I was told it is equivalent to getting off heroine. I thought I was going to die and cried everyday for over a year. I guess he was my drug. After 13 months I took him back....he poured his fake love over me again and I fell hard for him. Without reason he dumped me like a piece of trash. I hit rock bottom harder this time and had to start all over....It has been almost a year and he still sets me up to hurt me every chance he gets. He dumped me, crushed me and I cannot understand why he still wants to hurt me. All I wanted to do was love him. I would never go back again..finally I don’t trust him and I don’t believe anything he said. I almost forgot that he used his love for God to get me interested in him. He could quote the Bible and never misses church....It is hell on earth to get over a trauma bond.... You can do it with the help of the Holy Spirit. God, please protect us from toxic people. I love you Pastor Blakes. God used you to get through to me. 🙏🙏
Believe u deserve better and u will stop crying over him. U deserve same as u give. He hangs around because ur begging and longing feeds his ego. He is likely a narcistic
1)You will have to hit Rock Bottom. 2)You’re going to have to Integrate your Spirit, Soul and Body. 3)You’re going to have to surrender to the Holy Spirit. 4)You have to choose your pain. 5)You have to live for your Future over your feelings. Thank you pastor R.C for another great video!
"Let your heart break so your heart can heal.choose your pain:pain of letting go with God in it or choose a pain of a wasted life with somebody you should have never had a conversation with"
Today is August 9, 2023. And I have hit rock bottom. I have been drained financially emotionally and I no longer have the strength nor tolerance to deal with this relationship. I have been depleted. But God's grace is sufficient. And I thank God for bringing this video to my attention. Thank you Pastor Blake for your faithfulness and love for God's people. 😢😢😢 This has blessed me.
I pray the Holy Spirit brings you to new joy in due time. Eventually the pain will lessen and if you seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance, He will comfort you in a way no man can 🙏🕊️
This brought me to tears 😭 because I wasted 23 years off and on with this soul tie. I broke my soul ties 10 months ago now , but God had to break me down and hit rock bottom. This really hit me to the core, I don’t know 🤷🏾♀️ where I’m going and what I’m doing. Just a mind of confusion. God please help me .
@@jinimurray4090 you are confused...an holistic doctor can't do the work of..THE HOLY SPIRIT... & JESUS could not have sent you to someone that does agopunture..or homopathy..bc these or NOT CHRISTIAN methods ..they come from the evil one..go see testimony of people that had to do with It..& JESUS HAS GOTTEN THEM OUT IT.. & you Will understand Better..I Wish you the best ..to be ONLY HEALED by FATHER GOD.. JESUS..& HOLY SPIRIT...LOVING hands...
CHOOSE YOUR PAIN. You either want to feel a lifetime of pain from keeping the person in your life who’s constantly hurting you, disappointing you, disrespecting you, manipulating you, lying to you, cheating on you, abusing you, and playing games with you or you want to feel temporary pain from letting them go, moving on, and committing to do/choose better.
My soul tie of 4 years always comes back. This forth time, I was adamant with myself, I know I will never be intimate again with him. It has been 13 months and he still tries to test my weakness. The lord has given me the strength this time. My soul tie has tried everything to get me to give in, the lord has protected me from him. The lord will bring my husband very soon. I feel so blessed!
Good to hear. The vulnerability that kept you back there so long can be an untended portal though. I think you should set not just your soul, but your heart, spirit and mind free by completely detaching. 13 months later you still watched this video. Get COMPLETELY FREE and don’t look back. God forbid you end up The Morton Salt Girl. Block. Delete. Never lurk. Cast him into the sea of forgetfulness. It sounds a little like you romanticize the connection he wants to rekindle. Get truly free sis. I am currently bound and this video popped up for me. Mine is so confusing because I’m obedient to God in my connection to him but something is so wrong… run girl run!!! Praying for us all. Sending love, peace, light and Grace. 💜
It takes a lot of self reflection and conscious effort to stop emotionally reacting to situations that hurt you. that silent pause of thought you take instead of reacting immediately is absolutely necessary to gain clarity within yourself.
I feel like the lord showed me that we get these soul ties a lot of times when we make marriage/love into an idol: and what happens when we worship idols? Satan can take over. It’s literally demonic works.
The loneliness is very real... Imagine if Yah stripped you of everyone (family, friends and community) to ensure that you understood that He wants to reset you back to your original purpose and image of being divine like your ABBA papa...this is my season-its been rough, barren, sad and very dark at times... But through it all... AS I WALK THROUGH THE VALLEY OF THE SHADOW OF DEATH (dying to self & my demi gods) I WILL FEAR NO EVIL (my negative thinking/emotions and satan's attacks)... Its been years of this but I'm learning to walk alone with Yah...
After twelve years I’m just realizing this to be true ... I started at 29 years old ...I’m now 41 “Choose your pain” and always always always go with the temporary PLEASE DONT WASTE YOUR LIFE ON THESE PEOPLE !! GREAT LESSON HERE !!!
30 minutes in. I lived this experience. Every single thing in this message is Factual. Rock Bottom is Mentally a pit. But the door to a new beginning.. Where one will be Renewed. Every single step in this message is the Exact roadmap to Freedom. After giving my best years away I learned. 🌻
I feel ya!!!!!! The prayer I have for myself - and I pray this for you - is that God will restore those years. Your upcoming years will be so much greater than that time you lost- in Jesus name. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Pastor, I have hit rock bottom! My baby sister just died. I help raised her! People, I have supported during their grief! Is not their for me! Mainly, my soul- tie. But,I finally realized. He never was in the past. Thats my rock-bottom!!! Thank you for such a beautiful prayer.I'm hurting but I'm going through! Pain dont last forever. Thank you.
Making unwise choices when you're struggling with loneliness is a symtom of being broken. When you get tired of the unhealthy situations, & when God sees that your done gratifying the flesh, he steps in to help you overcome what you couldn't do in your own strength. Thank you Jesus. Who will rescue us from the flesh, God Almighty. Amen
I'm so happy that I divorced the narc husband, I had to separate our finances and buy my own car as well as begin to file income tax as married but separate. My 🏡 was already in a special needs trust for my adult autistic son. Planning ahead helps a lot! I'm older and sorry I wasted my life on this clown! The divorce came very easily due to planning! Broke that demonic soul tie! I'm happy and getting my crown on straight thanks to you! May God richly bless you and Lisa!
" Let your heart break 💔💔💔💔 so your SOUL can heal " that is soooo powerful !!! Wow !! And sooo true ! That's exactly what I had to do ! It's worth it ladies ! No one can beat this man ! True life saver that saved my life and my kids several years ago ! Forever grateful ❤️
The pain of a wasted life!......It's goin hurt....but God! There is a way where there seems no way! Thank you Pastor, thank you Jesus! 1 Peter 5:10 thankfully the suffering is for a little while , we decide the pain of staying or going...Thx thx thx Jesus is faithful💖💖💖
Thank You God/Jesus for this message ... Earlier today I had checked my blocked messages and my old demonic soul-tie had txt me asking how was I doing..i hit delete and didn't think twice about responding... ❤Thank God for deliverance❤
I'm extremely grateful for this revelation... the "Lord" has given you divine revelation to set the captives free from the soul tie yolk of bondage. May God continue to bless & keep you Pastor as you share what the Father has placed on your heart.
When you mentioned rock bottom, I thought of Popeye the Sailor when he was fed up and ready to take immediate action. He would say, "That's all I can stands, I can't stands no more." LOL
Man you're preaching. I love the way you explain it. If you stay with them and play with them you lose dignity and integrity . But if you leave them yo flesh will hurt . But you'll get stronger with yo dignity and integrity, without them. But with them you lose everything. Because if you lose you you're done . Amen
Thank you pastor for word of God 2: Corinthians 6:17 God been sent that scripting to us for four months by our pastor, so powerful man ain't worthy used your soul over nother is let these Devi go i had learn that
Dear God, Thank you for giving me a pastor for a grandfather 😔 for I learned this about soul ties at the age of 14. Yes it will hurt, but your soul will heal and grow. I'm 29 and my ex's couldn't understand why it was so easy to let them go. I didn't care how fine they were, how much money they had, what kind of car they drove or how amazing the sex was......now ALL of them been crawling back for years 🚫 I'm good. The moment I know you have soul ties, I can wait for the man to get it together, because I know how powerful they are, but If you cant help yourself grow from those ties ✌ I have to go. My motto is if you not trying to grow i got's to go. My grandfather don't sugarcoat anything, and tell it like it is, just like you RC Blakes keep spreading the knowledge 💜.
That's EXACTLY! What i did! I just walked AWAY!! Ghosted! As the young people say! LOL and i felt better the moment i did! I knew then it was NOBODY BUT GOD! That gave me the strength to do so! So glad HE had HIS hands on me! So many women have died in situations like this with men! BUT GOD!!
"Live for your future over your feelings"I wish i knew this three years ago that I squandered on the wrong person but i believe in my heart that i was gonna go through that but He removed me from the situation at the right time
My season of aloneness is the best, Bishop, after 17 years in a marriage of chaos with a covert narc. God is ordering my steps today. Anybody on here listen to God and dust your feet out any ungodly relationships. You have so much PEACE.
Same here i spent 20 yrs with a covert narc. Married 18yrs when i was 23 now im 44. I separated in dec 2015 and he started mutiple affairs during that time and triangulated me and was malicious with every move. It felt like i had been beaten by a Venomous Snake. I prayed working on the Lords nerve to save the marriage. But instead God revealed to me what and he was. Suddenly everything i suffered suddenly made sense. I am Grateful to the father because i now know the narcs rejection was Gods Protection. My divorce was final jan 2020. I chose my pain and God continues to heal me more daily. Im forever grateful. Be Encouraged sis.
I agree with you. I am so content and sincerely happy when I am alone. Just me and my kids. I love that. I have learned that I do not need a man, I just need God. God is enough!
You are absolutely right. People need to hit rock bottom. People don’t even contemplate change until the pain of doing the same thing surpasses the perceived pain of doing something different. Breaking any addiction will entail pain and withdrawal until you re-calibrate
Pastor, I am so thankful for your ministry. It is because of your teaching I have been able to break this soul tie. I watched your videos. I purchased your book. I spent an entire day laying/fasting before the Lord to break this. My friends and family covered me in prayer. I watched the video of you offering prayers for breaking the soul tie. I repeated each prayer. I stayed in the scriptures. By the end of the day, I felt it break. I felt so much relief. It was as if I walked out of a fog. I am working on healing completely. I am just praising our Lord. I almost lost everything because of a demon.
Matthew 23:8 But be not called Rabbi, for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye brethren. 9 And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father which is in heaven. ( Pride as the Pharisees) Motivating U2 Win.. Sister Sharon Johnson UA-cam additional message.
The symbolism of getting out of a burning house “..by any means necessary “ is perfect . A toxic relationship with a narcissist can kill you from the inside out. It does hurt to see parts of the relationship “burn” but if you learn from the experience you can rise from the ash like a phoenix and live a meaningful life.
I had no business starting even a conversation with him. This is the gospel of truth in this video. I have hit rock bottom, it's over, I have mailed back the engagement ring💍. Thank you God for saving me.
Pastor I am so thankful to God for your messages. You are my spiritual father from God. I lost my father when I was 7 years old. I am going through exactly what you are talking about. I went no contact, and this morning I felt empty and sad with tears and want to reach out, but instead of I called my godly friend. She was praying over me and I am getting there. It's a battle. Only holy spirt can deliver you from this demonic power. I keep listening your messages pastor over and over when I am on weak moment
Thank God for Rock Bottom, I spent a year running back to a narcissist that I thought I needed, so codependent on him, wanted him to love me so bad, I was the chaser he was the runner, thank you God for protecting me thru it all, and saying that's enough and taking off them rose colored glasses. My God my God thanks so much for this message...much needed
Agreed with you my sister, i have thrown away my self worth and being able to have self love over a soul tie to a man, that chooses to drink and blame, i have fought harder than ever to get him to just care... i am so ready to come to myself, i have prayed to break the soul ties for the past 3 years and he knows when i get close, and comes back with all the honeymoon phases..... then i chase him and the thought of love, to the point that i wanted to die
Thank God for teachers. I made myself hit rock bottom than stay with a narcissist. Thirty years was long enough. Completion!!! I broke every soul tie with anyone with association with him. Just awaiting the divorce. Excellent teaching on integration.
I subscribed a couple of years ago, when I was going through one of the most painful experience I have ever felt because of a soul tie. Pastor Blakes, I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for all that you do and May God continue to bless you. I followed your advice to pray for the King that God had in store for me. Today I’m married to a wonderful man who saw my crown and appreciates my worth. Thank you!
You got a new subscriber when you said “you became a victim by someone who never deserved a conversation.” That hit me hard because i didn’t even want to be with the narcissistic ex husband he chased me for 2 years.
What a well timed talk... it’s as if you were speaking right straight to me. I know I’m not the only one that needed to hear this and every single point you made is right on target. all of your talks are so so encouraging to me as I’m sure they are to many others! thank you for taking the time to care about all of us. Your efforts are not in vain.
I need to hear this message God is always right on time. Thank you God and pastor RC Blakes for your knowledge, wisdom, and inspiring words im listening and learning alot God bless everyone. 🙏🙏😊
I was at my Father's grave side today and thinking about how he wasted his life. He would agree with me. He allowed an abusive relationship and the fear of walking away and starting over again stop him from his purpose here on earth. I prayed at the grave for God to speak to me and I click this. To God be the glory. I want to break the generational curse off my blood line for future generations
“Sometimes it gotta come straight! How many conversations you gone have, how many counseling sessions you gone need? When you can sit down and write down a whole list of things that’s almost prison worthy of an individual and then say: I don’t know how to leave them?!“ - R.C Blakes Pastor Blake’s, your speaking straight into my spirit. 🤲🏾 I receive your prayer @11:38 I thank you so much, may God bless you eternally for seeing us through.
Thank you Pastor for your words of wisdom yet again. I can testify going through this process 18 months ago. I hit rock bottom and asked God to take over and he did. And the pain... oh the pain was bad! But I had to own it. Process it to heal and get to the other side. All the lessons came in one by one for sure. I encourage anyone who is in an unhappy toxic unfulfilling relationship to take these steps on board. I wasted 22 years of my life and have so many regrets but am very intentional now with my future decisions and choices walking in my true spirit and Gods plan for my life 🙏🏽❤
I'm just now understanding exactly what I've been going through. I can't stop crying and feeling lost and wondering why I keep taking this man back, hoping he will love me and our child. Listening to this has opened up my heart and mind. I'm so thankful that I came across this message. I've never surrendered to God. But I know now it's time to do it, even through this horrible breakup and he left me yesterday for another woman. I felt like dieing, right up until I heard this message. I've forgotten my teaching of God. I choose to hurt to get out this mess. All I need now is God to deliver me and help heal me mind , body and soul.
Good word. Thank you. I hit rock bottom after allowing my self to be used and abused by my husband for 20 + years. I ended up in jail facing a felony conviction!!. God is truly a deliverer!! He allowed the case against me to be dismissed!! I am being healed and made whole; victim no more!!.
I can't forget 5th November I woke up in the morning feeling overwhelmed and in tears, almost jumping on my fb account to check on that guy but my phone wasn't close to me so I grab my Bible and the first line I read was...... I place before you life and death is upon me to choose, I felt like this voice is demanding and I have to listen to it, I hard this voice in my mind several times then I logged out from fb, till date I choose my pain with time I'll be ok, rather than wasting my years, thanks for this content, the more I listen to your teachings the farthest I move without regrets 😊☺😊
I do leave... My problem is that once the pain sets in that I no longer get the fix from the addiction to my entanglement I go back. I am 37 a single mom and feel deep down that I'm damaged goods. We know this is a lie from the very pits of darkness. I chased for 18 years yall. So broken and damaged. My words my emotions were out of control. I realized... After all this time that I couldn't "win" and that in fact I was the clear loser. My rock bottom day is 11/1/2020
Good evening pastor RC Blake's really nice to meet you.with a narc for 13 years. Absolutely the worst ever. Still in therapy till this day. 13 years of my life down the drain . It was all a lie. The lord is working some things out within me . Thank you.
"There is always something to learn at rock bottom" ... Amen, Pastor!! I broke the soul ties 9 years ago and it was a time of discovering who I am in Christ!
Thank you Pastor RC Blakes! Man of God. I myself have just gotten out of a soul-tie situationship. A week after leaving. I have bad days and good days. The people who know about my sufferings with this person, look and say “ girl idk how you are holding up right now”. I know how, the Holy Spirit of God, the Father through his son Jesus Christ. Y’all this is not a joke. IT IS REAL. Yes , I have my weak days, where I “miss” , or think of the “good times” . But the Spirit slaps me back to reality like girl, leave the man alone he don’t want you. Never did. My father The Most High through his love is showing me what me value and worth is. Nothing else in this world, even me could’ve made me leave. Thank you Jesus. Pastor isn’t lying when he says we need the Holy Spirit for Satan & his favorite weapon, soul tie bondage! Rely on the Father through his Son. And he will give you the Holy Spirit, it’s his promise to us because of his undying love. I wish us all the best❤️
Awesome teaching Pastor Blakes👏👏🔥. Just from recent and past experience, Also When you get sick and tired of being sick and tired you finally leave. Change phone number, stop answering text, calls, and door. You have to want it. When you get tired you do something about it.
Just please continue helping us all, to learn to live a better way of life. All for the honor and glory to God. Thank you for reminding us about the power of the holy spirit in our lives.
LIKED and LOVED:43:13 "Live for your future over your feelings. This is about the plan of God foryour life!...I made some decisions, and I made some mistakes with somebody I had no business even having a conversation with...by any means necessary, I have to break the strongholds of this bondage off of my life AND it doesn't matter what I feel like in my sick soul with my broken consciouness. I've got to make a move for my future because God has more for me than this! God has more for me than this!" This is sooooo huge that is is priceless in my mind!!!!!!!!!!! Praise God for you Bishop Blakes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I thank you, Pastor, for this. I am filing for divorce tomorrow, including asking for my property and a restraining order. My husband left three years ago due to our mutual agreement and we became no-contact. But he tries to break me through my neighbors now, through "keeping in touch with them."
Great video! Thank you for all you do. I know sometimes it may be cumbersome addressing the same issues repeatedly, but your counsel is healing the broken and guiding the lost to do the Will of God, who gives us a peace beyond all understanding.
How can anyone be upset about this man speaking the truth in love?? He’s so kind. There’s only but so much sugar you can put on the truth. Thank you for your wisdom.🙏🏽
Yes I wasted my life with a man for seven years and wasted my youth. That is true. And he got up and married someone else. Took me extra 8 years to recover when I excepted the truth.l and did the work and listened to my spirit. Thank you for speaking the truth.
Omg my story is the same. 7yrs and he's about to marry the lady he cheated on me with. And now he cheats on her with me. I've convinced myself that I am doing to her what she did to me.
I hit rock bottom nine months ago when I found myself in a very confused state of mind I was beginning to loose all hope my peace was leaving me my spirit was dying being a spiritual person I knew right away that God was trying to get my attention I decided in my that this is it so I had to take action and confront the person and tell him that I cannot continue in thjs relationship it wasn't easy but inorder for the holy spirit to reign in your life the flesh must be under subjection , my peace return to me I can once again feel the presence of the holy spirit i feel hopeful again this is life to me obeying God and being in alignment and allowing God to have his way I am so happy I chose my future over my flesh God bless you my brother keep on declaring the word of God you are saving souls.
By your preaching Pastor, many of us will wake up each morning knowing better day is here. Yes, as women we were hurt and hurt but wisdom is here too and you are helping realize, understand. I am grateful to you for that.
1. Never Break a soul tie until you hit rock bottom. 2. Integrate(synchronize) your spirit >soul>body 3. Surrender to the Holy Spirit 4. Choose your pain 5. Live for your future not over your feelings
You ain't lying, it hurts like hell! My heart, my feelings, my confidence EVERYTHING felt like my soul was leaving my body. I am regaining my strength back Thank you for the deliverance.
Wow so true, after 5 years of being with a narcissist I finally hit rock bottom. That's where I discovered my spiritual journey and my belief in God. I woke up ❤ rock bottom was a painful blessing but a blessing nonetheless 🙏
You have preached to me today, Sir!!!!!!!!! Sometimes I STILL feel the pain but my soul is being built up and I am regaining my confidence!! Thank you for this and I pray God’s abundance over your ministry!!!! ❤️❤️
Sir NONTHING but GANG SEX TRAFFICKING....THIS IS WHY A FAMOUS MAN IS IN JAIL NOW FOR ABUSE TO WOMEN HE HAD A FARM SIR SO SAD IT WASNT THE AGES IT WAS THE ABUSE THINKING HE COULDNT BE TOUCHED SIR...GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Amen!! 🙌🏾... I chose my pain a month ago & everything you have said in this message is so TRUE! When the spirit says move... you better move! I’m so thankful, happy, & healthy when I exited that toxic situation 🥰. I am praying for everyone that hasn’t chosen to make up their mind for their future 🙏🏾... Peace & blessings to you all & Rev. RC Blake’s, Jr❤️
OMG!!! What a life changing lesson sent straight from the heart of God!! Thank you Pastor Blake's for your sensitivity to the spirit of God, that leads you to bring help for those like me who truly need it. This was the cherry on the cake for me. Thank you Jesus!!!! To God be all the glory!!!🙏❤🕊
I worked with my soul tie and just recently ended my employment with the company. I tried to end it but seeing him everyday wasn't working. It was too hard. I'm praying for my blessings. I'm now unemployed and feeling lonely. I needed to do this I hit rock bottom. Please pray for me. Thank you I can't blame anyone but my self.
Double whammy for you Laura🥴. Godspeed on finding BETTER employment. I feel you with the loneliness though...God Bless you and keep you near to him for all time, but especially in this time of healing.
I have to say thank you! You remind me of my daddy and uncles that keep it real but you give us the word to back it up and I love that and appreciate you taking time to do so. I literally can not get enough and tune in almost everyday to watch your videos. May God bless you! And please keep it coming we are listening and changing things!
Awesome Word! Thank you Pastor! I’m a witness to surrendering to the Holy Spirit while evolving out of a toxic narcissist relationship! When my spirit, soul & body lined up with God’s will, I asked the Spirit to give me the strength to move on & get out of shacking up & out of a situationship at 55 years old. When That clown spoke he was moving out, instead of discussing or questioning him the Holy Spirit shut my mouth & praised God. The only thing I could say was “would you like to use these moving boxes?” Hallelujah! I’m now living for my future, loving & learning who I am in Gods eye, abstaining & content in developing myself. Thank you so much & God bless you!
TY Pastor great word I been there its call brain fog when I let it go I was able 2 c so clear it was unbelievable I ask myself what was I thinking but God when I made d 1st move God took over Now Im living d best life TY Jesus 🙏🌹👐
Choose your pain, it builds your spirit this video was much needed my spirits have been broken and mentally draining thank you so much Pastor I 🙏🏾to meet you one day soon
Thank you; this is soul touching. Life saving. Soul ties robbed me of my self and your ministry is received in my spirit. Pray for me. To never go back into the burning coal of demonic soul ties
I lived this, hit rock bottom and decided enough is enough. I either chose life or death, and off I went. But it's not easy to get out I must confess, but by God's Grace and Holy Spirit, the Lord lead me out by his sovereign power just like he led the Isrealites from Egypt after 14 yrs of living in that pit of hell. I pray the same prayer Bishop RC Blakes prayed, that those still in the dungeon hit rock bottom and may the Lord open their eyes to choose future other than feelings.
No one ever shared this light with us as far as the preaching is concerned, thank you Jesus 🙏, the Lord is good ❤I have been seeking for this guidance for so long
I WALK AWAY. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE A GROWN BOY THAT SAYS HE A MAN. STAY OFF YOUR BACK WOMEN KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSE. EASIER TO WALK AWAY. YOUR SOUL AND FUTURE DESTINY AND PURPOSE IS ON THE LINE. GOD LOVES US. GOD'S LOVE NEVER FAILS.
You are spot on! I was stuck and just couldn’t seem to get away from him. The love bombing, then more lies and while talking to a friend l, she told me that I had a soul tie and soul ties are demonic. She gave me a simple prayer, almost verbatim to Pastor Blake’s. I was so tired and burned out! I knew that when I said the quick prayer that God would move. I was a little hesitant as I loved the narcissist but enough was enough. I got down on my knees, said the prayer and almost immediately I felt him pulling away from me and my feelings shifted away from him. It was painful and I cried a lot. But I stayed 100% no contact. I would say out loud in the midst of my pain, Lord, I count it all joy! 3 years later, I’m happy and more aware than ever before. I’m still working on healing from codependency and it has been one of the hardest but most rewarding thing that I could have ever done for myself! I can honestly say that I could not have done it by myself. I’m free only with the help of the Holy Spirit. Living in the light is so much better than in darkness. May you choose yourself and your family over that “clown in a tainted crown. God bless you all.
Rc Blakes JR. - undiscovered sleep apnea (birth defects), mega dysfunctional family- narcissistic* mother insecure - abandoned/outcast in own ungodly family-, non military moving every few weeks to 18 month country to country on different continents- no relatives- (not allowed to interface) so, edema of Brain every day- utterly exhausted. Sense of duty drilled in. Unable to function. Married- a non Marriage. And eventually again 18 years later. After .... all died*. I’m still here. Now 71 - unable to walk. No family at all TONIGHT YOU SAID NEVER TOO LATE... I SOBBED...MY HEART IS TO BE FREE FROM ALL THAT WHICH HOLD ME FROM SERVING GOD every day of my life. Everything will be alright! Thank you !
My heart aches for you. Give your life to Jesus Christ. He has the power to renew you right now if you choose Him. All you have to do is surrender and accept God i to your life. Be blessed
I have lost so much in my relationship buy I honestly haven't hit rock bottom. I'm afraid to hit rock bottom, I wanna walk away before I hit rock bottom. Pastor Blacke Jr is on point. The toxicity has gotten worse. I never connected it with him leaving and returning. I just wanna end the foolishness. In fact I am ending it, walking away.
SOUL TIES Breaking The Ties That Bind
bit.ly/breakingsoulties
This is the next book that I will be reading.
WOW! I love the word....Thank you.
Thankyou Pastor , I appreciate you everyday and think god for you
“I am my own worst enemy”
"doesn't practice good hygiene"😂😕I can't!
"Choose your pain!" "Exiting sin always hurts!" "Let your heart break so your soul can heal!" -RC. Blake's, Jr
This past was a whole word 💯.
Our hearts never breaks it’s really our ego... We need to loose this on our journey towards enlightenment..
Love it
Adream Come True yeesssss it’s definitely ego!!!
@@MsDreamofmine YES I AGREE YOU SPOKE THE TRUTH HERE IT IS MORE OF OUR EGO THAN OUR HEART YES
1 Peter 5:10 After you have suffered awhile the Lord will establish you, strengthen you, settle you and make you perfect. 💎💎💎
That's what happened to me I suffered for approximately two months and now my strength has been renewed
Thank you for leading me to this scripture!!!
Boo no
Amen and Amen❗
I was told it is equivalent to getting off heroine. I thought I was going to die and cried everyday for over a year. I guess he was my drug. After 13 months I took him back....he poured his fake love over me again and I fell hard for him. Without reason he dumped me like a piece of trash. I hit rock bottom harder this time and had to start all over....It has been almost a year and he still sets me up to hurt me every chance he gets. He dumped me, crushed me and I cannot understand why he still wants to hurt me. All I wanted to do was love him. I would never go back again..finally I don’t trust him and I don’t believe anything he said. I almost forgot that he used his love for God to get me interested in him. He could quote the Bible and never misses church....It is hell on earth to get over a trauma bond.... You can do it with the help of the Holy Spirit. God, please protect us from toxic people.
I love you Pastor Blakes. God used you to get through to me. 🙏🙏
The devil knows the Bible...He comes back because "the devil comes to steal, kill and destroy."
Believe u deserve better and u will stop crying over him. U deserve same as u give. He hangs around because ur begging and longing feeds his ego. He is likely a narcistic
Amen 🙏
Were you financially supporting him?
Kaye Luve no
1)You will have to hit Rock Bottom.
2)You’re going to have to Integrate your Spirit, Soul and Body.
3)You’re going to have to surrender to the Holy Spirit.
4)You have to choose your pain.
5)You have to live for your Future over your feelings.
Thank you pastor R.C for another great video!
Thanks for the summary. Some of us need it
Thank God for the message
Thank you🌺
Amen 🙏
"Let your heart break so your heart can heal.choose your pain:pain of letting go with God in it or choose a pain of a wasted life with somebody you should have never had a conversation with"
👐🙌🙋
Thankyou , very well put.
Gcinile Methula amen
Amen 🙏🏻
Trruth I've moved on thank God free from that toxics and evil soul tie
Today is August 9, 2023. And I have hit rock bottom. I have been drained financially emotionally and I no longer have the strength nor tolerance to deal with this relationship. I have been depleted. But God's grace is sufficient. And I thank God for bringing this video to my attention. Thank you Pastor Blake for your faithfulness and love for God's people. 😢😢😢 This has blessed me.
I pray the Holy Spirit brings you to new joy in due time. Eventually the pain will lessen and if you seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance, He will comfort you in a way no man can 🙏🕊️
"A lot of times you're praying for God to do what you must do for yourself." Holy Ghost fire!!!
So true ❤️😊
Waiting in such relationships is postponing the day of evil. I got out.
Wow wisdom.
Soul tie enabler
🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
This brought me to tears 😭 because I wasted 23 years off and on with this soul tie. I broke my soul ties 10 months ago now , but God had to break me down and hit rock bottom. This really hit me to the core, I don’t know 🤷🏾♀️ where I’m going and what I’m doing. Just a mind of confusion. God please help me .
Chynadoll77 Cyn your mind will clear. You might be suffering from the gaslighting that occurred. One day soon the smoke will clear just hang in there.
@@jinimurray4090 you are confused...an holistic doctor can't do the work of..THE HOLY SPIRIT... & JESUS could not have sent you to someone that does agopunture..or homopathy..bc these or NOT CHRISTIAN methods ..they come from the evil one..go see testimony of people that had to do with It..& JESUS HAS GOTTEN THEM OUT IT.. & you Will understand Better..I Wish you the best ..to be ONLY HEALED by FATHER GOD.. JESUS..& HOLY SPIRIT...LOVING hands...
Me too , I font know where I'm going or what I will do. All I know is that GOD WILL MAKE A WAY when we dont see no way.
@@Maria__57 that's bull because my holistic doctor IS a born again Christian and she SAVED MY LIFE AMONG WITH YESHUA.
You are not alone.
I'm with you.
Just allowing God to lead me right now cause I don'y know what in the hell I'm doing either.
21 demons and counting... Only the devil would disagree with this powerful message. God is using this man to change lives.
Yes He is. This is a powerful message. They all are.
🤣🤣🤣
Absolutely AGREE!!! W H A T a tremendous blessing!!!
Amen. Yes he is!
Yes ndeed!
CHOOSE YOUR PAIN. You either want to feel a lifetime of pain from keeping the person in your life who’s constantly hurting you, disappointing you, disrespecting you, manipulating you, lying to you, cheating on you, abusing you, and playing games with you or you want to feel temporary pain from letting them go, moving on, and committing to do/choose better.
My soul tie of 4 years always comes back. This forth time, I was adamant with myself, I know I will never be intimate again with him. It has been 13 months and he still tries to test my weakness. The lord has given me the strength this time. My soul tie has tried everything to get me to give in, the lord has protected me from him. The lord will bring my husband very soon. I feel so blessed!
Amen
Amen. You have support here.
Why does this soultie still have access to you? He should not have your phone number…DONT ANSWER THE ☎️, NOR TEXT HIM BACK BLOCK THIS PERSON
I Would have blocked and deleted unless we had unfinished business ( not sexual)
Good to hear. The vulnerability that kept you back there so long can be an untended portal though. I think you should set not just your soul, but your heart, spirit and mind free by completely detaching. 13 months later you still watched this video. Get COMPLETELY FREE and don’t look back. God forbid you end up The Morton Salt Girl. Block. Delete. Never lurk. Cast him into the sea of forgetfulness. It sounds a little like you romanticize the connection he wants to rekindle. Get truly free sis. I am currently bound and this video popped up for me. Mine is so confusing because I’m obedient to God in my connection to him but something is so wrong… run girl run!!! Praying for us all. Sending love, peace, light and Grace. 💜
It takes a lot of self reflection and conscious effort to stop emotionally reacting to situations that hurt you. that silent pause of thought you take instead of reacting immediately is absolutely necessary to gain clarity within yourself.
so true, need this on a bed pillow
I feel like the lord showed me that we get these soul ties a lot of times when we make marriage/love into an idol: and what happens when we worship idols? Satan can take over. It’s literally demonic works.
Yes. 20 years wasted my life over a demonic man in human skin...... Iam free thanks to the Holy Spirit ❤️
The loneliness is very real... Imagine if Yah stripped you of everyone (family, friends and community) to ensure that you understood that He wants to reset you back to your original purpose and image of being divine like your ABBA papa...this is my season-its been rough, barren, sad and very dark at times... But through it all... AS I WALK THROUGH THE VALLEY OF THE SHADOW OF DEATH (dying to self & my demi gods) I WILL FEAR NO EVIL (my negative thinking/emotions and satan's attacks)... Its been years of this but I'm learning to walk alone with Yah...
Needed to hear this. Thank you
This is how I need and should be
This is how I need and should be
This was so beautiful and encouraging thank you for sharing your story
Hi, Lex. Thank you for sharing. I am going through this now too. God is with me! I talk to Him daily. And God gives me every good thing.
After twelve years I’m just realizing this to be true ... I started at 29 years old ...I’m now 41
“Choose your pain” and always always always go with the temporary PLEASE DONT WASTE YOUR LIFE ON THESE PEOPLE !!
GREAT LESSON HERE !!!
30 minutes in. I lived this experience. Every single thing in this message is Factual. Rock Bottom is Mentally a pit. But the door to a new beginning.. Where one will be Renewed. Every single step in this message is the Exact roadmap to Freedom. After giving my best years away I learned. 🌻
Your best years are AHEAD of you because you are free in Jesus
I feel ya!!!!!! The prayer I have for myself - and I pray this for you - is that God will restore those years. Your upcoming years will be so much greater than that time you lost- in Jesus name. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@Msdelicious30 Amen Sis🌻 an experience that has left me with a Story to tell. We will come out on top it has only made us better🦋
@@miriammatthews2202 Amen Love. Thank you. Same to you 🥰🌻🦋
Pastor, I have hit rock bottom! My baby sister just died. I help raised her! People, I have supported during their grief! Is not their for me! Mainly, my soul- tie. But,I finally realized. He never was in the past. Thats my rock-bottom!!! Thank you for such a beautiful prayer.I'm hurting but I'm going through! Pain dont last forever. Thank you.
Feeling like them times when you go to church and your in tears the whole time feeling like the preacher is talking directly to you😢😢.
Yes
Ahh that was me last week, I was crying through out the whole service lol. But it felt great 😌
Loneliness makes one do some really foolish things.
Thank you so much, Pastor Blakes. Excellent message!
You can shout it louder. There is no better way to say it. God bless Pastor for opening our eyes
Making unwise choices when you're struggling with loneliness is a symtom of being broken. When you get tired of the unhealthy situations, & when God sees that your done gratifying the flesh, he steps in to help you overcome what you couldn't do in your own strength. Thank you Jesus. Who will rescue us from the flesh, God Almighty. Amen
I'm so happy that I divorced the narc husband, I had to separate our finances and buy my own car as well as begin to file income tax as married but separate. My 🏡 was already in a special needs trust for my adult autistic son. Planning ahead helps a lot! I'm older and sorry I wasted my life on this clown! The divorce came very easily due to planning! Broke that demonic soul tie! I'm happy and getting my crown on straight thanks to you! May God richly bless you and Lisa!
@La Chatelaine stay strong, sister! You've got this!
Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance…good for you sister!
" Let your heart break 💔💔💔💔 so your SOUL can heal " that is soooo powerful !!! Wow !! And sooo true ! That's exactly what I had to do ! It's worth it ladies ! No one can beat this man ! True life saver that saved my life and my kids several years ago ! Forever grateful ❤️
The pain of a wasted life!......It's goin hurt....but God! There is a way where there seems no way! Thank you Pastor, thank you Jesus! 1 Peter 5:10 thankfully the suffering is for a little while , we decide the pain of staying or going...Thx thx thx Jesus is faithful💖💖💖
BUT GOD YES YES YES... HE WILL DO IT 🙏🙏
Thank You God/Jesus for this message ... Earlier today I had checked my blocked messages and my old demonic soul-tie had txt me asking how was I doing..i hit delete and didn't think twice about responding...
❤Thank God for deliverance❤
I'm extremely grateful for this revelation... the "Lord" has given you divine revelation to set the captives free from the soul tie yolk of bondage. May God continue to bless & keep you Pastor as you share what the Father has placed on your heart.
“You cannot do spiritual ware fare without spiritual grounding.”✨love it, thanks Pastor
Holy Spirit have your way
When you mentioned rock bottom, I thought of Popeye the Sailor when he was fed up and ready to take immediate action. He would say, "That's all I can stands, I can't stands no more." LOL
💪🏽😂🥬💣
😂
lol
Man you're preaching. I love the way you explain it. If you stay with them and play with them you lose dignity and integrity .
But if you leave them yo flesh will hurt .
But you'll get stronger with yo dignity and integrity, without them.
But with them you lose everything.
Because if you lose you you're done . Amen
Awesome... I Choose me there is no pain free exit from pain I’m letting my heart break so my soul will heal.
Thank you pastor for word of God 2: Corinthians 6:17 God been sent that scripting to us for four months by our pastor, so powerful man ain't worthy used your soul over nother is let these Devi go i had learn that
I have chosen the pain of a broken heart in order to heal and begin to live for my future! Thank Pastor for your enlightening words.
Dear God, Thank you for giving me a pastor for a grandfather 😔 for I learned this about soul ties at the age of 14. Yes it will hurt, but your soul will heal and grow. I'm 29 and my ex's couldn't understand why it was so easy to let them go. I didn't care how fine they were, how much money they had, what kind of car they drove or how amazing the sex was......now ALL of them been crawling back for years 🚫 I'm good. The moment I know you have soul ties, I can wait for the man to get it together, because I know how powerful they are, but If you cant help yourself grow from those ties ✌ I have to go. My motto is if you not trying to grow i got's to go.
My grandfather don't sugarcoat anything, and tell it like it is, just like you RC Blakes keep spreading the knowledge 💜.
Lucky you. Kids above 12 should watch this
I never taught I could've been single for a while. I'm started to get used to it. Thanks to Jesus 🙏
Cut your losses and run!
And when you run, you win
That's EXACTLY! What i did! I just walked AWAY!! Ghosted! As the young people say! LOL and i felt better the moment i did! I knew then it was NOBODY BUT GOD! That gave me the strength to do so! So glad HE had HIS hands on me! So many women have died in situations like this with men! BUT GOD!!
Is it really a loss when it was toxic? Gain your freedom by cutting the devil out.
"Whenever he comes back he brings buddies and he gets stronger". Wow!
This is in the Bible.
Woo lawd.
Yes ma'am. Always comes back to temp 💯
"Live for your future over your feelings"I wish i knew this three years ago that I squandered on the wrong person but i believe in my heart that i was gonna go through that but He removed me from the situation at the right time
My season of aloneness is the best, Bishop, after 17 years in a marriage of chaos with a covert narc. God is ordering my steps today. Anybody on here listen to God and dust your feet out any ungodly relationships. You have so much PEACE.
Same here i spent 20 yrs with a covert narc. Married 18yrs when i was 23 now im 44. I separated in dec 2015 and he started mutiple affairs during that time and triangulated me and was malicious with every move. It felt like i had been beaten by a Venomous Snake. I prayed working on the Lords nerve to save the marriage. But instead God revealed to me what and he was. Suddenly everything i suffered suddenly made sense. I am Grateful to the father because i now know the narcs rejection was Gods Protection. My divorce was final jan 2020. I chose my pain and God continues to heal me more daily. Im forever grateful. Be Encouraged sis.
Amen
I agree with you. I am so content and sincerely happy when I am alone. Just me and my kids. I love that. I have learned that I do not need a man, I just need God. God is enough!
43:08 “This is not about my feelings, this is about my future”…. Wow, powerful
You are absolutely right. People need to hit rock bottom. People don’t even contemplate change until the pain of doing the same thing surpasses the perceived pain of doing something different. Breaking any addiction will entail pain and withdrawal until you re-calibrate
Pastor, I am so thankful for your ministry. It is because of your teaching I have been able to break this soul tie. I watched your videos. I purchased your book. I spent an entire day laying/fasting before the Lord to break this. My friends and family covered me in prayer. I watched the video of you offering prayers for breaking the soul tie. I repeated each prayer. I stayed in the scriptures. By the end of the day, I felt it break. I felt so much relief. It was as if I walked out of a fog. I am working on healing completely. I am just praising our Lord. I almost lost everything because of a demon.
Blessed be to the Lord . Amen 🙏 congratulations. 🎊
@@glorybetogod1991 Thanks, Amanda. It been quite the healing process since then. But to God be the Glory!
Matthew 23:8 But be not called Rabbi, for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye brethren. 9 And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father which is in heaven. ( Pride as the Pharisees) Motivating U2 Win.. Sister Sharon Johnson UA-cam additional message.
The symbolism of getting out of a burning house “..by any means necessary “ is perfect . A toxic relationship with a narcissist can kill you from the inside out. It does hurt to see parts of the relationship “burn” but if you learn from the experience you can rise from the ash like a phoenix and live a meaningful life.
I had no business starting even a conversation with him. This is the gospel of truth in this video. I have hit rock bottom, it's over, I have mailed back the engagement ring💍. Thank you God for saving me.
Pastor I am so thankful to God for your messages. You are my spiritual father from God. I lost my father when I was 7 years old. I am going through exactly what you are talking about. I went no contact, and this morning I felt empty and sad with tears and want to reach out, but instead of I called my godly friend. She was praying over me and I am getting there. It's a battle. Only holy spirt can deliver you from this demonic power. I keep listening your messages pastor over and over when I am on weak moment
Thank God for Rock Bottom, I spent a year running back to a narcissist that I thought I needed, so codependent on him, wanted him to love me so bad, I was the chaser he was the runner, thank you God for protecting me thru it all, and saying that's enough and taking off them rose colored glasses. My God my God thanks so much for this message...much needed
♥️
Stop using twin flame terminology. Let that man go
Agreed with you my sister, i have thrown away my self worth and being able to have self love over a soul tie to a man, that chooses to drink and blame, i have fought harder than ever to get him to just care... i am so ready to come to myself, i have prayed to break the soul ties for the past 3 years and he knows when i get close, and comes back with all the honeymoon phases..... then i chase him and the thought of love, to the point that i wanted to die
Thank God for teachers. I made myself hit rock bottom than stay with a narcissist. Thirty years was long enough. Completion!!! I broke every soul tie with anyone with association with him. Just awaiting the divorce. Excellent teaching on integration.
I subscribed a couple of years ago, when I was going through one of the most painful experience I have ever felt because of a soul tie. Pastor Blakes, I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for all that you do and May God continue to bless you. I followed your advice to pray for the King that God had in store for me. Today I’m married to a wonderful man who saw my crown and appreciates my worth. Thank you!
Congrats😊 🥳
@@tammyterrell7128 thank you
Praise the LORD!!
Yesss
How did you get through it? I’m really struggling
I am so grateful I found this man’s channel. He has changed my life, my outlook and my soul.
You got a new subscriber when you said “you became a victim by someone who never deserved a conversation.” That hit me hard because i didn’t even want to be with the narcissistic ex husband he chased me for 2 years.
It’s always the ones that you didn’t want and that chased you that will hurt you the most. I’m going through that right now. 🤦🏽♀️
@@rita-ow2wm I have never dealt with anything like it in my life. I'm in counseling
You can make through with God. Hold on and be strong. God is a very present help in our time of need. Be blessed. Amen
What a well timed talk... it’s as if you were speaking right straight to me. I know I’m not the only one that needed to hear this and every single point you made is right on target. all of your talks are so so encouraging to me as I’m sure they are to many others! thank you for taking the time to care about all of us. Your efforts are not in vain.
🙏🏽 Thank you.
I need to hear this message God is always right on time. Thank you God and pastor RC Blakes for your knowledge, wisdom, and inspiring words im listening and learning alot God bless everyone. 🙏🙏😊
@@RCBlakesJr., pastor how can I contact you? I really need help?
I was at my Father's grave side today and thinking about how he wasted his life. He would agree with me. He allowed an abusive relationship and the fear of walking away and starting over again stop him from his purpose here on earth. I prayed at the grave for God to speak to me and I click this. To God be the glory. I want to break the generational curse off my blood line for future generations
“Sometimes it gotta come straight! How many conversations you gone have, how many counseling sessions you gone need? When you can sit down and write down a whole list of things that’s almost prison worthy of an individual and then say: I don’t know how to leave them?!“ - R.C Blakes
Pastor Blake’s, your speaking straight into my spirit. 🤲🏾 I receive your prayer @11:38 I thank you so much, may God bless you eternally for seeing us through.
He's definitely speaking the Cold Hearted Truth!
Thank you Pastor for your words of wisdom yet again. I can testify going through this process 18 months ago. I hit rock bottom and asked God to take over and he did. And the pain... oh the pain was bad! But I had to own it. Process it to heal and get to the other side. All the lessons came in one by one for sure. I encourage anyone who is in an unhappy toxic unfulfilling relationship to take these steps on board. I wasted 22 years of my life and have so many regrets but am very intentional now with my future decisions and choices walking in my true spirit and Gods plan for my life 🙏🏽❤
I'm just now understanding exactly what I've been going through. I can't stop crying and feeling lost and wondering why I keep taking this man back, hoping he will love me and our child. Listening to this has opened up my heart and mind. I'm so thankful that I came across this message. I've never surrendered to God. But I know now it's time to do it, even through this horrible breakup and he left me yesterday for another woman. I felt like dieing, right up until I heard this message. I've forgotten my teaching of God. I choose to hurt to get out this mess. All I need now is God to deliver me and help heal me mind , body and soul.
"cry and watch it burn", "by any means necessary "🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The Holy Spirit is very powerful and instrumental to breaking the ties. Thank you 🙏🏾 Pastor! 😊❤️🙏🏾
Good word. Thank you. I hit rock bottom after allowing my self to be used and abused by my husband for 20 + years. I ended up in jail facing a felony conviction!!. God is truly a deliverer!! He allowed the case against me to be dismissed!! I am being healed and made whole; victim no more!!.
I can't forget 5th November I woke up in the morning feeling overwhelmed and in tears, almost jumping on my fb account to check on that guy but my phone wasn't close to me so I grab my Bible and the first line I read was...... I place before you life and death is upon me to choose, I felt like this voice is demanding and I have to listen to it, I hard this voice in my mind several times then I logged out from fb, till date I choose my pain with time I'll be ok, rather than wasting my years, thanks for this content, the more I listen to your teachings the farthest I move without regrets 😊☺😊
I needed to hear this tonight. Confirmation of what is to be. Thank you for speaking over me 🙏🏽💯❤️🙏🏽
I do leave... My problem is that once the pain sets in that I no longer get the fix from the addiction to my entanglement I go back. I am 37 a single mom and feel deep down that I'm damaged goods. We know this is a lie from the very pits of darkness. I chased for 18 years yall. So broken and damaged. My words my emotions were out of control. I realized... After all this time that I couldn't "win" and that in fact I was the clear loser. My rock bottom day is 11/1/2020
a fire break out in my house and I'm talking about " I dont know how Ima leave this house" ! 😂😂😂
Right 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good evening pastor RC Blake's really nice to meet you.with a narc for 13 years. Absolutely the worst ever. Still in therapy till this day. 13 years of my life down the drain . It was all a lie. The lord is working some things out within me . Thank you.
Yes pastor it took me 5yrs to hit rock bottom. too long for me to realize. Great prayer for those who don’t know and when to leave
"There is always something to learn at rock bottom" ... Amen, Pastor!! I broke the soul ties 9 years ago and it was a time of discovering who I am in Christ!
Beautifully said. Thank you. 😊 You have helped me to get out of a dead marriage.
Thank you Pastor RC Blakes! Man of God. I myself have just gotten out of a soul-tie situationship. A week after leaving. I have bad days and good days. The people who know about my sufferings with this person, look and say “ girl idk how you are holding up right now”. I know how, the Holy Spirit of God, the Father through his son Jesus Christ. Y’all this is not a joke. IT IS REAL. Yes , I have my weak days, where I “miss” , or think of the “good times” . But the Spirit slaps me back to reality like girl, leave the man alone he don’t want you. Never did. My father The Most High through his love is showing me what me value and worth is. Nothing else in this world, even me could’ve made me leave. Thank you Jesus. Pastor isn’t lying when he says we need the Holy Spirit for Satan & his favorite weapon, soul tie bondage! Rely on the Father through his Son. And he will give you the Holy Spirit, it’s his promise to us because of his undying love. I wish us all the best❤️
I feel so good hearing this because I freed myself from this in 2012 ‼️Still single but I am happy and at peace with myself ❤️
You just spoke healing to my spirit and it feels good even though I am crying. Thank you for spending the time to give us a word of knowledge.
Rose same!!!!
@@yp8053 Amen
I'm passing this message on to someone who seriously needs it!
Awesome teaching Pastor Blakes👏👏🔥. Just from recent and past experience, Also When you get sick and tired of being sick and tired you finally leave. Change phone number, stop answering text, calls, and door. You have to want it. When you get tired you do something about it.
Just please continue helping us all, to learn to live a better way of life. All for the honor and glory to God. Thank you for reminding us about the power of the holy spirit in our lives.
LIKED and LOVED:43:13 "Live for your future over your feelings. This is about the plan of God foryour life!...I made some decisions, and I made some mistakes with somebody I had no business even having a conversation with...by any means necessary, I have to break the strongholds of this bondage off of my life AND it doesn't matter what I feel like in my sick soul with my broken consciouness. I've got to make a move for my future because God has more for me than this! God has more for me than this!" This is sooooo huge that is is priceless in my mind!!!!!!!!!!! Praise God for you Bishop Blakes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for repeating the 5 things a few times, that’s very helpful. Sometimes we need to hear it a few times. ❤️
I thank you, Pastor, for this. I am filing for divorce tomorrow, including asking for my property and a restraining order. My husband left three years ago due to our mutual agreement and we became no-contact. But he tries to break me through my neighbors now, through "keeping in touch with them."
Great video! Thank you for all you do. I know sometimes it may be cumbersome addressing the same issues repeatedly, but your counsel is healing the broken and guiding the lost to do the Will of God, who gives us a peace beyond all understanding.
How can anyone be upset about this man speaking the truth in love?? He’s so kind. There’s only but so much sugar you can put on the truth. Thank you for your wisdom.🙏🏽
Pastor, everyday I tell someone how you saved my life. Thank you. I also thank you for allowing God to use you.
Yes I wasted my life with a man for seven years and wasted my youth. That is true. And he got up and married someone else. Took me extra 8 years to recover when I excepted the truth.l and did the work and listened to my spirit.
Thank you for speaking the truth.
Omg my story is the same. 7yrs and he's about to marry the lady he cheated on me with. And now he cheats on her with me. I've convinced myself that I am doing to her what she did to me.
I wasted 11 years. It’s never too late to wake up and stay woke!
This is so amazing. Thank you ❤️ sometimes you gotta lose to win again. Im glad I found myself.
I hit rock bottom nine months ago when I found myself in a very confused state of mind I was beginning to loose all hope my peace was leaving me my spirit was dying being a spiritual person I knew right away that God was trying to get my attention I decided in my that this is it so I had to take action and confront the person and tell him that I cannot continue in thjs relationship it wasn't easy but inorder for the holy spirit to reign in your life the flesh must be under subjection , my peace return to me I can once again feel the presence of the holy spirit i feel hopeful again this is life to me obeying God and being in alignment and allowing God to have his way I am so happy I chose my future over my flesh God bless you my brother keep on declaring the word of God you are saving souls.
By your preaching Pastor, many of us will wake up each morning knowing better day is here. Yes, as women we were hurt and hurt but wisdom is here too and you are helping realize, understand. I am grateful to you for that.
1. Never Break a soul tie until you hit rock bottom. 2. Integrate(synchronize) your spirit >soul>body 3. Surrender to the Holy Spirit 4. Choose your pain 5. Live for your future not over your feelings
You ain't lying, it hurts like hell! My heart, my feelings, my confidence EVERYTHING felt like my soul was leaving my body. I am regaining my strength back Thank you for the deliverance.
Wow so true, after 5 years of being with a narcissist I finally hit rock bottom. That's where I discovered my spiritual journey and my belief in God. I woke up ❤ rock bottom was a painful blessing but a blessing nonetheless 🙏
You have preached to me today, Sir!!!!!!!!! Sometimes I STILL feel the pain but my soul is being built up and I am regaining my confidence!! Thank you for this and I pray God’s abundance over your ministry!!!! ❤️❤️
This is so right on point. I can feel my Spirit jumping , shouting "see I told you"
My God!! That's why I love and appreciate you and Lady Blakes!! 😘❤💛
Thank you 🙏🏽 ♥️😊
Sir NONTHING but GANG SEX TRAFFICKING....THIS IS WHY A FAMOUS MAN IS IN JAIL NOW FOR ABUSE TO WOMEN HE HAD A FARM SIR SO SAD IT WASNT THE AGES IT WAS THE ABUSE THINKING HE COULDNT BE TOUCHED SIR...GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Amen!! 🙌🏾... I chose my pain a month ago & everything you have said in this message is so TRUE! When the spirit says move... you better move! I’m so thankful, happy, & healthy when I exited that toxic situation 🥰. I am praying for everyone that hasn’t chosen to make up their mind for their future 🙏🏾... Peace & blessings to you all & Rev. RC Blake’s, Jr❤️
Amen
OMG!!! What a life changing lesson sent straight from the heart of God!! Thank you Pastor Blake's for your sensitivity to the spirit of God, that leads you to bring help for those like me who truly need it. This was the cherry on the cake for me. Thank you Jesus!!!! To God be all the glory!!!🙏❤🕊
I worked with my soul tie and just recently ended my employment with the company. I tried to end it but seeing him everyday wasn't working. It was too hard. I'm praying for my blessings. I'm now unemployed and feeling lonely. I needed to do this I hit rock bottom. Please pray for me. Thank you
I can't blame anyone but my self.
Double whammy for you Laura🥴. Godspeed on finding BETTER employment. I feel you with the loneliness though...God Bless you and keep you near to him for all time, but especially in this time of healing.
I feel ya!! Praying for you
I have to say thank you! You remind me of my daddy and uncles that keep it real but you give us the word to back it up and I love that and appreciate you taking time to do so. I literally can not get enough and tune in almost everyday to watch your videos. May God bless you! And please keep it coming we are listening and changing things!
Awesome Word! Thank you Pastor! I’m a witness to surrendering to the Holy Spirit while evolving out of a toxic narcissist relationship! When my spirit, soul & body lined up with God’s will, I asked the Spirit to give me the strength to move on & get out of shacking up & out of a situationship at 55 years old. When That clown spoke he was moving out, instead of discussing or questioning him the Holy Spirit shut my mouth & praised God. The only thing I could say was “would you like to use these moving boxes?” Hallelujah! I’m now living for my future, loving & learning who I am in Gods eye, abstaining & content in developing myself. Thank you so much & God bless you!
Yes , so important for me to Surrender my toxic relationship to the Holy Spirit. & Begin again with God 's leading, & healing for my soul.
TY Pastor great word I been there its call brain fog when I let it go I was able 2 c so clear it was unbelievable I ask myself what was I thinking but God when I made d 1st move God took over Now Im living d best life TY Jesus 🙏🌹👐
Can’t get peeved! This is the TRUTH. Pastor, you may not be a therapist, but this is the best darn counseling I’ve ever gotten!!!
Choose your pain, it builds your spirit this video was much needed my spirits have been broken and mentally draining thank you so much Pastor I 🙏🏾to meet you one day soon
Thank you; this is soul touching. Life saving. Soul ties robbed me of my self and your ministry is received in my spirit. Pray for me. To never go back into the burning coal of demonic soul ties
I lived this, hit rock bottom and decided enough is enough. I either chose life or death, and off I went. But it's not easy to get out I must confess, but by God's Grace and Holy Spirit, the Lord lead me out by his sovereign power just like he led the Isrealites from Egypt after 14 yrs of living in that pit of hell. I pray the same prayer Bishop RC Blakes prayed, that those still in the dungeon hit rock bottom and may the Lord open their eyes to choose future other than feelings.
No one ever shared this light with us as far as the preaching is concerned, thank you Jesus 🙏, the Lord is good ❤I have been seeking for this guidance for so long
Thank you pastor, you just, made me delete a number I will no longer entertain, this fornication.
I WALK AWAY. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE A GROWN BOY THAT SAYS HE A MAN. STAY OFF YOUR BACK WOMEN KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSE. EASIER TO WALK AWAY. YOUR SOUL AND FUTURE DESTINY AND PURPOSE IS ON THE LINE. GOD LOVES US. GOD'S LOVE NEVER FAILS.
You are spot on! I was stuck and just couldn’t seem to get away from him. The love bombing, then more lies and while talking to a friend l, she told me that I had a soul tie and soul ties are demonic. She gave me a simple prayer, almost verbatim to Pastor Blake’s. I was so tired and burned out! I knew that when I said the quick prayer that God would move. I was a little hesitant as I loved the narcissist but enough was enough. I got down on my knees, said the prayer and almost immediately I felt him pulling away from me and my feelings shifted away from him. It was painful and I cried a lot. But I stayed 100% no contact. I would say out loud in the midst of my pain, Lord, I count it all joy! 3 years later, I’m happy and more aware than ever before. I’m still working on healing from codependency and it has been one of the hardest but most rewarding thing that I could have ever done for myself! I can honestly say that I could not have done it by myself. I’m free only with the help of the Holy Spirit. Living in the light is so much better than in darkness. May you choose yourself and your family over that “clown in a tainted crown. God bless you all.
Rc Blakes JR. - undiscovered sleep apnea (birth defects), mega dysfunctional family- narcissistic* mother insecure - abandoned/outcast in own ungodly family-, non military moving every few weeks to 18 month country to country on different continents- no relatives- (not allowed to interface) so, edema of Brain every day- utterly exhausted. Sense of duty drilled in. Unable to function. Married- a non
Marriage. And eventually again 18 years later. After .... all died*. I’m still here. Now 71 - unable to walk. No family at all
TONIGHT YOU SAID NEVER TOO LATE...
I SOBBED...MY HEART IS TO BE FREE FROM ALL THAT WHICH HOLD ME FROM SERVING GOD every day of my life. Everything will be alright!
Thank you !
May God continue to bless you! 🙏🏼❣️
My heart aches for you. Give your life to Jesus Christ. He has the power to renew you right now if you choose Him. All you have to do is surrender and accept God i to your life. Be blessed
Hi.
I'm 2 months free .And the pain is unbelievable but I'm not going back .Thank you for your wisdom .I pray to God every night for his help ✌️♥️
I have lost so much in my relationship buy I honestly haven't hit rock bottom. I'm afraid to hit rock bottom, I wanna walk away before I hit rock bottom.
Pastor Blacke Jr is on point. The toxicity has gotten worse. I never connected it with him leaving and returning. I just wanna end the foolishness. In fact I am ending it, walking away.
Have you walked away? Please update us.
This man is speaking the word of God. 💯 So blessed to have found this channel.