Is She Just Being Nice or Actually Interested?

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  • Опубліковано 15 січ 2025

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  • @byronsmotherman8857
    @byronsmotherman8857 11 днів тому +21

    If a girl can't do a coffee date or a walk in the park does a two red flags right there

  • @zuhairreza
    @zuhairreza 11 днів тому +12

    Hey! Hope you are well. I may watch this soon, but just saw you posted this and dropped by to say that, so far in my life (I am in my early 30's), I think I realize that if someone is interested in you, for friendship or a romantic relationship, they will ask questions about you and try to learn about you (and the questions would be more friendly-type or romantic-type, so it depends on the person). I learned this when I reflected on my past experiences with friends or girls I was interested in, in my 20's, and I realized a lot of the time it was just me "running after people", and they just needed someone to either keep them company, or have temporary attention from, something like that, and they were "not really" interested in me and never or very little asked me questions about myself. Take care! : )

  • @fugu4163
    @fugu4163 11 днів тому +24

    I always assume women are just being nice until they prove something else.
    As a man you cant be cautious enough in the weird times we live in.

    • @codeallnight56514
      @codeallnight56514 11 днів тому +2

      You can still make a move while being appropriate. You just have to be okay with rejection and move on

    • @deancreambetweens
      @deancreambetweens 10 днів тому

      @@codeallnight56514 they can make a move too

    • @becky-ye3ho
      @becky-ye3ho 8 днів тому +2

      @@codeallnight56514well .. only issue is she judges whether it’s appropriate. And if she likes you it’s appropriate and if she doesn’t it’s not. 2 diff guys can do the exact same thing and have a different result and judgment from her

  • @mensurkeramika4732
    @mensurkeramika4732 10 днів тому +46

    The fact that nobody mentions the book Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish blows my mind.

    • @Stan_Castan
      @Stan_Castan 10 днів тому

      The fact that youre still blowing on my mooscle is blowing my mind also

    • @jaywaalreer233
      @jaywaalreer233 10 днів тому

      I got the book you mentioned, and Im finding it really helpful ngl... Thanks man!

    • @edmilsoncardooso
      @edmilsoncardooso День тому

      Please, what is this book about?​@jaywaalreer233

  • @frankenwini
    @frankenwini 11 днів тому +4

    Great advices as always Matryoshka! Oh and your accent is exquisite. 😊

  • @codeallnight56514
    @codeallnight56514 11 днів тому +8

    Instead of overthinking whether she is interested. Make a move, ask her and if she says no move along to the next. Don't think too much into it. That's my opinion.

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 11 днів тому +5

    Happy New Year, Anastasia ❤🎉

  • @s1n4m1n
    @s1n4m1n 9 днів тому +1

    Touching is probably the biggest sign, also when they are OK being alone with you.

  • @CASADELSOULVIDMIXTV
    @CASADELSOULVIDMIXTV 8 днів тому +1

    At this point men need to have deep knowledge of emotional triggernometry to unlock a woman’s heart.

  • @Ed-quadF
    @Ed-quadF 10 днів тому

    Worst case scenario you'll get clarity. Best spin to a negative outcome I've ever heard. Also, true.

  • @banjomechanic
    @banjomechanic 10 днів тому +2

    Idk. I recently had an encounter with a cute young woman who displayed all the right signs, body mirroring, was very comfortable being very close to me, light touching, eye contact, and even suggested we spend time going on a run together. It’s not very good weather for running, as it is cold and gets dark soon after she gets off work so I texted her to see if she’d like to take a walk in a well lit popular area, I figured we could more easily talk as well while having a nice hour or so at the River. She responds affirmatively and asks where we could meet, then texts before I could respond that she actually has other plans and cannot go with me. I responded that was fine we can go another time. Next time I saw her she acted completely different towards me. Needless to say my interest in her is diminished. Totally weird. Fortunately the bus runs every 15 minutes and another fine woman will come along.

  • @adrianparker-e9f
    @adrianparker-e9f 11 днів тому +9

    It can be hard to tell the difference. She might be genuinely interested at any 'a particular point in time', but this might change from minute to minute. They don't know what they do want ! ( I don't know if this is more of a modern thing, because in the past it seems that people were brought up to make definite decisions that you then stuck to for life.)

  • @danielkremer3737
    @danielkremer3737 11 днів тому +3

    Such a nice video!
    Beautiful new year young lady 😉

  • @akashsxo
    @akashsxo 10 днів тому

    privet, you reminded me of my first girlfriend in this dress. She came to English classes in a similar white crop top and red skirt, and I can't forget that till today, it's been 8 years now

  • @isastovall
    @isastovall 11 днів тому +2

    You’re very attractive and so is your accent. Thank you for the advice

  • @alphahd7343
    @alphahd7343 8 днів тому

    very useful information. 😊😊

  • @Gotrek69
    @Gotrek69 11 днів тому +2

    Are you a psych grad? Definitely helping me through the minefield, never even thought of these tips.
    BTW Love the Russian dolls, take care.

  • @hermanmelville3368
    @hermanmelville3368 11 днів тому +1

    Oh History of Middle Earth on bookshelf 😍

  • @emmanuelocampo3705
    @emmanuelocampo3705 11 днів тому +2

    how is that if everything you said she did to me and then when I confessed she didn't answer me hahaha

  • @tulamello
    @tulamello 11 днів тому

    This is good advice. Avoid unnecessary rejection. Using a "shotgun approach" will get you in deep $#!+. Been there done that.

  • @sauron73
    @sauron73 11 днів тому +3

    She is only forced to be nice even if she say otherwise. Just asume you don't atract women and all will be straigh.

  • @byronsmotherman8857
    @byronsmotherman8857 11 днів тому +1

    One way a man can tell when a woman likes him if she agrees to go on a date and she says no but she wasn't interested it's called verbal skills know how to use them or don't

  • @Dman425
    @Dman425 10 днів тому

    If you have to think about, she is just being nice

  • @SHIV72Z
    @SHIV72Z 11 днів тому

    There's a girl in my class who texted me happy birthday, and she didn't even talked to me a lot whole year, and when friends got to know this they told me that she likes me, can this happen, or she's just being nice ?.........

  • @jeng9877
    @jeng9877 11 днів тому +1

    I LOVE YOU

  • @gregthompson9434
    @gregthompson9434 11 днів тому +2

    Your assuming we guys are around women , I myself am never around women to get a sign

  • @byronsmotherman8857
    @byronsmotherman8857 11 днів тому +1

    Who's won the test of guys fail when you message her on the dang apps when the man does it three times I'll go out with you that's a form of being nice she doesn't like you

  • @Florida_gyrl
    @Florida_gyrl 6 днів тому

    Say it louder for the men in the back 🗣️

  • @HumanBodyMaintenance
    @HumanBodyMaintenance 11 днів тому +1

    Where in Eastern Europe are you from? Polska? Ukraine? Russia?

  • @DennisD-yv4ys
    @DennisD-yv4ys 11 днів тому +1

    Do you know the real reason women like men with money?

  • @handlename72
    @handlename72 11 днів тому +2

    first.

  • @fffrfrw
    @fffrfrw 10 днів тому +1

    attention seeker