Why Buddhism?
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- Why Buddhism? I'll discuss a couple of quick reasons why we might want to consider adopting a Buddhist outlook and Buddhist practice into our lives.
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00:00 Intro
00:41 Why come to Buddhism?
01:51 Buddhism makes a lot of sense
06:19 Buddhism promotes a better life
09:13 Considering rebirth
10:16 The heart of the Buddhist dharma
11:18 Benefits of walking a path with others
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Why Buddhism for me? Because i am suffering.
I remember the first evening I looked into Buddhism, at a time when I was deeply depressed. I never expected to the first thing I read to be: life is suffering.
I had always admired Buddhist monks and way these people lived. To see this was the first noble truth brought me to tears. I told my wife at the time, feeling so relieved.
Ever since, I have walked this path. It has not been linear, and it has not been easy. But the things I have gained have been beyond words, and they have shown me the way to being a better person, and have certainly aided my journey through samsara.
That's because you're alive and dying doesn't work either because you come back to life anyway.
"Life is suffering, we suffer because of craving which leads to clinging, renounce and you are free, follow the eightfold path." - Siddhartha Gautama
"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering." - Friedrich Nietzsche
@@billhicks8may you be happy. I was suffering (although life is suffering feels incomplete, there is much suffering in this life) and as the see more now, I find I need not suffer so much. I might not have found the heartwood but the twigs and leaves are also very pleasing .
I am too. Have a cheeseburger and fries.
Me too, I wanted to be like them. But then, I got a wife and that aspiration was shot through the head. Now, I am just waiting to die. @@billhicks8
I love "dont blindly believe, proof everything for yourself"
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I have searched quite a lot of time for a framework that I can have confidence in and that is beneficial and where I ended up is Buddhism.
The two points that Buddhism is sensible and that it promotes a better way of living are probably the best two points for Buddhism. But also that you mention that Buddhism isn't a one way street but includes different interpretations and practices meant to suit different needs is a great point.
The lack of a fixed dogmatic standpoint or set of practices that cannot ever be changed when challenged, is probably one of the strongest points for Buddhism.
Very good video I think!
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Buddhism had the answers I was looking for to my questions about reality - and it has also helped me find more peace in my daily life.
For those who go through a spiritual awakening, we initially believe we are on some spiritual journey or some spiritual path and it makes us question what we are supposed to do, what we are supposed to believe in, etc.
In one of Thich Nhat Hanh's book, this one quote stuck out to me "...your life is the path.."
It made me realize that having a "spiritual goal" like trying to attain enlightenment is just the mind trying to have a goal on trying to get somewhere. It made me realize we should live our life a bit more holistic but with mindfulness without trying to "get somewhere/attain some spiritual state". "Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water." 😂
This has made my daily activities more high quality in how I approach things now - with more awareness and more mindfulness. I rarely fear the future now since the present moment is all I have to work with 🙂
Excellent, thanks!
What I like the most about Buddhism is that it is not based on blind faith.
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Isn't it though? The blind faith that following the precepts will free you from suffering?
I think the question “why Buddhism” has a different answer for everyone. For me, I choose Buddhism because, like your second point says, it helps me be the best person I can be, both to myself and to others. And actually I think this is the main aim of most if not all the major world religions, the difference being in how to get there. With Buddhism you can be guided in that, without the prerequisite of believing in a higher power. And whilst it would be good if people can be the best person they can be without need of a religion, it is much easier said than done. Something may be obvious to you but that doesn’t mean you put it into practice. I find Buddhism a helpful way of remembering to put these into practice
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if u see a flute in the ground, or if u went on mars and saw a gun in there. Would u think it was created by random nature? This is a stupid question but can you give me a answer
To me, it just clicks right. And when you practice it, it works. I hope the Buddhist message will spread more and more to people of all backgrounds. They don’t even need to abandon their religion.
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Buddhism: the method of Buddha's teaching helps me leave my suffering, control my life, and see the reality of life, so I'm always happy.
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Buddhism rocks!
What an in-depth and clear explanation. Well done!
Thanks!
it appears compassionate and there aren't tons of rules to follow. My nephew said he likes the idea of Buddhism because the monks all appear happy! That alone is a good reason to explore it.
Regardless, it's certainly helped me though a huge amount of grief Ive encountered tired.
Glad to hear!
I became buddhist to help my mind be better. Also, because I believe it is the only path that is true for me. A lot of teachings make so much sense.
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Having come from Hindu Background I chose Buddhism because it’s less ritualistic and having tried Metta meditation I can definitely say it really makes you happy 😊 I would appreciated if you could do talk on Merits and how does one pass Merits to others Thanks 🙏🏼
Yes, metta is a wonderful practice! I did a video on merit recently: ua-cam.com/video/Nbr0fNwg6Yo/v-deo.html
This was an interesting one. When I first opened myself and learned about Buddhism and its Dharma, I also felt a strong feeling of "this makes a lot of sense". Especially the Three Marks of Existence somehow "clicked" with me. Certainly, there are more difficult concepts and things I might not agree with (whether because of a lack of correct understanding and differences in viewpoint) but the whole down-to-earth way of life that Buddhist practice encourages really works for me. Thank you for sharing this one and thank you for doing it for so long now.
My pleasure. 🙏
One of the great things about the Buddha was that he made sure people understood that they are the master of their own life. This shows good will and very different from other religions where people are forced to accept a god or Lord over their life. There is a sense of freedom and self empowerment in Buddha's teachings. Great video as usual, thank you for your channel
You're very welcome!
The greatest reason is probably the allowance to explore any other belief system for the sake of getting closer to the truth. Practise is paramount. One might stare for hours at a single flower, just to get that point across. One is not greater or different from another, one simply has put in the time and practise to acquire a certain larger attainment. At least my awakened mind -ism is as such.
For me it's very simple. Budhism or The Way is demonstrable in my life right now, just as it was for Sidhartha 2500 years ago. The teachings, the sutras, the practice are as real today as they were then. That's why.
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Excellent, guidance on this video Doug
With reference to rebirth, a consideration could be a view, if within our everyday present life , there appears to be a rebirth in ideas which we inherit or absorb or assimilate and also we may recognise genetic characteristics of parents and close family which we then apply in how we navigate our life and work....
Rather then an individual being returned 😊
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"The Egg" by Andy Weir
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Wim Hof breathwork
I just like the "physics" (lore?) of spirituality
I also agree with Zen's core ideation to shift your attitude and see the mortal realm as heaven if you make it such, rather than sitting our thumbs for what may or may not come when we cross into the unknown.
Such great content Dr. Doug! Thank you!
My pleasure!
This is just what I needed today. Thank you Doug.
You're most welcome!
Hey Doug! Have you considered making these lectures available in an audio format by any chance? Like a podcast or something. Always wish these lectures are longer. I listen to your lectures before starting my day each day. Thanks!
Oh they've been in audio format for years, it's one of the perks I give some of my Patreon patrons.
thank you so much for sharing your wisdom about Buddhism with us. Sathuk
Namaste my friend thank you so much for a very wonderful video
So nice of you!
My interest in Buddhism started because I read Journey to the West, which has many aspects of Chinese Buddhism as cultural background. And I guess I still think of it in those terms, it's a really interesting 'mythology,' for lack of a better term. And, probably similar to Doug, I don't think the metaphysical elements stand up to scrutiny so well. But, at least to my mind, that creates an unbridgeable gap -- Buddha's never-ending Samsara is so central to his worldview, how can one be a Buddhist without it?
But then, maybe that's me still wrapped up in "a thicket of views, a wilderness of views, a contortion of views, a writhing of views, a fetter of views." (Sabbasava Sutta)
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Great video! I like Buddhism because of: discipline, direction, dharma community. Which brings me to my question….Can you do a video on the importance of participating in retreat. Or maybe the purpose of retreats. Thanks!
Thanks! I'll put your suggestion on the list and consider it. I'm not sure that retreats were ever really discussed as such in the early texts, but perhaps I can find something.
@@DougsDharma I was just thinking that the close knit families of the time made it difficult for someone to pursue spiritual practices. Parents, Grandparents, aunts and uncles, siblings - they were always taking time from someone in the ancient world. It seems natural for someone to would wander into caves and forests to find their “true self” Didn’t Jesus go into the desert for 40 days? Aren’t these retreats trying to mimic the buddhas own journey?
I chose Buddhism because logically it was the best religion available and also because it was good for everyone including people of all status, animals and everyone
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thank you and youre welcome =D
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If Buddhism didn't teach reincarnation I would have been a buddhist decades ago coming from a Christian background. I love the Buddhist philosophy. I heard a dharma talk that said that those who live wisely don't need to fear death. I really want to live wisely with Buddhist teachings for joy, calm, and happiness and in the point of my dying, hopefully I can think to myself that I tried my best to be an ethical, honest, caring person and that was the best I could do. For me religion made me feel worthless like a dirty rag but Buddhism teaches me how to love with a full heart.
Yes, my personal orientation is secular in that I leave aside questions of rebirth. This-life practice is the most compelling to me. I've done several videos on this subject, for example: ua-cam.com/video/bP1ZWvmJQOw/v-deo.html
Rebirth is a central component of Right View
❤ Great video! thank you so much for your work in here.
Recently i've been thinking about warrior buddhist monks like the japanese Sohei, i always assumed monks would never partake in war.
Im aware there are some sutta that try to justify the use of violence in extreme cases, but i'd like to hear what you think on this subject.
There are no early suttas that justify the use of violence. The Buddha was pretty relentlessly pacifist. That said, I discussed the idea of self-defense in early Buddhism here: ua-cam.com/video/3aXjrEdpIjY/v-deo.html
well... I'd sincerily agree to the points made in the video. to me, buddhism as an intra-mundane practice path raises (if at all) least cognitive dissonance, as compared with usual religion involving theistic confessions. I grew up with a(n also political) lutheran background. the point of 'making sense' to me is most relevant, relatedly, and even compatible with scientific thought, systems thinking | 2nd order cybernetics, complexity etc. (eg see hector varela as for autopoietics in biology).
It's very so much to say about how the secular views shifted my focus of life
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An interesting answer to the question, thanks. It would be interesting to hear what brought you to Buddhism Doug - perhaps you've already done a video on this?
Yes I've done a number of videos on that.
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Would love to know about buddhism practice books.
Bhante Gunaratana has a number of books that are practice oriented.
Any particle theorized or not is subject no matter what state it resides in to change due to the basic fact that the observable universe and space itself is constantly changing. It is in fact only due to this change we exist and are even able to observe anything happening. To argue that a particle on some particular planet at absolute zero is not “moving” is just as dumb as arguing that a frozen pea stuck to a dinner plate flying at your face is also itself “not moving”. For it to truly frozen without any movement, energy, spin, or change whatsoever it would have to be frozen and separate from the plate, separate from the entire scenario, beyond the scope of any observation or measurement. Basically not exist, which brings us back to square one.
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Hi Doug,
Thank you for another great video.
What do you think is missing in Buddhism or at least could be emphasized more?
I feel there is not enough focus on fun and joy. It seems like we should get all our fun and joy from meditation. All other forms of enjoyment (in particular romantic relations, pleasure from work, a good meal, ...) seem like a distraction from the real goal, enlightenment.
What is your view on this?
I appreciate all the work you put into these videos.
Kind regards
Thank you! As for Buddhism, there are many different kinds and each one emphasizes slightly different things. Remember that in early Buddhism most of the message was for monastics. The Buddha did urge his lay followers to use their wealth for their own and others' pleasure.
honestly I was very close to choose Buddhism as a religion, but I really believe in what I define as "soul" meanwhile Buddhism seems totally opposite to it because of various passages and the theory itself of "destroying suffering by destroying our ego". I see reincarnation as a positive thing more in a greek sense, but also the Bardo Thodol is really important for my thought about both life and death. At the end Buddhism is more of a pratice for me, I'm thinking about visiting a temple in my zone even just for a day only to experience this religion which I really respect
Yes, though there is no emphasis in Buddhism on "destroying our ego." The emphasis instead is on seeing what's really going on within and without us. There is no destruction, except perhaps of ignorance.
@@DougsDharma how so? Like, Buddhism believes in the non-existence of an individual self, then the ego not only as material self (desires, instincts, memories, rationality...) but also individuality itself (which is seen by other religions as what's the soul) isn't meaningful
@@timeless_dusk See my playlist on self and non-self in Buddhism.
@@DougsDharma thank you
Can you explain more about the Sabbath of the Jains in AN 3.70 Uposathasutta?
I don’t fully understand the paragraph about the Sabbath of the Jains. Why “I don’t belong to anyone anywhere! And nothing belongs to me anywhere!”’ is a lying? Isn’t it similar to not-self practicing?
Personally I was a Nominal Buddhist and only when I was in middle school I took an interest in Buddhism. Though I find myself more attracted towards the spiritual aspects of Buddhism than the religious elements such as rituals and prayers. I am not against the religious features of Buddhism, it's just that I find no interest towards it compared to the spiritual characteristics
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Hi Doug! What should we consider differentiating lay and monastic practice?
Too big a topic for me to answer here, but generally speaking the monastic is sort of like a "professional practitioner" who devotes their life to the practice. They also have a long list of rules to follow.
@@DougsDharma Thanks! I would love to see a video about it. Some practices and achievements seem almost impossible for a lay person. And congrats for you work here!
I think the questioner is asking "why Buddhism" and why not other religions, or philosophies, or atheism. Why is Buddhism more ideal than other beliefs? This video is mostly a summary of Buddhism ("what is Buddhism?"), which is even answered directly at 10:40.
You’re right- the question begs an answer, but Doug gave the dharma
I was raised by an atheist and Buddhism appeals to me in many ways including the idea of no soul, righteous living in moderation also appeals to me in this godless world since there is also no afterlife. I believe heaven and hell are parts of earth, this living being we are part of.
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How i can learn more about Buddhism?
What's the books that i should read ,
I'm very interested
I have a playlist on recommended books, that's somewhere to start.
@@DougsDharma thanks I appreciate that
Because the Buddha is the OG
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I've looked into one or two of the many belief systems out there in the past, but too often felt I was surrendering too much of my interlect. I suppose it's just about the kind of nature you have? I've no problem with any system that promotes being good to each other 😎🙏
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Such an simple question... but what kind of a Reddit question is that :) Regardless, Doug is the person to answer it!
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At least good for mental health for sure, much more effective than many modern psychological therapies.
Some modern psychological therapies such as MBSR are derived from Buddhist practices.
“Extinguishment” of mundane suffering in this lifetime, or the “Ulimate Extinguishment” (Nibbhana) of the wheel of Samsara?
This important degree of distinction depends, I suppose, on one’s acceptance or denial of the phenomana of rebirth. WWEBD (what would early Buddhists do?)
Ultimate extinguishment depends upon complete release of clinging to all dharmas, including views.
For me, there is really no going back. Being in Zen buddhism, i have issues with the lack of lay focused or community centered practices. Despite other religions easily filling that role, the Buddhadharma presents too convincing and concise of a system to leave.
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#Question As a secular buddhist how do you think about karma and rebirth? Do you discard karma and rebirth entirely or is there secular interpretation of these terms that make sense to you?
I've done lots of videos on these topics in the past. See for example my recent video on rebirth as symbol and metaphor: ua-cam.com/video/bP1ZWvmJQOw/v-deo.html , as well as my playlist on karma: ua-cam.com/play/PL0akoU_OszRgwcF_eKqxg8ok0w_dz2sj_.html
@@DougsDharma Okay, thanks
i have a question for you doug. you may already have a video on it or it may have a simple answer, i’m not sure.
what motivates an enlightened person? ive hear the answer “compassion” but what effect could compassion have on action if your not attached to it?
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True compassion is without attachment, without ego.
I don't know about "why Buddhism". I made that decision almost 6 decades ago. I suppose it was that it was a discipline in which I could choose my own path instead of being locked into a path chosen for me.
I do have a suggestion unless this was covered somehow in one of the other videos. I am reading an Alex Wayman article, and he is describing a three-fold classification of insight --
seen/heard insight which he labels śruta, pondered insight which he labels cintā, and generated insight which he labels bhāvanā, He says this classification pre-dates Mahayana Buddhism. Do you know about this and is it a good topic?
I'm not aware of this distinction, I assume it derives from the Abhidharma, but no clue.
Is it necessary to look at Buddhism as a religion? If possible, can we look at it as a philosophy of life as described by Buddha?
Yes absolutely, I prefer to see it as a philosophy of life. But for many it is also a religion. 🙏
What is the relationship between No Self and Emptiness?
See my earlier video: ua-cam.com/video/U1_i6EvYDaY/v-deo.html
I would like to know whether the historic Buddha had any plan to preserve his teachings like the chanting techniques of vedas by the brahmins. Did the buddha had any similar idea or did he encourage his disciples to think of something similar to preserve the teachings of dharma ?
Yes we can tell in places like the Saṅgīti Sutta (DN 33) that Sāriputta organized the monks into a chanting group, reciting the dharma.
Hi Doug! Interesting video! One of the questions that I've been asking myself for a long time is
If I don't believe in a God because of lack of evidence, then why should I believe in enlightenment?
What are your strongest arguments for the existence of enlightenment? Have you met any monks that claim to enlightened? If yes, how could one go about proving their claims? Scanning their brains and finding a lack of suffering somehow?
To me Nibbana seems almost equally unfalsifiable as an all knowing all mighty God. I just can't see the strong arguments?
Best regards
Jonathan
Do you have the evidence that other people than you have consciousness?
@@vondertann8471 if you're trying to make a point I'm not getting it. If you're asking a genuine question, then yes. I'm not sure how that is relevant though.
Don't believe in it if you think it's not credible. Try the practice and see what happens.
Which books would you recommend for beginners interested in buddhism, especially in the secular version?
Secular version I'd recommend Stephen Batchelor's Confession of a Buddhist Atheist, or perhaps material from Ajahn Buddhadasa. 🙏
@@DougsDharma thank you, Doug!
why not?
How is mindfulness linked to enlightenment?
Huge question. By helping us see the way things are.
As a secular practitioner, would you say that dukkha ends with this life?
Dukkha continues in others.
@@DougsDharma If one would attain arhatship, or even full buddhahood, would dukkha not also continue in others? The bodhisattva ideal of liberating all sentient beings seems to be dependent on rebirth in a cyclic universe.
Not seeing cessation in people who have practiced all of their lives. Seriously amazing teachers like Chogyam Trungpa and Alan Watts died from their alcoholism, and many of these guys were also sexual predators! Nihilism comes easy here! I guess we can blame Kali Yuga, but a single life let alone billions of rebirths doesn't seem to cut it.
Thanks for engaging. I am only a troll for the moment!
Anxiety and depression.
Yes, the practices can help.
I also prefer secular interpretation
Buddha siddarth gautama was known during his times for rejecting idea of eternal immortal soul and god as the supreme creator and Controller. Buddha knew past life karma and not past birth karma. By past life it means karma from ancestoral lineages, society and our own early life. Past life is deliberately interpreted as past birth by Vedic proponents in order to support idea of eternal immortal soul.
The goal of Buddhism is to end suffering, and I think it's good at that, but what if that's not the right goal? It's sort of anti-utilitarian, since utilitarianism is about satisfying the values of egos, whereas Buddhism is about eliminating both egos and values. My suffering would be reduced if I minimized my attachments and concept of self, but perhaps this would be an abdication of my responsibility to figure out how this universe would best be shaped to satisfy human values, and to effect such changes. Moreover, perhaps abandoning my self in order to escape suffering would be a betrayal of that self, who values things in this world, including preservation of that self.
I've been playing around with the idea that even accepting the Buddhist three marks of existence, maybe the best response is to actually try to strengthen the ego and find something, anything to struggle mightily for; through the struggle, we can find some shapes in the meaningless, illusory clouds of the universe.
Does the struggle help assuage your suffering?
Speak about Taoism
I would say no buddhism for me. I do mindfulness. But if you like Buddhism, as a former Buddhist I would say: go ahead with an open and critical mind and try Secular Buddhism, it's better.
Is this good? I only click on good stuff.
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Buddha is Lord! Accept Lord Shakyamuni Buddha as your savior today! Tomorrow may be too late. Tomorrow, you might be reborn as a mite on a baboon's tuches in the Ein Gedi Retreat! Buddha now! Thank you.
The Buddha had gone since he died. He doesn't hear you, he cannot save you or help you. What he recommended was you should help yourself and only you can help yourself.
That was very informative and helpful. I will heed your message. Thank you. @@nickt311
The Amidah Buddha, of whom the Shakyamuni preached, will cause all sentient beings who recite His (Amida's) name and who wish to be reborn in His Land to do so. This teaching is in the Larger Sutra on Amida Buddha. This is good news. @@nickt311
Given a choice will you choose McDonald's or its cheap knock off?
No, Buddhism is not a junk food (like atheism or Belief-system) but it is the path to Ethic (Moral), Meditation and Wisdom which may help to liberate you.
Zazen is good for nothing.
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