What Catholic Women Want In A Man: According To Them

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  • @CameronRiecker
    @CameronRiecker  2 місяці тому +2

    What other questions do you wish I would have asked?! Let me know in the comments!

    • @oakleyman217
      @oakleyman217 2 місяці тому +1

      On a scale from 1-10 how important is attractiveness?

    • @MatthewZurowski
      @MatthewZurowski 2 місяці тому

      Is 5’5 and a half good for a 16 year old?

    • @MatthewZurowski
      @MatthewZurowski 2 місяці тому

      For a guy

    • @MatthewZurowski
      @MatthewZurowski 2 місяці тому

      @@oakleyman2176

    • @matthewolszewski4831
      @matthewolszewski4831 2 місяці тому +1

      If you are a traditional Catholic how can you open up a girl to the TLM, the traditional faith, and everything that goes along with that (homeschooling, male and female roles etc.)? Especially if they are resistant to it for no particular reason, they just have some aversion to it.

  • @ItsChrisFtw
    @ItsChrisFtw Місяць тому +26

    Man... I feel like Catholic men should know better.
    I'm not Brad Pitt, but I would say I'm well above average when it comes to attracting and dating women. Both in my secular past, and currently now as a Reverted Catholic.
    This is like dating 101.
    It's a terrible, terrible idea to listen to women on what women find attractive. Women are heavily driven by their emotions, changing cycles, and *tingles* when it comes to attraction/dating.
    You listen to men that are in a strong hierarchical place, that are married, and have an obviously successful marriage.
    The bit about short men in this video just proves this point further.

  • @Dominic-o6r
    @Dominic-o6r 2 місяці тому +28

    Damn shorter guys really don't get much respect. Feels like adding insult to injury to get made the butt of the joke after treating the issue respectfully initially. I'm not short but it pisses me off when people treat it like a joke

    • @cbentler4528
      @cbentler4528 2 місяці тому

      What do you define as “short” for a man? I dated a guy who was only 2 inches taller than me and I thought that was the perfect height-i loved it!

    • @Dominic-o6r
      @Dominic-o6r 2 місяці тому

      @@cbentler4528 well it's not like guys need to be really tall or anything, I think most women prefer the guy to be a little taller. It's just that if the guy is shorter than average, like shorter than 5'7" it cuts off a lot of possibilities. I know guys who only date shorter girls and don't even attempt to date girls who are as tall or taller than them, even if it's like a match made in heaven. I know a lot of couples where the guy is shorter and the height gap doesn't seem to matter. Definitely I think people generally should be less picky with their preferences

    • @cavaleirosemlicenca3894
      @cavaleirosemlicenca3894 Місяць тому +1

      You have to make up for it with talents and other skills. I am short, but I have never had a problem with women because people tend to underestimate me because of some talents I have and because of my intellectual achievements. Well, I don't think I am as intelligent as people think I am, but this impression they have of me brings a certain status and respect. If you keep beating yourself up for being short, you will become depressed and things will get worse for you.

    • @Dominic-o6r
      @Dominic-o6r Місяць тому

      @@cavaleirosemlicenca3894 yeah for sure, I mean I don't have a problem with being short, I just find it weird that shorter people have to be like "the underdogs" over something they can't control. Like it's just the system I guess. Most women would probably choose a short confident guy over a tall insecure guy any day though

  • @JGAstaiza
    @JGAstaiza 2 місяці тому +20

    Listening to the whole episode, it's kind of gay. Three women talking for an hour, there's no way you can keep paying attention. Salve María.

    • @jamesmccloud7535
      @jamesmccloud7535 Місяць тому +4

      @@JGAstaiza Cameron should have pushed back a bit and questioned some of their own opinions

  • @Dupstan
    @Dupstan 2 місяці тому +56

    Short kings always talking Ls. Feels bad man.

    • @bigboi57
      @bigboi57 2 місяці тому +5

      Keep your head up, if anything find yourself a short queen

    • @jojen4083
      @jojen4083 2 місяці тому

      Not possible ​@@bigboi57

    • @jojen4083
      @jojen4083 2 місяці тому

      Blackpilled again

    • @FrenchToast1
      @FrenchToast1 2 місяці тому +9

      DIVINE PROVIDENCE is superior to being short. If GOD is calling you to Holy Matrimony, he WILL make it happen, just TRUST IN CHRIST and pray 🙏

    • @556kls
      @556kls 2 місяці тому +2

      Don’t feel bad man. I’m over 6ft & on the verge of suic… you’ve got this man

  • @jacobwoods6153
    @jacobwoods6153 2 місяці тому +38

    Do not trust what women say. Trust what they do, lol.

    • @sitka49
      @sitka49 2 місяці тому +1

      The swipe on 300 guys on dating apps maybe swipe right on two of them and possibly date one. If they don't stand him up first

    • @jacobwoods6153
      @jacobwoods6153 2 місяці тому +1

      @sitka49
      I think you gotta just deal with the reality and completely ignore the platitudes. This is one of the biggest things we don't really acknowledge in the Church. An example of the cliche is that if you're a nice guy, you're virtuous, and you really love the faith, etc. Women will flock to you. That's not true. I hope a man are those things but the vast majority of women (including those in the Church) are wanting all of those things along with a Chad who's 6 foot plus, athletic, charming, makes six figures, basically they want it all... I think it is completely unrealistic, but the reality is that many times, that's their expectations, and we need to start acknowledging it.

    • @sitka49
      @sitka49 Місяць тому +1

      @@jacobwoods6153
      They want all those qualities in guy their only attracted too ,not the average looking guy that might have them.
      I wonder how fast their moral ("boundaries") compass would decay if they got date with a guy that looked and built like Chris Hemsworth?
      - They'd probably be taking their pants off on the way out to the car with him. Hypocrisy.
      My dad would always say.
      "Talk is cheap, but it takes really money to buy good whiskey."

  • @apgroyp
    @apgroyp 2 місяці тому +24

    5ft 4 guy here. Glad to know that nothing I can do would be good enough for any of these women to even look my way! Not even the “short queens” want us. (This is how the vast majority of women think)

    • @luisblanco4371
      @luisblanco4371 2 місяці тому +3

      @@apgroyp Don’t give up. They said that they were okay as long as the guys is taller. There are still plenty of women out there for you and some of them don’t even care about height.

    • @alyssamichelle1207
      @alyssamichelle1207 2 місяці тому

      Wow, that is not at all what was said or what us women think. You seem to have a victim mentality that you might want to heal from.

    • @ddswimd
      @ddswimd 2 місяці тому

      Good luck brother

    • @liraco_mx
      @liraco_mx 2 місяці тому +3

      What you said is exactly why you wouldn't have a chance. Get that confidence up, man! They said plenty of things you could do to convince them.

    • @cbentler4528
      @cbentler4528 2 місяці тому +2

      Keep in mind that this is from only three women! And it might be your current attitude, not your height that is preventing women from “looking your way”.

  • @vaderkurt7848
    @vaderkurt7848 2 місяці тому +7

    I think any guy should ask themselves this.
    Why care what women want?
    Improve your self on aspects or things you already are.

  • @Asher-xo3gd
    @Asher-xo3gd Місяць тому +4

    This was a great video! They made the nature of dating feel preference-based, which is a huge burden on the man's back. If the girl loses interest, it seems like it comes down to preferences misaligning, which probably would have lead to a bad relationship anyway

  • @Justyouraverageguy172
    @Justyouraverageguy172 2 місяці тому +6

    Gotta give this a good listening to and watch later on today since you just dropped this. This is definitely a good one

  • @WindyBritches
    @WindyBritches 2 місяці тому +8

    7:44 I’m annoyed off the bat lol striking up a normal conversation and then inviting you on a date is not good enough? You need to do something I saw in a movie or I’m unimpressed. The entitlement is wild. It’s like watching a civilian complain about the way soldiers do their job knowing damn well they couldn’t accomplish step one.
    And then girl number 2 says the exact opposite 😂

    • @DonJuanplagueisZero
      @DonJuanplagueisZero Місяць тому

      Blame Titanic or Disney…but in reality most women don’t even remember how or what I said when I meet them LOL

  • @BardelystheMagnificent
    @BardelystheMagnificent 2 місяці тому +15

    "Go forth and multiply, but only if he's 6'2" - God, probably

    • @thegrindeveryday9408
      @thegrindeveryday9408 Місяць тому +3

      Bro I am 6’4”, muscular, and make $200k a year and I can’t even get Catholic women to go on a date with me. None of us stand a chance. My spiritual director told me to find a protestant and convert her cause he knows these women are too picky.

    • @jamesmccloud7535
      @jamesmccloud7535 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@thegrindeveryday9408I'm 20 years old and a new convert. I had the idea that Catholic women would be less superficial than the average woman?

    • @thegrindeveryday9408
      @thegrindeveryday9408 Місяць тому

      @@jamesmccloud7535 no way. Not in my experiences they think if they can land you they can land someone better. Monkey branching just like any other woman.

  • @Cynane27
    @Cynane27 2 місяці тому +6

    I need to say your content is really helpful and enjoyable.

  • @berserker9682
    @berserker9682 2 місяці тому +6

    Well what I want is not always what God wants (what I need).
    My fiancee needed a man that is strong in the faith, determined, loyal, loving and disciplined. Confidence for her was ability to solve problems and provide in her needs.
    Kinda exciting the wedding is only 3 weeks away.

  • @leolunacoolj
    @leolunacoolj 2 місяці тому +8

    No offense to the others, but I thought Kieran gave the most mature and thoughtful responses.

    • @mariareginarosaria8927
      @mariareginarosaria8927 2 місяці тому +3

      I liked hearing all the responses. I especially liked to hear what Kieran had to say!

  • @FromAcrossTheDesert
    @FromAcrossTheDesert 2 місяці тому +6

    The problem is that women (Catholic or not) don't know what they want. Listening to theri opinion is like Adam listening to Eve about fruit; It will only end in tragedy.

    • @unknown-vo3di
      @unknown-vo3di 2 місяці тому

      This is very basic though. I don't think they don't know what they want in a date because there is only a handful of options to choose from anyways

    • @FromAcrossTheDesert
      @FromAcrossTheDesert 2 місяці тому +6

      @@unknown-vo3di you may be correct to a certain extent, but keep in mind, if they find you very attractive, alot of the these guidelines will be disregarded. I would be better just to practice dating, and figuring it out as you go along.

    • @unknown-vo3di
      @unknown-vo3di 2 місяці тому +1

      @FromAcrossTheDesert ofcourse these guidelines will be different if you are attractive. But we are trying to marry women of God. If a women of God is waiting for a 6 foot plus man who makes 180k a year plus and is very attractive and also follows God she is going to end up dying alone sadly. So these women really need to lower their standards if that is what they want. Because the trends I am seeing even at my church I'd many men and women getting older being single and not getting married. I think one of the main causes of this is the bad economy and these women are getting degrees and working so they likely don't see a need for a man because for most of history the man is seen as the provider and these women are working anyways. Also this isn't their fault exactly as in my church (coptic orthodox) the women all work basically and they raise kids if they get married while working. I feel like some women are hoping for a man who makes good money so that they don't have to work. But in this economy it isn't happening. I am almost don't with a computer science degree and idk if I will even get a good paying job when I graduate. But atleast in my church the women seem more simple and happy because they are actual Christians. As in they actually follow Christ go to church and build a life of prayer. Lots of people in many churches are Christian in name only and their goal in marriage isn't a Godly man who wants to have a family and guide his family in a holy way to heaven. That is the goal of a man in marriage he is supposed to ultimately be the head of the family which the most important thing is to make sure your kids are raised in the faith and to follow Jesus. But with Christian in name only women their goal in marriage is 6 foot plus very attractive man and makes a lot of money from having a good job and for him to also be Godly and not use all these attributes to be a playboy. So they are basically looking for unicorns at this point which is why many of them struggle to get married. Then they hit 30 and the 30 year old men don't want them because they want kids so they usually go for younger women (up to 11 years younger sometimes). You might call me weird for this suggestion but my grandparents had a 10 year age gap and my culture has always had around 10 year age gap. It was very common for 30 year olds to marry 20 year olds

    • @FromAcrossTheDesert
      @FromAcrossTheDesert 2 місяці тому +7

      @@unknown-vo3di My wife is 12 years younger than me. We were married when I was 35. When I was young, I realized that women my age did not find me attractive, but through time I believed that if I were to become that good man God made me to become, I would find that woman who wanted to be with me -and wanted to be with God too. She had been praying for a good man, just as I was praying for a good woman. Jesus is the miracle worker, and we are his clay.

    • @unknown-vo3di
      @unknown-vo3di 2 місяці тому

      @FromAcrossTheDesert that is good. I know he is a miracle worker. I am waiting for the right one I am currently 27. It I am unable to get married till 35 I will have to marry a women significantly younger than me but if I get married around 30 22 to 25 is fine as they can have children easily at that age. However idk what the women in my church think or age gaps I think they are willing tort like 3 to 5 years but maybe shy away from anymore. I am unsure. However I am attractive and tall so I don't think I have to worry. Like you said women change rules for men they like. If you are decently attractive and tall any rules on age gap likely go out the window as well with all their other standards. I am glad you found someone. I good to be married before 35 lol I really don't want to wait 7 to 8 more years. Thankfully there are a lot of women in marriage age not technically in my church but other churches around ours and events for the entire diocese where is an even bigger region. But I just pray to God to give me a good women I want to make sure to pick the one God as for me. So I must pray and ask that when the one comes I know it's her.

  • @orlandod84
    @orlandod84 2 місяці тому +8

    Don’t ask fish for advice on how to catch a fish, ask the fisherman. This also applies to Catholic women. Don’t listen to what women say. Instead, watch what they do. Women say all sorts of contradictory nonsense but their behaviors do not lie. Also, the woman who insists on finding a 6 ft man reminds me of the typical modern and shallow woman that you’ll encounter these days.

    • @thegrindeveryday9408
      @thegrindeveryday9408 Місяць тому

      The late Gonzalo Lira

    • @jamesmccloud7535
      @jamesmccloud7535 Місяць тому +4

      I was quite disappointed with that as a young guy and new convert to the faith thinking catholic women might see things differently. But we're all fallen I guess

    • @nomassgoer8350
      @nomassgoer8350 Місяць тому +1

      I know this is a little late to conversation, but clearly you don’t go fishing. Every single person I know who goes fishing says to observe or “listen to the fish. For example if the fish are biting one kind of bug then your lore should imitate that kind of bug. You should listen to women, I did and I am happily married with kids. That said, girls who only like guys for their height, well I know of a cat shelter we can refer them to.

  • @ElizabethMarie-b1r
    @ElizabethMarie-b1r 2 місяці тому +4

    This is gold! Great format, great guests, loved the sit down/long form conversation panel. It was good to see their different answers. Loved the statement to "view rejection as redirection". Keep it up! UA-cam needs more Catholic content like this

  • @JessicaRiecker
    @JessicaRiecker 2 місяці тому +14

    Great women for this panel!

  • @NewNoise1
    @NewNoise1 2 місяці тому +9

    It doesn’t matter what they want

    • @DonJuanplagueisZero
      @DonJuanplagueisZero Місяць тому

      It does matter, but it doesn’t matter what they say they’re looking for.

  • @baldmafia
    @baldmafia 2 місяці тому +6

    Girl who said she doesn’t like guys who raise their hands during The Lord’s Prayer is judgmental and that’s unattractive. Judging people for how they worship is the most unchristian thing I have literally EVER heard…I’m upset there was no push back on that from anyone.

    • @samemery
      @samemery Місяць тому +1

      according to an old Priest I know, the Roman Missal actually says that only the Priest is to have his hands in that posture during the Lord’s Prayer. This is known as the Orans position. We, as laypeople, are supposed to have our hands in prayer posture, not holding hands, and not in the same posture as the Priest.

    • @baldmafia
      @baldmafia Місяць тому

      @ news to me

    • @samemery
      @samemery Місяць тому

      @@baldmafia It was news to me as well, so I get it. I have been using the hands in prayer posture during the Lord's Prayer now for a few years. I also want to clarify that GIRM (General Instruction of the Roman Missal) is what I am referring to. It mentions that only the Priest should use orans posture during the Mass. It does not say anything about the laity and their posture, but since we know that they shouldn't use orans, hands folded in prayer posture is most appropriate. I hope this clears things up! God bless

    • @baldmafia
      @baldmafia Місяць тому +1

      @@samemery Ok fine, but this woman is NOT judging the man based on this -- just from her own preference...she thinks it is "weird" -- from my interpretation. Still unfair for her to cast such judgment imo

  • @StJosephsspiritualchild
    @StJosephsspiritualchild 2 місяці тому +6

    I would look for the fear of God, charity and definitely humility when discerning a spouse for holy matrimony, after all the person is going to help you get to heaven, that’s the point of the union. Their height doesn’t matter!! Or lack of hair! Their prayer life matters and their personal relationship with Jesus and Mary. Their seriousness of saving their own soul and helping save yours. 🙏❤️

  • @gboy9604
    @gboy9604 Місяць тому +2

    Am I the only one confused by women?

  • @jpg6113
    @jpg6113 2 місяці тому +3

    Great stuff!!

  • @haydongonzalez-dyer2727
    @haydongonzalez-dyer2727 2 місяці тому +3

    Awesome video!

  • @Maccelerate
    @Maccelerate 2 місяці тому +3

    Awesome idea for a video!

  • @keniacruz4392
    @keniacruz4392 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the video

  • @FaithfulMel
    @FaithfulMel 2 місяці тому +2

    Great video! Can you do another video w/ the same concept but all guys?

  • @2007winne
    @2007winne Місяць тому +2

    I find Karen's contributions mature, with Catholic parenting in mind. I would love a shorter interview with her . Can I follow her somewhere?Is she on any online Catholic women group I can join?

    • @CameronRiecker
      @CameronRiecker  Місяць тому +2

      Good question! I can ask!

    • @2007winne
      @2007winne Місяць тому

      ​@@CameronRiecker thank you so much, I appreciate you taking the time.

  • @Deuterocomical
    @Deuterocomical Місяць тому +1

    Is there a male version of this in the works? Would love to see that perspective too

    • @CameronRiecker
      @CameronRiecker  Місяць тому +1

      You wanna be a guest? lol

    • @Deuterocomical
      @Deuterocomical Місяць тому

      @ Haha, yeah sure! Would probably have to be virtual though

  • @AldenKuntz
    @AldenKuntz 2 місяці тому +2

    Nice vid man

  • @WindyBritches
    @WindyBritches 2 місяці тому +5

    I’m sorry but this perspective is getting played out. You are not the prize. Value is determined by scarcity. I’m tired of hearing the thousand things a man needs to do to be lucky enough to be with a super star like you. 6’ tall, funny, Catholic 6 figure earning men should start putting out a list of the thousand little things you need to do right to land us. We are much more rare than a cute Catholic woman.

    • @jamesmccloud7535
      @jamesmccloud7535 Місяць тому

      Yeah I thought this would be interesting to hear Catholic women's perspective on dating, but they seemed to focus more on height, physical appearance, and money. It is what it is I guess

    • @WindyBritches
      @WindyBritches Місяць тому +2

      Well..days have passed since my original post and now it feels a little harsh. But I hear you, it’s disheartening to hear even women of God are actually of the world.

  • @chasejohnson1775
    @chasejohnson1775 2 місяці тому +2

    I enjoyed this on my Saturday morning! I felt like I was sharing laughs and insight with friends 😄

  • @2007winne
    @2007winne Місяць тому +3

    I get the short king comments for you is just a family teasing joke and I have noticed you have not replied to acknowledge their hurt and apologised

    • @CameronRiecker
      @CameronRiecker  Місяць тому +2

      Good point! maybe I should.
      The comments section is crazy and it’s hard to know what is legit or not

    • @2007winne
      @2007winne Місяць тому

      ​​@@CameronRiecker I understand. I sincerely think some real people got hurt here. I may not be alone. An apology goes a long way. Try a biblically inspired experiment: ask at least 3 men shorter than you by 15 cm to watch the video. If possible a man at least 10 years younger and one 15/20 years older than you. I would be interested to hear how did they felt. I may be on the wrong? Ask your priest too, mum and dad as well.

  • @Multipurpose_Bagel
    @Multipurpose_Bagel 2 місяці тому +4

    These ladies all seem very pleasant and cool! As a guy, I agree with Bridgett's point about guys being overly flirtatious. It's can be fine to a degree, but if it becomes obvious that he uses the same jokes and tactics during every interaction with women, then it's all hallow and fake.
    Also, I'm 5'6'', but I've never cared about that all that much. I suppose if I got down on one knee and proposed to Bridgett, she'd have to bend over to be eye-level again before saying yes though lol

  • @tylerwerthmuller2005
    @tylerwerthmuller2005 2 місяці тому +6

    Well fellow short kings, time to enter the priesthood or religious life. We are clearly not going anywhere with the sacrament of marriage. To anyone who says "just find shorter", short women want 6ft too and only that. God clearly made us for religious life in this day and age. Its hard to work with, but I think it's obvious that is what God wants us to do. Sorry Catholic ladies, I won't be providing financially for you. I hope many dont become cat ladies in our absence. Also, lust and pride are sins. Its your choice too, 6ft and hunky is lust. Short men can help you be saints too. We will help you, but its your choice

  • @TheLjdevlin86
    @TheLjdevlin86 2 місяці тому +1

    Buy your girl a throw blanket. She will marry you. You’re welcome.

  • @rafael_testai
    @rafael_testai 2 місяці тому +1

    Great guests. Nicely done, everyone.

  • @The_lastman
    @The_lastman 2 місяці тому +15

    This is so gay, way to make the church exactly like the world. Shame on you all.

    • @CameronRiecker
      @CameronRiecker  2 місяці тому +10

      Thanks for watching 😁 God bless you!

    • @Weebgamer236
      @Weebgamer236 2 місяці тому +4

      Bro they are not in the church,the content may be cringe but hey it's not blameworthy 🤷🏽‍♂️🤣

    • @The_lastman
      @The_lastman 2 місяці тому

      @@Weebgamer236 this is one of the gayest videos on the internet.

    • @The_lastman
      @The_lastman 2 місяці тому +1

      @@CameronRiecker fake niceness. Be a man bro, get a job or something thing and stop asking these chicks what they want like a little prince trying to impress mommy.

    • @The_lastman
      @The_lastman 2 місяці тому

      This is like a little dog doing tricks for its master.

  • @liraco_mx
    @liraco_mx 2 місяці тому +1

    "I hope he's OK" 😂
    Also, great puns. Very interesting to hear a Catholic dating panel, it's almost always so secular.

    • @sitka49
      @sitka49 2 місяці тому +6

      You're saying there was a difference between if It had been secular women then Catholic women I honestly couldn't see the difference.

  • @trueblueclue
    @trueblueclue 2 місяці тому +5

    Rizz>>>looks and height
    The woman on the left knows it
    These women say they want a guy taller than them or 6 foot plus until the confident guy walks into the room.

  • @Teddy-ke6xh
    @Teddy-ke6xh 2 місяці тому +5

    Stretching your hands out during mass is an ick? Hello 1 Tim 2:8 ps 134:2???

  • @spacetrains30
    @spacetrains30 Місяць тому +1

    My honest opinion, if you are beginning to date, aboid all contwnt about dating and gender. Including rhis interview😊

  • @JWMTR
    @JWMTR 2 місяці тому +3

    Our Lord was most likely between 5’11-6’1

    • @KosukeMoonriderJr
      @KosukeMoonriderJr 2 місяці тому +11

      Doesnt really matter what his height is tbh

    • @jamesmccloud7535
      @jamesmccloud7535 Місяць тому +1

      @@JWMTR Average middle eastern height at that time was nowhere near that, what are you on about

    • @JWMTR
      @JWMTR Місяць тому

      @ I guess the Shroud of Turin doesn’t mean anything.

    • @jamesmccloud7535
      @jamesmccloud7535 Місяць тому

      @JWMTR The Church does not officially recognize it as authentic, it's neutral on the matter. Just because there are some mysterious things scientists can't explain yet about it doesn't mean we should automatically conclude it's Jesus as it is not public revelation and no miracle has been associated with it yet. Believing it or not is a personal choice. But most scholars agree that Jesus was most likely 5'1-5'5 which was the average height of men at that time. Plus the Bible describes Jesus as ordinary looking and did not stand out from the crowd in appearance.