Started this video as an excuse to clean my makeup brushes. And then while I was cleaning my brushes in the sink, I realized I need to clean our the whole bathroom, which lead me to then mop the floors in my entire house. It was one of those very needed cathartic cleans. All that to say, thank you Alex for cleaning all that nastiness out with me and making me feel super productive. Deeply satisfied and grateful to not take that dust and dirt into the new year. 😆
Please don't feel like you need to apologise for having a private life and not wanting to share everything. You do share a lot! And also who doesn't love a reorganisation video?😊 Happy New Year to you Alex xx
I have been so into organizing and decluttering videos lately, this is like a dream come true to see you post one. i get sick of hearing a lot of people talk, but it's like chillin with the bros watching your videos 😂
Totally random, but has "bro" become gender neutral, like "you guys" and "dude"? I learned recently than even casual baby boomers are shocked when their Gen X employee (me) says, "duuude, the governor is visiting tomorrow." Apparently he was worried I'd "dude" the governor, too. I assured him I loathe the governor, he'll get no "dude" from me...
I am a senior citizen who found you during the pandemic and I think you’re terrific. Keep something of yourself for yourself. You don’t owe any of us anything…other than your terrific videos and take on things. Just sayin’!
I love how you draw boundaries with what you share and don’t. It’s very refreshing. As much as I love hearing your thoughts on things, you are allowed to have your privacy, and I 100% support you in that. Thanks for what you have shared, I’m definitely in the same boat as you in the sense if working with the expectations I have for myself and others. We got this!
I cannot agree more with your take on things. We are becoming overwhelmed with too many choices too and personally I feel that I cannot fully concentrate on one thing. I am 58 and thought I was above getting caught up in social media scrolling but I am equally susceptible. I hate New Years resolutions, but one that I have is to not spend so much time on social media or at least just watch the people that I truly enjoy. You are among the people that make my day!
Totally agree, I'm 53 and as I look at my priorities, time scrolling is eating way too much of my time. I've gotten too "into" skincare and makeup and find it just eats too much time. Also overwhelmed by decisions. My son is about to graduate college but is living in town while student teaching, so I'm helping him get his "stuff" for adult life, and how to manage that stuff with the least effort. Trying out very simple versions of capsule wardrobe (not getting "strict" & keeping my larger closet for now), capsule makeup, capsule outerwear even (with 8 months winters, you end up with A LOT of outerwear lol), capsule fridge & meals, the whole 9 yards. Reduce decisions, speed up my daily basics, create time & space to get back into dating and get my biz off the ground. Enjoying a NYE binge before I severely limit my feed to people like Alex, who do not trigger my desire to purchase or acquire constant "new." I've stocked up & set purchase subscriptions so I can limit my shopping effort to fresh food weekly & replacing basics. Hoping that I can stay focused on my priorities!!
Good luck! AND lets not be perfectionists about this, we are aiming for a C minus, a pass, and somedays the best we can do is to be kind to ourselves and try our best again tomorrow@@montananerd8244
Agree 100%. I'm 55, and I used to be waaaayyy more involved, creating for and running 3 facebook pages. I've pulled dramatically back. The trolling and negativity, the rush and demand and constancy of people's expectations... it's all too much.
I’m loving these chatty videos, I can relate to you about retreating, you don’t need to apologise, I feel you have more integrity and I respect you for it ❤
The honeymoon phase of social media is largely over for me, too. The amount of time I put myself out there is dramatically reduced in favor for just being in the moment. I love the declutter videos and would enjoy hearing more about your process for keeping / giving up items in your collection.
ive been following you for a few years now, and the reason why your audience is so chill is bc you're so chill!! like you're no bs, fun and just very real and thats why you're one of the 2 UA-camrs that I binge watch / keep up with. you're just very real man
16:33 As a kid we had to clean the house on Saturdays and to do a good job, finish, have lunch, then play. That was the 80s and 90s for me. Now, because I don’t want to do it on a Saturday to do it all, I’m more relaxed BUT anxiety creeps up because at times it’s not getting done. Then I’m extremely overwhelmed it’s my internal dialogue that I’m trying to change “just do one room” or “just unload the dishwasher” or “just do two loads of laundry”. I hear you Alex and that you for opening up about this ❤😘🇨🇦
No one has a right to your personal life! It’s easy for the crowd watching to forget there are very real boundary lines. It’s not all of us, but there are some who seemingly want to hold hands all day every day with content creators . To me that speaks of deeper issues within themselves. Keep doing what makes you happy in ways you feel safe and comfortable! ❤❤
Started therapy about 10 years ago. You are SO right about finding the right person. Mine has helped me lean into my true self, being more confident & not apologizing for who I am or how I handle things. Type A people pleaser here 🙋♀️ Sometimes I go regularly & then other times I'll go months without & then go in for what I call a "tune up". Can't recommend it enough! Glad it's working for you...the initial stage can be uncomfortable but worth it in the long run. Thanks for sharing! 💕
Yes. Yes. Loved it. I sat and cleaned some brushes while I watched. I have been debating going to therapy. My husband died in 2019, then c#vid hit. Still so down. This was a great talk for me. ❤❤
Ooo I neeeeed to clean TODAY. Been working a lot. The laundry piled up. I allowed myself (finally) to not do much the past two days. Literally needed to rest my eyes because they got swollen, my under eyes even more sunken in and I looked sick. I finally feel more rested. Anyway… I love this kind of behind the scenes content. It’s real. So genuine. Just share what you feel comfortable sharing. More eyes on you do mean more scrutiny from an audience who wouldn’t really know YOU. I will say that we’ll always be here as your audience whenever you post. The pursuit of perfection is one we’ll always chase but rarely, if ever, truly achieve. I looked at my mess in my room and felt a moment of defeat. But simply starting in one area at a time and going from there will move things forward. Happy New Year!!!!
Hey, Alex! I have been watching and learning about makeup with you for a while now, but I recently decided to try to interact with you and everyone. One tip that I always do now is hold my blending brushes farther back, and it makes a huge difference. Thank you so much! I also loved your show where you talked about using y'all. I grew up in Chicago, moved to Kentucky with my man, then got married and we graduated from Murray State University together. We moved to Western Colorado (not a lot of jobs in KY in the 1990s,) and lived there for a long time. We moved back to KY about 10 years ago. I said " y'all " and one of my relatives looked at me funny. I replied that since I have lived in KY for so long on and off, that I am allowed. As a Midwestern-Southern-Western-Southern girl who thinks you are extremely cool, I'd like to invite you to say, "y'all " anytime! Thank you for all you do! Lili
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. I appreciate you and I totally understand you want to keep your some of your personal life private. You continue to be you and we all will respect and enjoy your videos. YOU ROCK! 😉💝
Yes, loved this video. Happy to listen to you share and watch you organise makeup 🤩 Also thanks for sharing how hard therapy is! Everyone says it’s good to do but forgets to mention exactly how hard it is to do the work, and keep doing the work regularly 🌸
Yes please, more organizing videos! I like to see the process from people like you who have a million of the same thing and can go "this is for my every day section, this is special/weird section, this is bulk category..." it's also very helpful to see you quickly and easily identify what you're getting rid of. I dwell on things too much. Plus I don't even use it if I can't easily get to it and put it back quickly. I like to see the "boring" bits, like HOW do you store the things, what cups/trays/drawer dividers whatever do you like for what types of things. Mind blowing to even see a dirty vs clean brush cup system, that's pro level status
You really don't need to apologize, take care of yourself, we'll be here! It was such a nice video, I'm now actually motivated to go do some cleaning lol
Thanks for posting this today, Alex! I'm doing some New Year's cleaning, too! I hope you amd your loved ones have a wonderful New Year! 🎉 And I wish everyone here in the comments section a blessed New Year as well! 💖🥳
I LOVE these kind of videos. I always watch you and Bailey Sarian while I’m getting ready so the longer+more ramble-y the videos, the better! You have the most calming energy+I’m just a big ball of anxiety so that helps tons lol I very much appreciate you and the effort you put into makeup+educating us about it!🫶
You absolutely have every right to set your boundaries and only share what you’re comfortable with!! I will say though that I really miss your Alx Tlx videos!!!
Wish you all the best for 2024! Wanted to let you know that you should ALWAYS prioritize your personal life, your personal feelings (above YT) and listen to your heart, follow your intuition. You should never feel guilty or bad about anything and apologies are not needed, not to anyone. You're a beautiful person!
Loved the random chat and can't wait to see what goodies are in that big black bag lol 😆 I'm ready whenever u are ♡♡♡ Much love and appreciate u very much xxx
I listened to this while folding sheets and sweeping up dog hair. I would use an 'organizing your makeup' video as background noise while cleaning. Go for it!
Girl, you are OK. The mere fact that you’re cognisant of your issues tells me that you’ll be fine. Seeking out your own understanding of yourself is what happens to us in our early/mid 30’s. it’s how we grow. The important thing is that you keep being interested in your personal growth so you can live and enjoy the life you’ve chosen. Sending you a giant Aussie hug from a mum with two gorgeous daughters who are the same age group as you are. You be you Alex. And exit the word ‘perfect’ from your vocabulary. It doesn’t exist. 🥰🇦🇺🦘
Hi Alex! I totally relate to what you said about perfectionism. If my house is a mess, I have to clean it before I can relax 😅 You are not alone and at some point we’ll stop giving a f%*$ about those things and decide what’s really important ❤
I LOVED this. I have ADHD and always need body doubling to do organization tasks (unless I'm in a super hyperfocused mode - but that's hit or miss). I opened and shredded 18 months worth of credit card offers, took out trash and recycling, paid a bunch of random bills, and did all kinds of tedious stuff that I never get done. Listening to you talk while I worked was PERFECTION.
Everclear (yes, the alcohol) works great for removing anything with adhesive. Especially stickers, bandages, medical tape residue (and those horrible sticky things at the hospital that they stick to your body that take your EKG). It works for cleaning a lot of things. I keep mine in a spray bottle LoL it works, just try it once & you'll see.
Honeymoon period might be over, but your channel feels like a marriage that only mellows with time and the time spent progressively becomes more comfortable ❤. Even it somehow shows on your videos that you now love your followers more than you did several years back.
I just started watching your videos and I enjoy your creativity but I also admire your honesty. I started reading the book and recommended it to my sister who is struggling due to depression. I developed PTSD and anxiety at the beginning of the pandemic. I just finally started feeling like myself again. I think this book will help me in my healing journey. Thanks again. Oh and I am a sucker for organizing things all the time so I love your video. In fact I was cleaning my bathroom while watching 😂
I know I'm like a week late, but this was exactly what I needed! I spent the whole time cleaning my desk (that I've been putting off FOREVER). Your makeup videos are always awesome, but I definitely wouldn't mind more these organizing chat sessions! Hope your year is off to a great start!
I really appreciated this video and your openness. A lot of your issues you're working through I have the same of and have been trying to work through myself and it is NOT easy. I do want to thank you because a lot of what you said was helpful for me personally. I really enjoy watching your videos and knowing we share the same mental struggles just makes me appreciate them more and connect with you human to human and not as just some social media star flaunting their grand life and how perfect it is but in reality isn't the case, which just attributes to the mental issues most young people have now because of it. Also, hearing someone else talk about holding back when they feel less than how they want to feel like or think they should, for me, is comforting somehow, because it can get really lonely in that headspace and just knowing you're not the only one dealing with that helps in itself, the fact that someone else can relate. That's my ramble. Thank you again for the honesty and I would enjoy more videos like these as well!
I really appreciated this chat. You share a lot and it’s completely reasonable to pull back and protect yourself. It’s basic internet safety! Your therapy journey is very similar to mine as I worked through different adverse experiences in my life coupled with undiagnosed ADHD. The perfectionism, the arbitrary goals that were hindering me… It’s been hard work but work well worth it :) you got this Alex!
I don’t usually comment on your videos but the points about social media and content really spoke to me. I will say the constant negativity is definitely why Ive deleted social medias. It’s so tiring and draining; deleting it definitely has made my mental health better. Im glad Im not the only one who feels that way.
Alex - I’m not one to comment often but truly loved this video and your authenticity. You are so lovable and your personality is adorable. I also think it’s awesome how you want to keep your private life private. You should do that and you owe no one that info. Everyone else may be doing that (maybe too much sharing) but that doesn’t mean you have to. We love you for your makeup skills, your humor and your down to earth realness. This video was super chill hearing your thoughts about therapy and social media. Thanks for being a huge inspiration to so many and wishing you a Happy New Year. God Bless
I am so glad that you have made it possible for me to have you in my life. I love watching your videos because I find you to be a very nice and interesting person so it feels like I'm hanging out with a great friend. It is something that I truly and genuinely appreciate.
OMG, Alex, you are such a boss and this is the exact vibe I need today! Currently crushing it with a winter soul + house decluttering and taking a break to watch you do the same is giving me liiiiiiife. TY!!! 🏖 🔥 🩷 🔥 🏖
LOVED this! Did my nails while watching since I didn’t have to catch every second like I do with the tutorials! More please! Would love to see ALL the makeups!❤
I love these kinds of videos while I'm doing stuff. I was unpacking my suitcase and it felt like hanging with a homie because I could listen and do stuff without having to focus. 10/10 would watch more.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE these types of videos from you. I watched your longer chatting video completely in 1 sitting just doing my nails. But I'm the type of person that loves to listen to podcasts, so I'm the perfect audience for this type of content. I just find your videos so relaxing
Therapy really works for chronical guilt feeling. It really worked for me I think is healthy that you set the boundaries of what you want to share with perfect strangers. I love your content and the kind of good person you are. Happy New Year Alex. I wish you a 2024 full of enthusiasm, creativity and trust in the nice person you are ❤
Alexandra, I loved this video & the long one about George. I know that these are not like vlogs, but you make me feel like we are friends. So keep going. I would love to see you organize that big bag of makeup. And Happy New Year to you all. Hopefully the chaos of 2023 doesn't follow us to much into 2024. 🎉
This video is GENIUS! I absolutely love makeup organizing videos but ones where you can hear all the makeup sounds lol this video had both the makeup sounds as well as your beautiful voice ❤️🥰 I will be watching this a lot just fyi LOL it's so calming
I love this type of video. Sometimes you just need a friend to chat with while your doing a chore. Whether you know it or not, you are often that friend for me. You've helped me redecorate rooms, paint doors, and weed my garden 😀
Thanks for sharing your journey with us 🙏 You never know how you can help someone who is going through the same thing. Thank you for helping us with make up in 2023! May 2024 bring you many Blessings and wisdom! 🙏
I absolutely salute you for your openness about talking about your mental health. I feel taking about this should be normalised as we all have some form of it yet we don't give it the attention that we would with our physical health. Cleaning, tidying etc is in itself very cathartic and therapeutic. We always feel tones better after! I would love to see more videos like this from you as you are so relatable and down to earth. Wishing you a very happy new year! Lots of love 🩷🩷🩷
Love videos like these! Don't feel guilty about not wanting to share things or post too much ... this is your job!! If you worked at a store or in an office you wouldn't be required to share private life details. Social media encourages too much over familiarty tbh everyone is entitled to their private lives. Humans aren't supposed to have their whole lives put on blast in front of hundreds or thousands of people. Take care of yourself first :) Thanks for the vid!
Please feel free to do more video organizing! And also feel free to retreat when you need to. It’s always ok to take care of yourself! Also, I’ve been in therapy for like 10 years now with an AMAZING therapist and it’s incredibly life-changing! I’m proud of you for starting that process! Happy new year! ❤
1. I cleaned out and reorganized our junk drawers earlier this week. Just tossed stuff that had been sitting unused "just in case" for years. It was great to get it done. 2. RIP George. 3. I was wondering if the cats would make an appearance. LOL 4. I will definitely read Radical Acceptance. Thank you for the recommendation. 5. Thank you for all of the content you provide. 6. Happy New Year!
Thank you for sharing what you shared about your therapy journey. It can be draining and it can be super relieving. I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself and finding some help and healing. I think that’s beautiful and strong and vulnerable and powerful. I have sooo much respect for you just as a UA-cam creator and person. I support you!!!!!
LOVE organizational videos. :) You're beautiful, baby. We love you for you. Keep doing you. (Oh, and keep bringing the recs for light olive skin. I'm always desperate for suggestions!)
I really did enjoy this. normally I don't watch these kinds of videos but it was nice to spend time with you in a more personal way. It was nice to hear you talk about what you're doing off camera as a human. I've been putting off therapy myself and maybe now I have the motivation to finally make the call myself.
I can listen to you talk about anything, you are always so honest and relatable. Your content makes me feel normal and relieved in knowing I’m not alone in how I interpret life and my own priorities; we are all not perfect and that’s ok. One day at a time and breath. Thanks for another year of sharing your expertise and unique style. Thanks for being open and transparent in saying what you need to say, I get a good chuckle at times. I look forward to more of your videos and learning about make up tips and all the other general details you offer to us.keep being you. Happy new year!!
Loved this and I feel so relaxed now. Loved the book and podcast recommendations also! I would probably watch a vid like this from you on a regular basis! Happy new year! 💖💞
Therapy is a beautiful thing! Everyone should be in therapy imo 😌. Boundaries are also beautiful; when they're healthy, they make all the difference in the world ✌🏾🥰
Oh how I love watching and listening to you, Alexandra! Wishing you a grand and glorious New Year. To think that my dark under eye circles brought me to such a thoughtful artist. Keep doing you!! ✨💖✨
Started this video as an excuse to clean my makeup brushes. And then while I was cleaning my brushes in the sink, I realized I need to clean our the whole bathroom, which lead me to then mop the floors in my entire house. It was one of those very needed cathartic cleans. All that to say, thank you Alex for cleaning all that nastiness out with me and making me feel super productive. Deeply satisfied and grateful to not take that dust and dirt into the new year. 😆
Ugh those are the BEST cleans, happy to have been part of it ☺️❤️
Please don't feel like you need to apologise for having a private life and not wanting to share everything. You do share a lot! And also who doesn't love a reorganisation video?😊
Happy New Year to you Alex xx
Agree. The prevalence of content creators oversharing is not cool.
Yes, this! We support you, girl and are always grateful for the hard work you put into your content!!!
I have been so into organizing and decluttering videos lately, this is like a dream come true to see you post one. i get sick of hearing a lot of people talk, but it's like chillin with the bros watching your videos 😂
😂 I love them too!
Totally random, but has "bro" become gender neutral, like "you guys" and "dude"? I learned recently than even casual baby boomers are shocked when their Gen X employee (me) says, "duuude, the governor is visiting tomorrow." Apparently he was worried I'd "dude" the governor, too. I assured him I loathe the governor, he'll get no "dude" from me...
Dude yes!
I didn't think I was going to sit through 30 minutes of you cleaning your desk, but it was actually engrossing hearing you speak so openly. 🙏
I am a senior citizen who found you during the pandemic and I think you’re terrific. Keep something of yourself for yourself. You don’t owe any of us anything…other than your terrific videos and take on things. Just sayin’!
An organizing video?!? Heaven! Thank you!!!
I love how you draw boundaries with what you share and don’t. It’s very refreshing. As much as I love hearing your thoughts on things, you are allowed to have your privacy, and I 100% support you in that. Thanks for what you have shared, I’m definitely in the same boat as you in the sense if working with the expectations I have for myself and others. We got this!
No need to apologize. We’re all trying to navigate this crazy world. Thank you for all the amazing content in 2023 and Happy New Year Beautiful! 🎉❤🎉
I cannot agree more with your take on things. We are becoming overwhelmed with too many choices too and personally I feel that I cannot fully concentrate on one thing. I am 58 and thought I was above getting caught up in social media scrolling but I am equally susceptible. I hate New Years resolutions, but one that I have is to not spend so much time on social media or at least just watch the people that I truly enjoy. You are among the people that make my day!
Totally agree, I'm 53 and as I look at my priorities, time scrolling is eating way too much of my time. I've gotten too "into" skincare and makeup and find it just eats too much time. Also overwhelmed by decisions. My son is about to graduate college but is living in town while student teaching, so I'm helping him get his "stuff" for adult life, and how to manage that stuff with the least effort. Trying out very simple versions of capsule wardrobe (not getting "strict" & keeping my larger closet for now), capsule makeup, capsule outerwear even (with 8 months winters, you end up with A LOT of outerwear lol), capsule fridge & meals, the whole 9 yards. Reduce decisions, speed up my daily basics, create time & space to get back into dating and get my biz off the ground. Enjoying a NYE binge before I severely limit my feed to people like Alex, who do not trigger my desire to purchase or acquire constant "new." I've stocked up & set purchase subscriptions so I can limit my shopping effort to fresh food weekly & replacing basics. Hoping that I can stay focused on my priorities!!
Good luck! AND lets not be perfectionists about this, we are aiming for a C minus, a pass, and somedays the best we can do is to be kind to ourselves and try our best again tomorrow@@montananerd8244
Agree 100%. I'm 55, and I used to be waaaayyy more involved, creating for and running 3 facebook pages. I've pulled dramatically back. The trolling and negativity, the rush and demand and constancy of people's expectations... it's all too much.
The mirror tilt...I don't wanna look at myself.....sooooooo relatable 😂😊
Please do a jewel toned Victorian inspired makeup look!
Wishing this wonderful community a very happy new year! I hope 2024 brings you only the best. Also don't forget to like this video!
I’m loving these chatty videos, I can relate to you about retreating, you don’t need to apologise, I feel you have more integrity and I respect you for it ❤
The honeymoon phase of social media is largely over for me, too. The amount of time I put myself out there is dramatically reduced in favor for just being in the moment. I love the declutter videos and would enjoy hearing more about your process for keeping / giving up items in your collection.
I do really love these "chill and talk about random sh*t" videos so I am definitely up for more!
ive been following you for a few years now, and the reason why your audience is so chill is bc you're so chill!! like you're no bs, fun and just very real and thats why you're one of the 2 UA-camrs that I binge watch / keep up with. you're just very real man
16:33 As a kid we had to clean the house on Saturdays and to do a good job, finish, have lunch, then play. That was the 80s and 90s for me. Now, because I don’t want to do it on a Saturday to do it all, I’m more relaxed BUT anxiety creeps up because at times it’s not getting done. Then I’m extremely overwhelmed it’s my internal dialogue that I’m trying to change “just do one room” or “just unload the dishwasher” or “just do two loads of laundry”. I hear you Alex and that you for opening up about this ❤😘🇨🇦
I love these. Organize that huge bag of makeup and bring us along.
No one has a right to your personal life! It’s easy for the crowd watching to forget there are very real boundary lines. It’s not all of us, but there are some who seemingly want to hold hands all day every day with content creators . To me that speaks of deeper issues within themselves. Keep doing what makes you happy in ways you feel safe and comfortable! ❤❤
Started therapy about 10 years ago. You are SO right about finding the right person. Mine has helped me lean into my true self, being more confident & not apologizing for who I am or how I handle things. Type A people pleaser here 🙋♀️
Sometimes I go regularly & then other times I'll go months without & then go in for what I call a "tune up".
Can't recommend it enough! Glad it's working for you...the initial stage can be uncomfortable but worth it in the long run.
Thanks for sharing! 💕
We love you and respect you!!! Take care of you first...therapy can truly help. Sending good vibes to you!!
Yes. Yes. Loved it. I sat and cleaned some brushes while I watched. I have been debating going to therapy. My husband died in 2019, then c#vid hit. Still so down. This was a great talk for me. ❤❤
Ooo I neeeeed to clean TODAY. Been working a lot. The laundry piled up. I allowed myself (finally) to not do much the past two days. Literally needed to rest my eyes because they got swollen, my under eyes even more sunken in and I looked sick. I finally feel more rested. Anyway…
I love this kind of behind the scenes content. It’s real. So genuine. Just share what you feel comfortable sharing. More eyes on you do mean more scrutiny from an audience who wouldn’t really know YOU.
I will say that we’ll always be here as your audience whenever you post. The pursuit of perfection is one we’ll always chase but rarely, if ever, truly achieve. I looked at my mess in my room and felt a moment of defeat. But simply starting in one area at a time and going from there will move things forward.
Happy New Year!!!!
Hey, Alex! I have been watching and learning about makeup with you for a while now, but I recently decided to try to interact with you and everyone. One tip that I always do now is hold my blending brushes farther back, and it makes a huge difference. Thank you so much! I also loved your show where you talked about using y'all. I grew up in Chicago, moved to Kentucky with my man, then got married and we graduated from Murray State University together. We moved to Western Colorado (not a lot of jobs in KY in the 1990s,) and lived there for a long time. We moved back to KY about 10 years ago. I said " y'all " and one of my relatives looked at me funny. I replied that since I have lived in KY for so long on and off, that I am allowed. As a Midwestern-Southern-Western-Southern girl who thinks you are extremely cool, I'd like to invite you to say, "y'all " anytime! Thank you for all you do! Lili
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. I appreciate you and I totally understand you want to keep your some of your personal life private. You continue to be you and we all will respect and enjoy your videos. YOU ROCK! 😉💝
Yes, loved this video. Happy to listen to you share and watch you organise makeup 🤩
Also thanks for sharing how hard therapy is! Everyone says it’s good to do but forgets to mention exactly how hard it is to do the work, and keep doing the work regularly 🌸
Yes please, more organizing videos! I like to see the process from people like you who have a million of the same thing and can go "this is for my every day section, this is special/weird section, this is bulk category..." it's also very helpful to see you quickly and easily identify what you're getting rid of. I dwell on things too much. Plus I don't even use it if I can't easily get to it and put it back quickly. I like to see the "boring" bits, like HOW do you store the things, what cups/trays/drawer dividers whatever do you like for what types of things. Mind blowing to even see a dirty vs clean brush cup system, that's pro level status
I love the boundaries you set for yourself, even though I’m nosey AF too. Don’t feel bad about keeping them.
I am letting you know that I love organizational videos and would love, love, a chit chat organizing makeup video ❤️❤️❤️
please film your organization/ declutterring! this was so good to have on while doing laundry and unpacking from holiday travels 🤎
This is such a great video. I am with you on not wanting to socialize when not feeling 100%. I struggle with that.
You really don't need to apologize, take care of yourself, we'll be here! It was such a nice video, I'm now actually motivated to go do some cleaning lol
Would definitely love to see the makeup organizing video, I've been enjoying these chatty style videos so much.
Thanks for posting this today, Alex! I'm doing some New Year's cleaning, too! I hope you amd your loved ones have a wonderful New Year! 🎉 And I wish everyone here in the comments section a blessed New Year as well! 💖🥳
I LOVE these kind of videos. I always watch you and Bailey Sarian while I’m getting ready so the longer+more ramble-y the videos, the better! You have the most calming energy+I’m just a big ball of anxiety so that helps tons lol I very much appreciate you and the effort you put into makeup+educating us about it!🫶
You absolutely have every right to set your boundaries and only share what you’re comfortable with!! I will say though that I really miss your Alx Tlx videos!!!
Wish you all the best for 2024!
Wanted to let you know that you should ALWAYS prioritize your personal life, your personal feelings (above YT) and listen to your heart, follow your intuition. You should never feel guilty or bad about anything and apologies are not needed, not to anyone. You're a beautiful person!
Loved the random chat and can't wait to see what goodies are in that big black bag lol 😆 I'm ready whenever u are ♡♡♡ Much love and appreciate u very much xxx
Love decluttering/cleaning/organization videos. It’s something I’d like to do myself more often!
I can relate a lot of what you’re experiencing. Keep on marching 😘.
Can’t believe George is gone! RIP
Definitely enjoy a chill clean and chat video. Would love to see and hear more ❤
I listened to this while folding sheets and sweeping up dog hair. I would use an 'organizing your makeup' video as background noise while cleaning. Go for it!
I concur
Girl, you are OK. The mere fact that you’re cognisant of your issues tells me that you’ll be fine. Seeking out your own understanding of yourself is what happens to us in our early/mid 30’s. it’s how we grow. The important thing is that you keep being interested in your personal growth so you can live and enjoy the life you’ve chosen. Sending you a giant Aussie hug from a mum with two gorgeous daughters who are the same age group as you are. You be you Alex. And exit the word ‘perfect’ from your vocabulary. It doesn’t exist. 🥰🇦🇺🦘
Hi Alex! I totally relate to what you said about perfectionism. If my house is a mess, I have to clean it before I can relax 😅 You are not alone and at some point we’ll stop giving a f%*$ about those things and decide what’s really important ❤
I LOVED this. I have ADHD and always need body doubling to do organization tasks (unless I'm in a super hyperfocused mode - but that's hit or miss). I opened and shredded 18 months worth of credit card offers, took out trash and recycling, paid a bunch of random bills, and did all kinds of tedious stuff that I never get done. Listening to you talk while I worked was PERFECTION.
Does she have ADHD as well?
Everclear (yes, the alcohol) works great for removing anything with adhesive. Especially stickers, bandages, medical tape residue (and those horrible sticky things at the hospital that they stick to your body that take your EKG). It works for cleaning a lot of things. I keep mine in a spray bottle LoL it works, just try it once & you'll see.
Honeymoon period might be over, but your channel feels like a marriage that only mellows with time and the time spent progressively becomes more comfortable ❤.
Even it somehow shows on your videos that you now love your followers more than you did several years back.
I just started watching your videos and I enjoy your creativity but I also admire your honesty. I started reading the book and recommended it to my sister who is struggling due to depression. I developed PTSD and anxiety at the beginning of the pandemic. I just finally started feeling like myself again. I think this book will help me in my healing journey. Thanks again. Oh and I am a sucker for organizing things all the time so I love your video. In fact I was cleaning my bathroom while watching 😂
I love cleaning/organization videos. More please! ❤
I know I'm like a week late, but this was exactly what I needed! I spent the whole time cleaning my desk (that I've been putting off FOREVER). Your makeup videos are always awesome, but I definitely wouldn't mind more these organizing chat sessions! Hope your year is off to a great start!
I really appreciated this video and your openness. A lot of your issues you're working through I have the same of and have been trying to work through myself and it is NOT easy. I do want to thank you because a lot of what you said was helpful for me personally. I really enjoy watching your videos and knowing we share the same mental struggles just makes me appreciate them more and connect with you human to human and not as just some social media star flaunting their grand life and how perfect it is but in reality isn't the case, which just attributes to the mental issues most young people have now because of it. Also, hearing someone else talk about holding back when they feel less than how they want to feel like or think they should, for me, is comforting somehow, because it can get really lonely in that headspace and just knowing you're not the only one dealing with that helps in itself, the fact that someone else can relate. That's my ramble. Thank you again for the honesty and I would enjoy more videos like these as well!
I would love to love to watch you organize your new makeup while chatting with us. ❤❤❤❤
I really appreciated this chat. You share a lot and it’s completely reasonable to pull back and protect yourself. It’s basic internet safety!
Your therapy journey is very similar to mine as I worked through different adverse experiences in my life coupled with undiagnosed ADHD. The perfectionism, the arbitrary goals that were hindering me…
It’s been hard work but work well worth it :) you got this Alex!
I like ur chatty videos lol. Happy to see u thriving n sharing things that have worked or is working for u. Happy New Year 🎉
What a perfect time to do this! End of the year. Clean work area, organize, refresh your work space and your mind.
I don’t usually comment on your videos but the points about social media and content really spoke to me. I will say the constant negativity is definitely why Ive deleted social medias. It’s so tiring and draining; deleting it definitely has made my mental health better. Im glad Im not the only one who feels that way.
Alex - I’m not one to comment often but truly loved this video and your authenticity. You are so lovable and your personality is adorable. I also think it’s awesome how you want to keep your private life private. You should do that and you owe no one that info. Everyone else may be doing that (maybe too much sharing) but that doesn’t mean you have to. We love you for your makeup skills, your humor and your down to earth realness. This video was super chill hearing your thoughts about therapy and social media. Thanks for being a huge inspiration to so many and wishing you a Happy New Year. God Bless
Happy & healthy New Year!! Many blessings for a year full of love, laughter and joy!!!🎊🎉🍾💖💖🙏🙏
Happy New Year’s! Yes please to the organizing and random chats video!
i like this type of video because i basically use it as a podcast when i’m doing choices
I am so glad that you have made it possible for me to have you in my life. I love watching your videos because I find you to be a very nice and interesting person so it feels like I'm hanging out with a great friend. It is something that I truly and genuinely appreciate.
OMG, Alex, you are such a boss and this is the exact vibe I need today! Currently crushing it with a winter soul + house decluttering and taking a break to watch you do the same is giving me liiiiiiife. TY!!! 🏖 🔥 🩷 🔥 🏖
Glad we could clean together! 🩷🩷🩷
LOVED this! Did my nails while watching since I didn’t have to catch every second like I do with the tutorials! More please! Would love to see ALL the makeups!❤
Plssss do more of these 😍 love organizing/cleaning videos and with makeup it’s even more fun
I love these kinds of videos while I'm doing stuff. I was unpacking my suitcase and it felt like hanging with a homie because I could listen and do stuff without having to focus. 10/10 would watch more.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE these types of videos from you. I watched your longer chatting video completely in 1 sitting just doing my nails. But I'm the type of person that loves to listen to podcasts, so I'm the perfect audience for this type of content. I just find your videos so relaxing
Therapy really works for chronical guilt feeling.
It really worked for me
I think is healthy that you set the boundaries of what you want to share with perfect strangers.
I love your content and the kind of good person you are.
Happy New Year Alex. I wish you a 2024 full of enthusiasm, creativity and trust in the nice person you are ❤
Love these chatty videos... Hearing your thoughts on mental health, the book recommendation, all of it!!
Alexandra, I loved this video & the long one about George. I know that these are not like vlogs, but you make me feel like we are friends. So keep going. I would love to see you organize that big bag of makeup. And Happy New Year to you all. Hopefully the chaos of 2023 doesn't follow us to much into 2024. 🎉
I do love a declutter/organising video. X
This video is GENIUS! I absolutely love makeup organizing videos but ones where you can hear all the makeup sounds lol this video had both the makeup sounds as well as your beautiful voice ❤️🥰 I will be watching this a lot just fyi LOL it's so calming
I love makeup organization videos they are sooo soothing please do one if you feel like it, I always loooove your content
Happy New Year Alex!!! Thanks for making our life more beautiful all year long!!!!🎉🎉🎉❤
Love this kind of videos. And I like to clean and organize my place before the new year starts ❣️❣️❣️🥳
This resonates with me so much and you put it into words perfectly. Thank you
Love this style of video to put on in the background while I do stuff I’ve been putting off doing
I love this type of video. Sometimes you just need a friend to chat with while your doing a chore. Whether you know it or not, you are often that friend for me. You've helped me redecorate rooms, paint doors, and weed my garden 😀
I relate so much to what you were talking about. I enjoyed this content. I love decluttering videos too.
Lived it. Doing same b4 a move...50 minute videos are fine with me ❤
Loved this and respect you. I’m 59 and so appreciate your videos as I’m late to the makeup game 😍
Thanks for sharing your journey with us 🙏
You never know how you can help someone who is going through the same thing.
Thank you for helping us with make up in 2023!
May 2024 bring you many Blessings and wisdom! 🙏
This is one of the best videos ever! So thoughtful and self-reflective, I paid attention to every word while painting my nails ♥️
I absolutely salute you for your openness about talking about your mental health. I feel taking about this should be normalised as we all have some form of it yet we don't give it the attention that we would with our physical health. Cleaning, tidying etc is in itself very cathartic and therapeutic. We always feel tones better after! I would love to see more videos like this from you as you are so relatable and down to earth. Wishing you a very happy new year! Lots of love 🩷🩷🩷
Would love to see how you organize it all next. Also, I wish I looked that glam while cleaning!
Love videos like these! Don't feel guilty about not wanting to share things or post too much ... this is your job!! If you worked at a store or in an office you wouldn't be required to share private life details. Social media encourages too much over familiarty tbh everyone is entitled to their private lives. Humans aren't supposed to have their whole lives put on blast in front of hundreds or thousands of people. Take care of yourself first :) Thanks for the vid!
Please feel free to do more video organizing! And also feel free to retreat when you need to. It’s always ok to take care of yourself! Also, I’ve been in therapy for like 10 years now with an AMAZING therapist and it’s incredibly life-changing! I’m proud of you for starting that process! Happy new year! ❤
1. I cleaned out and reorganized our junk drawers earlier this week. Just tossed stuff that had been sitting unused "just in case" for years. It was great to get it done.
2. RIP George.
3. I was wondering if the cats would make an appearance. LOL
4. I will definitely read Radical Acceptance. Thank you for the recommendation.
5. Thank you for all of the content you provide.
6. Happy New Year!
Thank you for sharing what you shared about your therapy journey. It can be draining and it can be super relieving. I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself and finding some help and healing. I think that’s beautiful and strong and vulnerable and powerful. I have sooo much respect for you just as a UA-cam creator and person. I support you!!!!!
I’ve been organizing since thanksgiving I’d love to see more and happy new year🎉
LOVE organizational videos. :) You're beautiful, baby. We love you for you. Keep doing you. (Oh, and keep bringing the recs for light olive skin. I'm always desperate for suggestions!)
Its always nice watching your videos, and this one u really enjoyed. Please yes, i'd love to see more like this one. Happy New Year. 💜
I really did enjoy this. normally I don't watch these kinds of videos but it was nice to spend time with you in a more personal way. It was nice to hear you talk about what you're doing off camera as a human. I've been putting off therapy myself and maybe now I have the motivation to finally make the call myself.
I can listen to you talk about anything, you are always so honest and relatable. Your content makes me feel normal and relieved in knowing I’m not alone in how I interpret life and my own priorities; we are all not perfect and that’s ok. One day at a time and breath. Thanks for another year of sharing your expertise and unique style. Thanks for being open and transparent in saying what you need to say, I get a good chuckle at times. I look forward to more of your videos and learning about make up tips and all the other general details you offer to us.keep being you. Happy new year!!
Loved this and I feel so relaxed now. Loved the book and podcast recommendations also! I would probably watch a vid like this from you on a regular basis! Happy new year! 💖💞
Yes to more chatty organization content! 😁
Therapy is a beautiful thing! Everyone should be in therapy imo 😌. Boundaries are also beautiful; when they're healthy, they make all the difference in the world ✌🏾🥰
Hi Alex I enjoyed watching and listening to you talk about stuff
i’m watching this while cleaning my own apartment 😂 thank you for this alex, perfect timing🤍
Oh how I love watching and listening to you, Alexandra! Wishing you a grand and glorious New Year. To think that my dark under eye circles brought me to such a thoughtful artist. Keep doing you!! ✨💖✨
Loved this video, would totally watch any length of video of you organising your makeup!