3-Minute Stress Management: Reduce Stress With This Short Activity

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  • Stress is the aspect of anxiety that we feel in our body. Worry is about thoughts, but stress is how our muscles get tense, our breathing gets tight, we feel achy, and our hands sweat. Stress is the physiological response to perceived danger. The good news is you can train your mind and body to be calm by doing simple activities throughout the day.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 262

  • @ameerashaikh8408
    @ameerashaikh8408 Місяць тому +33

    never thought I would have to watch these kids of videos in my teenage..

    • @Grace66254
      @Grace66254 20 днів тому +3

      Actually teenagers are the most depressed people
      Coming from a teenager 🙋

    • @strangertalker
      @strangertalker 8 днів тому +1

      Yh.... Am 17

  • @hannahlucas708
    @hannahlucas708 3 роки тому +155

    You know how people wanna meet their favourite celebrities and give them hugs? I wanna give Emma a hug. Not the celebrity kinda way but like a friend. That sorta.

    • @ericaruiz4259
      @ericaruiz4259 10 місяців тому +2

      I somehow completely understand this. ❤ I feel so grateful to have found her channel. I found out I have PTSD and being able to couple Emma’s advice with my in-person sessions with my own personal counselor, I have experienced so much progress and success already. I feel like I have so many tools in my toolbox now and I am so grateful to know my brain is actually being retrained. I won’t suffer like this forever. And I feel so much affection toward Emma. Not like weird, romantic but in a thankful sort of way.

    • @user-pz9ko6dt6y
      @user-pz9ko6dt6y 6 місяців тому +1

      Emma your the best.and i wish you all the best in your whole life

  • @adamsalam2935
    @adamsalam2935 Місяць тому +10

    I am deeply stressed rn and i feel like my life has just stopped. I feel like a robot and i spent everyday to just be alive. Needed to share my feelings to someone but i cant so i am writing them down here.

    • @maryjoseph3782
      @maryjoseph3782 5 днів тому

      @@anastasiatano4461 talking helos

    • @maryjoseph3782
      @maryjoseph3782 5 днів тому

      is there no one you can talk to?

    • @wengaballe3303
      @wengaballe3303 4 дні тому

      What you are doing is right

    • @txnzenn
      @txnzenn 2 дні тому

      cheer up! everything’s gonna be alright one day. i’m going through a lot the same way:)

    • @adamsalam2935
      @adamsalam2935 2 дні тому +1

      Thank you guys for your concern❤. I am doing fine now ☺

  • @akiralee9934
    @akiralee9934 3 роки тому +118

    Omg, it worked! I actually feel somewhat less stressed now. Of course, your calming voice also helps. Thank you for all that you do! :)

  • @ItsWillieGirl.1960
    @ItsWillieGirl.1960 3 роки тому +96

    Emma, may I just tell you Sister, that you're an incredible Therapist & I'm honored to have subscribed to your channel!! What a blessing you continue to be in the MH Community!! #KeepTalkingMentalHealth

  • @shan6033
    @shan6033 3 роки тому +48

    I love this practical movement based stress technique, It's something I can easily do in the office and also forces me to move and stretch after sitting for long periods of time. Love your energy too. Thanks Emma, love your channel.

  • @jacusounds
    @jacusounds 3 роки тому +75

    Dear Emma, I hope that you know what an amazing job you‘re doing here on your channel. Your videos are literally saving people‘s lives - people who are struggling with anxiety or can‘t deal with an everyday stress. Especially when the whole pandemic is happening. Thank you so much for your work! Greetings from Berlin

  • @psychologyis
    @psychologyis 3 роки тому +18

    i've always found that at the heart of stress is pressure. Thank you for the techniques in decompression.

  • @surabhisanghai9217
    @surabhisanghai9217 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much Emma, helped as always :) Thank you for being so genuine and caring towards the community.

  • @suleymanthemad1140
    @suleymanthemad1140 3 роки тому +8

    You are the best self-help psychology channel I have encountered on youtube. Keep up the great work! 👏🏻

  • @runjettyrun3819
    @runjettyrun3819 3 роки тому +10

    So simple and yet so effective - thank you Emma - this made a real difference for me today when I really needed it.

  • @alleaufihreposition
    @alleaufihreposition 10 днів тому +1

    Beeing massaged on my neck and/ or back reduces stress for me. Just 10 minutes getting a little massage from my boyfriend helps much.

  • @FiveStarRecipes
    @FiveStarRecipes 3 роки тому +11

    “Times of stress are also times that are signals for growth, and if we use adversity properly, we can grow through adversity.”
    -Rabbi Dr. Abraham Twerski

  • @betterXdesign
    @betterXdesign 4 місяці тому +3

    Your authenticity is refreshing. Keep being you! 🌟

  • @dawnriddle-knowlton9932
    @dawnriddle-knowlton9932 3 роки тому +2

    YES! You are the best!!! It does quickly help. The for helping us with all your efforts.

  • @phubblewubbphubblewubb
    @phubblewubbphubblewubb 3 роки тому +8

    I like your presentations, you are good at what you do!

  • @Angels_Are_Real
    @Angels_Are_Real 3 роки тому +4

    You are the sweetest! Love, thanks and blessings sent from London, England, to you. 💖

  • @XxJokyxX
    @XxJokyxX 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much Emma! Love your content!

  • @wintergarden44
    @wintergarden44 3 роки тому +5

    This is wonderfully helpful! Thank you for making this video !

  • @shnkrptl
    @shnkrptl 3 роки тому +4

    Very simple and easy to do. And effective. Thank you so much for the nice tips.

  • @wisdomtoknowthedifference
    @wisdomtoknowthedifference 3 роки тому +4

    I love this!!! It works for me!!!! Thank you so much. I love your content please continue doing what you do. You are helping people like me, and I could literally use this in between my online classes, before I have presentations and just every time!

  • @Angels-3xist
    @Angels-3xist 3 роки тому +4

    I don’t see many therapy videos that are helpful to me personally. I really appreciate this simple practical, applicable, calm, easily memorable and personable advice that comes from this channel. What many of us need are direct solutions and it’s easy to appreciate someone being up front and trying to break through succinctly. As relevant as many areas of therapy are to the problems they are addressing, so many of them are not addressing very direct and immediate response.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому

      Ashwater, , Meditation is the only practical way to handle depression. Watch alternate n ostril breathing meditation videos on Google search and do this simple alternate nostril breathing meditation for 10 to 15 minutes twice a day. Your mind will be reprogrammed to relax. You can sit on a chair and do this meditation. You can also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation on Google search. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir, --Life Coach. Make meditation a daily habit.

    • @Angels-3xist
      @Angels-3xist 3 роки тому

      Shyaaam Meneen meditation is one way many people mentally and physically respond to issues they experience, but it is not at all the only way and may in fact be unhelpful in some cases. I appreciate the advice, but it is not advice you should be giving with the knowledge that it might not be a response that works for everyone where an alternative might work.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому

      @@Angels-3xist That is why I said to first watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google search and also read the benefits. . This meditation is practiced all over the world. Anyway you will loose nothing but gain something. I have been doing this for years. As far as medication is concerned never take habit forming benzodiazepinen pills---SSRI pills are better and not habit forming. Best wishes.Shyaaam -Life coach

  • @olhaosidach7722
    @olhaosidach7722 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks alot for your work!! It's so useful!!!

  • @ahmedtrainingacademy
    @ahmedtrainingacademy Рік тому +1

    Emma this is a great video and love those tips you give. The calmness in your voice is brilliant. Love the content.

  • @dariamancini963
    @dariamancini963 3 роки тому +5

    Stretching is amazing. There are specific books to help with pain management and aging. A morning and evening routine can help in so many ways

  • @ubernerrd
    @ubernerrd 3 роки тому +12

    Exercise is a great way to relieve stress. I've found that going through the warm up exercises and stretches that we do in TKD class or just doing some dumbbell exercises really helps to reduce tension.

  • @krisbee9997
    @krisbee9997 3 роки тому +7

    It worked! Success! Really do feel better. I was at an 8 but now a 4 and feeling more relaxed. Thanks so much!

  • @girish1052
    @girish1052 3 роки тому +10

    ❤️ I am from a society where having a mental/emotional disorder is still considered a stigma, and victim is often not looked upon in a good way, so having a psychotherapist is something which I could not even think of, but I began researching about my condition a long-ago on various mental health blogs, getting mysely bibliotherapy now, but your youtube channel is the best thing that I came through in the last 3 years. ❤️

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому +1

      Girish Kumar, Don't think what others think --it is your life--if required meet a physician because it is about your future life, health and career. , Meditation is the only practical way to handle depression. Watch Anulom Vilom meditation videos on Google search and do this simple alternate nostril breathing meditation for 10 to 15 minutes twice a day. Your mind will be reprogrammed to relax. You can also sit on a chair and do this meditation. You can also read the benefits of Anilom Vilom meditation on Google search. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir, --Life Coach. Make meditation a daily habit.

    • @user-cn2pl9gl1c
      @user-cn2pl9gl1c Рік тому +1

      hi

  • @That_One_Guy-.
    @That_One_Guy-. 3 роки тому +5

    Went from 7 to 3 thanks to this. Thank you so much.

  • @wellingtonsboots4074
    @wellingtonsboots4074 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you, I will be trying this out.

  • @samr2c854
    @samr2c854 Рік тому +3

    When my body feels the stress..breathing and stretching helps me a lot.Feeling that electricity letting go as it travels thru my nerves.So relaxing.

  • @user-rx9wt1fv5s
    @user-rx9wt1fv5s Місяць тому +1

    It really helped. Not a cure to anxiety and fear and depression. But was helpful. A little hope that there can be at least some relief. Thank you for being there

  •  2 роки тому +7

    Got me down from an 8 to 6 first time and 7 to 4 the second time I did it. Thank you so much! 💚

  • @petermevorah
    @petermevorah 10 місяців тому

    this worked so well! crazy its so simple thank you!

  • @Pearlindark
    @Pearlindark 7 місяців тому +1

    FROM 5 TO 3,That's really effective and helpful,thank you.

  • @sakshipande5197
    @sakshipande5197 Місяць тому +1

    thank you so much . god bless you❤

  • @misa9220
    @misa9220 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your videos, they are very helpful!!

  • @mikeoyler2983
    @mikeoyler2983 3 роки тому +7

    I'd say I started at a 6 and afterword it went down to a 4 or 5. There was definitely a reduction in my stress. Thank you.

  • @sameerapprevieww
    @sameerapprevieww 2 місяці тому

    These excercises are very easy to remember. appreciated

  • @johnholme783
    @johnholme783 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks, I do feel more relaxed despite the fact I was initially sceptical.

  • @HiThereImFootloose
    @HiThereImFootloose 3 роки тому +1

    Your videos are good and helpful - thank you.

  • @siphentshongo3618
    @siphentshongo3618 8 місяців тому

    Thank you😊. I feel so much better.

  • @janetnewbill291
    @janetnewbill291 3 роки тому +1

    Lot better thanks!!

  • @karen_ellen
    @karen_ellen 2 роки тому

    Thank you. Yes, it helped very much. Good one!

  • @ChandlerSavage
    @ChandlerSavage 3 роки тому +7

    That was surprisingly effective! Thank you for equipping me with another method for helping tame my often wild nervous system! =)

  • @TT-fl8jt
    @TT-fl8jt 3 роки тому +2

    This is wonderful!

  • @annnovember
    @annnovember 18 днів тому

    This is so helpful, thank you so much! I did it twice and both times my tension was reduced by 2 points 💖

  • @swathisuresh1512
    @swathisuresh1512 3 роки тому +6

    At first I rated my stess 6/10.after doing this it's 3/10.thankyou for that quick help. Cheers

  • @tatiannaalonso8410
    @tatiannaalonso8410 3 роки тому +6

    Went from a 9 to a 7, this is honestly so helpful. Thank you.

  • @victoriadescalso6580
    @victoriadescalso6580 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much , Emma, for all you do, I’m struggling during a very difficult time in my life. Blessings… 🙏 ❤️😊LI, NY

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Рік тому

      Victoria, Be careful what you feed your mind to reduce stress.. Avoid comparing yourself with others, reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 10-15 minutes or more. You can sit or lay down--eyes closed--No deep breathing. Don’t fight your thoughts. Never meditate with expectations. Make it a lifetime habit to observe your breath day and night before sleep, at work, when travelling, etc with eyes open or closed. Best wishes--Counsellor.

  • @blairica66
    @blairica66 Місяць тому

    I Just Want To Say, Thanks For Your Good Advice!

  • @Stresskicker
    @Stresskicker 3 роки тому

    Thank you! These are great tips to reduce stress and tension

  • @love.ccreid
    @love.ccreid 3 роки тому +1

    great video Emma! TY

  • @sofiemagko5911
    @sofiemagko5911 3 роки тому +30

    Okok there goes a stupid story. I actually got what you were trying to do earlier than intented so I started crying in the middle bc of how sweet you are and that you are helping people. Thank you for doing these videos 🥰

  • @JohnDoe-pu5gk
    @JohnDoe-pu5gk 3 роки тому +1

    Hello I love your calming voice 😊

  • @asiasarfraz9576
    @asiasarfraz9576 2 роки тому

    So thankful for your content

  • @preethisamuel7987
    @preethisamuel7987 3 роки тому +1

    You are so good..thanks so much for all your videos

  • @APFC95
    @APFC95 4 місяці тому

    i feel a little better, thank you so much!

  • @kamroc1
    @kamroc1 3 роки тому

    It works! Watching and listening to Emma do it works too 😄

  • @Ninjakat246
    @Ninjakat246 2 місяці тому +1

    This actually works it made my lungs clear and no tightness it reduced my stress from 10 to 1, Thank you Emma!

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam3735 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @nicolewilliams6556
    @nicolewilliams6556 3 роки тому

    This helped. It made me smile too.

  • @trulythrivinglives
    @trulythrivinglives 2 роки тому +1

    🙏🏾Thank you for making this video! This is soooo helpful :)

  • @cyrilcyril6686
    @cyrilcyril6686 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks💜 i feel great after

  • @miketyson8658
    @miketyson8658 3 місяці тому

    This really worked!

  • @jahanvitiwari2945
    @jahanvitiwari2945 10 місяців тому

    It helped. thankyou so much!!

  • @cindylu607
    @cindylu607 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing! Wow! :) Thank you!

  • @preciemerlomibao1115
    @preciemerlomibao1115 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much..

  • @ariryanreyes6523
    @ariryanreyes6523 3 роки тому

    Thank you ! More videos re stress management..

  • @davidgonzalez3252
    @davidgonzalez3252 Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @hugoramiro7172
    @hugoramiro7172 5 місяців тому

    Fantastic!! thank you so much

  • @innayk
    @innayk 3 роки тому +1

    It works for me as well!

  • @sadhanaravikumar5359
    @sadhanaravikumar5359 3 місяці тому

    Emma, this really helped me (kinda), and I would really appreciate more tips and tricks

  • @FiveStarRecipes
    @FiveStarRecipes 3 роки тому +4

    “Stress acts as an accelerator: it will push you either forward or backward, but you choose which direction."
    ―Chelsea Erieau

  • @Adel10001
    @Adel10001 3 роки тому +1

    thank you!

  • @ajeneoteikwu6348
    @ajeneoteikwu6348 Місяць тому

    it worked. Thanks

  • @NewsHistorian
    @NewsHistorian 3 роки тому +1

    7 before and 4 afterward. Thanks

  • @rikstoyandactivityzone5669
    @rikstoyandactivityzone5669 2 місяці тому

    It worked. Thank you. Super easy

  • @user-yl2wf1zm6i
    @user-yl2wf1zm6i 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you it actually works at some degree

  • @AntonKhanyile
    @AntonKhanyile Місяць тому

    This was really helpful thank you

  • @leftoverture1976
    @leftoverture1976 Рік тому

    That was very helpful, thank you!

  • @elish.228
    @elish.228 Рік тому

    You are like a fairy godmother,thanks for your time🥰

  • @bobburch2151
    @bobburch2151 3 роки тому

    Awesome video. Thank you

  • @adityag6022
    @adityag6022 2 місяці тому

    Thank you ma'am, this helped a lot 👍

  • @Shankara_inamuila
    @Shankara_inamuila 3 місяці тому

    Ty so much

  • @ivyvelasquez4156
    @ivyvelasquez4156 3 роки тому +3

    Yes it worked I felt really tight around the neck and shoulders. Then after it felt more loose.
    Thanks 😊

  • @greenmermaid2684
    @greenmermaid2684 3 роки тому +1

    Dancing baby dancing, it's a super power

  • @janevillanueva9151
    @janevillanueva9151 Місяць тому

    It works,thank you🥰

  • @lisag3359
    @lisag3359 2 роки тому

    Wonderful! I went from an 8 to a 6. I also love EFT tapping, and recently I heard you quote Jessica Ortner, which was so cool!

  • @carolynjanesutton4932
    @carolynjanesutton4932 3 роки тому +4

    I have Complex PTSD and I have been looking for ways to connect more with my body. Thank you.

    • @erinm3567
      @erinm3567 3 роки тому

      Same here. Blessings! ❤

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому +1

      Carolyn, Meditation is the only practical way to handle depression. Watch alternate n ostril breathing meditation videos on Google search and do this simple alternate nostril breathing meditation for 10 to 15 minutes twice a day. Your mind will be reprogrammed to relax. You can sit on a chair and do this meditation. You can also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation on Google search. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir, --Life Coach. Make meditation a daily habit.

  • @sleepingwhale
    @sleepingwhale 3 роки тому +5

    This was great. I can imagine this would be great for kids too!

    • @Tinyteacher1111
      @Tinyteacher1111 3 роки тому

      As a retired high school teacher, I taught my students how to reduce stress and meditate. The authorities and other teachers didn’t like it, but I didn’t care!

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому

      @@Tinyteacher1111 W onderful. God bless you.

  • @SashaStreams
    @SashaStreams 3 роки тому +8

    I imagine that would be releasing all the toxins from the muscles that were built up by the stress. Nice little practice, thanks :)

    • @juliaioana3109
      @juliaioana3109 3 роки тому

      Watch TRE(trauma release exercises) videos on youtube, but don't try it alone, at home :)

  • @Kiba_beleg_try_koru_niki
    @Kiba_beleg_try_koru_niki 2 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤thank you leaving this commen for future if someone like I till get reminded that this video exist

  • @barryobrien9390
    @barryobrien9390 3 роки тому

    Really helpful and made me smile

  • @kazjakeman1750
    @kazjakeman1750 3 роки тому +3

    I'm so glad i stumbled over your chanel on you tube, I've subscribed your amazing, im going through a pretty tough time with anxiety at the moment and I've taken to just listening to you. Thankyou ❤ for all your videos they really do help 🌈

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому +1

      Kaz Jakeman, , Meditation is the only practical way to handle depression. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google search and do this simple alternate nostril breathing meditation for 10 to 15 minutes twice a day. Your mind will be reprogrammed to relax. You can sit on a chair and do this meditation. You can also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation on Google search. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir, --Life Coach. Make meditation a daily habit.

    • @kazjakeman1750
      @kazjakeman1750 3 роки тому

      @@shyaaammeneen63 Thankyou 🌈

  • @jackpullen3820
    @jackpullen3820 3 роки тому

    Reminds me of an old church song we used to do with the shaking of the hands to become Unbound, vary good!

  • @Belfi-hl5ly
    @Belfi-hl5ly 8 місяців тому

    Omg! Great video, Emma.

  • @fleurpeffer5212
    @fleurpeffer5212 3 роки тому

    7 down to 4:) love this!

  • @poonamkarnik9112
    @poonamkarnik9112 3 роки тому +1

    Really Good to know this.. Thanks 😇

  • @rohitrajput5445
    @rohitrajput5445 3 роки тому +1

    Yes by seeing you my stress is reduced