The Narcissist Game, Round 2 | Netflix Harry & Meghan
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In this video I give you my thoughts on episode 3 of Harry & Meghan, the long-anticipated Netflix limited series.
It's got fashion, it's got fascists, it's got fake academics.
Did you like the show???
Concepts discussed in this video:
6. No Boundaries
7. No Empathy
8. Everything is a Threat
9. Emotional Reasoning
10. Split Personalities
Probably lack of empathy #1 Everything is a threat #2 - all apply almost equally - scary
11. Self promoting best literal images of self
She has no sell awareness & he doesnt either ! Hey Harry your mom is dead & if she would have been alive she would be appalled you have the audacity to think your grifter wife is anything like your mother Diana
Absolutely great description!
Wimbledon where she deliberately wore jeans and then cleared out an entire section for herself, 2 friends and her security. Then had her body guard deal with a spectator taking a selfie thinking he was photographing her. I felt so sorry for the people that lost their seats and that Wimbledon management actually allowed this to happen. Disgusting.
C. Herrera said of that dress on MM, that it was designed for someone younger, taller and slimmer. Zing!
Ohhh that’s precious 😂😂
Out of all the embarrassing moments for meghan, which there are so many, there is one I have the hardest time watching and have to pause 2 times just to get through. When she is being interviewed on stage and she emphasizes her work "behind the scenes, quietly, behind closed doors"🙄 that she's been doing by blabbing about what she expects from society in regards to the metoo and timesup movements(like that has anything to do with the work shes doing?) And then the best part...the interviewer doubles down and asks her what the WORK is that shes doing behind the scenes, quietly...for meghan to then have seriously such little information, experience, or knowledge about her philanthropic work or even just royal philantropic work that she actually has admit that shes done nothing. Truly incredible
i'd die to be a fly on the wall of will and kate's dining room that evening . . . they probably thought they'd have to carry her for the rest of her life
@@ibbledibblenot anymore. The best thing that happened to the Royal family is the Harkles walking away.
So according to Harry, the Queen wasn’t head over heels for Phillip? Charles finally was permitted to marry his love, but had he not married Diana we wouldn’t have William. William is head over heels for Catherine ( but maybe H was too), I think Andrew loved Fergie and maybe still does(?), Edward also fell for a star in Sophie and you can tell he loves her. Maybe Anne took 2 tries, I believe she is happily in love as well. So once again H is spitting in the wind.
Man that was such an educational video! Thank you for educating and showing examples! It made my relationship with the narcissists in my family much easier to understand what is happening and I’ve studied mental health for years! Great job!
thanks!
The tomato dress looks great on the model, by the time Meghan got her hands on it, it looks like it is from the 90% off bargain bin. Meghan completely butchered the dress.
They hire these people and then tell them what to say. even Harry....what a waste of money.....I wonder if they will get on with their lives after saying all this
“When a narcissist accuses someone else of something, they are actually confessing to and describing their bad behaviour”
100% FACT'S!!!!
That's Exactly Wut My Mama Is
Projection. Typical narcissistic trait.
Worked for one and finally realized that’s why he said what he did about me
Yes 🙌
You can tell even then Catherine didn't want to be around her or engage with her. They saw right through her immediately the first time they met her
They probably gave her a shot knowing her background but found out she was worse than they could imagine
I never saw or heard of her until that engagement interview. I thought she was phony and manipulative right then.
No one with 2 brain cells could be fooled by her.
No offense H. lol
I'm sure Catherine and others in the BRF have griftdar. They have a wealth of experience with people seeking favors, grifters, sycophants and fans. Meghan is transparent. Harry was vulnerable and the perfect target.
The worst part of the red dress debacle is that she wore it during an event in honor of veterans. How much more inappropriate can one be by appearing dressed like that at such an event? My goodness she acted as if being at some Hollywood celebrity gala.
Cringe
Megan’s narcissism is so fascinating to behold. It’s beyond textbook. It’s like serial killer level. She has imagined this fantasy world around her. I’m stunned.
Me too!
I know, right? It's like watching a real life psycho thriller drama unfold! No matter how much I want to disconnect from her tiresome drama, I get sucked in again and again. So often I've told myself, ok, enough. Then, the next thing you know, there she goes again (or Harry), and I'm flooded with headlines again, and I can't help but click. I feel so, so bad for the Royal Family, specifically William, Catherine and Charles and Camilla. And when the Queen was alive still, my heart broke for her. At least she is now resting in peace. Can't say the same for Diana, her idiot son won't let her rest in peace. Poor William, he must feel so bad about his mother's name being used over and over again, and especially that witch being compared to his mother, he must want to puke! 🤮🤮
I believe she is not just a narcissist, but also a histrionic... possibly with some other borderline personality disorder, or even some psychopathy.
Imagine having a mother like that that’s me. No contact it works
I think she's got more going on than just Narcissist Personality Disorder. She seems like a sociopath as well. One thing's for sure, is that she's nuttier than a Christmas fruitcake!
For me her number one narcissist trait is claiming she gave up everything to marry Harry, and that he’s the lucky one to be with her
She's such a liar but SO SO many lies, she actually believes her crap. 😵👈😈👈💯🇦🇺🦘
Lol
And what did she give up? She gained 2 kuds, a title, and 100 million in counting. Harry lost family, friends, dignity, manhood, and country. He lost all. He is such a cretin. He actually believes she lost everything. Without Harry, 90% of the population wouldn't know Meghan existed.
What? No, did she really say that?
@@nuthinbutluv4u142 yeah
Harry grew up with a circle of very close friends, one of which was his best friend Tom Inskip. Harry was Toms best man at his wedding to Lara in Jamaica. Meghan and Harry had only just got together so Meghan wasn’t on the guest list. Meghan flew to Jamaica to “surprise” Harry and gatecrashed the wedding reception, Harry didn’t look pleased. They had a few crossed words and neither of them looked happy. Harry looked miserable and Meghan looked furious!
Tom Inskip Harry’s best friend and Lara his wife, were only invite to Harry’s marriage service in the chapel! They were not invited to the reception or the evening reception. Neither were most of Harry’s other lifelong friends, because Meghan didn’t like them because some of them dared to tell Harry not to rush things with Meghan.
This is why Harry said in the docu that he had lost friends.
It’s his and Meghan’s fault that he has lost most of his friends!
But that’s what narcissists do - they separate their mark from everyone close to them.
His childhood lifelong friends invited to the chapel then sent home without so much as a glass of fizz and not allowed to party and celebrate with Harry! No wonder he lost his friends!
Wimbledon where she deliberately wore jeans and then cleared out an entire section for herself, 2 friends and her security. Then had her body guard deal with a spectator taking a selfie thinking he was photographing her. I felt so sorry for the people that lost their seats and that Wimbledon management allowed this to happen. Disgusting.
2 VIP friends she keeps well under the radar👀
That what confuses me, EVERYONE, the RF, Brit fashion awards etc. they all let them get away with this behavior. They should of been told NO.
Such weakness and cowardice is a demoralizing of the whole population.
@@angelaantonio2447nobody knew she would behave so badly until she did it. It is nobody else’s fault, who would believe she could be such a bi*ch.
I assumed that when she appears in clothes that don't fit it's because, like any narcissist, she takes corrective suggestion as personal attack. Further, not only did the dress not fit, the red she insisted on wearing to that US memorial event was the same red she insisted on wearing to the UK memorial event at the Albert Hall, either because she thought it was cute to honor war dead by matching her dress to Harry's Royal Marines uniform, or because she wasn't going to be told to wear black or another dark color because that's how she asserts what a strong feminist and activist she is. The color is disrespectful and inappropriate for both occasions. So like any narcissist, she responds to criticism of her poor behavior by repeating it.
Meg wore that bright red dress because she needed to upstage Kate after she wore that gold dress to the James Bond premiere. Because she is a narcissist, she does not care what is appropriate for that particular event. Her intention was to be seen & have heads spinning in that lustrous crimson red gown. Her agenda was to outshine her rival, after Kate got so much adulation & adoration for looking like a goddess. This really annoyed Meg, even when Harry complimented how stunning she looked.
She wore a BALLGOWN to a sedate memorial service. Never mind that it didn't fit and was hideously tailored. A BALLGOWN. She is inappropriate and self-centered. It was outrageous.
@@morningglory3644
Henry desperately needs Specsavers if he thought she looked lovely.
I think she provides the designers with wrong measurements of her body. Just whatever pops into her head. Either she is drowning in her clothes or they are way too tight.
One of the fitters for the red dress asked Meghan if the dress felt too tight, and Meghan went: No, not at all, it feels great. We could all see the dress was way too tight. - So, for some reason, Meghan is not being quite honest at these fittings. Maybe she feels vulnerable, but it makes it hard to get it right if she doesn´t answer honestly.
She's going to show us!! How dare we critique THE Duchess!!
Harry saying that they had starting planning (to leave) then when he goes into the Sandringham summit he says William bullied them out. How could William bully them out if they were looking at leaving a long time before.
And she wasn't even there
Bullshitters catch themselves out
with their lies.
Excuse
This vlog is pathetic and bullying.
Exactly, she had already left before Sandringham.
Many examples. One of the most outrageous is when Megan confided to Oprah that she and Harry had been married 3 days prior in a private ceremony in a private garden with only the Archbishop present. Her intention was to declare just how exceptionally exclusive and special their love is and to convey their unique and intimate romantic passion. Not only was this an utter lie but it was patently illegal, forcing the distressed Archbishop to publicly disavow her claim to protect his good standing within the Church. Meghan went on to say that she and Harry concession
They are not in love. She actually threatened him if he did not tell the press she was his girlfriend, she would leave him. THAT IS NOT LOVE, it is blackmail.
@Marianne S i think he tries to say it's not true wigh that song "just the 3 of us".
No marriage if no witnesses.
@@veronicacrabtreehill6608 Well he should have told her where to go the spineless sap that he is
@@lalaholland5929 I was hoping it was true so that the big wedding that cost 40 million could be considered null and void and they could just take her out legally (not kill her) but rescind the marriage.
She also wanted to get a dog into the British tax payers who were complaining about paying for their Wedding so she said the paid for Wedding was a spectacle for the little people.
I find it interesting that Meghan continues the narative that she barely knows her sister Samantha, but somehow it makes sense that she persues a relationship with Samantha's estranged daughter. Ashley calls her a best friend, a mother figure. It feels like Meghan saught Ashey out, cultivated this relationship on purpose, as a dig at Samantha and that she didn't invite Ashley to the wedding as a further dig at Samantha by making Ashley think it was her mothers fault she wasn't invited. This conduct is really insane, I've never seen anything like it. I want to know what her relationship with Ashley is like now and if Ashley knows now that Meghan was lying.
And does Ashley visit with Samantha or do they not communicate? I would feel bad about this if I were Samantha. Megan using her daughter.
Ashleigh insulted her own intelligence when she CRIED !!! On Netflix !!! Bcuz her Aunty Meghan did not invite her to her GRAND ROYAL wedding ???? BOO HOO 😭
Is she a DUMB IMMATURE 13-year-old ???
Is she so hard up for "royalty" like a little girl fantasising in a fairy tale ???
I see her as a pure SUGAR - High paper qualifications but as dumb as a rock & as a foolish as a donkey !!! 😠😤😡
Meghanlomaniac is sooooo obviously USING ASHLEIGH as the PERFECT WEAPON for the upcoming suit from Samantha.
Plus , there's no way in hell that MM would want the beautiful & sexy ONLY member of her family STEALING THE SPOTLIGHT from her !!
She did not even want the future King of England to walk her up the steps to the Church & share the camera lens of the world with her. Only I , ME & MYSELF 👹
You are spot on
Yes I have noticed this with another narcissist I personally know. They do this to try and get a reaction out of the they person, in this case she would be trying to get a reaction out of Samantha. I also saw this during their engagement interview, when Meghan said she was glad she met Diana’s family because it was very important for her. Why was it important? Why the need to say that during the interview? She was trying to warmup to them as well as try and get a reaction from RF (even if they don’t react, a narc would know that it would be felt internally)
She needs to be in good terms with Ashley until Samantha's lawsuit is over.
The Carolina Herrera gown was created for a much more-slender figure than the one Meghan had at the time she wore it, & it showed particularly in the back where she couldn't see it.
it looked awful coming and going
Slender and taller. Some dresses look better on taller women, while some look better on shorter women. That dress was for a tall woman. If you don’t dress for your figure, you are not going to look good.
She is shaped like a Uhaul cardboard box
Catherine would've rocked that mess lol
Perhaps Nutmeg knew that?
surely it hurt to wear though? She must have had red marks later on that showed it didnt fit? strange
Excellent video!!!
Her Grandmother-in-Law was THE QUEEN, who had a voice but used her actions instead which spoke louder than words. When she used her words, people listened because what she said was thoughtful and meaningful. What decade is Harry's wife existing in to believe that women need to feel "empowered"? Has she never heard of Golda Meir, Indira Gandi, Margaret Thatcher? Some NWU student she turned out to be. What a waste of Mr Markle's money.
Am embarrassed to be the same species as Margaret Thatcher, tbh
Unlike Meghan, the model in the red dress has the figure for the red dress. Meghan's empowerment speech was ridiculous. Women don't need to be told they have a voice. Women have expressed themselves for decades.
The model was tall that makes a huge difference to the dress. Mrs Harry seams to think that she is a shining light to women and girls. Mrs Harry has no idea, has she worked in a male dominated workplace/career? Did Mrs Harry have to fight for respect in a male dominated job? No she has not she just does platitudes with no understanding.
That red tomato dress tells us how she sees herself. She saw the model and she immediately thought, “Yes, that’s me right there!” Tall and lithe she definitely is not!
You’re so right!
Dress perfect on a tall thin model but ugly on a short bulky body with short trunk n legs
She refuses to accept that she’s short 🤷🏼♀️
@@pohandrek8182 I’m short too. The problem is, she thinks that she’s tall and all clothes fit her. None of her clothes fit her because she cannot take advice.
@@lornarettig3215 short and dumpy
The red dress, oh no, not the red dress😆🤣.....
Completely & utterly shocked a designer actually had anything to do with that disaster❗️😂
Looks like another case of “the emperors new clothes” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The lowest point so far for me was the description of the plane crew member’s bending down in the aisle, looking up at her (seeing the halo around her head), genuflecting, thanking her for her service to Britain. Vomit!
I kept waiting for to her to walk on water when they were near the beach
@@scottaznavourian3720
Hee Hee Hee.
Did you notice how similar what he supposedly said was to what Paddington Bear said to the Queen? Why she even had him tipping his hat, like Paddington!
@@MultiZoobie Good point!
Utter BS. Delusional Disney drama princess. "All you did for our country"...LoL! She lives in a Hallmark movie! This is the exact kind of hyperbolic self-praise that's her trademark. I can't wait for this invisible, subservient flight attendant to be found and questioned about the truth. That is, if he even exists.
As for the security guard whose strong, waiting arms she breathlessly 'collapsed' into, like in an over-the-top soap opera - I can't stop laughing! It's comedy gold! She wasn't being evacuated from a war zone, ffs - she was on her way to lazing away at a luxurious mansion on a private island, to freeload for as long as she wanted! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Update:
I just read that the hat-in-hand flight attendant story has already been debunked - apparently, the crew on the flight was identified, and surprise, surprise - aside from the fact that none of them weat hats, no such attendant can be found! LoL! It only took a few days!
Anyone joining a new family would sit back and observe how things are done. She couldn't or wouldn't so now here she is in all of her glory looking like a stuffed tomato for the world to laugh at!
That’s what I said. Had Henry married a more grounded woman, none of us would be having this conversation.
She ended up looking ridiculous in a terrible dress due to her own fault. That red dress was a huge failure.
They both have histrionics as well as narcissistic actions.
They refuse to take any responsibility for anything.
"...and they sent her out looking like shit for a laugh"! That theory works absolutely splendidly!!
Children have a limited range of understanding about their parents. Harry did not know Diana.
Boundary denial - Megain showing up at events where she was not invited - black gown gut-clutch fashion gala, polo events, royal carriage rides.
Harry's best friend's wedding when he'd broken off with her is the most glaring example to me.
@@flyonthewall8122 Yes, indeed! Talk about ballsy.
His best friend’s wedding… she got the Claw on him right away.
It's what a narcissist does.
It’s a tough life: living in a palace, having innumerable servants to attend the children, your mansion, your gowns, your jewels (yes, even Harry’s), and on & on.
I’m SO glad to finally find someone acknowledge Wes Gordon in this….I’ve not watched the episodes but in all of the clips I’ve seen I have not seen one mention of his appearance. I love your theories on it and how that dress ended up so terribly. I was a little shocked at how poorly it fit considering it was his design but your theories seem totally possible and would make the whole debacle make a lot of sense.
it was a BEAUTIFUL dress on the model
Wes Gordon is probably glad they didn’t give him any recognition for that disaster of a dress 😂
You can put lipstick 💄 on a pig 🐷 but it will always be a pig , sorry absolutely no disrespect to pigs intended .
The lack of light and mirrors is certainly a problem. Imagine doing your makeup in a dimly-lit room and thinking you look good, but then you walk out into the light and you look a mess. That’s what happened here. That’s why dressing rooms in department stores have so many mirrors and bright lights: you need to see the clothes from all angles to make sure it flatters ALL of you.
I’m also convinced that she was determined to wear it because it was a sign of her shedding the dress code that is normally very modest. She was going to wear that dress no matter what, even if a kind soul tried to gently tell her that it didn’t fit. Would YOU risk your job by telling a woman with a reputation for losing staff that a dress didn’t look good on her? I wouldn’t. I’d “yas Queen!” all day and send friends an “uh oh watch the red carpet tomorrow” text🤣
I have always wondered if her outfits that don't fit and look awful weren't a stylist or designer's revenge.
Yes, your theory is spot on Ibbs! As usual! It was interesting to see HOW that dress WAS supposed to be worn; it’s a pretty gown, but MM was still too heavy to wear it, esp her back fat spilling over the hem. 😵💫
Not mentioning those designers was so MM and she just had to show the world how they live and that designers come to HER. Ridiculous tart. ( I think this flopumentary is going to cause a lot of problems for them and the people involved; everyone was lying!!). Omg! One thing though; the world now knows the truth about H and MM. They’re hypocritical, dishonest, immature, shallow, and huge whiners. H barely knew his Mum-she would NOT be happy with Harry and MM wouldn’t have been able to get close to him because Diana would’ve seen right through her. They’re both delusional and SO jealous of the Wales, it really shows now. They’re a joke, but a dangerous joke! 🎄🎁🥰🥰🌻
This is what happens when mom and dad tell you you are special. Not that you developed a special ability through 10k hours of frustrating practice but that you are inherently special by merit of being born. 'Maybe they can't have it but you, Flower, are special and deserve to cut the line.'
Ironically, although Harry was indeed born into an special existence, neither he was taught the stick-to-it-ness to develop his own special talent so he can reference back to the experience when trying new things in the future. Harry was born special but even his fortune of birth is not sufficient to carry one through adulthood
100%
Exactly. “Unique” and “Special” have very different meanings.
Ugh, I thought it was absolutely BRUTAL when me-gain axed ashley from the wedding, but invited the Clooney’s the Beckham’s all who she had never met 🤨 and using Samantha as a scapegoat? It’s a wedding, some people are invited- some are not. Me-gain didn’t want anyone “upstaging” her on her “big day” 🥴
She didn't want anyone there who would contradict the lies she'd been telling. Her mother probably had strict instructions to not engage in conversation with anyone unless it was about the wedding.
The Beckhams were friends with Harry but I am sure that M thought that it was amazing that they were there.
Those celebrities upstaged her. I think she invited them to make the world believe she was one of them. I'm shocked that they actually attended the wedding of someone, they didn't know.
Part of the problem for her fit and how she looks, is she trying to wear something that’s not for her body style. What will work on princess Catherine’s frame will not look the same on someone shorter and less svelte.
Yeah. I love the small contrast w/ how Catherine dresses prior to princess-hood .. she still knew how to dress her body type. But the custom fitting & tailoring now are just gorgeous to see. TheWife has something to work with bc she's thin, but good lord.
Also it's possible to facsimilate a look on a range of figures
Right, and in spite of MM being svelte, her body is too square around her waist for her to accentuate it. 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Also, Meghan wearing a fake butt is not really helping her.
Absolutely made for a taller leaner woman like Catherine.
@@dsoule4902 Catherine Princess of Wales can wear it but I don't think she will. The dress is not classy. It looks cheap dress for cheap woman trying to impress other people with their pounds of flesh.
The Jason Knauf emails but I think Cathrine might have the best boundary crossing story. Megs is lucky the Princess of Wales is too classy to share it
Well sending her out looking like 'sh*t' I actually wonder if Netflix haven't had their pound of flesh in more ways than one.
The red dress having been professionally fitted was strange because in this fitting, it DID fit well across the back!
But as Scarlet Pimpernel said "Your tailor has betrayed you".
😂
Boozy was describing EXACTLY WHAT HE AND M AND H ARE DOING
Exactly
Exactly 💯
They're both so dark! There will definitely be need for popcorn on the day their dark little secret gets blown wide open. 🍿🍿🍿
Spot on!
@@SeaBear777 be careful, a sugar might take that as a racist comment. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦♀️🤷♀️
Pushing in front of The Queen and getting in a waiting car first 😱3 times she was held back and told nobody goes before her majesty but the up her own backside bint did it anyway 😡
I really don’t like Megan but i heard that was to keep the Queen from having to awkwardly scoot to the far side
@@jbb8261 I’m sure it’s not the first time in queens long reign this situation had to be navigated. Never seemed to be an issue before.
She was carefully advised what to wear, where to walk, how to sit, and who goes FIRST in the presence of Her Majesty. Yet she decided she would show up with her hair falling all over the place, no hat, bare legs, and walking in front of the Queen! It was a shocking display of arrogance. I can't even imagine what she's like in private.
@@sammemrys8195 MM's hair that day was the worst ever! How embarrassing for HMTQ to be in the company of such a gutter rat.
I noticed in the doc that Ashley wasn't even welcomed back into MM's world until after Lily arrived.
You mean…at the time they were filming for this reality show and were likely advised that having a relationship with at least one Markle would shine M in a more favourable light?
I wonder how old Ashley's children are and what they look like 🤔 could have used them in her photo fakes? Just a thought...
@@PJ-Sparkles. 👌🏽😉
Interesting
Do you know what one thing about Megan and Amber? They record EVERYTHING. That should tell you something
Actually, the Queen was well known for putting people in her company immediately at ease. Over many years she was often praised for it.
That Megain was at ease in her company is a testament to the Queens warmth, kindness and skill when meeting and speaking with people.
Nothing at all to do with Megains interpersonal skills, her 'close' relationship with the Queen or her status ( aka; delusions of grandeur) though, if you heard her in her Netflix bore-athon it's clear Megain thinks it was all her doing.
My favourite example of them splitting, will be when they finally start the divorce proceedings . They will turn on each other like nothing anyone has ever seen before, all the while in public, each of them will be trying to come out looking the best person out of that epic mess and a lot more lies will be uncovered, I can’t wait to see how they will inevitably try to eat each other alive. 😂
As much as i would like to see that, i cant help but feel sorry that their kids might have to go through that, and they will recover
Agree with you on the dress. I couldn't wrap my head around a Carolina Herrera dress looking so ill-fitting, and so wrong for Meghan's height and weight. It was like a Halloween costume, and clearly she either gained weight on her back, or made them bring the size in tighter without seeing the result under her shoulder wings. But Narc's don't care. They look in the mirror and see glory.
This reality show has taught me Harry has had mental health issues sadly and likely they stem from childhood and go beyond just him losing his mother. One of his previous girlfriends said he'd see press everywhere even when they were not around and was nearly obsessed with it. What has happened is Meghan locked onto these issues of his, and she plays off his paranoia in order to keep him under her control, she has become the mother he couldn't save even tho it has been known for decades now sadly that Diana's death had more to do with the fact she got in the backseat of a drunk driver and didn't wear a safety belt. Meg has become Harry's mother in his eyes, which don't even get me started how weird that is as your spouse shouldn't ever be compared this much to your mother especially since we know these two clearly have sex and have made children.
Meg plays on his paranoia and has made it worse, no wonder the Royal Family are scared that Harry might be a candidate for self elimination sadly and would no doubt delight his wife if that happened as she'd then get attention for being a grieving widow.
Another thing that set my alarm bells off was Harry chewing his nails looking at his phone, then shows Meg his phone where they tell the film crew that Harry had just gotten a text from his brother. Their body language and everything they said/did implied the text was attacking them or at least it was William calling his brother out for his behavior. Then we have Meg say something to the effect of I know it's your brother and I'm not going to say anything, but by her saying that just showed she is attacking William and also not just William but attacking her own husband for not standing up for her to his brother, this was belittling Harry in front of the world. It was as those of us that know about psychology could tell you a very clear example of Meg's narcissistic mask slipping.
Great video once again Ibble, I appreciate the time you take watching this banal dribble and that's exactly what it is. If those of us that watched it couldn't laugh about it we'd have just wasted those hours of our lives. Hope you have a Happy Holidays!
When Megan is saying it's your brother calling, look at her left eyelash. She's blinking just one eye. As if to say, just go with it. Watch it in slow motion.
You described this perfectly. I can't believe she let that part air....shows what's really going on here
There are no children
Well said 👏👏👏
It made me cringe, that he even felt the need to show her his private message on his phone. She's got him so controlled & so emasculated. It's really creepy.
I'm sure the CH team was miffed about how they were treated, but I'm sure they never told her to make sure her tan lines were on full display in the dress. That was all her. It's obvious she loves couture but she's new money and doesn't know how to wear it.
In other words: “new money” = No Class
Grifted money
If I was Wes Gordon I wouldn't want to acknowledge her having worn anything by him
Other thing you never brought up is that Bouzy’s had neither any training in IT through an academic Institution or through work experience. He got a business license and hung out a sign marketing himself as an expert. A simple examination of his credentials would have informed anyone who was thinking of hiring him of that information. That is why Twitter who has now tested his algorithms have found out they are useless.
Thank you for raising this! Cherry-picking and dramatizing information to fit a predetermined narrative is antithetical to analytics and truthful reporting. If there was anybody with technical credentials helping him/Bot Sentinal, they would've had to chuck them ALL out the window as none are evident in that abomination of a "report". 😤 It was a deranged piece of propaganda at best, criminally defamatory at worst. IMO.
Carolina Herrera was Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis’s go-to designer. Caroline Kennedy was married in a custom-made CH gown in 1986. CH doesn’t need Meghan’s PR.
Great work on your channel. The kind of investigative reporting that’s desperately needed on the Sussex’s.
The interview with the fab four showed she's all fluff n uses buzzwords. When the interviewer asked for specifics, nothing!! She's such a fraud!!
I wish interviewers - or anyone actually - would ask her, on camera, “Give me three examples”. Because I know she couldn’t do it.
Harry is completely under her power, he is already talking like her the same speech 🤦🏾♀️😖
Truly love your channel
In Oprah’s interview, she talked about the sacrifices she made to be in the royal family as one of many signs of her narcissism. Also recently, her being shocked at the poor ratings of the docuseries. It appears both cannot recognize playing victimhood.
I nearly spit my drink out when you mentioned the bit about emotional reasoning and buying a sports car- my mom is a narcissist, and she has 2 kids. When we were growing up, she bought a sports car that only had 2 seats. So… a mom with 2 children only had 2 seats in her car 🙄🙄🙄 Emotional reasoning at its finest!
I also remember going to elementary school laying in the back of her girlfriend’s sports car- no seatbelt or anything. I just laid on this surface under the little back windshield. I would NEVER put my child in that position
I’m sorry you were disregarded so heavily. Narcissistic moms are truly the devil’s associates.
Thank you! I’m doing very well now. Been NC for 3 years.
Wow!
I want my curtains back 😩 😭 😫
It is uncanny, how the Carolina Herrera red gown looks on her exactly like the scanty cheap red dress she wore on deal or no deal
Anyone else just roll their eyes and sigh when the markles and their buddies start moaning about stuff? After years of listening to my husband like this, and switching off eventually from his narcissism, he divorced me (yeah).
Drama and victimhood from someone is soooooooooooo draining.
THANK you for covering Bouzy! I commented once on one of your early videos. Botsentinel was debunked a long time ago, but the debunking part was never disseminated the way his Report was, so it's been galling to watch MSM continue to reference him!!
Why does she sound like Amber Heard when she is talking about women's issues? "using their voice" etc. They use the same bullshit phrases too like "finding my voice" , "cultural conversations" , speaking truth to power"...is there a build-a-speech class they both subscribe to?
LOL!!...😂🤣😂
None of it means anything. If you asked MM and AH for hard examples, for specifics, they couldn’t give you any.
Ashleigh wasn't invited because she would've been another Pippa Middleton (and her bum) and taken the spotlight
Your videos are so next level. The research, content and ability to explain the choas of narcissistic treatment are so deeply explanatory and that focus is 🔥 thank you!
The Gurl is 5’ 2” with very wide shoulders and square truncated torso! So Carolina Herrera had a job on their hands making her look like a gamine 5’ 9” model! A challenge for “couture tailoring” imho
First fitting imo. She wasn't supposed to be at that event, but Kate showed up in that gold dress days before and she just had to compete. Isn't about anything or anyone else.
In fairness, would any designer want to be named after dressing that? I mean really
absolutely agree they shouldn't have let MM do any speaking or events at all until she was married at least a year. it seems like they really rushed her into the family, perhaps to make Aitch happy and with the hope that he'd settle down and finally get on with being an adult.
a pretty narcissistic comment he made that struck me was when he was talking about what he thought when he saw MM coming down the aisle at their wedding. it was something like, "look what i got." like, a wife was some kind of toy that reflects on him, a poor outcast ginger. i'd be pretty offended if my husband said that about me!
Both H. & M. suffer from arrested emotional development, although they are both middle-aged. Avoidance, Borderline, & Narcissistic-Personality disorders all suffer from this trait.
I think he was trying to make her happy with that comment. Like uh oh, my crazy wife is going to expect me to say something grandiose, let me think of something real quick
That actually tracks . . .they don’t seem to have a mature adult relationship. This fixation on a “fairy tale love story” is incredibly weird in adults of their age - basically, they’re middle-aged or at least approaching it. And everything they do is to interpret things in the rubric of a fairy tale: Meghan is the persecuted but oh-so-marvelous princess; Harry is the tortured but noble prince; William and Kate are the evil brother and stepsister. It’s all so strange.
Look indeed a used up old stringy haired D- list trashy actress that was a yacht girl.
Meghan made a comment, I think on Oprah, about someone suggesting that she and her mother not go out for coffee one day. Meghan took this to be restricting her and trying to control her. The reason the staff member suggested it was because “she had a lot of exposure lately.” To me it was clear that the palace learned from Diana’s early over exposure and were trying to make sure they played a long game with future wives. We saw this with Kate. She stayed in Wales with William. Came out a few times but her exposure and patronages were severely limited. She had to deal with being called “work shy” and other terrible things, but the strategy worked in the end. When people go on about how the RF learned nothing from the Diana debacle, I think that is not correct. They did learn, but Meghan knew better and was not willing to listen to their advice.
The red dress is beautiful, it has a lot of bustle/train going on which put the dress at a disadvantage because the occasion wasn't the one to showcase the dress. I don't like the split in front, why was that modification made? The model's version has no split. The sight of Harry the lightbulb bonce saying about 3 people under your dress....has he nothing better to do? Any man worth his salt wouldn't be seen dead hanging around his wife getting dressed. Such a limp dishcloth. She must
The niece not being invited is down to Meghan. The sooner this lady (who is a lawyer), applies critical thinking around this shenanigan by her Aunt Meghan, the sooner she will heal.
So Harry must be so proud of Charles marriage of 15 years to the love of his life Queen Camilla!!❤❤ most beautiful love story it survive everything everything. Camilla kids never nutty but nice!
Yes! Charles married Camilla acting on his emotions. Good point!
Meghan is absolutely not like Diana ., it’s an insult to his mother. Catherine and William have a true ‘love story’❤
Harry talks about the royalty “marrying people who fit the mold’ but he hypocritically and worryingly raves about his now wife fitting the mood of his mother
The first fitting looks exactly like the FINAL version 😂
@ibbledibble Spot on again as always! Dress fitting, awe poor Megs, I am getting the feeling "Cinderella going to the Ball" this is what poor little rich girl always wanted to be center of attention, treated like a star, Kardashian-like? It is prime example of "new money" and sense of self entitlement that comes it. "I have arrived!" 🙄😆 Still doesn't fit or flatter
Anybody who associates with Henry and Rachael end up losing credibility. They even managed to knock Oprah down the scale for the phony interview.
I love your red dress theory. So much that I had to watch it twice.
Rachel has the same press manipulation that Diana had.
Hilarious the bustle portion was expanded beyond models example. With a serious swayback the effect makes the already pushed out lower chest and stomach Porky and increased rear poof made the swayback extreme. Too bad they missed the Met Gala invite, costumes are in vogue there.
That bust HAD to be a troll
You are right fittings are usually done at the designers location because my sister works for a designer and she tells me celebrities always fly in to get measurements done. Meghan loves the attention and thinks designers need to bow down to her demands so it's likely they demoted her for being difficult so they gave her the dress as is rather than work with her to perfect the fit of the dress. Not body shaming her but she wears terrible outfits and she portrays trash and it shows in her outfits. And, you're 100% right about her using Ashley and she had that smile/smirk on her face when she said "Thats painful" -- she totally felt satisfied for purposely hurting Ashley. I 👍 agree with this video.
If the RF were to tell her not to wear that red Oscar dress, she would accused them of racism.
I hope someday Meghan’s niece realizes that she was used as a weapon against Samantha. Where is Ashley? Is she a part of Meghan’s life now that Meghan isn’t under the “control” of Harry’s family? Just another way to hurt and disconnect from family.
Great video Ibble Dibble.
I learn so much from you in each and every video you make.
You have a beautiful voice, too.
So glad you're using the Harkles to teach, as well as to entertain your subscribers.
HUGS from The Great State Of Texas.
The Fab Four was never going to happen… it didn’t exist. The Fab three did, but H forgot about it…
I wonder if the atelier made it clear that they didn’t want their names mentioned at all in regards to this fitting or this dress.
Meghan was determined that she was not going to be left out of any discussion on that panel and she was declaring that no one was going to make her sit back and wait for things.
I found your explanation of how narcissists don’t understand how their feelings work particularly interesting on a personal level. I have long since realized that my mother was a narcissist for reasons I won’t go into. Mother sent me a letter, when I was about 30 and had been gone for over a decade, explaining that all of her unhappiness and insecurities were because I had been such a horrible child. Even to this day decades later, it has still be amazing to me that she could have still been blaming me and accusing me that long past from my childhood. Your explanation has added to my knowledge and understanding, and I really appreciate it.
The number one narcissistic trait of her is her obsession of becoming Princess Diana, omg, she doesn’t even comes close. And Harry’s dilution of Megan as his mom🤣
Why would Meghan expect Kate and William to run in and hug her when they met for the first time? She was a Stranger to them. A barefooted stranger in ripped jeans. It would have taken time to get to know one another and create a friendship before they got to the hugging stage!
It would have happened naturally over time.
Ashley, the niece: What I don't understand is Mrs Spare didn't have much left of a relationship with her father; no relationship with Sam half sister. Ashley was brought up\adopted by her father's parents, therefore I'd assume NO CONTACT to little with any of the Markles, even it would seem her mother Sam. So how come aunty Meghan, became bestie friend? I don't see the connection is this somewhat, said to say dysfunctional family.
Bc she's now married into royalty. Doesn't say much for Ashley's character does it?
11. Attention seeking
There is no way that the Palace advised against Ashleigh attending the wedding. Clearly, the Palace was unable to convince MM to invite a single person from either side of her family, with the exception of her mother. Yet we are supposed to believe that they were able to advise/convince her not to invite Ashleigh? That doesn't quite add up.
After William and Catherine married, it was reported that they had tied themselves in knots trying to balance the wedding guest lists. As a future heir to the throne, there were VIP's that William felt he had to invite, and then there was everybody else. He didn't want to insult any VIP's, but he didn't want to be unable to invite people who mattered to them both for other reasons. He turned to his grandmother for advice, and she told him that it was his and Catherine's day, and that, guest-wise, he should do what he wanted to do. Why would it be any different for H & M?
She obviously advises herself.
I cannot believe that dress was fitted and still looked so bad. My golly gosh.
She doesn't know how to dress for her body type. Other than just wearing occasion-inappropriate outfits, its like she thinks "oh, it's designer and expensive I'm going to wear it!" Not thinking, hey my body shape wouldn't look good in such a cut. If she would have listened to her wardrobe assistants that she most likely had during her short time at the firm, she would have really looked great no doubt. That red dress made her look so broad and uncomfortable. Catherine dresses for her body. I'm sure at the beginning she had help, but she knows what looks good. Megan just shows us that she can't stand to be told what to do in every video. I didn't think anyone could make a custom Carolina Herrera dress look cheap and busted, but she did.🤣
Thank you ID 💗 Yikes that dress looked horrendous. So inappropriate for the event
I don't think the designer intentionally made her look bad because these types of people tend to be perfectionists and don't want their work to look bad. I think it's likely that they wanted more fittings but Meghan said no, that it was fine. The same thing happened with her wedding gown, it was ill-fitted as well. Nothing looks right on her, anyway, because she has an abnormally short torso.
She was not meant to be at that event of the red horror but marched in proudly, bosoms devant, like she was the thrill of the evening. Embarrassing and received no applause.
I feel bad for The Prince and Princess of Wales for having to have H&M try to discredit them. I don't know the Princess of Wales personally (wish I did!) but you can tell she is decent, kind, and caring, with so much class and dignity. Why anyone would try and hurt her is beyond me.
Because of The Green Monster
There are always 4 at a proper, professional setting;
1. Designer, making sure their vision is fulfilled.
2. Says what's actually physically possible. (seems the missing link)
3. Pinner, fitting the outfit.
4. Note taker, photos.
Very interesting. Thank you!
there are some instances where this isn't true; in savile row the tailor and an assistant do it all themselves, so two guys; a local dressmaker may do it all herself and still be very good. but at this level of fashion house, it's 4.
She shouldn't have been on the discussion with William and Kate to start with. She wasn't married at that stage and didn't stick to the subject which Kate started. Instead she took it over with her word salad heard many times before unrelated to the topic discussed.It was very disrespectful as she wasnt part of the family yet.Personally I found it rude when I first watched it and felt she had her own agenda.All I had heard since is, shine a light!!!! like a recording.
Hello Ibble
I agree Meghan and possibly Harry enjoyed the power rush they received by crushing Ashleigh because #1 they enjoy that kind of thing and #2 just to hurt Samantha, while #3 to hurt the whole family again. The message about how unwanted they all were. It must have been scary for her family wondering what power her wedding might grant her over them.
WE put the phone on speaker, so this wasn't Meghan dealing with it quietly herself.
Oh no, he was involved too. They both were going to feast on this.
I don't really think we've explored the issue of Samantha in Meghan's mind fully yet - or perhaps I've missed it.
But I think Meghan is driven by an historical jealousy within her regarding Samantha, so as a very small child she might have wished she would grow up to look just like her beautiful big sister and as it became clearer in her own thoughts that wasn't going to happen, the jealousy began to simmer.
There could also be some competition in there regarding who the most clever one is. Samantha seems book smart while Meghan seems more crafty smart. Plus that in general: Being the baby I get everything I want. Seems like there was plenty of spoiling going on too.
But the big deal is their looks.
Meghan is a good looking woman and highly photogenic but perhaps in her mind she wishes she had Sam's lovely face ?
If you go to check out that old photo with Sam and Meghan when Sam is being awarded her degree.
In the photo their faces are together and Sam has a much more petite face with fine features.
I honestly think all Meghan's surgeries have made her resemble Samantha more than she naturally ever did.
How did Meghan feel about her beautiful older sister ? Who was bravely making her way in the world with huge health issues yet she was achieving. She's still a nice looking woman even now so she must have been a stunner back in the day and a young Meghan I think fell into a rage of jealousy early on.
We heard at one point Meghan told her dad to chose between her or his other children, this is disturbed thinking. Obviously she felt so confident in her power to issue him this terrible ultimatum, and I'm so glad he simply said no.
Why the obsession with actress Reese Witherspoon ?
Because she looks like a young Samantha so Meghan would prefer the look alike and maybe secretly inside her head wants to Reese to replace Sam... I'm guessing so I don't know. But it is so interesting the way the two woman look a like, especially when Sam was young, and Meghan continues hopeful of some kind of a connection with her.
I wonder if the out of no where friendship with Ashleigh was always designed to poke Samantha in the eye.
She's your daughter but I'm doing all the fun mother and daughter stuff with her, so there !
As soon as Samantha had a means to contact her Meghan wanted it. I bet that has always been a reoccurring theme in all aspects through their lives Meghan always wanting what Sam has, who just by the dint of being older would reach milestones first.
But what Meghan sees someone else getting, she wants it NOW not in 3 years or whenever.
So it wouldn't be surprising after what we now have all learnt about the Harkles if the baiting if Ashleigh this was a real possibility and to me the answer is yes.
I wasn't clear if Harry got to meet her prior to the wedding or when ?
Not inviting Ashleigh to the wedding must have tasted so good !
In one fowl swoop she's upsetting her dad, her sister and Ashleigh who seems to be sadly like a little like a mouse being toyed with by a cat who's enjoying the game too much so keeps the mouse around for amusement.
The real bullseye was Sam, because she would see through the lies, and be unable to get through to star struck Ashleigh.
So it must be another torture.
What a delightful dish for Meghan, almost as sweet as soaking up Ashleigh's sad disappointment, but much more satisfying. One she has generously shared with Hairball....remember we put the phone on speaker. I bet you did.
The Palace I have no doubt became the imaginary arbiter for anything Meghan wished to avoid so she also got to become a victim of The Institution all rolled into one. So her own victim the mouse would be giving her sympathy for all the terrible restrictions....
Twisted games and terrible fairy tales spun by The Harkles.... still they carry on.
If narcissistic supply was laden with calories The Harkles would unable to squeeze up into their massive house having gobbled so much up.
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I think all of MM's ramblings and attention seeking are due to a low level of self-confidence. Imo, she was not a cute child, rather she looked large and heavy next to the other children. She was lucky that her dad was able to finance dental and plastic surgery. Her personality is what makes her very unattractive now, imo.
The oh so obvious the black old gal had so much plastic surgery never mentioned
Keep this entertaining and intellectual videos coming 👏...I'm on Christmas Break 🎄 Merry Christmas!
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Meghan used Ashleigh to get pointers on how to play the role in Suits and then couldn't say thank you by inviting her to the wedding. So low!
Harry - I don’t have many memories of my mother
Also Harry - Meghan is so similar to my mother
How would you know Harry?
Meghan is highly manipulating Harry!
And he just can’t see it.
Prince William, Prince Harry and Princess Kate were so very close for years! William and Catherine brought him into their relationship and their family and protected and adored him. Even through the 8 years Harry was with Chelsy Davy. Chelsy & Kate were great friends. Harry once referred to Kate as the sister he never had.
Harry knows deep down who his brother and Catherine really are. He is in a fog of Meghan’s deception and manipulation. One day I hope he can see through that fog.
Princess Diana would be heart broken by what Harry has done. She would be heartbroken that Harry will not be at her eldest sons side when he becomes monarch. She would be heartbroken that one of her sons could so publicly and relentlessly try to destroy her other son.
In the recorded words of Princess Diana herself . . . .
“Harry Ssshhhh!”
Harry seems to forget, no matter what, his Mum had class and never tried to take down the RF!
She looked so bad in that dress, I thought it was a knockoff. Ugh