People obsess over the male-female ratio, but having a scarcity mindset isn't helpful. In general, there's a lack of reciprocity between men and women when attempting to date and once in a relationship. That's when you get folks like me who just remove themselves from the "game". If someone comes up to me on the street or wherever in person, I'll definitely engage, but as far as TRYING to get a man (app or dating events), nah. Just be you and let it happen naturally.
When you're saying a lack of reciprocity between men and women you mean women never initiating contacting, or getting left on read and ghosted. Women want men to do all the chasing and pursuing and men are fed up and not having a one way investment.
@@Canoncorey The term comes from China. Any woman unmarried at 28 is too old to marry. It was created by the Chinese government to pressure women to get married early.
Listen young men - do NOT get married. There is absolutely nothing in it for you but financial, emotional and mental ruin. Take it from an old fart like me. Don’t live with regret, just don’t do it!
If they want to not in any westernized country or countries close to the USA 🇺🇸 or Canada 🇨🇦 or the UK 🇬🇧, Australia 🇦🇺, and some countries in Western Europe. Yes don’t get married but especially not on US states of California, New York, New Jersey (don’t get sloppy with Jersey Shore Snooki unless she gets super picky) Connecticut, and Florida.
Just got out of an 11 year relationship, 9 of that married, and still need to file the divorce. Even after that, I don’t wanna do that all over. I’m good. I’m chillin. Career and gym mode is all I need.
@@Canoncorey You are a left over male. And frankly a mitch. Instead of expressing your fee fee's seeking sympathy for your inability to attract basic b*tches why don't you point your audience to accomplished men in relationships that isn't at the gym because they stuck there? Why not tell Gabriel that he needs to grow up and grow a pair, learn where he fumbled the ball and get back into the game before he's old and wishing somebody would come and take care of his ass???.... Because you are the women you hate. You attract who you really are and there isn't enough money or muscles to make you attractive in a way that's meaningful. You're a left over male that can't figure out basic chicks. Do yourself a favor and get off the internet and figure life out first before you keep BS going in your community. DC don't need more lames. You're welcome.
Met my wife in Washington DC in 2017 & June 26, 2025 will be 5 years Happily Married... I don't give my wife the world WE give each other the world! Most dudes just think being a provider is good enough 😂 😂 😂 😂 It's more than just paying bills
Sorry can’t have it both ways. I am quite friendly and I speak and a lot of black men do not speak back. So many are rude AF for no reason it’s ridiculous.
The best type of relationship is a inter+dependent relationship. The problem is you can't have a inter-dependent relationship with someone who is not truly independent. If you get fooled into a relationship where you are with a dependent person, you're cooked. A high percentage of modern day women are looking for sponsors not partners. Tread carefully...
Nah depency is the makeup of a successful relationship. The problem is these women want dependency(sponsors) from nen who make more than them and they already make a lot lot money 🤦🏽♂️. So they were inheritantly desiring care when they can care for themselves.
The older you get the wiser you get.IF you haven’t found your person in your 20’s forget about finding them later on in life.Any women left on the table after 30 would be the leftover women.IF your a man with resources keep stacking,stay in shape and travel the world.
Men should honestly focus on their physical and mental health and make their money. The world today is too unpredictable don’t make the same mistake many past men made before.
But what about the stability of the Nation and keeping the population at replacement levels and raising a healthy future generation? I think this movement is really about population control. People have issues, no doubt, but I think there's something bigger going on here.
I don't get where this argument comes from. Most everyday women (NOT the influencers you all see on social media) aleady have jobs and retirement plans. What's a man needed for unless there's a child involved? Most people in these comments aren't making enough for that to even be a factor lol.
I’m 57 years old and have watched the decline of US society and our people’s decline along with it. EVERY point you make is valid but I really wish I could talk you young Brothers through this situation, not to change your mind but to make sense of what is happening. Social media ain’t it. Kevin Samuels’ work was cut short. It was clear that he had big things planned.
Many women thought the single party was going to last forever. Now they set themselves up trying to get in a relationship. Also many women that didn’t think about nobody but themselves all this time, who would want that kind of girl?!
Some of them were rude, and crude, calling dudes ugly, saying they won't hire ugly men, playing games with men, and acting like they like them to reject them and tell their friends to boost them and their ego and much more.
Dating isn't complex. Find someone you like who shares your values and leave everyone else alone. There is always a risk (whether it's money or time). If that risk is too much to bare, then stay home.
I agree - these videos are funny. It is much more simple than this. I mean obviously a young woman needs to be selective about marriage and who she has children with since that puts her in a vulnerable position. But if a woman is not seeking that then both people should really be able to chill and focus on compatibility.
I've never heard the term, but its hilarious. These women let social media convince them not to settle down in their 20's, and now they're facing the consequences. Accountability infuriates women.
I'm not sure if you have female friends but I know that a lot of women are thriving, even single. Men should be just as happy single as women are being single. Literally no need to settle for the first guy or girl who you don't love just because you're in your 20s.
I mean if you’re good, then what’s the purpose of making a video? You clearly aren’t interested in women or even dating so let those that are interested speak on it. Make it make sense.
ding ding ding. he's obviously really hurt by previous relationships + truly happy people don't have to brag about the fact they're happy. my guess is he actually falls into the "leftover men" category and that bothers him
Did it ever occur to you with how messed up, and convoluted the dating market is? I think it's a great thing for him to make this video. Not only is he giving perspective on dating in general, but also what's out there in DC. Yes, while there are people who are in a happy relationship, the exception doesn't make the rule.
At 25 they know their value is very high just because they’re young. But they only have a few years of it. The tables turn drastically soon as you hit 30.
Watched this entire video and have no idea what you are speaking about. I live in DC. DC is filled to the brim with highly educated, highly motivated and successful women of all colors. At this very moment at Howard University in DC, there is a 17 women to 1 man ratio. If you are only finding women who have no life purpose/ambition and are only looking to be cared for by a man, then you are looking (or not looking) in all the wrong places. Of the many childfree (not childless-- that's different) and single people I know, it's the women who are happy, financially healthy (most are also home owners), and have full lives (enjoying travel, events and friends). It's the single men who lack social lives, until they find a gf or wife. The facts and figures also show this.
I'm not discounting the existence of better options and women out there. This video was focused on what we're tired of running into as men. I don't hang out around Howard. The closest I get is U street every now and then. And even then I'm not really a fan of it. Also, I had never heard of this term before but I understood how it came about.
I agree - social media will have you believe every 30 year old black man is highly educated, in shape and making 6 figures surrounded by thirsty women 🙄. But in real life as a black woman or really any single woman knows spend a half hour on the dating apps and 90% of your matches are desperate dudes with nothing but high school diplomas and kids who live with them part time. But yeah it’s black women who are the ones down bad - stop lying (to yourself. lol )
1:43 Actually I think women are complaining about the selfishness. Men don’t have to want to be in relationships, but some of them can be selfish and still expect women to sleep with them and perform girlfriend duties. I deleted my other comment because I got annoying unsolicited victim blaming advice (not from you OP).
the social contract is broken. women want traditional men but refuse to be traditional themselves. Leave them they are strong and independent and don't need a man.
women want traditional men but somehow most households in America are two income households. Y'all are so dum you'd be al iability to any sane woman. Read a fucking book before you spout manosphere talking points. The reality is most women are working full time and going home to clean up after their useless boyfriends/jhusbands and their kids. They're holding down two fulltime jobs when you look into the reality of how many hours women spend keeping up the home while their male counterpart sits on his ass after his 9-5. Miss me with that shit.
The fact that so many people are commenting here is by itself very telling. But then again, this topic (or should I say phenomenon) has been discussed and explored over the years, especially by news outlets like Fox 5. The chief takeaway for me whenever this topic is discussed has been that the singles rate (or percentage of people who remain single) hovers at around 70 percent for a variety of reasons: whether due to mindset, perspectives, outlook, economics/financial, trauma, the kind or quality of support and advice received, or what have you. In fact, a friend of mine told me that it was around 80 percent at one point. Depressing was one word that came to mind. I'm certain we can come up with other adjectives describing this "reality".
If you live outside of the socialmedia bubble this seems strange. If you observe the socialmedia bubble then you are aware of the influences that have caused this rift for some.
Living outside of the social media bubble is a lonely endeavor. Even when you do people you come in contact with at my age are likely to be apart of it.
Given the dynamics of dating and relationships in this era, it's just easier and safer for a man to go his own way. Too often, "the juice ain't worth the squeeze."
The term leftover women is from Chinese culture. The word they use is "Sheng Nu" and it refers to any woman that is still single after 27 y.o. And the men are very straight forward and make no apologies in telling a woman that he won't marry her because she is old.
@Canoncorey Most of my applications on USAJobs were never responded to. I'm applying to the Air Force now, but because of all the bureaucracy and paperwork it's taken over a year.
Aging out of the dating market is wild. I’ve seen some beautiful older women. I wouldn’t go as far as to say they aren’t in the dating market. It just depends on who’s doing the dating.
@@Canoncorey being pretty has nothing to do with it. These women are hard to deal with. You have nothing to offer if all you have is a pretty face. It's that simple.
@@Canoncoreytbh having one woman isn't worth it unless you're a Christian or that's your religious beliefs. So many poly women why would I settle for a monogamous one who wants me to be the provider? So I pay the bills and you tell me I can't sleep with anyone else. What's in it for me?
@@Canoncorey they date but hardly any man sees them as relationship material so hardly anyone is ready to stick around and the dudes that would they don't want lol
Here is how it worked out for me...I worked on myself so much that all I see nowadays is everyone's red flags and I simply sit back and watch the chit-shows. 🙂
@@King-if5kh I’m from the NYC area of Northern New Jersey and the cities of Newark and Paterson and Elizabeth are either the hood with us and some Latinos and they are cliquish AF. The burbs are either families or stuck up WW and LW who are cliquish and snooty as well. Ever saw the show Jersey Shore. Some of them come from NYC burbs. NYC is no better either. Although diverse still tough. And Long Island, NY you can forget about it either. Just a hellhole. I have the passport but want the job to keep my income to stay out there for a minimum of 3 months at a time.
Well look im black & im out in northern va. Most of my dating has been outside of the country.Mainly European females and some Middle eastern,so its been different for me.Expanding your options is the move. The earth is big,lot of women out there.
I swear dating has literally little to no return for a man. I'm good. I definitely try it out in a different country and different culture. I tapped out here tho lol.
Instead of talking about what women need to be doing you need to be going to someone dental office! Maybe that’s another reason you’re single outside of this BS mindset.
@@dazzlingdae exactly! I heard he left Houston to come to DC. If he can’t find women in both cities then outside of being unattractive he’s the problem in other ways. A lot of these men have horrible attitudes themselves but too busy trying to correct women when they need to be correcting themselves!
So you are labeling her "angry" for calling out his undesirability but it's not "angry" in your opinion that he made a whole video calling women undesirable? The logic is so absurd. I wish you incels could hear yourselves.
It actually hasn't been that dark yet. It's been pretty sunny this month which is a little odd. I feel like we're being set up to think it's going to be an ok winter.
This is a saying that originates and was applied th Chinese females that were still single past the ideal age of marriage. How’d this bleed into the western ‘discourse’ about manosphere vs feminist tug-o-war?
Return on investment 😂 sounds very DC Possible suggestion, have you approached dating around your hobbies? By your videos you seem to enjoy walking? Could you meet someone for a walk and talk? Compatibility plays a big role 😊 In my opinion, there's no perfect place or person, and usually your problems follow you no matter where you go. What does 'taking the time out to work on themselves' look like to you?
I'm pretty much exhausted on the idea of dating in DC as whole. But I'll try to dig deep and see what hobbies I might be able to find someone else doing.
Like the sea, dating demographics have currents, ebbs and flows high tides and low tides. Each individual, male and female, must "chart" the course of their dating to whatever "port" they have made as their target or preferred destination. The current REALITY in dating, particularly in the black community, is black men are reevaluating their roles and options. Black women have been inordinately successful in realigning their priorities in terms of dating and relationship. It's inexplicable black women on the one hand radically redefined and realigned their priorities but now are having issues with black men doing the same. The current paradigm or memes predominating black dating may not be representative of the preference of every black woman, but these paradigms and memes create a public profile of black women to black men and others. The current profile of single black women makes them exceptionally poor prospects for anything beyond hook ups or short term encounters. Over 60% of single black women are mothers while over 54% of single black men are childless. Yet domestic black women complain they can't find men. Well obviously almost two out of every three single black woman could find a man to have a baby with but can't find a man to stay with. For the majority of single childless black men they have an overwhelming preference to date single childless women. Single childless black men have even greater preference to have long term exclusive relationships with women without children. Next, domestic black women have made being non traditional in their lifestyle preferences. While black women have the right to embrace and exemplify non traditional gender roles, black men have the same right to prefer traditional women for dating and relationships. This is one of several primary drivers of single black men self-exiling themselves from dating and relationships.
Unlike the transplants, I am a DC native. DC women have always been spoiled, uppity, etc. They make you work very hard and play too hard to get. I've been single for a few years now and literally cannot find 1 woman that will at least look my way. Even the chunky girls think they deserve better. I think DC women like the pretty boys, and they are holding out until they get what they want. All regular men (myself included) need not try.
Sounds like NYC or the NYC suburbs of Long Island, Westchester County, Rockland County, and Northen New Jersey of Bergan County, Passiac Coubty, Essex County, Hudson County, Union County and then the Jersey Shore. Uppity snooty haughty females from AWW and some ALW, and ABW whether big or small. Along with being super picky.
Have you not ever been in a serious long term relationship to know what value a women adds? Once a man starts speaking in those buzz words like "What do you bring to the table", "high value", and "leftover women" ; I get scared. There's definitely a certain group of men and women who are letting the internet and podcast determine their dating standards. I think everyone needs to refocus their dating habits, tactics, and goals back to their real world.
Thanks. I kind of got a little active this weekend. I was on U street. It was crazy packed. I was invited to a rooftop party. It was cool. Not sure how to post the footage for from there yet.
@@Canoncorey I've definitely got to come visit out there one day. I heard those Howard homecomings are always pretty fun and with plenty of beautiful women..
You thinking a lot better than I did when I was younger, Take your time, be at peace with yourself and if you do date she better be good for you and you only.
Glad I started dating all ages when younger. I noticed , as an engineer so even the older took me serious for some reason, the conversations went from I'm not ready for that to When are you ready as you go older. Ladies really think they control relationships and marriage on their time, when really its only the initial contact
Here is why I feel dating events are useless!!! At such events, one or two guys get all the attention; it's the 80-20 rule on steroids!!! If you are a man, why put yourself through that?
In DC the ratio is estimated to be 15 women for each man and leftover woman term came from China where women older than 30 was called that and put in a specific category
When you have a wife or a girlfriend, she is constantly coming to you with a need for something and you are expected to do something about her need; and the U.S. even has laws in place to charge you with neglect and punish you if you don't do something about her need. At that point you are just a slave with money to fund her lifestyle. When you are a single man, you don't have to lift a finger to do anything for anyone unless you want to do something for yourself. Men Need To Wake Up!!!
People obsess over the male-female ratio, but having a scarcity mindset isn't helpful. In general, there's a lack of reciprocity between men and women when attempting to date and once in a relationship. That's when you get folks like me who just remove themselves from the "game". If someone comes up to me on the street or wherever in person, I'll definitely engage, but as far as TRYING to get a man (app or dating events), nah. Just be you and let it happen naturally.
I wish I could give you a standing ovation for this comment. Well said 😌
When you're saying a lack of reciprocity between men and women you mean women never initiating contacting, or getting left on read and ghosted. Women want men to do all the chasing and pursuing and men are fed up and not having a one way investment.
@@timmorisma4800 facts they even want handsome fit guys to do that eevnt tho most date mid guys! I stropped dating ill comeback when im, 30
In China older unmarried women are called Chrimas cake.
@@Canoncorey The term comes from China. Any woman unmarried at 28 is too old to marry. It was created by the Chinese government to pressure women to get married early.
Listen young men - do NOT get married. There is absolutely nothing in it for you but financial, emotional and mental ruin. Take it from an old fart like me. Don’t live with regret, just don’t do it!
If they want to not in any westernized country or countries close to the USA 🇺🇸 or Canada 🇨🇦 or the UK 🇬🇧, Australia 🇦🇺, and some countries in Western Europe. Yes don’t get married but especially not on US states of California, New York, New Jersey (don’t get sloppy with Jersey Shore Snooki unless she gets super picky) Connecticut, and Florida.
Amen 💯
@@jqight740deSantis eliminated lifetime alimony in FL for what its worth
They all toxic sooner or later just run and wear s tin hat.
Just got out of an 11 year relationship, 9 of that married, and still need to file the divorce. Even after that, I don’t wanna do that all over. I’m good. I’m chillin. Career and gym mode is all I need.
Gym Life is where it's at for real. I low key need to start a gym channel.
@@Canoncorey You are a left over male. And frankly a mitch. Instead of expressing your fee fee's seeking sympathy for your inability to attract basic b*tches why don't you point your audience to accomplished men in relationships that isn't at the gym because they stuck there? Why not tell Gabriel that he needs to grow up and grow a pair, learn where he fumbled the ball and get back into the game before he's old and wishing somebody would come and take care of his ass???.... Because you are the women you hate. You attract who you really are and there isn't enough money or muscles to make you attractive in a way that's meaningful. You're a left over male that can't figure out basic chicks. Do yourself a favor and get off the internet and figure life out first before you keep BS going in your community. DC don't need more lames. You're welcome.
Met my wife in Washington DC in 2017 & June 26, 2025 will be 5 years Happily Married...
I don't give my wife the world WE give each other the world!
Most dudes just think being a provider is good enough 😂 😂 😂 😂 It's more than just paying bills
That's my birthday.
Soon as u stop giving her the world, she’s gonna take your world
This
Good for you two congratulations on the 5 years, and I wish you all stay happily married for the rest of your lives.
May God continue to Bless you for the rest of your life fam@@stephanazor8898
You're not wrong, you can give a woman everything, and you get NOTHING in return ZERO.. 😎😎
If you're not careful this can definitely happen.
I've done this and my wife still said it wasn't enough. Women just don't appreciate the average man these days and they are average themselves.
Best decision you have ever made!! Walk away from the toxic feminist woman.
I'be been doing it for years now. I'm just now starting to talk about it on UA-cam lol
Remember gents, if it flies, floats, or fcks… It's cheaper to rent it! Stay MGTOW strong!
Ouch……but yep
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How can you even date the modern woman when they won't really even say hello.
In DC they have no problem saying Hi. It's the pressure they apply after Hi that's the problem.
No problem saying hi and/or thank for a compliment, but if you aren’t conventionally attractive, why must a woman continue to entertain conversation?
Sorry can’t have it both ways. I am quite friendly and I speak and a lot of black men do not speak back. So many are rude AF for no reason it’s ridiculous.
@@Rbdeuxfitforlife Well, I am saying hello to you and how are you doing.
@@SoundReflex Well 👋🏾 hello, hope you’re having an amazing day
The best type of relationship is a inter+dependent relationship. The problem is you can't have a inter-dependent relationship with someone who is not truly independent.
If you get fooled into a relationship where you are with a dependent person, you're cooked. A high percentage of modern day women are looking for sponsors not partners. Tread carefully...
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Nah depency is the makeup of a successful relationship. The problem is these women want dependency(sponsors) from nen who make more than them and they already make a lot lot money 🤦🏽♂️. So they were inheritantly desiring care when they can care for themselves.
The older you get the wiser you get.IF you haven’t found your person in your 20’s forget about finding them later on in life.Any women left on the table after 30 would be the leftover women.IF your a man with resources keep stacking,stay in shape and travel the world.
Literally where I'm at at this point. And I'm happy.
Facts 🤝🏿💯💯💯
Dudes are now using feminine terms like "your person, my truth...guys please stop!
Leftover women is a sexist term.
I have met women who started dating in their 30s, got married and had children.
😂😂😂
Men should honestly focus on their physical and mental health and make their money. The world today is too unpredictable don’t make the same mistake many past men made before.
In other words, "Do You"
But what about the stability of the Nation and keeping the population at replacement levels and raising a healthy future generation? I think this movement is really about population control. People have issues, no doubt, but I think there's something bigger going on here.
Men need to adapt, no need to do double monkey backflips for these modern wmn who see u as a retirement plan.
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Agree
CGA already put us on game 😎
I don't get where this argument comes from. Most everyday women (NOT the influencers you all see on social media) aleady have jobs and retirement plans. What's a man needed for unless there's a child involved? Most people in these comments aren't making enough for that to even be a factor lol.
I’m 57 years old and have watched the decline of US society and our people’s decline along with it.
EVERY point you make is valid but I really wish I could talk you young Brothers through this situation, not to change your mind but to make sense of what is happening. Social media ain’t it. Kevin Samuels’ work was cut short. It was clear that he had big things planned.
I never really watched him. Just seen a few clips when he would go viral.
He was taken out by feminist elites
@@Canoncorey I hope you don’t become too comfortable with isolation. That’s not what life is about.
This term comes from china where women outnumber men by a much larger margin.
Yea, I noticed that after looking it up. I first heard of it out here in DC.
30 million more men in China, women dont outnumber rather believe they deserve more despite offering less
@@123pb total numbers indicate more men than women but in marriage market there are way more women than men in China.
Actually china has an excess of 30 million men born after 1990. Typical uneducated dusty statements.
Even the Chinese women matchmakers tell Chinese women they're asking for too much.
Many women thought the single party was going to last forever. Now they set themselves up trying to get in a relationship. Also many women that didn’t think about nobody but themselves all this time, who would want that kind of girl?!
Some of them were rude, and crude, calling dudes ugly, saying they won't hire ugly men, playing games with men, and acting like they like them to reject them and tell their friends to boost them and their ego and much more.
Dating isn't complex. Find someone you like who shares your values and leave everyone else alone. There is always a risk (whether it's money or time). If that risk is too much to bare, then stay home.
I'm all tapped out on the Finding part. Now if I just so happened to run into someone that will be different.
@@Canoncoreyspent real money on dating apps to get zero. Tapped and done.
I agree - these videos are funny. It is much more simple than this. I mean obviously a young woman needs to be selective about marriage and who she has children with since that puts her in a vulnerable position. But if a woman is not seeking that then both people should really be able to chill and focus on compatibility.
That’s IT🎉
I've never heard the term, but its hilarious. These women let social media convince them not to settle down in their 20's, and now they're facing the consequences. Accountability infuriates women.
That's what happens when they value being a "baddie" over everything
I'm not sure if you have female friends but I know that a lot of women are thriving, even single. Men should be just as happy single as women are being single. Literally no need to settle for the first guy or girl who you don't love just because you're in your 20s.
Fellas, focus on your health and keeping your money up.
I mean if you’re good, then what’s the purpose of making a video? You clearly aren’t interested in women or even dating so let those that are interested speak on it. Make it make sense.
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ding ding ding. he's obviously really hurt by previous relationships + truly happy people don't have to brag about the fact they're happy. my guess is he actually falls into the "leftover men" category and that bothers him
And yet you’re here
Did it ever occur to you with how messed up, and convoluted the dating market is? I think it's a great thing for him to make this video. Not only is he giving perspective on dating in general, but also what's out there in DC. Yes, while there are people who are in a happy relationship, the exception doesn't make the rule.
Black women do not like or respect us. By us I mean productive men with standards.
Has that been you experience for dating life. Majority of all the black women you have dated has treated you like trash?
Your insane
I haven't experienced not being respected.
@@SouthCarolina1811No he's absolutely right ...
@tam6011 I stopped dating single mom's. Shortly after that I stopped dealing with black women at all.
Men and women need to get right with the Lord and then this madness will stop. This way is unwise and will backfire.
Desperate or not, I'll PASS!
Agree. I’m 25 and I work in DC. These girls are entitled
At 25 they know their value is very high just because they’re young. But they only have a few years of it. The tables turn drastically soon as you hit 30.
Smart man. Listen to this guy dudes.
Leftover women came from china or Japan that’s what they call them over there
Exactly....what do WE get out of the Trade off... that's not even a Fair Trade that's a scam
Watched this entire video and have no idea what you are speaking about. I live in DC. DC is filled to the brim with highly educated, highly motivated and successful women of all colors. At this very moment at Howard University in DC, there is a 17 women to 1 man ratio. If you are only finding women who have no life purpose/ambition and are only looking to be cared for by a man, then you are looking (or not looking) in all the wrong places. Of the many childfree (not childless-- that's different) and single people I know, it's the women who are happy, financially healthy (most are also home owners), and have full lives (enjoying travel, events and friends). It's the single men who lack social lives, until they find a gf or wife. The facts and figures also show this.
I'm not discounting the existence of better options and women out there. This video was focused on what we're tired of running into as men. I don't hang out around Howard. The closest I get is U street every now and then. And even then I'm not really a fan of it. Also, I had never heard of this term before but I understood how it came about.
I agree - social media will have you believe every 30 year old black man is highly educated, in shape and making 6 figures surrounded by thirsty women 🙄. But in real life as a black woman or really any single woman knows spend a half hour on the dating apps and 90% of your matches are desperate dudes with nothing but high school diplomas and kids who live with them part time. But yeah it’s black women who are the ones down bad - stop lying (to yourself. lol )
Never get married.
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Those 30+ years OLD and leftover women are everywhere.
Man I really didn’t start paying attention to it this hard until this year 😳
@@Canoncoreydude I’m sorry y’all having a tough time. Some men have no problem getting women
It’s not about men fool
@@454lin A lot of simp men end up broke and homeless because their wives cheated and filed for divorces for alimonies and child supports. Good Luck!
@@454lin watch the video, it's not about "getting women"
1:43 Actually I think women are complaining about the selfishness. Men don’t have to want to be in relationships, but some of them can be selfish and still expect women to sleep with them and perform girlfriend duties.
I deleted my other comment because I got annoying unsolicited victim blaming advice (not from you OP).
You're right. Everyone has their flaws. I was more so focused on the guys who have their stuff together and what we deal with.
and women aren’t selfish? 😂😂😂 victim blaming, you mean accountability don’t you?
Mans don't even know CGA but he living the Free Agent Lifestyle.
he needs to watch cga lol asap
the social contract is broken. women want traditional men but refuse to be traditional themselves. Leave them they are strong and independent and don't need a man.
Man, I might need to bring this up as a point in my next discussion with friends.
women want traditional men but somehow most households in America are two income households. Y'all are so dum you'd be al iability to any sane woman. Read a fucking book before you spout manosphere talking points. The reality is most women are working full time and going home to clean up after their useless boyfriends/jhusbands and their kids. They're holding down two fulltime jobs when you look into the reality of how many hours women spend keeping up the home while their male counterpart sits on his ass after his 9-5. Miss me with that shit.
The fact that so many people are commenting here is by itself very telling. But then again, this topic (or should I say phenomenon) has been discussed and explored over the years, especially by news outlets like Fox 5.
The chief takeaway for me whenever this topic is discussed has been that the singles rate (or percentage of people who remain single) hovers at around 70 percent for a variety of reasons: whether due to mindset, perspectives, outlook, economics/financial, trauma, the kind or quality of support and advice received, or what have you. In fact, a friend of mine told me that it was around 80 percent at one point.
Depressing was one word that came to mind. I'm certain we can come up with other adjectives describing this "reality".
Social media is killing the dating scene.
So true, I really need to do a whole video on this.
No hate, but respect and love for being honest, sharing your opinion, and delivering some truth. 👊
I feel like it might have been too honest for some people
Damn! Leftover Women is “diabolical “ as the young folks say lol. Stay safe out there! 🫣
Definitely diabolical.
If you live outside of the socialmedia bubble this seems strange. If you observe the socialmedia bubble then you are aware of the influences that have caused this rift for some.
Living outside of the social media bubble is a lonely endeavor. Even when you do people you come in contact with at my age are likely to be apart of it.
Leftover women is a true term and fact of life. Get your passports and deal with real ladies. 💯✈️
I've been out of the country plenty of times but I'm always with someone. Maybe I need to go solo?
@@Canoncorey Always with someone, like you’re taking sand to the beach? 😂
@@domirican81 I can neither confirm nor deny these allegations 😅
@@Canoncorey Warning though, once you experience ladies overseas. You will never look at Western girls the same again. 🤷🏻♂️
They are the same as western lady's
"Literally just breathing air" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And want to just hop in to being spoiled.
Given the dynamics of dating and relationships in this era, it's just easier and safer for a man to go his own way. Too often, "the juice ain't worth the squeeze."
Amen!
Left over now…left out later. You get a better ROI being single and keeping that passport active anf ready to go.
I already have a flight booked as we speak 😃
Just got to get the remote position with my salary rate US or Euro stuff.
Keep your bag. Better in the long run
I agree
Its the truth
The term leftover women is from Chinese culture. The word they use is "Sheng Nu" and it refers to any woman that is still single after 27 y.o. And the men are very straight forward and make no apologies in telling a woman that he won't marry her because she is old.
What sucks about DC is the traffic, high cost of living, and the lack of diverse career options. Most of it is government.
The government has all kinds of careers options from with in it.
@Canoncorey Most of my applications on USAJobs were never responded to. I'm applying to the Air Force now, but because of all the bureaucracy and paperwork it's taken over a year.
Im in DC, it’s sad
hopefully things change
A lot of women would die single because of the selfish desires and social media posts.
I hope that doesn't become the case for them
Leftover women has aged out of the dating market without getting wife up; like Vivica Fox
Aging out of the dating market is wild. I’ve seen some beautiful older women. I wouldn’t go as far as to say they aren’t in the dating market. It just depends on who’s doing the dating.
@@Canoncorey being pretty has nothing to do with it. These women are hard to deal with. You have nothing to offer if all you have is a pretty face. It's that simple.
@@Canoncoreytbh having one woman isn't worth it unless you're a Christian or that's your religious beliefs. So many poly women why would I settle for a monogamous one who wants me to be the provider? So I pay the bills and you tell me I can't sleep with anyone else. What's in it for me?
Nah, they aged out. That’s why they’re called leftover. Why sugarcoat it.
@@Canoncorey they date but hardly any man sees them as relationship material so hardly anyone is ready to stick around and the dudes that would they don't want lol
Your presentation is good. Good tone, pace volume. Nice and relaxed. Well done.
I try to give my honest opinion with out disrespecting anyone.
I live in DC and it’s true there are a lot of women aged 28-35. That’s all I will say but also keep having standards boys and don’t settle for less!
Absolutely 👍🏽
The term came from China. When a woman is over 25 in many parts of China, she's considered old.
that's crazy. So, when is she "supposed" to start dating?
Here is how it worked out for me...I worked on myself so much that all I see nowadays is everyone's red flags and I simply sit back and watch the chit-shows. 🙂
Exactly. I just be in the gym scrolling social media smh.
Ignore the haters. Keep speaking facts.
I sure will.
Dc is trash i left years ago
The money too good tho 🤷🏽♂️
@Canoncorey money isn't everything I became alot happier when I left dc
I wish I got off the east coast and discovered other countries sooner. Like Rio De Janeiro, Brazil 🇧🇷. Viva Brasil 🇧🇷
@jqight740 agree anything is better than that hell hole called dc and Baltimore is even worse
@@King-if5kh I’m from the NYC area of Northern New Jersey and the cities of Newark and Paterson and Elizabeth are either the hood with us and some Latinos and they are cliquish AF. The burbs are either families or stuck up WW and LW who are cliquish and snooty as well. Ever saw the show Jersey Shore. Some of them come from NYC burbs. NYC is no better either. Although diverse still tough. And Long Island, NY you can forget about it either. Just a hellhole.
I have the passport but want the job to keep my income to stay out there for a minimum of 3 months at a time.
Yes they are Leftover with everything fake on them, plus bad attitude. I like peace, and thats better then anything she has. I'm good
Man, this past year Peace has become my biggest thing that I value.
Thank you..... Give yourself the World it's far better than used "kitty cat" with a foul order
.... They are low value buns. #KEVINSAMUELS
You have a good point. You open my eyes.
You're in a giant jam packed area of women in the DC area, and still not a lot of decent women with attractive personalities with decent looks?
Correct
they desperate for sponsorship.I lost everything in a divorce WONT HAPPEN AGAIN partner.
Man, I'm sorry to hear that.
Well look im black & im out in northern va.
Most of my dating has been outside of the country.Mainly European females and some Middle eastern,so its been different for me.Expanding your options is the move.
The earth is big,lot of women out there.
I'm definitely expanding them. i can't want to drop some videos I have coming up.
Curb the thirst. Focus on financial independence/family/friends/hobbies and health.
42 and living in DC/Crystal City.... I'm Having a blast out here solo
I agree life in general is much better solo for a man.
I swear dating has literally little to no return for a man. I'm good. I definitely try it out in a different country and different culture. I tapped out here tho lol.
I've been tapped out as well, women here get so mad when I say that.
"Any evil is small when compared to a woman's evil; may she experience a sinner's fate"
Ecclesiasticus 25:19
Instead of talking about what women need to be doing you need to be going to someone dental office! Maybe that’s another reason you’re single outside of this BS mindset.
Thank you! He is not attractive/ that’s why he’s having such a challenging time dating - there are more handsome men nearby lol
@@dazzlingdae exactly! I heard he left Houston to come to DC. If he can’t find women in both cities then outside of being unattractive he’s the problem in other ways. A lot of these men have horrible attitudes themselves but too busy trying to correct women when they need to be correcting themselves!
You sound like the angry ones he is talking about 😂
@@seangarvey3875 and you sound like you don’t get any like him. I’m angry but yall mad nobody wants yall. 😂
So you are labeling her "angry" for calling out his undesirability but it's not "angry" in your opinion that he made a whole video calling women undesirable? The logic is so absurd. I wish you incels could hear yourselves.
We tried to save them from this fate when they were in thier prime and we courted them....they blew it now its too late
As a single man nowadays. Its best to drop your number, and if she's interested she'll hit you up.
The word to describe these females is trifling. 😅
The term has been floating around in Asia for centuries, 30 and no husband fits the basket.
I've been in DC for 16 years and its brutal. Pondering going someplace else.
"Left over women" a term I first heard used in China to discribe women not married by their late twenties.
It's a wild term for sure
I totally agree 💯
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DC and Atlanta the land of the Dust Women over 40
I thought I was tripping 🫠
I knew how it looked before i clicked
Yea I knew this one was going to be a lot
😂😂😂
You just can’t trust them.
Stay focused.
Ayeee brotha how's you holding up with the east coast dark October rainy months. I don't miss that one bit texas sun is nice out here
It actually hasn't been that dark yet. It's been pretty sunny this month which is a little odd. I feel like we're being set up to think it's going to be an ok winter.
This is a saying that originates and was applied th Chinese females that were still single past the ideal age of marriage. How’d this bleed into the western ‘discourse’ about manosphere vs feminist tug-o-war?
Return on investment 😂 sounds very DC
Possible suggestion, have you approached dating around your hobbies? By your videos you seem to enjoy walking? Could you meet someone for a walk and talk? Compatibility plays a big role 😊
In my opinion, there's no perfect place or person, and usually your problems follow you no matter where you go. What does 'taking the time out to work on themselves' look like to you?
I'm pretty much exhausted on the idea of dating in DC as whole. But I'll try to dig deep and see what hobbies I might be able to find someone else doing.
Like the sea, dating demographics have currents, ebbs and flows high tides and low tides. Each individual, male and female, must "chart" the course of their dating to whatever "port" they have made as their target or preferred destination.
The current REALITY in dating, particularly in the black community, is black men are reevaluating their roles and options. Black women have been inordinately successful in realigning their priorities in terms of dating and relationship. It's inexplicable black women on the one hand radically redefined and realigned their priorities but now are having issues with black men doing the same.
The current paradigm or memes predominating black dating may not be representative of the preference of every black woman, but these paradigms and memes create a public profile of black women to black men and others.
The current profile of single black women makes them exceptionally poor prospects for anything beyond hook ups or short term encounters. Over 60% of single black women are mothers while over 54% of single black men are childless. Yet domestic black women complain they can't find men. Well obviously almost two out of every three single black woman could find a man to have a baby with but can't find a man to stay with.
For the majority of single childless black men they have an overwhelming preference to date single childless women. Single childless black men have even greater preference to have long term exclusive relationships with women without children.
Next, domestic black women have made being non traditional in their lifestyle preferences. While black women have the right to embrace and exemplify non traditional gender roles, black men have the same right to prefer traditional women for dating and relationships. This is one of several primary drivers of single black men self-exiling themselves from dating and relationships.
Great point of view and I concur totally. Dating in the DMV is interesting on both ends😅
Hopefully it gets better for both sides
Unlike the transplants, I am a DC native. DC women have always been spoiled, uppity, etc. They make you work very hard and play too hard to get. I've been single for a few years now and literally cannot find 1 woman that will at least look my way. Even the chunky girls think they deserve better. I think DC women like the pretty boys, and they are holding out until they get what they want. All regular men (myself included) need not try.
Sounds like NYC or the NYC suburbs of Long Island, Westchester County, Rockland County, and Northen New Jersey of Bergan County, Passiac Coubty, Essex County, Hudson County, Union County and then the Jersey Shore. Uppity snooty haughty females from AWW and some ALW, and ABW whether big or small. Along with being super picky.
I moved out to the burbs where it's quiet.
🎯👏 Take take take and give nothing in return.
It's not every woman I've just met a lot of fall into that category.
Have you not ever been in a serious long term relationship to know what value a women adds? Once a man starts speaking in those buzz words like "What do you bring to the table", "high value", and "leftover women" ; I get scared. There's definitely a certain group of men and women who are letting the internet and podcast determine their dating standards. I think everyone needs to refocus their dating habits, tactics, and goals back to their real world.
You should get scared. Men are now comparing notes by internet. You can't manipulate us for a lifetime anymore
You obviously have never been married and divorced… that is the real world 🤦🏾♂️… guys like pretend like you don’t see it🤦🏾♂️
Bro
Take Time Invest In Yourself
Don't Rush A Women
Will Fine You
God Bless🙏🏾
I would say for the past 2 years I've been all about me and becoming the best version of myself.
Top tier footage every time.. have you ever attended the Howard homecoming?
Thanks. I kind of got a little active this weekend. I was on U street. It was crazy packed. I was invited to a rooftop party. It was cool. Not sure how to post the footage for from there yet.
@@Canoncorey I've definitely got to come visit out there one day. I heard those Howard homecomings are always pretty fun and with plenty of beautiful women..
You thinking a lot better than I did when I was younger, Take your time, be at peace with yourself and if you do date she better be good for you and you only.
Thanks, I appreciate that.
@@Canoncorey anytime brother
Bro, get your passport. 👍
I already have one. I travel all the time.
@@Canoncoreywhich countries BTW. Also, is it for remote work. I heard that remote work is shrinking down.
Glad I started dating all ages when younger. I noticed , as an engineer so even the older took me serious for some reason, the conversations went from I'm not ready for that to When are you ready as you go older. Ladies really think they control relationships and marriage on their time, when really its only the initial contact
The tradeoff is we wine and dine them and they give us the V.
Back in the day this is how it worked. Nowadays manipulation has ran wild.
I live in NYC and I'm ona dating site called BLK. I habe noticed as of late that the women are becoming more desperate to find that relationship.
Here is why I feel dating events are useless!!! At such events, one or two guys get all the attention; it's the 80-20 rule on steroids!!! If you are a man, why put yourself through that?
My experience hasn't been not getting attention it was not seeing anyone I would ever want to approach in real life.
@ the ones you would want to approach, where do you think they are???
Old dying topic, let it go...
I never heard about it before this weekend.
Atlanta is where it’s at for as dating for men
You sure? I've always seen a lot of gay men out there. Definitely not my lane.
@ its a lot of single women out there because a lot of dudes gay. That’s why it’s way better. Trust me. Im not gay either. 😂
In DC the ratio is estimated to be 15 women for each man and leftover woman term came from China where women older than 30 was called that and put in a specific category
15:1 ratio is crazy work 😂😂
Oh this is awesome 😁
Leftover that’s crazy
Yes it is 😳
When you have a wife or a girlfriend, she is constantly coming to you with a need for something and you are expected to do something about her need; and the U.S. even has laws in place to charge you with neglect and punish you if you don't do something about her need. At that point you are just a slave with money to fund her lifestyle. When you are a single man, you don't have to lift a finger to do anything for anyone unless you want to do something for yourself. Men Need To Wake Up!!!
I originally heard the term relating to women in Asian society who are 30+ and unmarried. Seems like it's made its way to Western culture.
It's all new to me. I would never call anyone "Left over".
In the past 👫 now its 🚶going in the opposite direction 🛫 to a better life 🇫🇷🇪🇸🇮🇹🇷🇺🇬🇧🇰🇷🇯🇵🇩🇪🇨🇳
In some cases this ❤ turned to this 🖤
Same way in Prince George's county MD, women here are just as worse bro.
I'm probably going to be single for a while!
@Canoncorey get your passport bro