Haha that's understandable though. A dog is a little bff that you grow attached to and becomes your family, a piece of your heart. It would be very crushing to rid of your puppy bff over a breakup bcuz he/she was a gift.
Aww who knows maybe you guys will get back together and you will regret touring it up, I still haven't delected the messages my ex use to send me but I never read it.
In Loni's case, I think that's really sweet. She respects their friendship and is secure in her own relationship to entertain the idea of that photo being on display
I'm replying to a comment 4 years later, buuuuut. I regret not keeping stuff like that, it's been a part of my growth, a part of my life, if I could do a do-over I would keep every letter from every guy. Just because I don't love, care for or see them anymore, at some time in my life they were important to me, later on the breakups became a part of who I am today also. So no, I wouldn't mind if my BF kept his past, everything he went through, every love he had made the man he is today. :)
@@adriannemichaels5237 Why do we keep _any_ gifts given to us by people we care about? -We like them -They have a use -They mean something to us -They remind us of the person. So you are telling me its _not okay_ to have special memories of someone from your past? *They are just memories!* If anything, shouldn't we be _happy_ our loved ones can be so sentimental? Are you telling me that a relationship is so weak that it is threatened by mere _memories_ of past peoples? If that's they case, *what's the point* of being WITH the person? Honesty friend, I get it; everyone wants to feels pecial in the mind of their loved ones. But how does having good feelings about people from the _past_ threaten what's real, valid, active and good _now?_ That's like saying if you had a freaking AWESOME birthday before, _no other birthday every_ is going to be special again.... Does that really make sense?
I think the gift symbolizes the memories that you shared with someone and not necessarliy you still having feelings. I'm a sentimental person so I like to keep things and reflect on good times but I guess everyone sees things differently.
I feel like if you're in a different relationship though and you're keeping something from another man for "sentimental" reasons, it's kind of strange and rude to your new relationships....like what kind of sentimental memories in your past romantic relationship do you have to look back on and hold on to physically? If it's not for sentimental reasons, and just cuz you like the material object itself (like a necklace, wallet, etc.) then it's fine. My boyfriend never kept love letters or nothing sentimental, he has a wallet and work glasses from his ex tho and I don't mind. It's not used for reminiscing on past memories, it's used for practicality and it's looked at as just the object itself.
@@ijadafields95 Girl, you were way off with that spelling. Lol! Google was around 5 years ago. You should’ve used it to avoid looking so uneducated. Have a good day and don’t forget to spell check next time. ✌🏽
+Shari Garcia when she said she doesn't keep stuff from an ex because if Vince did it she would be mad and that's being a hyprocrite if she was mad at him for keeping something but she didn't care if he was mad that she kept something from an ex
I think keeping a gift from an ex is okay as long as it’s still beneficial to you like a phone, clothes, shoes or even a car. Keeping a teddy bear or something intimate is just weird because while you’re holding on to memories, your ex is married and has a family.
One thing that really shocks my friends (and I'm a female) is my ability to completely move on when a relationship ends. And I found this to be as a result of getting rid of ANYTHING associated with that person. It doesn't mean you hate that person or you guys ended on a bad note. My Exs are actually all good people. But keeping something has a meaning. It would absolutely be unfair to the next person you'll be with to see all the things you've kept from the people you've been with in the past. Tamar is right. You have to think about what you would do if you were in that person's situation and they have memories saved from the past. It's hypocrisy if you want to keep things but you don't want the other person to keep things.
I dont think theres anything wrong with it, except if it were letters but anything materialistic, i don't mind keeping & i dont mind my man/husband keeping. Especially if it was expensive. You have to be secure in your relationship like Loni said. Because at a point that ex meant a lot to you. Especially if ya'll ended on good terms, its ok!
DreaB. So if an ex bf loved a jacket his ex gf got him you’d be ok with it? What if one day the ex claps back “we’re not together but he still can’t get rid of me or the things that remind him of me”
Right? Especially if it's earrings and someone said "nice earrings where did you get them from"? and imagine if someone said that while your spouse was next to you.
I'm split with this situation. IMO I don't think it is right to keep pictures and letters from your ex. The relationship is over and it is time to move on into bigger and better things. I know if I were to be in a relationship with a guy and I wouldn't feel comfortable if he kept letters and pictures from his ex. To me if you keep pictures and letters from your ex it tells me that you still have feelings for them. If the relationship is over there is no need to keep letters and pictures around that is going to remind you about your pass relationship. If you are in a new relationship you have to focus on that and it should be your priority and not the old relationships. However, if the gifts was something like shoes and clothes than I don't mind if he kept that. But the letters and pictures has got to go.
Towards the end of my relationship with my ex, my heart just wasn't into it anymore my feelings changed. So when my ex and I broke up I threw away everything he gave me because I didn't want to have anything that reminded me of him. I also cut off all contact from him to make it easier to get over him and our relationship. Side note: Everything Adrienne wears is on point and Tamar looks really nice today! :)
This situation can have 1,000 different scenarios. There's no set rule or standard. But if you should happen to get married. I believe, transparency should be displayed. Honesty is key. Material things diminish. True love never fades.
I think it all depends: keeping love letters and things with strong sentimental value attached to them is one thing; keeping a fly necklace or pair of sneakers or something is entirely different. You can like something that someone gave you without still having feelings for them, but keeping an item that makes you remember how much you loved them Is an issue!
i love the orange shirt & beautiful brown hair Ts got goin on. she never gets it wrong! whether shes rockin her beautiful crazy fro or da light blonde/brown hair she always looks classy yet effortless glam. keep it up T 😊
Don't do what you don't want other's to do to you, in other words if you know for a fact that you would have a problem with your spouse keeping gift's from an EX than you should not keep the gift's either. simple as that !
+digthewarmth I agree. I never realized how hypocritical she was until now. Sooo many double standards. I've noticed it in other segments too. I know that Tamar is no more secure than Adrienne, but at least she holds herself accountable to adhere to the same boundaries she sets for Vince. She doesn't want him keeping gifts from past relationships, she's not gonna keep gifts from her past relationships. She doesn't want him having female friends, she has no interest in having straight male friends. At least she's fair about it. I have way more respect for her than Adrienne, for that reason alone.
A few years ago, one of my exes did a portrait painting of me himself for Valentine's Day and I still have it. It's beautiful, I can't get rid of it. It says Happy Vals Day so people keep commenting and asking me who did it. I just say I ordered it myself. I keep gifts, it's no big deal.
Jeanie is the most mature. Its part of her life experience to keep stuff. It doesn't mean there is still a feeling of romance linked to the item. Maturity is key here.
This one is simple for me.. No and no.. I don't want nothing from you, you shouldn't keep nothing I gave you. And my new man (especially my husband), shouldn't be fighting to keep anything from any of his ex girls. Something about that feels weird to me too.. Men trying to keep gifts?? I feel like, if you are still able to tolerate something that someone you were once with gave to you, you still have a piece of them attached to your heart/soul.. If you want the relationship to truly die, so that you can heal and really let it go, you have to part with anything that had to do with that person-sometimes even music.. Even if you do not move on to someone new, I find as you are growing as a person, some things naturally fade overtime and fall into the background until you just don't want to keep them anymore. When you have truly let that person go (Bitter feelings and all) the item they gave you, expensive or not, just doesn't seem to fit anymore in your life.. I don't care what he wants to do with anything I gave him but, I think that's weird as hell to still keep anything you got from me and try to be moving on with some next girl like you are really over me, because no you are not! I don't care what you say, its true.. That's why its important never to fall in love with material things, because they mean something, even if you want to try to deny it to yourself.. They still mean something..
I'm keeping every gift I got from my ex, I earned all those hunnnney. My husband is free to keep his gifts too, I don't cherish any memory but I deserve the gifts.
Anyone notice that since yesterday's episode about them opening up about bullying, Tamar and Jeannie seem to be getting along better? Like at 2:02 Tamar's reassurance, "That's not being shady!" I wouldn't have expected that
Adrienne's idea wasn't shady it was smart and funny as hell, lol. She gave the necklace to his mom? I think it depends on what you get, if you get something brand new and you know it was just for you then SORRY BOO, THIS IS MY PROPERTY NOW! If he gives you his mother's jewelry or you borrowed something from him, just be respectful and give it back. Or sell it.
Really good topic! Personally if it was a nice relationship and it ended in good terms, I don't see why keeping the gifts is a bad thing. But if the relationship ended terribly (example: cheating), and forgetting the person is needed, throwing all the gifts away (or regifting them) is therapeutic. Dissapearing anything that would remind you of the person and cutting communication for good are essential parts of the “moving on" process.
I don't think Tamar is as insecure as she seems. I think in her mind she has to make herself believe that other women would want Vince so she could feel secure.
wow you spoke my mind .its exactly what I think but I didnt know how to say it . Now I know there are some real thristy chicks who are out for the money but she seems fake when she does all that . She wants to act like she's jealous as a compliment to him imo
I personally don't think it's that serious, especially if you aren't even in contact with them anymore; sometimes it's just nice to reflect on the fond memories you had with someone.
When you r secure in your rship & know u have a good man/woman/partner ur secure enough to know that objects arent or shouldn't b a threat let alone an issue. but if ur goin 2 expect or ask someone 2 rid themselves of any gifts/memories then its only fair u do the same! ppl need 2 stop thinkin dat their partner thinks or feels otherwise. if ur da 1 askin da other 2 get rid of things u shldnt even have 2 b askd 2 do da same, u shld have already been dat u askd in da 1st place.
I guess it's fine to keep things that were given by your ex, unless he asked those things back. Whether you want to keep or throw those stuff away, it's your own decision. You don't need to make it complicated.
My boyfriend of three years broke up with me and I packed all the letters, pictures and memories in a box. I haven’t had the heart to throw it away yet
I still had my ex boyfriend valentine's gift I forgot to give it to him, ( it was some Nautica Cologne) so after we broke up, I didn't want to have other girls fall in love with the stuff I gave him, so I decided to make him mad and give it to my friend(she likes men cologne) she said I'm wearing your valentines day gift and he looked so angry 😂😂
I think it really just depends on the person and the situation. For me it's not really a big deal, at one point in your life you shared special times with someone and it's okay to keep things from experiences you've had in your life. Take the good from every experience.
idk maybe we’re goofy lmao but me and my man keep some of our sentimental stuff from past relationships & it’s really nothing if you’re sure about the person you’re with. i can accept that he was loved before me & if we parted, then he’ll be loved after, vice versa. but maybe that’s just me bc whenever the past comes up, we just joke about it & treat it like stories that come and gone. some people aren’t honest in that retrospect, which is why it’s easier to be crazy when you don’t have answers.
I sort of devalue the memory, like if it was a nice/expensive gift, and say you ask me who it was from or how I got it, I say, "I've long since forgotten." means it was from an ex and I blocked out the memory. I think it's important to keep things, and make History, because as a grandchild, I'm finding out so much about my Grandparents, more and more now that they're long gone. and I like seeing the path they've walked. I want my grand kids to know the path I walked. and teach them to mark their path and even hundreds of years from now they can trace all of this.
for awhile i kept like the jackets they gave me or jewelry but once i was completely over them, those stuff meant nothinng to me so i gave em to goodwill lol
I still have love letters from people that I've was getting to know. For me it's a reminder of how they think of me because at times I can be hard in myself. for example; if a love letter says that I am loving, it's a great reminder that a man saw thought of me. but also, when I go back to that box of memories, emotions come in, mainly because they were good times...
thats because your supposed to have those moments with your partner not someone else. someone asked me how id feel if hed have a friend but a girl. if im a jealous type. its not about jelousy your supposed to have a communication relationship with me. its not just about sex lust whatever... its about communication and you want to do that with someone else. thats not okay whatsover if im not that person you want to come talk to about whatever and just kick it then we can't be together. those are basic needs that need to be meet in a relationship should be no need for you to run off needing to talk to someone else.
I don’t know what the drama was on the show but Tamar is so funny and I wish she was still on the show. I love all of these girls and could binge watch these clips all day lol
"See that's very mature... I'm not that mature yet." 😂😂😂 aaaah Adrienne!!
Me always
Naim Hastings honestly I'm the same way as adrian lol
I dont care if your an Ex or not, If you give me something; IT'S MINE! Not going to give it back Lol.
Enjoy being single
Exactly. Why toss when you can use it all throughout or maybe even sell it and use that money for something better.
PERIOD
amanda kenya how do you know that?
Ricky Franc exactly
My ex gave me a dog as a birthday gift. I won't be giving my dog away. 😆
Haha that's understandable though. A dog is a little bff that you grow attached to and becomes your family, a piece of your heart. It would be very crushing to rid of your puppy bff over a breakup bcuz he/she was a gift.
+Dora Good
I know that’s right
Exactly.
My ex bought me a bunny...
who ever is adrienne's stylist they do a really good job on her because she always looks nice !
Olivia Washington
lookin like 👱🏾♀️👩🏽🦋👧🏻👧🏽
She's one of those women who can't really look bad lol I wish I was the same😂
Tamar is correct. She IS petty!
I ain't getting rid of a DAMN thing!
I like Tamera with the bangs too. Good job stylist
I just remembered that I have a photo of an ex that I need to tear up to pieces...Thanks for giving me that push Tamar lol
Aww who knows maybe you guys will get back together and you will regret touring it up, I still haven't delected the messages my ex use to send me but I never read it.
lol I found one and ripped it up. QUICK.
Sandra Jefferson I hope you don't have a current boyfriend.
@MrTheKidisback why do you ask?
Sandra Jefferson I didn't ask.
In Loni's case, I think that's really sweet. She respects their friendship and is secure in her own relationship to entertain the idea of that photo being on display
I think part of it is because she's a celebrity now & truly good person.
He still wants her. Bet they were still sleeping together from time to time.
An old "gift" from an ex, I do not mind.
An old love letter, I very much mind.
Why keep it? To re-read it? Re-feel that love? Nuh-uh.
Michelle I know this wayyyyy old. But you got me with "re-feel" 😂😂😂😂!!!!! New favorite made-up word.
I'm replying to a comment 4 years later, buuuuut. I regret not keeping stuff like that, it's been a part of my growth, a part of my life, if I could do a do-over I would keep every letter from every guy. Just because I don't love, care for or see them anymore, at some time in my life they were important to me, later on the breakups became a part of who I am today also. So no, I wouldn't mind if my BF kept his past, everything he went through, every love he had made the man he is today. :)
Women do this all the time, though. What's wrong with having fond memories of an old loved one?
Shenruss Why would you keep it if you in a new relationship though...
@@adriannemichaels5237 Why do we keep _any_ gifts given to us by people we care about?
-We like them
-They have a use
-They mean something to us
-They remind us of the person.
So you are telling me its _not okay_ to have special memories of someone from your past? *They are just memories!* If anything, shouldn't we be _happy_ our loved ones can be so sentimental? Are you telling me that a relationship is so weak that it is threatened by mere _memories_ of past peoples?
If that's they case, *what's the point* of being WITH the person? Honesty friend, I get it; everyone wants to feels pecial in the mind of their loved ones. But how does having good feelings about people from the _past_ threaten what's real, valid, active and good _now?_ That's like saying if you had a freaking AWESOME birthday before, _no other birthday every_ is going to be special again....
Does that really make sense?
I think the gift symbolizes the memories that you shared with someone and not necessarliy you still having feelings. I'm a sentimental person so I like to keep things and reflect on good times but I guess everyone sees things differently.
It's the sentimental value indeed, but heck if it's a 10,000 dollar necklace I DON'T CARE, I'M KEEPING IT lol
I feel like if you're in a different relationship though and you're keeping something from another man for "sentimental" reasons, it's kind of strange and rude to your new relationships....like what kind of sentimental memories in your past romantic relationship do you have to look back on and hold on to physically? If it's not for sentimental reasons, and just cuz you like the material object itself (like a necklace, wallet, etc.) then it's fine. My boyfriend never kept love letters or nothing sentimental, he has a wallet and work glasses from his ex tho and I don't mind. It's not used for reminiscing on past memories, it's used for practicality and it's looked at as just the object itself.
Spell check please!
@@cesardingle1567 you 5 years late and knew what I was saying so move around spell check police 🙄
@@ijadafields95 Girl, you were way off with that spelling. Lol! Google was around 5 years ago. You should’ve used it to avoid looking so uneducated. Have a good day and don’t forget to spell check next time. ✌🏽
I'm glad Tamar pointed out how hypocritical it is.
healingduck what was hypocritical?
+Shari Garcia when she said she doesn't keep stuff from an ex because if Vince did it she would be mad and that's being a hyprocrite if she was mad at him for keeping something but she didn't care if he was mad that she kept something from an ex
TraitorByTrad
I think keeping a gift from an ex is okay as long as it’s still beneficial to you like a phone, clothes, shoes or even a car. Keeping a teddy bear or something intimate is just weird because while you’re holding on to memories, your ex is married and has a family.
I’m so happy Adrienne found her perfect mate! Someone who she doesn’t have to suffer over ❤️
So happy to see this comment after all she went through
I love how Tamar is not being unfair to men. She believes men feels the same as women. She doesn't believe in that double standard. I love her!!!
Jeanie looks good
I was thinking the same thing
yes
Ohh Jeannie looking all types of HAWT in that red leather jacket and lace floral top! Mmhmm yas Mrs Mai werk!
hahahaha "That's very mature, im not that mature yet"
Jeannie's jacket! yessss
Adrienne looking like a gorgeous, classy mom lol. Tamar also looks really good today
okay this time *Loni's* story sounds real !!
Aiibdel Y’all stay on Loni, omg, lol.....😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I thought it sounded fake
She sounded very emotional when telling it.
I thought Adrienne would bring up the time her ex kept the car she bought for him. Remember that?
Thought the same 😀😀
I bet rob sent her that xmas gift
" I have never hated a man enough to give him his diamonds back "
The way we saw Adrienne change so much. From Lenny to Isiaah 💖 shes grown alot.
Isiaah😂😂😂😂
One thing that really shocks my friends (and I'm a female) is my ability to completely move on when a relationship ends. And I found this to be as a result of getting rid of ANYTHING associated with that person. It doesn't mean you hate that person or you guys ended on a bad note. My Exs are actually all good people. But keeping something has a meaning. It would absolutely be unfair to the next person you'll be with to see all the things you've kept from the people you've been with in the past.
Tamar is right. You have to think about what you would do if you were in that person's situation and they have memories saved from the past. It's hypocrisy if you want to keep things but you don't want the other person to keep things.
I dont think theres anything wrong with it, except if it were letters but anything materialistic, i don't mind keeping & i dont mind my man/husband keeping. Especially if it was expensive. You have to be secure in your relationship like Loni said. Because at a point that ex meant a lot to you. Especially if ya'll ended on good terms, its ok!
I agree, I'm keeping all the expensive ish you gave me boo!
lmao yasss! ha
Luul A lmaoo yass! ha
DreaB. Letters and pictures are a different thing though which he doesn’t have :D
DreaB. So if an ex bf loved a jacket his ex gf got him you’d be ok with it? What if one day the ex claps back “we’re not together but he still can’t get rid of me or the things that remind him of me”
Once the relationship is over, it's over! I don't want any memories of you. You will be dead to me!
Right? Especially if it's earrings and someone said "nice earrings where did you get them from"? and imagine if someone said that while your spouse was next to you.
I'm split with this situation. IMO I don't think it is right to keep pictures and letters from your ex. The relationship is over and it is time to move on into bigger and better things. I know if I were to be in a relationship with a guy and I wouldn't feel comfortable if he kept letters and pictures from his ex. To me if you keep pictures and letters from your ex it tells me that you still have feelings for them. If the relationship is over there is no need to keep letters and pictures around that is going to remind you about your pass relationship. If you are in a new relationship you have to focus on that and it should be your priority and not the old relationships. However, if the gifts was something like shoes and clothes than I don't mind if he kept that. But the letters and pictures has got to go.
Towards the end of my relationship with my ex, my heart just wasn't into it anymore my feelings changed. So when my ex and I broke up I threw away everything he gave me because I didn't want to have anything that reminded me of him. I also cut off all contact from him to make it easier to get over him and our relationship.
Side note: Everything Adrienne wears is on point and Tamar looks really nice today! :)
I have to say Jeanie is Gorgeous!!!
Jeannie looks so pretty.
This situation can have 1,000 different scenarios. There's no set rule or standard. But if you should happen to get married. I believe, transparency should be displayed. Honesty is key. Material things diminish. True love never fades.
I think it all depends: keeping love letters and things with strong sentimental value attached to them is one thing; keeping a fly necklace or pair of sneakers or something is entirely different. You can like something that someone gave you without still having feelings for them, but keeping an item that makes you remember how much you loved them Is an issue!
Loni looks really nice today. I had to point that out.
no the hell she dont Im sick of the colored wigs
Jeannie: "But what about a really good fly mixtape...?"Tamar : " A WHO??--girl, no. BYE." I am deadddd x_X
Jeanie and Adrienne today look flawless!! love their looks
"Im not that mature yet" Lmfaooo😂
I'd only keep the expensive stuff my ex bought me and Loni's story was really sweet
i love the orange shirt & beautiful brown hair Ts got goin on. she never gets it wrong! whether shes rockin her beautiful crazy fro or da light blonde/brown hair she always looks classy yet effortless glam. keep it up T 😊
slksilb
Don't do what you don't want other's to do to you, in other words if you know for a fact that you would have a problem with your spouse keeping gift's from an EX than you should not keep the gift's either. simple as that !
Jeannie lol
True!!
betty boop So true! I was surprised at how immature Adrienne was about that.
+digthewarmth I agree. I never realized how hypocritical she was until now. Sooo many double standards. I've noticed it in other segments too. I know that Tamar is no more secure than Adrienne, but at least she holds herself accountable to adhere to the same boundaries she sets for Vince. She doesn't want him keeping gifts from past relationships, she's not gonna keep gifts from her past relationships. She doesn't want him having female friends, she has no interest in having straight male friends. At least she's fair about it. I have way more respect for her than Adrienne, for that reason alone.
betty boop I agree all the way....❤️❤️✨✨.
A few years ago, one of my exes did a portrait painting of me himself for Valentine's Day and I still have it. It's beautiful, I can't get rid of it. It says Happy Vals Day so people keep commenting and asking me who did it. I just say I ordered it myself. I keep gifts, it's no big deal.
Jeanie is the most mature. Its part of her life experience to keep stuff. It doesn't mean there is still a feeling of romance linked to the item. Maturity is key here.
This one is simple for me.. No and no.. I don't want nothing from you, you shouldn't keep nothing I gave you. And my new man (especially my husband), shouldn't be fighting to keep anything from any of his ex girls. Something about that feels weird to me too.. Men trying to keep gifts?? I feel like, if you are still able to tolerate something that someone you were once with gave to you, you still have a piece of them attached to your heart/soul..
If you want the relationship to truly die, so that you can heal and really let it go, you have to part with anything that had to do with that person-sometimes even music.. Even if you do not move on to someone new, I find as you are growing as a person, some things naturally fade overtime and fall into the background until you just don't want to keep them anymore.
When you have truly let that person go (Bitter feelings and all) the item they gave you, expensive or not, just doesn't seem to fit anymore in your life.. I don't care what he wants to do with anything I gave him but, I think that's weird as hell to still keep anything you got from me and try to be moving on with some next girl like you are really over me, because no you are not! I don't care what you say, its true.. That's why its important never to fall in love with material things, because they mean something, even if you want to try to deny it to yourself.. They still mean something..
binge watching...
It takes a really secure person to be at peace with your partner keeping things that remind him/her of a past relationship.
“Im not that mature yet” lmfao 😂😂💀
I'm keeping every gift I got from my ex, I earned all those hunnnney. My husband is free to keep his gifts too, I don't cherish any memory but I deserve the gifts.
I agree with Tamar cause keeping gifts from yo ex means that you still have feelings for that person
It depends if it is sentimental - I’m not going to keep teddy bears, letters, or photos. But I will 100% keep jewelry or nice clothes.
Anyone notice that since yesterday's episode about them opening up about bullying, Tamar and Jeannie seem to be getting along better? Like at 2:02 Tamar's reassurance, "That's not being shady!" I wouldn't have expected that
Aww, Loni's story was really nice!
I agree with Adrienne on somewhat being aware and wanting to be better than the girlfriend !
When Adrienne said I’m not that mature yet I felt that 😂
"I'm not that mature yet" LOLOL!
I share the same sentiments with Tamar on a lot of things
Goyamang Mosaakane
She a Pisces Queen❤🧡👊
Adrienne's idea wasn't shady it was smart and funny as hell, lol. She gave the necklace to his mom? I think it depends on what you get, if you get something brand new and you know it was just for you then SORRY BOO, THIS IS MY PROPERTY NOW! If he gives you his mother's jewelry or you borrowed something from him, just be respectful and give it back. Or sell it.
Jeannie was killing it with that outfit. YASS Bish Slay!🙌🏽💅🏽
Really good topic! Personally if it was a nice relationship and it ended in good terms, I don't see why keeping the gifts is a bad thing. But if the relationship ended terribly (example: cheating), and forgetting the person is needed, throwing all the gifts away (or regifting them) is therapeutic. Dissapearing anything that would remind you of the person and cutting communication for good are essential parts of the “moving on" process.
Yess👏
I don't think Tamar is as insecure as she seems. I think in her mind she has to make herself believe that other women would want Vince so she could feel secure.
Now this is the truth. She is flattering Vince and flattering/deluding herself at the same time.
wow you spoke my mind .its exactly what I think but I didnt know how to say it . Now I know there are some real thristy chicks who are out for the money but she seems fake when she does all that . She wants to act like she's jealous as a compliment to him imo
Do u have any idea how rich he is? Lol. Plenty women would want him. And sweet
I personally don't think it's that serious, especially if you aren't even in contact with them anymore; sometimes it's just nice to reflect on the fond memories you had with someone.
i miss tamar! the real is not the same without her
Alaa mas I agree but I don't miss her shady attitude tho😴😑
When you r secure in your rship & know u have a good man/woman/partner ur secure enough to know that objects arent or shouldn't b a threat let alone an issue. but if ur goin 2 expect or ask someone 2 rid themselves of any gifts/memories then its only fair u do the same! ppl need 2 stop thinkin dat their partner thinks or feels otherwise. if ur da 1 askin da other 2 get rid of things u shldnt even have 2 b askd 2 do da same, u shld have already been dat u askd in da 1st place.
I guess it's fine to keep things that were given by your ex, unless he asked those things back. Whether you want to keep or throw those stuff away, it's your own decision. You don't need to make it complicated.
Adrienne was like I'm not the mature 😂😂❤
Loni now you know ain’t nobody want!!!.......Nevermind😂😂😂
She said a mix tape 😂😂😂😂😂😂 " a who"
I'm keeping my gifts..to each his own. I can't get my most precious gift back that he has received over and over!!!!!
Jeanie looks beautiful today!
I'm wayyyy to sentimental to throw away any of that type of stuff. I love looking back at old photos.
My boyfriend of three years broke up with me and I packed all the letters, pictures and memories in a box. I haven’t had the heart to throw it away yet
I love Jeannie's outfit here. Werk it girl.
Adrienne: ".. to not compete with that ex, but to be aware."
Yup. that made sence.
A new necklace for Kriss Jenner.
Lenny's mom
Alberto Dote you mean a new necklace from rob hahaha
The earliest I've been
Aha! Me too lol
me too lol
Me 3😂
Same
Wait there is a damn double Standard here
I still had my ex boyfriend valentine's gift I forgot to give it to him, ( it was some Nautica Cologne) so after we broke up, I didn't want to have other girls fall in love with the stuff I gave him, so I decided to make him mad and give it to my friend(she likes men cologne) she said I'm wearing your valentines day gift and he looked so angry 😂😂
Damn so Adrienne always been trying to take the spot light since four years ago
My Sapphire blue MK watch isn't getting returned. You're Buggin!! Lmao
I think it really just depends on the person and the situation. For me it's not really a big deal, at one point in your life you shared special times with someone and it's okay to keep things from experiences you've had in your life. Take the good from every experience.
rotflmbaoooo at Adrienne & Tamar " I'm not that mature yet"..LOLOL!!
Keep the good gifts and toss the mementos. Lol!
Haha, Adrien..Said At The End, Thats Mature. Kmsl I'm Not That Mature Yet😂...Bahaha😩😂😂
i think "it ends with us" is a big example of how keeping things from your ex could go wrong 😂😂
Give the gifts away to friends or family and break those soul ties, thank you
idk maybe we’re goofy lmao but me and my man keep some of our sentimental stuff from past relationships & it’s really nothing if you’re sure about the person you’re with. i can accept that he was loved before me & if we parted, then he’ll be loved after, vice versa. but maybe that’s just me bc whenever the past comes up, we just joke about it & treat it like stories that come and gone. some people aren’t honest in that retrospect, which is why it’s easier to be crazy when you don’t have answers.
I have to say I really like the way Loni wear her colored weave. Because she still looks professional. There is a way to do it.
ABSOLUTELY...keep those gifts, especially the good ones and sell the crappy ones.
When Loni said “that’s his favorite picture of you and him” her voice did that rare thing where it was honest
I believe it’s perfectly okay depending on what it may be
I LOVE TAMAR,I LOVE HER SIDE OF THE STORY, IT'S DIFFRRENT AND RELATEABLE
I sort of devalue the memory, like if it was a nice/expensive gift, and say you ask me who it was from or how I got it, I say, "I've long since forgotten." means it was from an ex and I blocked out the memory. I think it's important to keep things, and make History, because as a grandchild, I'm finding out so much about my Grandparents, more and more now that they're long gone. and I like seeing the path they've walked. I want my grand kids to know the path I walked. and teach them to mark their path and even hundreds of years from now they can trace all of this.
When Jeannie talked about keeping items from boyfriends in middle or high school, I never had one!
for awhile i kept like the jackets they gave me or jewelry but once i was completely over them, those stuff meant nothinng to me so i gave em to goodwill lol
bangs on fleek across the board hunty!!!!
Having an ex's love letter to me is literally equivalent to cheating. Like no if's and's or but's about it.
I ain't giving back no diamond ring(not an engagement ring, anyway) That ring saved me during dire times and a lot more! LMAO!
I still have love letters from people that I've was getting to know. For me it's a reminder of how they think of me because at times I can be hard in myself. for example; if a love letter says that I am loving, it's a great reminder that a man saw thought of me. but also, when I go back to that box of memories, emotions come in, mainly because they were good times...
thats because your supposed to have those moments with your partner not someone else. someone asked me how id feel if hed have a friend but a girl. if im a jealous type. its not about jelousy your supposed to have a communication relationship with me. its not just about sex lust whatever... its about communication and you want to do that with someone else. thats not okay whatsover if im not that person you want to come talk to about whatever and just kick it then we can't be together. those are basic needs that need to be meet in a relationship should be no need for you to run off needing to talk to someone else.
Yes! I still have my jewelry, cell phone, took my pictures back... I secretly have my pictures saved because they were memories.
I don’t know what the drama was on the show but Tamar is so funny and I wish she was still on the show. I love all of these girls and could binge watch these clips all day lol
I love Adriene's look !
Why throw away memories and gifts? It's never that serious people.
I think jewelry is fine as long as it's not a ring. No love letter but pictures from dances are totally fine!
Jeannie and her mixtape 😂😂😂