Haven't self-harmed in 5-6 years and I'm taking it one day at a time It's never too late to quit ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Update: I'm 21 years old, and I've found a support system that actually wants the best for me instead of just telling me and bringing me down. Still clean and I'm still going strong!!
it was so hard to watch all 16 minutes of this. it just reminded me so much of my mom talking to me about what I did a while ago. but they are right. its not ok to do this stuff. i know its hard but you WILL get through it. people will help you through it and when you think someone isn't there for you, there is. just know that there will always be people who are opened to talk
I lost my mom in 2018 on Halloween it was so hard that i would do anything to see her again i will i was there with her and calling the hospital i should have dont that
@@keithvannamee1452 im so sorry for your lost. i lost someone very important to me on Halloween as well. and the worst part is Halloween is my birthday. so when people ask why I have my birthday ita because I watched someone I love die slowly. i hope you found happiness and know that she will be watching over you.
I found this while thinking of relapsing and now I’m saving it and ever time I’m about to relapse I’ll watch it and keep a log here. 1. October 11th 2020 12:57 am 2. October 12th 2020 1:42 am (a day I couldn’t last a day without thinking about relapsing) 3. October 12th 2020 11:06 pm (here I am again) 4. October 15th 2020 10:10 pm (I’m back and trying) (I failed you all, I’m sorry) 5. October 16th 2020 11:17 am (I know I doesn’t seem like it but I’m trying) 6. October 19th 2020 9:37 am (shit I’m not updating like I’m supposed to anyways there have been about 5 more times when I didn’t come to this video) 7. October 19th 11:14pm (getting worse mentally and physically) 8. October 23rd 9:56pm (falling) 9. October 24th 2:50pm (while in universal I’m still thinking about it) 10. October 30th 10:14pm (please help me) 11. November 1st 12:01am (I’m sorry) 12. November 4th 4:03am
I have a friend that is currently 3 days off of self harm and it's like crazy, I don't understand how pain can be comforting, I'm not saying that I want to know because I don't I just see it and its easy for me to say "hey that's not good you need to stop" but then I sound insensitive. This helped me find a way to help her and I'm very very happy I was able to help her so thank you so so so much 💛💛💛💛💛
This video is extremely sweet and I’m glad a patron requested it, but on a lighter note, the “Me wanting to kiss the camera but not knowing how to make it not cringe” really made me laugh, ✨
I want everyone here to know that there are always people that love you, and if you were able to find what you need here I’m so happy you can find comfort in this. Free online hugs and comfort cheek kisses for every single one of you beautifully strong people 💝
This honestly helped me so much. I used to self-harm and I'm still struggling, and I wish someone would've done this for me. Theo only "support" I got was my friends either not really listening or yelling at me to stop. This gave me the courage to talk to my Health teacher, and for that I'm so grateful
When he said "I saw what you were doing" I broke down tbh...A really close friend said those exact words to me, and it reminded me alot about that but this video help me alot
I haven't ever cut but I do "self " Harm after some stuff that happen I don't wanna say l. I scratch my wrist when I'm anxious and or if I get scared my loud noises any nails are long and sharp also I also dig my fingers nailed in my wrists also. I can't bring myself to cut but here's something I do. I take a black mark and make a equal signs on my wrists. I always do this every night and say something good about myself or something good about my life, what I have to live for and under those equal sgins I put that. It helps me it really does I still scratch my wrists sometimes but not as much anymore. So anyone reading this anytime you have a bad thought about how you would be better dead grab a black mark or your favorite color marker and put a equal signs and underneath that put something you like about your self or anything positive. It's helped me I'm hoping it will help you.
I really needed this thank you so much for posting things like this and i know that this will be one of the things i will listen to when i feel the need to.....again.......thank you.......so so so much
Ive been clean for sometime but ive had urges as of recent all starting with me bein put in foster with my brother not seeing my dad for 3 years now 4 then being separated from my brother as well as my girlfriend commiting suicide with me blaming myself and being pressured by my mom for my school work along with bullying so thank you so much again i know it isnt healthy but its hard and this makes it so much better when you and others post stuff like this
Man that..that hit me deep I have been struggling with self harm for 3 year's now Its been hard and it feels like every little thing that happen's can bring me back to that low low point where all you can think of it...that..hurting yourself I was clean for about half a year but a few days ago i relapsed Its hard to..really stop I honestly think that the urge never goes away but you just get better and handling it I have great people in my life helping me throw it And i am so so thankful for that And it may seem like it will never get better It seems like no matter how hard you try it will never make a difference But you will get better and you will se a difference but it takes time Even though i said i relapsed w I do see a difference When i was...well when i didnt have this mind set i cut hurt myself everyday Do it and go back to my room to sit in the dark But im better now Anyways if you take the time to read this which i doubt But if you do know that even though i play not know you but i care i mean i think anyone would Take my hug and have a good day
It’s weird because usually stuff like this is weird and bothers me but when it comes to your videos, the soft, comforting voice and the comfort characters it just helps so much. Whenever things get bad I turn to your channel. Thank you for making amazing stuff like this, it really genuinely helps me calm down. You’ve helped me through so much. Thank you
To everyone who’s gonna see this, I’m proud that you haven’t cut in an hour, day, week, month, year! No matter how short it’s been, at least you stopped even if you could have continued. I may not have self-harmed before, so I can’t say I understand. I’m glad your still alive, even if I dno’ know you! Well, love you all and good luck!
I was bullied because of my drawings in kindergarten and I’ve hated drawing and now I’m dealing with self harm and I can’t stop so this made me start crying fast
I just to do self harm and I had suicidal thoughts so often and I could tell my parents because they were to busy yelling at me and Each other to even notice but I got out of it on my own but I always wanted someone to tell me this and just give me a hug. So thank you so much making this because this makes me happy☺️
Man this is new for me I usually cope w sh through humor💀 (I HOPE EVERYONE WHO IS STRUGGLING WITH SH IS DOING WELL AND THAT YOU ARE NEVER ALONE, YOU ARE AMAZING AND STRONG AND THAT I AND MANY OTHER ARE HERE AND CARE FOR YOU🫶🫶🫶)
Ok look imma be completely honest this made me cry the last time I cut was 2 hours ago...and while this did help a bit I still can't stop cutting because of things in my life that happened in the past I can't let go of but I want to let go of here's my story I'm in 5th garde I get bullied my mom is an alcoholic my dad left my brother is abusev and I'm just scared of everything I judge myself to much but I try not to, people make fun of my eyes because I'm cross eyed I don't get much sleep I try to distract myself by cutting or trying to make friends makeing friends for me is hard most people don't want to be my friend I have 1 really close friend that keeps me alive because she cares so much and I'm thankful for her she is the best person in my life right now and covid made it worse because I have to stay inside with my mom and brother...
it does get better.... im 24 now only took 10 years of fighting but i made it past my demons....i started crying right when he went in to wipe tears away and i started to laugh
I love the way your voice sounds!! Your my idol and will never stop being my idol!!) *your videos are amazing!* ^^ (Hope you heart this comment, I would appreciate it ^^)
I'm surprised It was reported by so many people. But I honestly enjoy these. I send them to my friends and make sure to watch it before I do, incase it's a little much for them. But I really love these. Thx for helping my friends when I can't
Whoever's reading this, you're valid and loved, relapses are also part of healing 🥺. also, thank you so much for uploading this because stuff like this really help sometimes💕
God I’m not crying Jesus I just, this hits really hard to me, and I just- I don’t know how to explain how helpful this is right now because I’m Going through some really dark times, and this is just the light I need to get through it and I just want to thank you so much for it cause I really needed it, gain thank you (Edit) I would just lien to say please don’t hurt yourself, this is the opposite of what I wanted my comment to do. Yes I admit I did it but that doesn’t mean you should talk to someone but please, it’s not worth it, I know you may seem sceptical and be like what do you know? But please trust me
Kandi kelly it's fine I don't go too far I just draw a little blood drink it and then call it a night I like the sting and I'm sorry about this but it's just been a part of my life for as long as I can remember (self harm not cutting) and so I can't stop and I'm sorry and I love you and just keep doing this it will save someone
Me: *having a major depressive episode and a major panic attack* ...i could end it Also me: *finds more bakugou content* serotonin? Dopamine? Endorphins? Is that you? :,)
i love you, please stay safe🥺💖 i know it’s easier said than done, but as someone whose been there, i promise it gets easier. it’ll take time, but it gets easier.
Thanks for the talk Blasty 🧡💥 For Everyone: Your skin is delicate. It’s never the solution to cut. You all matter, it’s not just with skin color, your sexuality, or your race, it’s you, your entirety as a human being. You’re never worthless, you mean to many other people (including your family and friends, unless it’s a different case with them, but there are many people who genuinely care, even those acquaintances you’ve met). You’re a beautiful person, personality and all, and even with those flaws, it makes you unique. You’re your own person. If people say those nasty comments about you, they know nothing about the person you want to be, and that person you are is beautiful. Always come and tell someone you trust dearly when you’re going through those dark times, they’ll always lend you an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, and a hand out to help you out of that hole. You may not believe it but there are many people who care for you than you think. Please take care of yourselves everyone, you’re all beautiful 🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️
Sissssyyy! I completely agree I have been about a few weeks clean now ever since my “incident” but I’m trying to recover after what I did. I’m trying not to pick up any sharp things right now and it’s hard but I’m trying...🥺❤️ If anybody is reading this, just remember you are so damn important to this world if you disappeared the world would become dark..trust me, even though I might not know who you are or what you have done in your past but you need to put that behind and not be in the past and be in the now, the present! Remember how many people love and care about you! Friends, family, your pets, anyone who is close to you! Love you all! Have a good morning/afternoon/night~! 🥺❤️✨☀️🌙
I don’t self harm but at one point over the summer, I drifted back into these depressing feelings I had in middle school and I was close to hurting and punishing myself again. Thank you for making this video 😔❤️ And for those who are in a dark place, I know this is cliche but you’re not alone. Things get better eventually, you just don’t know how long it will take. It took about four years for me to finally feel free from the dark and to finally be able to fly. You’re not alone in the darkness. Sometimes you just need someone to turn on a flashlight, or you have to fight to find it yourself. You’re here for a reason and I am too. We all are. We don’t exist for nothing. I may not know any of the people in these comments, but I still care! Ok? Because no matter what, you’re still a human being. ❤️
I’m over here crying...like LITERALLY...this melted my heart...thank you so much for this!!! You are amazing! Hope you have a wonderful rest of your night! Much love✌🏽💕
LISTEN HERE U CUTE EXTRA..BE CLEAN!!!!!..Bc clean is good ÙvÚ AND IF UR NOT CLEAN THEN-..then uh...IM NOT CLEAN SEE HOW I WIN!!??? BAAAHAAHAHAA I luv u 🤬
As someone who’s struggled with severe depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc. since age 7 (I’ve been diagnosed, we don’t self-diagnose here✨✨) and I started self-harming at 9 years old, (I just turned 15 two days ago) and I still do it, this helped so much.. for anyone going through something like this or anything similar to this. Just know they ARE people who love you, care for you and will support you through anything. Just try and find the right people to surround yourself with. Seek help! Don’t stay silent, please! It doesn’t do any better to you.
I feel so bad for you! You are amazing and loved! Your life must be really hard but there are people that love and care about you (this probably didn't help but I tried)
@@ayobarkbark7178 hii!! considering ur so young,,, do u wanna talk about it? i might just be a year older but i can try to help, or let u just vent in general!! ur really young so u do need the help:((
This video saved lives, Promise, be proud of what you do even if it seems small and insignificant to you, these videos help people, even if this started as a hobby it's helped people, Promise you make people's lives better, we see that little UA-cam notification and hope that you've released a video, so thank you, I love you, we love you, be proud of yourself 💛💛💛
promise:*posts* me:*clicks not thinking* title:*trigger warning self-harm* me:...I'm at least a year clean but- its good to talk about it- if you any of you have done or are doing self-harm then im going to be a kind person on the internet right now and do this- *hugs you* your life is worth something and you mean a lot to the people around you, I know you're thinking its all dark but there is a light and its the person you care about the most reaching their hand out to help. you are worth something! never forget that! now enjoy the video, enjoy reading this comment and *gives you love and your comfort food* have a nice day ^w^ never forget you matter.
okay as someone who went through this, a word of advice to anyone who is going through this think about whats good think about the people you love thats what helped me pull through maybe it will help you to, and everyone hear cares about you.
I have 0 confidents. You being able to do this and give this sorta ASMR is what I kinda needed. I also like this side of Bakugo as well. I love your work and hope you keep up the work of ASMR's. Love ur content. Keep it up
Don't just not do it today! Never do it! You are loved and valued! Even I know you're valued, and I'm just a random guy in a UA-cam video's comments section!
Hey! Thats a step in the right direction! Even if im just a stranger in a video coment section, i love and value your existence! And im sure many others do aswell. Look after yourself, try not to cut, just like ive been trying. Some days may be harder than others to resist the urge, but as long as you are slowly breaking the habit, you can get better, you can heal. Never be afraid to talk to someone about your mental health, in person or even a video call or email/text conversation with a psychiatrist, friend or lifeline worker. I believe that you can put yourself on the road to recovery, if i can beat my issues, im sure you can too! Look after yourself, make sure you eat and drink enough, make sure you get enough sleep and dont let work or school overtake your life, relax and socialize (as much as you can in these uncertain times) and even try some alternative methods to cutting, such as drawing on your wrists with a pen. Love, Random internet stranger. 💕
Just take it one day at a time❤️ If you ever want to talk to someone who has been through it, but also id very happy now and got through it, my Instagram is electricidiot.cos 💛
This made me realize that i am a month clean! The past month has been hard but videos like these have made it 10x easier to cope and i just want to say thank you for talking to and supporting people who are struggling❤
At one point near the end I just thought: 'What the heck was I doing to myself last year?' Cause this hit home more than I expected it to and I just kinda broke into tears. So thank you for making it a little easier to talk to people about when they are worried.
Put a finger down if you cry everyday because you lost someone in your family that said you were beautiful everyday when you call them and made you confident everyday Me: puts a finger down while crying
Here's your daily reminder that you are enough you are loved and you are valid have a great day or night or evening Don't forget to take care of yourself you beautiful person ❤
This is a wee bit of a vent soo...... I’ve been clean about a year and a half from cutting. It’s been 6 months since my last self harm (scratching). And since school has started it’s been really hard. I haven’t done anything but I just need to. My mom would kill me and might yell at me but it’s the only thing that ever seems to work. And when I was really deep into the cutting my brain at the time was helping me and giving advice on how to cut deeper and hiding it. Sorry for all that :) this is fine
Who is in the comments just reading while listening so they don't have full attention on the video? Because it's kinda hard to have full attention on the video with a topic you know all to well about? Me: 🖑
i feel like this was some sort of sign? idk- today hasn’t gone well and then this popped up when my thoughts were all,, ya know. low key scary how this uploaded at the right time
I haven’t self harmed for a while maybe like a couple months but I’ve slipped back into depression and have no one to really talk to but thank you, I really needed someone to talk to me about self harming because my parents never did they just ignored it so thank you even if I couldn’t actually say anything this video really helped me
Sorry to comment this but I just needed to write this down somewhere. Until last Monday I was 3 1/2 months clean but I couldn’t take it anymore. It’s the desire that makes it worse and worse, I tried everything. Throwing away all the things I could cut myself with, the first 4 days were great but then the desire for blood, for self harming... it overwhelmed me and I was panicking and searching for something sharp. When I found something I was so happy to hold the last sharpener that I own that had a blade. I screwed it off and held it for awhile, it calmed that desire down and now i keep it in my diary. But then that Monday, bullying, self doubt. I was home alone and so I took the blade and made around 15 - 18 cuts, on my leg. I cut on my leg because I don’t want my sis to see. If she sees she takes away my blade and I can‘t let that happen because I feel better when I can hold that blade. Again I’m sorry🦋 have a great night/day❤️
I was barely a minute in and looking at your expression when I realized it. The pain look on your face, I can see it, you weren't just acting the part but showing your true emotions on how much your really care. And reading your triggers how you said you were giving your own advice. It proves it even more and I thank you so much for truly caring. ❤
For the longest time I thought I wasn't self harming myself because I was only sticking sewing needles in my skin, I though it wasn't self harm because I never was cutting my writs or things like that. But now that I'm 2 years clean I want to tell you that cutting your writs isn't the only form of self harm. 👏 If 👏 a 👏 sharp 👏 object 👏 goes 👏 into 👏 your 👏 skin 👏 its 👏 not 👏 ok
Okey, someone tell me to watch this, and I'm crying, I just wanna say yo Everyone who is watching this video that you are amazing, and I know it's really hard being okay, but i'm proud and happy now ( I stopped Cut11ng myself 1 hear ago so i'm really happy now) guys, everything has a solution, I know All of you guys are stron and you can make everything you propose, I love you All guys you are amazing
Well this helped a lot- thank you😊 Btw for the people that think cutting is a way to relieve stress or any other way,please don’t.it causes more stress on you and conflicts you to harm yourself more.he people that care about you are here for you🥺I’m proud of you for making it this far in life.. I’m so very proud..
Title: "Trigger warning" Me: well.. I'm a bit over a month clean.. with a huge urge to do it again... uhm.. I'll watch it anyway After the video:*sobbing* Okay I needed this
I actually glad you posted this, I was thinking of ending it all today and attempted trying it for the third time, i don’t tell people much about it but you and many other ASMRtist and Audio creators have helped me more then anybody, thank you for uploading this.
Hi! Random internet stranger here! I know it might not mean much as i do t know you personally but i love and value you, please look after yourself, make sure you eat and drink enough and that you get enough sleep. I admit, im not perfect, ive been there recently too, ive only been clean for 3 days, but we can be on the road to recovery together, some days may be harder than others to resist the urge to cut, but try your hardest to break the habit and help yourself heal, dont be afraid to talk to someone about how you feel. You could also try alternative coping methods that dont involve self harm, such as instead of cutting, draw on your wrist with a pen instead. @solstice._.wickham on instagram if you need someone to talk to. Love, Random internet stranger. 💕
@@Kaixcs_ Wow, thank you stranger, I really dont know what to say because this is the first time anybody was actually concerned about me and my feelings.
Omg was scrolling through the comments and saw this I'm so sorry. I've been a friend to two people who have tried to do this so anyone who cares about you would feel the same way I felt. I'm very glad that you didn't though I find this kind of stuff to help with me depression as well. I bet you are beautiful and courageous I hope you don't try again. From, dark wisteria
I’ve been clean for a week because of my new friends and them defending me and and YOU your posts make me so happy and they always remind that I’ve always got somewhere to go to just take a minute to breathe and let go so thank you🙂💖
I am crying so hard right now, I don't think I even knew how much I needed this. Thank you for being here and doing these, you have no idea how much they help. Edit: I paused it right before you said don't cry
one of my friends, who has attempted suicide multiple times and came out alive told me something casually in a conversation a couple days ago. "see, if it hasnt killed me yet, maybe im worth something." i dont think he realized how much that means to me i dont think he'll ever realize how much it meant then and how much it still means now. i hope his thoughts can help whoevers reading this comment and i hope that every one of you that needs it can get help and can get better because i can tell you that it does it gets so much better as time passes on. time wont heal all of your wounds, but it can help heal some. even if theres scars left after the fight. youre gonna get better. please give it time give it time for me for the other people reading this comment for the people you live near for the people that love you for the people you love. i love you. have an amazing day, you amazing bean
Someone sent this to me. I don't cut but I am depressed and have considered it, this made me feel good and actually brought a smile to my face, thank you:)
Haven't self-harmed in 5-6 years and I'm taking it one day at a time
It's never too late to quit ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Update: I'm 21 years old, and I've found a support system that actually wants the best for me instead of just telling me and bringing me down. Still clean and I'm still going strong!!
I'm happy for you
Its hard for me to quit..I was 1 month clean and then today i relapsed.....But congrats i am so happy for you
@@christa4398 yeah I get that I just recently relapsed as well but I believe in you your amazing and loved and your going to make it through this
@@CT-1255 aww thanks I believe in you too!
@@christa4398 thanks I wish you all the best in life
it was so hard to watch all 16 minutes of this. it just reminded me so much of my mom talking to me about what I did a while ago. but they are right. its not ok to do this stuff. i know its hard but you WILL get through it. people will help you through it and when you think someone isn't there for you, there is. just know that there will always be people who are opened to talk
I lost my mom in 2018 on Halloween it was so hard that i would do anything to see her again i will i was there with her and calling the hospital i should have dont that
@@keithvannamee1452 im so sorry for your lost. i lost someone very important to me on Halloween as well. and the worst part is Halloween is my birthday. so when people ask why I have my birthday ita because I watched someone I love die slowly. i hope you found happiness and know that she will be watching over you.
@@jd_electricalsquid3271 thank you so much
*me waits for my friends to go to bed so I can watch this*
I'm 7 months clean and I think about doing it everyday. This helped to today💜
Im happy for you, you got this! ❤️
It made me cry so much. Everything hurts and I didn’t realize how much pain I was in until I began to cry
I found this while thinking of relapsing and now I’m saving it and ever time I’m about to relapse I’ll watch it and keep a log here.
1. October 11th 2020 12:57 am
2. October 12th 2020 1:42 am (a day I couldn’t last a day without thinking about relapsing)
3. October 12th 2020 11:06 pm (here I am again)
4. October 15th 2020 10:10 pm (I’m back and trying) (I failed you all, I’m sorry)
5. October 16th 2020 11:17 am (I know I doesn’t seem like it but I’m trying)
6. October 19th 2020 9:37 am (shit I’m not updating like I’m supposed to anyways there have been about 5 more times when I didn’t come to this video)
7. October 19th 11:14pm (getting worse mentally and physically)
8. October 23rd 9:56pm (falling)
9. October 24th 2:50pm (while in universal I’m still thinking about it)
10. October 30th 10:14pm (please help me)
11. November 1st 12:01am (I’m sorry)
12. November 4th 4:03am
hey hey you dont have to be sorry relapse is apart of healing please dont think badly of yourself because of it
I have a friend that is currently 3 days off of self harm and it's like crazy, I don't understand how pain can be comforting, I'm not saying that I want to know because I don't I just see it and its easy for me to say "hey that's not good you need to stop" but then I sound insensitive. This helped me find a way to help her and I'm very very happy I was able to help her so thank you so so so much 💛💛💛💛💛
This video is extremely sweet and I’m glad a patron requested it, but on a lighter note, the “Me wanting to kiss the camera but not knowing how to make it not cringe” really made me laugh, ✨
I want everyone here to know that there are always people that love you, and if you were able to find what you need here I’m so happy you can find comfort in this.
Free online hugs and comfort cheek kisses for every single one of you beautifully strong people 💝
This honestly helped me so much. I used to self-harm and I'm still struggling, and I wish someone would've done this for me. Theo only "support" I got was my friends either not really listening or yelling at me to stop. This gave me the courage to talk to my Health teacher, and for that I'm so grateful
When he said "I saw what you were doing" I broke down tbh...A really close friend said those exact words to me, and it reminded me alot about that but this video help me alot
I haven't ever cut but I do "self " Harm after some stuff that happen I don't wanna say l. I scratch my wrist when I'm anxious and or if I get scared my loud noises any nails are long and sharp also I also dig my fingers nailed in my wrists also. I can't bring myself to cut but here's something I do. I take a black mark and make a equal signs on my wrists. I always do this every night and say something good about myself or something good about my life, what I have to live for and under those equal sgins I put that. It helps me it really does I still scratch my wrists sometimes but not as much anymore.
So anyone reading this anytime you have a bad thought about how you would be better dead grab a black mark or your favorite color marker and put a equal signs and underneath that put something you like about your self or anything positive. It's helped me I'm hoping it will help you.
I was bullied when I was little by time I went to 2nd grade I was very uptight, depressed, and very mean....this helps me so much thank you
I really needed this thank you so much for posting things like this and i know that this will be one of the things i will listen to when i feel the need to.....again.......thank you.......so so so much
Ive been clean for sometime but ive had urges as of recent all starting with me bein put in foster with my brother not seeing my dad for 3 years now 4 then being separated from my brother as well as my girlfriend commiting suicide with me blaming myself and being pressured by my mom for my school work along with bullying so thank you so much again i know it isnt healthy but its hard and this makes it so much better when you and others post stuff like this
Man that..that hit me deep
I have been struggling with self harm for 3 year's now
Its been hard and it feels like every little thing that happen's can bring me back to that low low point where all you can think of it...that..hurting yourself
I was clean for about half a year but a few days ago i relapsed
Its hard to..really stop
I honestly think that the urge never goes away but you just get better and handling it
I have great people in my life helping me throw it
And i am so so thankful for that
And it may seem like it will never get better
It seems like no matter how hard you try it will never make a difference
But you will get better and you will se a difference but it takes time
Even though i said i relapsed w
I do see a difference
When i was...well when i didnt have this mind set i cut hurt myself everyday
Do it and go back to my room to sit in the dark
But im better now
Anyways if you take the time to read this which i doubt
But if you do know that even though i play not know you but i care i mean i think anyone would
Take my hug and have a good day
Ok thanks
Thank you for making this... it helped me sooo much
It’s weird because usually stuff like this is weird and bothers me but when it comes to your videos, the soft, comforting voice and the comfort characters it just helps so much. Whenever things get bad I turn to your channel. Thank you for making amazing stuff like this, it really genuinely helps me calm down. You’ve helped me through so much. Thank you
To everyone who’s gonna see this, I’m proud that you haven’t cut in an hour, day, week, month, year! No matter how short it’s been, at least you stopped even if you could have continued. I may not have self-harmed before, so I can’t say I understand. I’m glad your still alive, even if I dno’ know you! Well, love you all and good luck!
I'm actually crying while writing this. It hurts so much. Thank you so much, I love this and it comforts me much
I was bullied because of my drawings in kindergarten and I’ve hated drawing and now I’m dealing with self harm and I can’t stop so this made me start crying fast
Thank you for making this video, it's really helping ❤❤❤
I just to do self harm and I had suicidal thoughts so often and I could tell my parents because they were to busy yelling at me and Each other to even notice but I got out of it on my own but I always wanted someone to tell me this and just give me a hug. So thank you so much making this because this makes me happy☺️
I’m almost a year clean and these videos help me a bunch. Thank you so much😊
Man this is new for me I usually cope w sh through humor💀 (I HOPE EVERYONE WHO IS STRUGGLING WITH SH IS DOING WELL AND THAT YOU ARE NEVER ALONE, YOU ARE AMAZING AND STRONG AND THAT I AND MANY OTHER ARE HERE AND CARE FOR YOU🫶🫶🫶)
Me coping through fictional situations because I feel unsupported irl
More likely than you think
Bakugou: i don't understand why
Me : hey buddy... Me neither ✌🏻😌
Ok look imma be completely honest this made me cry the last time I cut was 2 hours ago...and while this did help a bit I still can't stop cutting because of things in my life that happened in the past I can't let go of but I want to let go of here's my story
I'm in 5th garde I get bullied my mom is an alcoholic my dad left my brother is abusev and I'm just scared of everything I judge myself to much but I try not to, people make fun of my eyes because I'm cross eyed I don't get much sleep I try to distract myself by cutting or trying to make friends makeing friends for me is hard most people don't want to be my friend I have 1 really close friend that keeps me alive because she cares so much and I'm thankful for her she is the best person in my life right now and covid made it worse because I have to stay inside with my mom and brother...
it's going to be okay someday, i'm proud of you 💗
I love you so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so much
Can you please do one about anxiety and depression
it does get better.... im 24 now only took 10 years of fighting but i made it past my demons....i started crying right when he went in to wipe tears away and i started to laugh
I love the way your voice sounds!! Your my idol and will never stop being my idol!!)
*your videos are amazing!*
^^
(Hope you heart this comment, I would appreciate it ^^)
I'm surprised It was reported by so many people. But I honestly enjoy these. I send them to my friends and make sure to watch it before I do, incase it's a little much for them. But I really love these. Thx for helping my friends when I can't
ft the creaky knees KFSJJDJCKD
I’m early 😊
I love you for making this I have not cut in a long
Whoever's reading this, you're valid and loved, relapses are also part of healing 🥺.
also, thank you so much for uploading this because stuff like this really help sometimes💕
Thats so sweet, a lot of people appreciate your comment :)) 💕❤
Question why is it called a relapse
thanks i relapsed today and that helped a lot ❤️
God I’m not crying Jesus
I just, this hits really hard to me, and I just-
I don’t know how to explain how helpful this is right now because I’m
Going through some really dark times, and this is just the light I need to get through it and I just want to thank you so much for it cause I really needed it, gain thank you
(Edit)
I would just lien to say please don’t hurt yourself, this is the opposite of what I wanted my comment to do. Yes I admit I did it but that doesn’t mean you should talk to someone but please, it’s not worth it, I know you may seem sceptical and be like what do you know? But please trust me
I’m watching this right now crying eyes out and I’m only a minute in
I need to cut myself to feel the pain I crave
@@cupidsdeath3258 NO! Please don't do that this Neko can't handle that
Kandi kelly it's fine I don't go too far I just draw a little blood drink it and then call it a night I like the sting and I'm sorry about this but it's just been a part of my life for as long as I can remember (self harm not cutting) and so I can't stop and I'm sorry and I love you and just keep doing this it will save someone
@Long lost UA student same
ok listen i’m 2 years clean and every day is still a struggle... stuff like this helps me though. thank you so much
I just lost my two year of not cutting today but this is helping with other
It*
@@leonotfound340 it gets better you got this ✨ stay strong:)
You got this I know you will go beyond plus ultra from Deku
I am almost 8 months clean! I feel amazing now, and I hope that everyone will get better! 😊
Me: *having a major depressive episode and a major panic attack* ...i could end it
Also me: *finds more bakugou content* serotonin? Dopamine? Endorphins? Is that you? :,)
I was literally doing that too
i love you, please stay safe🥺💖 i know it’s easier said than done, but as someone whose been there, i promise it gets easier. it’ll take time, but it gets easier.
@@kirbysthiccthighs usually its all pretty stable but the environment is unhealthy and unstable so my mental health be like 📉📉📉📉
Mm yes :') trying not to cry and also simultaneously being madly in love so that's great ig
@Oceanstep Besrie saaammmmmeeeeeeee
Thanks for the talk Blasty 🧡💥
For Everyone:
Your skin is delicate. It’s never the solution to cut. You all matter, it’s not just with skin color, your sexuality, or your race, it’s you, your entirety as a human being. You’re never worthless, you mean to many other people (including your family and friends, unless it’s a different case with them, but there are many people who genuinely care, even those acquaintances you’ve met). You’re a beautiful person, personality and all, and even with those flaws, it makes you unique. You’re your own person.
If people say those nasty comments about you, they know nothing about the person you want to be, and that person you are is beautiful.
Always come and tell someone you trust dearly when you’re going through those dark times, they’ll always lend you an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, and a hand out to help you out of that hole. You may not believe it but there are many people who care for you than you think.
Please take care of yourselves everyone, you’re all beautiful 🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️
You really out here making me cry- I needed this.
Sissssyyy! I completely agree I have been about a few weeks clean now ever since my “incident” but I’m trying to recover after what I did. I’m trying not to pick up any sharp things right now and it’s hard but I’m trying...🥺❤️ If anybody is reading this, just remember you are so damn important to this world if you disappeared the world would become dark..trust me, even though I might not know who you are or what you have done in your past but you need to put that behind and not be in the past and be in the now, the present! Remember how many people love and care about you! Friends, family, your pets, anyone who is close to you! Love you all! Have a good morning/afternoon/night~! 🥺❤️✨☀️🌙
thank you you are to nice you make me realize I am not worthless
Your making me cry- i really needed this 😊😊
thank you
Damn, Promise really do be out here making Bakugou into a comfort character for me and I’m low key here for it 💖
I don’t self harm but at one point over the summer, I drifted back into these depressing feelings I had in middle school and I was close to hurting and punishing myself again. Thank you for making this video 😔❤️ And for those who are in a dark place, I know this is cliche but you’re not alone. Things get better eventually, you just don’t know how long it will take. It took about four years for me to finally feel free from the dark and to finally be able to fly. You’re not alone in the darkness. Sometimes you just need someone to turn on a flashlight, or you have to fight to find it yourself. You’re here for a reason and I am too. We all are. We don’t exist for nothing. I may not know any of the people in these comments, but I still care! Ok? Because no matter what, you’re still a human being. ❤️
This made me cry cause I am going threw something bad and... Just thank you
Kit Kat your not alone kit Kat I am too so don't worry
Thank you 😔💕
kit kat I send you virtual hugs 🥺
I want to hug all of you now dang it 😅🥺💕
This is the best way to help someone too stubborn for therapy
Thank you
I'm too stubborn for therapy so this helps a lot.
League Of Villains same
I'm glad you agree 😊
It's just weird to talk about feelings also.....
It's just weird to talk about feelings also.....
I’m over here crying...like LITERALLY...this melted my heart...thank you so much for this!!! You are amazing! Hope you have a wonderful rest of your night! Much love✌🏽💕
Same here
I stopped at 1:27 because I couldn't watch, I am not even a few weeks clean but I really love your videos never stop doing what u r doing😊👍❤️
Hey listen to me you are already a few weeks clean. And even more I hope. But if you relapse it's ok! Relapse is apart of the journey.
I don't deserve this vid ethier, I am even a week clean ethier- we can do it together tho??? I just wanna help
LISTEN HERE U CUTE EXTRA..BE CLEAN!!!!!..Bc clean is good ÙvÚ
AND IF UR NOT CLEAN THEN-..then uh...IM NOT CLEAN
SEE HOW I WIN!!??? BAAAHAAHAHAA
I luv u 🤬
As someone who’s struggled with severe depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc. since age 7 (I’ve been diagnosed, we don’t self-diagnose here✨✨) and I started self-harming at 9 years old, (I just turned 15 two days ago) and I still do it, this helped so much.. for anyone going through something like this or anything similar to this. Just know they ARE people who love you, care for you and will support you through anything. Just try and find the right people to surround yourself with. Seek help! Don’t stay silent, please! It doesn’t do any better to you.
I feel so bad for you! You are amazing and loved! Your life must be really hard but there are people that love and care about you (this probably didn't help but I tried)
im 9 and i do self harm..this video didnt help me.
@@ayobarkbark7178 hii!! considering ur so young,,, do u wanna talk about it? i might just be a year older but i can try to help, or let u just vent in general!! ur really young so u do need the help:((
My therapist: “you’re self harming? You’re lying, your arm is clean.”
My leg: 👁👄👁
What kind of therapist would say that wtf
hawks's waifu ikr, i got a new one cuz-
felt that-
My shoulders: 👁️👄👁️
Kinda really needed this..
Your not alone 💗
I believe in you
This video saved lives, Promise, be proud of what you do even if it seems small and insignificant to you, these videos help people, even if this started as a hobby it's helped people, Promise you make people's lives better, we see that little UA-cam notification and hope that you've released a video, so thank you, I love you, we love you, be proud of yourself 💛💛💛
so its disided I'm crying myself to sleep tonight
I dont cry
@@ish4353 damn I wish
@@miasma01 but i starve myself and harm myself💔
@@ish4353 I wasn't expecting you to just say that I really hope you feel better and your worth more then that please dont starve or harm yourself
@@miasma01 it's ok i only eat Lunch i haven't cried I'm months❤
This really helped me as I used to self harm and bakugou is one of my favourite comfort characters even tho he is loud
same
@@Jamie-ht2fw it's all alright I still want to be I have stuff to make me not
@@Jamie-ht2fw yes i do is it a bad thing no
@@Jamie-ht2fw yes someone is always there
@@Jamie-ht2fw i dont know he a pervert
I need this holy- I- did my heart melt? Maybe
Excuse me levi_9632, please tell me why you commented this. I am greatly concerned.
I'm reminding you you watched this 🤭
promise:*posts*
me:*clicks not thinking*
title:*trigger warning self-harm*
me:...I'm at least a year clean but- its good to talk about it-
if you any of you have done or are doing self-harm then im going to be a kind person on the internet right now and do this- *hugs you*
your life is worth something and you mean a lot to the people around you, I know you're thinking its all dark but there is a light and its the person you care about the most reaching their hand out to help.
you are worth something! never forget that! now enjoy the video, enjoy reading this comment and *gives you love and your comfort food* have a nice day ^w^ never forget you matter.
Thank you I talk my self down a lot but I've never did that or even though about it but I do have mental breakdowns and cry what everyone is sleeping
@@denkikaminary903 *gives you a hug* its ok,you can get though this.
Skyla Ren well done for being a year clean I have done a month clean sooo I guess that’s good
@@xxkawaii_pikachuxx8397 a month!? :O *gives you a hug and a cookie* you have gotten far human, and I believe you can go longer!
Skyla Ren thanks you are really to kind
okay as someone who went through this, a word of advice to anyone who is going through this think about whats good think about the people you love thats what helped me pull through maybe it will help you to, and everyone hear cares about you.
I have 0 confidents. You being able to do this and give this sorta ASMR is what I kinda needed. I also like this side of Bakugo as well. I love your work and hope you keep up the work of ASMR's. Love ur content. Keep it up
i lowkey think this was a sign for me not to do it today. that's weird.
Same
Don't just not do it today! Never do it! You are loved and valued! Even I know you're valued, and I'm just a random guy in a UA-cam video's comments section!
Hey! Thats a step in the right direction! Even if im just a stranger in a video coment section, i love and value your existence! And im sure many others do aswell. Look after yourself, try not to cut, just like ive been trying. Some days may be harder than others to resist the urge, but as long as you are slowly breaking the habit, you can get better, you can heal. Never be afraid to talk to someone about your mental health, in person or even a video call or email/text conversation with a psychiatrist, friend or lifeline worker. I believe that you can put yourself on the road to recovery, if i can beat my issues, im sure you can too! Look after yourself, make sure you eat and drink enough, make sure you get enough sleep and dont let work or school overtake your life, relax and socialize (as much as you can in these uncertain times) and even try some alternative methods to cutting, such as drawing on your wrists with a pen. Love, Random internet stranger. 💕
Just take it one day at a time❤️ If you ever want to talk to someone who has been through it, but also id very happy now and got through it, my Instagram is electricidiot.cos 💛
This made me realize that i am a month clean! The past month has been hard but videos like these have made it 10x easier to cope and i just want to say thank you for talking to and supporting people who are struggling❤
I proud of you :) 💗💗💗
At one point near the end I just thought: 'What the heck was I doing to myself last year?' Cause this hit home more than I expected it to and I just kinda broke into tears. So thank you for making it a little easier to talk to people about when they are worried.
ALWAYS HERE HAHAHHAHAH lol I'm crazy sowwy pwease forgive meh
@Hailey Afton why :3???
Lol we' re all mad here
@@denkikaminari3361 lol
Awww this is so sweet! This means a lot to me, as I’m sure it means a lot to others too
Twin?
Put a finger down if you cry everyday because you lost someone in your family that said you were beautiful everyday when you call them and made you confident everyday
Me: puts a finger down while crying
*me in a corner also putting a finger down*
@@problemchild6260 first love the name im a problem child and second so relatable
@@Blondieeeechanniee glad you like my name lol
* puts a finger down* then cries
*puts a finger down silently crying*
Here's your daily reminder that you are enough you are loved and you are valid have a great day or night or evening
Don't forget to take care of yourself you beautiful person ❤
I have a question.If you can can you make a “Bakugo helps you after your parents divorce”? It’s fine if no!
This is a wee bit of a vent soo......
I’ve been clean about a year and a half from cutting. It’s been 6 months since my last self harm (scratching). And since school has started it’s been really hard. I haven’t done anything but I just need to. My mom would kill me and might yell at me but it’s the only thing that ever seems to work. And when I was really deep into the cutting my brain at the time was helping me and giving advice on how to cut deeper and hiding it.
Sorry for all that :) this is fine
You can do it. I believe in you.
Who is in the comments just reading while listening so they don't have full attention on the video? Because it's kinda hard to have full attention on the video with a topic you know all to well about?
Me: 🖑
Me
👋
👋
Same
i feel like this was some sort of sign? idk- today hasn’t gone well and then this popped up when my thoughts were all,, ya know. low key scary how this uploaded at the right time
I didn't need this idk what you're talking about-
Ok but rlly ty. ❤️✨❤️✨
Bakugou : I love you
Me: 😳
My heart : stay calm EVERYONE STAY F*CKING CALM!!!!
13:41 😳
reminder
I'm here for you guys g-got it? 👉👈
Thanks blasty
Thanks Baku bro :)
Awww thanks love 😭💗💞💕
Thank you and same to you.
Thank you
I refreshed my recommendations 10 times and this still popped up every time- i think Jesus asahi is trying to tell me something ;w;
I haven’t self harmed for a while maybe like a couple months but I’ve slipped back into depression and have no one to really talk to but thank you, I really needed someone to talk to me about self harming because my parents never did they just ignored it so thank you even if I couldn’t actually say anything this video really helped me
Sorry to comment this but I just needed to write this down somewhere.
Until last Monday I was 3 1/2 months clean but I couldn’t take it anymore. It’s the desire that makes it worse and worse, I tried everything. Throwing away all the things I could cut myself with, the first 4 days were great but then the desire for blood, for self harming... it overwhelmed me and I was panicking and searching for something sharp. When I found something I was so happy to hold the last sharpener that I own that had a blade. I screwed it off and held it for awhile, it calmed that desire down and now i keep it in my diary. But then that Monday, bullying, self doubt. I was home alone and so I took the blade and made around 15 - 18 cuts, on my leg. I cut on my leg because I don’t want my sis to see. If she sees she takes away my blade and I can‘t let that happen because I feel better when I can hold that blade.
Again I’m sorry🦋 have a great night/day❤️
Fir-
Y’all really thought great job keep it up
@@aloesilk142 same uh-
I was barely a minute in and looking at your expression when I realized it. The pain look on your face, I can see it, you weren't just acting the part but showing your true emotions on how much your really care. And reading your triggers how you said you were giving your own advice. It proves it even more and I thank you so much for truly caring. ❤
**I don’t know what your talking about**
**me either**
*same here*
Lucky -.- I am self harming issues
SAME
I love soft boom boom boy 😍
I'm 5 years clean 😁✌❤
Congratulations very proud of you, keep it up!😁
@@kaylinm.183 thank uuu, I'll 😁😁
Keep going u got this ❤️
Good job!!!! 😀 we're proud of you!
The two people that dislike don’t understand that this helps people like me and others
Sorry, I scrched myself on the door on my way in
I’m 14 minutes late
REEEEEEE THATS SO EARLYYYYYYYYYYY
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS THIS HELPS ME ALOT 🥺🥺🥺🥺
For the longest time I thought I wasn't self harming myself because I was only sticking sewing needles in my skin, I though it wasn't self harm because I never was cutting my writs or things like that.
But now that I'm 2 years clean I want to tell you that cutting your writs isn't the only form of self harm.
👏 If 👏 a 👏 sharp 👏 object 👏 goes 👏 into 👏 your 👏 skin 👏 its 👏 not 👏 ok
Okey, someone tell me to watch this, and I'm crying, I just wanna say yo Everyone who is watching this video that you are amazing, and I know it's really hard being okay, but i'm proud and happy now ( I stopped Cut11ng myself 1 hear ago so i'm really happy now) guys, everything has a solution, I know All of you guys are stron and you can make everything you propose, I love you All guys you are amazing
Me seeing the title: *oh shi-*
Im 6 months clean, but i still have the thought/urge to hurt myself sometimes, thank you for making this 💚💚💚
Well this helped a lot- thank you😊
Btw for the people that think cutting is a way to relieve stress or any other way,please don’t.it causes more stress on you and conflicts you to harm yourself more.he people that care about you are here for you🥺I’m proud of you for making it this far in life.. I’m so very proud..
Title: "Trigger warning"
Me: well.. I'm a bit over a month clean.. with a huge urge to do it again... uhm.. I'll watch it anyway
After the video:*sobbing* Okay I needed this
@@gabrielgherasim1894 Uhm okay? Thanks?._.
Me just like I'm like what a week clean and I wanna do that sh;t again but let's just watch 😂
Can you do one of these with Kiri? He's my comfort character and it would mean so much to me
I have a past with this and I relapse often. I also don’t have anyone I can talk to. This is so incredibly helpful, thank you.
Well I’m crying
I can’t believe I have to wait till Sunday to watch this fully 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫
Hello
Hi
You guys are in my top 3 favorite characters!!! Thankyou so much for responding!
@@_counttheways_9383 welcome😁❤️
Denki Kaminari ⚡️💛🖤💛🖤⚡️ how have you been?
I actually glad you posted this, I was thinking of ending it all today and attempted trying it for the third time, i don’t tell people much about it but you and many other ASMRtist and Audio creators have helped me more then anybody, thank you for uploading this.
I’m so sorry about your experience. Seriously if you ever feel that way again feel free to DM me at promiseofahero on instagram.
Hi! Random internet stranger here! I know it might not mean much as i do t know you personally but i love and value you, please look after yourself, make sure you eat and drink enough and that you get enough sleep. I admit, im not perfect, ive been there recently too, ive only been clean for 3 days, but we can be on the road to recovery together, some days may be harder than others to resist the urge to cut, but try your hardest to break the habit and help yourself heal, dont be afraid to talk to someone about how you feel. You could also try alternative coping methods that dont involve self harm, such as instead of cutting, draw on your wrist with a pen instead. @solstice._.wickham on instagram if you need someone to talk to. Love, Random internet stranger. 💕
@@Kaixcs_
Wow, thank you stranger, I really dont know what to say because this is the first time anybody was actually concerned about me and my feelings.
Omg was scrolling through the comments and saw this I'm so sorry. I've been a friend to two people who have tried to do this so anyone who cares about you would feel the same way I felt. I'm very glad that you didn't though I find this kind of stuff to help with me depression as well. I bet you are beautiful and courageous I hope you don't try again.
From, dark wisteria
Omg I’m so sorry to hear that
I’ve been clean for a week because of my new friends and them defending me and and YOU your posts make me so happy and they always remind that I’ve always got somewhere to go to just take a minute to breathe and let go so thank you🙂💖
im so proud of you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really need this
I am crying so hard right now, I don't think I even knew how much I needed this. Thank you for being here and doing these, you have no idea how much they help.
Edit: I paused it right before you said don't cry
I’m not crying.. I’m not crying... I’m not crying... I’m not- I’m crying.... but I wanna say thank you. This really helps me..🥺❤️
Here have a gift 14:18
one of my friends, who has attempted suicide multiple times and came out alive told me something casually in a conversation a couple days ago.
"see, if it hasnt killed me yet, maybe im worth something."
i dont think he realized how much that means to me
i dont think he'll ever realize how much it meant then and how much it still means now.
i hope his thoughts can help whoevers reading this comment
and i hope that every one of you that needs it can get help and can get better
because i can tell you that it does
it gets so much better as time passes on.
time wont heal all of your wounds, but it can help heal some.
even if theres scars left after the fight.
youre gonna get better.
please
give it time
give it time for me
for the other people reading this comment
for the people you live near
for the people that love you
for the people you love.
i love you.
have an amazing day, you amazing bean
I really needed this I have been going through self harm and suicidal thank you so much.
I'm so glad your still here 😊 keep fighting it gets better 💛✨
OMLTHATS GAY thank you that’s very sweet of you!
@@TV_DOLL np ☺️ and you deserve the best and I'm proud of you for what ever you did today 💛
OMLTHATS GAY I’m going to cry stop it
@@TV_DOLL wait no don't cry I'm sorry wait is it happy cry or sad cry
Someone sent this to me. I don't cut but I am depressed and have considered it, this made me feel good and actually brought a smile to my face, thank you:)
I hope you're okay rn but this really helps me...
1st time being 1st YAY, also this addresses a very important topic and thank you so much this helps a lot
Me: thank you for understand me and I do love him why
BAKUGOU: I won't make fun you