Steve Aoki: Ashamed of Asian identity as a kid

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024

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  • @nba_fan7214
    @nba_fan7214 3 роки тому +101

    "We don't fit in anywhere, so we'll fit in together". That's a nice sentiment

  • @hnguyen5o8
    @hnguyen5o8 3 роки тому +83

    I was born in 85', he spitting straight facts on how all Asians felt and had to go through

    • @MvnuelMorales
      @MvnuelMorales 3 роки тому +4

      Real

    • @subliminallyinc
      @subliminallyinc 2 роки тому +1

      @@MvnuelMorales realest real

    • @asuas3115
      @asuas3115 Рік тому +4

      Everyone talks about black racism but honestly growing up I saw asians get picked on 100 times more than any ethnicity & racism against a black kid I might've only seen once & it wasnt even clear racism it was questionable

  • @25mL
    @25mL 3 роки тому +79

    As an Asian American growing up in the US, I empathize with Steve so much... I never really felt like I fit in and felt less about myself.

    • @RayNagin504
      @RayNagin504 3 роки тому +3

      Try being black.

    • @25mL
      @25mL 3 роки тому +10

      @@RayNagin504 I get it. We’ve all been disenfranchised. Doesn’t mean only blacks own the struggle 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @ljvue
      @ljvue 3 роки тому +6

      @@RayNagin504 , you are totally detached from reality. Ever heard whites and blacks tell you to go back to China? Makes you feel like an alien.

    • @9188tennisgirl
      @9188tennisgirl 3 роки тому +1

      @@RayNagin504 I felt this way as a white blonde girl..... I was the minority in my elementary school :(

    • @2011sliverdude
      @2011sliverdude 3 роки тому

      @@RayNagin504 I rather be black than asian tbh with you especially in the USA .

  • @i_Gotcha_
    @i_Gotcha_ 3 роки тому +24

    As a Filipino kid growing up as well, being raised in an American society I too, felt this way to a certain extent wished I was white or maybe a different race at certain times in my life. But learned to love that this was what made me different and embraced everything about that.

  • @atomicgirltv9313
    @atomicgirltv9313 3 роки тому +17

    I love him as an artist before and always felt such powerful energy from his presence. NOW I just fell in love with the real person behind this beautiful energy and wow. Much love- thank you for sharing some of your life with us like this!💜

  • @chrisj1455
    @chrisj1455 3 місяці тому +1

    This is really sad 😢 I grew up in a suburb of Portland, Oregon. I was in high school in early 2000s and by that time, my school was quite diverse (plenty of Asian/hispanic students). As an Asian American, I didn’t feel out of place. Steve is about 10 years older than me so when he was growing up, I guess America was not as diverse

  • @TheRiceguy78
    @TheRiceguy78 3 роки тому +11

    US society in general is an exclusive society by its nature, always had been which reinforces his experience as an Asian American. I grew up in LA in the 80s in the hood and my experience was quite parallel to his experience in OC. Two different worlds but strikingly similar.

    • @Repomidnight
      @Repomidnight 3 роки тому

      I’m an Australian and I acknowledge we have a lot of problems. However overall I do think our nation is more accepting of different cultures.

  • @lola.cruz916
    @lola.cruz916 3 роки тому +17

    I totally understand his perspective about the food thing. My grandmother felt the same way growing up in the 1940s, bringing Mexican food to school for lunch, because my great grandmother refused to pack simple American foods. All my grandma wanted was a sandwich like the other kids, but my great grandma would pack her burritos or other traditional foods

    • @emilegriffith1473
      @emilegriffith1473 3 роки тому +6

      Lol now all the kids would beg her to share

    • @megshimatsu8615
      @megshimatsu8615 2 роки тому

      Nothing wrong with that! American lunches are boring.

    • @goyam2981
      @goyam2981 Рік тому

      Immigrants in most countries have had to go through this phase--being looked down by the locals for the food and language struggles and mannerisms. It takes time and patience and sticking to why you moved there in the first place.

  • @erikflores7739
    @erikflores7739 3 роки тому +10

    I understand especially growing up in Newport Beach.

  • @SM-fm4eb
    @SM-fm4eb 3 роки тому +13

    Growing up in Houston during the 80’s being Asian… know what he meant…

  • @CJ-gp9yh
    @CJ-gp9yh 3 роки тому +33

    Growing up Asian I had the exact same experiences as a kid

    • @RayNagin504
      @RayNagin504 3 роки тому +1

      Stop with the lies

    • @willc5023
      @willc5023 3 роки тому

      yessir

    • @2011sliverdude
      @2011sliverdude 3 роки тому

      blame china. china makes other asians look bad that where all the negative stereotypes came from

  • @detailsmove
    @detailsmove 3 роки тому +7

    Aoki keepin it real

  • @darryl.c7972
    @darryl.c7972 3 роки тому +7

    I'm American living in Asia, [Thailand] I have never once felt any racism towards me here at all,, ever! Why when Asians or other people of culture come to America, there not treated very well?? When Americans come over here, the Thais are so welcoming and respectful to us Americans...I don't get it?? so happy I live here.

  • @asuas3115
    @asuas3115 Рік тому +4

    Everyone talks about black racism but honestly growing up I saw asians get picked on 100 times more than any ethnicity & racism against a black people I might've only seen once & it wasnt even clear racism it was questionable

  • @jaky411
    @jaky411 3 роки тому +3

    Same. I felt the exact feelings about being southasian american and having my southasian immigrant parents raising me in a way that i felt not only conflicted with the american culture but also with my own identity as a person. when it came to bringing my own cultural food to school i never felt ashamed/embarassed about what others thought about it but definitely the more sheltered aspects of being brainwashed to think talking to the opposite sex was bad as well as spending time with friends rather than with your own parents all the time was wrong and seen as being disrespectful especially if you were a girl growing up. i knew i was different growing up and the feelings of being other came more from the internalized shame/guilt i felt if i did not do thing things and lived my life as a young adult person through their image. i felt very conflicted between the two opposing cultures that i was socially exposed to and always struggling to connect the two in the way that i saw that fit with me as an individual for sure...

    • @lucashood9890
      @lucashood9890 Рік тому

      Those south Asian parents can have fangs

  • @LifeOfKirstie
    @LifeOfKirstie 3 роки тому +6

    Wow! Never thought I would relate so much to someone. LOVE this interview series and LOVE Steve Aoki even that much more!

  • @Danny-fs1hk
    @Danny-fs1hk 3 роки тому +24

    This is painful for me to watch but this is a very good interview.

  • @normanbates1133
    @normanbates1133 Рік тому +2

    as an asian i feel the same but it's all good now i'm almost 30

  • @Jay-407
    @Jay-407 3 роки тому +3

    Really wish you’d interview skrillex. Just seems like the perfect setting for him. He’s a legend in the dance music scene

  • @inparadise
    @inparadise 3 роки тому +3

    God, this had to be said for every Asian growing up in a Western country.

  • @jerryellis4518
    @jerryellis4518 3 роки тому +3

    Bless you man

  • @showstopper8
    @showstopper8 3 роки тому +6

    i remember a similar thing that happened to me in 1st grade, and the white boy told me stop following me. made me realize i was an outcast.

  • @stanaoki330
    @stanaoki330 Рік тому +3

    Steve when I was in High School I experience racial discrimanation. In my art class, when the teach stepped for a while a whole gang of guys and I think gals to started throwing globs of clay at me. I just took it like Jesus took hatred of him being crucified on the cross for not hating anyone. Then the teacher showed up and they all rushed back to their seats. One guy who I thought was my friend-a white guy said, "Mr Langford is you SAVIOR! I wanted to punch him out, but he was my friend. Then when I went to college a college of mostly white people, some guys surrounded me in the men's dorm and jumped me. Before I knew what was going on they grabbed me about 5 guys and muscled me into a another guy's room and shaved my mustache off-but only one side of my face. I ran to my room and shaved the rest of my mustache off and was crying and crying. They were so mean! Later when we went to breaksfast another white friend of mine saw me and said, "Stan I would have kept that one side of your mustache on for SPITE! Like dudes LOOK What you did to me!!

  • @2011sliverdude
    @2011sliverdude 3 роки тому +8

    you have to black or white in the USA just look at Hollywood. preferably white and depending where you live like Arizona Mexican is okay. Just like Florida being cuban is okay. everything else you are an outsider

    • @RS-ti7bz
      @RS-ti7bz 3 роки тому +1

      Facts

    • @Loverofass
      @Loverofass 2 роки тому +2

      America is super black and white. I agree.

  • @kingkong6729
    @kingkong6729 3 роки тому +18

    He is definitely having the last laugh

    • @arsenioseslpodcast3143
      @arsenioseslpodcast3143 3 роки тому +1

      Says who? You? Bullshit. He hasn't been healed yet. You think money stops all this Asian hate, white boy? Think again

    • @kingkong6729
      @kingkong6729 3 роки тому +5

      @@arsenioseslpodcast3143 im actually chinese, and trust me, money is gonna help the healing lol

  • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
    @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 3 роки тому +11

    I think this discrimination is worse for asian men than women.

  • @trex1448
    @trex1448 3 роки тому +2

    It's better in LA and NYC

  • @ironmenace
    @ironmenace 3 роки тому +5

    Gettin harassed by Mexicans / black and white
    At least you became successful

  • @SoCalBrian
    @SoCalBrian 3 роки тому +1

    3:47 that is true until this day

  • @showstopper8
    @showstopper8 3 роки тому +1

    omg....my mom also made me apologize for beating up a kid smh

  • @joblow-g5u
    @joblow-g5u 2 місяці тому

    Graham Norton fill in the blanks

  • @liag5300
    @liag5300 2 роки тому +1

    aw he was cute. also sad to see this video, he still processing the trauma of being an asian kid in Newport beach. weirdly enough him wanting to fit in made him feel want to become famous. to me he talks and looks like a socal dude. just have a weird sense of style. i mean i’m asian but i wouldn’t wear shorts for the interview lol

    • @kkdream99
      @kkdream99 23 дні тому

      Not was but IS.
      And shorts are comfortable. Who cares. He’s an artist. It’s not that kind of an “interview” where he must wear formal clothes.

  • @joseromero81
    @joseromero81 Рік тому

    The 80s were brutal

  • @royperez8965
    @royperez8965 Рік тому

    He speaks English very well.

    • @maggiesun5011
      @maggiesun5011 Рік тому +3

      He is American what do you think 😅

    • @kkdream99
      @kkdream99 23 дні тому

      Lol you must be a genius

  • @kmm2442
    @kmm2442 3 роки тому +2

    Such an interesting guy. I feel like his adult life is a big fu to the repression of his youth. Bit like me :/

  • @choo1030
    @choo1030 3 роки тому +2

    Now we Asians got K-Pop BTS Parasite Squid Game. Wats up Wats good?

  • @zxarenagaming
    @zxarenagaming 3 роки тому

    :(

  • @RayNagin504
    @RayNagin504 3 роки тому +9

    If you thought it was tough being Asian try being black.

    • @paxetbonum1213
      @paxetbonum1213 3 роки тому +1

      That's have a big sense Haha

    • @nba_fan7214
      @nba_fan7214 3 роки тому +34

      You can empathize with both black and Asian kids you know. They're different experiences - it's not a competition

    • @taralewis8460
      @taralewis8460 3 роки тому +12

      Racism is RACISM period Ms karen !!

    • @BM-ci9zl
      @BM-ci9zl 3 роки тому +11

      It's not a pissing contest u narcissit

    • @ETS186
      @ETS186 3 роки тому +6

      Try being a non gender conforming gay black muslim from Planet Namek