How you responded to Rob in Abbey Road studios had me tearing up. I'm training to be a therapist and you were so compassionate towards Rob. So much love between you guys!
My rape in Iraq was covered up with a bad paper discharge in 2006. I still have serious episodes where I feel like people are out to get me, but honestly, nothing has proven me wrong. My family stopped talking to me and my brother was framed with the crime I didn't get justice for. My rapist got an honorable discharge, had multiple victims, and now works with Amtrak in L.A. I will never forgive myself for serving this country's propaganda. #FML
@@ekklesiastno one brags about mental health problems. They are cries for help. Perhaps in your algorithm you see a lot of videos of people sharing their experiences but a lot of people don’t. What about those that don’t even have social media? Older generations that can’t afford care or homeless people or those with drug addictions? You think they are faking it to look cool? You are stigmatizing with your comment my guy
@@ekklesiast tell that to the 22 veterans a day that commit suicide and then ask yourself if you are lying when you give them fake gratitude on Veterans Day. You are #NotWelcomeForMyService.
Maybe because Corey Taylor also talks openly and honestly about his struggles with his mental health. Glad to see the stigma falling off. We can't get the help we need if we feel ashamed of asking for help when we need it.
Corey is irl gigachad, he's been through just about everything life could throw at him and he's still standing as strong as he is. I've absolutely nothing but respect for the man
20:56 there’s something so heartwarming about this moment. You can see in Andrew’s face that he’s just like, “okay it’s serious talk time.” Like there’s a moment in his head where his priorities shift from trying to figure out what to do with the album and what to add, to trying to build up his best friend and give him a space to talk about what’s he’s feeling. You have a great friend in Andrew, Rob. I think you know that, but you really, REALLY do
I am speechless. You have just saved lives and explained something so complicated and difficult in such a beautiful way. This is the reason I love you, and millions of people love you and yes I agree, your wife rocks. x
You have also made some very important videos about topics that will hit close to home and help people, Mary. Just like Rob here, it's very obvious to anyone who follows your work that you are a genuinely good human being with a good heart and the desire to help people. Much love to both you and Rob from me ❤
Well done for talking about this so candidly! I have suffered with mental health issues in the last year or so for the first time in my life and now having experienced that I realise how important it is to talk about mental health. ❤❤ big love to you Rob ❤❤
i think this video has madf me realise that i have probably went through a very similiar situation but was never acknowledged as whatit was cheers rob, and your wife your great people
I was the least likely person in the world to get depression - until I did. The first time can be incomprehensible and terrifying, maybe more so if you (like me) haven't experienced any trauma in your past. The second time, you know what's happening... and that doesn't necessarily make it any easier. After getting through it several times, I believe these three things about depression: 1) It can happen to anyone. 2) It is not possible to fully understand what it's like unless you've experienced it yourself. 3) It needs to be talked about until it's not considered any stranger than breaking a leg. Whatever your mental health issues are/were, if you feel at all up to talking about them on camera, I say go for it.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing good now. Nevertheless, I want you to know that you are incredible teacher. You explain everything so clear it seems to be an open page of a dictionary. Your videos are so full of information! In such short time you explain such small, interesting and important things like no one did. You are wonderful. Thank you for everything, David Bennett!
I was nervous clicking this video. As a person also diagnosed with type 1 bipolar, I was relieved as soon as you started talking about the manic cycle so candidly. The "rambly messages" bit hit home. I'm on the bus on my way to see my social worker and get my medication for the month right now. Will be showing my case worker this video and finishing the rest afterwards. Very well done sir.
Rob, I just wanted to thank you for making this brave video. My best friend lost his life to Bipolar 1, and even after learning everything I thought I could learn about it, your perspective immediately helped me understand things that I previously didn't. You're doing an immense service to all of us by being open about this. 🙏🏻
Hey man! As a doctor, I can assure you that you came with one of the most complete reports about bipolar disorder that I've ever come across in media, bravely put in a video. Hope this can raise awareness about not only bipolar disorder but also other mental health issues. Been your fan for years now, stay well, Rob!
As... not a doctor or even a person with BD, this was the best report showcase of the ailment I've seen or heard of. I absolutely adore when artists open up about this stuff, because even if it helps ONE inidivdual with BD, that is amazing and a win in my books. But I think in this case it helped de- stigmatize one of the most stigmatized disorders too. Sometimes people just need a reminder that things aren't all bad
@@petecabrina Guy from Finland here and I definitely agree with you on this one. Currently still in line waiting for a psychiatric evaluation to get diagnoses sorted out (doctor was suspecting bipolar disorder), but the first thing I was given was quetiapine and man did it fuck me up mentally and physically. Asked a few friends around about it and they told me that it gets described around here like a candy which to me just sounds plain wrong, that without even a proper diagnosis they just give you whatever and hope that it works out for you just completely dismissing side-effects in the process.
@@Sagarathias you know what's crazy is AstraZeneca was involved in a billion dollar lawsuit for the off-labelling of quetiapine due to the damage it did to many people but regardless of that it is still off-labelled, because they decided it has other applications they could sell prescriptions for. Its an anti-psychotic which should only ever be used to help stabilise someone who is psychotic and ideally not long term, the big issue with these types of drugs is they completely mess with your natural reward system which will totally inhibit your ability to interact with the world. You should really consider taking the holistic path if you can, Wim Hof can be great for any mental health issues and is probably ideal for your climate, throw in sauna's as well which is very traditional there. The opposite to Wim Hof is buteyko too which is also good, combined with meditation. I have found you can stabilise the ups and downs of life with these kinds of practises and even recognise what is happening through self awareness and control it more. A lot of this stuff is actually more brain function/neuroplasticity than it is purely chemical, the whole 'just chemistry' model is way outdated, we can totally change ourselves and our own wiring through different practices.
@@Sagarathias interesting I replied to this about the company that makes quetiapine and the massive lawsuit they were involved in for off-labelling it and the damage it did to many people but YT seems to have sucked it up? Quetiapine is a perfect example though, its an anti-psychotic which only should ever be used for psychotic symptoms or episodes and ideally only temporarily to stabilise people, because the longer term effects can be so bad. These types of drugs totally mess with your natural reward system to, I think both dopamine and serotonin and impact your ability to interact with the world. Why anyone you know would call it 'candy' seems crazy too, never known it to have any recreational appeal. You should really consider taking the holistic path if you can, Wim Hof can be great for any mental health issues and is probably ideal for your climate, throw in sauna's as well which is very traditional there. The opposite to Wim Hof is buteyko too which is also good, combined with meditation. I have found you can stabilise the ups and downs of life with these kinds of practises and even recognise what is happening through self awareness and control your state of mind, keep things more level. A lot of this stuff is actually more brain function/neuroplasticity than it is purely chemical too, the whole 'just chemistry' model is way outdated, we can totally change ourselves and our own wiring through different practices. Nature is important too and having healthy circadian rhythm, getting caught in the current social/tech web too much with no nature and no natural light I think is causing a lot of people problems too these days.
I really love the self-love you show here - not wallowing in too much guilt or shame, but forgiving yourself, and understanding that these are moments in time. You're an awesome creator - I show your "The E Song" video to my students all the time, to show how much you can do with just rhythm/timbre/octaves/arranging! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this!
Those clips of you making faces and sighing during the filming really struck me. Being around people and things you like but not being able to enjoy any of it. Sighing from the mental exhaustion of having to exist. In that state, just being alive saps your mental strength. I'm glad you managed to get back to 90%.
Seeing that was really relatable to my struggles with ADHD - bouncing between the pseudo-euphoria of being hyperactive and/or hyperfixated on a task/project and the sudden loss of energy and willpower as soon as my focus shifts. Functioning at 110%* feels great until your body realizes that the tank is empty and crashes - and it feels almost worse to be surrounded by other people who NOTICE the shift.
Yeah I rember during the abby road videos something was off and the comments talked about it, I'm glad he's oppend up and is getting help he deserves feels my heart with joy.
I had a pretty intense psychosis and lost all sorts of things. I hung out with a lot of homeless people. My phone was stolen, my laptop was almost stolen, my Martin, my Fender Strat and a 400 watt Yamaha PA. My marriage was going through a really rough time. Had the mania, had the grandiosity. I could relate to this. Glad ya made it through, Rob! That was 2023, too.
as a bipolar man and ex homeless person, you deserved to have all your shit stolen for hanging out with people like us in the first place. bet you wont do that shit again will you?
feeling morally obligated to share your insights during mania is such a great way to describe it, I sometimes want to climb on my roof and shout them into the world even though it's 3am
Dude, I about cried when you talked about how much your wife supported you. I had a major health issue from mold poisoning from the house we were renting when my wife and I first got married. I couldn't work for about a year. She stuck with me. Having that kind of love and support when you feel so worthless... there's no replacement for it.
Dude, I didn't realize a lot of my issues was from mold. Lately I have been feeling SIGNIFICANTLY better. Glad your wife stuck with you and glad you are sharing about your mold exposure!
hey Im glad you took the step but as a personal advice if you feel therapy isnt for you or something along that line after one or a couple of sessions maybe it could be that the therapist in question isnt suited for you, I have learned that therapists are a little like friends: not everybody will be your close friend bc the vibe doesnt match and you need that "vibe" to be comfortable with your friends and you need it with a therapist too so if it doesnt work try with another until it works with someone...
21:00 the way Andrew Notices Rob's mood and immediatly drops the papers and gives him the attention and support he needs it's just hearthwarming. That's what Best Friends do.
The "I'm a burden on everyone" is so real, and so palpable, that it's almost impossible to get out from under. It's all encompassing and nothing else matters. The shame is just unbearable
an issue ive delved into with this method of thinking is that, it digs itself deeper. You're depressed, you think no one cares, or you are a burden to them. This causes a very good portion of people to lead away from you, because no one wants to be near a sad person (itll make them sad too) so you think "ohh if I am not near them they are happier, I should go further away". But then that leads to them thinking you just dont want to be around them either, so they get further away. which loops and loops...
The way he fidgeted in that one shot where he's trying to play that guitar riff but he messes up...I know how those fidgets feel. That feeling of "being inside my body/mind is unbearable right now", it's like trying to squirm out of yourself. I'm so glad he made this video, this is what people need to hear. Mental health IS physical health. It's chemicals, it's your brain, it's the same thing as any other ailment, and there are solutions and strategies to deal with this stuff, you just have to realize that, and realize that you can't "just suck it up", and look for help. Thank you Rob.
Agree with you Assessment but I'd want to add that it is much harder to realize what exactly is wrong in our brain then most other things that happen to our bodies. The first tricky thing is to realize something IS wrong and then - because many mental issues keep you from correct reasoning and / or following through on reasoning. I've been in and still am in a very taxing battle with Depression over the course of the last year only to find out halfway "through" that I also have ADHD and that acted as a strong catalyst for falling into that very depression. It's not as easy as submitting a blood sample or something and checking for any markers but involves a lot of self reflection and therapy in a state in which these things are rather... uncomfortable to say the least. I hope the Stigma around these issues will continue to be chipped away over time so that more people get a chance for a life that doesn't feel miserable while many around us don't have any Clue why we act weird and that we don't do it out of our own free will.
Very well put! I experienced this a lot when I was in a deep depression and I never knew what it was called or how to word it. Its actually called a "Psychache", I learned about it while studying Psychology.
when his wife turned off the camera and said "look at me" ffffuuuuuk I felt that, I was seing it in his eyes, if you've been there you know what he was feeling. Big hugs Rob.
I've struggled with MDD (Major Depressive Disorder) my entire life, and I'm just now after 24 years of life starting to want to be around and actually have a life. So I've stated taking better care of myself, losing weight, and working on my mental health. I don't smile much, I never have. And I couldn't stop smiling for this whole video because I knew It was ending on a high note and a story of recovery. Thank you Rob for years of great music and fun videos, Here's to lots more of both and better life's for all of us.
These are the things you often don't see. We just see you upload videos and if you don't upload for a while or something changes we might speculate but most likely won't guess the correct reason unless you tell us. Thank you for making this video and being open about the struggles that are invisible to the audience.
Yeah, I wasn't expecting this at all but I think it's helpful for people to know about and understand this sort of thing. No doubt a lot of people will recall this video while going through something similar and be able to recognize the need for help sooner. Having never experienced anything like this or known anyone who has been through it, I have to say that Bipolar 1 looks too intense for me.
Dude, I'm so proud of you for sharing your journey. More people need to know they aren't alone with their struggles, we are all in this TOGETHER, and we can help each other through it. I started therapy last year and it's been one of the most powerful and empowering things I've ever done for myself. I wish you all the best, man.
I've always struggled with mental health and all my loved ones have recommended therapy for years and years but I have always avoided it. Seeing someone I look up to talk about it is awesome. Thanks Ben!
Going back to what you said in the FOO video now - "I'm still sick" is such an insanely powerful and validating way to frame it. Whether that was the intention or it was that you were just trying to not give anything away, it honestly inspires me to hear mental illness being talked about in such so shamelessly. Yes. It's not trivial, it's not fake, it's not something to just grin and bear. Reminds me of the quote from Dimension 20 (shout out to all of you who know what that is), "You're not a coward; You have a medical condition." I have a tendency to favour an "it's fine" attitude to my anxiety and depressive tendencies. But it's not fine - not always. And just like any physical condition, we should take the time we need to care for ourselves. Thank you.
You can’t drop the Jawbone quote and not include the “I was in a truck stop bathroom sucking off a border patrol agent…” segment. That’s essential to the meaning.
My partner and long time friend slipped into their manic episode the first month we began dating instead of being friends. To see what was going on with them, how differently they were behaving and how random things were causing them to be so excitable and also caused difficulty with sleep. They didn’t sleep for days talking about how electronics and lights were too loud or bright to be able to relax to sleep. After being in the hospital and coming back to earth, they also learned they have Bipolar 1. Now they are in a better space, we are still dating to this day. 4 years strong. I appreciate your video you put out on this topic within your life and I am extremely happy to hear you are getting things in order. ❤ Time will heal all, and stay connected with your daily levels and emotions. Stay strong! You’re not alone! ❤❤ EDIT: Not a lot of people understand how Bipolar Disorder works truly, but you did such a fantastic job explaining what you feel and think of.
Rob, as an autistic black kid that was navigating the beginning of college in the early years, I see you and your struggles and see the parallels and graces you've given folk like me who wanted to give up but held on trying to learn something from you, to be humored by you or the next Jared Dines collab. You don't know the people you've helped and you continue to help by being honest and empowering. Dude none of us can give you what you've given us in those fleeting moments of thinking it really is just me. No, it's us and we just need to be heard. Thank you for sharing yourself for all these years dude 👊🏿
@@toseltreps1101 POC can often feel isolated, it makes sense to bring up in order to point to the stigma that this person went through. especially since black autistic people are especially underrepresented.
I've filled those shoes before. I'm haunted by the experience of watching my spouse self-destruct. Happy to say we came out the other side and have healed. But I now have a persistent fear of the possibility of recurrence.
"You rock" yes. It's almost all we can say but what an understatement! Support like that from someone is almost the closest thing to being a superhero. I hardly know anything about you but I know you're a top-tier amazing person.
I know exactly what you went through. 12 years ago I became addicted to opiates. When I was on those I didn’t eat, barely slept, I was extremely happy, super motivated and creative. 8 years ago I got clean and I swung hard the other way. I’m still waiting for it to swing back and level out. Sometimes I worry I used up all my serotonin in my addiction but I have to believe I will get back to normal at some point.
first of october is the reason i started writing songs. i'm 18 now, 5/6 years into writing consistently, possibly having written around a thousand either full songs, or snippets of songs, whatever. when i saw you were having some trouble in the last first of october video, it kinda hit me like a truck, i'll be honest. thank you for everything man. i hope you can feel a bit better just knowing that the effort you put in to keep yourself going day after day has changed people's lives. i'm wishing you the best!
Every bit of this comment is exactly my situation. We love you Rob! First of October got me into song writing and really taught me how to make songs under tight time constraints. I was able to make an album that helped me understand and process the realities of my mental health in the limited time I had access to audio equipment. While the mixing still has a long way to go, the songs I made for the most part sound complete and the entire work as a whole is something I can be proud of looking back at that really dark period of my life. Thank you so much Rob if you are reading this.
Hey! I went through a similar thing! I had about 3-4 episodes of acute psychosis which resulted in a good chunk of my relationships being obliterated, losing many personal belongings such as my vehicle, a load of my music equipment, computer equipment, and I also erased everything I could find on the internet about myself, and proceeded to get into a nasty vehicle accident. All fun stuff, you know? I'm getting better by the day, and It's good to see you are too, Rob! You inspire me, with your skill in music, your easygoing, humourous personality, and content creation! It's really nice to see that despite our struggles, we are still able to be happy (ish) and successful. Stay strong, man. ❤
Wishing you all the best, great that you're getting better. Perseverance is inspiring, though it would be great if things didn't get this rough. I hope people will pay more attention to their and theirs loved ones mental health more. Videos like this are important
@@Urodahero Thank you, and yes, I agree, mental health has always been incredibly important, and even more so in an age such as today where more and more people are being removed from reality via the internet. One of the best things to make me feel better is to disconnect, and just hang out with my friends. Stay grounded, bros.
1:10 I havn’t watch the rest of the video yet, but let me tell you THANK YOU for having the balls to talk about Mental Health openly. This is very important because mental health is very often ignored by people, it’s seen as something negative… like someone being “crazy”. This is completely wrong. If tomorrow you break a bone, everybody will tell you to go to the hospital and check a specialist. Same thing if you get cancer… but somehow, if the illness if not physical but mental, suddenly people will start to think you’re just “crazy”. NO … and let me be clear, on the course of your life, absolutely EVERYBODY on earth will face at least once in his/her life some mental health issues. It could be depression, anxiety, addictions, phobies, you name it… plenty of mental illnesses that don’t make you crazy. It’s very important to be open and vocal about it, to share our experience and change the general perception of mental health. I suffer from chronic pain and I have clinical depression. I’m near 50 and I only started to think about it the last 5 years… I lived over 40 years without taking care of it, and it was ruining my life without knowing. So I’m glad you’re using your platform to talk about your experience and maybe help others in the mean time. It’s very brave and courageous from you when we know how some bullies can use social media to harass people that would disclose their mental health issues. Stay strong, cheers!
dude thats crazy ive been watching you for like 10 years. im 31 and am currently in my 2nd psychosis of my life. heading towards schizoeffective diagnosis but it takes a long time
It can be a wonderful feeling to eventually get a diagnosis. That relief of somebody recognizing and having at least some understanding of what's not going right. For me, it was a lot of "oh, that's why x,y,z."
I have it, too. I might be losing my job because the parents at the school district I work at found out. I love you, Rob. Thanks for being a voice for us all.
I have bi-polar 1 as well, but out of embarrassment didn’t work to help myself through therapy and self-care. This cost me my marriage as my wife couldn’t handle this after years of extreme highs and extreme lows. It is amazing to see someone talk so candidly about this disorder to their audience and share their story as a form of release.
As you hoped, this video makes me feel very seen. "Am I sane, can I trust this decision" is the part that hit hardest for me. Once you've been out of control of your emotions, mind, and body any time you take any risk, any big investment, any joy, any sadness, any bad day all you can think is "is this the start of another year?"
Even after almost a decade in remission, I still question whether I'm mentally fit to do things. And happiness is REALLY ALARMING... Because obv I don't want to get swept away & then it turned out to be mania instead of real happiness & I ruin my life. It's fkn difficult as hell & I hope to learn how to navigate that situation someday.
YES. I am afraid that the doubt will steal any life experience that may come, BUT, I am afraid that the experience is a part of mania. It is a struggle for sure
It was a heart shattering disappointment to discover I can't trust my gut reaction, emotions, or even thoughts. Realizing your inner voice is full of bs can be demoralizing to deal with, and necessitates a lot more careful analysis all the time.
I remember commenting about the struggles of mental health on that FoO video and getting GRILLED by so many people saying it’s not mental health, he’s physically sick. People cussing me out and being extraordinarily nasty. I know what “I’m just so tired” means, and I tried to offer words of encouragement. I’m so happy that you’re getting the treatment you need and have the support that you have! We love you so much Rob, this video will help a lot of people!
I'm fighting off some serious depression and self-harm that's lasted for years on years. I can't watch this video right now and I don't know that I'll ever be in a place that will allow me to but I still want to voice my support and let it be known that you and others like you are not alone.
Way to go with setting boundaries! Keep at it, it can get better. I’ve been in the severe depression/self harm boat many times and thankfully have had much less suicidal ideation and no real self harm incidents in a the last couple of years. Still not done with the fight, but therapy community and practicing the tools I’ve learned have definitely been helpful.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have at least one good person to help you up when you fall down. Pray you'll feel better one day g. And I hope you'll watch this video, I had been in a similar way up until I got out of highschool, and here in my 20's I'm finally able to realize I've got my whole life ahead to figure my shit out, there's a lot to do, to want to do, new people to meet, things to see, all given the right place and time. Just don't rush yourself, and don't hold yourself back from attempting to heal. Frankly sometimes it has to get worse to get better, I nearly offed myself with a plasma cutter, only after with the clarity of having been able to heal mentally and physically I finally was able to make a break through, not to say to do that obviously, but that's to say watching a video or a few like this, can be so so so much more helpful than you think, each iota of progress is progress. Don't try to think of it as taking on other people worries or problems, an issue I had for a long time, but as advice from someone ina rough spot too. Get well soon fella
You'll be okay. You're a lot stronger than you think, I promise you - some day soon, you're gonna surprise the hell out of yourself. Think about how far you've come already, how much you've survived, how many obstacles you've overcome . . . You're inspiring, and when you realise that, you'll be unbeatable. Stay safe, be well, and _let it go._
rob, as a long time fan, and as someone who's suffered from psychosis, delusions, paranoia, mania, severe depression etcetera for several years at this point, i can not explain how much it means to me that you have made this video ♡ i'm so happy you're doing better and i hope you continue to help break the stigma! it's ok to not be ok! love you rob! - a schizoaffective bipolar subtype "patient"
Seeing someone so candidly describe experiences I've had hit me so hard. I have monopolar depression, essentially that dip period you had but unending and without any counterpart. Feeling like I'm a burden on everyone around me, that I don't deserve their help or presence, that I need to rid them of me, is at the forefront of my mind all the time, and it fucking hurts. I'm glad you're out of the trenches. No one deserves them.
I read something today that I was reminded of when you said you were such a burden to Tamara, your wife. A burden is something you are forced unwillingly to bear, but she loves you and willingly chooses to take on that load and help you carry it. That's true and powerful love right there, Rob. Like you said, it was her choice to stay with you and help you every day, that's not a burden, that's love.
I have OCD, and some of the meds i've been on made the intrusive thoughts *worse*, a lot. I don't want to get into specifics, but parts of this video really resonated with me in a way that helps. Thank you. And for what it's worth, things are entirely better for me now. I have a healthy relationship, good friends, a great job, and am in good health both physically and mentally.
I'm 23 now. When my symptoms were presenting more as a teenager, Rob's videos were something I loved watching. His music and style helped shape what I've been into and passionate about since. I've been carrying my "Anchor EP" cd around a fair few homes since.
Smaller music creator here that was diagnosed with bipolar disorder back in 2021. It’s a long and difficult journey, but so worth it. The hardest part about it is figuring out what things in your life bring you mania, and what things bring you depression. Being stable is the dream, but it’s so worth working towards. Thanks for sharing your journey and experience with us all, UA-cam and the world needs more of this, more openness of what really goes on. We’re all human, we all got shit going on, ain’t nothing wrong with it
as someone who was diagnosed with bipolar 1 and have had my share of episodes im so grateful that you came out the other side of this. and it really helped me reflect on my own struggles. wishing you nothing but love and light Rob.
Thanks for sharing this, Rob. After living through my wife's horrific episode with BP psychosis in 2021-2022(which included four arrests and involuntary hospitalizations), I've been on a quest to understand this insidious disease. I appreciate your insight and honesty. I'm happy you're doing well. Equally happy to say we've had 2 years of stability and healing on the other side of it as well. Love and respect to you, brother.
Ive spent 2 weeks in mental hospital, How you described your psychosis is exactly how I felt, plus some. I was diagnosed with a form of schizophrenia. It's been years, but it still feels strange to this day. (I'm doing better, the meds they gave me was some crazy stuff that I had to wing myself off of and they believe cannabis was partially responsible what caused my episode. I don't see figures and have certain thoughts like people I dont know talking about me right infront of me.) I've had some strange things happen and I believe trauma is partially a major factor into why I had lapsed into psychosis. *To anyone having mental health problems, **_PLEASE_** talk to someone!* And to Rob, We're all here for you!
Rob, what you've done here with this video is incredibly powerful, important and caring. I've worked for many years with individuals dealing with Bipolar I & II disorder and I've witnessed first hand the impact that it has had on them but also on their families and others around them. You are absolutely right about the importance of creating awareness and what you're doing here is a great example of what makes human beings unique and exceptional. Thank you for such a gift :)
The hardest part about being a creative in a major depressive state mixed with dysphoria is how much you want returning to your craft to make you feel better. But when you're stuck under that cloud of depressive thoughts it actually seems to have thd opposite effect. The mental blockage, the hampered creativity, and the ensuing frustration and apathy just exacerbate your negative feelings. Add the feelings of obligation into things, and your stuggle through recording back in October is a perfect illustration of this overwhelming scenario. Thanks for sharing your story and im glad that you found the support and guidance you needed go navigate through everything.
I've been dealing with pretty severe mental health problems all my life. Consistent, intense depressive episode where I see no joy or hope and experience what seems like only despair. 2023 was horrible for me, multiple stays in mental hospitals, my father's diagnosis of cancer, and my own illness, making me lose 100 lbs in 5 months. Mental health is something that NEEDS to be talked about in all its painful and embarrassing detail so that others realize that they are not alone and never once have been. Thank you, Rob, for your honesty, transparency, and frankness. Your words have truly helped.
Amazing honesty Rob. This helps remove the stigma. My group has a saying. "Its okay, to Not be Okay" Thank you for this. I wish you the best on your journey.
BIG respect for this. And thanks for mentioning the 1st October episode. I must say I could also feel that something wasn't 100% and I felt for you man. I could feel the emptiness and the desire to want to contribute. So glad you got the help you needed and so glad for others watching this who will be helped as well. Thanks for existing!
I'm not one for sappy comments and I'll be sure to keep it brief, but this video brought me to tears and I need to share. I have bipolar II, along with a whole host of other mental health issues, that have been SEVERELY impacting my ability to function for over 3 years now. the past 9 months have been the worst part of my life by far, and sometimes it feels utterly hopeless. I've been following your content for years (Andrew too, I was there for day 1 of First of October), and you've been a constant source of creative inspiration for me. Hearing someone like that speak to exactly the same issues I've been dealing with is really really reassuring. Thank you for being open about this, and thank you for everything. I wish you the best, forever.
"Usually" honestly was my favorite song on last year's first of october, for what it's worth. Thank you for opening up about this, it was great to hear about your experiences with BP. I wish you the best going forward, hope you'll have tons of success with the projects yet to come. I know I'll be watching and appreciating everything that comes around here.
Thank you very much for posting this video. I feel like I went through a similar thing during 2024 and I'm planning to see a therapist ASAP. I took big stupid risks and hurt everyone around me to the point that the person I loved the most left me. The worst thing is that I didn't realize something was wrong with me at the moment. Now all that's left is guilt and regrets. Please take care of yourself and don't be afraid to seek help. You could ruin your life and hurt your loved ones without even realizing. Take care
Hey Rob! I also have Bipolar I, am a blader/musician in Indiana, and I totally feel your struggle. I've lost jobs from it, and looking back it does feel "fake" etc. Thank you for talking about your experience with Bipolar and not leaving out the gritty details, I know it's not easy to talk about at all. One particular experience I can think of for myself was being at Ramp and Camp during a depressive episode, and I had kind of pushed that weekend out of my brain until now. You're awesome, in all of your endeavors.
the feeling of "im making this up for attention" combined with the ~bad thoughts is the worst feeling in the world. I went through something i would describe as similar a while back and never really talked to anyone about for that reason, like if im wrong and it really was in my head then i must deserve to feel the way i did kinda mentality and its really really rough. i know it doesnt mean much to hear form randos on the internet but i hope youre doing better! ive always loved the videos and i always view your content as a positive influence in my life.
Can you explain the “all in my head” thing? I hear it a lot and can’t really wrap my head around it because mental health issues are “in your head”. Doesn’t make it any less real or serious, does it? (If you’re not comfortable explaining i understand)
@@gutbucket6184 in a way it feels like youre making excuses for your own faults. You think to yourself that youre being dramatic and blowing everything out of proportion. Eventually you start getting it into yourself that all the horrible ways you feel are just a reflection of who you are, not some mental condition. You think to yourself "im just a bad person", "i deserve this", etc. The only way I can really relate the thought process is to how people react when a child hurts themselves by accident. An adult can see that they just got a bump, but to the kid its the worst thing ever. When its in your head you feel like both the kid crying for help and the adult talking down to yourself.
Thank you for sharing so openly. Hearing you talk about Tamara really made me tear up because hearing you acknowledge her ability to be that immediate at-home support, and acknowledging the potential loneliness she may have experienced within that is something I relate to tremendously. My partner deals with pretty deep depression at times, and I'm usually that immediate at-home support system. I'm always there and genuinely willing to help however I can in the moment, but it can get challenging at times. Knowing there are others out there who are practicing that unwavering love and support for their loved ones gives me strength to always be their for mine. Thank you for sharing this and helping to destigmatize these experiences for those who experience it either first-hand or are taking on a support role and just need to know sometimes that they aren't alone in providing that support.
Thank you for sharing your experience of Bipolar I. I came down with Bipolar I at the start of this year and was hospitalized twice for two mixed manic and psychotic episodes. It’s a brutal condition so it’s helpful and reassuring hearing other people’s experiences with it
Hey man as somebody with bipolar 2 who has watched your videos for 9 years this really helps. Glad you got the help you needed and this inspires me to come out about my own struggles as well. Take care
This is the most eye opening and honest talk about mental health I’ve heard in a long time. I hope this helps others, and helps remove some stigma. Props to you Rob, the best thing that could come of this awful period is highlighting it like you have. Thank you.
I absolutely broke down into tears when the reprise at the end hit. I am deep in a valley from one hell of a year. Nobody I know has been able to just say something to help. I get a lot of "I am here for you" texts, but nobody to help me maybe put a finger on the problem. I had a conversation with 988 about how I was feeling regarding ending life and was able to schedule some free counseling. P.S. I hope to hear you on a Knocked Loose track, soon.
Thank you for sharing your journey Rob! You are amazing. It takes a lot of strength to make a video like this and it's really helpful to share openly like this and erase the stigma around mental health struggles
Usually had been the standout track for me from the last First of October, one that really, really resonated with me personally. Now it means so much more hearing what you had been going through. Thank you for sharing this story with us Rob, I'm so sorry to hear that you had to go through that, but very happy that you seem to be in a much better headspace now!
I commend your courage for talking about this. This video felt incredibly moving and personal to me. I lost my brother in 2016 to suicide and he was, seemingly, one of the happiest, brightest people I’d ever met in my life. He was the sort of guy who you’d never guess had as many thoughts haunting him as he did. I respect the fact that you’re sharing this experience with people because so many individuals don’t understand what mental illness looks like, even nowadays. Thank you, Rob.
Was he ever diagnosed or on any medications? Sorry to pry, I am also having dark thoughts and have a brother and this comment scares me as I would never want to subject my brother to such pain. It's just really hard some days.
licensed clinical social worker here; ive worked in the mental health field for 15 years and have only once met a man in his 30s that had his first psychotic break. late onset is very rare. hope you're in a good place. long time fan
Rob, thanks so much for sharing this and raising awareness about Bipolar Disorder. I hate that we live with it, but I’m glad there are people like you who make this a little less lonely. Love you so much ❤
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Especially considering that this is posted online and I know that you are truly not just trying to get clicks. I relate to this so much. Please keep up the amazing music and projects and thank you for sharing that with folks like me that can relate incredibly. - respect-
Thank you for sharing Rob. Since I have BPD, a lot of this is super recognisable in a period I'm not doing that well. But after watching this, I know I have to get over my fears and face life head on. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Solid partnership there, with your wife. Sticking around, and supporting through illness is very respectable. Mental injury or illness can be more difficult than physical injury or illness, because it's the person themself that is disfunctioning, rather than a body part.
Thank you for making this video. I’ve struggled with mental health problems and the stigma around it for nearly 20 years. It’s so encouraging when someone who has a platform to speak up, and that person actually speaks up. The last 3 years of my life have been the most difficult ever. My mind was in such a dark place that I would have days when I thought I might literally die from feeling so bad. Other times, I wished I would just die so that the torture would end. I’m so glad that you’re surrounded by so many people who care about you and support you no matter what. I know that can make all the difference for someone who is struggling. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for sharing your own experiences Matthew! I agree, it’s a good day when someone normalizes mental health struggles. Hopefully you can find the help and healing for yourself as well!
I love you and I’m so proud of you
How you responded to Rob in Abbey Road studios had me tearing up. I'm training to be a therapist and you were so compassionate towards Rob. So much love between you guys!
he LOVES you too MAN
💜 good heavens we love you too
Man you're a legend, such a great supportive behaviour!
♥️💙💜❤️
Corey Taylor clocking Rob's manic episode immediately and being understanding and calm about it with no hesitation is like the coolest thing ever
Further proof that Corey Taylor is just a whole other level of human being.
I was so impressed
Not even surprising either, right. 😅
@@MadSandmanI mean, you have to know that Cory has experienced it.
Yea, I thought the same thing. Big points for Corey on that one.
"When you recover loudly, you save others from suffering silently." Thank you for sharing your story.
That is an incredible quote... wow!
Amen 🙏
True Amen
Thank you for normalizing mental health struggles, Rob. It is brave.
My rape in Iraq was covered up with a bad paper discharge in 2006. I still have serious episodes where I feel like people are out to get me, but honestly, nothing has proven me wrong. My family stopped talking to me and my brother was framed with the crime I didn't get justice for. My rapist got an honorable discharge, had multiple victims, and now works with Amtrak in L.A.
I will never forgive myself for serving this country's propaganda. #FML
What are you talking about? What stigma ?It's "cool" to have mental health issues, everyone is bragging about it today
@@ekklesiastno one brags about mental health problems. They are cries for help. Perhaps in your algorithm you see a lot of videos of people sharing their experiences but a lot of people don’t. What about those that don’t even have social media? Older generations that can’t afford care or homeless people or those with drug addictions? You think they are faking it to look cool? You are stigmatizing with your comment my guy
@@ekklesiast awareness ≠ trendy
@@ekklesiast tell that to the 22 veterans a day that commit suicide and then ask yourself if you are lying when you give them fake gratitude on Veterans Day. You are #NotWelcomeForMyService.
Why does the idea of Corey Taylor being the voice of clarity and sympathy in the middle of the barrage of messages seem super fitting and appropriate?
Maybe because Corey Taylor also talks openly and honestly about his struggles with his mental health. Glad to see the stigma falling off. We can't get the help we need if we feel ashamed of asking for help when we need it.
Yeah Corey probably just immediately knew what was happening because of stuff he had experienced or seen first hand
Because he's been thru it all.
Corey is irl gigachad, he's been through just about everything life could throw at him and he's still standing as strong as he is. I've absolutely nothing but respect for the man
Corey Tayloe seems like a nice guy though.
Love ya man! It's clear it was tough on you, it's huge that you pulled through.
Hoppas du mår bra! Lätt att skjuta undan sina egna upplevelser.
Roomie!!!!!!!
roomie being a real one
Dafauq are you doing here 😂
@@Claire-is-a-mushroomthey've been friends for years and did some collabs ages ago
❤ Much love Rob
Much love Ola
20:56 there’s something so heartwarming about this moment. You can see in Andrew’s face that he’s just like, “okay it’s serious talk time.” Like there’s a moment in his head where his priorities shift from trying to figure out what to do with the album and what to add, to trying to build up his best friend and give him a space to talk about what’s he’s feeling. You have a great friend in Andrew, Rob. I think you know that, but you really, REALLY do
I am speechless. You have just saved lives and explained something so complicated and difficult in such a beautiful way. This is the reason I love you, and millions of people love you and yes I agree, your wife rocks. x
You have also made some very important videos about topics that will hit close to home and help people, Mary. Just like Rob here, it's very obvious to anyone who follows your work that you are a genuinely good human being with a good heart and the desire to help people. Much love to both you and Rob from me ❤
Well said! Also your smile when you've finished a song helps people, it warms up the soul :D
Love your music
Well done for talking about this so candidly! I have suffered with mental health issues in the last year or so for the first time in my life and now having experienced that I realise how important it is to talk about mental health. ❤❤ big love to you Rob ❤❤
Your channel is great and the information in there is just what my ADHD asked for!
i think this video has madf me realise that i have probably went through a very similiar situation but was never acknowledged as whatit was cheers rob, and your wife your great people
I was the least likely person in the world to get depression - until I did. The first time can be incomprehensible and terrifying, maybe more so if you (like me) haven't experienced any trauma in your past. The second time, you know what's happening... and that doesn't necessarily make it any easier. After getting through it several times, I believe these three things about depression:
1) It can happen to anyone.
2) It is not possible to fully understand what it's like unless you've experienced it yourself.
3) It needs to be talked about until it's not considered any stranger than breaking a leg.
Whatever your mental health issues are/were, if you feel at all up to talking about them on camera, I say go for it.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing good now.
Nevertheless, I want you to know that you are incredible teacher. You explain everything so clear it seems to be an open page of a dictionary. Your videos are so full of information! In such short time you explain such small, interesting and important things like no one did.
You are wonderful.
Thank you for everything, David Bennett!
Absolutely love your channel and really hope you're doing better and wish the best for you
Corey Tailor immediately identifying it as mania and trying to talk you through it almost made me tear up.
I was nervous clicking this video. As a person also diagnosed with type 1 bipolar, I was relieved as soon as you started talking about the manic cycle so candidly.
The "rambly messages" bit hit home.
I'm on the bus on my way to see my social worker and get my medication for the month right now.
Will be showing my case worker this video and finishing the rest afterwards.
Very well done sir.
Rob, I just wanted to thank you for making this brave video. My best friend lost his life to Bipolar 1, and even after learning everything I thought I could learn about it, your perspective immediately helped me understand things that I previously didn't. You're doing an immense service to all of us by being open about this. 🙏🏻
Sorry for your loss brother man
Sorry to hear about your loss, Benn!
I'm so sorry for your loss, Benn.
Very sorry for your loss 🙏🏽❤️🩹
Sorry about the loss.
🙏
Hey man!
As a doctor, I can assure you that you came with one of the most complete reports about bipolar disorder that I've ever come across in media, bravely put in a video.
Hope this can raise awareness about not only bipolar disorder but also other mental health issues.
Been your fan for years now, stay well, Rob!
There’s a man who has a site called Polar Warriors I’ve watched for several years. He has bipolar, and it’s a really good channel.
As... not a doctor or even a person with BD, this was the best report showcase of the ailment I've seen or heard of.
I absolutely adore when artists open up about this stuff, because even if it helps ONE inidivdual with BD, that is amazing and a win in my books. But I think in this case it helped de- stigmatize one of the most stigmatized disorders too. Sometimes people just need a reminder that things aren't all bad
@@petecabrina Guy from Finland here and I definitely agree with you on this one. Currently still in line waiting for a psychiatric evaluation to get diagnoses sorted out (doctor was suspecting bipolar disorder), but the first thing I was given was quetiapine and man did it fuck me up mentally and physically. Asked a few friends around about it and they told me that it gets described around here like a candy which to me just sounds plain wrong, that without even a proper diagnosis they just give you whatever and hope that it works out for you just completely dismissing side-effects in the process.
@@Sagarathias you know what's crazy is AstraZeneca was involved in a billion dollar lawsuit for the off-labelling of quetiapine due to the damage it did to many people but regardless of that it is still off-labelled, because they decided it has other applications they could sell prescriptions for. Its an anti-psychotic which should only ever be used to help stabilise someone who is psychotic and ideally not long term, the big issue with these types of drugs is they completely mess with your natural reward system which will totally inhibit your ability to interact with the world. You should really consider taking the holistic path if you can, Wim Hof can be great for any mental health issues and is probably ideal for your climate, throw in sauna's as well which is very traditional there. The opposite to Wim Hof is buteyko too which is also good, combined with meditation. I have found you can stabilise the ups and downs of life with these kinds of practises and even recognise what is happening through self awareness and control it more. A lot of this stuff is actually more brain function/neuroplasticity than it is purely chemical, the whole 'just chemistry' model is way outdated, we can totally change ourselves and our own wiring through different practices.
@@Sagarathias interesting I replied to this about the company that makes quetiapine and the massive lawsuit they were involved in for off-labelling it and the damage it did to many people but YT seems to have sucked it up? Quetiapine is a perfect example though, its an anti-psychotic which only should ever be used for psychotic symptoms or episodes and ideally only temporarily to stabilise people, because the longer term effects can be so bad. These types of drugs totally mess with your natural reward system to, I think both dopamine and serotonin and impact your ability to interact with the world. Why anyone you know would call it 'candy' seems crazy too, never known it to have any recreational appeal.
You should really consider taking the holistic path if you can, Wim Hof can be great for any mental health issues and is probably ideal for your climate, throw in sauna's as well which is very traditional there. The opposite to Wim Hof is buteyko too which is also good, combined with meditation. I have found you can stabilise the ups and downs of life with these kinds of practises and even recognise what is happening through self awareness and control your state of mind, keep things more level. A lot of this stuff is actually more brain function/neuroplasticity than it is purely chemical too, the whole 'just chemistry' model is way outdated, we can totally change ourselves and our own wiring through different practices. Nature is important too and having healthy circadian rhythm, getting caught in the current social/tech web too much with no nature and no natural light I think is causing a lot of people problems too these days.
As a father with a daughter struggling with mental health, I truly appreciate this video. Thanks you. Keep on going brother.
I really love the self-love you show here - not wallowing in too much guilt or shame, but forgiving yourself, and understanding that these are moments in time. You're an awesome creator - I show your "The E Song" video to my students all the time, to show how much you can do with just rhythm/timbre/octaves/arranging! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this!
Man, it’s huge you sharing this. Not just for musicians but for all the people who resonate, especially those in the low place. Thank you.
Those clips of you making faces and sighing during the filming really struck me. Being around people and things you like but not being able to enjoy any of it. Sighing from the mental exhaustion of having to exist. In that state, just being alive saps your mental strength. I'm glad you managed to get back to 90%.
Seeing that was really relatable to my struggles with ADHD - bouncing between the pseudo-euphoria of being hyperactive and/or hyperfixated on a task/project and the sudden loss of energy and willpower as soon as my focus shifts. Functioning at 110%* feels great until your body realizes that the tank is empty and crashes - and it feels almost worse to be surrounded by other people who NOTICE the shift.
Sounds like a normal day to me
@@TannerGr8rix i hate that i relate to this on a deep level. that describes my life for the last like, 10 years.
@@abbey2k1same
Yeah I rember during the abby road videos something was off and the comments talked about it, I'm glad he's oppend up and is getting help he deserves feels my heart with joy.
I had a pretty intense psychosis and lost all sorts of things. I hung out with a lot of homeless people. My phone was stolen, my laptop was almost stolen, my Martin, my Fender Strat and a 400 watt Yamaha PA.
My marriage was going through a really rough time. Had the mania, had the grandiosity. I could relate to this. Glad ya made it through, Rob!
That was 2023, too.
as a bipolar man and ex homeless person, you deserved to have all your shit stolen for hanging out with people like us in the first place. bet you wont do that shit again will you?
I hope 2024 is going much better for you.
Yeah meth addiction is rough
@@bryanbryan6108 wasn’t meth. Bipolar and too much weed. It took me a while to get it figured out. People took advantage of my generous nature.
@@takes9386 I appreciate you.
feeling morally obligated to share your insights during mania is such a great way to describe it, I sometimes want to climb on my roof and shout them into the world even though it's 3am
Dude, I about cried when you talked about how much your wife supported you. I had a major health issue from mold poisoning from the house we were renting when my wife and I first got married. I couldn't work for about a year. She stuck with me. Having that kind of love and support when you feel so worthless... there's no replacement for it.
you guys have better wives than I did 💀
cherish her
Dude, I didn't realize a lot of my issues was from mold. Lately I have been feeling SIGNIFICANTLY better. Glad your wife stuck with you and glad you are sharing about your mold exposure!
Mold sickness took me out for like 2 years straught. Was super brutal. Hope you're feeling better.
must be nice being loved ❤
I dealt with black mold for a few years, never dealing with it again. I'll live in a car before I live with that again.
This video has inspired me to book my first therapy session
💪
Congrats man! You very likely won't regret it :)
hey Im glad you took the step but as a personal advice if you feel therapy isnt for you or something along that line after one or a couple of sessions maybe it could be that the therapist in question isnt suited for you, I have learned that therapists are a little like friends: not everybody will be your close friend bc the vibe doesnt match and you need that "vibe" to be comfortable with your friends and you need it with a therapist too so if it doesnt work try with another until it works with someone...
i really need to as well...
You won’t regret it.
21:00 the way Andrew Notices Rob's mood and immediatly drops the papers and gives him the attention and support he needs it's just hearthwarming. That's what Best Friends do.
I have a feeling that if we could score emotional intelligence, Andrew would be off the chart.
25:18 That's a good person and spouse right there. The look on her face as she hugs Rob is one of the sweetest things you'll ever see.
Finally a celebrity that isn’t Kanye West talking about their Bipolar 1 diagnosis, this is going to help a lot of people.
@@SavageW4A2.5 million people.
@@cavemann_
And those are only the subscribers.
@@SavageW4A More known than you are! ;P LOL
Chills. Very true
@@MellowKittyKat I don't think they were using it as an insult, just pointing out that it's more than just "a lot"
You have helped me cope with my father's passing ten years ago with your song Anchor, Take care!
The "I'm a burden on everyone" is so real, and so palpable, that it's almost impossible to get out from under. It's all encompassing and nothing else matters. The shame is just unbearable
an issue ive delved into with this method of thinking is that, it digs itself deeper.
You're depressed, you think no one cares, or you are a burden to them.
This causes a very good portion of people to lead away from you, because no one wants to be near a sad person (itll make them sad too) so you think "ohh if I am not near them they are happier, I should go further away". But then that leads to them thinking you just dont want to be around them either, so they get further away. which loops and loops...
its the worst
You will always persist! You're a strong dude.
Im glad its looking up for you.
The way he fidgeted in that one shot where he's trying to play that guitar riff but he messes up...I know how those fidgets feel. That feeling of "being inside my body/mind is unbearable right now", it's like trying to squirm out of yourself. I'm so glad he made this video, this is what people need to hear. Mental health IS physical health. It's chemicals, it's your brain, it's the same thing as any other ailment, and there are solutions and strategies to deal with this stuff, you just have to realize that, and realize that you can't "just suck it up", and look for help. Thank you Rob.
Agree with you Assessment but I'd want to add that it is much harder to realize what exactly is wrong in our brain then most other things that happen to our bodies. The first tricky thing is to realize something IS wrong and then - because many mental issues keep you from correct reasoning and / or following through on reasoning.
I've been in and still am in a very taxing battle with Depression over the course of the last year only to find out halfway "through" that I also have ADHD and that acted as a strong catalyst for falling into that very depression. It's not as easy as submitting a blood sample or something and checking for any markers but involves a lot of self reflection and therapy in a state in which these things are rather... uncomfortable to say the least. I hope the Stigma around these issues will continue to be chipped away over time so that more people get a chance for a life that doesn't feel miserable while many around us don't have any Clue why we act weird and that we don't do it out of our own free will.
Very well put! I experienced this a lot when I was in a deep depression and I never knew what it was called or how to word it. Its actually called a "Psychache", I learned about it while studying Psychology.
WE'RE HERE FOR YA ROB!
Thank you Freakbait
Today's mission: Check on your friend
thank you freakbait
True that
huge freakbait W for being a good person
when his wife turned off the camera and said "look at me" ffffuuuuuk I felt that, I was seing it in his eyes, if you've been there you know what he was feeling.
Big hugs Rob.
fr that part hurt my soul
Same. I cried. Then I cried again reading this comment. :')
@@WarttHog Stop predicting my future but now present. 😿 but also ❤ and warm feelings.
@@AndyGneiss ❤️
I've struggled with MDD (Major Depressive Disorder) my entire life, and I'm just now after 24 years of life starting to want to be around and actually have a life. So I've stated taking better care of myself, losing weight, and working on my mental health.
I don't smile much, I never have. And I couldn't stop smiling for this whole video because I knew It was ending on a high note and a story of recovery.
Thank you Rob for years of great music and fun videos, Here's to lots more of both and better life's for all of us.
These are the things you often don't see. We just see you upload videos and if you don't upload for a while or something changes we might speculate but most likely won't guess the correct reason unless you tell us. Thank you for making this video and being open about the struggles that are invisible to the audience.
a emotional roller coaster ride of life
Yeah, I wasn't expecting this at all but I think it's helpful for people to know about and understand this sort of thing. No doubt a lot of people will recall this video while going through something similar and be able to recognize the need for help sooner. Having never experienced anything like this or known anyone who has been through it, I have to say that Bipolar 1 looks too intense for me.
@@slikwolf oh my. not the rollercoaster joke
Marcel Vos Comment 1 looks too intense for me!
@@quinnashter i saw his comment and immediately thought of that
Dude, I'm so proud of you for sharing your journey. More people need to know they aren't alone with their struggles, we are all in this TOGETHER, and we can help each other through it. I started therapy last year and it's been one of the most powerful and empowering things I've ever done for myself. I wish you all the best, man.
What Ben said.
@@morgancross5481 Agreed 1000%
I've always struggled with mental health and all my loved ones have recommended therapy for years and years but I have always avoided it. Seeing someone I look up to talk about it is awesome. Thanks Ben!
Going back to what you said in the FOO video now - "I'm still sick" is such an insanely powerful and validating way to frame it.
Whether that was the intention or it was that you were just trying to not give anything away, it honestly inspires me to hear mental illness being talked about in such so shamelessly.
Yes. It's not trivial, it's not fake, it's not something to just grin and bear.
Reminds me of the quote from Dimension 20 (shout out to all of you who know what that is), "You're not a coward; You have a medical condition."
I have a tendency to favour an "it's fine" attitude to my anxiety and depressive tendencies. But it's not fine - not always. And just like any physical condition, we should take the time we need to care for ourselves.
Thank you.
If only we all had a Jawbone O'Shaughnessy in our lives to remind us of that when we need it
Hoot Growl!
You can’t drop the Jawbone quote and not include the “I was in a truck stop bathroom sucking off a border patrol agent…” segment. That’s essential to the meaning.
My partner and long time friend slipped into their manic episode the first month we began dating instead of being friends.
To see what was going on with them, how differently they were behaving and how random things were causing them to be so excitable and also caused difficulty with sleep. They didn’t sleep for days talking about how electronics and lights were too loud or bright to be able to relax to sleep.
After being in the hospital and coming back to earth, they also learned they have Bipolar 1.
Now they are in a better space, we are still dating to this day. 4 years strong.
I appreciate your video you put out on this topic within your life and I am extremely happy to hear you are getting things in order. ❤ Time will heal all, and stay connected with your daily levels and emotions. Stay strong! You’re not alone! ❤❤
EDIT: Not a lot of people understand how Bipolar Disorder works truly, but you did such a fantastic job explaining what you feel and think of.
Rob, as an autistic black kid that was navigating the beginning of college in the early years, I see you and your struggles and see the parallels and graces you've given folk like me who wanted to give up but held on trying to learn something from you, to be humored by you or the next Jared Dines collab. You don't know the people you've helped and you continue to help by being honest and empowering. Dude none of us can give you what you've given us in those fleeting moments of thinking it really is just me. No, it's us and we just need to be heard. Thank you for sharing yourself for all these years dude 👊🏿
Well put. Pretend I just quoted the whole post "for truth"
wtf does it matter if you're black? race card much?
@toseltreps1101 being a member of a minority might make somebody feel extra "different", or othered. It is actually applicable context.
@@toseltreps1101 tbh it seems rare that there are black autistics, seems mostly whites or asians are but whatever I think it's interesting.
@@toseltreps1101 POC can often feel isolated, it makes sense to bring up in order to point to the stigma that this person went through. especially since black autistic people are especially underrepresented.
Thank you Tamara. Being a supporter is hard, and often feels thankless. Just so you know, you rock!
Absolutely this! I cried during their embrace, it must've been so hard for them both. Great work pulling through and here's to a better year!
I've filled those shoes before. I'm haunted by the experience of watching my spouse self-destruct. Happy to say we came out the other side and have healed. But I now have a persistent fear of the possibility of recurrence.
"You rock" yes. It's almost all we can say but what an understatement! Support like that from someone is almost the closest thing to being a superhero. I hardly know anything about you but I know you're a top-tier amazing person.
we love you Rob 🖤
I know exactly what you went through. 12 years ago I became addicted to opiates. When I was on those I didn’t eat, barely slept, I was extremely happy, super motivated and creative. 8 years ago I got clean and I swung hard the other way. I’m still waiting for it to swing back and level out. Sometimes I worry I used up all my serotonin in my addiction but I have to believe I will get back to normal at some point.
first of october is the reason i started writing songs. i'm 18 now, 5/6 years into writing consistently, possibly having written around a thousand either full songs, or snippets of songs, whatever. when i saw you were having some trouble in the last first of october video, it kinda hit me like a truck, i'll be honest.
thank you for everything man. i hope you can feel a bit better just knowing that the effort you put in to keep yourself going day after day has changed people's lives. i'm wishing you the best!
Every bit of this comment is exactly my situation. We love you Rob!
First of October got me into song writing and really taught me how to make songs under tight time constraints. I was able to make an album that helped me understand and process the realities of my mental health in the limited time I had access to audio equipment. While the mixing still has a long way to go, the songs I made for the most part sound complete and the entire work as a whole is something I can be proud of looking back at that really dark period of my life. Thank you so much Rob if you are reading this.
Big W for Tamara, for how supportive she is of Rob through his struggles. ❤
Hey! I went through a similar thing! I had about 3-4 episodes of acute psychosis which resulted in a good chunk of my relationships being obliterated, losing many personal belongings such as my vehicle, a load of my music equipment, computer equipment, and I also erased everything I could find on the internet about myself, and proceeded to get into a nasty vehicle accident. All fun stuff, you know? I'm getting better by the day, and It's good to see you are too, Rob!
You inspire me, with your skill in music, your easygoing, humourous personality, and content creation! It's really nice to see that despite our struggles, we are still able to be happy (ish) and successful.
Stay strong, man.
❤
Hope you are doing well my friend. I love you
Wishing you all the best, great that you're getting better. Perseverance is inspiring, though it would be great if things didn't get this rough. I hope people will pay more attention to their and theirs loved ones mental health more. Videos like this are important
@@Urodahero Thank you, and yes, I agree, mental health has always been incredibly important, and even more so in an age such as today where more and more people are being removed from reality via the internet. One of the best things to make me feel better is to disconnect, and just hang out with my friends.
Stay grounded, bros.
1:10 I havn’t watch the rest of the video yet, but let me tell you THANK YOU for having the balls to talk about Mental Health openly. This is very important because mental health is very often ignored by people, it’s seen as something negative… like someone being “crazy”. This is completely wrong. If tomorrow you break a bone, everybody will tell you to go to the hospital and check a specialist. Same thing if you get cancer… but somehow, if the illness if not physical but mental, suddenly people will start to think you’re just “crazy”. NO … and let me be clear, on the course of your life, absolutely EVERYBODY on earth will face at least once in his/her life some mental health issues. It could be depression, anxiety, addictions, phobies, you name it… plenty of mental illnesses that don’t make you crazy. It’s very important to be open and vocal about it, to share our experience and change the general perception of mental health. I suffer from chronic pain and I have clinical depression. I’m near 50 and I only started to think about it the last 5 years… I lived over 40 years without taking care of it, and it was ruining my life without knowing. So I’m glad you’re using your platform to talk about your experience and maybe help others in the mean time. It’s very brave and courageous from you when we know how some bullies can use social media to harass people that would disclose their mental health issues. Stay strong, cheers!
Man, the look on Andrew's face when he asks how Rob is doing... That's a good friend.
I'm so proud of you Rob, and I'm super grateful that you're doing better. I hope we get to do something together again soon!
Thought it was the Temu logo lol
dude thats crazy ive been watching you for like 10 years. im 31 and am currently in my 2nd psychosis of my life. heading towards schizoeffective diagnosis but it takes a long time
All the best to you, man.
wishing you the best ❤
Schizoaffective
It can be a wonderful feeling to eventually get a diagnosis. That relief of somebody recognizing and having at least some understanding of what's not going right. For me, it was a lot of "oh, that's why x,y,z."
Love and support to you, glad you shared
I have it, too. I might be losing my job because the parents at the school district I work at found out. I love you, Rob. Thanks for being a voice for us all.
I have bi-polar 1 as well, but out of embarrassment didn’t work to help myself through therapy and self-care. This cost me my marriage as my wife couldn’t handle this after years of extreme highs and extreme lows. It is amazing to see someone talk so candidly about this disorder to their audience and share their story as a form of release.
Thank you for acknowledging your wife. People don't realize what a toll this takes on families and how much it takes to stay there for you.
As you hoped, this video makes me feel very seen.
"Am I sane, can I trust this decision" is the part that hit hardest for me. Once you've been out of control of your emotions, mind, and body any time you take any risk, any big investment, any joy, any sadness, any bad day all you can think is "is this the start of another year?"
Even after almost a decade in remission, I still question whether I'm mentally fit to do things. And happiness is REALLY ALARMING... Because obv I don't want to get swept away & then it turned out to be mania instead of real happiness & I ruin my life. It's fkn difficult as hell & I hope to learn how to navigate that situation someday.
YES. I am afraid that the doubt will steal any life experience that may come, BUT, I am afraid that the experience is a part of mania. It is a struggle for sure
It was a heart shattering disappointment to discover I can't trust my gut reaction, emotions, or even thoughts. Realizing your inner voice is full of bs can be demoralizing to deal with, and necessitates a lot more careful analysis all the time.
Hey Rob, Bipolar here too. Rooting for you my dude, here for you!
I remember commenting about the struggles of mental health on that FoO video and getting GRILLED by so many people saying it’s not mental health, he’s physically sick. People cussing me out and being extraordinarily nasty. I know what “I’m just so tired” means, and I tried to offer words of encouragement. I’m so happy that you’re getting the treatment you need and have the support that you have! We love you so much Rob, this video will help a lot of people!
people that haven't dealt with this first hand or themselves have a hard time understanding that the issue is real.. a sort of normalcy bias
I'm fighting off some serious depression and self-harm that's lasted for years on years. I can't watch this video right now and I don't know that I'll ever be in a place that will allow me to but I still want to voice my support and let it be known that you and others like you are not alone.
Hey, from one internet stranger to another, I believe in you. ❤
Way to go with setting boundaries! Keep at it, it can get better. I’ve been in the severe depression/self harm boat many times and thankfully have had much less suicidal ideation and no real self harm incidents in a the last couple of years. Still not done with the fight, but therapy community and practicing the tools I’ve learned have definitely been helpful.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have at least one good person to help you up when you fall down. Pray you'll feel better one day g. And I hope you'll watch this video, I had been in a similar way up until I got out of highschool, and here in my 20's I'm finally able to realize I've got my whole life ahead to figure my shit out, there's a lot to do, to want to do, new people to meet, things to see, all given the right place and time. Just don't rush yourself, and don't hold yourself back from attempting to heal. Frankly sometimes it has to get worse to get better, I nearly offed myself with a plasma cutter, only after with the clarity of having been able to heal mentally and physically I finally was able to make a break through, not to say to do that obviously, but that's to say watching a video or a few like this, can be so so so much more helpful than you think, each iota of progress is progress. Don't try to think of it as taking on other people worries or problems, an issue I had for a long time, but as advice from someone ina rough spot too. Get well soon fella
You'll be okay. You're a lot stronger than you think, I promise you - some day soon, you're gonna surprise the hell out of yourself.
Think about how far you've come already, how much you've survived, how many obstacles you've overcome . . .
You're inspiring, and when you realise that, you'll be unbeatable.
Stay safe, be well, and _let it go._
rob, as a long time fan, and as someone who's suffered from psychosis, delusions, paranoia, mania, severe depression etcetera for several years at this point, i can not explain how much it means to me that you have made this video ♡ i'm so happy you're doing better and i hope you continue to help break the stigma! it's ok to not be ok! love you rob!
- a schizoaffective bipolar subtype "patient"
I feel seen. Thanks. The struggle is never truly over, but knowing is half the battle. Wishing you well.
Schizophrenia sufferer here, thanks for helping break the stigmas of mental health, Rob. Wish you the best!
I love how understanding Andrew, his wife, and producer are. So sweet.
Seeing someone so candidly describe experiences I've had hit me so hard. I have monopolar depression, essentially that dip period you had but unending and without any counterpart. Feeling like I'm a burden on everyone around me, that I don't deserve their help or presence, that I need to rid them of me, is at the forefront of my mind all the time, and it fucking hurts. I'm glad you're out of the trenches. No one deserves them.
I was diagnosed with the same thing. I appreciate your honesty. You help me more than I can ever show you just by talking about this. I love you man!
All the strength to you. This was felt deeply. So important! ❤️
I read something today that I was reminded of when you said you were such a burden to Tamara, your wife.
A burden is something you are forced unwillingly to bear, but she loves you and willingly chooses to take on that load and help you carry it. That's true and powerful love right there, Rob. Like you said, it was her choice to stay with you and help you every day, that's not a burden, that's love.
Tamara out there, setting an excellent example for partners everywhere.
Why did you need to had "your wife?" He knows who his wife is...
I have OCD, and some of the meds i've been on made the intrusive thoughts *worse*, a lot. I don't want to get into specifics, but parts of this video really resonated with me in a way that helps. Thank you.
And for what it's worth, things are entirely better for me now. I have a healthy relationship, good friends, a great job, and am in good health both physically and mentally.
Ocd is so ass, glad you got through that difficult time aswell
I'm 23 now. When my symptoms were presenting more as a teenager, Rob's videos were something I loved watching. His music and style helped shape what I've been into and passionate about since. I've been carrying my "Anchor EP" cd around a fair few homes since.
Thank you for sharing, Rob. It's not easy to be open about that, but I hope this helps folks destigmatize mental health things.
Smaller music creator here that was diagnosed with bipolar disorder back in 2021. It’s a long and difficult journey, but so worth it. The hardest part about it is figuring out what things in your life bring you mania, and what things bring you depression. Being stable is the dream, but it’s so worth working towards. Thanks for sharing your journey and experience with us all, UA-cam and the world needs more of this, more openness of what really goes on. We’re all human, we all got shit going on, ain’t nothing wrong with it
Hey man. Glad you're still with us and you're on the other side ❤
(Shoutout to Tamara for being amazing)
as someone who was diagnosed with bipolar 1 and have had my share of episodes im so grateful that you came out the other side of this. and it really helped me reflect on my own struggles. wishing you nothing but love and light Rob.
Thanks for sharing this, Rob. After living through my wife's horrific episode with BP psychosis in 2021-2022(which included four arrests and involuntary hospitalizations), I've been on a quest to understand this insidious disease. I appreciate your insight and honesty. I'm happy you're doing well. Equally happy to say we've had 2 years of stability and healing on the other side of it as well.
Love and respect to you, brother.
Ive spent 2 weeks in mental hospital,
How you described your psychosis is exactly how I felt, plus some.
I was diagnosed with a form of schizophrenia.
It's been years, but it still feels strange to this day. (I'm doing better, the meds they gave me was some crazy stuff that I had to wing myself off of and they believe cannabis was partially responsible what caused my episode. I don't see figures and have certain thoughts like people I dont know talking about me right infront of me.)
I've had some strange things happen and I believe trauma is partially a major factor into why I had lapsed into psychosis.
*To anyone having mental health problems, **_PLEASE_** talk to someone!*
And to Rob, We're all here for you!
I also have Bipolar 1 and just came out of hospital 2 weeks ago after a month of treatment. It’s important to talk about this stuff, so thanks.
Rob, what you've done here with this video is incredibly powerful, important and caring. I've worked for many years with individuals dealing with Bipolar I & II disorder and I've witnessed first hand the impact that it has had on them but also on their families and others around them. You are absolutely right about the importance of creating awareness and what you're doing here is a great example of what makes human beings unique and exceptional. Thank you for such a gift :)
The hardest part about being a creative in a major depressive state mixed with dysphoria is how much you want returning to your craft to make you feel better. But when you're stuck under that cloud of depressive thoughts it actually seems to have thd opposite effect. The mental blockage, the hampered creativity, and the ensuing frustration and apathy just exacerbate your negative feelings. Add the feelings of obligation into things, and your stuggle through recording back in October is a perfect illustration of this overwhelming scenario.
Thanks for sharing your story and im glad that you found the support and guidance you needed go navigate through everything.
I've been dealing with pretty severe mental health problems all my life. Consistent, intense depressive episode where I see no joy or hope and experience what seems like only despair. 2023 was horrible for me, multiple stays in mental hospitals, my father's diagnosis of cancer, and my own illness, making me lose 100 lbs in 5 months. Mental health is something that NEEDS to be talked about in all its painful and embarrassing detail so that others realize that they are not alone and never once have been. Thank you, Rob, for your honesty, transparency, and frankness. Your words have truly helped.
Amazing honesty Rob. This helps remove the stigma. My group has a saying. "Its okay, to Not be Okay" Thank you for this. I wish you the best on your journey.
Powerful lyric from while she sleeps as well!
BIG respect for this. And thanks for mentioning the 1st October episode. I must say I could also feel that something wasn't 100% and I felt for you man. I could feel the emptiness and the desire to want to contribute. So glad you got the help you needed and so glad for others watching this who will be helped as well. Thanks for existing!
I've suffered from severe anxiety, love you talking about mental health and making it a public thing
I'm not one for sappy comments and I'll be sure to keep it brief, but this video brought me to tears and I need to share. I have bipolar II, along with a whole host of other mental health issues, that have been SEVERELY impacting my ability to function for over 3 years now. the past 9 months have been the worst part of my life by far, and sometimes it feels utterly hopeless. I've been following your content for years (Andrew too, I was there for day 1 of First of October), and you've been a constant source of creative inspiration for me. Hearing someone like that speak to exactly the same issues I've been dealing with is really really reassuring. Thank you for being open about this, and thank you for everything. I wish you the best, forever.
"Usually" honestly was my favorite song on last year's first of october, for what it's worth.
Thank you for opening up about this, it was great to hear about your experiences with BP. I wish you the best going forward, hope you'll have tons of success with the projects yet to come. I know I'll be watching and appreciating everything that comes around here.
Thank you very much for posting this video. I feel like I went through a similar thing during 2024 and I'm planning to see a therapist ASAP. I took big stupid risks and hurt everyone around me to the point that the person I loved the most left me. The worst thing is that I didn't realize something was wrong with me at the moment. Now all that's left is guilt and regrets.
Please take care of yourself and don't be afraid to seek help. You could ruin your life and hurt your loved ones without even realizing.
Take care
Hey Rob! I also have Bipolar I, am a blader/musician in Indiana, and I totally feel your struggle. I've lost jobs from it, and looking back it does feel "fake" etc. Thank you for talking about your experience with Bipolar and not leaving out the gritty details, I know it's not easy to talk about at all. One particular experience I can think of for myself was being at Ramp and Camp during a depressive episode, and I had kind of pushed that weekend out of my brain until now. You're awesome, in all of your endeavors.
the feeling of "im making this up for attention" combined with the ~bad thoughts is the worst feeling in the world. I went through something i would describe as similar a while back and never really talked to anyone about for that reason, like if im wrong and it really was in my head then i must deserve to feel the way i did kinda mentality and its really really rough.
i know it doesnt mean much to hear form randos on the internet but i hope youre doing better! ive always loved the videos and i always view your content as a positive influence in my life.
Can you explain the “all in my head” thing? I hear it a lot and can’t really wrap my head around it because mental health issues are “in your head”. Doesn’t make it any less real or serious, does it? (If you’re not comfortable explaining i understand)
@@gutbucket6184 in a way it feels like youre making excuses for your own faults. You think to yourself that youre being dramatic and blowing everything out of proportion. Eventually you start getting it into yourself that all the horrible ways you feel are just a reflection of who you are, not some mental condition. You think to yourself "im just a bad person", "i deserve this", etc. The only way I can really relate the thought process is to how people react when a child hurts themselves by accident. An adult can see that they just got a bump, but to the kid its the worst thing ever. When its in your head you feel like both the kid crying for help and the adult talking down to yourself.
Thank you for sharing so openly. Hearing you talk about Tamara really made me tear up because hearing you acknowledge her ability to be that immediate at-home support, and acknowledging the potential loneliness she may have experienced within that is something I relate to tremendously. My partner deals with pretty deep depression at times, and I'm usually that immediate at-home support system. I'm always there and genuinely willing to help however I can in the moment, but it can get challenging at times. Knowing there are others out there who are practicing that unwavering love and support for their loved ones gives me strength to always be their for mine. Thank you for sharing this and helping to destigmatize these experiences for those who experience it either first-hand or are taking on a support role and just need to know sometimes that they aren't alone in providing that support.
Thank you for sharing your experience of Bipolar I. I came down with Bipolar I at the start of this year and was hospitalized twice for two mixed manic and psychotic episodes. It’s a brutal condition so it’s helpful and reassuring hearing other people’s experiences with it
Hey man as somebody with bipolar 2 who has watched your videos for 9 years this really helps. Glad you got the help you needed and this inspires me to come out about my own struggles as well. Take care
This is the most eye opening and honest talk about mental health I’ve heard in a long time. I hope this helps others, and helps remove some stigma. Props to you Rob, the best thing that could come of this awful period is highlighting it like you have. Thank you.
As someone with Bipolar 2, I feel you. Thanks for bringing awareness to it.
Just wanted to say as someone who was diagnosed BP 2 in 2022, your testimony is so validating. Thank you for talking about this.
I absolutely broke down into tears when the reprise at the end hit. I am deep in a valley from one hell of a year. Nobody I know has been able to just say something to help. I get a lot of "I am here for you" texts, but nobody to help me maybe put a finger on the problem. I had a conversation with 988 about how I was feeling regarding ending life and was able to schedule some free counseling.
P.S. I hope to hear you on a Knocked Loose track, soon.
Thank you for sharing your journey Rob! You are amazing. It takes a lot of strength to make a video like this and it's really helpful to share openly like this and erase the stigma around mental health struggles
Usually had been the standout track for me from the last First of October, one that really, really resonated with me personally. Now it means so much more hearing what you had been going through. Thank you for sharing this story with us Rob, I'm so sorry to hear that you had to go through that, but very happy that you seem to be in a much better headspace now!
This is the most important video you have ever made. This was amazing Rob. Much love.
I commend your courage for talking about this. This video felt incredibly moving and personal to me. I lost my brother in 2016 to suicide and he was, seemingly, one of the happiest, brightest people I’d ever met in my life. He was the sort of guy who you’d never guess had as many thoughts haunting him as he did. I respect the fact that you’re sharing this experience with people because so many individuals don’t understand what mental illness looks like, even nowadays. Thank you, Rob.
Was he ever diagnosed or on any medications? Sorry to pry, I am also having dark thoughts and have a brother and this comment scares me as I would never want to subject my brother to such pain. It's just really hard some days.
licensed clinical social worker here; ive worked in the mental health field for 15 years and have only once met a man in his 30s that had his first psychotic break. late onset is very rare. hope you're in a good place. long time fan
Rob, thanks so much for sharing this and raising awareness about Bipolar Disorder. I hate that we live with it, but I’m glad there are people like you who make this a little less lonely. Love you so much ❤
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Especially considering that this is posted online and I know that you are truly not just trying to get clicks. I relate to this so much. Please keep up the amazing music and projects and thank you for sharing that with folks like me that can relate incredibly. - respect-
The human spirit is an instrument we all have to learn to play. It’s a complicated one. Thanks for helping with more of the theory stuff.
Thank you for sharing Rob. Since I have BPD, a lot of this is super recognisable in a period I'm not doing that well. But after watching this, I know I have to get over my fears and face life head on. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Solid partnership there, with your wife. Sticking around, and supporting through illness is very respectable. Mental injury or illness can be more difficult than physical injury or illness, because it's the person themself that is disfunctioning, rather than a body part.
Thank you for making this video. I’ve struggled with mental health problems and the stigma around it for nearly 20 years. It’s so encouraging when someone who has a platform to speak up, and that person actually speaks up. The last 3 years of my life have been the most difficult ever. My mind was in such a dark place that I would have days when I thought I might literally die from feeling so bad. Other times, I wished I would just die so that the torture would end. I’m so glad that you’re surrounded by so many people who care about you and support you no matter what. I know that can make all the difference for someone who is struggling. Thank you for sharing!
You are not rich so Shut Up
Thank you for sharing your own experiences Matthew! I agree, it’s a good day when someone normalizes mental health struggles. Hopefully you can find the help and healing for yourself as well!