@@KingTechHD Why the hell are yall making it a sex thing. Thats black people problem now pointing blame. IT IS WRONG FEMALE OR MALE. You freaking special ones.
Not wanting to get married is one thing, but saying your scared of marriage but not afraid to have children with women you don’t see a future with, while admitting you would like to find someone to marry and have even more children is ridiculous. 😅
Right. I think it’s their egos. They are afraid of looking foolish to their peers and marrying the “wrong person” .. and ending up divorced, or being played. Also, they are more concerned with their money and image than they are with their kids
@@shonda0413 women believe raising a child in a single parent household is a flex 🤷🏿♂️ trashy people meet trashy people and complain how ugly their own reflection is.
Ngl, I left my ex bc he was willing to try to get me pregnant but not put a ring on it after a decade. I married non-black man and got married 10 months later. 🤷🏽♀️
I can't lie. She had Cam looking foolish. She put a lot into perspective that all of us as black men need to really sit with ourselves and consider. Women too.
Shut up, most men don't have money like cam has to tick on these women to have 8 baby mothers. 8 women pick the same man, and that's the problem the women picking losers, then blaming men. Then u got u diddy simps who say whatever to the woman because u weak and can only get box if u lie like a coward
Getting cooked in real time is rough, that therapist was 100% right, don't say you're taking your time finding a wife but you popping kids out left and right like having the kid isn't the decision that you should have spent more thinking about.
He has no foresight. He'll be one of those dudes trying to settle down at 60, then wondering why no woman of value wants him. He better make sure he's still well off because if not, he's screwed.
@@quizman5 sex and marriage have no relation at all. Hence cam. Kids and marriage have no relation at all, hence cam and your average joes. This is 2024. We about pleasure and money and divorce. Nobody has to get married. What does that say about the women who slept with him?
Nobody is telling the man to get married, he actually shouldn't because he would probably make a terrible husband. It's the fact that he and many others see marriage as too much of a permanent commitment, but creating human lives isn't lol
Yes, to be honest being MarriEd doesn’t equal a successful relationship. You have to be a good person. He’s not a good person therefore, he will never be a good husband, unless he becomes a good person.
He was closed off cause them words HIT Hard. He is selectively creating Broken Homes cause every home can't have Poppa there. As a Man and an Active Father you never want to intentionally cause harm or damage to your children. Also Emotional Damage is harder and may take longer to heal, sometimes those wounds don't close.
Homes aren’t broken because the father isn’t in it. Homes are broken because the family is broken. There are plenty of families where the father doesn’t live in the home but they are still there for their kids 100% and they have a healthy family dynamic. Let’s be honest relationships don’t always work out and that’s okay people are not doing their kids any favors staying together JUST because they have kids.
Cam is going to be in his 60’s talking about ‘I think I’m ready to settle down now’. Sad thing is, him and millions like him are out there making broken homes with no issue. Neither him, Nick or future will change their minds on this.
@@BeautiifulliMade and women will still allow them access to their body and keep bearing them children just based on who they're and what they have . So women are the issue here. 🤔
@@lexaneli yes, the women that are having his kids.. shouldn't they be held accountable? You know your having a baby by a man who has no plans to be with you.
@user-hh6pb7ct5s if a man has money and resources he could have 20 baby mama's if he wanted scoot your neighborhood pookie and Ray Ray have zero dollars and they be having 3 to 6 baby mama's 😅
cam’s views are exactly what’s wrong with our community and why we so behind 🤦🏽♂️ y’all ain’t ever seen asians or indians have these views on marriage and kids….😪
And its people like him that wonder why they'll never get married and for women like myself wonder why we're scared again relationships with people like that
Stop equating one black man to all black men. 😂 Thats insane. We have men like Cam who don't want a marriage, men like Nick Cannon that got pushed out there marriage, and black men like Will Smith who fight for there marriage. Etc we come in several varieties, so please love us. And also when a man does fight for his marriage please don't call it corny.
Cam is a professional narcissist who thought he was gonna gaslight his way through the interview. He shut down when he realized it wasn't gonna work. He literally started ignoring her while slumped in his chair, when she would ask him a question. She literally asked him "do you have any boys out of the 8 children. I'd assume you do, but do you?" N he literally IGNORED her n stared off into the distance out of irritation. So she just continued talking. He was highly upset that he lost control of the conversation n was not being coddled for his behavior n passive aggressive responses. I turned it off after that. Bc why are you now acting like a child n being disrespectful? Ignoring YOUR guest on YOUR show? Corny. He needs help. He's struggled the entire interview to reclaim his dominance over her n she wouldn't allow it.
oh that's not even the worst thing he did , after the interview , Cam then put on his page saying Dr Bryant is 41 years old but has no children ... errm what did that have to do with the subject he brought up to Dr Bryant , questions he asked her
I get Dr. Bryant’s argument. Take it from me: from my personal experience growing up with parents who have multiple children with different partners does have an affect on the children. You might be active in their lives, which is good, but that doesn’t mean you can be there for them every single day.
Still haven't heard a solid answer of why ppl be quick to.have kids w/ someone but hesitate on marriage. And marriage is not for everyone, but why not put the same thought process in both decision. At least marriage you can divorce but kids you are locked in for life, regardless. Than the innocent human have to live w/ the repercussions of your bad descions making 🤦🏾♀️😭
Because men fear losing their money/assets more than they fear childbirth/having kids. Having children is more of a burden for a woman than it is a man. A man DIRECTLY feels the hit when his pocket gets drained. It’s a different type of risk that they would rather prioritize avoiding. And women make it easy for them by having their children with no real commitment.
And they can't use the excuse that marriage puts their finances at risk because #1 half of yall don't barely have anything #2 there is a such thing as prenup #3 having kids put you at risk of paying child support so you're finances are still at risk 🤷🏾♀️
I watched the full video last night and I must say it was very interesting. Dr. Bryant was too much for Cam intellectually. He was definitely taking things way to personal. She was hitting some points and he was hollering. He is a Low functioning High value man.
I agree! I cringed at his responses. He was really hurt by her saying he created broken homes. It's true. Instead of accepting it and doing better moving forward he tries to defend it and doesn't make sense. Even if his kids live with him their mom doesn't so that's still a broken home.
She’s only there for a coin cause why else would she how can any woman talk against being a pick me and the. Become one if it’s not benefiting them. She’s not low. 😂
Cam shut down as she made him realise that he's not as smart as he believes he is. This woman wasn't blinded by fame and money. But money and status has allowed him to do what he has.
@@tobiaslawrence8928Doesn't matter, he's has a legacy, she don't. Marriage is a huge risk with these gynocratic judges and court systems. Since we are speaking on broken homes, speak to Pookie and Keisha first before Cam, cause least Cam can afford them. Pookie cannot, not Keisha.
@bigant4103 showing his arrogant ignorance, tried to cook but got flamed by Charleston White and the again by Bryant. He had no intelligent rebuttals with either and many times both put him on quiet status.
Yes.... she does her homework and has solid opinions on topics. She really should take over "jess with the mess" permanently because her stories do grab your attention.
I don’t know why some black men thinks that it is ok to have multiple children with multiple women which is creating more single parent homes. We are the only community of people that glorifies this instead of creating intact families.
Honestly we all need to be thanking Cam cause a lot of us needed to hear that. All jokes aside, as men we should be more willing to put ourselves in situations that will force growth. It was uncomfortable, awkward, but it was real. We never see anything real anymore so it was nice.
@@saundersdrakkar1996 yeah I think he felt it because he kept basically saying she comes from a broken home but he didn't so he's better. With that thought so many people will see his kids the same. 😒🥱🥴🥴🥴🤞🏾💅🏾🕳️🕳️🕳️
This is constructive criticism for Cam and many men who have children by different women. This Dr. was on point. You often hear men say, "All my kids are provided for." Some men think being of high value supercedes the importance of being a present father. They fail to realize child support and sporadic moments in a child's life cannot replace the invaluable time and love from a father under one roof. Simply showing up for special moments (birthdays, games, graduations, etc.) cannot replace the value of both parents' presence in a child's life. People will argue that the child is good, but I would challenge any father with several kids from different women to ask their kids how they really feel about seeing their father once a week, month/year, or receiving a text or phone call. Worse, never at all. I speak from experience as a grown man who experienced what it was like being one of five children from different mothers. My dad was not involved in my life and even to this day, it affects me. When I married my wife, I knew I would not want to be like him. I have been married for 26 years now. My wife and I raised two children who are now grown and doing well in life.
Jess is the Best, Loren perspective sometimes is out of touch for me due to her age Jess is also young but seems more realistic with reality and she brings some comedy.
Cam Newton has always listened to respond, not to learn. I don't enjoy the content he puts out. The energy feels negative. Everybody doesn't mean you well. I wish him the best with his platform though.
Yep, when he told her to just tell him when he can talk, was very telling of him. I like how she didn't allow herself to be rushed and finished her point anyway.
why would you then wish him well with his platform Sir??? Words have meaning! If it's negative, let's hope it's is exposed for what it is and FAILS.....so the community isn't negatively influenced by it. We gotta start thinking critically and stop being scared to keep it a buck at the sake of seeming to be a "hater".
@@jayo208 I mean it's like you don't want to wish fir anyone's failure that said, so much disinformation and bad influences have been heaped upon us so it's stinging-ly needed
In broken homes majority of only thing a man can do is provide. It’s impossible for him to protect at the highest level when he isn’t in same household
Ninjas like Cam only talk about themselves and what they want. They never seem to concern themselves with how their lifestyle affects their children... then will get mad their kids have issues with them 😂
Because the children are not important to him. They're afterthoughts after he shot his load. If he cared about his children he wouldn't force them to share daddy in so many different households.
Im sorry, but as a female, accountability goes BOTH ways. If I want to get married I’m not gonna open my legs to a man who’s telling the world that he doesn’t want to get married.
They are irresponsible! I’m not having children, but I have two dogs and I see how much attention I have to give them and it has to be equal or they get jealous. I can’t imagine having to give the same attention to children in different households
Dr. Bryant was giving knowledge and education for the community! Constructive criticism is a gift, however, those who hate the truth would rather a lie! Cam was too busy competing and belittling..smh
Cam thinking the way that he thinks is why low vibration men feel like they do about Russell Wilson. You Never hear high vibration men talking negatively about Russell Wilson.
Cam Newton: I'm not married and have 8 beautiful children...by 3 different women and I want more. Also Cam Newton: I'm incapable of being committed as a husband and father. I just keep having baby mamas and not a full time father to 8 children in multiple homes.
All kevin ever did was stop men from having the benefit of the doubt for single moms, who in their delusions would call him and talk about their dreams of bagging really handsome and wealthy men while they themselves provided nothing in return
@@jmar385 He did NOT urge men to get married in college. Men barely go to college. He himself didn't graduate. He promoted men making lots of money and working out so that they can attract the "Baddies" which he lied and claimed he could get. He was trying to teach them how to attract and then disrespect women.
What I find crazy is he will be praised for this lifestyle yet the women who choose to have children him will be told they are worthless, no one wants a woman with kids etc. Such a broken world for anyone in involved in that dynamic. Lets aim to build homes with both parents!
Dr. Bryant brought 💯% facts that Cam couldn't argue with. It's easy to question any woman's standards that it seems so high for any man to reach, it proves that men out here need to catch up to women.
Dr. Bryant schooled him on his own podcast and it was well deserved! I grew up in a broken home......which is one of the reasons why I don't have biological children
If a lot of black men just sit down and actually think & talk about their personal beliefs to therapist, they would come to a better understanding of relationships in regards to cheating, baby mama/daddy culture & polyamory.
She had Cam and Nick stumped they were getting annoyed with the truth that made absolute sense they began deflecting by making jokes and Nick started talking about his money and how he finesse women to sleep with them, sounding real childish....Dr. Bryant knows what she knows...
Those men fearing divorce just create a prenup, and both agree that way both are protected. Having children with many different women is beyond irresponsible
I really hate that people say Eminem is a culture vulture - He is a part of Black culture. He never pretended to be anything he’s not. Never paraded Black women around as props. He’s a great MC that just happens to be white.
@kdotname260 He can’t be a culture vulture. He put on 50 and D12. He’s actually put on more black artist. I can’t even think of any white artists he put on.
So I would have agreed but his old time raps degrading black women will always make him a culture vulture. He came in disrespectful and rode off the backs of black men.
A lot of these men are more concerned about how marriage can negatively affect their bank accounts but not how sowing seed in the wrong woman can affect the life of their kids for GENERATIONS to come. A mature mindset shifts from “I need to protect myself” to “I need to best position myself to pass the baton to my kids”. It goes from “me” to “I’m part of an existence that’s bigger than me.” When this thing hit me I stopped having sex with for satisfaction and reserved sex for a man I would see fitting to father my children. I wasn’t a mother yet but my kids were continually on my mind. The next person I had sex with became my husband. We’ve broken so many generational cycles just by our decision to be married. My kids are the FIRST in my family to have a SAFE and stable home environment. That’s the biggest flex you can ever have in this life. That outweighs any fear I could possibly have of divorce because we are both committed to the same purpose. The moment I allow my feelings to tell me otherwise that “bigger picture” is what anchors me to my vows.
We uplift people due to celebrity. They can be complete morons but if they are famous, they are automatically intelligent. The pride in Cam's eyes said it all. Simple as hell.
👏🏽 I'm so glad Dr. Bryant said to Cam on his platform what I've been saying for sometime now with those I've worked with and in my social and behavioral science thesis. Just like Cam, some others need to understand that having a high monetary value or claiming to be so-called "high vibrational" does not equate to being a high functioning person and mate for another. ☮️
You're absolutely right he was definitely was bothered and aggravated by the truth that she stated.. and he became very defensive and tried to explain his situation. This conversation actually made me think about my own situation in my own decisions good interview.
She corrected him very elegantly in my opinion Cam just didn’t want to hear the truth about himself….Fearing marriage but not fearing different women raising your seeds is crazy work🙄🤦🏽♀️
I’m glad a narc who sits and crosses his leg with such conceited energy and acts well read and smarter than the average bear, gets schooled by someone who sees a man and not impressed with his fame.
Ladies look at the math. Yes, Cam is clearly at fault. But this is 1 man who got 3 women pregnant. Those women also made the decision to have his children. That is why 73% of black children are born into broken homes and yet 54% of single black men have 0 children. Women, why is it so hard to not have children out of wedlock? I don’t understand that.
@@chinyelundubisi9985 I agree! But the numbers are crazy. There are a minority of men getting multiple women pregnant. And it’s wild that the stigma, online at least, is thrown at men more. Even in Cam’s situation at least 2 of the women were still okay having children by him, knowing that he currently has children out of wedlock.
By the age of 40, 80% of bm have kids. Stop spreading misinformation. If that 50% stat was true, it wouldn't prove bm were victims like you intended, the black community would have a lot of degenerate kids because of the small gene pool thst would result from small group of fathers fathering all the kids. Please pick up a book and educate yourself. Improve your critical thinking.
I think as long as he was honest and upfront with the women that he's not looking for marriage no time soon, and the woman still decided to stay with him and let him hit raw, then it's on both of them not just him. Now if he was lying and saying that he want's to get married in x amount of years and all that then that's something else. But baby mama #2 and #3 that's on them for continuing with a guy knowing he was popping out kids and never got married.
@@cedriclloyd5571 That’s what I said at the end. At least two of the women were okay with having children with him, knowing that he hits raw uncommitted.
Did you not listen to what it really means by definition..... The same parents but in different homes... Or Parents being parental to different households. Cam claims his kids live with em...but the Mother's aren't in the household.
Cam thought he was being so charismatic. And she put him in his place.
Respectfully
Hahaha
Start the video at 3:04. They spent more time talking about Eminem and Drake then they did about Cam🙄
@@melb8352thanks chile lol
Thanks @@melb8352
Creating broken homes for your own satisfaction is crazy AF
U mean like Eboni K Williams
A woman needs to nip it off while he sleeps
He's tall, good-looking & an athlete. He should be spreading his seeds all over. He has good genetics.
Women have been doing it for decades. What about ebony williams ?. Empowering ?
@@KingTechHD Why the hell are yall making it a sex thing. Thats black people problem now pointing blame. IT IS WRONG FEMALE OR MALE. You freaking special ones.
Cam is not alone with how he thinks. Thats part of the reason why the dating pool is trash. People need healing
And yet women (black & white) are lining up to be with these men.
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lol and do you think women will stop throwing themselves at him?? so who is the dating pool bad for women that want to be wives?
@@user-ql9it8go2jYou are missing the point
@@user-ql9it8go2j Bad for everyone. Men, Women and Them. Women who want to be wives, men who want to be husbands and so on and so forth.
Not wanting to get married is one thing, but saying your scared of marriage but not afraid to have children with women you don’t see a future with, while admitting you would like to find someone to marry and have even more children is ridiculous. 😅
It's baffling
That whole part like make it make sense
That sister said it to Cam very plain and real.
Men fear a divorce but don't fear a woman raising your child. That's crazy
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That’s true‼️
Right. I think it’s their egos. They are afraid of looking foolish to their peers and marrying the “wrong person” .. and ending up divorced, or being played. Also, they are more concerned with their money and image than they are with their kids
@@shonda0413 men fear their bank accounts being drained from divorce... that's it no extras
@@shonda0413 women believe raising a child in a single parent household is a flex 🤷🏿♂️ trashy people meet trashy people and complain how ugly their own reflection is.
I'm sick of some ppl cosigning Cam's behavior. You rearrange guts all day, have 100 kids but marrying someone is just too much. 😂
Ngl, I left my ex bc he was willing to try to get me pregnant but not put a ring on it after a decade. I married non-black man and got married 10 months later. 🤷🏽♀️
It's a lot cheaper
Co-signing because he’s a millionaire… he’s toxic…
It's not only cam .. I am sure everyone knows someone with more than 3 baby mama's.. the problem is that we only criticize our women ...
The amount of men who believe that marriage is a bigger commitment than having children.
I can't lie. She had Cam looking foolish. She put a lot into perspective that all of us as black men need to really sit with ourselves and consider. Women too.
Smartest comment 👏🏽
This is how a lot of black men think. Black men are more of their d size than being a good family man.
Accountability ✊🏿💯
Shut up, most men don't have money like cam has to tick on these women to have 8 baby mothers. 8 women pick the same man, and that's the problem the women picking losers, then blaming men. Then u got u diddy simps who say whatever to the woman because u weak and can only get box if u lie like a coward
Facts, I’m sure Cam is an excellent father and he isn’t omnipresent and that impacts his kids whether he acknowledges or not.
Getting cooked in real time is rough, that therapist was 100% right, don't say you're taking your time finding a wife but you popping kids out left and right like having the kid isn't the decision that you should have spent more thinking about.
Yeah making this video public took a lot of guts on Cams behalf
He has no foresight. He'll be one of those dudes trying to settle down at 60, then wondering why no woman of value wants him. He better make sure he's still well off because if not, he's screwed.
@@quizman5 sex and marriage have no relation at all. Hence cam. Kids and marriage have no relation at all, hence cam and your average joes. This is 2024. We about pleasure and money and divorce. Nobody has to get married. What does that say about the women who slept with him?
@@The_torero they mostly go broke because of poor spending habits like having six kids. 🤞🏾💅🏾💅🏾🥱😏
Nobody is telling the man to get married, he actually shouldn't because he would probably make a terrible husband. It's the fact that he and many others see marriage as too much of a permanent commitment, but creating human lives isn't lol
Yes, to be honest being MarriEd doesn’t equal a successful relationship. You have to be a good person. He’s not a good person therefore, he will never be a good husband, unless he becomes a good person.
Because they don't have to really deal with it. They can just walk away or send money every month and still get to have freedom.
Facts!
like for real that is so backwards
@@ReadyorNot811that is exactly it
He was closed off cause them words HIT Hard. He is selectively creating Broken Homes cause every home can't have Poppa there. As a Man and an Active Father you never want to intentionally cause harm or damage to your children. Also Emotional Damage is harder and may take longer to heal, sometimes those wounds don't close.
Facts
Facts!!!
Precisely 💯
Homes aren’t broken because the father isn’t in it. Homes are broken because the family is broken. There are plenty of families where the father doesn’t live in the home but they are still there for their kids 100% and they have a healthy family dynamic. Let’s be honest relationships don’t always work out and that’s okay people are not doing their kids any favors staying together JUST because they have kids.
Women already told you they don’t need no man they strong and independent. So what’s wrong? You’re strong take care of it yourself
He was very dismissive and even tried to discredit Dr Bryant and tried to exploit her sex life ...Cam Newton is trifflin
Cam Newton is a narcissist
He most certainly is triflin
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That’s why he’s not in the NFL anymore !
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Cam is going to be in his 60’s talking about ‘I think I’m ready to settle down now’. Sad thing is, him and millions like him are out there making broken homes with no issue. Neither him, Nick or future will change their minds on this.
@@BeautiifulliMade and women will still allow them access to their body and keep bearing them children just based on who they're and what they have . So women are the issue here. 🤔
Shouldn't women be held accountable for having kids with these men??
What about the girls that still smash and have his kids? What about them? Always the man’s fault?
@@cmarko5000yes but we are talking about the man in question now
@@lexaneli yes, the women that are having his kids.. shouldn't they be held accountable? You know your having a baby by a man who has no plans to be with you.
"...Selfishly creating broken families..."💯💯💯
Why do you care tho? 🤔
He was trying his best to expose her but she exposed him for being full of it
So tired of men wanting to be Father Abraham’s with so many multiple women. And women , accepting it .
@jgj5369 if you have money or are good in bed women will accept anything a man put them through
Because they accepting them checks
😂facts
Its Preselection
I’m so tired of women using men for money.
What’s sad is that what Cam said is ridiculous, but he probably will find him a 4th baby mama, shit maybe even a 5th and a 6th.
He could.
@user-hh6pb7ct5s if a man has money and resources he could have 20 baby mama's if he wanted scoot your neighborhood pookie and Ray Ray have zero dollars and they be having 3 to 6 baby mama's 😅
Right
At my job it was so many young women who express wanting to be nba yung boys next bm and 😮
That was a wild convo
Oh better believe after that interview, some sideways thinking women are jumping to get in line!
Yeah because he rich and women will always lineup for a bag
cam’s views are exactly what’s wrong with our community and why we so behind 🤦🏽♂️ y’all ain’t ever seen asians or indians have these views on marriage and kids….😪
Chile. Idk what to do. I have stopped dating all together.
Another dumb football player what else is new
And its people like him that wonder why they'll never get married and for women like myself wonder why we're scared again relationships with people like that
Indians don’t be having many kids and many wives ? You must be smoking
Stop equating one black man to all black men. 😂 Thats insane. We have men like Cam who don't want a marriage, men like Nick Cannon that got pushed out there marriage, and black men like Will Smith who fight for there marriage. Etc we come in several varieties, so please love us. And also when a man does fight for his marriage please don't call it corny.
Cam is a professional narcissist who thought he was gonna gaslight his way through the interview. He shut down when he realized it wasn't gonna work. He literally started ignoring her while slumped in his chair, when she would ask him a question. She literally asked him "do you have any boys out of the 8 children. I'd assume you do, but do you?" N he literally IGNORED her n stared off into the distance out of irritation. So she just continued talking. He was highly upset that he lost control of the conversation n was not being coddled for his behavior n passive aggressive responses. I turned it off after that. Bc why are you now acting like a child n being disrespectful? Ignoring YOUR guest on YOUR show? Corny. He needs help. He's struggled the entire interview to reclaim his dominance over her n she wouldn't allow it.
You’re right
You should have stopped at the beginning 😎
oh that's not even the worst thing he did , after the interview , Cam then put on his page saying Dr Bryant is 41 years old but has no children ...
errm what did that have to do with the subject he brought up to Dr Bryant , questions he asked her
Exactly!!!!
Your exactly right
I get Dr. Bryant’s argument. Take it from me: from my personal experience growing up with parents who have multiple children with different partners does have an affect on the children. You might be active in their lives, which is good, but that doesn’t mean you can be there for them every single day.
I don't get how you get to the point of having multiple children with multiple partners. That's not carelessness. That's stupidity.
How many kids by how many women?
If they don’t live with you, that’s EXACTLY what it means. Come back to earth and stop pacifying your own behavior.
@@nylotus7514 I had to rewrite my comment because what I originally said was misinterpreted
@@kyndracrump none and none
Still haven't heard a solid answer of why ppl be quick to.have kids w/ someone but hesitate on marriage. And marriage is not for everyone, but why not put the same thought process in both decision. At least marriage you can divorce but kids you are locked in for life, regardless. Than the innocent human have to live w/ the repercussions of your bad descions making 🤦🏾♀️😭
Because people are selfish. They create broken homes for themselves. They don’t stop and think about what’s best for the kids.
There is no solid answer. It's illogical and dumb.
Because men fear losing their money/assets more than they fear childbirth/having kids. Having children is more of a burden for a woman than it is a man. A man DIRECTLY feels the hit when his pocket gets drained. It’s a different type of risk that they would rather prioritize avoiding. And women make it easy for them by having their children with no real commitment.
And they can't use the excuse that marriage puts their finances at risk because #1 half of yall don't barely have anything #2 there is a such thing as prenup #3 having kids put you at risk of paying child support so you're finances are still at risk 🤷🏾♀️
@@moorek790this part! 😂
I watched the full video last night and I must say it was very interesting. Dr. Bryant was too much for Cam intellectually. He was definitely taking things way to personal. She was hitting some points and he was hollering. He is a Low functioning High value man.
I would take out the high value loves …. Lolol but agree with you 1000000000000 percent
Having money doesn’t equate to being high value
I agree! I cringed at his responses. He was really hurt by her saying he created broken homes. It's true. Instead of accepting it and doing better moving forward he tries to defend it and doesn't make sense. Even if his kids live with him their mom doesn't so that's still a broken home.
I swear I watched it as it premiered and I immediately said she was too much for Cam. His arrogance is high and he really made his partner look bad
@@NieshaB2012Cam Newton isn't high value?? 😂😂 What's up with you
I just got married and I’m 28 and I feel really good - no kids btw. Wish everyone can feel what we have rn.
I am praying to one day to have a great marriage. Congrats to you!
I’m sorry
Congratulations 🎉 blessing to your and your Wife ….
Many blessings☺️
Congrats 👏🏿 😊
Meanwhile Jazzy on the gram shucking and jiving with him to " I can't have one woman, gotta have three." You got to have clowns to make a circus 🤷🏾♀️
BIG FACTS! I saw that and was like Sis....Sis....Sis...
That’s what ungodly women do
Facts....
She’s only there for a coin cause why else would she how can any woman talk against being a pick me and the. Become one if it’s not benefiting them. She’s not low. 😂
And if women did what he's doin, watch how quickly they shame her
Cam shut down as she made him realise that he's not as smart as he believes he is. This woman wasn't blinded by fame and money. But money and status has allowed him to do what he has.
She's at that age where she's seen his type and can cut straight through it.
@@tobiaslawrence8928Doesn't matter, he's has a legacy, she don't. Marriage is a huge risk with these gynocratic judges and court systems. Since we are speaking on broken homes, speak to Pookie and Keisha first before Cam, cause least Cam can afford them. Pookie cannot, not Keisha.
Cam made himself sound stupid
How
@bigant4103 showing his arrogant ignorance, tried to cook but got flamed by Charleston White and the again by Bryant. He had no intelligent rebuttals with either and many times both put him on quiet status.
@@SammyPeterson-zk7jbhe was speechl3ss. He told her to say l3ss.
It would of took Jess 20 minutes and 7 retakes to get through the first paragraph….good job Lauren 😂😂😂😂
Right! I would have tuned out and not followed the story.
An uncomfortable truth.
Ayo 😂😂😂
Plus, Lauren watched the Cam interview twice, Jess could never!! 😄😄
@@SY-js5oc Where is Jess?
3:07 you’re welcome.
Thank you
Thank youuuuuuuuuu ❤
😂Thank you
U should continue this
Thank you. Because I don’t give a shit about Eminem
I love the way Lauren breaks down their stories and also give in-depth knowledge based analysis and opinions ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes.... she does her homework and has solid opinions on topics. She really should take over "jess with the mess" permanently because her stories do grab your attention.
she been doing well!
I don’t know why some black men thinks that it is ok to have multiple children with multiple women which is creating more single parent homes. We are the only community of people that glorifies this instead of creating intact families.
Because they’re more proud of their ability to sling the wood than being a good family man.
we also glorify using Abortion as contraceptives... our culture is corrupt to the core.
And women let him 🤷🏾
Why do women CHOOSE to have those kids tho
@@kennythii we know in this new culture women don't have any accountability, none
Honestly we all need to be thanking Cam cause a lot of us needed to hear that. All jokes aside, as men we should be more willing to put ourselves in situations that will force growth. It was uncomfortable, awkward, but it was real. We never see anything real anymore so it was nice.
I know I did. I felt seen by Dr. Bryant. I cried so many times hearing her speak.
I love your willingness to be wrong and open to new perspectives.
Lol, I love to see women do this but they don't take accountability and will point to the nearest man for him to take accountability.@@aledomer6805
@@saundersdrakkar1996 yeah I think he felt it because he kept basically saying she comes from a broken home but he didn't so he's better. With that thought so many people will see his kids the same. 😒🥱🥴🥴🥴🤞🏾💅🏾🕳️🕳️🕳️
This is constructive criticism for Cam and many men who have children by different women. This Dr. was on point. You often hear men say, "All my kids are provided for." Some men think being of high value supercedes the importance of being a present father. They fail to realize child support and sporadic moments in a child's life cannot replace the invaluable time and love from a father under one roof. Simply showing up for special moments (birthdays, games, graduations, etc.) cannot replace the value of both parents' presence in a child's life. People will argue that the child is good, but I would challenge any father with several kids from different women to ask their kids how they really feel about seeing their father once a week, month/year, or receiving a text or phone call. Worse, never at all.
I speak from experience as a grown man who experienced what it was like being one of five children from different mothers. My dad was not involved in my life and even to this day, it affects me. When I married my wife, I knew I would not want to be like him. I have been married for 26 years now. My wife and I raised two children who are now grown and doing well in life.
Cam got schooled.
Give Loren a JOB!! Much needed intelligence, perspective and professionalism! I still enjoy Jess but the difference is massive.
Jess is protected because she’s on maternity leave. But, I do like her here.
Jess is the Best, Loren perspective sometimes is out of touch for me due to her age Jess is also young but seems more realistic with reality and she brings some comedy.
The shade!!! Let's not do that respectfully
Signed woman to
woman
Cam Newton has always listened to respond, not to learn. I don't enjoy the content he puts out. The energy feels negative. Everybody doesn't mean you well. I wish him the best with his platform though.
Yep, when he told her to just tell him when he can talk, was very telling of him. I like how she didn't allow herself to be rushed and finished her point anyway.
Everyone has that victim mentally now
why would you then wish him well with his platform Sir??? Words have meaning! If it's negative, let's hope it's is exposed for what it is and FAILS.....so the community isn't negatively influenced by it. We gotta start thinking critically and stop being scared to keep it a buck at the sake of seeming to be a "hater".
@@jayo208 he speak facts everyone just likes to bitch now
@@jayo208 I mean it's like you don't want to wish fir anyone's failure that said, so much disinformation and bad influences have been heaped upon us so it's stinging-ly needed
He felt closed off because they are not used to women confronting their behavior. Him and Nick are not used to that.
Cam is the worst example of a black Man. Just because he can throw a football doesn’t mean he knows crap about love or being a good father
Lmfao stop. You only know what u see on the internet . You ain’t spent 10 mins getting to know that man to know him like that😂😂😂😂
@@milosanchez7194he’s whites
@@milosanchez7194 and you have? Stop being a simp for this man.
@@milosanchez7194Are you deaf the video explained what the problem is
@@n64central on the outside looking in, man. Let it go.
In broken homes majority of only thing a man can do is provide. It’s impossible for him to protect at the highest level when he isn’t in same household
Ninjas like Cam only talk about themselves and what they want.
They never seem to concern themselves with how their lifestyle affects their children... then will get mad their kids have issues with them 😂
That's most people tbh
Bro his children good. Dnt believe everything you hear from a doctor or counterpart
80% kids have divided families
Because the children are not important to him. They're afterthoughts after he shot his load. If he cared about his children he wouldn't force them to share daddy in so many different households.
@@chrisallen3333what makes his children good? Because he's a millionaire? Just write the check huh, that's all it takes
Cam Newton is for the streets. Women of substance don’t want him for anything serious 😂
But they’ll have his kids
@@szn1580lol if he felt they were "women of substance", he would've married them.
@jas1565 what does it matter?...when them checks are gettiin cashed regardless. married or single.
@@szn1580No. Women of SUBSTANCE would not have his kids!
@@jas1565maybe marriage today doesn’t benefit men that much? Especially when they have money?
Cam Newton thought that pimp talk was going to work on all women.
Im sorry, but as a female, accountability goes BOTH ways. If I want to get married I’m not gonna open my legs to a man who’s telling the world that he doesn’t want to get married.
i never knew that cam had 8 kids. thats ridiculous and i dont understand how those guys do that with so many kids.
They are irresponsible! I’m not having children, but I have two dogs and I see how much attention I have to give them and it has to be equal or they get jealous. I can’t imagine having to give the same attention to children in different households
To be fair, 4 of them belong to his ex, but it doesn't change the fact that he's out here wrecklessly creating babies.
Only 5 are his
@@leighbotts9694 he can afford it he takes cares of them
@@BigDic-qz8su there's more to being a parent than just financially providing.
Cam Newtown sounded like the fool he is!
A real clown , what on earth is he teaching his children
Yep. His words finally matched his outfits.
Dr. Bryant was giving knowledge and education for the community! Constructive criticism is a gift, however, those who hate the truth would rather a lie! Cam was too busy competing and belittling..smh
Cam thinking the way that he thinks is why low vibration men feel like they do about Russell Wilson. You Never hear high vibration men talking negatively about Russell Wilson.
Cam Newton: I'm not married and have 8 beautiful children...by 3 different women and I want more.
Also Cam Newton: I'm incapable of being committed as a husband and father. I just keep having baby mamas and not a full time father to 8 children in multiple homes.
All his kids are resigned to a broken home.
Deliberately
Well that's what happens when men of the streets create kids. Broken cracked roads ahead
That child support for 8 kids must be crazy
Hence why he's doing a podcast ninja gotta work
I think he wants to get to 10 since some states terminate child support at that point.
A home can also be broken with 2 parents that are only together for the sake of the kids so you have to also be mindful of who you procreate with
This is true too
@@CeeP211 they don’t wanna hear this because it would require accountability because I’m sure 2 of them were only trying to get a check.
If you watch the interview she said that exactly.. cam comes from a 2 parent household but still has a school of kids
@@raqui174 if she did say it then she made her own “ broken home” narrative invalid.
That Lauren is such a breath of fresh air! Jess is not it sorry!
Agree
Who cares. Jess is staying
I just love how she’s not afraid to GO THERE!! Cause the truth can hurt.
Cam's mindset is what Kevin Samuel's taught these new age ninjas........ that mindset has tragically damaged the Black community......
Godfather living In your head rent free😂
Kevin Samuels never promoted this. FOH
Kevin Samuels urge people to get married in college‼️
All kevin ever did was stop men from having the benefit of the doubt for single moms, who in their delusions would call him and talk about their dreams of bagging really handsome and wealthy men while they themselves provided nothing in return
@@jmar385 He did NOT urge men to get married in college. Men barely go to college. He himself didn't graduate. He promoted men making lots of money and working out so that they can attract the "Baddies" which he lied and claimed he could get. He was trying to teach them how to attract and then disrespect women.
Yeah, Cam is stuck in his ways. That man will never change his views on alot of things, just gotta accept it.
Yep, if those are his goals, then who are we to tell him to stop. That's between him and the women he meets.
@@cedriclloyd5571 facts!
This girl wayyy better than Jess Hilarious 🤷🏽♂️
I’m so ready for Jess to come back… Loren has no personality to me🥴
Envy is such a lame 🤦🏾♂️ have no insightful opinion whatsoever
What I find crazy is he will be praised for this lifestyle yet the women who choose to have children him will be told they are worthless, no one wants a woman with kids etc. Such a broken world for anyone in involved in that dynamic. Lets aim to build homes with both parents!
3:37 His fear of divorce is greater than his desire to be married. There fixed it. HE SCARED.
Dr. Bryant brought 💯% facts that Cam couldn't argue with. It's easy to question any woman's standards that it seems so high for any man to reach, it proves that men out here need to catch up to women.
Dr. Bryant schooled him on his own podcast and it was well deserved! I grew up in a broken home......which is one of the reasons why I don't have biological children
If a lot of black men just sit down and actually think & talk about their personal beliefs to therapist, they would come to a better understanding of relationships in regards to cheating, baby mama/daddy culture & polyamory.
Nah
Nah black men like cam need to sit with a therapist lol
@@tobiaslawrence8928 the therapist would still have to conclude that entering a contract (marriage) with a 50/50 chance of failing is a poopoo idea
This is a real thought in men’s minds that they think is ok. It’s not . Love what she said to Cam.
Treat people how you want to be treated.
1 irresponsible man, 3 irresponsible women.
She had Cam and Nick stumped they were getting annoyed with the truth that made absolute sense they began deflecting by making jokes and Nick started talking about his money and how he finesse women to sleep with them, sounding real childish....Dr. Bryant knows what she knows...
Because at the end of the day they are grown men and will do whatever women will allow them to do.
he is wildly insecure. that confidence is a performative front for deep anxiety and insecurity.
Also if two parents are in the same home & are not mentally & emotionally healed it’s also creating a broken home for the child(ren).
Most people are not open to criticism. Cam probably wasn't expecting that. He doesn't want to face the truth.
Really not criticism. She was just stating the facts about his choices
Those men fearing divorce just create a prenup, and both agree that way both are protected. Having children with many different women is beyond irresponsible
Marriage is donezo in the west. Women open they legs without rings. Marriage is pointless now.
I really hate that people say Eminem is a culture vulture - He is a part of Black culture. He never pretended to be anything he’s not. Never paraded Black women around as props. He’s a great MC that just happens to be white.
@kdotname260
He can’t be a culture vulture. He put on 50 and D12. He’s actually put on more black artist. I can’t even think of any white artists he put on.
So I would have agreed but his old time raps degrading black women will always make him a culture vulture. He came in disrespectful and rode off the backs of black men.
Yall white films crazy. He is a culture vulture. Cracka should go play monopoly
He put people on and took them out the Hood
He's hiphop . People try to discredit him these days
I appreciate can for putting it out there and having that conversation. All men regardless of race should’ve felt what she said.
A lot of these men are more concerned about how marriage can negatively affect their bank accounts but not how sowing seed in the wrong woman can affect the life of their kids for GENERATIONS to come. A mature mindset shifts from “I need to protect myself” to “I need to best position myself to pass the baton to my kids”. It goes from “me” to “I’m part of an existence that’s bigger than me.”
When this thing hit me I stopped having sex with for satisfaction and reserved sex for a man I would see fitting to father my children. I wasn’t a mother yet but my kids were continually on my mind. The next person I had sex with became my husband. We’ve broken so many generational cycles just by our decision to be married. My kids are the FIRST in my family to have a SAFE and stable home environment. That’s the biggest flex you can ever have in this life. That outweighs any fear I could possibly have of divorce because we are both committed to the same purpose. The moment I allow my feelings to tell me otherwise that “bigger picture” is what anchors me to my vows.
This!!
Jelly Rolls Save me makes me tear up every single time. That song hits you in the soul if you have ever struggled
The mgs was not just Cam ... it's for all of us
Nobody can say what’s the perfect age to settle down. We are all on different timing.
We uplift people due to celebrity. They can be complete morons but if they are famous, they are automatically intelligent. The pride in Cam's eyes said it all. Simple as hell.
Why is Charlemagne always giving Lauren shit! She's a grown ass woman, let her live her life bro! Stop being so judgemental of her!!
And that’s why Eminem is an artist, not just a rapper. Not everyone in the industry can really call themselves artists.
Booo
Thank you.. I've been saying that for Years. There's a difference between being a rapper, and a hip hop "rap artist"
Unpopular opinion - Having children with someone is a BIGGER commitment than marriage. Any day of the week. Why people think the opposite baffles me.
Goodness, that was a huge dose of truth - and the truth is sometimes hard to swallow.
“My delusion is warranted” lol
Nothing wrong with being patient but in his case it’s contradicting as she I pointed out. Now if he had no kids that’s a different story
#KeepLauren
and we wonder why all these kids nowadays are so broken. We are cool sleeping around and having babies, but not being there for them.
👏🏽 I'm so glad Dr. Bryant said to Cam on his platform what I've been saying for sometime now with those I've worked with and in my social and behavioral science thesis. Just like Cam, some others need to understand that having a high monetary value or claiming to be so-called "high vibrational" does not equate to being a high functioning person and mate for another. ☮️
I hope Cam comes back and say, guys I WAS WRONG! Now that would be a COME BACK with the proper work....it's in all of us. (sorry I'm a libra)
Won't ever happen...his ego won't let him
Is Eboni K Williams?
You're absolutely right he was definitely was bothered and aggravated by the truth that she stated.. and he became very defensive and tried to explain his situation. This conversation actually made me think about my own situation in my own decisions good interview.
I hope yall know Lauren is it fr. Shoutout Jess but the difference is clear
Cam should get donkey of the day for that lol
Cam is lame and in his mind , he’s NEVER wrong
She corrected him very elegantly in my opinion Cam just didn’t want to hear the truth about himself….Fearing marriage but not fearing different women raising your seeds is crazy work🙄🤦🏽♀️
Child support is cheaper than divorce. He is protecting himself
And Em partnered with BetterHelp.
I’m glad a narc who sits and crosses his leg with such conceited energy and acts well read and smarter than the average bear, gets schooled by someone who sees a man and not impressed with his fame.
All videos before noon ? Is everyone ok ?
Lol i was like another one so soon!??
Cam be trynna sound smart but he’s an average thinker at best lll
I like Jess , but this woman (Lauren) does an amazing job. Much respect to her 🙌🏾
Ladies look at the math. Yes, Cam is clearly at fault. But this is 1 man who got 3 women pregnant. Those women also made the decision to have his children.
That is why 73% of black children are born into broken homes and yet 54% of single black men have 0 children.
Women, why is it so hard to not have children out of wedlock? I don’t understand that.
It's a mutual agreement, is it not? And believe it or not, there are BW out there who refuse to have children in a situation like this.
@@chinyelundubisi9985 I agree! But the numbers are crazy. There are a minority of men getting multiple women pregnant.
And it’s wild that the stigma, online at least, is thrown at men more. Even in Cam’s situation at least 2 of the women were still okay having children by him, knowing that he currently has children out of wedlock.
By the age of 40, 80% of bm have kids. Stop spreading misinformation. If that 50% stat was true, it wouldn't prove bm were victims like you intended, the black community would have a lot of degenerate kids because of the small gene pool thst would result from small group of fathers fathering all the kids. Please pick up a book and educate yourself. Improve your critical thinking.
I think as long as he was honest and upfront with the women that he's not looking for marriage no time soon, and the woman still decided to stay with him and let him hit raw, then it's on both of them not just him. Now if he was lying and saying that he want's to get married in x amount of years and all that then that's something else. But baby mama #2 and #3 that's on them for continuing with a guy knowing he was popping out kids and never got married.
@@cedriclloyd5571 That’s what I said at the end. At least two of the women were okay with having children with him, knowing that he hits raw uncommitted.
You only get one of these things called life. If that’s how he rollin and he can find women to partake and handle the consequences, so be it.
Is a broken home really a broken home if the father is super active 🤔?
Duh! If a child is not waking up and going to bed with a healthy two parent household, that’s a broken home.
Did you not listen to what it really means by definition..... The same parents but in different homes... Or Parents being parental to different households. Cam claims his kids live with em...but the Mother's aren't in the household.
Cam is a clown.
Loren…is “re-viral” a word?!?! If not let’s make it one please! 😂🤣😂🤣