i hate beauty standards, im only 12 and i’m told i’m supposed to be skinny and thick at the same time, and if i have straight hair, i need to curl it and if i have curly hair i need to straighten it. it feels like i’m never enough for the standards
awh baby...you’re beautiful just the way you are. please don’t let unachievable beauty standards get to your head. you are enough. you are so much more than your physical appearance.
I call myself ugly everyday, not trying to be a crybaby or anything haha, I just hate myself, no good features. Everyone assumes I am a pedo. *I am not a adult* But I still try to work hard in life!
"You need to stop wearing tight pants they show too much." "Oh my god I wish I had your body!!" "If I had your body I'd show it off." "All the boys will be chasing you!!" "Don't eat so much, you don't want to lose your figure." "Eat a bit more, you're so skinny." I wear oversized hoodies and baggy pants now, sometimes I eat nothing but sometimes I eat a lot. "I want to be okay."
this exactly. all i want to wear is baggy clothes and just hide my body. im exhausted of people thinking they deserve an opinion on how i look and telling me how to dress and saying i dress like a whore because of the way clothes fit my body. nothing will ever be good enough for anyone, so all we can do is realize our own beauty and self worth.
i wish i was just pretty and skinny like i’ll say i’m ugly and then my friends are like “ no ur not ur so pretty “ but i just think they are lying. i hate beauty standards. i’m legit 13 i hate it
Being pretty is a mindset love :) I know it’s so so hard to love yourself when social media is shoving these unattainable beauty standards down your throat every day, but it’s gonna get easier. You’ll be okay :) Just try your best to realize that you are enough. You are so loved. You don’t need to look like them to be beautiful. Every body is unique and amazing. I hope one day you can see how beautiful and amazing you truely are, because you are a diamond babygirl 💕
It sucks bro I used to be so skinny but now I’m on the grind to get back the way I was. It just sucks that I used to be one the fastest too and now one of the slowest in the group.
I was listening to this, and i remembered when I was in Fifth grade, it was the last day I was going to school that year, the moms made a video of when we we're kid, when my classmates saw my pictures they said : "Oh, Emily was skinny" And they all started laughing, stills hurts
Oh ı am so sorry ı am just 12 and ı am 63 kg... everyone tells me the same ı wish we can be better ı bet we can do it just dont cry babe no one can say that
anyone who sees this,, know that you're perfect the way you are, and you don't have to change anything, you might be "too skinny" or "not skinny enough" but people who like you for you would think you're perfect
i really really felt this one when i had a crush on my now boyfriend i always thought he didnt like me because i wasnt pretty enough but the reason he didnt like me wasnt because i was trying to hard to fit in with all the other girls around him and it wasnt until i started being my goofy self in front him that he started to fall in love with me , so the moral of the story is being yourself and not fitting in is much more attractive than fitting in and not being yourself
My mom asks me why I am always in my room and don’t socialize well the thing she doesn’t know where ever I am I get laughed at because my fatness and people call me gay and short to the point where I feel silent every time I talk I get interrupted and secluded
When will people wake up and realise someone people are just born with a little more weight and some people are born a little skinner. And we can’t do anything about it.
"shut up." "count your calories." i never look good in mom jeans.. wish i was like you, blue eyed blondie perfect body maybe i should try harder. you should lower your expectations... im no quick curl barbie. i was never cut out for prom queen. if i get more pretty ...do you think he would like me?
lyrics: Shut up, count your calories I never looked good in mom jeans Wish I was like you Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body Maybe I should try harder You should lower your expectations I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I get more pretty Do you think he will like me? Disect my insecurities I'm a defect, surgical project It's getting hard to breathe There's plastic wrap in my cheeks Maybe I should try harder You should lower your beauty standards I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I'm pretty, will you like me? They say "Beauty makes boys happy" I've been starving myself Carving skin until my bones are showing Teach me how to be okay I don't wanna downplay my emotions They say "Beauty is vain You'll only be happy if you look a certain way" I wanna be okay I wanna be okay
When I was 11 I hated how I looked I was weak and skinny and whenever I looked at myself in the mirror I told myself “you must be pretty.” I then had an eating disorder and now I am 13 and I truly regret everything I did, to those who are reading this and going threw the same.. please take care of yourself don’t turn out like how I did that left multiple trauma marks, I hope you will get better and be happy who you are💚🖤.
do you know when you dont have an eating disorder and you're told you're skinny like really skinny but everytime you look in the mirror and you see your body you just see fat, im only happy when my stomach is flat, and thats only in the morning. i guess im happy to have fast motabilsim but i will always feel obese when im not. What is this. Is there a disorder for me or am i just ugly.?
You’re beautiful. The voice in your head that tells you otherwise is wrong. I have that aswell. But I am fat. Feeling bad isn’t being ugly. I hope somehow since I know it’s hard. To make peace with your body to the point you don’t have to like it but at least not hate it❤️
"Shut up, count your calories I never looked good in mom jeans Wish I was like you Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body" In middle school I went through many stages of my looks, I wished I was white then. I got bullied and called "Poop skin" This girl named Brittney was the exact definition of "Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body" I swear I admired her like she was a pop-star. I hope no one has to go what I went through in middle school. May god bless you all. 😊 -A black freshman 🧍🏾♀️
You are beautiful. I hate my own body. I used to try not to eat as much. It doesn’t make me feel good. I hope you seek help from family or friends. Sending love
I used to listen to this back when I was deep in my ED- For those who need to hear, you're lovely and beautiful. ED's take away so much from you. They take away memories, loved ones, they take yourself away in general. No matter what weight you are, you're just as valid. It's gonna get better, it might not seem like it now, but you've got this!
This is old but to anyone who needs to hear this: You will never be the same weight you were 3 years ago, no one will. You are perfect the way you are you may think “how can you know I’m perfect without reason” well if people can hate without reason I can love, I’m proud of you, keep going.
hey you, yes you. You're beautiful, smart, kind, and deserve the world! You have so much value and I hope you have/had a great day! I love you, keep going! We need you.
I'm 18 but whenever someone has been in a situation like this, i will always assure them that they are enough. . . I just feel sad because I've never met anyone who has a similar mindset like me, that's why it's always just me who gets to treat them with assurance and consistency and when they have enough, they'll go over and chase a wrong person again, leaving me and not appreciate the things i did to them 😅
Remember beauty is subjective and even though it hurts the truth is you can never match everyones definition of beauty. People who really love you will see you as beautiful no matter what.
i just want you to know that you are beautiful even if you don’t feel like it you are, i know you are, and i hope when you do find friends they treat you right and you can be happy❤️
he messes with my mind so much without him realizing and its driving me insane and we already agreed to be nothing more than friends but im still trying so hard to find ways for him to feel the same way i do. every little thing i encountered in life ever since i met him has js reminded me of him. every song always relates back to him. ever word i hear around me reminds me of him. its hurting so much
Im 11 and I always feel the need to 'fit' the standards when in reality even if I even did come remotely close to it there would always be something I need to change. Beauty standards shouldn't exist because I think everyone is perfect the way they are
I think we should enjoy our youth while we can. I’m thirteen years old, personally. I make jokes about my mental health and about my looks and that I hate myself. I downplay it. And that’s unfortunately what a lot of society sees as “normal.” The world has a fucked up perception of what people should look like. They don’t take into consideration your feelings. They don’t care if you’re not comfortable wearing something or doing something. And a lot of people follow this and ruin their minds. They end up thinking that they’re not good enough for the world. It’s hard. I would know. But the thing is that all of the people we see online are showing us fake realities. They’re showing what their “ideal” world would be, not theirs. They use filters, make up, and fake their lives to please themselves and their viewers. So don’t feel bad when you look at yourself in the mirror and see something that’s not “big chest, small waist, curves” all over. We are our own people and deserve to be treated and respected as such. Expressing our individuality is so important when finding what you like and don’t like about yourself. You should be able to figure that out for yourself and make adjustments accordingly, not rely on Instagram, TikTok, or any social media platform to tell you that you’re pretty. We are our own people. We deserve to set standards for ourselves and become the best versions of ourselves we can so that _we’re_ happy. Not to please others. You are not obligated to fit any standards. Find out what you like and live according to that. Let’s just enjoy our childhoods while we can. Wishing you well
When your told to shut up, you talk back and get punished for it. When you tell them to shut up, they talk back and you get punished for it. When you are told you don't eat enough, you eat more. When you eat more, you get told you eat too much. When your white, you get called too pale. When your black, you get called too dark. When you try fit in, you get told be try be different. When you try be a little bit different, you get told to try fit in. What am I doing wrong? I'm turning only 14 soon...why is today's society so f*cked up. I feel like I cant ever be good enough. I'm so close to ending it all. Honestly, I cant take it.
im 11 and get told to act more grown up but when i do i get told i need to act my age. u cant ever ever please everyone. u do u, do whatever makes u happy.
A bit of a story: My first best friend were friends and I absolutely adored her. The thing is she taught me everything because my parents brought me up nieve so I never knew what 'the real world' was like but when I met her it was a real eye-opener.. But obviously it had to end straight after that year 6 party, in the toilets me and her were messing around and making tik toks and we made a fun and innocent tt to this song and whenever I hear this song I just break into tears because that was the last time we really had fun together. She didn't commit su¡c¡de it was time that broke us apart. And to this day I listen to this song and I think of all the happy memories we made together.
i hate the way i look the way i smile the way i laugh my hands my face basically everything This song makes me cry because it reminds me that i don’t love myself and how i’m envious of everyone who is prettier than me i think it’s something that i need to work on over time though
to all of u in the comment section: REMEMBER THAT U ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DESERVE TO BE TAKEN CARE OF!!!! TREAT YOUR BODY WITH KINDNESS, IT'S THE ONLY ONE YOU HAVE!!! WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK....DO AND WEAR WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!!!! YOU ARE PERFECT AND DON'T EVER FORGET IT
@@xogigibaby i guess i’m not beautiful enough for them to like me, but thank you. i know you’re beautiful too. u seem like a really nice person 🥺 u deserve the world
y’all are bad bitches stop crying over what someone says or does and just breathe. you are beautiful and anyone who doesn’t think so doesn’t deserve u and they aren’t the right person for u.
Funny how everything changed in this new generation I miss the days when I was happy and music was Soo good Now I'm here surrounded by beauty standards that I have to follow.I love my own style not the "trending" styles What a generation we live in
Good thing beauty standards aren't enforced by law. Dont let anyone force you to fit any mold. But skinny people and husky people alike should strive just for HEALTH
bro gods with u he made u i bet u look so beauitful dont listen to the hater they just saying god creation is ugly but he made everyone in his own image
I hope one day you can see that you are enough and know your worth. You deserve all the love bb. There isn’t just one version of beautiful :) The presence of someone else’s beauty is not the absence of your own💕
For me, I dont get body shammed, but I still feel horrible about my body. I sometimes call my self overweight. I eat to much and I really need to stop If you are dealing with body shaming, just remember, you may be to "skinny" or to "fat" to society, but in reality your perfectly fine. Don't listen to those people who body shame. Love from me and my friends and family ❤❤❤❤🏆🌟
This song just reminds me of myself... counting calories on the daily and doing everything to be prettier for a boy who ultimately realized I wasn't enough anyways...
"Wish I was like you, blue eyed blondie perfect body.. " "if I get more pretty, do you think he will like me.." this really describes what I think too myself everyday because I'm no where near beautiful.:)
ive seen a lot of people in these comments, talking about how they were starving themselves. GIRLS, BOYS AND MY NON BINARY PEOPLE, please eat, please you need to eat just take a little bit of something for me. Love you all
“ maybe I should try harder ” is deep
fr :///
I am thinking of inventing something that can change the way I look *not makeup*
true
Fr :(
Whole song is deep♥️😔
“you’ll only be happy if you look a certain. way.”
That hit hard 😔
💔
Best version!!!!! So underrated!!
Thank you so much! :DD
this kinda reminds me of summer 2019
Me too
Same :( good times
Same :(((
this song is abt an eating disorder... i-
chelsea damian lmao ik but like this was pretty popular in summer 2k19
i hate beauty standards, im only 12 and i’m told i’m supposed to be skinny and thick at the same time, and if i have straight hair, i need to curl it and if i have curly hair i need to straighten it. it feels like i’m never enough for the standards
i wish someone told me this when i was your age, but you will always be enough even if you dont feel it
I’m 13 and couldn’t agree more
Im 11 wnd wanna stop eating because o fell fat
I’m 12 too..I look at myself in the mirror every single day and I judge myself. I compare myself to others..
awh baby...you’re beautiful just the way you are. please don’t let unachievable beauty standards get to your head. you are enough. you are so much more than your physical appearance.
"Nobody was EVER born ugly, the problem is, we live in a judgmental society"
-Karma Akabane
ah yes assassination classroom
Dude your gonna make me cry
I call myself ugly everyday, not trying to be a crybaby or anything haha, I just hate myself, no good features. Everyone assumes I am a pedo. *I am not a adult* But I still try to work hard in life!
Karma....he helped me and I’m not simping he is cute but just him helped me the hole show did
i love rantaro
Had my first kiss with a boy in his car listening to Beach Bunny. Literally getting nostalgic listening to this version
sucks to see other people living your dreams haha
zoeythebastard we were in an empty jack in a box parking lot around 10pm on a Thursday or Friday night lmao. I wouldn’t call it a dream 💀😂
Lucky bastard lol
if i kissed a boy b4 my marriage i'd get my dad's belt immediately
@@Kaeoooo hmm, maybe it depends on the person. maybe that's not ur dream, but def mine.
Me crying to this song at 1am ✌💀
same lol
Same I hope everything goes good 🙂
You want to be friends
@@aightthen4598 you want to be friends
@@ryangodinez331 we can sis
"You need to stop wearing tight pants they show too much." "Oh my god I wish I had your body!!" "If I had your body I'd show it off." "All the boys will be chasing you!!" "Don't eat so much, you don't want to lose your figure." "Eat a bit more, you're so skinny."
I wear oversized hoodies and baggy pants now, sometimes I eat nothing but sometimes I eat a lot.
"I want to be okay."
this exactly. all i want to wear is baggy clothes and just hide my body. im exhausted of people thinking they deserve an opinion on how i look and telling me how to dress and saying i dress like a whore because of the way clothes fit my body. nothing will ever be good enough for anyone, so all we can do is realize our own beauty and self worth.
I hate myself haha, no good features. But I still work hard
@@deda_a with no good features I try! Thanks for the comment!
Same
It will be okay eventually
I listen to this because my friends at school usually point out details about me
“Your laugh is weird”
“You’re fat”
“Why are you so tall?”
Same like stop pointing out traits it makes me feel insecure 💀
@@materialgirly exactly like 👁👁⁉️
They point out things about you as if you aren't aware.
they aren’t your friends
i wish i was just pretty and skinny like i’ll say i’m ugly and then my friends are like “ no ur not ur so pretty “ but i just think they are lying. i hate beauty standards. i’m legit 13 i hate it
Being pretty is a mindset love :) I know it’s so so hard to love yourself when social media is shoving these unattainable beauty standards down your throat every day, but it’s gonna get easier. You’ll be okay :) Just try your best to realize that you are enough. You are so loved. You don’t need to look like them to be beautiful. Every body is unique and amazing. I hope one day you can see how beautiful and amazing you truely are, because you are a diamond babygirl 💕
you are perfect. you don’t need to compare yourself to anyone, you are you.
i know how it feels it really sucks
It sucks bro I used to be so skinny but now I’m on the grind to get back the way I was. It just sucks that I used to be one the fastest too and now one of the slowest in the group.
Your friends weren't lying, they were right, nobody was born ugly, u only live in a judgemental society
I was listening to this, and i remembered when I was in Fifth grade, it was the last day I was going to school that year, the moms made a video of when we we're kid, when my classmates saw my pictures they said : "Oh, Emily was skinny" And they all started laughing, stills hurts
Im so sorry girl, you don't deserve this at all. You're a bad bleep periodtt
omg they did the same to me in 5th grade and I still get bullied for being skinny
Oh ı am so sorry ı am just 12 and ı am 63 kg... everyone tells me the same ı wish we can be better ı bet we can do it just dont cry babe no one can say that
@@ekin5237 your amazing baby dont worry about your weight now. :))
when i eat the normal amount, i'm called fat. when i starve myself, i'm called too skinny.
i'm just a kid. why is everyone already saying this...
anyone who sees this,, know that you're perfect the way you are, and you don't have to change anything, you might be "too skinny" or "not skinny enough" but people who like you for you would think you're perfect
Tysm u made my day, I literally get bullied for being skinny and this was just the sweetest shit ever
I'm not perfect :'^
*if I get more pretty do u think he will like me?*
The system is rigged
That sense hurts so much :/
i really really felt this one when i had a crush on my now boyfriend i always thought he didnt like me because i wasnt pretty enough but the reason he didnt like me wasnt because i was trying to hard to fit in with all the other girls around him and it wasnt until i started being my goofy self in front him that he started to fall in love with me , so the moral of the story is being yourself and not fitting in is much more attractive than fitting in and not being yourself
@@brookelorenzo2278 🙁🙁🙁
😢
OMG I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS THANK YOU
far out slowed and reverb sounds so good to anything
i wanna talk to that one dislike.
My mom asks me why I am always in my room and don’t socialize well the thing she doesn’t know where ever I am I get laughed at because my fatness and people call me gay and short to the point where I feel silent every time I talk I get interrupted and secluded
you don't deserve that honey i'm so sorry. you are beautiful and worth it i swear
me too
When will people wake up and realise someone people are just born with a little more weight and some people are born a little skinner. And we can’t do anything about it.
I was chubby and fat, I worked hard almost everyday and good shape. But I am still ugly as fuck. I hope the best for you!
your better then the people that call you that you know
this is by far the best version!!!
I wanna be okay hits different tho
"If I'm pretty will you like me?" Hits hard
"shut up."
"count your calories."
i never look good in mom jeans..
wish i
was like you,
blue eyed blondie
perfect body
maybe i should try harder.
you should lower your expectations...
im no quick curl barbie.
i was never cut out for prom queen.
if i get more pretty
...do you think he would like me?
0:00
lyrics:
Shut up, count your calories
I never looked good in mom jeans
Wish I was like you
Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body
Maybe I should try harder
You should lower your expectations
I'm no quick-curl barbie
I was never cut out for prom queen
If I get more pretty
Do you think he will like me?
Disect my insecurities
I'm a defect, surgical project
It's getting hard to breathe
There's plastic wrap in my cheeks
Maybe I should try harder
You should lower your beauty standards
I'm no quick-curl barbie
I was never cut out for prom queen
If I'm pretty, will you like me?
They say "Beauty makes boys happy"
I've been starving myself
Carving skin until my bones are showing
Teach me how to be okay
I don't wanna downplay my emotions
They say "Beauty is vain
You'll only be happy if you look a certain way"
I wanna be okay
I wanna be okay
14 years into this hell hole we call society and i've already had enough.
i felt that so hard
same
For me it was only 9 years and was done with everything
I'm 14 now gotta agree with this, hope bro is alright
same
When I was 11 I hated how I looked I was weak and skinny and whenever I looked at myself in the mirror I told myself “you must be pretty.” I then had an eating disorder and now I am 13 and I truly regret everything I did, to those who are reading this and going threw the same.. please take care of yourself don’t turn out like how I did that left multiple trauma marks, I hope you will get better and be happy who you are💚🖤.
We aren’t ugly in this world, we all just look different.
do you know when you dont have an eating disorder and you're told you're skinny like really skinny but everytime you look in the mirror and you see your body you just see fat, im only happy when my stomach is flat, and thats only in the morning. i guess im happy to have fast motabilsim but i will always feel obese when im not. What is this. Is there a disorder for me or am i just ugly.?
You’re beautiful. The voice in your head that tells you otherwise is wrong. I have that aswell. But I am fat. Feeling bad isn’t being ugly. I hope somehow since I know it’s hard. To make peace with your body to the point you don’t have to like it but at least not hate it❤️
that is body dysmorphia luv and you're not alone :) you will learn to love yourself overtime!
Try eating slowly so you don’t swallow air, chew everything atleast 25 times + eat extra so you gain weight ❤️
I feel you.. I have starved myself for days thinking I’m fat.
The foreteller of the Truth ❤️❤️
this song is sooo amazing
"Shut up, count your calories
I never looked good in mom jeans
Wish I was like you
Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body"
In middle school I went through many stages of my looks, I wished I was white then. I got bullied and called "Poop skin" This girl named Brittney was the exact definition of "Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body" I swear I admired her like she was a pop-star. I hope no one has to go what I went through in middle school. May god bless you all. 😊
-A black freshman 🧍🏾♀️
you are beautiful ignore those dumb people. They must be blind af literally you are amazing, you look like a model 🫂
love you
@@chloelovesmoms aw thank you 🫂
"Beauty is a best gift in life"
this hits different like this o.o
i hate my ed :(
Listen you are loved and beautiful no matter what. I’m here for you ❤️🥺
Kirsten White omg thank you🥺 i needed that 💞
shrekerino no problem you deserve it! X
You are beautiful. I hate my own body. I used to try not to eat as much. It doesn’t make me feel good. I hope you seek help from family or friends. Sending love
Asaf _raz thank you 💕
This is so under rated
I used to listen to this back when I was deep in my ED- For those who need to hear, you're lovely and beautiful. ED's take away so much from you. They take away memories, loved ones, they take yourself away in general. No matter what weight you are, you're just as valid. It's gonna get better, it might not seem like it now, but you've got this!
"Maybe i should try harder" i felt it
"You should lower your expectations" hit me deep in my heart.
“Teach me how to be okay.
I don’t wanna downplay my emotions.”
0:38 my own time stamp
Omfg i made it 1k !!
thank you so much!!!!! :))))
S O L I T U D E this one used to be on soundcloud and got taken down 🥺
good job!
My name is Amy too!
@@amy-ruby that’s such a pretty name :))
pls make this a Spotify podcast episode so I can add it to my playlist
Omgg... I want to know how to do that 😗✌️.
im 13 i’m not supposed to look like kylie jenner i’m not supposed to have a flat stomach i get told this everyday so thanks world i now have an ed
you are perfect, beautiful, a masterpiece.
I’m listening to this when my dad just called me fat😔
Edit:thanks for the support 💖
🥺 dont let it get to you. your perfect just the way u are
Lillie Carter pfft what will he be going threw he’s been telling my mom, sister, and me before quarantine...that’s why I’m the way I am🙃
Oohhh nooo girl i feel u my parents/family memebers call me fat all da time
o no... don't listen to him he's just toxic!!
my parents always. tell me i'm fat so same
*adds to playlist*
this song gives me so many good memories but the lyrics hit HARD
i’m in love with this
This is old but to anyone who needs to hear this: You will never be the same weight you were 3 years ago, no one will. You are perfect the way you are you may think “how can you know I’m perfect without reason” well if people can hate without reason I can love, I’m proud of you, keep going.
💀can’t let the hommies know I fw this
Why is no one talked abt how good that edit is
Okay this vibes hard
“Carving skin until my bones are showing” :(
i love this
hey you, yes you. You're beautiful, smart, kind, and deserve the world! You have so much value and I hope you have/had a great day! I love you, keep going! We need you.
you too!❤️
:'(
This Hits hard
I listen to this when I read, and reading is the only truly pleasurable thing in my life, so thank you so much.
i remember crying the first time i heard this-- it hits too deep with the harsh truth :')
I feel you you're not alone
the last part is my fav esp when she says "i wanna be okay" it sounds rlly good
I'm 18 but whenever someone has been in a situation like this, i will always assure them that they are enough. . . I just feel sad because I've never met anyone who has a similar mindset like me, that's why it's always just me who gets to treat them with assurance and consistency and when they have enough, they'll go over and chase a wrong person again, leaving me and not appreciate the things i did to them 😅
Historians say Gen Z were mentally stable
✨The username ✨
crying to this rn 🙆
Remember beauty is subjective and even though it hurts the truth is you can never match everyones definition of beauty. People who really love you will see you as beautiful no matter what.
This one hits different
It's a very good song, it calms my mind and heart.❤
thanks
i just want you to know that you are beautiful even if you don’t feel like it you are, i know you are, and i hope when you do find friends they treat you right and you can be happy❤️
i’ll be your friend! if you have any social medias, just drop em and i’ll dm you
I identify with this song a lot, I always feel this way, I listen to this song to feel better, it's wonderful.
he messes with my mind so much without him realizing and its driving me insane and we already agreed to be nothing more than friends but im still trying so hard to find ways for him to feel the same way i do. every little thing i encountered in life ever since i met him has js reminded me of him. every song always relates back to him. ever word i hear around me reminds me of him. its hurting so much
actually happy i found this song, helps me sleep
Im 11 and I always feel the need to 'fit' the standards when in reality even if I even did come remotely close to it there would always be something I need to change. Beauty standards shouldn't exist because I think everyone is perfect the way they are
I think we should enjoy our youth while we can. I’m thirteen years old, personally. I make jokes about my mental health and about my looks and that I hate myself. I downplay it. And that’s unfortunately what a lot of society sees as “normal.”
The world has a fucked up perception of what people should look like. They don’t take into consideration your feelings. They don’t care if you’re not comfortable wearing something or doing something. And a lot of people follow this and ruin their minds. They end up thinking that they’re not good enough for the world. It’s hard. I would know.
But the thing is that all of the people we see online are showing us fake realities. They’re showing what their “ideal” world would be, not theirs. They use filters, make up, and fake their lives to please themselves and their viewers. So don’t feel bad when you look at yourself in the mirror and see something that’s not “big chest, small waist, curves” all over. We are our own people and deserve to be treated and respected as such. Expressing our individuality is so important when finding what you like and don’t like about yourself. You should be able to figure that out for yourself and make adjustments accordingly, not rely on Instagram, TikTok, or any social media platform to tell you that you’re pretty.
We are our own people. We deserve to set standards for ourselves and become the best versions of ourselves we can so that _we’re_ happy. Not to please others.
You are not obligated to fit any standards. Find out what you like and live according to that. Let’s just enjoy our childhoods while we can. Wishing you well
“You are born to be real not to be perfect”
-min yoongi
When your told to shut up, you talk back and get punished for it. When you tell them to shut up, they talk back and you get punished for it. When you are told you don't eat enough, you eat more. When you eat more, you get told you eat too much. When your white, you get called too pale. When your black, you get called too dark. When you try fit in, you get told be try be different. When you try be a little bit different, you get told to try fit in. What am I doing wrong? I'm turning only 14 soon...why is today's society so f*cked up. I feel like I cant ever be good enough. I'm so close to ending it all. Honestly, I cant take it.
im 11 and get told to act more grown up but when i do i get told i need to act my age. u cant ever ever please everyone. u do u, do whatever makes u happy.
@@rileylolz5991
if you are feeling this way may I suggest romantic homoside slowed reverb this song is more appropriate according to your problems.
this is my comfort video
A bit of a story:
My first best friend were friends and I absolutely adored her.
The thing is she taught me everything because my parents brought me up nieve so I never knew what 'the real world' was like but when I met her it was a real eye-opener..
But obviously it had to end straight after that year 6 party, in the toilets me and her were messing around and making tik toks and we made a fun and innocent tt to this song and whenever I hear this song I just break into tears because that was the last time we really had fun together.
She didn't commit su¡c¡de it was time that broke us apart.
And to this day I listen to this song and I think of all the happy memories we made together.
:(
Shut up. Count your calories!!!
Very inspirational but a bit zesty?
6/10 for entertainment for entertainment
i hate the way i look
the way i smile
the way i laugh
my hands
my face
basically everything
This song makes me cry because it reminds me that i don’t love myself and how i’m envious of everyone who is prettier than me
i think it’s something that i need to work on over time though
Ne t'inquiètes pas, ça va s'arranger 🙂❤
Shut up count your calories
We weren't born ugly, we just live in a judgeful society.
this song describes my life
to all of u in the comment section:
REMEMBER THAT U ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DESERVE TO BE TAKEN CARE OF!!!! TREAT YOUR BODY WITH KINDNESS, IT'S THE ONLY ONE YOU HAVE!!! WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK....DO AND WEAR WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!!!! YOU ARE PERFECT AND DON'T EVER FORGET IT
all you guys are perfect !
i love u
@@beababoopi I LOVE YOU MORE
@@xogigibaby thank you for saying that, i really needed it
@@beababoopi Your so amazing and IK YOUR BEAUTIFUL
@@xogigibaby i guess i’m not beautiful enough for them to like me, but thank you. i know you’re beautiful too. u seem like a really nice person 🥺 u deserve the world
it's getting hard to breathe... this plastic wrap in my jeans
It's cheeks
@@thegaybesties2445 they changed the lyrics to relate to their situation.
y’all are bad bitches stop crying over what someone says or does and just breathe. you are beautiful and anyone who doesn’t think so doesn’t deserve u and they aren’t the right person for u.
Society doesn't care about feelings, it is strictly only about looks.
Funny how everything changed in this new generation
I miss the days when I was happy and music was Soo good
Now I'm here surrounded by beauty standards that I have to follow.I love my own style not the "trending" styles
What a generation we live in
" *teach me how to be okay* "
I love the song!
POV: Your attending your crush’s b-day
Good thing beauty standards aren't enforced by law. Dont let anyone force you to fit any mold. But skinny people and husky people alike should strive just for HEALTH
Teach me... how to be okay🖤
sometimes I wish I wasn’t so bad looking, she is so pretty blonde with blue eyes. I can really relate to the “If i’m pretty you will like me?”
bro gods with u he made u i bet u look so beauitful dont listen to the hater they just saying god creation is ugly but he made everyone in his own image
I've been starving myself
Carving skin until my bones are showing
the 2 lines i relate to so much
I hope one day you can see that you are enough and know your worth. You deserve all the love bb. There isn’t just one version of beautiful :) The presence of someone else’s beauty is not the absence of your own💕
Sad and nostalgic
For me, I dont get body shammed, but I still feel horrible about my body. I sometimes call my self overweight. I eat to much and I really need to stop
If you are dealing with body shaming, just remember, you may be to "skinny" or to "fat" to society, but in reality your perfectly fine. Don't listen to those people who body shame.
Love from me and my friends and family ❤❤❤❤🏆🌟
"Am I pretty will you like me they say beauty make boys happy"this make me cry
This song just reminds me of myself... counting calories on the daily and doing everything to be prettier for a boy who ultimately realized I wasn't enough anyways...
Hey there !!u r pretty u r enough 🤭♥️✨lot of love✨♥️
This song is so personal... 💔
"wish i was like you blue eyed Blondie perfect body" i have BDD or (Body dysphoric disorder) and that hurt. :
This song just fucking saved me from ending it all,
To the creator, thank you so much, I owe everything to you ❤❤❤
“Maybe i should try harder”
"Wish I was like you, blue eyed blondie perfect body.. " "if I get more pretty, do you think he will like me.." this really describes what I think too myself everyday because I'm no where near beautiful.:)
listening to this while forcing myself to eat
ive seen a lot of people in these comments, talking about how they were starving themselves. GIRLS, BOYS AND MY NON BINARY PEOPLE, please eat, please you need to eat just take a little bit of something for me. Love you all
This hits harder when your crush say you is ugly and rejecting u.
You ever just like kin a song cause same