Just came across this channel and video. I have never seen it so well explained. You are awesome. I have been diagnosed in my 40s while undertaking my second degree. The challenges seemed to be exponentiated, however I had more knowledge about multiple cognitive disorders. It has been a progressive journey with positive achievements and, equally, judgment and prejudice. Thank you for creating the channel and the content shared :-)
Thank you for the wonderful comment!!! We are so glad to hear you are enjoying our content!! It was great to hear about your story and we hope that you can attend one of our many webinars that are every Thursday at 12 PM GMT!!
Not quite 20 minutes into the video but just wanted to chime in with my thanks for a superb, clear, well-presented and engaging series of videos. I'm really interested in Neurodivergence on both a personal and academic level after being diagnosed Asperger's in 2010, ADHD a couple of years ago and also relate to a lot of what's being said here regarding Dyspraxia and this makes total sense bearing in mind the huge Venn-diagram/overlap of symptoms and gifts for all these. Wow, that was a long sentence 😆 Thanks again and keep up the great work!
Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your personal journey with neurodivergence. It's wonderful to hear that the videos have resonated with you and provided valuable insights. Your experience highlights the complexity and interconnectedness of neurodiverse traits, and it's great to see you finding common ground and understanding through our content. We'll definitely keep working to provide more informative and engaging material. Keep being awesome!
Your experience reflects the complex dynamics of navigating the workplace with dyspraxia. It's unfortunate that some jobs may not fully understand or accommodate the challenges associated with dyspraxia, leading to difficulties over time. However, your ability to manage and adapt in the moment speaks to your resilience and determination. Your insight sheds light on the importance of awareness and support for neurodiverse individuals in the workplace.
I was finally diagnosed with Dyspraxia when I was 41 when I had returned to full time studying. I had several investigations when I was a child but they never went anywhere. I have the speech difficulties that you mentioned but I also have problems with volume, pitch and tone. Quite often people can think that I’m angry, having a go or shouting. The other symptoms merge with my ADHD.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's unfortunate that your diagnosis came later in life, but it's valuable to have clarity and understanding now. The overlap of symptoms between Dyspraxia and ADHD can indeed complicate things, especially regarding communication. It's important for others to be aware of these challenges to foster better understanding and support. Your openness helps shed light on the complexities of these conditions.
I'm 45 and was late-diagnosed as Autistic & ADHD at 42. Since I was about 39-40, I started getting multiple injuries all from falls: 3 concussions, broken ankle, broken fingers, torn ligaments, abdominal wall contusion. In the US, your primary provider refers you to specialists so I was sent to neurology for the repeated falls and to a neuro-opthamologist as well. Both specialists found deficits but not in any diagnostically helpful manner. So I don't fit diagnostic criteria for stroke symptoms, TBI, neuropathy, MS, etc. My neurologist was genuinely baffled and asked for time to "research" and has me coming back this summer for a follow up. Learning about dyspraxia in the meantime, I think it's possible they are missing this! Great info!
I should add I have never had fine motor skills & I couldn't use a knife to cut my meat until I was 18 and had tons of injuries as a child. People just expect it from children I guess.
@jennbest Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like you've been through a lot with these injuries and the diagnostic journey. Dyspraxia could indeed be a piece of the puzzle that might explain the coordination and falling issues you've experienced. It's good to hear that your neurologist is taking the time to research and follow up. Bringing up dyspraxia at your next appointment could be very helpful. Your experience highlights the importance of considering a wide range of possibilities in diagnoses. Best of luck with your follow-up, and I hope you get the clarity you need!
I got dxed adhd at 59, it was revealed to me by my parents during the adhd diagnosis (epic struggle) that I didn't crawl and only started walking near my 3rd birthday.. I've had multiple serious "clumsy" accidents, even cut the top of my thumb (bad news for a jeweller!)
I was born in 1955. I just this year discovered that there is something called dyspraxia! I am certain that it applies to me. Thank you for your informative videos. They are really helping me to understand myself, finally, at the age of sixty-eight. 💜
@donnellallan Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s incredible to hear that our videos are helping you gain a better understanding of yourself. Dyspraxia can indeed be challenging, but recognising it is the first step towards making positive changes. Your journey is inspiring, and we're honoured to be a part of it. If you have any questions or need more information, please don't hesitate to ask. 💜 - Nat
yep me too. I was terribly shamed by my gym teacher. Every year the report said pathetic will not try. I couldn't catch a ball or climb the ropes or do handstands. Literally couldn't do it no matter how hard I tried
@naemasufi I am sorry to hear that. That would be so hard. My mother was disappointed in me, but I was fortunate to have a very supportive gym teacher. I only wish I had realized how lucky I was and had thanked her. Her name was Birdie Olson and she was a gem. 💜
At 54, I've never heard of the term invisible women. Your information is very helpful and your presentation is excellent. Thank you. Challenges still causing havoc!
Hi @Hailwq, Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad to hear the information was helpful. The concept of "invisible women" can be eye-opening, especially when it comes to understanding overlooked experiences and challenges. Wishing you all the best as you navigate those challenges! Very best, Nat
Thank you for this channel. It is really great to hear this topic from another perspective. I'm from Germany and it is really hard to find videos about this. I really appreciate your work.
Hi @jorinalossau4559, Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m glad the content is providing a fresh perspective and reaching viewers in Germany. It’s wonderful to hear that the videos are making a difference, and I appreciate your support. Very best, Nat
Hi @johnbillings5260, I can imagine how dyspraxia makes hobbies an adventure, especially when frustration affects your fine motor skills! It's great that you're still engaging with activities that challenge you. Finding ways to stay calm and patient can help, but it sounds like you're approaching it with a good sense of humour! Very best, Nat
This was really interesting, thank you Exceptional Individuals. I don't know if I have dyspraxia becaause I have never been assessed and I really dread the hassle of trying to get an assessment, but this video makes me think it might actually be worth it. I have always struggled hard with learning any chain of movements that other people seemed to just do without thinking (for example, I couldn't figure the upjump in a high jump in PE until I was a teenager, I kept crossing my feet in a weird way), and while I haven't fallen out of chairs so much it got noticed by others I have always felt that I would if I stopped focusing on sitting, or if I didn't sit in a pose that steadied me enough to let that focus go. I recently turned 50 and I have started to feel that a life of compensating for and covering up these difficulties has exhausted me.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It takes courage to reflect on personal challenges, especially when it comes to seeking assessment. Wishing you strength and clarity as you explore this path further!
I'm glad you found the video helpful. It's understandable to feel apprehensive about the assessment process for dyspraxia, especially given your experiences. However, getting assessed could offer valuable insights and support to manage your challenges more effectively. While the journey might seem daunting, the potential benefits-such as personalized strategies and a deeper understanding of your experiences-can greatly improve your life. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and there are resources available to guide you through this process.
Can't get a formal diagnosis (gods know I've tried) but a medical practioner asked me if i knew I was dyspraxic about 6 years ago after she saw my flappy, floppy hands and lack of volume control. I read up on it, and it explained my entire life to me. Most motor issues were hidden by my awkward left-handedness. I get cramp in my hands when writing cos I grip too hard and curl my hand round. I was a late developer in terms of social skills and have a penchant for missing the bleeding obvious! I used to have panic attacks before every driving lesson. I was nicknamed the indestructabubble at uni for always getting into ridiculous scrapes but somehow coming out unscathed. I lost jobs due to struggling to look presentable. Ironing and hairdryers are completely beyond me. I've had broken legs/ankles (not during the uni years) from being bullied into making simple jumps that everyone else can easily do (but I was certain I couldn't. And I was right. I couldn't.) All the things I thought were character flaws, but which I seemed to have no power to improve or work on, are explained by Dyspraxia. Luckily, I have a good job now, with lovely colleagues who will look out for and quietly let me know if my top is on back to front or my trousers are inside out so I can nip to the loo and get dressed correctly. I'm more careful now. I don't ignore my limits out of frustration or a need to be normal /competent so get injured less (barely once a year now requiring medical intervention) . I layout my home in a way to avoid bumping into things and I ALWAYS trip over stuff if someone else moves it out of its "home".
Hi @AB-ot1pv, Thank you for sharing your story-so many of your experiences will resonate with others who might be struggling with similar challenges. It’s amazing how understanding dyspraxia can bring clarity to what felt like character flaws. It sounds like you’ve found ways to adapt and create an environment that works for you, which is a huge win. Having supportive colleagues makes a world of difference too. Wishing you continued success and fewer bumps along the way! 😊
38 year old male here, currently trying to get an assessment for dyspraxia and not had much luck with the NHS. Have had speech problems which were picked up at a very young age and my parents have said that my co-ordination was always 'a bit off' especially when it came to running. Had various employers comment that I was a bit slow, something I've noticed myself as I seem to take longer to do things compared to others and I've actually been asked if I had dyspraxia.
It sounds like you've been facing some challenges for a long time. I hope you can get the assessment you need soon. Sometimes, pursuing a diagnosis privately or seeking support groups might provide more immediate help. Stay persistent, and best of luck with your assessment!
Yes I have it they use to take me long time to take my shoes to use scissors was a great concentration process. I can be standing in a group when everyone is laughing. I’m not it takes me a few minutes to process it and then I’ll laugh when nobody’s laughing and bumping into things has been something I have done since I was little, I was never diagnosed, but I have been diagnosed with multiple other learning disabilities so it wouldn’t surprise me if I didn’t have some of the characteristics and they just passed it off one of the other learning disabilities I have
Hi @kimmyfox726, Thank you for sharing your experience-it sounds like you've faced quite a few challenges with processing and coordination that could be related to dyspraxia or similar traits. It’s understandable that these characteristics might have been attributed to other learning disabilities, especially since they can often overlap. It’s great that you have insight into how your brain works, and that self-awareness can help find ways to cope and thrive. Wishing you the best on your journey! Very best, Nat
it's kind of like getting old before your time . I see old folks home residents struggling with coordination and energy levels too. So many "normies" will in effect know how it feels for us towards the end of life. Good luck explaining dyspraxia to the normally motored though. Might as well try to tell them you just got abducted by an alien spaceship! 😂
Hi @jewels18261, That’s a really insightful comparison! It’s true that some of the challenges with coordination and energy in dyspraxia can resemble what older folks experience. And yes, explaining dyspraxia to those who don’t experience it can feel like trying to describe something totally out of this world-definitely a challenge! Thanks for sharing your perspective with humor! Very best, Nat
Thanks so much for all the thoughtful comments on this video! Really appreciate everyone engaging with this topic. If you’re interested in more on neurodiversity, Nat did a TEDx talk diving deeper into these ideas. Here’s the link if you'd like to check it out: ua-cam.com/video/Fx2-VHDLJT0/v-deo.html 😊
Hi @ronaldk.sitlhou2914, Thank you for sharing that! Self-diagnosis is a valid step for many adults, especially if it helps you better understand yourself and your experiences. If you ever choose to explore a formal diagnosis, it could provide further insights or support, but your self-awareness is already powerful. Very best, Nat
Just came across this channel and video. I have never seen it so well explained. You are awesome. I have been diagnosed in my 40s while undertaking my second degree. The challenges seemed to be exponentiated, however I had more knowledge about multiple cognitive disorders. It has been a progressive journey with positive achievements and, equally, judgment and prejudice. Thank you for creating the channel and the content shared :-)
Thank you for the wonderful comment!!! We are so glad to hear you are enjoying our content!! It was great to hear about your story and we hope that you can attend one of our many webinars that are every Thursday at 12 PM GMT!!
Not quite 20 minutes into the video but just wanted to chime in with my thanks for a superb, clear, well-presented and engaging series of videos. I'm really interested in Neurodivergence on both a personal and academic level after being diagnosed Asperger's in 2010, ADHD a couple of years ago and also relate to a lot of what's being said here regarding Dyspraxia and this makes total sense bearing in mind the huge Venn-diagram/overlap of symptoms and gifts for all these. Wow, that was a long sentence 😆 Thanks again and keep up the great work!
Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your personal journey with neurodivergence. It's wonderful to hear that the videos have resonated with you and provided valuable insights. Your experience highlights the complexity and interconnectedness of neurodiverse traits, and it's great to see you finding common ground and understanding through our content. We'll definitely keep working to provide more informative and engaging material. Keep being awesome!
Got some jobs because the dyspraxia is easy to hide in the moment. Lost some jobs because dyspraxia is impossible to hide over time.
Your experience reflects the complex dynamics of navigating the workplace with dyspraxia. It's unfortunate that some jobs may not fully understand or accommodate the challenges associated with dyspraxia, leading to difficulties over time. However, your ability to manage and adapt in the moment speaks to your resilience and determination. Your insight sheds light on the importance of awareness and support for neurodiverse individuals in the workplace.
I was finally diagnosed with Dyspraxia when I was 41 when I had returned to full time studying. I had several investigations when I was a child but they never went anywhere. I have the speech difficulties that you mentioned but I also have problems with volume, pitch and tone. Quite often people can think that I’m angry, having a go or shouting. The other symptoms merge with my ADHD.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's unfortunate that your diagnosis came later in life, but it's valuable to have clarity and understanding now. The overlap of symptoms between Dyspraxia and ADHD can indeed complicate things, especially regarding communication. It's important for others to be aware of these challenges to foster better understanding and support. Your openness helps shed light on the complexities of these conditions.
People’s comments so helpful and encouraging to me. Knowing that others have had similar experiences is reassuring. Talks are so good. Thank you
I'm 45 and was late-diagnosed as Autistic & ADHD at 42. Since I was about 39-40, I started getting multiple injuries all from falls: 3 concussions, broken ankle, broken fingers, torn ligaments, abdominal wall contusion. In the US, your primary provider refers you to specialists so I was sent to neurology for the repeated falls and to a neuro-opthamologist as well. Both specialists found deficits but not in any diagnostically helpful manner. So I don't fit diagnostic criteria for stroke symptoms, TBI, neuropathy, MS, etc. My neurologist was genuinely baffled and asked for time to "research" and has me coming back this summer for a follow up. Learning about dyspraxia in the meantime, I think it's possible they are missing this! Great info!
I should add I have never had fine motor skills & I couldn't use a knife to cut my meat until I was 18 and had tons of injuries as a child. People just expect it from children I guess.
@jennbest Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like you've been through a lot with these injuries and the diagnostic journey. Dyspraxia could indeed be a piece of the puzzle that might explain the coordination and falling issues you've experienced. It's good to hear that your neurologist is taking the time to research and follow up. Bringing up dyspraxia at your next appointment could be very helpful. Your experience highlights the importance of considering a wide range of possibilities in diagnoses. Best of luck with your follow-up, and I hope you get the clarity you need!
I got dxed adhd at 59, it was revealed to me by my parents during the adhd diagnosis (epic struggle) that I didn't crawl and only started walking near my 3rd birthday.. I've had multiple serious "clumsy" accidents, even cut the top of my thumb (bad news for a jeweller!)
You are a gem ❤️💎 thank you for sharing all of this information 🙏🙏🙏
I appreciate that!
I was born in 1955. I just this year discovered that there is something called dyspraxia! I am certain that it applies to me. Thank you for your informative videos. They are really helping me to understand myself, finally, at the age of sixty-eight. 💜
@donnellallan Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s incredible to hear that our videos are helping you gain a better understanding of yourself. Dyspraxia can indeed be challenging, but recognising it is the first step towards making positive changes. Your journey is inspiring, and we're honoured to be a part of it. If you have any questions or need more information, please don't hesitate to ask. 💜 - Nat
@@ExceptionalIndividuals , how very kind. Thank you! 💜
yep me too. I was terribly shamed by my gym teacher. Every year the report said pathetic will not try. I couldn't catch a ball or climb the ropes or do handstands. Literally couldn't do it no matter how hard I tried
@naemasufi I am sorry to hear that. That would be so hard. My mother was disappointed in me, but I was fortunate to have a very supportive gym teacher. I only wish I had realized how lucky I was and had thanked her. Her name was Birdie Olson and she was a gem. 💜
At 54, I've never heard of the term invisible women. Your information is very helpful and your presentation is excellent. Thank you. Challenges still causing havoc!
Hi @Hailwq,
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad to hear the information was helpful. The concept of "invisible women" can be eye-opening, especially when it comes to understanding overlooked experiences and challenges. Wishing you all the best as you navigate those challenges!
Very best,
Nat
Thank you for this channel. It is really great to hear this topic from another perspective. I'm from Germany and it is really hard to find videos about this. I really appreciate your work.
Hi @jorinalossau4559,
Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m glad the content is providing a fresh perspective and reaching viewers in Germany. It’s wonderful to hear that the videos are making a difference, and I appreciate your support.
Very best,
Nat
I have learned first-hand that fine motor skills go out the window because of my dyspraxia when I get frustrated. It makes hobbies interesting.
Hi @johnbillings5260,
I can imagine how dyspraxia makes hobbies an adventure, especially when frustration affects your fine motor skills! It's great that you're still engaging with activities that challenge you. Finding ways to stay calm and patient can help, but it sounds like you're approaching it with a good sense of humour!
Very best,
Nat
This was really interesting, thank you Exceptional Individuals. I don't know if I have dyspraxia becaause I have never been assessed and I really dread the hassle of trying to get an assessment, but this video makes me think it might actually be worth it. I have always struggled hard with learning any chain of movements that other people seemed to just do without thinking (for example, I couldn't figure the upjump in a high jump in PE until I was a teenager, I kept crossing my feet in a weird way), and while I haven't fallen out of chairs so much it got noticed by others I have always felt that I would if I stopped focusing on sitting, or if I didn't sit in a pose that steadied me enough to let that focus go. I recently turned 50 and I have started to feel that a life of compensating for and covering up these difficulties has exhausted me.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It takes courage to reflect on personal challenges, especially when it comes to seeking assessment. Wishing you strength and clarity as you explore this path further!
I'm glad you found the video helpful. It's understandable to feel apprehensive about the assessment process for dyspraxia, especially given your experiences. However, getting assessed could offer valuable insights and support to manage your challenges more effectively. While the journey might seem daunting, the potential benefits-such as personalized strategies and a deeper understanding of your experiences-can greatly improve your life. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and there are resources available to guide you through this process.
Can't get a formal diagnosis (gods know I've tried) but a medical practioner asked me if i knew I was dyspraxic about 6 years ago after she saw my flappy, floppy hands and lack of volume control. I read up on it, and it explained my entire life to me.
Most motor issues were hidden by my awkward left-handedness. I get cramp in my hands when writing cos I grip too hard and curl my hand round. I was a late developer in terms of social skills and have a penchant for missing the bleeding obvious!
I used to have panic attacks before every driving lesson. I was nicknamed the indestructabubble at uni for always getting into ridiculous scrapes but somehow coming out unscathed. I lost jobs due to struggling to look presentable. Ironing and hairdryers are completely beyond me. I've had broken legs/ankles (not during the uni years) from being bullied into making simple jumps that everyone else can easily do (but I was certain I couldn't. And I was right. I couldn't.)
All the things I thought were character flaws, but which I seemed to have no power to improve or work on, are explained by Dyspraxia.
Luckily, I have a good job now, with lovely colleagues who will look out for and quietly let me know if my top is on back to front or my trousers are inside out so I can nip to the loo and get dressed correctly.
I'm more careful now. I don't ignore my limits out of frustration or a need to be normal /competent so get injured less (barely once a year now requiring medical intervention) . I layout my home in a way to avoid bumping into things and I ALWAYS trip over stuff if someone else moves it out of its "home".
Hi @AB-ot1pv,
Thank you for sharing your story-so many of your experiences will resonate with others who might be struggling with similar challenges. It’s amazing how understanding dyspraxia can bring clarity to what felt like character flaws. It sounds like you’ve found ways to adapt and create an environment that works for you, which is a huge win. Having supportive colleagues makes a world of difference too. Wishing you continued success and fewer bumps along the way! 😊
Thank you good content
Glad you enjoyed it
38 year old male here, currently trying to get an assessment for dyspraxia and not had much luck with the NHS.
Have had speech problems which were picked up at a very young age and my parents have said that my co-ordination was always 'a bit off' especially when it came to running. Had various employers comment that I was a bit slow, something I've noticed myself as I seem to take longer to do things compared to others and I've actually been asked if I had dyspraxia.
It sounds like you've been facing some challenges for a long time. I hope you can get the assessment you need soon. Sometimes, pursuing a diagnosis privately or seeking support groups might provide more immediate help. Stay persistent, and best of luck with your assessment!
Yes I have it they use to take me long time to take my shoes to use scissors was a great concentration process. I can be standing in a group when everyone is laughing. I’m not it takes me a few minutes to process it and then I’ll laugh when nobody’s laughing and bumping into things has been something I have done since I was little, I was never diagnosed, but I have been diagnosed with multiple other learning disabilities so it wouldn’t surprise me if I didn’t have some of the characteristics and they just passed it off one of the other learning disabilities I have
Hi @kimmyfox726,
Thank you for sharing your experience-it sounds like you've faced quite a few challenges with processing and coordination that could be related to dyspraxia or similar traits. It’s understandable that these characteristics might have been attributed to other learning disabilities, especially since they can often overlap. It’s great that you have insight into how your brain works, and that self-awareness can help find ways to cope and thrive. Wishing you the best on your journey!
Very best,
Nat
it's kind of like getting old before your time . I see old folks home residents struggling with coordination and energy levels too. So many "normies" will in effect know how it feels for us towards the end of life.
Good luck explaining dyspraxia to the normally motored though. Might as well try to tell them you just got abducted by an alien spaceship! 😂
Hi @jewels18261,
That’s a really insightful comparison! It’s true that some of the challenges with coordination and energy in dyspraxia can resemble what older folks experience. And yes, explaining dyspraxia to those who don’t experience it can feel like trying to describe something totally out of this world-definitely a challenge! Thanks for sharing your perspective with humor!
Very best,
Nat
Thanks so much for all the thoughtful comments on this video! Really appreciate everyone engaging with this topic. If you’re interested in more on neurodiversity, Nat did a TEDx talk diving deeper into these ideas. Here’s the link if you'd like to check it out: ua-cam.com/video/Fx2-VHDLJT0/v-deo.html 😊
Is there an org like this in America? I would like to work as a coach in one given mine and my kids diagnoses og neurodiversity
Its a good question and not to my knowledge but its worth a search
36 years old self diagnosed here.
Hi @ronaldk.sitlhou2914,
Thank you for sharing that! Self-diagnosis is a valid step for many adults, especially if it helps you better understand yourself and your experiences. If you ever choose to explore a formal diagnosis, it could provide further insights or support, but your self-awareness is already powerful.
Very best,
Nat
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