hair stylists are BULLIES: a rant
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- Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
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It’s like all mean people are taking jobs that require customer care and service…. Like why?
my experiences with nurses. they're either competent and empathetic or total abusive or straight up psychopaths. those salaries are pure narcbait, they need to be heavily vetted for people skills and genuine empathy.
Maybe because they like human attention and connection, even if the attention is negative and the connection is “enemies” lol
@@mercedesbenzodiazapineWow! BRAVO! FINALLY someone said it. I had to do a lot of surgeries over the course of my life and a lot of doctors and nurses suck. Many of them have no empathy, no sympathy and only choose that profession for the money and for the prestige. Not because they actually care about people.
Money honey 😚
It’s really sad. I was cashing a man out yesterday at my job and he said he was surprised I was so nice to him. He said he was not used to that.
This society is loosing respect and professionalism even though the talent may be there.
It’s clouded by narcissism and entitlement
Right
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6true
@@Bb-jm6wx Nah they still have talent. Last year I had single braids done by this lady and it was absolutely beautiful. I got approached by people constantly. But the experience was so horrible I will never go back to her again.
Losing*
One dogged the s* out of my thin hair in front of the whole salon. I was so embarrassed. Little did he know, I’d just finished chemotherapy five months prior. Yeah, they can be real a*holes.
Thats crazy. Theyre a clown. Congratulations on finishing Chemo! 🛎️🛎️🛎️
Man you should of made him look stupid mentioning your recovery from this smh..
@@isysslepore72right
That’s so disgusting and upsetting to know that a person could treat a fellow human being that way. I’m sorry to hear you had to experience that. Congratulations on finishing chemotherapy. Hope you are doing better and I wish you a full recovery. ❤
Yea I’ve had hairstylists complain how “nappy” my hair was and purposely charge me more smh that’s embarrassing
Nobody should be allowed to automatically take your photo. This is my face and my hair. You were paid to do a service and I owe you nothing else. Now if you want to do my hair for free, then sure take your photo.
That’s like saying Walmart has the right to take your picture, because you bought some oranges from them. Like what? And my hair is my body. You just styled it.
Exactly
Yuuuuup
Also, and maybe even more importantly, clients may have very serious reasons for not allowing pictures. Professional models and actors can be under contract that they cannot model for anyone except their employer. Creative professions can involve copyright/trademark of someone's face or likeness. Victims of domestic violence may want to avoid their face going online in any way that could be tied to them geographically for fear of their abuser finding them. When these hair dressers cross these boundaries they can put themselves or others at risk of actual harm.
I had one ask me to pose and blow a kiss at the camera 😩😩
Gurl, when I got my hair braided and asked her not to take a pic she literally got an attitude with me !!!
The picture thing irritates me. I am the first to say “no ma’am, you cannot take my picture”. One stylist put it in her policy that EVERY CLIENT WILL HAVE THEIR PICTURE TAKEN UPON COMPLETION. I think tf not. I paid for some braids, not a photo shoot.
I will say, taking a picture of someone that I did their hair helped me when she tried to tell the bank that I never did her hair or sold her a wig. I understand why pictures are requested or taken but forced? It should NEVER be forced.
One of the stylus in my area her policy is to come picture ready🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@@Knottyautumn girl yes. I saw that on someone’s policy as well. Nope. My money spends everywhere. I scheduled with someone else. I’m not putting on a full face at 7am!
What is with these so called new aged hair stylists?
I wear niqabs outside. You only see my eyes. Explain to me why this lady didn’t understand why I don’t want her to make a picture of me and place it on instagram.
I was lucky she argued before starting. I left and did a silk press myself
This is why I learned how to do my own hair.
Facts, they act like they don’t wanna get paid. Which is fine with me because I would never pay for that level of unprofessionalism anyways
Me too
Exactly. I just learning about wig installs. I went to 2 hair stylist. Terrible!! I'm learning from UA-cam and asking strangers.
@@Acosya2 literally I learned how to do braids and twists all from UA-cam and it’s really helped in growing my hair, every time I go to a stylist not only is the customer service bad, but my hair ends up break off cause they don’t give a damn about the integrity of your hair. Learning to do my hair was the best thing, I’ll be teaching myself how to do sew ins next!
Im working on that now myself.
We really need a Keith Lee of hairstylists in each state so we can be aware of who to avoid.
There is one, she just kinda started lol
@@tamiadixon8312what’s her @?
@@tamiadixon8312what’s the @ love ❤
@@Bb-jm6wxI think she’s referring to Ayana
@@Bb-jm6wxThe video creator girl 😂
Don’t take a picture of me without my consent. It’s not rocket science. I’m glad I do my own hair. Hair stylist now are weird as hell.
I’m literally learning how to do my own hair I’m tired of the slick remarks about my hair texture
Right,I don't have time to find someone I trust, someone who's not GONNA be scissor happy, and someone that cost a arm and a leg that's really a car payment,or tent for someone.At home is the best that way you know if you have problems with your hair it's your fault and you can figure it out fast on how to reverse the damage if there is any .
@@CookWithStephhfacts!
TUH!!! I'm 4c, went in for a blow out and stylist caught the worst attitude like I was supposed to walk in pre-pressed smdh!! She was SO rude and rough! @@CookWithStephh
@@LKauf279that’s how they are 😭 i went in to get my hair braided once and this girl got mad i didn’t accurately blow dried my hair.. like im sorry im not a professional?
Once upon a time stylists understood they needed models and that models are not the same as paying clients.
I booked a quick weave once and the stylist was rude to me because I came with pack hair she didn’t like. She was then getting smart with me asking why I didn’t follow directions on her website. I then reminded her that I CALLED her a week before my appointment telling her that that hair was out of stock and she told me to just get the next best thing. So I went to the beauty supply store that she recommended and they gave me a hair made by the same company (and was honestly likely the same hair just being sold in a different package). She didn’t talk to me the whole service and rushed me out after. I was so sad but I’m shy and I was literally getting my hair done for my birthday so I just dealt with her bully behavior and I never went back.
That’s was the hairstylist’s loss not yours. Sorry that happened to you.
The stylist and beauty supply store have a deal in selling to her clients
I’ve had this happen before too
Gaslighting huh
You should have left. It’s your birthday and SHE needs YOU.
They should hire models for pictures. If they want to make money and attract more clients by taking a photo of you they better give you a discount or not charge you at all
I agree!!
That’s an excellent idea. Offer clients a discount in exchange for the marketing. More clients should bring this up so it becomes a trend or stop frequenting these services
Why do y’all be thinking any service should be free period?😂 like don’t be cheap, a discount ok but you think 3-6 hours of work should be free cause they took your picture? Yeaa that’s just silly especially cause it’s not a generational wealth situation most of these salons started up on their own money & within the time we’ve all been born. These stylists should be asking to take your pictures but you should never expect a free service unless it was given by a robot not a human being
@@tegapimp93in the age of influencer marketing, Getting a service for free in exchange for you advertising the service is super common. It’s also common for companies to hire models and pay them with the service (not saying that’s a good practice😔). I think a discount is appropriate if a hairstylist plans on showing the face of their clients and posting it
@@lototheflo9640 These happen with an agreement and you don’t just offer it to just anybody . Wig companies pay or send free wigs for promotion, that’s a product I’m talking about a service. The only time I’ve ever seen a hair service given free is if it’s a photoshoot/ business shoot or branding shoot not just to sit in the chair & get your hair done and let me take pictures it’s not just offered to just anybody she made it seam like anybody who get their pictures taken should get a free/ discounted service where’s the sense in that? Especially if that person agrees to it. Nobody should be forced to take a picture but expecting a free service because you did is just greedy.
Facts! My old beautician has never asked me to take a picture. Her work speaks for itself, and she stays booked. These new stylists really do remind me of bullies. It’s like all the mean girls grew up to be in the beauty industry or nursing.
I understands with the changes of social media, these stylists have to keep up with it just to make/keep clientele.
HOWEVER, I feel like the following gets to their head and they start acting up. Forgetting where they really started smh.
And some these styles call it “luxurious hairstyles. If you broke don’t get it.”,
But then they got no talent.
i definitely want to be a nurse but it’s so many mean girls who use that as their personality 😢
@@chanelsoglo aww nah you should def still pursue it! We need genuine people who really are there to help people 🫶🏽
Wow this entire comment wow especially nursing. Just a bunch of mean girls
My pet peeve when it comes to stylists is being in the shop for hours! Also late fees, how are going to charge me for being late, but you come in late?
This!!!!!! I stopped going to the salon for over a year because of this!!
Yea…I remember when I used to go to a braider who charged a deposit and an obnoxiously high late fee if you were 5 minutes late…but if she was late (which was pretty often) she would just expect you to deal with it. & if you tried to cancel because SHE was late, she would try to charge a cancellation fee🤯 these “stylists” really are unhinged! I wouldn’t even let them braid my DOGS hair
Also they charge me more because my hair texture is more kinky smh that’s not even fair how you punishing me for a texture I cannot control ? I can understand super long hair but 4c hair cmon
@@CookWithStephh right?? Don’t most BW have 4c hair??? It’s giving colorism/texturism…I definitely wouldn’t want somebody with that type of energy touching my hair
@@Aura-Awakened yea I’m not going back !! And then she yanking my hair like gosh be gentle! I miss the days when I was a kid and used to go to the salon with my mom. They don’t make them like that no more !
I had a hairstylist do my hair in Tallahassee and after she took pictures. Never posted, which is fine . But because I had her number saved in my phone, her TikTok account popped up and she made a video saying “I only post the baddest bitches on Instagram not the dusties”. I never returned to her after that because of not feeling comfortable around her
Valid reason as well like don’t take my picture but especially if you don’t post it. I don’t want my picture just stored somewhere sorry.
Who’s the stylist?
@fruitflyhunter caystyles
@@evonyevansyou better call her out. Period.
she definitely lost customers after that not just you. some things are best left on unsaid especially if you own a business.
I have had so many bad hairsalon experiences that I go in defense mode as soon as I step in a salon.
That's me. I automatically expect BS unless they prove me different. The bar is so low.
Step up in there like 'this is Sparta' because you know they gonna look at you like you soft and treat you however they like
This this this !!
It’s sad too because I know most of these stylists are blk women. Makes you not even wanna support any businesses ran by them. I don’t need that type of drama. Especially when I’m looking for a place I can relax and just get my hair done in Peace. No thank you!
That’s me..
You never know what a person is going through, some people may not want pics/videos because of DV situations they are in, etc. Protect your clients PRIVACY!
This is so true and something I’ve never even thought of 😢
Im from Atlanta & I completely agree! These wannabe “stylists” would never get a single dime out of me! Half of them aren’t even licensed, don’t wash or blow dry & have the nerve to be charging $300+ on top of deposit & other “fees”🙄 I would NEVER pay for that kind of subpar, unprofessional service.
Exactly they want you come wit your hair blow dried
@@asiam1528 they want you to wash it, blow dry it, straighten it && braid it if you’re getting a quick weave or a wig install 🤣 like…..what tf am I even paying you for?!
@@nicki1197for their lifestyle😂. They all want to be like Jonathan or arrogant tae
Facts
If they making you wash and blow dry and they definitely don’t have a license sounds like they’re just braiders
It's a firm NO every single time for me for a picture . None negotiable. Hire a model , respectfully 😉
I’m not going to no hair stylist that’s not shampoo , blow drying, conditioning my hair then want me to do a free photo shoot.
That part!!! Like I have to shampoo my own hair too? That shyt is annoying as hell. Why am I paying you?
That’s why I stick w/ my old school beautician. My hair last longer anyway & she’s friendly.
Those old school beauticians were definitely about their business. Unfortunately they’re few & far in between these days
Where do you find them?!!
Literally i feel intimidated even asking for anything to do with my hair to my stylist sometimes. They take things so personally and catch attitudes for ANY request. Its just not professional. And this is over years of seeing diff hairdressers
You gotta find one & stick to that one baby..maybe one or two back ups incase but don’t let these people play in your hair girl
i’m a hairstylist and i always ask, unless its just the back of the head and some stylist cover their clients face with a hand held mirror. some people are just way too entitled
I’m an old school stylist and honestly I don’t get a lot of these new practices in the profession. Back in my day it was mandatory that shampoo services were included to assure there are no parasites or germs that could potentially be harmful to the public. Also pictures were never taken unless consent was given by your client and some salons have waivers just for that reason. I don’t understand the lack luster customer service of these new stylists but then the client is required to pay a non refundable deposit for the bare minimum. I personally do not go to salons any longer for so many of these reasons. I would love to find a stylist that comes with a keen sense of professionalism and desire to keep their clients.
That part!!! Like I have to shampoo my own hair too? That shyt is annoying as hell. Why am I paying you?
I agree with everything you said, but some of these "stylists" are not liscensed and legally not allowed to wash hair. Now, if they are not washing, conditioning, and blowdrying they should lower the price.
@@jesusmywholehaschangedExactly. The price shouldn't be $500-$600, if I gotta do half the work. Don't move like you licensed, if you not licensed.
@@luuvjonz1 Exactly!! If you’re not going to provide a full service then why charge full service prices? Makes no sense!
@@jesusmywholehaschanged yeah you’re absolutely right about that. Now I believe you can work in the salon as long as the owner is licensed in some places.
I’ve been hearing a lot of people have been encountering unprofessional hairstylists. Idk if it’s entitlement, or them thinking cause they work on “their own time” but it’s ridiculous
😂😂 every since the pandemic cutting service and production down on business....certain "entrepreneurs" felt the need to up the price to double what's been lost...many businesses have been going about business this way. Lol I just learn to do it myself smh
@@pareeshaslaughter6798right 🤷🏾♀️ they going to lose customers lol, no originality these days
It's entitlement - they know we be needing our hair done. So they really push the line in a whole bunch of ways that would be otherwise unacceptable. It's been like that since I was a little girl. Making you wait hours on end, for minimal service.
They’re entitled and they have inflated egos. There’s no professionalism with these new stylists because they didn’t go to school. They may of taught themselves how to do hair but they never teach themselves hospitality or customer service skills. And it’s usually the same type of people that end up as stylists like this. They’re usually ghetto, nasty, rude, disrespectful and have been that way since childhood. I think we’ve gone to school with people like that so we all are aware of that behavior.
A lot of salons are mean girls clubs, it's them and their friends and if you aren't a regular or in their clique they act so rude for no reason
Like dang I'm never coming back here 😂
I live in Chicago and this is an issue here too. I broke up with my last stylist bc she was too inconsistent and did a lot of what SHE wanted to do. I was looking for new stylists and the way I so often caught myself quickly leaving booking pages because I was hit with a whole wall of rules, some in caps and angry tones, and worst of all most of them saying “come washed and blow dried”. The fucking audacity. I saw one woman say its a $20 wash/blow dry fee and a $30 inconvenience fee for the time. Licensed cosmetologists are legally obligated to wash/wash blow dry hair, so many are just greedy nowadays. Everybody thinks they’re a celebrity stylist but doesn’t provide celebrity stylist work.
Im in Chicago as well and i got to EnvyMe hair studio in hyde park. You should check them out! Great service
Even if no one wanted their picture taken it’s the companies job to pay for their marketing expenses. You don’t owe that.
I know stylists that take money off for taking pics or coming in with your make up done … ( it’s absolutely optional and not a requirement) but I think taking money off is a fair exchange if you agree to take pics … like promo.
This something I can definitely relate on! Hairstylist are also jealous and extremely catty. They really treat you on how cute you are or how expensive or what hairstyle you getting. It’s terrible, that’s why a lot of people learning how to do they own hair. It’s so upsetting smh
My main one is: When I get a curly sew-in & he/she will COMB through the curls or rake their fingers through! 🤬 They don’t even ask you if that’s what you want & why are you combing my curls out like you about to flatiron it?! It makes it frizzy & it looks a mess!! STAAHHP!!
Omg yet I know how you feel
Yes especially if the hair is kind of cheap it gets bushy like nooooooo
I'm sorry, that is so violating! I had a bakery post pictures of my husband and I having breakfast without our permission. I was so mad. You cannot post someone's picture without permission. As a client you are absolutely not obligated to contribute to the advertising for the stylist.
Some stylists are not professional at all. Whew. This video makes me want to rant now. Lol. It makes me mad when you get there on time but they are not there on time. I understand things happen and I can deal with certain circumstances. The problem begins when they come in and they start doing everything else but your hair. Calling people, eating food, "stepping out" for a few minutes. By the time they even get started on your hair, an hour has went by. Then they let everything in their personal life affect when they finish your hair. I had a hair braider tell me she was leaving to go pay bills and needed the money for my hair. Not even half of my head was done. I told her, "Umm, no. I am not paying you until you finish. I don't feel comfortable paying you when you are nowhere near done." Then matters get worse. She ran out of hair after I asked her if I needed more hair 2 days before I came to the appointment! She was like, "I can finish your hair tomorrow. I really need to be somewhere by 3." I told her, you are finishing my hair today. I am going to get the hair and when I come back you are finishing it." So unprofessional. She had me so angry. Although my hair looked good, I never went back to her ever again. Know your worth.
I wouldnt have paid her a dime. I would’ve taken the rest of my hair and finished it at home
They are so mean and act like their doing you a favor. This salon I went to had a rude owner and I dread the thought of running into her in her own salon cause she was just so mean and off-putting and judgemental about your hair. She favored certain clients too.
I wouldn’t pay those birds a dime!
Having an afro has been a new experience for me and i got my hair done this year.
And this lady was so rude, telling me how unkept my hair is. I tried to blow dry it but as i said a completely new experience for me but ive definitely improved. But her treatment was so awful i never went back to her. She was just so mean and there was a lady getting her hair done and she kept telling me how my hair is just awful. 😭
That's sad....
@@whosbusiiim sorry that's awful. You don't deserve that. They still don't understand that great customer service goes hand to hand with the service.
I think every stylist should ASK for CONSENT before taking any pictures/videos. I agree with you! My friend is a stylist and even though we are close, she will always ask me if she can take pictures/post content with my face in it. Sometimes I’ll be like just post the hair without my face in it. I appreciate her for it and it’s crazzzzy to believe people just record and post with no confirmation
I agree with you. I ain’t gonna lie from my experience a lot of black stylists (not all) were jealous of my hair because it was long and tried to cut it shorter than it was yet the trims be so uneven. And they are very disrespectful and unorganised.
This just happened to me the other day. She “trimmed” my hair and took like 3 inches off for no reason. These hairdressers definitely be jealous.
@@Frenchie_tv very jealous to be honest. Thats why I’m not fond of hairstylists trimming inches of hair because of this.
Same happened to me I have not posted a video that's not prerecorded or without extension in years because a stylist chopped my hair off. It went from past my bobs to at my ears. I cried so bad and shaved all my hair off.
This happened to me too, i ended up swearing off salons period after that, and learned how to do my own silk presses. 🙃
Had someone do this to me they cut off about 6-7 inches
I told the hair stylist i wanted to keep my hair long, she cut off 8 inches claiming my hair was too dry to be saved and said the next time i come, she'll cut my hair shoulder length. I never went back
Especially in NY. They don’t want to wash your hair no more. How can you upkeep someone’s hair and sure it’s healthy if you don’t help take care of it.
That’s because most of them aren’t even licensed. They honestly should be reported
@@nicki1197 I had no idea 😳
The booking rules kill me ! Like that makes me not want to book at all.
Exactly I hate those
This is true. There’s a guy who colors my hair in ATL. Every year he makes up this ridiculous price even if he’s done less work (color) than the year prior. On my last appt I asked him about it politely (cuz he charged me $700)…the man said to me…”and you’re still going to pay it, so…” Needless to say after 4 years of loyalty, I found someone else. F* that. As a customer you’re not gonna handle me like that. Idc how good you are.
I once heard a girl was cancelled on because she wasn't willing to do tik tok dances with the stylist. I get it, but some of us have lives where we require a certain level of privacy. Also, everyone doesnt want to perform for a hairstyle they're already paying for.
What do you mean you get it?? That’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard, you’re there to get your hair done, not participate in dances and social media
@@XxMercuriiXx If you read my comment in its entirety you would see that I'm against it. "I get it" means I understand that hair stylists want to add the component of tik tok and social media to expand their clientele. I also understand that anyone providing a service is allowed to turn down service for any reason, even if I disagree. I'm sure you've heard more ridiculous things than this. 🙃
As a licensed cosmetologist, I stepped back from the industry for this very reason. There’s no professionalism AT ALL & a lot of stylists/ salon owners don’t want to continue to perfect their craft & take courses to better their business. It’s all about money. I’m definitely getting back into it because I know it’s lacking & I actually want my clients to have a great experience & an even better taste in their mouth about getting their hair done in a timely manner!
THANK YOU! Where are you located, what's your social media handle, and what services do you provide?
I agree with you, i’m sick of these mafia hairstylists and their cooker pressure regime , dictators. Thank God i’m taking care of my own hair and learning to braid, so thank God.
I went to a barber once who blew up my phone (texts AND calls) asking me to come in earlier that day for my cut. It was weird behavior and gave me major narc vibes. This was only the second time I went to him. Never again. Decent barber but I don't need or want that level of crazy in my life!
The thing is bad clients ruin it for good one, and bad hairstylists ruin it for the good ones. I feel like you made some valid point as a clients, but you'd be surprised some of the clients that come through and screw over the stylists as well.
Its unfortunate we have gotten to this point 🤷🏾♀️😢
So true. I have witnessed bad behavior by both some clients and the stylist. Fair is fair. Always remember, you want to treat people how you would want to be treated.
I feel like if these “stylists” h8 their jobs so much, they need to find a different profession. Don’t take out your anger on clients who did nothing to you🙄
@@nicki1197 Honestly, that is what happening. Real stylists are leaving for other jobs and you're getting these fake Instagram stylists. Some real stylists are still out there, but it's hard to find us and we are selective about the new clients we take.
Also, it's not about h8ing the job, it's about receiving the same respect for our time and craft.
@@2023NoThanks if you’re constantly complaining about your job & not wanting new clients, then you do h8 it & most ppl can feel that energy before they even book an appointment. I encourage y’all to find another profession since the one y’all are in has proven to be too difficult or frustrating for you. Y’all aren’t doing us any favors by providing subpar services
@@nicki1197 GIRL BYE 👋🏾 keep complaining. You complaining about stylists being over booked, unprofessional, and overpriced, and me saying i have to turn people away is me h8ing my job...OK 🤷🏾♀️. I will stay with my happy clientele and keep my peace any day, versus dealing with entitled people like you.
One girl almost made me cry. Very unprofessional (ghetto and I rarely use that word but to give clarity to the type of attitude and mannerisms). She told me my hair was too thick, she should have charged more, and asked me if I’d ever considered a relaxer (and that’s putting it nicely) 💔 that absolutely broke my heart.
I completely agree with you about hairdressers taking of photos/videos without consent - bold and entitled behavior. Paying customers must have a say, especially if their likeness is being used to promote the service provider's work.
Consent is needed to take a picture. Photography and modeling is a service.
The people who disagree with you have to be the hair stylists that are like that.
Based on my experience with my current hair stylist and braider (2 different people) i like how they both ask me if i would like to take pictures for their social media. I never feel forced and i feel like thats how it should always be.
Lmaoo when a stylist tried to take pics without even telling me or asking..I opened my phone up with weird dic pics to hold up over my face and hair 😂😂😂😂 she was mad and said i didnt have to do that. Mission passed 😂 #IWillBePettyAndIgnorantRightBack
@@pareeshaslaughter6798😂😂😂😂
I will continue to wear my AFRO before i deal with this mess.
THATS WHY I HAVE BEEN DOING MY OWN HAIR AND WEARING WIGS FOR 10 YEARS NOW.
That’s right
a few years ago i wanted my hair cut short. it was badly damaged and i wanted to start fresh. i'd had cute pixie cuts in the past. i went in and showed pictures (of what i had done before) and she kept saying "no, too short, too short" and i said "i want it this short. look, i've had it this short before." and she said "you'll look like a boy. you want it short like a boy?" finally after like minutes of this back and forth i said "yes short like a boy" she got the clippers and BUZZED my head. mind you, i'd been asking for a pixie cut. i looked like my grandpa's old air force photo. i was in complete shock. and in the snottiest voice imaginable, she goes "you said you wanted it short like a boy."
My thing is, if you’re going to send me reminder text for my appointment, why not ask if I mind getting my picture taken after the service? I would prefer you ask ahead of time so I can possibly dress the part, or decline all together. I AM NOT OBLIGATED TO POSE FOR A PICTURE NOR VIDEO!!!! I’m paying for you do my hair NOT A DAMN PHOTOSHOOT.
Consent for pix should be discussed ahead of time. They can get mad. Its time for people to grow up and express themselves accordingly. I hate these exorbitant fees for second rate quality or simple services. I saw someone charging 150 for a damn silk press.
that's outrageous 150 for a silk press? 🙄
@@cheetahgirlfan32terrible
Yeah, silk presses are about $100-175 in my area and I live in Alabama 🥴
For the longest time I've wondered why stylists, techs, makeup artists, etc don't just ask for consent to record and take photos during the booking process. Give us a little yes or no check box and then you know during the appointment not to waste your time pulling out that camera.
And that’s why I’m learning how to do my own hair , clipping ends, flat ironing all that. I don’t have the time or the emotional strength to deal with the ish no more.
and most these girls unlicensed
That’s where the unprofessionalism comes from I suspect
Truth be told
Yes and very disrespectful
Along with the unprofessional behavior I also feel specifically the black community hair styling has become inflated! Yes I know prices of everything is higher and bills need to be paid, but $160 where I live for six feed in braids, six! is absolutely crazy. Prices of hairstyles especially cornrows are ridiculous now.
I completely agree about the pictures!! And hairstyles so expensive now, every time I consider getting a sew in I end buying a wig because it’s just cheaper….
The nasty attitudes and bad vibes in salons pushed me to go less often...then there was hair school...now i whip it myself...these ppl need classes on how to effectively respectfully communicate..cause it aint cute and it runs business away
I have thickkkk nappy BEAUTIFUL hair that goes down my back (about bra strap length) when blown out. I just want us to get to a point in our community where I don’t have to feel bad about how much hair I have or how thick it is because we have collectively learned how to care for our beautiful coils ✨
I literally went natural because the hair salon ladies complained the whole time when doing my hair
I hate how texturist they are!
Ill never forget when i was a teenager. I had a lot of struggle accepting my natural hair as is and resorted to heavily damaging it as a result. At the beginning of my hair journey, when i finally decided i had enough of destroying my hair, i went to a hairstylist.
I was so embarrassed. The entire time, the workers in the salon were making fun of my hair. They compared my hair to the girls in magazines, telling me that i would have that if i just took better care of my hair. And then the girl doing my hair was just shaking her head at me as if i was just making her job even more of a burden for her.
I was 15 at the times so my insecurities were sky high. I already felt very negatively abt my hair, and nothing they were saying to me wasnt anything i wasnt telling myself. I get they were trying to "help" me but i will literally never forget that.
Having outsiders re-enforce so fiercly the negative feelings you already felt about yourself is honestly the worst. I felt so ugly, as soon as i got into the car with my dad i immediately started crying. Never went to a salon since.
It’s time management. They don’t understand why it’s important to be on time and work on their skill at the same time. I’m glad you’re voicing accountability for people in the industry
I lived with a hairstylist who worked at home…
Cancelling or changing your appointment is done because she either overslept (90% of the time) or wants to go party or something else unimportant. She also tried to make girls bring food, alcohol or sigarettes. For free of course. She also take long breaks to smoke or watch her series.
She was really good and could make a lot of money. But because her laziness she have maybe one or two girls in two weeks.
I just read the title and had to comment: YES THEY ARE!! Which is why I went natural and then it’s why I locd my hair!! A lot of them have poor time management skills and feel they can talk to you any kind of way.
Nothing like the salons in the 2000s where you felt loved and cared for
And stylist wanna charge a late fee but they never tf on time. Stylist do need to chill frfr..
I had so many bad experiences back in my home state of Indianapolis that I stopped going all together after my big chop in 2013. I wear my natural all the time. I just look at tutorials to learn new styles. I bought a 3 way mirror that I use to help me part my hair straighter and I color, trim & cut my hair as well! I’ll never go to a salon again and it’s saving me coins! Thanks for speaking on this subject! ❤And your hair is cute!
Me too do my own darn hair need to buy a three way mirror cause my parts be so busted
That's why I love UA-cam university, i learned how to do so many styles from watching videos. If i can't figure out a style i ask a family member or close friend that i know can lay some hair and i always keep an old school stylist contact info in my phone I'm talking about the ones that's been doing hair for 20 plus years.
I got my hair done yesterday at a braiding salon. It took them one hour to start past my appointment time because the hair was not prepared and watched them coach other client's on how to play with their hair for videos and pictures.
I was in the chair for 8 hours even with 2 people on my head. It was ridiculous and after they wanted me to stand there and be a model. Absolutely not. I said no and they had an attitude but oh well.
I don't think it is a right.
I hope you didn’t tip them
@@asiam1528 absolutely not
Omg you really have a point I can’t stand when these stylist made so many rules but be unprofessional and always got drama. I try to make sure reviews and research is key cause I refuse to waist my money for unprofessional energy and trash service. My stylist and braider are good with personal service but sadly everyone is not like that
It's not just hairstylist that take customers pictures without their consent, it's so many other unprofessional people out here doing that and I firmly believe it is b/c of this social media era. It's actually annoying. I had a personal trainer who took a video of me without my consent while I was working out smh I had to let her know don't ever do that again and you are suppose to ask your clients to video tape. It's about respecting the client... Social media has played a huge role on why certain "Professionals" do what they do and that is why they will always be a social media stylist and not a real professional. They Lack respect
This! They assume everyone posts pictures of themselves all over social media. I DO NOT! I do not like taking pictures (for personal reasons) and I do not like having my face and business all over the world wide web. It's just like when I see people on facetime out in public and i see myself in the facetime. I told my family I will allow them to take photos with me for memory keeping, but stressed I do not want it on the internet. A few hours after the event, I had been tagged on facebook in the photos. This was done by my own mom! I was livid. Many people may not understand why, but it feels very invasive and violating.
After getting my hair burnt off TWICE by white stylists who had no idea how to handle my “textured thick-THICK coarse hair” I stopped letting anyone touch my hair. My hairdresser tried to gaslight me that my hair wasn’t as dark as I saw it to be. I had to take place two pics side by side pictures to get her to admit that she accidentally made it darker and on top of that she didn’t even tell me that she burnt the bottom of my hair off from leaving the bleach by too long because she can’t handle the amount of hair that I have.
I was going to start looking into natural hairstylists but I realized it’s the same problem everywhere. Finding a professional hairstylist that can handle thick, coarse and curly hair is like finding a needle in the haystack. So I will continue to do my own hair until I can not 😇
❤- An ex hairstylist 😂
Yeah the natural stylist are just as bad. They be having all these rules and regulations like bitch I'm not going to space. I'm not signing my life away to you.
Learn to do your own hair. When you do your hair that is self-care.
That’s why I stopped going to stylists 15 years ago. I have a simple natural hair routine at home. I don’t understand how stylists expect tips acting the way they do. They are shooting themselves in the foot with their foolishness.
I learned this from my mom years ago: If they are they own boss (ie don't work for a salon/pay booth rent) DO NOT TIP! Tips are for hourly/underpaid employees. They set their own prices, so if they want more they should charge more. Now, if they have a shampoo person or assistant, they can get a little tip.
I don't really wear hair like that anymore, but when I did, I learned from UA-cam and did it myself because I don't have time for attitudes, rules, and shit being overpriced. I agree about taking pictures. If you ask, then most likely I won't care, but don't dare do it w/o my permission. I think it's rude. I'm glad that my niece is a cosmetologist because if I do wanna pay someone to do my hair I can trust her otherwise I don't really like a whole bunch of people in my hair cause I don't know your energy like that. 💜
everytime i went to the hairsalon, almost all the hair stylist imidietly gaslight me so that i let them do what THEY want with my hair, its not even like a sugestion that what i want is damaging my hair or that it isnt healthy its just that they specificly doesnt like my choise in hairstyle and they think that the hairstyle that they want to do on me would look better. its been so heartbreaking paying for something that i didnt even want in the firstplace, and being silent about my experience sine i really dont want to make them mad.. ive been to multiple different salon both small and a fancy establishment all of them are always have this kind of attitude and i had enough a few monts ago.. i started to learn to do my own hair, its not perfect but im still learning and its a skill that im going to use for the rest of my life so its always worth the investment💓
Omg that part 10:25 yes I hate when they pull out them phones and stuff to take my picture which I didn’t give consent to. Then they post them all over the internet. I hate it😢😢😢💯
Something else I found odd recently is stylists asking you to upload your ID to book. The thought of someone randomly having a photo of my ID makes me cringe. Like maybe it’s intended to be a security precaution, but I think it’s strange.
Whoa that’s different!
This ‼️ the first lash artist I ever went to had that on her website I still don’t get it
Scammers buy this info from them. Especially in Atlanta, scammer Capitol.
That's not just in ATL that's everywhere, I agree with you 100%, especially if you want to take my picture ASK!!! I'm not on your payroll!!!
this is so true. one of the biggest reason i went natural years ago, was because of how awful my hairdressers used to make me feel. and i just wanted to be free of needing to go to them. and is now, why i’ve just learned to do mediocre braids and twists on myself. my mental wellbeing can’t handle them 😭
Exactly why I stopped going the silent judgement . Especially from other black stylist like girl I came to you for that reason because I need help with my hair. People always say support black businesses but the reason I don’t allow what I spend be dictated on the fact that they are black because some lack professionalism and if you questions their product you are an enemy or hits no type of customer service . I’ve been treated better by other women in other communities than my own when it comes to my hair .
I’m glad I’m not the only one that doesn’t spend a ton of money on hair for a quick weave. I don’t spend more than $100 on hair for a quick weave
The same African braider braided my hair for YEARS. My hair is chin length but SUPER thick. Last couple of years she started to get lazy with braiding my hair. Because my hair is so thick and unruly she started saying I have "stubborn" hair. I would laugh it off because I struggle with my thick hair and I know it can be a hassle. Then she said if she had hair like mine she would go bald or keep it short.😮 I'm confused because she is African and she is complaining about my nappy thick hair. So I ask her don't people in Africa have hair like mines? 🤔 Her answer is no I must be mixed because my hair is too thick. She ghosted me after I tried to make an appointment for 4 conrows and she wanted to charge $120 and I said that was too much. Yes my feelings are hurt😢 but if someone does not want to do my hair I should not force them.
I am AA and felt really rejected by African braiders. I have 4c natural hair and they would always complain. They told me to get a relaxer!! I just learned to so my hair myself lol...
This is why I stick to ONE stylist. I don't go for the most popular, celebrity stylist, idc if she's in a professional shop, none of that. I go for the stylist who respects my business & money and is humble but still knows how to SLAY. When some folks get too popular, it goes to their heads forgetting you NEED customers to keep your business afloat. Stop bringing them ya'll money and watch how the attitude adjustments come into play shortly after. I lucked up with my stylist, 0 drama 0 cancellations 0 attitudes and it's been over 4 years.
Are you in Houston? Because I’m looking 👀
@@cryse_rox I'm in St. Louis boo but if I was I would've linked you for sure!
Yes I hate when they take all day and then want to take pics. Like girl I been here all day long I don’t feel like no pics I just wanna gtfoh.
I was waiting outside my hairstylist shop and as per usual she was running late. After 30 minutes I asked her where she was and she told me she was at the shop I said no you’re not I’m outside. She told me ohh yeah we moved to a different location. SMH
😢😢😢 I wish we can boycott these hairstyles and it usually our own people too
Literally almost got jumped by hairstylists at an African shop this summer. Yes they ARE bullies
Take me back to the black gel era…at least then I know I’d get a full wash and hair be fye when I walk out 😅 I felt this whole video!
I'm a MUA and I always ask my girls if they mind taking a pic or video. Then I let them approve the footage. I think that's common courtesy.
AND THEY CHARGE TOO DAMN MUCH! YOU PAYIN THEY RENT MONEY!
I'm a social media manager and i always ask customers first of it's okay if i get pics or videos and i immediately add " it's totally okay if you say no"
I hate these new stylist, going to the salon use to be a relaxation day. Now that ish is the most stressful thing I go through. I’m currently trying to learn how to do my own hair.
No pictures for their Instagram unless there’s a discount: you didn’t do me a favor sweetie, I paid. Hire a hair model ✌🏾
Me personally I’ve had multiple occasions where I’ve gone to hairstylists who’ve tried to bully me for my hair being too thick. How are you gonna get mad at me over something i can’t control? Then don’t even get me started on the ones that charge extra for it.
Pet Peeves: Too many rules, Tardiness, Dirty House/Salon, Being rough w/my hair, 50% of service deposit, On the phone while doing my hair, combing through curly extensions, & braiding too tight… We should have rules as Clients
Omg yesss especially talking on the phone, all in my ear and combing through curly hair, because why would you do that?
@@lexusallen Thank You!! It’s not straight hair, so why does it need a COMB?!
I agree 💯 with all your criticisms. I think it's obnoxious the assumption that everyone wants to be on display digitally at every moment.
Go off gurl!! 😂😂😂❤❤❤
I stopped going completely because my time was wasted. I’ll schedule an appt at 9 and I get there early and still waiting until 11 /11:30. That’s a whole 2-3 hours wasted and wanna be mad when I walk out after waiting so long.
Facts…. My hair stylist started making fun of me … deleted her number and never went back
I completely agree with the ask before taking pictures. Just taking pics like that is unprofessional if you ask me
I’m also a big stickler for timeliness. I’m not a hairstylist, but I also work in the service industry and had a disagreement with one of my co-workers over a similar issue. He said if someone shows up late, they should still get the full time they paid for, even if that pushes back the rest of the appointments, and if the people after them don't want to wait, they can book with someone else. I disagree. If I am fully booked that day and you show up late, I have to cut your services short or cancel your appointment because that's not fair to everyone else with an appointment after you who will show up on time.
I don’t know what it is about hair stylists being late, but as much as I love mine, she is always late!!