You are likely produce a criminal if you decide to have a child so please, do not have a child. The world does not need your child. There should be a law to prevent people who think like you to have children
Why doesn't he mind his own business and find a woman who wants to have babies? It's very simple. I don't understand people who complain about things that don't affect them directly. 🤷
I agree with both. HOWEVER, the ONLY way to have a child, is.... 1. Under the tutelage of Marriage or some form of forever agreement..And, yes, I said FOREVER! 2. ONLY if that woman WANTS them. There is NOTHING WORST than a mother that doesn't want the child. That child will have ALL KINDS OF ISSUES & children don't forget. Remember these things
I've felt the same way since elementary school. Being a parent is not for everyone. My mother will never be a grandmother because my father passed away when I was only two years old. Like myself he was an only child too. I like children, but being a mother is not for me.
They always want to threaten you w/ age, “Well, you’ll be FORTY ONE DAY!!!” 😒🙄 I’m 40 _now,_ and I’m quite content w/ never having had stitches in my cooter or throw up in my hair.
@@attitudeproblem6462 I'll be 40 next year and I am too happy to be childfree. I know I could never take on the responsibility of motherhood. I am just not mentally/emotionally equipped for the job.
Notice the young man in the Tiktok video NEVER mention that he wants to become a parent himself… but instead he projected that women are lying and are selfish for not wanting to become a mother. I heard what he’s not saying 🤨😩.
He comes across as very scared that men are becoming obsolete which will never be the case as we need both women and men. He needs to wisen up to this fact.
My main reason for not wanting children is because of how the men act before, during, and after the act. It's my worst nightmare having to deal with that. So I didn't, and I wake up in euphoria every day free of the worry.
Men need to SHUT UP on child free women. How dare you say anything about it, Mr. Run away father, your not doing anything to help raise your kids Mr, " I don't want to pay child support." Shut up and be quiet.
Same here. I was 10 years old when my 20 yr old brother got his girlfriend pregnant and just seeing hat she went through and how he cheated on her and so cavalierly treated the whole ordeal made me realize I never want to tie myself to a man in that way ever.
Men are scared of losing power over women. That is the root of most of our anger with women. It's hard enough to get a woman, but ot would be even harder if we can't keep them in a situation where they "need" us. Yeah, that is scaring us to death, and so we get these men deciding where a woman's place is, or making goofy videos about how a woman can't change a tire or install a washing machine. Or blaming women for not wanting to have children. But if men had made a world that was kinder to women, they probably wouldn't feel the way they do. Because women do not really feel safe, and having a child makes them even less safe. Makes them less mobile and flexible to make moves to secure their futures, and they damn sure can't depend on us. We are desperate to not share a penny with a woman. Women are doing self preservation and all of this is our fault.
@@BashaerB-h2c Exactly this. Wanting someone is much more sustainable in a relationship than needing them. But men like this know that “needing them” means they can abuse us and we won’t be able to leave, and that’s what most of them want. A woman who cannot leave.
@@IllObserveAndReport I think it sucks to be pretty much any of these guys crying about women in these threads. In my life I have never had problems with women, probably because I treat all of them with respect. Never had a reason to hate women or cry about them.
I am too. Having children is not for everyone. If a man said he didn't want to ever be a father, no one would have an issue with it. However, when a woman doesn't want to be a parent, then it's a problem.
Men get very upset when they hear women say that they don't want to get married or have children. Those are the only bargaining chips they have to hold over a woman head. You take that off the table, watch how frantic they become.
They know it’s only because of women’s labor that living in this world is bearable sometimes, but they refuse to compensate women for their work, though it is worth trillions. Because women care, we fill the ranks of nursing, childcare, social work, and teaching. We make houses homes and childhoods “magical”. We do the bulk of volunteering and the unpaid labor at churches. If women one day decided to act like men, and refuse to do all of that, then what’s left is just the world of violence, greed, and cruelty that is the realm of men.
These men are telling women they should have children yet don’t want to hang around to raise them. These are the same guys who dump and dive then say “you should have chosen better.”
I have 4 children, and I WHOLEHEARTEDLY support the childfree movement!!! Young women, don't give up your body and freedom, and peace, and money, and time if you are not absolutely certain you want to because it never ends!!! Never! Then those kids have kids, and unless you move out of town, you're going to be involved in parenting them to some degree. Enjoy your lives! Do all the things! Get all the sleep! Go on all the trips! Wear all the bikinis! Have all the fun! Accomplish all the goals! There are plenty of life affirming things you can do to leave a legacy without having children.
Thank you ❤️❤️ (I’m still deciding myself because it would be nice and id be a amazing mother but in this financial economy plus me being disabled plus the lack of good men, etc. it’s looking highly unlikely.) Theres allot I have going on for myself and things I want to do to better the world so I’ll still have a “legacy” without having children. ❤️
All men should not be Soldiers. Just being male alone doesn't mean you'll make a good soldier or athlete at that. Just being a female alone doesn't mean you need to have kids. Some people must walk a different path in life.♥️
I have observed men in their 30s telling women their own age that they’ve decided to wait to have children. They’ll wait until they’re 40 or 50 and then they’ll go marry somebody younger. The problem is, now you see a lot of 40 and 50 year old men who are quite shocked that they can’t find a 20 or 30 year old to have kids with. They never took into consideration that maybe a 20 year old woman isn’t interested in a 50 year old guy.
Yup, globally, women are attending school and college at a much higher pace than men are, while men are actually dropping out at higher rates. This also means, that because of this, more women are obtaining education and better jobs, hence why so many passport bros have been in for a rude ass awakening when the women they think are uneducated, house-maids who'll sleep with them whenever, are far more educated than they realized and know exactly what their game is and either play them right back, or reject them altogether. Men are terrified of us.
Preach!!!! The patriarchy has failed men. They thought women between 18 to 38 would desire them when they are past 48 or 50. This is a new Era. Women are out earning men and de centering men.
I 😂think that these men are mad and offended that y’all choosing not to be attached to them. Y’all are literally free as a bird. And that infuriates be them that your out here free and dominating in life. Without needing help. Ashanti look 😍 good as hell at 40
Exactly. Its so surprising that men (the gender who abandons the child) talks so much about women not wanting children. They never shu*t their traps because men become fathers without shedding a single drop of blood or their flesh getting torn. Once that child is here, no one expects them (including themselves) to work hard to bring up that child. No male is under the same kind of pressure that the mother is in. So basically the creation of that child is easy plus no need to do anything for that child. Another aspect which is interesting is, m3n are the biggest threat to children and women. Every woman is more likely to d*ie at the hands of the man she is with rather than a stranger. The number one cause of death of pregnant women is murder at the hands of the father of her child. It is not even medical complications as one might expect. Starting from pae*dos, to viol*ence to what not, it is always them who are the biggest danger to the children and women. My opinion is, they need children to be able to extract work from a woman. How else will they be able to t*ie down many women at the same time? And finally they get to nag one woman incessantly for s3x, his food, his laundry, to clean his toi*let and what not? Children are used as a means of control.
It is so obvious that this black guy in this video. He just wants to see that curse keep going on with other black women. Having 6 to maybe 10 kids with no help. No financial help from other folks. He basically wants to continue to see other black women suffer, be literally stressed out! He wants the bad curses to continue with other black women. This black dude does not care if the babies life go completely wrong ! Christine chastity lampkin. 😖😖😖😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Girl I know that's right my son was so big in comparison to me when I had him I had to have one and girl it painful and then when they start to heal it was itchy Lord have mercy I commend any woman who doesn't want to have kids because I didn't I just so happen to got pregnant and decided I'm going to be the best damn mother and raise the best damn kids and you know what I did that
I never had an episiotomy in the four births I've given but I could definitely feel my own vagina on the inside ripping and it HURTS!!! And I also felt them putting a needle into my vagina skin while sewing it back up regardless of the anesthesia they gave me, yeah, it didn't work😂😂😂
I knew when I was seven years old I didn't want kids I knew when I was 20 years old I didn't want kids I knew when I was 30 years old I didn't want kids I knew when I was 40 years old I didn't want kids I'm 58 now I still don't want kids. If you know yourself which is the purpose of life is to know oneself you should be able to answer this question for yourself.
Many men have a narrow scope of things and don’t understand anything outside of it. That is why many struggle with interpersonal relationships/communication and neglect their mental and psychological health until it’s nearly too late. *Unhealthy.* When women are weighing out the cost of motherhood, there is usually an analysis of various factors to come to final decisions of whether they/we want to or not. That guy has limited understanding.
Yea cause males haven't even built places for mothers to feed a freakin baby. Males refuse to understand what's really needed. They are in charge but they don't have women's best interests at heart and that's why birth numbers are goin down 🤔.
As a woman with children, I am NOT offended. The decision to have a child is a grave decision which should be taken seriously. Those who have chosen not to, more power to you!
Yes, exactly. I’m a mom and I know all too well the amount of intense sacrifice it takes. I completely understand if someone does not want to make those sacrifices. You can be a wonderful person and even love children, but just make the choice that you do not wish to raise children yourself.
41 and I'm already full with 42 sicilian manchild but his own mama takes care of him I only dating him and I see no bio baby in the future when ever I feel like it I baby-sit and get my fix then left the problem to the parents. I can be press by nothing but my own need hopes and dreams
Not having kids IS NOT SELFISH. Bringing children into this world just bcc you want one is “SELFISH”. -- Look at the condition of this world 🌎! The world is Sick 🤢 !
My mom was a selfish mom and admitted it on her death bed. She admitted she shouldn’t have been a mother. She chose to leave this earth and leave us behind.
@@Sky-yh3mlfacts, the Patriarchal Order went around the world raping and killing women forcing them to submit to being sex slaves, maid servants and baby bearers aka the kitchen and the bedroom aka compete and fight over and for stud horses/sexual predators.
Honestly I believe majority of the men that talk down on child free women stems from us women having to be attached to a man in any way shape or form. No matter the accomplishment a woman makes she is never celebrated as big in life unless it involves a man. She can graduate with a doctorate and people will be like “Congratulations, yet when are you going to find a husband?” She could find a cure for cancer and people would be like “That’s cool and all yet when are you going to settle down with a man and have kids?” All around the world a woman’s greatest accomplishment is being attached to a man. Even though they men say they “hate single mothers” and refuse to date them; they rather have a physical result of a man being in a woman’s life than not. We live in a male centered-identified world and pregnancy is caused by men therefore in their minds if a woman doesn’t want to bring life into the world they see it as a threat because that woman does not want to be physically attached to a man. Majority of men believe us women’s lives must revolve around them and by us not doing what we’re “suppose” to do as women threatens their whole idea of the 5 W’s of a woman’s existence.
Exactly. Its so surprising that men (the gender who abandons the child) talks so much about women not wanting children. They never shu*t their traps because men become fathers without shedding a single drop of blood or their flesh getting torn. Once that child is here, no one expects them (including themselves) to work hard to bring up that child. No male is under the same kind of pressure that the mother is in. So basically the creation of that child is easy plus no need to do anything for that child. Another aspect which is interesting is, m3n are the biggest threat to children and women. Every woman is more likely to d*ie at the hands of the man she is with rather than a stranger. The number one cause of death of pregnant women is murder at the hands of the father of her child. It is not even medical complications as one might expect. Starting from pae*dos, to viol*ence to what not, it is always them who are the biggest danger to the children and women. My opinion is, they need children to be able to extract work from a woman. How else will they be able to t*ie down many women at the same time? And finally they get to nag one woman incessantly for s3x, his food, his laundry, to clean his toi*let and what not? Children are used as a means of control.
Of course a man would say that. I had a guy tell me he wanted 13 children. He wouldn’t even want to make children with me after the first 2 or 3. They aren’t having their bodies torn to shreds and being cut up and having extremely traumatic experiences. They don’t have to deal with embarrassing invasive appointments with doctors or during birth with a ton of people looking at your vagina during your most vulnerable moments.not even mentioning carrying a child for months. Potentially having your abdominal muscles separate, having a prolapsed vagina bladder or rectum. Peeing yourself constantly. Being made fun of for being emotional. We aren’t fucking birthing machines
I’m going to give y’all the game on pregnancy. These books and tv shows talking about the pregnancy glow etc are full of shit. Being pregnant and giving birth is a traumatic experience. It’s a near death experience that you will never be the same afterwards. It’s not nice, it’s not fun and there isn’t any glow. It can absolutely cause fear and PTSD. Do not do it unless you are uninfluenced and sure it is what you want to do. It was a trauma in and of itself to realize this sanitized and romanticized view of pregnancy and child birth was not real. You do not forgot the pain and trauma once the baby is in your arms.
Thank you for saying this. Mother of 3 children. There is 10yrs between my first child and second. My first delivery was traumatic!! Pushing for 3hours because baby turned slightly and ended up needed forceps to pull her out of my body. Literally dr pulling with his body weight. After delivery it was months of my torn up bottom to heal. After that I was done. It took 10yrs to get the strength to go through it all again.
I have no children and don't want them. I saw the miracle of birth the video and absolutely decided right then it is not for me. Pregnancy looks absolutely awful and exhausting in every way. Not being able to sleep, the swelling of body parts, being that big, can't see your feet, needing to constantly pee, gestational diabetes, heart burb etc looks terrible. Then the actual act of giving birth... absolutely not. I'm glad you have aknowledged it's a struggle because so many act like it's all sunshine and rainbows
That's what's happening! You got Andrew Tate (GAY!) Myron Gaines (GAY!) Kevin Samuels (GAY!) Rollo Tomassi (almost certainly GAY!) all advising STRAIGHT men about WOMEN! It sure is starting to look like an ORGANIZED CONSPIRACY against women: the gays have even announced openly they are "coming for the kids", then a WAVE of GAY "male influencers, and a WAVE of autogynephiles insisting they have the right to trample all over REAL women's rights... it's probably because of this that women are no longer interested in having children! In nature the females simply do not "come into season" when conditions are not suitable for offspring; I believe the same to be true with women nowadays. Men are becoming more and more EVIL and CORRUPT and DEGENERATE every day, and so women are, quite naturally, losing interest in "breeding"
How does he know that everyone’s mother gave motherly love?? What makes him think that some people didn’t come up abused, neglected, and abandoned? Children have been murdered by their parents. How is a man going to tell a woman how she will feel at age 40?
That was my childhood. Infact my father was my main torturer for 16 yrs of my life. No one has no right to dictate how a women feels or tell her what she SHOULD want, mens past and current behavior says your still not up to the task to give us any advice. We will take over from here thank you.
Yall notice men never try to shame men for not wanting kids? This is all about control. They say women with kids have low value and men will choose child free women. They say this to lower moms' self esteem so theyre more willing to deal with any type man or put up with anything out of desperation. Then they'll also encourage child free to have children just so they can tell them the things they do single moms. They believe its a good way to control women and lower their self esteem.
I’m in my mid 30s and the urge for wanting kids lessen as I witness more and more women speak up on their issues. Booking my next trip and feeling unbothered 💅🏿🤸🏾♀️🍹🌴🥥🍸
This just shows how much more introspective and emotionally intelligent women are than men. Look at this world- which is controlled by the global patriarchy- it’s trash. Why would anyone willing put an innocent child into that Edit: Bro 40 is when you can really live your life
They are trying so hard to not go extinct 😂 bully women to having children with shame tactics and finding any technological where they can have babies without women and they can’t fighter it out 😂
Stay free ladies. That's what they really don't like, the idea that you can be free of them and that pack that they want to attach to your back and not help with. They know if they couldn't fool a woman to have children with them she'd have absolutely nothing to do with him in the future.
Dudes like this don't even realize how they're proving the point of why more and more women don't want children. Who wants children with a man like that? smdh
How do men think they know about or can anticipate a 40 year old woman needs? They can’t even anticipate the needs of the their girlfriends and wives in their own age group! I’m tired of these demons uploading videos to the internet 🤡
I haven’t really met any moms actually happy to have kids. They love and provide and care for them because that’s their kids and they’re morally and legally obliged to but usually they would do it the other way if they could. I talk to so many moms that envy us because we can just go wherever we want and when no paying babysitters, paying daycares, etc.
I love all of my children, but once you have children, you can't put yourself first very often. And as a single mother, almost never. And while I love each and every milestones my children reach, they are often after conflict, trial, and sacrifice. When you are child free, you can choose joy in your own time.
It comes straight from that alpha male, red pill and manosphere talk. All men from all those groups think they are entitled to women’s bodies and what women do with their lives. As a woman, i have to live in my body and deal with it 24/7, not you, not him and not that person over there, I DO. I’m so sick of people who don’t have to live my life and in my body trying to tell me the decisions i do with it and for it are poor and selfish.
I had three sons with my now ex-husband. I have never and will never pressure my sons to have children. My eldest has been with his fiancé for over 10 years. She has decided she never wants to have kids. He supports her decision because he loves _her_. He said if they were financially set he wouldn’t mind having a child, but he said ultimately it’s her choice and if she never wants kids then they will never have kids. I’m so proud of them!
I work at a high school & I have told a numerous amount of students especially graduating seniors to not have kids. They have a whole life ahead of them discover themselves in a world that makes young adults feel uncertain about themselves.
@@CS-zq7qn My 29 year old adult son and his equally adult 30 year old fiancée will do what they feel is best for them. I support whatever they decide because I respect them
Male offspring are programmed to be stud horses and play play play aka papa was a rolling stone wherever he laid his hat was his home aka stud horses/sexual predators.
I laughed when he said by the time we women are in our 40s we are gonna want kids. Well I'm 46 and guess what I'm still to this day not desperate for a child. And I'm not miserable being a childless 46 year old woman and I'm just 4 years away from 50.
Women like you are hopeless...he is right all along that you will want kids when you're 40. You've been 39 for the past 7 years so that's why you don't regret it yet 😂
Why are men telling women what they would want? Speak to men who are not talking the care of their responsibilities which is making women not want to procreate with them. You men can walk away at anytime so don’t tell me nothing about women not wanting children.
I love how all these so called men think child free women care about their opinions. 😂 It’s easy to get mad about something you don’t have to worry about going through when you have no choice in the matter.
@@barrierouse Yikes! Its called having dialogue about a topic of discussion. But if it helps you sleep better at night to convince yourself of that, then oh well 🤷
@@lotusflower2315don't forget, the person who tempted Eve in the garden was a male, Satan himself. Even in biblical times, they couldn't leave women alone.
I have a kid, love her to death, and have no regrets. MY choice. I also LOVE that women are setting boundaries and going after what THEY want, which is to be child free! Women must have options! You don't have to have kids for WHATEVER reason. You shouldn't have to explain yourselves! I love this movement and fully support you ALL ❤️❤️❤️ It makes me so angry when people (men or women) tell women what to do with their bodies!
İ have a son and i love my child to death i thank God for blessing me with my little angel but the truth is if i didn't have him i would never have kids it's hard it takes everything from you as a mother so please women if you don't want to have kids be proud of yourself because even us who have kids we cry and feel like we have failed to bring our seeds in this messed up world
Say it again I have 3 wonderful son and it’s been a blessing two grown and I thank God even more for my youngest which is almost 10 in two weeks my mom died after he was born and I needed him The Most High knew exactly what he was doing when he gave me my youngest because I didn’t think I was going to make it when my mom died
If women want to be child free,let them. No one says anything when a man doesn't want kids. Who's going to be around to help her with those kids? Nobody. The village is gone and women know it.
Such a good way to put it about the village being gone. We don't have "community" anymore or know what it is. We just see each other as obstacles or ways to make money. Society is sick and empathy is looked down on, people sit around hoping for a trespasser just so they can get a chance to use their gun... Why would any woman want to have kids when kids keep getting shot just playing tag in a neighborhood!? When I was a kid we didn't have to worry about that!
The man obviously has never taken care of any kids before to have this kind of mindset. If he did, he would surely get an idea of how very difficult it is. Babysitting itself is already challenging enough, it requires a lot of patience, a lot of energy, a lot of skills that requires cleaning, cooking, etc. It's easy for him to say all of that but he's got nothing to back him up. I wouldn't take any of what men who can't produce offspring in their body and what they have to say seriously. There's also this one saying that's still true to this day. "Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children." Lastly, if you're over 40 and you still want children, adoption is always an option to consider, but also should be considered carefully and seriously.
So true. I have been babysitting most of my childhood and is one of the reason why I am childfree. While my brother barely babysits and wants to have children lol. I tried to warn him and refuses to listen.
He’s not a man. He’s a child. Doesn’t look a day over 19 or 20. He literally has no idea what he’s talking about and hasn’t been in this world long enough nor is he the appropriate gender to even judge what a women should to with her body. 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah the only problem with this comment is I'm almost certain that man has no intention of taking care of his kids. He's probably going to expect his wife to do all the work. I hope he never gets the opportunity to ruin a woman's life like that.
I’ll be 40 in December and I don’t regret anything being Childfree. Don’t want kids, known it from age 11. I was told, it’s a phase, you’ll change your mind, all the dumb ass excuses. Im so happy I don’t have them.
Was getting that old, tired, "you'll change your mind" trash into my 40s. Now that Im in my 50s and that line's expired, its"dont you regret not having kids??" or " how come you didnt want kids?" People are so uncomfortable with the idea of some women having zero interest in breeding, they cannot accept it. It never stops. Ive started saying back "why did you have them?" Usually shuts its down, and their look of stunned bewilderment is priceless🤣
Does he even know the woman's circumstances as to why they dont have kids? Do you know how wratched it is when you have family members act like theres something wrong with a woman if she doesn't have kids? I wish folks would seriously lay off women!
I remember when I had the “baby think it over” for class in middle school. That baby cried so much…I knew then that I didn’t want kids lol. At 35, I stand by that…especially as I sit on the plane headed somewhere I decided to book on the spot. I love this child-free life lol.
They gave us one of those babies for our domestic economy class, it definitely deterred me from having kids too early… Fun fact: 3 of the girls ended up “killing” the poor thing.
Does that man actually think our mothers, grandmothers etc actually wanted kids? We didn’t have the choice. Now we have the choice. We choose to be happy and free.
They can't be stud horses with out women... male offspring are programmed to be stud horses and play play play aka papa was a rolling stone wherever he laid his hat was his home aka stud horses/sexual predators.
Why don’t men do what nature and patriarchy tells them as men to do “PROVIDE AND PROTECT”. What’s wrong with these men? There’s something wrong with you if you can’t do these things as a man. Their grandfathers, fathers and uncles provided and protected.
Nature does not make men protect and provide. Women do. They literally protect their children inside their womb with their bodies. They provide all the nutrients by supplying their own calcium from their teeth and bones. They nearly die giving birth. Then they have food in their breasts. Men don't "provide" naturally. They only do work when they claim ownership over something. A woman will help children who aren't her own. Women will team up to help women in abusive situations. Hell women even give wisdom to men and listen to their problems. Men are protecting women from who? Men. So if we need to be protected FROM men, how are they naturally protectors. They should all be busy protecting us all but a good amount see us as prey
Men only protect and provide for themselves. In reality men are the biggest predators/danger to the world. Even a lot of their grandfathers and fathers never provided and protected. A lot of them just abused and abandoned. If men aren't destroying the world, they're usually just destroying the people around them.
you mean the like men in Ukraine that are protecting there county, while the woman left and ,the first think they didi was join tinder,in poland. The Patriarchy is pure cope for women, everything you see around you is built by men, hard working men,if you were attacked tonight a man would defend, so stop talking nonsense. Their grandfathers, fathers and uncles provided and protected. but there woman were 304s
@@barrierouseAnytime a man like you speaks his BS, it just makes women want less & less to deal with y’all. You don’t even realize it but ur exactly the kind of man we don’t want.
@@barrierouse Thank you for exactly proving the point. You wouldn't provide for or protect women, because you hate them. You, and your opinions, are literally worthless to women!
Yeah, my mom probably shouldn’t have had kids. She didn’t know what she was doing and just ended up creating more traumatized people in the world.🤷🏾♀️
we did not ask to be here.... you know it is the men who would run away from the responsibility of being a father that keep having such opinions . let women be and do what they want . it is their lives the F
56 here. Never wanted kids, never wanted to be pregnant, never wanted that responsibility. I was fortunate enough to marry a man who also never wanted kids and we just celebrated 28 wonderful years of CF marriage. No regrets!
I never asked to be born. If i had a choice, i would have opted out of being born. Thus, I refuse to have children because life on this earth is horrible!
My mom had me in her 30s because my dad pregnancy trapped her in a very secretive and conniving way. My older sibling was a product of assault, and my younger sibling was also a pregnancy trap with grooming involved. My mom is in her 60s, and since I was a child she would tell me she never wanted to have kids, her life would be so much better without kids, her personality and lifestyle are not meant to be with kids. She has always said "I HATE KIDS". I am almost 30 now and my mom gets agitated by children just as easily now in her 60s, as she did in her younger years. Men need to stop trying to convince us that we want to have kids. I agree with the woman who said "you only care about how a woman having your kids makes you feel as a man." It all comes down to most men just being self-centered and only thinking with their egos and third legs.
Wow, I hope you have been afford the opportunity to unpack any trauma from that💜. These are the stories that need to be told. There are a lot of women who resent the fact they had children. But some weren’t like your mother, some blatantly had them to be found pleasing. Then the man treated them horribly.
No man should never and will never have the right to tell a woman who does not want children that she should, that's women also. Keep opinions to yourself not everyone wants a little crumb snatcher running around stressing your ass out mentally, physically and financially,but you love those little critters when you have them. Child free ,more power to you enjoy life to the fullest.❤❤❤️❤️
Child free women are looking at the risks and disadvantages of having children. Basically men can walk away from the responsibility of children. A lot of women are seeing that men are treating women worse nowadays. The juice ain't worth squeeze..a lot of marriages are miserable. Women are actually happier without the added work that men place on them. If there aren't a lot of healthy relationships going on then of course women will opt out on having kids. Being child free is peaceful. What sounds good about working yourself to death a work and at home?
@@PeanutButtaCookie1193 Stop playing the victim narrative. There are billions of good men and women if you’ve made a shitty choice of men that’s down to you. Own it. All you need to do is look at birth rates in 1st and 2nd world countries and you should start to get worried.
TF?! I don't want any children. Who the HELL is this man to tell someone what THEY want... and their adamant denial is a lie!?!? Throw this man 60,000 leagues under the sea.
Suffer for 9 months and tear up my body to bring another black child here to suffer in this society as another wage slave and/or police target. Not to mention if the child is a girl, the myriad ways she will be in danger from her own people. Let me think about that. 🤔 NOPE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I got reminded of the story where a man ilegally tricked his gf into becoming pregnant. Then harassed her into keeping it. And when she agreed, but claimed she'd do NOTHING with the kid, he eagerly agreed. As he 100% thought "she'll change her mind!". And after the birth, he was throwing a hissy fit and trying to shame her for "abandoning her kid", when she stuck to her part of the deal and wasn't involved. And screamed at her how he couldn't sleep at night, and how expensive it was. Men are VERY angry when having to be responsible for their actions... heck, recall another story where a man was a useless deadbeat and paid no support, did nothing, just empty promises. Then LOST HIS CHEESE when she simply gave the baby up for adoption after a few weeks. They REALLY don't like when women have an inch of freedom. It's VERY telling how they just want to "punish" and control women.
Typical Patriarchal Order/male mindset... male offspring are programmed to be stud horses and play play play aka papa was a rolling stone wherever he laid his hat was his home aka stud horses/sexual predators.
@@neigeepierrot4694 It's very much a case of "men have 0 responsibility" societally. To them, through movies and historically: It's just fun and a status symbol to be a father. It doesn't actually require any work. And you can simple hop in 30 years later and be all "Hey, you OWE me!".
I don’t see why some men want women to have kids when they don’t want to take care of them and the women that do have this kids are foolish women and then they have the audacity to say don’t date women that have kids, these men don’t know what they want, they are unstable. RUN LADIES RUN AND DON’T LOOK BACK. Not having kids is not a sin. Leave those babies where they at.
I agree! Not having kids is protecting your unborn child from a lifetime of unhappiness. There have been people to come out and say I hate you for having me. I did not want to be here
I told my parents that... I get so angry looking at them every day for subjecting me to their bullshit and this bullshit called earth. I get so angry even speaking to them I just feel disgust honestly.....
I love my mom, she had me when she was still new to adulthood. I may not understood completely but ever since I could remember being aware, I've seen the tollof having me young has put on her.. The good news is that I was loved by the village and everyone in my direct fsmily would pitch in to take care of me so my mom could bounce back. I remember asking her what she wanted to be before I came, and telling her to go back to college: she graduated in 2018 or '17 iirc but I was so happy for her. She sacrificed alot for me and though she told me the truth of have she felt of my upbringing, she always said that wouldn't change for the world to not have me. BUT, she did ask me to promise her to not have kids young and not make her a grandma now. I'm keeping my promise despite some family members not getting the memo that I don't want kids, probably not even when I may be ready financially, mentally, and emotionally.
Im 40 and ive never wanted kids. You want to have kids, go for it, but its not for me. My financial freedom and my peace come first.. period! Love and light ✨️ 💛
These attempts at shame tactics are so transparent!These men are seeing how redundant they have made themselves and are really frightened. If you don't want kids, you don't really need to be with a man . Sexually, we have devices which can outperform the average man. Financially we are excelling and are outearning some of these men. Emotionally, our friends are better at providing support. Fact is - If you don't want children, what do I need a man for? And I say this as a woman with three children !!
That boy doesn't look like Chris Brown😂 he look like the little boy from the Bernie Mac show...I can't believe any woman would give him her genes, ew 🤢
This is exactly why I waited until I was married and almost 30! Even then I only had ONE! Why? Because that's all "I" decided that I wanted and my husband respected that! It takes lots of nurturing and attention for only one child. These folks having all these bad ass kids can't even care for them properly. Let people do what the f*** they wanna do!
I had 4 children and I don’t regret it. Because I chose to. I want other women to choose what makes them happy too. And if choosing not to have children makes them happy then I love that for them. This is why men should not speak for women. The only way my daughter could “insult” me would be to live her life for someone else’s approval. I don’t see why many women would want to have kids these days.
Technically, I’m a better ‘parent’ by remaining childfree because some people will have kids, and find out the hard way that they aren’t cut out for it, and start to resent their children for ever being born. Unfortunately, people don’t realize that kids are a lot smarter than adults give them credit for, and they will pick up on the fact that something isn’t quite right, and it will seriously affect their mental well being. I grew up around two unstable parents who really wasn’t cut out to be parents unfortunately. They both chose drugs over their own daughter for a long time, and it really messed me up, and they still don’t want to acknowledge the fact that they were the root cause of a lot of the trauma and mental health problems I face as an adult now. I would NEVER want to let a human being down that way, I would NEVER want to make a human being suffer the way I suffered a child. And I know I am not cut out to raise another human being, so I just choose not to do it.
Well, in my case, I did not want kids to do just what that young man said to focus on my career and travel, whenever and wherever I want. At 42 I got pregnant. Yes, I kept the little girl raised her up happy and well-adjusted and she just graduated from college last year with her bachelors and she’s out on a her own and we are as thick as thieves. I love the kid to pieces but if I did not get pregnant, I would be 66 years old today and very happy with not having anybody else to look after I don’t even want a dog or a cat I don’t wanna have to look after anybody. I just want to focus on myself and enjoy this lovely planet, this gorgeous planet that is like heaven on earth to me.
AS A MOM OF 4 I SUPPORT YALL WHY SHOULD YOU FORCE SOMEONE TO HAVE CHILDREN EVERYONE AIN'T MOM OR DAD MATERIAL LEAVE FOLKS THE FU** ALONE SEE ALL THE ABANDONED KIDS IN THE WORLD 🌎🌍 IT'S FINE NOT 🚫 TO HAVE OR WANT CHILDREN ✌🏿👋🏿
And then I heard the third woman and I was like YES this is EXACTLY what I was thinking. Men like him like the IDEA of a child not the work that goes into or the respect to the woman.
A world champion just died giving birth with modern technology. He clearly has a naive mindset. That's great he want kids but don't push it on everyone else. My mom never wanted kids and it showed in how she raised us. Growing up with no love and affection is horrible and no child shouldn't have to go through that. So there's no benefit forcing woman to have kids.
Woman see how husbands cheat on their wives. We see how women do the cooking, cleaning, raising the kids, and work outside the home. It’s just too much. He better find someone else to do it.
For the woman that said that her mother and grandmother did not want to experience motherhood...that was a bloodline that was supposed to have ended a long time ago. Sometimes, certain people aren't supposed to be here. It may sound terrible to say, but I really think the reason why some people are so directionless and aimless in life with no purpose is because they weren't supposed to be here, at least not yet or not to that particular family. I think it has to do with generational curses and those feelings of resentment building up until someone, like this young lady, finally exercises her options and puts an end to the curse once and for all.
That's not true. Every human being has a purpose here on earth. The reason people feel empty or lost is cause they don't know the purpose and future God has destined for them if they believed and followed Him.
@@catharsismemory Every person isn’t supposed to be here. If you listen to someone’s story, the only reason they had their kid was because they couldn’t get a ride or they didn’t have the money to carry out the deed. Some people were brought here and were only made to suffer. If you believe that everyone is here for a reason that means that some people were born to suffer and how could that possibly be fair?
while I don’t completely rule out that some people weren’t supposed to be here ..I also don’t agree that this 3d reality works in fairness the way we think fairness works it’s always things that we ourselves are manifesting because if it was working in fairness those people would’ve been saved from missing that ride or not having that money I believe it’s karmic cycles but I def don’t completely disagree because my brother literally made a comment today to my mother that “he was in heaven chilling where he wanted to be and she summoned him here “ lol he could literally feel like he doesn’t WANT to be here all that much but doesn’t realize that it’s a karmic reason for the incarnation that the soul couldn’t avoid and has to play out so that would literally mean everything does have a purpose but it’s more on a karmic soul level
The ones who were not supposed to be here the mother either had an abortion or a miscarriage ..ectopic pregnancy etc there are no mistakes in this world but that’s just how I view it this isn’t to be negative ❤
It's HER life, HER body, and HER choice. Undermining her bodily autonomy is SLAVERY!!! It's HER right. He needs to mind his own business. Reproduction is NOT a moral obligation. Pregnancy, carrying to term and childbirth are NOT moral obligations
Why don’t these men so desperate for kids adopt? There are millions of kids that could use a good father in their lives🤷🏾♀️
You are likely produce a criminal if you decide to have a child so please, do not have a child. The world does not need your child. There should be a law to prevent people who think like you to have children
Because they are too egocentric & want to pass on their genes & make a ‘legacy’.
@citeebayconvey2935 That women created due to being pressured to by men
They don't want to be fathers, they want a woman to anchor themselves to via a child.
@@citeebayconvey2935 it took sperm as well. Did you finish school or not?
Why does he even have an opinion? Sir, please mind your own business.
Why doesn't he mind his own business and find a woman who wants to have babies? It's very simple. I don't understand people who complain about things that don't affect them directly. 🤷
My mother said she never wanted children & frankly, I feel like she never should have either...
I agree with both. HOWEVER, the ONLY way to have a child, is....
1. Under the tutelage of Marriage or some form of forever agreement..And, yes, I said FOREVER!
2. ONLY if that woman WANTS them. There is NOTHING WORST than a mother that doesn't want the child. That child will have ALL KINDS OF ISSUES & children don't forget.
Remember these things
I'm 40 and don't want kids.
Really
I have never wanted children, never wanted to be pregnant, never wanted to give birth. I'm 65 now and still stand by my decision.
I've felt the same way since elementary school. Being a parent is not for everyone. My mother will never be a grandmother because my father passed away when I was only two years old. Like myself he was an only child too. I like children, but being a mother is not for me.
They always want to threaten you w/ age, “Well, you’ll be FORTY ONE DAY!!!” 😒🙄
I’m 40 _now,_ and I’m quite content w/ never having had stitches in my cooter or throw up in my hair.
@@attitudeproblem6462 I'll be 40 next year and I am too happy to be childfree. I know I could never take on the responsibility of motherhood. I am just not mentally/emotionally equipped for the job.
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@@attitudeproblem6462 I just turned 40 and I still say 'Hellz 2 The Nah!!'
Notice the young man in the Tiktok video NEVER mention that he wants to become a parent himself… but instead he projected that women are lying and are selfish for not wanting to become a mother. I heard what he’s not saying 🤨😩.
He comes across as very scared that men are becoming obsolete which will never be the case as we need both women and men. He needs to wisen up to this fact.
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He doesn’t even like women. Why is he so worried about what women are/aren’t doing?
Why do men care what women do? Men need to mind their own business.
Chille I'm done 😂😂
Me imagining him as my baby daddy, I hate my imagination cause this is traumatic.
He's not worried about women at all.
He cares to steer them in the wrong direction.
It's a form of mind-control.
It’s all about control. Men like him love seeing women unhappy with children.
My main reason for not wanting children is because of how the men act before, during, and after the act. It's my worst nightmare having to deal with that. So I didn't, and I wake up in euphoria every day free of the worry.
Men need to SHUT UP on child free women. How dare you say anything about it, Mr. Run away father, your not doing anything to help raise your kids Mr, " I don't want to pay child support." Shut up and be quiet.
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Same here. I was 10 years old when my 20 yr old brother got his girlfriend pregnant and just seeing hat she went through and how he cheated on her and so cavalierly treated the whole ordeal made me realize I never want to tie myself to a man in that way ever.
Same!!!!! That’s my biggest fear . The switch up and start showing their true colors once they have you trapped.
U have cracked the code my friend!!! Don't give into the pressure!!!
Men are scared of losing power over women. That is the root of most of our anger with women. It's hard enough to get a woman, but ot would be even harder if we can't keep them in a situation where they "need" us. Yeah, that is scaring us to death, and so we get these men deciding where a woman's place is, or making goofy videos about how a woman can't change a tire or install a washing machine. Or blaming women for not wanting to have children. But if men had made a world that was kinder to women, they probably wouldn't feel the way they do. Because women do not really feel safe, and having a child makes them even less safe. Makes them less mobile and flexible to make moves to secure their futures, and they damn sure can't depend on us. We are desperate to not share a penny with a woman. Women are doing self preservation and all of this is our fault.
Thank you for admitting this. This is ultimately what the pushback is all about.
Exactly 💯 true 😊
Women should WANT men and not NEED them. It's more of a compliment for a man to have a woman that actually loves him and wants him to be around her.
@@BashaerB-h2c Exactly this. Wanting someone is much more sustainable in a relationship than needing them. But men like this know that “needing them” means they can abuse us and we won’t be able to leave, and that’s what most of them want. A woman who cannot leave.
@@IllObserveAndReport I think it sucks to be pretty much any of these guys crying about women in these threads. In my life I have never had problems with women, probably because I treat all of them with respect. Never had a reason to hate women or cry about them.
I'm so glad I'm childfree.
I am too. Having children is not for everyone. If a man said he didn't want to ever be a father, no one would have an issue with it. However, when a woman doesn't want to be a parent, then it's a problem.
@@melanier7309 yep exactly
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i'm not a woman, but my wife and i chose to stay childfree, and it is the BEST DECISION we ever made for *ourselves.*
zero regrets!
@@thispersonrighthere9024I’m happy for you, Godbless.
Men will come for women no matter what decisions they take
And best we can do is come to the realization that their opinion doesn’t matter.
Men get very upset when they hear women say that they don't want to get married or have children. Those are the only bargaining chips they have to hold over a woman head. You take that off the table, watch how frantic they become.
And violent. That’s a huge problem as well
They know it’s only because of women’s labor that living in this world is bearable sometimes, but they refuse to compensate women for their work, though it is worth trillions. Because women care, we fill the ranks of nursing, childcare, social work, and teaching. We make houses homes and childhoods “magical”. We do the bulk of volunteering and the unpaid labor at churches. If women one day decided to act like men, and refuse to do all of that, then what’s left is just the world of violence, greed, and cruelty that is the realm of men.
You’re exactly right…additionally many men use children to tie themselves to and control women.
@neji361styleAwesome 😎
Yep. 😂
We can’t win at all, we get bashed as single mothers an now for not wanting kids omg what is wrong wit these men. 😂😂
Right
Don't listen to them.
Hey Brown Skin it's about access to the "cat" and control! Nothing more nothing less!
Then don’t be a single mother it’s bad for your child….
A woman can’t control if a man decides to abandon her and their children.
These men are telling women they should have children yet don’t want to hang around to raise them. These are the same guys who dump and dive then say “you should have chosen better.”
well you chase the tingles that what happens.
I have 4 children, and I WHOLEHEARTEDLY support the childfree movement!!! Young women, don't give up your body and freedom, and peace, and money, and time if you are not absolutely certain you want to because it never ends!!! Never! Then those kids have kids, and unless you move out of town, you're going to be involved in parenting them to some degree. Enjoy your lives! Do all the things! Get all the sleep! Go on all the trips! Wear all the bikinis! Have all the fun! Accomplish all the goals! There are plenty of life affirming things you can do to leave a legacy without having children.
Me too. I have 1 daughter. I am glad this opened my mind so I dont have to be close minded in future.
I have 2 sons (thankfully 18 k& 23 now) and I agree/support the child free movement. I tell women to NOT have children
NO FUTURE.
Thank you ❤️❤️ (I’m still deciding myself because it would be nice and id be a amazing mother but in this financial economy plus me being disabled plus the lack of good men, etc. it’s looking highly unlikely.) Theres allot I have going on for myself and things I want to do to better the world so I’ll still have a “legacy” without having children. ❤️
EXACTLY LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE EVERYONE NOT CUT OUT TO BE A MOM OR DAD IT'S RIDICULOUS
All men should not be Soldiers. Just being male alone doesn't mean you'll make a good soldier or athlete at that. Just being a female alone doesn't mean you need to have kids. Some people must walk a different path in life.♥️
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Also not all men make good fathers. I commend the ones that know it early and do their part to not reproduce.
Absolutely!!!!! Some men are BRILLIANT as doctors and we NEED people’s strengths where they are useful and powerful
Amen!
Perfect analogy
I have observed men in their 30s telling women their own age that they’ve decided to wait to have children. They’ll wait until they’re 40 or 50 and then they’ll go marry somebody younger. The problem is, now you see a lot of 40 and 50 year old men who are quite shocked that they can’t find a 20 or 30 year old to have kids with. They never took into consideration that maybe a 20 year old woman isn’t interested in a 50 year old guy.
Yup, globally, women are attending school and college at a much higher pace than men are, while men are actually dropping out at higher rates. This also means, that because of this, more women are obtaining education and better jobs, hence why so many passport bros have been in for a rude ass awakening when the women they think are uneducated, house-maids who'll sleep with them whenever, are far more educated than they realized and know exactly what their game is and either play them right back, or reject them altogether. Men are terrified of us.
Preach!!!! The patriarchy has failed men. They thought women between 18 to 38 would desire them when they are past 48 or 50. This is a new Era. Women are out earning men and de centering men.
I 😂think that these men are mad and offended that y’all choosing not to be attached to them. Y’all are literally free as a bird. And that infuriates be them that your out here free and dominating in life. Without needing help. Ashanti look 😍 good as hell at 40
Exactly. Its so surprising that men (the gender who abandons the child) talks so much about women not wanting children. They never shu*t their traps because men become fathers without shedding a single drop of blood or their flesh getting torn. Once that child is here, no one expects them (including themselves) to work hard to bring up that child. No male is under the same kind of pressure that the mother is in. So basically the creation of that child is easy plus no need to do anything for that child.
Another aspect which is interesting is, m3n are the biggest threat to children and women. Every woman is more likely to d*ie at the hands of the man she is with rather than a stranger. The number one cause of death of pregnant women is murder at the hands of the father of her child. It is not even medical complications as one might expect. Starting from pae*dos, to viol*ence to what not, it is always them who are the biggest danger to the children and women. My opinion is, they need children to be able to extract work from a woman. How else will they be able to t*ie down many women at the same time? And finally they get to nag one woman incessantly for s3x, his food, his laundry, to clean his toi*let and what not? Children are used as a means of control.
The women that do have kids are divorcing them and still not attaching themselves to them. Women just want peace.
It is so obvious that this black guy in this video. He just wants to see that curse keep going on with other black women. Having 6 to maybe 10 kids with no help. No financial help from other folks. He basically wants to continue to see other black women suffer, be literally stressed out! He wants the bad curses to continue with other black women. This black dude does not care if the babies life go completely wrong ! Christine chastity lampkin. 😖😖😖😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
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Vivica Fox looks wonderful too
Focusing on my career and traveling sounds _infinitely_ better than an episiotomy.
Facts! 😂
Girl I know that's right my son was so big in comparison to me when I had him I had to have one and girl it painful and then when they start to heal it was itchy Lord have mercy I commend any woman who doesn't want to have kids because I didn't I just so happen to got pregnant and decided I'm going to be the best damn mother and raise the best damn kids and you know what I did that
I never had an episiotomy in the four births I've given but I could definitely feel my own vagina on the inside ripping and it HURTS!!! And I also felt them putting a needle into my vagina skin while sewing it back up regardless of the anesthesia they gave me, yeah, it didn't work😂😂😂
I knew when I was seven years old I didn't want kids I knew when I was 20 years old I didn't want kids I knew when I was 30 years old I didn't want kids I knew when I was 40 years old I didn't want kids I'm 58 now I still don't want kids. If you know yourself which is the purpose of life is to know oneself you should be able to answer this question for yourself.
62 here and I've never wanted them either.
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I am so HAPPY that I've got company in the "I knew when I was young" category. I'm 49.
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Good for you and others for sticking with your choice.
Many men have a narrow scope of things and don’t understand anything outside of it. That is why many struggle with interpersonal relationships/communication and neglect their mental and psychological health until it’s nearly too late. *Unhealthy.* When women are weighing out the cost of motherhood, there is usually an analysis of various factors to come to final decisions of whether they/we want to or not. That guy has limited understanding.
Yea cause males haven't even built places for mothers to feed a freakin baby. Males refuse to understand what's really needed. They are in charge but they don't have women's best interests at heart and that's why birth numbers are goin down 🤔.
Exactly 💯
As a woman with children, I am NOT offended. The decision to have a child is a grave decision which should be taken seriously. Those who have chosen not to, more power to you!
I 2nd the motion.
Yes, exactly. I’m a mom and I know all too well the amount of intense sacrifice it takes. I completely understand if someone does not want to make those sacrifices. You can be a wonderful person and even love children, but just make the choice that you do not wish to raise children yourself.
Same girl! I have one, and that’s enough for me!!
Thank you . We appreciate the support 😊# childfree
We as the childfree community appreciate parents like you ❤️
He's ignorant.
I'm 62 and I thank God every day I don't have children.
I literally thank Him. On my knees. 🙌🏽😇
Lol. Amen!
Don't want them, don't have them, won't get them!!! I'm 47 and STILL DON'T REGRET IT!!
41 and I'm already full with 42 sicilian manchild but his own mama takes care of him I only dating him and I see no bio baby in the future when ever I feel like it I baby-sit and get my fix then left the problem to the parents. I can be press by nothing but my own need hopes and dreams
Not having kids IS NOT SELFISH. Bringing children into this world just bcc you want one is “SELFISH”. -- Look at the condition of this world 🌎! The world is Sick 🤢 !
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Yes she's sick of us humans💚💙
My mom was a selfish mom and admitted it on her death bed. She admitted she shouldn’t have been a mother. She chose to leave this earth and leave us behind.
Women were free at one time till male mutants showed up!!
@@Sky-yh3mlfacts, the Patriarchal Order went around the world raping and killing women forcing them to submit to being sex slaves, maid servants and baby bearers aka the kitchen and the bedroom aka compete and fight over and for stud horses/sexual predators.
Honestly I believe majority of the men that talk down on child free women stems from us women having to be attached to a man in any way shape or form. No matter the accomplishment a woman makes she is never celebrated as big in life unless it involves a man. She can graduate with a doctorate and people will be like “Congratulations, yet when are you going to find a husband?” She could find a cure for cancer and people would be like “That’s cool and all yet when are you going to settle down with a man and have kids?” All around the world a woman’s greatest accomplishment is being attached to a man. Even though they men say they “hate single mothers” and refuse to date them; they rather have a physical result of a man being in a woman’s life than not. We live in a male centered-identified world and pregnancy is caused by men therefore in their minds if a woman doesn’t want to bring life into the world they see it as a threat because that woman does not want to be physically attached to a man. Majority of men believe us women’s lives must revolve around them and by us not doing what we’re “suppose” to do as women threatens their whole idea of the 5 W’s of a woman’s existence.
BINGO!
Exactly. This is so on point
Facts💯
Yep, well said.
YES! THIS! #NoMore
Does he ever talk to men about not wanting kids?
Nope
Of Course not, neither is he talking about the men who do not pay child support. He also does not worry about the children already here.
Exactly. Its so surprising that men (the gender who abandons the child) talks so much about women not wanting children. They never shu*t their traps because men become fathers without shedding a single drop of blood or their flesh getting torn. Once that child is here, no one expects them (including themselves) to work hard to bring up that child. No male is under the same kind of pressure that the mother is in. So basically the creation of that child is easy plus no need to do anything for that child.
Another aspect which is interesting is, m3n are the biggest threat to children and women. Every woman is more likely to d*ie at the hands of the man she is with rather than a stranger. The number one cause of death of pregnant women is murder at the hands of the father of her child. It is not even medical complications as one might expect. Starting from pae*dos, to viol*ence to what not, it is always them who are the biggest danger to the children and women. My opinion is, they need children to be able to extract work from a woman. How else will they be able to t*ie down many women at the same time? And finally they get to nag one woman incessantly for s3x, his food, his laundry, to clean his toi*let and what not? Children are used as a means of control.
that's a valid question!
Of course....not!😅
Of course a man would say that. I had a guy tell me he wanted 13 children. He wouldn’t even want to make children with me after the first 2 or 3. They aren’t having their bodies torn to shreds and being cut up and having extremely traumatic experiences. They don’t have to deal with embarrassing invasive appointments with doctors or during birth with a ton of people looking at your vagina during your most vulnerable moments.not even mentioning carrying a child for months. Potentially having your abdominal muscles separate, having a prolapsed vagina bladder or rectum. Peeing yourself constantly. Being made fun of for being emotional. We aren’t fucking birthing machines
@marduk...i wish 2 have a child & i pray for one everyday...but yr comment on de part of childbirth scared de hell out of me😮😮(south africa)
@@traetrae11 Hum hum get somebody else to do it 🙄
Yeaaa sounds painful Nd traumatic I'M GOOD !
All of this. ALL OF IT!! 🥰👏🏾💯🥰👏🏾💯
That man wanted 13 kids with Amazon warehouse salary 😅😅😅
The audacity of these men
Send this young man the bill for raising children since he’s so offended on women refusing to have kids
I’m going to give y’all the game on pregnancy. These books and tv shows talking about the pregnancy glow etc are full of shit. Being pregnant and giving birth is a traumatic experience. It’s a near death experience that you will never be the same afterwards. It’s not nice, it’s not fun and there isn’t any glow. It can absolutely cause fear and PTSD. Do not do it unless you are uninfluenced and sure it is what you want to do.
It was a trauma in and of itself to realize this sanitized and romanticized view of pregnancy and child birth was not real. You do not forgot the pain and trauma once the baby is in your arms.
Thank you for saying this. Mother of 3 children. There is 10yrs between my first child and second. My first delivery was traumatic!! Pushing for 3hours because baby turned slightly and ended up needed forceps to pull her out of my body. Literally dr pulling with his body weight. After delivery it was months of my torn up bottom to heal. After that I was done. It took 10yrs to get the strength to go through it all again.
I have no children and don't want them. I saw the miracle of birth the video and absolutely decided right then it is not for me. Pregnancy looks absolutely awful and exhausting in every way. Not being able to sleep, the swelling of body parts, being that big, can't see your feet, needing to constantly pee, gestational diabetes, heart burb etc looks terrible. Then the actual act of giving birth... absolutely not. I'm glad you have aknowledged it's a struggle because so many act like it's all sunshine and rainbows
So now even gay guys get to tell women what they should do with their bodies. Dude will leave you knocked up for a guy named bruce. OMG. Gaydar much.
That's what's happening! You got Andrew Tate (GAY!) Myron Gaines (GAY!) Kevin Samuels (GAY!) Rollo Tomassi (almost certainly GAY!) all advising STRAIGHT men about WOMEN! It sure is starting to look like an ORGANIZED CONSPIRACY against women: the gays have even announced openly they are "coming for the kids", then a WAVE of GAY "male influencers, and a WAVE of autogynephiles insisting they have the right to trample all over REAL women's rights... it's probably because of this that women are no longer interested in having children! In nature the females simply do not "come into season" when conditions are not suitable for offspring; I believe the same to be true with women nowadays. Men are becoming more and more EVIL and CORRUPT and DEGENERATE every day, and so women are, quite naturally, losing interest in "breeding"
How does he know that everyone’s mother gave motherly love?? What makes him think that some people didn’t come up abused, neglected, and abandoned? Children have been murdered by their parents. How is a man going to tell a woman how she will feel at age 40?
Thank you!!! Like the foster care system isn’t a thing 😒.
Right, my mothers mom had 7 children and technically didn’t raise any of them, they helped raise each other
That was my childhood. Infact my father was my main torturer for 16 yrs of my life. No one has no right to dictate how a women feels or tell her what she SHOULD want, mens past and current behavior says your still not up to the task to give us any advice. We will take over from here thank you.
I just wanna sleep in and have uninterrupted meals😂
lol exactly
Sounds so simple. Simple. Simple enough to do while caring for a another life. Not.
In Dubai, in a thong ( Nell’s Rose )
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@@Goddess_Infinity😂I haven’t watched her for minute
Why does this young man think that every woman should have a child did he really take a look the state the world is in for children today
Yall notice men never try to shame men for not wanting kids? This is all about control. They say women with kids have low value and men will choose child free women. They say this to lower moms' self esteem so theyre more willing to deal with any type man or put up with anything out of desperation. Then they'll also encourage child free to have children just so they can tell them the things they do single moms. They believe its a good way to control women and lower their self esteem.
This is spot on 100%
I’m in my mid 30s and the urge for wanting kids lessen as I witness more and more women speak up on their issues. Booking my next trip and feeling unbothered 💅🏿🤸🏾♀️🍹🌴🥥🍸
As you should. The more I see women in public with about 4 kids I think to myself, how does she do it?
lol
Me asf 😂😂😂
Same here 35 no kids and don't plan on it🙄💋
@Alexa Easterling-Walker sometimes it's because of welfare..the more kids you have the more government assistance.
Are we shaming women now for not wanting kids...???with all the pedophiles and crazyness in this world??
He has a cartoonish, fairytale view of motherhood. He’s not a serious person.
Men want children but not the responsibility of a relationship. Women are tired of being single parents.
This just shows how much more introspective and emotionally intelligent women are than men. Look at this world- which is controlled by the global patriarchy- it’s trash. Why would anyone willing put an innocent child into that
Edit: Bro 40 is when you can really live your life
Facts 🤷🏽♀️💯💯
Women finally realize the power they truly have. Without us, this entire reality doesn't exist. This demonic world will NEVER have my seeds.
They are trying so hard to not go extinct 😂 bully women to having children with shame tactics and finding any technological where they can have babies without women and they can’t fighter it out 😂
Without men, you wouldn’t even be able to make this reply…
A lot of men out here don't deserve legacies.
@@barrierouse Lol women were held back from education and partially the sciences that's the ONLY reason why men beat us to technically inventions.
@@barrierouse women build human beings. Your mother may as well be your god.
Stay free ladies. That's what they really don't like, the idea that you can be free of them and that pack that they want to attach to your back and not help with.
They know if they couldn't fool a woman to have children with them she'd have absolutely nothing to do with him in the future.
Bingo! She can also easily leave and never look back. No permanent attachment
Dudes like this don't even realize how they're proving the point of why more and more women don't want children. Who wants children with a man like that? smdh
How do men think they know about or can anticipate a 40 year old woman needs? They can’t even anticipate the needs of the their girlfriends and wives in their own age group! I’m tired of these demons uploading videos to the internet 🤡
I haven’t really met any moms actually happy to have kids. They love and provide and care for them because that’s their kids and they’re morally and legally obliged to but usually they would do it the other way if they could. I talk to so many moms that envy us because we can just go wherever we want and when no paying babysitters, paying daycares, etc.
I love all of my children, but once you have children, you can't put yourself first very often. And as a single mother, almost never. And while I love each and every milestones my children reach, they are often after conflict, trial, and sacrifice. When you are child free, you can choose joy in your own time.
This guy is young. He didn't come up with this on his own. He's regurgitating. He'll bump his head and learn one day.
Which one? From his conversation alone they r both useless!
It comes straight from that alpha male, red pill and manosphere talk. All men from all those groups think they are entitled to women’s bodies and what women do with their lives. As a woman, i have to live in my body and deal with it 24/7, not you, not him and not that person over there, I DO. I’m so sick of people who don’t have to live my life and in my body trying to tell me the decisions i do with it and for it are poor and selfish.
Let’s hope so
🎯🎯🎯
Unfortunately, that day isn't today...🙄
I had three sons with my now ex-husband. I have never and will never pressure my sons to have children. My eldest has been with his fiancé for over 10 years. She has decided she never wants to have kids. He supports her decision because he loves _her_. He said if they were financially set he wouldn’t mind having a child, but he said ultimately it’s her choice and if she never wants kids then they will never have kids. I’m so proud of them!
I work at a high school & I have told a numerous amount of students especially graduating seniors to not have kids. They have a whole life ahead of them discover themselves in a world that makes young adults feel uncertain about themselves.
Tell your son to stop wasting that woman’s time that he should marry her. And even women without children deserve that security
@@CS-zq7qn
My 29 year old adult son and his equally adult 30 year old fiancée will do what they feel is best for them. I support whatever they decide because I respect them
If those men had fatherly love, The Maury Show and Paternity Court would be off the air.
Excellent point 👍🎉
Exactly!!
Male offspring are programmed to be stud horses and play play play aka papa was a rolling stone wherever he laid his hat was his home aka stud horses/sexual predators.
I laughed when he said by the time we women are in our 40s we are gonna want kids. Well I'm 46 and guess what I'm still to this day not desperate for a child. And I'm not miserable being a childless 46 year old woman and I'm just 4 years away from 50.
Women like you are hopeless...he is right all along that you will want kids when you're 40. You've been 39 for the past 7 years so that's why you don't regret it yet 😂
Over 50, child-free, and happy as a clam. No rugrats, no regrets😊
Why are men telling women what they would want? Speak to men who are not talking the care of their responsibilities which is making women not want to procreate with them. You men can walk away at anytime so don’t tell me nothing about women not wanting children.
Ding, 💯💯💯💯💯!!!!
Being alone is actually quite peaceful for grown women.
I love how all these so called men think child free women care about their opinions. 😂 It’s easy to get mad about something you don’t have to worry about going through when you have no choice in the matter.
Of course they care that’s why they reply..
@@barrierouse Yikes! Its called having dialogue about a topic of discussion. But if it helps you sleep better at night to convince yourself of that, then oh well 🤷
I'm child-free and single precisely BECAUSE I don't care about anyone else's opinion, man or woman.
Your time is mostly yours when you are childfree. You get to do what you want without a little one depending on you.
And they hate that!
Omg they troll and degrade women who have a bunch of kids 😂😂now it’s a problem if we choose not to have them
It’s control. 😂. We see through them
Authors of confusion
@@lotusflower2315don't forget, the person who tempted Eve in the garden was a male, Satan himself. Even in biblical times, they couldn't leave women alone.
He said when you hit 40, you are going to want kids. Well, I'm 49 and I do not want kids. NOPE. Love my freedom.
I have a kid, love her to death, and have no regrets. MY choice. I also LOVE that women are setting boundaries and going after what THEY want, which is to be child free! Women must have options! You don't have to have kids for WHATEVER reason. You shouldn't have to explain yourselves! I love this movement and fully support you ALL ❤️❤️❤️ It makes me so angry when people (men or women) tell women what to do with their bodies!
This guy makes absolutely no sense. There are so many reasons why women don’t want kids
İ have a son and i love my child to death i thank God for blessing me with my little angel but the truth is if i didn't have him i would never have kids it's hard it takes everything from you as a mother so please women if you don't want to have kids be proud of yourself because even us who have kids we cry and feel like we have failed to bring our seeds in this messed up world
Say it again I have 3 wonderful son and it’s been a blessing two grown and I thank God even more for my youngest which is almost 10 in two weeks my mom died after he was born and I needed him The Most High knew exactly what he was doing when he gave me my youngest because I didn’t think I was going to make it when my mom died
If women want to be child free,let them. No one says anything when a man doesn't want kids. Who's going to be around to help her with those kids? Nobody. The village is gone and women know it.
💯 Exactly
Let's also say that men who father these kids don't stick around. Kids are being raised only by single moms.
@@alexa42490 exactly!! They shame single mothers yet they create multiple of them. Hmm…
Such a good way to put it about the village being gone. We don't have "community" anymore or know what it is. We just see each other as obstacles or ways to make money. Society is sick and empathy is looked down on, people sit around hoping for a trespasser just so they can get a chance to use their gun...
Why would any woman want to have kids when kids keep getting shot just playing tag in a neighborhood!? When I was a kid we didn't have to worry about that!
Exactly.
The man obviously has never taken care of any kids before to have this kind of mindset. If he did, he would surely get an idea of how very difficult it is. Babysitting itself is already challenging enough, it requires a lot of patience, a lot of energy, a lot of skills that requires cleaning, cooking, etc. It's easy for him to say all of that but he's got nothing to back him up. I wouldn't take any of what men who can't produce offspring in their body and what they have to say seriously. There's also this one saying that's still true to this day. "Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children."
Lastly, if you're over 40 and you still want children, adoption is always an option to consider, but also should be considered carefully and seriously.
He probably DOES have children with multiple women... which is (probably) why he's bitter and angry at us lol!
So true. I have been babysitting most of my childhood and is one of the reason why I am childfree. While my brother barely babysits and wants to have children lol. I tried to warn him and refuses to listen.
He’s not a man. He’s a child. Doesn’t look a day over 19 or 20. He literally has no idea what he’s talking about and hasn’t been in this world long enough nor is he the appropriate gender to even judge what a women should to with her body. 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah the only problem with this comment is I'm almost certain that man has no intention of taking care of his kids. He's probably going to expect his wife to do all the work. I hope he never gets the opportunity to ruin a woman's life like that.
I’ll be 40 in December and I don’t regret anything being Childfree. Don’t want kids, known it from age 11. I was told, it’s a phase, you’ll change your mind, all the dumb ass excuses. Im so happy I don’t have them.
Im getting a hysterectomy here soon. I have no kids and wont have them! 🙌🏾
Was getting that old, tired, "you'll change your mind" trash into my 40s. Now that Im in my 50s and that line's expired, its"dont you regret not having kids??" or " how come you didnt want kids?" People are so uncomfortable with the idea of some women having zero interest in breeding, they cannot accept it. It never stops. Ive started saying back "why did you have them?" Usually shuts its down, and their look of stunned bewilderment is priceless🤣
@@sxwrtr918lol forcing a woman to reproduce is asinine and it'll just make me resent you cuz everybody won't make a good parent
Does he even know the woman's circumstances as to why they dont have kids? Do you know how wratched it is when you have family members act like theres something wrong with a woman if she doesn't have kids? I wish folks would seriously lay off women!
I remember when I had the “baby think it over” for class in middle school. That baby cried so much…I knew then that I didn’t want kids lol. At 35, I stand by that…especially as I sit on the plane headed somewhere I decided to book on the spot. I love this child-free life lol.
They gave us one of those babies for our domestic economy class, it definitely deterred me from having kids too early… Fun fact: 3 of the girls ended up “killing” the poor thing.
@@rmercedes971 😳
Does that man actually think our mothers, grandmothers etc actually wanted kids? We didn’t have the choice. Now we have the choice. We choose to be happy and free.
Sure....dusty....sure🙄😒
😂😂😂
Not having their children devoids them of two things : access to puzzy and the ability to boast of their virility . Men can not be men without women
They can't be stud horses with out women... male offspring are programmed to be stud horses and play play play aka papa was a rolling stone wherever he laid his hat was his home aka stud horses/sexual predators.
Why don’t men do what nature and patriarchy tells them as men to do “PROVIDE AND PROTECT”. What’s wrong with these men? There’s something wrong with you if you can’t do these things as a man. Their grandfathers, fathers and uncles provided and protected.
Nature does not make men protect and provide. Women do. They literally protect their children inside their womb with their bodies. They provide all the nutrients by supplying their own calcium from their teeth and bones. They nearly die giving birth. Then they have food in their breasts. Men don't "provide" naturally. They only do work when they claim ownership over something. A woman will help children who aren't her own. Women will team up to help women in abusive situations. Hell women even give wisdom to men and listen to their problems. Men are protecting women from who? Men. So if we need to be protected FROM men, how are they naturally protectors. They should all be busy protecting us all but a good amount see us as prey
Men only protect and provide for themselves. In reality men are the biggest predators/danger to the world. Even a lot of their grandfathers and fathers never provided and protected. A lot of them just abused and abandoned. If men aren't destroying the world, they're usually just destroying the people around them.
you mean the like men in Ukraine that are protecting there county, while the woman left and ,the first think they didi was join tinder,in poland.
The Patriarchy is pure cope for women, everything you see around you is built by men, hard working men,if you were attacked tonight a man would defend, so stop talking nonsense.
Their grandfathers, fathers and uncles provided and protected. but there woman were 304s
@@barrierouseAnytime a man like you speaks his BS, it just makes women want less & less to deal with y’all. You don’t even realize it but ur exactly the kind of man we don’t want.
@@barrierouse Thank you for exactly proving the point. You wouldn't provide for or protect women, because you hate them. You, and your opinions, are literally worthless to women!
Yeah, my mom probably shouldn’t have had kids. She didn’t know what she was doing and just ended up creating more traumatized people in the world.🤷🏾♀️
we did not ask to be here.... you know it is the men who would run away from the responsibility of being a father that keep having such opinions . let women be and do what they want . it is their lives the F
56 here. Never wanted kids, never wanted to be pregnant, never wanted that responsibility. I was fortunate enough to marry a man who also never wanted kids and we just celebrated 28 wonderful years of CF marriage. No regrets!
54, married 27yrs...my wife is 52, she's my best friend...we support Childfree, but we're Antinatalist.
I never asked to be born. If i had a choice, i would have opted out of being born. Thus, I refuse to have children because life on this earth is horrible!
My thoughts exactly!
This place is a Hellish Zoo
My mom had me in her 30s because my dad pregnancy trapped her in a very secretive and conniving way. My older sibling was a product of assault, and my younger sibling was also a pregnancy trap with grooming involved.
My mom is in her 60s, and since I was a child she would tell me she never wanted to have kids, her life would be so much better without kids, her personality and lifestyle are not meant to be with kids. She has always said "I HATE KIDS". I am almost 30 now and my mom gets agitated by children just as easily now in her 60s, as she did in her younger years.
Men need to stop trying to convince us that we want to have kids. I agree with the woman who said "you only care about how a woman having your kids makes you feel as a man."
It all comes down to most men just being self-centered and only thinking with their egos and third legs.
Wow, I hope you have been afford the opportunity to unpack any trauma from that💜. These are the stories that need to be told. There are a lot of women who resent the fact they had children. But some weren’t like your mother, some blatantly had them to be found pleasing. Then the man treated them horribly.
No man should never and will never have the right to tell a woman who does not want children that she should, that's women also. Keep opinions to yourself not everyone wants a little crumb snatcher running around stressing your ass out mentally, physically and financially,but you love those little critters when you have them. Child free ,more power to you enjoy life to the fullest.❤❤❤️❤️
Of course he can,that’s nonsense..
Child free women are looking at the risks and disadvantages of having children. Basically men can walk away from the responsibility of children. A lot of women are seeing that men are treating women worse nowadays. The juice ain't worth squeeze..a lot of marriages are miserable. Women are actually happier without the added work that men place on them. If there aren't a lot of healthy relationships going on then of course women will opt out on having kids. Being child free is peaceful. What sounds good about working yourself to death a work and at home?
@@PeanutButtaCookie1193
Stop playing the victim narrative.
There are billions of good men and women if you’ve made a shitty choice of men that’s down to you.
Own it.
All you need to do is look at birth rates in 1st and 2nd world countries and you should start to get worried.
"crumb snatcher" love it 😂it's fits perfectly
@@barrierouse 🤮
TF?! I don't want any children. Who the HELL is this man to tell someone what THEY want... and their adamant denial is a lie!?!? Throw this man 60,000 leagues under the sea.
Suffer for 9 months and tear up my body to bring another black child here to suffer in this society as another wage slave and/or police target. Not to mention if the child is a girl, the myriad ways she will be in danger from her own people. Let me think about that. 🤔 NOPE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I got reminded of the story where a man ilegally tricked his gf into becoming pregnant.
Then harassed her into keeping it. And when she agreed, but claimed she'd do NOTHING with the kid, he eagerly agreed. As he 100% thought "she'll change her mind!".
And after the birth, he was throwing a hissy fit and trying to shame her for "abandoning her kid", when she stuck to her part of the deal and wasn't involved. And screamed at her how he couldn't sleep at night, and how expensive it was.
Men are VERY angry when having to be responsible for their actions... heck, recall another story where a man was a useless deadbeat and paid no support, did nothing, just empty promises. Then LOST HIS CHEESE when she simply gave the baby up for adoption after a few weeks. They REALLY don't like when women have an inch of freedom.
It's VERY telling how they just want to "punish" and control women.
Typical Patriarchal Order/male mindset... male offspring are programmed to be stud horses and play play play aka papa was a rolling stone wherever he laid his hat was his home aka stud horses/sexual predators.
I think I watched a similar story men need to think more about having kids
@@neigeepierrot4694 It's very much a case of "men have 0 responsibility" societally. To them, through movies and historically: It's just fun and a status symbol to be a father. It doesn't actually require any work. And you can simple hop in 30 years later and be all "Hey, you OWE me!".
@@Kattlarv yes like it’s sad they do not get that I guess maybe that’s why they are upset women don’t want kids
I don’t see why some men want women to have kids when they don’t want to take care of them and the women that do have this kids are foolish women and then they have the audacity to say don’t date women that have kids, these men don’t know what they want, they are unstable. RUN LADIES RUN AND DON’T LOOK BACK. Not having kids is not a sin. Leave those babies where they at.
If men wanted us to have kids so bad they should have figured out a way to make pregnancy less stressful and giving birth less painful.
He mad because nobody wants to have kids with HIM
I agree! Not having kids is protecting your unborn child from a lifetime of unhappiness. There have been people to come out and say I hate you for having me. I did not want to be here
I told my parents that...
I get so angry looking at them every day for subjecting me to their bullshit and this bullshit called earth. I get so angry even speaking to them I just feel disgust honestly.....
I love my mom, she had me when she was still new to adulthood. I may not understood completely but ever since I could remember being aware, I've seen the tollof having me young has put on her.. The good news is that I was loved by the village and everyone in my direct fsmily would pitch in to take care of me so my mom could bounce back. I remember asking her what she wanted to be before I came, and telling her to go back to college: she graduated in 2018 or '17 iirc but I was so happy for her. She sacrificed alot for me and though she told me the truth of have she felt of my upbringing, she always said that wouldn't change for the world to not have me. BUT, she did ask me to promise her to not have kids young and not make her a grandma now. I'm keeping my promise despite some family members not getting the memo that I don't want kids, probably not even when I may be ready financially, mentally, and emotionally.
People always project onto other people their own desires. Like oh my gosh just leave people alone.
Im 40 and ive never wanted kids. You want to have kids, go for it, but its not for me. My financial freedom and my peace come first.. period! Love and light ✨️ 💛
These attempts at shame tactics are so transparent!These men are seeing how redundant they have made themselves and are really frightened. If you don't want kids, you don't really need to be with a man . Sexually, we have devices which can outperform the average man. Financially we are excelling and are outearning some of these men. Emotionally, our friends are better at providing support. Fact is - If you don't want children, what do I need a man for? And I say this as a woman with three children !!
Exactly!
If Chris Brown were an incel 👀👀😒🤦🏽♀️
That boy doesn't look like Chris Brown😂 he look like the little boy from the Bernie Mac show...I can't believe any woman would give him her genes, ew 🤢
This is exactly why I waited until I was married and almost 30! Even then I only had ONE! Why? Because that's all "I" decided that I wanted and my husband respected that! It takes lots of nurturing and attention for only one child. These folks having all these bad ass kids can't even care for them properly. Let people do what the f*** they wanna do!
He looks like one of those weird, goofy incels. Hes probably stalking some poor woman right now.
I had 4 children and I don’t regret it. Because I chose to. I want other women to choose what makes them happy too. And if choosing not to have children makes them happy then I love that for them. This is why men should not speak for women. The only way my daughter could “insult” me would be to live her life for someone else’s approval. I don’t see why many women would want to have kids these days.
Technically, I’m a better ‘parent’ by remaining childfree because some people will have kids, and find out the hard way that they aren’t cut out for it, and start to resent their children for ever being born.
Unfortunately, people don’t realize that kids are a lot smarter than adults give them credit for, and they will pick up on the fact that something isn’t quite right, and it will seriously affect their mental well being.
I grew up around two unstable parents who really wasn’t cut out to be parents unfortunately. They both chose drugs over their own daughter for a long time, and it really messed me up, and they still don’t want to acknowledge the fact that they were the root cause of a lot of the trauma and mental health problems I face as an adult now.
I would NEVER want to let a human being down that way, I would NEVER want to make a human being suffer the way I suffered a child. And I know I am not cut out to raise another human being, so I just choose not to do it.
Well, in my case, I did not want kids to do just what that young man said to focus on my career and travel, whenever and wherever I want. At 42 I got pregnant. Yes, I kept the little girl raised her up happy and well-adjusted and she just graduated from college last year with her bachelors and she’s out on a her own and we are as thick as thieves. I love the kid to pieces but if I did not get pregnant, I would be 66 years old today and very happy with not having anybody else to look after I don’t even want a dog or a cat I don’t wanna have to look after anybody. I just want to focus on myself and enjoy this lovely planet, this gorgeous planet that is like heaven on earth to me.
Keep speaking up ladies for your rights.
AS A MOM OF 4 I SUPPORT YALL WHY SHOULD YOU FORCE SOMEONE TO HAVE CHILDREN EVERYONE AIN'T MOM OR DAD MATERIAL LEAVE FOLKS THE FU** ALONE SEE ALL THE ABANDONED KIDS IN THE WORLD 🌎🌍 IT'S FINE NOT 🚫 TO HAVE OR WANT CHILDREN ✌🏿👋🏿
This is type of dude would have several baby mommmas and not take care of them
And then I heard the third woman and I was like YES this is EXACTLY what I was thinking. Men like him like the IDEA of a child not the work that goes into or the respect to the woman.
A lot us had horrible mothers and are damaged to the point we can't properly function. Therefore they should not be mothers.
I Spent so much time healing from my narcissistic mother and emotionally impotent father…smh
@@GarifunaGoddess sigh. It’s a lifelong journey
A world champion just died giving birth with modern technology. He clearly has a naive mindset. That's great he want kids but don't push it on everyone else. My mom never wanted kids and it showed in how she raised us. Growing up with no love and affection is horrible and no child shouldn't have to go through that. So there's no benefit forcing woman to have kids.
Woman see how husbands cheat on their wives. We see how women do the cooking, cleaning, raising the kids, and work outside the home. It’s just too much. He better find someone else to do it.
woman cheat more than men
Im glad most manboys think its so easy to just raise a child. shows how much they know by experience they clearly know what they are talking about.
For the woman that said that her mother and grandmother did not want to experience motherhood...that was a bloodline that was supposed to have ended a long time ago. Sometimes, certain people aren't supposed to be here. It may sound terrible to say, but I really think the reason why some people are so directionless and aimless in life with no purpose is because they weren't supposed to be here, at least not yet or not to that particular family. I think it has to do with generational curses and those feelings of resentment building up until someone, like this young lady, finally exercises her options and puts an end to the curse once and for all.
That's not true. Every human being has a purpose here on earth. The reason people feel empty or lost is cause they don't know the purpose and future God has destined for them if they believed and followed Him.
@@catharsismemory Every person isn’t supposed to be here. If you listen to someone’s story, the only reason they had their kid was because they couldn’t get a ride or they didn’t have the money to carry out the deed.
Some people were brought here and were only made to suffer. If you believe that everyone is here for a reason that means that some people were born to suffer and how could that possibly be fair?
@@LoveAndSnapple well said
while I don’t completely rule out that some people weren’t supposed to be here ..I also don’t agree that this 3d reality works in fairness the way we think fairness works it’s always things that we ourselves are manifesting because if it was working in fairness those people would’ve been saved from missing that ride or not having that money I believe it’s karmic cycles but I def don’t completely disagree because my brother literally made a comment today to my mother that “he was in heaven chilling where he wanted to be and she summoned him here “ lol he could literally feel like he doesn’t WANT to be here all that much but doesn’t realize that it’s a karmic reason for the incarnation that the soul couldn’t avoid and has to play out so that would literally mean everything does have a purpose but it’s more on a karmic soul level
The ones who were not supposed to be here the mother either had an abortion or a miscarriage ..ectopic pregnancy etc there are no mistakes in this world but that’s just how I view it this isn’t to be negative ❤
It's HER life, HER body, and HER choice. Undermining her bodily autonomy is SLAVERY!!! It's HER right. He needs to mind his own business. Reproduction is NOT a moral obligation. Pregnancy, carrying to term and childbirth are NOT moral obligations