Mars in 12th House in Synastry I Viewer´s Question

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  • @KSAshow14
    @KSAshow14 3 роки тому +34

    Im talking to this guy and his Mars is in my 12th house and I already feel it. He directly and assertively talks about topics that I would normally keep hidden and to myself so I feel hesitant already. He comes off insensitive to me too. I really think it’s partly because of this aspect. I haven’t experienced the sexual dreams but I fantasize about us sometimes, he lives in another state.

    • @hasauka
      @hasauka Рік тому +1

      maybe moon in9th h?

    • @bbelsy
      @bbelsy Рік тому

      Following up : was it horrible ?

    • @KSAshow14
      @KSAshow14 Рік тому +3

      @@bbelsy yeah! Yup. It was tumultuous. He was forcing his will, and trying to control me and patronize me. Fights, confusion, and games. He’s now blocked. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @IloveCamels335
    @IloveCamels335 3 роки тому +43

    My sister has this with her husband. She is the Mars and it falls in his 12th house. They have kind of a complicated relation but they did manage to stay together for around 35 years now and yes It does show he is still very much physically attracted to her. But yeah they have other things also going for them, like her moon is in his 7th house and so on. Great insightful video!

    • @amerinabcl6271
      @amerinabcl6271 2 роки тому +4

      Same with my boyfriend, my mars is in his 12th and his mars is in my 1st. His moon is perfectly sit in my 8th house. Our relationship is kinda on/off, but we do love each other so much and manage to stay in almost 6 years relationship up until now we're still together despite the obstacles and the arguments between us we still come back to each others arms.❤

    • @zoesroses
      @zoesroses 6 місяців тому

      These comments ease my mind a lot 😭

  • @gianniclaud
    @gianniclaud 3 роки тому +26

    Wow, you are so spot on. I’m unnecessarily attracted to someone in a very disillusioned way - he’s unattainable. He’s straight. I’m gay. I keep forming ideas in my head that he’s somewhat gay, but this just makes more sense to me - I’m completely disillusioned.
    Thank you for this and helping me snap out of it

    • @fancylyrics.
      @fancylyrics. 2 роки тому +1

      are you the mars or 12th house..?..

    • @gianniclaud
      @gianniclaud 2 роки тому +4

      @@fancylyrics. The 12th house

    • @fancylyrics.
      @fancylyrics. 2 роки тому

      @@gianniclaud thanks Dear, I'm also the 12th house person but by the way you describe It I'm the one unattainable, he keeps on chasing me for a year now, I'm stuck on a previous connection so I only see him as friends, but he keeps on telling me that he wants to sleep with me, please me sexually but also be my boyfriend, I told him many times that I just want to be friends and get to know him better then maybe feelings cud develop also he's not my typical type but not ugly to the point that I can't be attracted to him.. he has lots of flings and female friends, From the past weeks he've been heavily pursuing me sexually and I admit I'm in abstince for 4 years now due to spiritual reasons, but can't help to fantasize making love with him it's crazy coz I don't usually do this also he told me even if Wer just friends with benefits if that's what I want, Atleast try once then I decide.. I'm not actually sure what is he's real intentions towards me and I'm kinda scared about the "secret enemies" theme coming from the Mars.. I'm scared that he wud hurt me in the end...
      from ur experience What you really think is the intentions of Mars person towards the 12th house and how do we know..

    • @NovafyT
      @NovafyT 2 роки тому

      Did he deceive/ mislead you or were you delusional yourself?

    • @gianniclaud
      @gianniclaud 2 роки тому +4

      @@NovafyT Both. He likes my attention and enjoys being queerbait.

  • @UnicornTailz
    @UnicornTailz 2 роки тому +9

    I experienced 2 exes that had their mars in my 12th house. They are the only people that I’m aware of that I have ever encountered in my personal life. They both also had their sun in my 12th house and one had Venus as well. I don’t like this synastry at all… the way both played out was psychologically abusive. They both were really psychic but both used their gifts to scare and compete instead of create a safe space to nurture. One could literally read my mind and tell me what I was thinking or dreaming. He said the only times that he wasn’t able to if it was cloudy or rainy. There are so many things that led me to come to this conclusion but what I learned is that persons with planets in my 12th house are a deal breaker for relationships. I see myself as intuitive but I get confused when I’m dealing with that particular synastry and it’s just way too elusive for my desire for stability. Maybe if they were good people at heart, I may feel differently and possibly have seen them in a healthier light. All I know is that in this lifetime I don’t want to give it another try

  • @reducetheatoms
    @reducetheatoms Рік тому +3

    Repressing my anger is what helps me be the real me, I despise showing anger, it drains me so much, it makes me feel sick and I get very low and just bad when I express it. I feel the best and most accomplished when I keep it all to myself, actually now that I realized this I even dislike commenting about my anger but I am doing it to show you that your video is accurate.
    I think, mars in 12th house (especially water mars in 12th house) truely need to keep that anger for themselves because eventually we forget it, at least for me, a mars in cancer 12th house.

  • @litah.5074
    @litah.5074 2 роки тому +15

    I have had this with every relationship I have ever been in. Either my mars in their 12th or their mars in my 12th.

    • @fancylyrics.
      @fancylyrics. 2 роки тому +4

      Dear Pls. How do you feel being the Mars person..?. And you view the 12th house person..?

    • @lisakaye3919
      @lisakaye3919 Рік тому

      Do you have natal 12th house planets? I have natal sun in 12th and I attract these types of relationships

  • @mary-anneb2614
    @mary-anneb2614 3 роки тому +16

    I had my Mars (and Sun) in someone’s 12 house and square their Neptune! His Mars was also opposite my Neptune. Very unrealistic relationship held together by hope and fantasy. Our arguments were very confusing like I would think he said something but he would insist I misheard or misunderstood him.

  • @prettypk_
    @prettypk_ 2 роки тому +16

    i have this placement with the guy i’m currently seeing. i’m mars (in aries) he’s the house. I’d like to note that both of our mars are conjunct in Aries; mine in his 12th house and his in my 8th house 💀 I usually feel like something isn’t right and lowkey neglected when we’re not together. but when we’re together I really can see through him and i feel like i understand him better than he understands himself. I’m very spiritual and am always teaching him new ways of thinking and have introduced him to the occult side of my beliefs which he is intrigued by. I find that sometimes i unintentionally dig deep and get him to say more than he probably wants to in our conversations. he openly and freely talks to me about his childhood traumas and past relationship scars (my pluto in scorpio is in my 3d so i tend dig deep in convos). sexually he is mesmerized by me and acts as though he’s in the presence and of a goddess. the sex is AMAZING needless to say… but he is a selfish lover. honestly the relationship felt magical and sweet at first but lately it feels like there’s s lack of passion and burning fire and that makes me mad cause he is very much still invested but isn’t giving me that fire. I’m a leo idk how much more of that i can handle

  • @MrsXx
    @MrsXx 3 роки тому +7

    Thanks for this video, It's a completely different experience with my own mars in my hubby's 12th house. Everything I've read hasn't matched either. But I think I know why now. Thanks.

    • @aquamarine0303
      @aquamarine0303 2 роки тому

      Why don't you describe your placements and what your experience is. You may have a stronger mars in other house from the other side.

    • @lotusphoenix8
      @lotusphoenix8 2 роки тому +2

      My experience is also completely different from the mainstream descriptions.

    • @lotusphoenix8
      @lotusphoenix8 2 роки тому +1

      I'm the house person and I don't feel what he feels towards me. He's the one using his Mars energy towards me and when it gets into my house, it just dissolves into an abyss. 🤷 I'm the one who reads him like a book.

  • @Alicia-cq9si
    @Alicia-cq9si 5 місяців тому +2

    I have been under a spell for over a year now by someone I've never met but see every day. He has gotten under my skin and I can't stop fantasizing about him to the point where I awaken in the middle of the night and can't get him out of my mind. He's not even a very attractive man. I've seen him for years but only after looking at our synastry did I start to think of him this way. I didn't realize Mars in the 12th could be causing this obsessive thinking. His Mars is in Scorpio and I'm a 29-degree Scorpio rising. I'm too nervous to speak to him. Lots of soulmate aspects there but many red flags as well. I can't let him go no matter how hard I try! His Neptune is also in my 12th nearly conjunct to my ascendant. I keep wondering if he thinks about me too. It almost feels like he is stalking me or something. So disturbing. I'm literally tortured over him.

  • @alexstar5182
    @alexstar5182 3 роки тому +19

    could this indicate hidden sexual affair when you have this in synastry with someone?

  • @roxystar8517
    @roxystar8517 3 роки тому +13

    I had that once with someone - double whammy, my mars in his 12 house and his in mine. Besides his mars square my venus, my lilith con. his ASC and his lilith square my ASc (both veru tide orb) and a few more. The chemistry was amazing, from the first sight. I couldnt sleep after our first meeting I had amazing fantasies about him. I didn't feel smth like that for a years. We had very intense month, wrote to each other the whole time, he controlled me, asked what I do, where I'm,with who. He had also strange and pretty heavy sexual fantasies about me that scared me a bit (pretty violet too). It was really intense, too intense for me. I ended this after a few weeks as I didnt like it (too much, too strange). And as you said in your video - we both felt there was some hidden hostility towards each other that neither could name but instinctively felt it.

    • @mary-anneb2614
      @mary-anneb2614 3 роки тому

      Interesting, thank you. Violent fantasies sound scary though, glad you got free…

    • @michelleriley7983
      @michelleriley7983 11 місяців тому

      Remember too the myth, Neptune/Posideon was a rapist 😩

  • @arwenrivendale
    @arwenrivendale 2 роки тому +4

    3 female family members have mars in my 12th but one is an in-law and she is quite the backstabbed. It’s in Gemini and she has had inappropriate conversations with my daughter and ridiculed me. I have an empty 12th with mercury in my 7th. I’ve found hidden admirers in there when I couldn’t reciprocate or I could but we had to wait to be public. My little granddaughter that I have the tightest bond with has the sun and Venus in my 12th. I have the most lovely synastry with her. I just don’t feel like the 12th is cut and dry. Someone I almost married had Lilith in my 12th but I was never inlove with him but he was very much so.

  • @myriahquintela7100
    @myriahquintela7100 2 роки тому +1

    one of my part time jobs is fullllllll of Capricorn energy in all different placements, which is my twelfth house. Ive notices that the ones with mars in Capricorn have definitely in some cases proven to hide things from me and wish me ill behind my back and some im still scoping and don't trust! I'm on guard with Capricorn mars's now

  • @sailorpoon
    @sailorpoon 2 роки тому +12

    her: if you have 12H and 8H synastry placements, it’s a red flag
    me, who’s synastry has his mars conjunct my asc in 12H AND his pluto/venus conjunct my NN in my 8H:
    👁👄👁

    • @tractordriver8950
      @tractordriver8950 Рік тому +4

      I read others saying the sex is out of this world with these aspects

  • @tractordriver8950
    @tractordriver8950 Рік тому +3

    Why the other videos talk about this placement as soulmate sex? Btw does composite count?

  • @alexstar5182
    @alexstar5182 3 роки тому +11

    And another question is it only the house person who is doing the fantasizing or the planet person also?

    • @xlinsdayx
      @xlinsdayx 3 роки тому +9

      To be honest.. i am the Mars person and i was fantasizing about him too.. ( my venus and my mars are conjunct his moon in leo in his 12th house..)

    • @Supported32320
      @Supported32320 2 роки тому +1

      @@xlinsdayx i wonder if the reason why you were fantasizing about him too is because of your mars or if it was actually another placement that caused it
      cuz im wondering if it was because of your venus. venus making contact to 12 house or neptune can be very dreamy.

    • @xlinsdayx
      @xlinsdayx 2 роки тому

      @@Supported32320 i Wonder too.. i cant really answer that :/..

  • @alebalessa77
    @alebalessa77 2 роки тому +1

    I was feeling about this was "invasive" or like a violation

  • @healthylady3489
    @healthylady3489 Рік тому +7

    I am in a relationship with a person for 10 years now and we love each other passionately and my mars conjunction thier venus in thier 12 house …I don’t know why you make it sound bad
    also my venus conjunct thier mars😍😍😍 doublewhammy

    • @michelleriley7983
      @michelleriley7983 11 місяців тому +3

      She makes a lot of aspects sound like deal breakers.😌 Not sure why💁‍♀️

  • @mookth3mystro535
    @mookth3mystro535 2 роки тому +2

    Her Venus in my 1st
    Her Mars in my 12th
    Any insights?

    • @The_Eleventh_Sign
      @The_Eleventh_Sign 2 роки тому

      How do you feel about her?

    • @mookth3mystro535
      @mookth3mystro535 2 роки тому

      @@The_Eleventh_Sign she's a sweetheart, but the attraction, more or less, grew unexpectedly over time as we started working together. It's weird. I'm a Scorpio moon and Pluto 1st house
      And a Pisces Sun so I can feel energy emitting from others around me

  • @JG_1114
    @JG_1114 3 роки тому +4

    Oh wow yeah my natal Mars is in pisces and it’s squares Neptune in my natal chart ugh yes I can confirm it’s not the best placement for Mars!! It’s been a real challenge my whole life

  • @S.Georgia
    @S.Georgia 3 роки тому +7

    Mars conjunct ascendant but its overlay in the 12th house not 1st.

  • @JG_1114
    @JG_1114 3 роки тому +3

    I hand this placement in a mid point composite chart with someone

  • @rarecoral212
    @rarecoral212 2 роки тому +6

    I had this with a guy I already have mars in 12th house in cancer his mars and moon conjunct my mars . He used to dream about me a lot of sexual nature he told me those dreams were so vivid and steamy.. we just met once in real life but we used to talk over the phone. Then he just disappeared all of a sudden and he was hiding so many things from me..

  • @brim3546
    @brim3546 2 роки тому +2

    What does it mean if my mars is in his 12th house, and his mars is in my 12th house as well??

    • @Bazmimoon
      @Bazmimoon 2 роки тому

      That’s what I want to know

    • @Allthingsbeauty77
      @Allthingsbeauty77 2 роки тому +1

      RUN 😭

    • @The_Eleventh_Sign
      @The_Eleventh_Sign 2 роки тому

      @@Allthingsbeauty77 why??

    • @Allthingsbeauty77
      @Allthingsbeauty77 2 роки тому +2

      @@The_Eleventh_Sign Betrayal. Secret enemy. A lot of things going on behind your back, but smile to your face etc. 🙅🏻‍♀️

    • @Supported32320
      @Supported32320 2 роки тому

      @@Allthingsbeauty77 definitely could be but could also use a closer look at the chart? im only saying this cuz i have mars in someones 12 haha
      but i have no intention of being a secret enemy. i care a lot about the guy especially in a spiritual way. i think theres something to that. how is neptunian or jupiter themes lit up in the chart. what do the natals say stuff like that. cuz mars in 12th isnt an immediate enemy but it certainly can be if the charts dont support that kind of contact
      for me and this other person we're both otherworldly kind of people and very spiritual

  • @FeistyChic
    @FeistyChic 3 роки тому +2

    I want to thank you for sharing your amazing insight into Synastry and I love your channel, please keep making videos and doing Tarot readings!! I have Cancer 12th house with Rahu and have met a man with Mars in Cancer so this is very helpful. Can you explain the Mars/Rahu ? His moon in Scorpio (conjunct Neptune) falls in my 4th house on my Lilith and Neptune. Huge attraction here but Im feeling nervous. Seems like its a Karmic relationship.

  • @xlinsdayx
    @xlinsdayx 3 роки тому +1

    What if its conjunct his moon in leo?

    • @venushathor3403
      @venushathor3403 2 роки тому

      That’s why I’m here too. Mars conjunct ascendant and in the 12th 🤔

  • @jessicas3195
    @jessicas3195 3 роки тому +3

    I have this placement with someone…their Mars exactly conjunct my moon in my 12th. I should be running right?

    • @summerk3296
      @summerk3296 3 роки тому

      Their Mars conjunct my moon and Mars in my 12 th house 🏃‍♀️

  • @billmyers991
    @billmyers991 3 роки тому

    House person has Virgo rising, she got caught manifesting in the library, again!! She says it's my fault, whenever she's alone in a quiet place something sneaks up on her from deep inside..she blames my Mars/Pluto/Uranus in her 12th, but I think it's her repressed Scorpio moon trying to get out from under her Scorpio Pluto

  • @xlinsdayx
    @xlinsdayx 3 роки тому +2

    Btw what is astro sex?

    • @Supported32320
      @Supported32320 2 роки тому

      astral not astro
      she means connecting to the astral plane and having sex with that person
      OR it can mean you guys have encounters long distance.
      me and someone i can literally feel him physically when hes not around and im pretty sure its vice versa
      we got a lot of spiritual stuff going on so im talking literal thoughts are coming through.

    • @dark.moon.goddess
      @dark.moon.goddess 7 місяців тому

      Sex is so good that it takes you to another dimension 👽

  • @nenaj1
    @nenaj1 3 роки тому +4

    He has his Mars and Chiron in my 12th house.
    I have my sun and north node in his 12th house. He has hurt me very bad and I will never forgive him.
    We also have Mars square Mars.
    His natal Mars is also in his 12th house.
    The 12th house…house of hidden enemies.

    • @juhi9290
      @juhi9290 2 роки тому

      Takecare 🤍😊

  • @josecarvalho3971
    @josecarvalho3971 3 роки тому +7

    It seems the guy I'm into which is a Cancer Rising in its 18 degrees and I'm a Gemini Mars which falls in hi 12th house by 2 degrees.
    It's difficult because I scare the hell out of him. I would say I scare anyone with water risings, especially those compatible with me. I've noticed that.
    Hopefully he's not that afraid anymore. He's also got Mars in Gemini in 5 degrees which falls into my 9th house. I know deep down inside I don't mean to be tricky.
    We've both got Venus in Aries and our Moons are in a fire sign: Leo and Saggitarius. I know everyone is naked with such an easy compatibility. Now I know someone should feel truly naked and vulnerable with 12th house issues being touched.
    Vulnerability and not abusing this vulnerability is what love is all about.

    • @tractordriver8950
      @tractordriver8950 Рік тому +1

      Is your mars aspected by squares or opposition? I read mars here can bring dreamy sex.

  • @MasterGlam
    @MasterGlam 3 роки тому

    Amazing video

  • @zinilebt6002
    @zinilebt6002 3 роки тому +4

    I have this with the Sister of my Boyfriend. She has Mars conjunct moon in gemini. She has spread some serious lies about me but no one wants to come forward against her because everyone is afraid of her tactics. She has destroyed many people's lives in the Past. With me she operates behind the scenes because she knows what happens when she attacks me in an obvious way...

    • @modernastrology4521
      @modernastrology4521  3 роки тому +1

      🤭😧

    • @LegendaryMel
      @LegendaryMel 3 роки тому +2

      Some people with mars moon conjunction can be crazy and serious bullies. Watch Jewel Mayberrys video on this aspect.

  • @The_Eleventh_Sign
    @The_Eleventh_Sign 3 роки тому +4

    I have mars in 12th house double whammy with this guy.. what would that do? 🤔

  • @reducetheatoms
    @reducetheatoms Рік тому

    8:23
    I call those people my "gurus" :0

  • @zoesroses
    @zoesroses 6 місяців тому +1

    Partner has his Mars in my 12H Virgo.

  • @william6084
    @william6084 Рік тому

    I've decided to focus my attention on poor, anxiety riddled Virgo rising. If they were a car they'd be a Volvo - the car you buy if want to have an accident. I just want to push all their buttons until their dashboard lights up like a Xmas tree

  • @زينبالجميلة-ق4ط
    @زينبالجميلة-ق4ط 3 роки тому +3

    Urgent question9🚨🚨🚨i've been more than 7years ago obsessed with a man i think of him everyday everysecond we have pluto trine moon double whammy , his pluto trine my venus and inconjunct my mars ,jupiter,opposite mercury ,opposite mercury and north node ,my ascendant opposite his pluto . My pluto square his sun sextile his neptune. My lilith sextile his venus and conjuct his ascendant square his mars and trine his jupiter , and his lilith sextile my uranus please could you explain that i want stop thinking and tell me how he feels i had a tendancy to make him feel as i feel cuz i really love him and in the same time hate his his venus in my 8th house and his pluto in my 7th house this is fire tell me how he feels please and who is more obsessed????? Love you so much ❤❤❤❤❤💕💕💚