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- Опубліковано 12 лип 2024
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Story description: After his late wife's passing, he fell into deep depression. His only hope are his children.
😭 children can be saviors too! You’re so lucky to have such a thoughtful son. ❤ God bless him, you and your family!
Absolutely love it. Amen
Such a beautiful story. Your son was so thoughtful and loved you a lot! You are blessed and so are your children!
Great. So happy for you and your children
Wow..what an inspirational story...Amen for that son !!!
Great inspiring story. Wonderful children. No one can understand until they wear your shoes. My children were same ages as yours when my husband passed. Even 14 yrs later I still miss my husband. My Children are my savior.
Glad you found happiness again.
I loooove story like this. Thank you for sharing.
Thov foom koob foom hmoo rau koj tus me tub hlob os.
What a beautiful story. You are so blessed to have a young and thoughtful son. ❤
😢lawv aws tus siab kawg os yus cov me nyuam me me es pab tsi tau txawj ua dabtsi os kuv cov es twb tsi yog tuag yog lawv mus yuav niam mos ab lawm xwb es kuv cov tsi tau paub es nim zoo li koj cov thiab os lawv aws peb ua neeg nyob es muaj ib pab me nyuam me me txhob xav tias lawv tsi no tabsi lawv yeej paub lawv nim sib zov sib pab es yus mus haujlwm los txog los tus hlob zov tus mos ab es nim sau los pw tej pawg xwb os lawv aws tus siab kawg os tabsi tsi ntev loj tag es nim no yus twb tau zoo lawm os ibsim neej no yus txiav txim siab zov yus cov me nyuam es txhua tus kuj tsi ua neeg phem txhua tus kuj zoo tag es yus mam zoo siab os. Xav tias zaum no ces lawv yuav tsi tuag tshaib lawm os lawv aws.
Its sad when you lose a loved one. I have 4 boys n 1 girl...i teach my kids to be responsible n dont wait on others to cook, clean for you. Now, my kids are in their mid 20s to early 30s. My oldest son cooks for us when i dont have time to cook. I am thankful for him for taken some of the burden from me. It really helps.
Glad that you have your son to help you through tuff times.
Koj cov me nyuam yog ib cov me nyuam ntse heev. Nrog koj zoo siab
Cov menyuam no mas thiaj tsim nyog zos os. Lawv yog ntsuag yuag tsi yog ntsuag rog.❤ntxim hlub heev ❤.
Thank u for sharing your story brother. Your oldest son was your savior ❤️
Beautiiiful story ❤❤❤
❤😢what a great story
Nyob zoo o kuv tuaj koom koj lawm o 👍🔔🔔
You are so lucky. When I hit depression with no spouse, battling cancer, and no job, my kids were brats. Complaining about the old life where things were well. Yelling at me claiming I kept trying to be victim. And just wondering how much money they will get when I pass. I lost all hope in life. I wish my kids were as kind as yours.
I'm so glad you overcame depression. I think this story should be named after your children's strength and resilience. ❤ love to you all and may you continue to be blessed.
You’re so lucky that your oldest has the courage and capable to take care of his younger siblings. When my husband passed 10 years ago, my oldest was 10. She couldn’t help with anything. All my kids are clueless. Even today they are still clueless. Sometimes I wonder what am I doing wrong that these kids have no common courtesy. Yus mas nim ua kab ua noog cawm cov me nyuam no tabsi lawv twb tsis txawj pab thiab hlub yus kiag. Koj cov me nyuam mas thiaj txawj xav. Kuv cov me nyuam mas tos kuv hais tas li. Yog yus tsis hais mas yeej tsis k pab yus kiag 😢. Yus ua ua haum lwm yus tuag kiag lawm los lawv yeej tsis paub tsis k.
Tus txiv tsev leej twg raug ces thiaj li mob thiab paub xwb mog...Nej yog txiv neej nej tseem ua tau txhua yam peb nim yog poj niam es qhov siab siab yus ua tsi tau tseem ntiav tib neeg ua os lawv E...Yus tau ua txhua txhua yam li os tu siab tiag tiag li os.😢😢🙏🙏
Very sad story
Tiam no tshe cov me nyuam zoo l koj cov no tshe muaj tsawg
Hmoob people need to change their mindset about cooking and cleaning, basically anything that it is considered to be for the female gender only. All those things are parts of life survival and it shouldn't put a gender on them so both genders should learn to do it too and visa versa with the things that the males can do it too.
This typical Hmong man is depressed from the loss of his wife because he has depended on her his whole life and didn't know what to do with himself after she died. Depression is a long-term prodessional diagnosis after long observations. Depressed is part of grieving process for most people experiencing a loss in life, but depression is a long-lasting disorder that is not easily overcome. Only few hmong men can take themselves after their spouse passed away.
Brother, just talk about your own life. Don't start saying that if we never had a loss of spouse we would not understand you. Apamare😢you assumed that you are only one who lost a wife. Maybe you never pay attention to the world when you had a wife. You couldn't handle the situation because you didn't know the reality of the world. Many men lost their wives byt not all are hopeless as you. Even your own 13 years old son is stronger than you. He took care of you but you failed your responsibility as a father. You only knew that you were a husband. You should talk to other men who lost their wives and they took responsibility to care for the children. I was suffered from depression before. Your situation clearly is not depression. You should read the medical definition depression. You were depressed, you were hopeless. Depression is a medical diagnosis and need professional treatment. You didn't take any medications, no psychological therapy, and no professional daily plans to get better. Depression is not a medical condition that you can get up in one morning and it's gon. So please don't use the word depression until your doctor diagnosed it.
Man, you are a failure. You said that your children love you and your new wife. You haven't said anything that you love the children it's a one way love. Your children rescued you, you didn't do anything to rescue your children. You never asked them how they felt in losing a mother. You focused everything on yourself and you defended on a 13 years old to be a man of the house and father to his younger siblings. Even though you praised your son, here you haven't said anything that you returned any favor to him. We humans are survivors. When a spouse is lost, we become father and mother for our children and protect them. You were lost, you couldn't even help yourself.
My father died when I was 10. As the oldest siblings I grew up fast to protect ny siblings. My mother did her best to provided for us kids. In the Hmong society in Asia, a widow has less respect but my mother did ok, better than you for sure.
.your story is a bad example of a single father who failed to take his responsibility as both father and mother for young kids.
The title of this story should be my 13 years old son became my father and the father of his younger siblings.
Thanks for sharing
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Beautiiiful story ❤❤❤