advice have deeply touched and resonated with my soul. I'm aware that I am one of your younger viewers, and I don't have as much life experience as the rest of you, but I am so eager to learn more of myself through you. From now on, I'm going to try and integrate femininity in my day-to-day life. With your guidance, I hope to become and better, kinder, and overall happier person. Thank you for doing what you do.
Caitlin is a blessing on UA-cam! Thank you for showing that femininity isn't weakness, in fact it takes so much strength to be gentle ♥️
"Women are never stronger than when they arm themselves with their weaknesses." ~Marie de Vichy-Chamrond. You are not weak! Perhaps exchage the word weaknesses with open gentle vulnerability, and innocence of need. Men love your vulnerable sensitive feminine nature. One that's not hurting inside from the promiscuity dynamic we find ourselves in. Embrace your soft and tender loving nature and let men be strong for you. It's ok dear, I can promise you that. You can be feminine and rest your head on the right man's chest and collectively you may all do so. You can rest in him, trust in him and sigh gently. You're safe with the right man and he will love you more than you will ever know. You can be safe in your feminine in the arms of the right man I promise you that and it's where your power really lies. Men need it now adays more than ever.
I tend to be a people pleaser, I definetely needed to hear this video. Especially since I'm naturally very feminine and I don't won't people to abuse me of my generosity.
@Camille Collas ... sounds like you are on the path to success! Don't give up, be brave. Remember Caitlyn's last point, "as hard as it is, continue to approach each new relationship with a fresh spirit" ... I'm sure you get your reward!
This channel is a godsend, and I am so very grateful to have come across it. I struggle with embracing my femininity so very much (especially when it comes to my appearance), so it really helps to see someone helping young women who aren't as in touch with that aspect of themselves.
I've never had the opportunity to explore being feminine, as my female relatives (my mother and sister in particular) were not in touch with their own femininity. I also don't have friends to help me with this, so I've been trying to learn this on my own.
It also doesn't help that I experienced trauma as a child, and I think that really affected my ability to embrace myself as a person in general, let alone as a girl or woman. I also fell for the trap of going against beauty standards to the point of making myself hideous internally and externally, which could have been influenced by said trauma.
I am hoping to become a feminine woman so that I can feel a sense of inner peace, to not feel as isolated in society and show others that I do have value. I want to feel comfortable and confident in myself, to no longer hold myself back from my full potential.
I apologize for this wall of text and for getting too personal, though I just wanted you to know how much of an impact your videos made on me. I truly cannot thank you enough for sharing this content for all the world to see, and while I am not a woman of faith, I still hope that you are blessed greatly in life.
You are loved and amazing
@@luhen7372 Thank you so much: I appreciate you being so kind.
Thanks for sharing :)
On my heart to say, regarding to ‘show others I have value’ the only person you really need to show that to is yourself and believe in yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that, I am loved, I am created for a purpose. I have value and I always will. No one no thing can EVER take that away from me. Amen! Look in the mirror and tell yourself the things you want to create in life, i encourage you to do it morning and evening. Journal it, mark your calendar / planner that you have so you’ve tracked your progress. And you will see the change in your beliefs. One of the greatest things I learned was this right here what I’m telling you now. No trauma can take away your value. Don’t seek value or validation in others, people will try to control you with that, it’s people pleasing. If they see who you are or they don’t it’s not your job to convince them. Please take it to heart. People’s opinions as it is are fickle and change. Praying you receive this message May God reveal it to you, in Jesus name amen 🙏!
I really like how you hit on being assertive and honest. I’m naturally submissive and I learned the hard way how much better it is to be upfront rather than accept things and let it eat away at you. Why sacrifice your own peace of mind? Still working on gentleness lol, that’s like learning to drive the car well after finally learning to properly drive it at all!
You are everything I wish I could have looked at growing up
That is the sweetest thing!! I didn’t have any sisters growing up so it’s fun to have this channel to connect and share life tips with women! So happy you’re here. Xoxo
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I've been looking for my online identity and I thought to call myself "Midwest Missus" or "Missy" since I'm from the midwest and I am a miss. I looked to see if anyone used this already and happened across your channel, and I found it immediately refreshing! I'm going through my own journey to embrace my femininity after years of avoiding it. I love your presentation style and the topic of your channel is so very important. Subscribed :)
Such a great video!💕 I love that you spoke about femininity not being a weakness. I think in today’s society, femininity is definitely seen as making a woman weak which it 100% doesn’t!
"Women are never stronger than when they arm themselves with their weaknesses." ~Marie de Vichy-Chamrond. You are not weak! Perhaps exchage the word weaknesses with open gentle vulnerability, and innocence of need. Men love your vulnerable sensitive feminine nature. One that's not hurting inside from the promiscuity dynamic we find ourselves in. Embrace your soft and tender loving nature and let men be strong for you. It's ok dear, I can promise you that. You can be feminine and rest your head on the right man's chest and collectively you may all do so. You can rest in him, trust in him and sigh gently. You're safe with the right man and he will love you more than you will ever know. You can be safe in your feminine in the arms of the right man I promise you that and it's where your power really lies. Men need it now adays more than ever. We are truly eachothers gift in every way. We are meant for eachother.
I literally jotted down notes in my journal :) I felt like I was at church for a sec lol. Great video ! you are stunning and thank you for teaching me that femininity is not a weakness rather it is a strength that God gave us as women
Not related...but how do you do those WAVES? they look splendid
Ok, I have to be honest about a few things. I have been very skeptical about your videos until this one. I'm a man going on 32. I align closer to "MGTOW" in the way i live my life but not because i want to because its the only way to emotionally survive. I still try to date because I am still young and want to enjoy this aspect of my life. And everything you said in this video are the character traits in a woman that makes me question living my life in a solace way. It's just unfortunate that women rarely embody these traits. The vulnerability thing is massively attractive to me when i meet a woman like that. But its rare, and i think if i were to be truly honest with my self because i think its important for other men to see a man be honest about this. I think these things are rare because i isolate my self. I guess we will see i plan on trying to reconnect with the world around me this summer and this video has helped me not feel so jaded towards women. Thank you.
Yeah. Caitlin is a unicorn in today's society. How many feminine and beautiful women are out there? 1 in 1,000? I hope she leads more women down this path. Don't isolate yourself Jason. Nothing good can come from it. Get out there, take risks, make mistakes... live.
I'm more on the MGTOW side also. My advice though is date enough to learn to associate traits of women who have had a lot of sex, get burned, keep dating men above their station who gladly date them for months on end and have sex with them but never had marriage in mind, get burned by these men and continue the cycle thinking one will commit. You'll learn the difference between these women and those that know what men they are eligable for by not handing out sex so easily, enjoy the growth of a relationship and find for some reason this suitor is persistent because he thinks she's a wonderful human being. Maybe she even waits untill marriage..even better. Feminine self respecting marriage minded women weed through the wrong men quickly this way and find marriage more quickly. The weak men leave her for sex..good let them. That leaves her available to you. They go fast but you increase your odds by learning how to spot them. It's a blessing that they are rare now as this creates vivid contrast. You will also learn to spot the fake chaste values minded women as well. The former type of woman loses her femininity in a way you'll learn to spot. You're on the right track by coming here. I'm here to hone my radar a bit, and remind myself what a high quality woman is. She's not bad on the eye either. Good luck brother and stay strong! The burned ones reveal this in a way you'll learn to spot. Take your time. Date her for years on end first. Never ignore you insticts. No room for mistakes.
Honest Jason I could say the same for men.. feels like what’s the point in me being vulnerable with men if they are going to ghost me and be emotionally unavailable ANYWAY
Also be open to women of diverse cultures and countries. When I first came to US, I was shocked how unfeminine the women were - cursing, competing with men to win, their dressing, even their walk. These kind of videos always surprise me as femininity should come naturally to a woman. But the West is a different kettle of fish altogether. So my dear, before you give up, be sure you give yourself a fair chance to experience and learn from women from other cultures. Cheers!
@@gigglypuff3589 Then I guess you should give up. But sitting here playing the "poor little me" is going to keep you right where you are. If you want to find something different you have to be different. If men are ghosting you its because you are fishing in the wrong pond or because there is something wrong with you that you need to be honest with your self about. Nothing makes me ghost a girl quicker than when she plays the victim, women like that just cause problems in my life and i have no time for that crap. Food for thought. How old are you just out of curiosity?
Some say "marry for money, love ends". "Love is a temporary feeling". Love can be ever lasting if you nourish it daily. It´s not like a mountain that is always there regardless, it´s like a plant that you have to water every day. Most people never experience it fully, so if you are in love, don´t let it go!
who else is in a marathon of Mrs midwest's videos???? and now you have more than 88k. wow, by the way, I am from Malaysia.
EVERYTHING you said in this video is for me. I was hurt and super submissive in my past & most toxic relationship and I reached a breaking point in my new relationship where I had to reveal that I wasn’t allowing him the same access I gave the wrong man in my last relationship. He’s an amazing guy and I didn’t want to be vulnerable for fear of what could happen. It wasn’t until my cousin told me that I needed to be open, honest, gentle. & nurturing that my boyfriend became happier & surprisingly I’ve been happier. I’m really working on seeing my femininity as a strength. Thank you for all of the helpful tips in this video 😌💕
you have a greaaaaattt energy
thanks a million for your great videos.
beauty is not just about face its about inner qualities.something you have darlinh.❤
!!!!!! Gentleness!!!!
That is something I recently learned and it is so true. My relationship has been flourishing since I’ve learned to be more gentle. Still vocal, but gentle.
Normally, I do not comment but...I had to. While laying in bed listening to this video. Towards the end when you mentioned that you know someone who has been hurt and whenever they enter into a relationship, they push people away. Immediately thinking that other people are going to hurt them. That brought tears to my eyes and open up my heart. I am someone like that and have spend pretty much my whole life like this. I am going to work on that now...it is not a wonderful way to live or be. It is very painful and destructive. Thank you so much for your words.
I love your videos, Caitlin. Sending prayers to you, your husband, and doggos from the PNW
The gift of your prayers truly means a lot. Thank you my fellow sister in Christ! 💓
i was searching for a channel like this, you inspire me, your advices are so so good, thank you you are helping me to change my life, may Jesus be always with you and your family
Thank you for sharing these encouraging topics. From modesty to improving relationships, you are such a blessing to us! :)
Says alot about society when I get happy just hearing a woman talking positively about femininity.
I love the discussion around gentleness
Love the tip on being upfront and honest! I tend to want to please people all the time, which often gets me twisting myself into knots trying to make everyone feel good. While I am also very honest, I struggle to convey unpleasant truths when I know it may hurt someone's feelings, resulting in me just rather saying nothing. This aspect of honest and pro-active womanhood reminds me of the story of Abigail in the Bible, wife of Nabal. There is something very feminine and attractive about how she handled the dilemma with David's imminent attack on her family and farm. She didn't bemoan her fate at her husband's hand, but saw a loophole in the system and went for it with all her (gentle and feminine) might. So lovely. This sort of outright insubmission are rare situations that call a woman to have her wits about her, navigating male politics with the powers of her womanly graces and nurturing spirit to bring about peace (bringing him food and provisions).
It’s great to have people like you spreading messages on femininity but the fact that we have to do it is also quite saddening - says a lot about how low the society has come such that we need advice like yours to lift us up again. But regardless, really appreciate your content and thank you very much!
I have really really learned the simmer down before talking about stuff and I think it's truely the best idea I support it
Hi from Austria! You are a true beauty!!! ❤️ love your content!
I loved your honesty-point! Being gentle and kind but honest is very feminine. Feminine women are firm but gentle in their communication. I also find, not being "reactive" on your emotion feminine. I might feel hurt from a conversation with my sister as her tendency to be critical often comes up - my reaction would be to criticise her for being so critical - but that makes no sense, then I'm being hurtful to her. Next time I want to tell her something, I'll introduce what I'm saying with something along the lines of "Name, I have something I want to tell you. And I know you're always up for some advice, but I would just like you to listen this time - without giving advice afterwards. Would that be okay?" and then appreciate her afterwards for it :) I have yet to try it, but I feel way better about this approach :)
So True...Showing others that they are Valuable / Worthy of being listened you will nurture YOUR OWN femininity. "It is not about fluffing somebody up...A healthy relationship comes w a Healthy Dose of Honesty"- Love that! If you KNOW YOURSELF you will be able to listen AS WELL as communicate your own needs (in a gentle way). Thank you Caitlyn...I don't know how you got to be so balanced at such a young age (I am 45 and just learning the things you are talking about)!
New subscriber from Italy here!☺🙋 love the way you express your thoughts, I can see the Holy Spirit really working through you. I especially appreciate that you're all about balance and armony, that - to me - is truly the compass in our lives. Keep up the good work! Hugs 🏵🤗
Your outfit is so pretty and tropical ! 💕🌴 Femininity is so powerful and strong! What a lie of the enemy that we as women think our very strength is our weakness !!
You are soooo right about the listening part. It’s so important.
Thank you for making these videos 💜 You are breath of fresh air in this messed up world!!
Great advice 👏. I have to admit though that this took me by surprise. I thought this was going to be another one of those "don't speak, the husband is always right even if he mistreats you; etc" video's.
Thank you for your advice. You are such a strong woman. Knowing all the stuff you know now, you must have gone though a lot. And you can be very very proud of yourself to have the knowledge that you have now. I am so proud of you that you are so aware about yourself and your being. Thank you for sharing this with us.
I just discovered your UA-cam channel today and IM OBSESSED!!!! I love how true you are to yourself!!!! Could we see more of your style and sense of fashion!!?!? PLEASE I WOULD LOVE
You word things so beautifully and articulately. I truly believe God wanted me to watch the videos. I've been struggling and withdrawing from a lot of things and this is such a lovely refresher. Also, please do a feminine modest look book and a hair tutorial!
I'm totally blessed to have found your channel! I realize I've been almost indoctrinated with modern day Feminism ideals and somehow I realized what I believe in is not right - part of it was because of my religion and part of it because of my parents😁. I want to embrace my femininity and I'm eager to see more from you soon!
Thank you, you make me so calm, I used to struggle a lot with the expectation of being hurt and your words about being tender and vulnerable are on point I'm glad I found you 😘
Your video reminds me about one, very important saying: If you want to take care of others, you must take care of yourself in the first place.
Binge watching all your videos and I want and need you to know I admire you. You are brave and courageous! Keep it up girly!!
Aloha, from Hawaii!
Mahalo for your wisdom and grace! 🙏
Hey! Id love to see a video about your workout or yoga routine and how you nurture your body in that way. I know movement is a powerful way to connect with the divine feminine! thanks!
I feel like you have a unique message, Caitlyn.
Your subscription count reflects this.
I can’t remember exactly how much you had when I last looked, but I’m pretty sure it’s doubled.
I'm from Belgium and I really thank you of creating this channel. The content is really great and I totally agree with your view on life. :) Thanks for helping likeminded women out there
I've recently discovered your videos, and I can't get enough! Thank you for creating these.
Your videos always send me positive energy, I love that❤️
Best video yet! Would love more videos on how to be feminine in certain situations and maybe some examples of dialogues :)
Hi Caitlin! Thank you so much for making these videos. I had been binge watching your videos these holidays. You are a heaven sent for me as it shed some light on some of my issues in life. I hope you know I really appreciate your videos and the content that you are trying to promulgate. Lots of women can learn a lot from your elegant intellect and beautiful soul. anyhows, lots of love from the Philippines!
In detail how to choose a good man for future relationship? Thx
undecodable watch her video « 3 areas of compatibility »
@No name ok oh a Niceguy🤷
I agree with "no name"
I really enjoy the content you focus on... I've subscribed from when you had like 1k subscribers and I think I watched all of your videos! I really like your energy and I can tell that you are passionate about this topic! I'm sending you love all the way from Tanger~Morocco 💗
Its been an awkward time growing my femininity in the sense that I developed a love for my morning routine, or getting ready to go out. Its been this journey of being mocked by family, and friends about my choices that I feel is cultivating my elegant self. But its this society that isn't used to seeing women take the time to do these things. Recently, I am working on purging my closet for a more elegant wardrobe as a work towards graduating college, I felt it was time. Where as, from my parents they feel that is a unnecessary task to do. Do you have any advice?
You had 5k when this video was made and now you're about to hit 100k girl :) and jaclynn glenn talking trash on you brought you a few thousand subscribers lmao, me included!!
Thank you so much for this, you are unaware about the impact you’re having.. I have a video idea for you: how to dress more feminine/womanly (I know it might sound shallow) but it’s needed.. you’d kill a video like this. You’re amazing.
Albertina San Marinse her last video on modesty talks about that a bit :)
you are so wholesome and inspiring! Keep making these wonderful videos and God bless you :)
Hair tutorial please! (:
Mrs Midwest... I am a new subscriber! U embody Gods grace and love your content!
In this age where, feminism demands women to be more like "men", this video is more relevant than before.
I’m naturally a passive, people pleaser. I really want to find a balance.
You can do it! It just takes courage and focus. But don’t be mad you have a sensitive side. It’s a lovely thing 💓
You are truly inspirational and glowing from within ⭐️
You’re gonna be a great mom ❤️
Omg You have BEAUTIFUL hair 💚💚💚 great video 👌
Your honestly the best, thank you so much
Hi from Portugal! 🇵🇹 and Angola! 🇦🇴
Loving your channel!! Thanks so much for creating it :) :)
Shout out from NYC
It’s hard to approach life in a nurturing way when all the men are so abusive, don’t simmer down first, and are so selfish. I feel like it takes a good man to cultivate a good woman and a good woman to cultivate a good man. And rarely do I see two good spouses. So sad, people bring each other down instead of having a symbiotic relationship.
Thank you for making those videos 💕 they are really helpful 👏🏻
You and Allyson Rowe are giving me life!!
You should have a podcast!
I have just discovered your channel. Your message is so refreshing and authentic. Sending you lots of
So well stated, lovely and inspiring!
Love your vids!!! Sophomore in college rn
It is true that over angry partner mean he/she hiding something they are upset about or secret they dont want you to know , that kind of relationship end up toxic. So be honest on both side is the best relationship
Do you wear pants? Or just skirts and dresses? I love how you explain the beauty of modesty in your other videos.❤
New subscriber here from Australia!:) hii
I am a very passive person ! It all started because i dont like to hurt people , but recently its hurting me .
I forgot how to be not passive !!! I please people alot but i am the one that gets hurt .
I watch your videos from Afghanistan , I really love it keep going 🌸
I subscribed from Poland. You are very wise for your age. Also, extremely attractive--lovely and beautiful. 🌺🦋
Beautiful video once again - thank you for making it!
Im so in love with your videos
It's life changing
From Algeria
Amazing tips that have no thing to do with femininity, it is about been smart in relationships
Hi, loved your message in this video.
Although it's a little difficult to picture being femenine but at the same time honest and not passive. I guess is maybe because many examples of femenine women are presented exactly as passive and people pleasers, sometimes even as dumb and insecure.
Is there any example of a character or celebrity that you could maybe put as example of the balance of this two things feminine but not passive or pleasing.
I know nowadays most femenine roles are portrayed as agressive and demanding and feminist. So could you give an example of a woman you look up to because of these traits you mention in your video?
Thanks!
The character in the movie "Alita?"
Nerd alert! But Arwen and Galadriel in Lord of the Rings. They’ve had a good influence on me since high school. Also seeing Aragorn as an incredibly healthy picture of masculinity.
Yeah, I would agree on those three characters as role models. And to be honest, I have not seen the movie Alita yet. I have seen Avatar and Titanic though. And Cameron has a special talent for writing a compelling romance. Personally, I liked the characters in Avatar. Particularly Neytiri ...
As a role model.
Lovely message 💕I kept thinking you look like someone throughout the video.. finally figured.. Margot Robbie!
Hey Caityln! I really love your channel & look forward to every video. May you please create a facebook group that your subscribers can all join so that we can continue these discussions and continue inspiring each other, learning from each other and supporting each other. There are are so many amazing women from all over the world in this community and it would be great to have a facebook group. I think the questions pple ask in groups also give great video ideas.
hey! can you please do more blog posts/videos about boyfriends/fiance relationship content? i would really appreciate it!!
You’re a Godsend ☺️🥰
This is a very nice video & great tips! 💜
Amazing content - thank you for these practices 💖
I'm in love with your channel!!! Have you considered doing foodbook or make-up routine? That'd be great 💕
Great advice, useful to all, Thank You.
I'm so glad I found your youtube! Great tips
Love this!
Hello ! a new fan here from Phippines. God bless!
wow girl you have grown soooooo fast!!! congrats! love your videos, and what's your secret? lol
Powerful Muslimah being genuine and the light of Jesus Christ :) love!
@@way2girly 😍 always!
Hi from Sweden . I love your videos
Hello! Blessings From San Juan, Puerto Rico! ⚘
I love your videos, thank you :)