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    🙅🙅 Do Nice Guys Finish Last? - Ultimate Guide on How To Stop Being A Nice Guy 😏😏
    We always try to be nice guys because that’s what we have been told since childhood.
    Also, what’s wrong with that?
    I am sure we have encountered this scenario.
    When we were being really “nice” to a girl,
    We were buying her expensive gifts and doing her favors to try and impress her.
    But in the end, the girl chooses that “a*shole” guy over you.
    She starts dating him while you treat her like a princess.
    Why does that happen?
    What are the traits in a*shole guys that get all the girls over nice guys?
    Why do nice guys finish last?
    If you’re a nice guy, this video is for you.
    I am sharing a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy,
    And become a person that everyone loves and respects.
    First, let’s talk about some traits of nice guys and playboys.
    Nice Guys
    - Are the ones who go beyond their ways to help a girl.
    - They do her favors and buy her gifts.
    - They are always there for her and keep checking on her multiple times a day.
    - They fight with other guys who talk about their girl, like Will Smith.
    Playboys
    - They do not buy girls drinks in the beginning.
    - They’re not a girl’s puppet; they stand their ground and maintain their boundaries.
    - They do not offer undeserved favors.
    - They are clear about what they want.
    - They inform the girls they don’t want to be in a relationship.
    Playboys put their priorities over others.
    It is not about nice guys vs. bad guys.
    It comes down to strong man behavior vs. weak man behavior.
    Playboys are strong, and nice guys are pushovers.
    Nice guys are weak; they go out of their ways to help others,
    To try and impress them. They are people’s pleasers.
    Girls treat them as a shoulder and take advantage of them.
    You need to stop that. You must start standing up for yourself and not let others treat you as a doormat.
    In life, we want a win-win situation where both sides are happy.
    But nice guys feel shitty inside while making others happy.
    They let others take advantage of them and lose their sense of self.
    Even as kids, our parents showed us love, when we did things according to them.
    You need to stop this pattern and become a strong man.
    In the video, I talk about five steps you can take to become a stronger, grounded man.
    Watch the video to get a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy.
    #1 Start Having Boundaries
    #2 Do Not Simp For Her
    #3 Pedestalizing the girl
    With this video, you will have a clear idea of why girls hate nice guys, the truth behind most nice guys, and what you can do to be a more grounded, stronger man.
    Love,
    Kshitij 💖
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  • @Anonymousman005
    @Anonymousman005 Рік тому +1096

    Always be a nice guy at any situation.
    “Be nice for your goal,
    Not for a H0le 🕳️”
    -Master Oogway 😂

    • @themodernscholarm
      @themodernscholarm Рік тому +49

      exactly, don't spoil your goal for a hole

    • @brownboiirohan
      @brownboiirohan Рік тому +7

      Bro kyaa tum khud ise follow karte ho kya

    • @Anonymousman005
      @Anonymousman005 Рік тому +8

      @@brownboiirohan I follow the moral of the quote, Don't distract and achieve the goal.

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar Рік тому +2

      @@brownboiirohan bhai chut ka chakkar maut se takkar

    • @harshitsingh7521
      @harshitsingh7521 Рік тому

      @@brownboiirohan i also follow there is nothing hard in that

  • @skbeatz3648
    @skbeatz3648 2 роки тому +1129

    This is the type of content i paid my internet bill for. Haha! Great video Kshitij

    • @ankitjadhav6641
      @ankitjadhav6641 2 роки тому +5

      Hii bro are you from Mumbai

    • @kangtheconqueror2540
      @kangtheconqueror2540 2 роки тому +2

      @@ankitjadhav6641 kyun bhai krage hse

    • @ankitjadhav6641
      @ankitjadhav6641 2 роки тому +2

      Need a wing to go with for daygame

    • @priyeshchoubey3015
      @priyeshchoubey3015 Рік тому

      Chtya ho fir bhai

    • @MohitMaheswari
      @MohitMaheswari Рік тому

      The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent
      Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth
      This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh
      Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai
      Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain......
      Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro
      Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother

  • @undertaker1965
    @undertaker1965 Рік тому +911

    I'm going to spit some facts:
    It is true that the society takes advantage of nice people, it's not that only woman takes advantage, men's also take advantage.
    If a woman is mature and intelligent she will definitely chose a nice guy, (not the wannabe nice guy).
    Only immature and fool people go after assholes and consider them as cool.
    Thank you for reading this 🙏

    • @amitjesur
      @amitjesur Рік тому +11

      Agree bro💗

    • @sachinpatil-px9yt
      @sachinpatil-px9yt Рік тому +21

      This is real truth

    • @helloworld2054
      @helloworld2054 Рік тому +23

      Yeah there's nothing wrong with being nice but don't be a pushover and clingy

    • @meghnabaruahbaruah7518
      @meghnabaruahbaruah7518 Рік тому +18

      That's 💯 correct. Thats why I am single.

    • @amitjesur
      @amitjesur Рік тому +12

      @@meghnabaruahbaruah7518 me too. Don't wanna get into relationship with who just craves attention. 😊

  • @akashverma5756
    @akashverma5756 Рік тому +405

    Summary:- Treat any girl as you treat others. Don't change yourself for girls.

    • @pareshkasundra5485
      @pareshkasundra5485 Рік тому +12

      Women's brain wired and design is not suitable nice guy. Don't be nice guy to women. See this video twice. He is talking truth.

    • @coral8551
      @coral8551 Рік тому +10

      but my real nature is nice guy !

    • @Notsad69
      @Notsad69 Рік тому +3

      @@coral8551 just treat everyone like he is your small brother or sister

    • @coral8551
      @coral8551 Рік тому +2

      @@Notsad69 noted !

    • @SumitKumar-pv6wg
      @SumitKumar-pv6wg Рік тому +3

      @@coral8551 be nice to people those are nice to you. Don't be nice to toxic women and people in general those are taking advantage of you. Just ignore them. When you find a good girl to respect your true nature love her. Being nice to toxic people is not stupidity

  • @devendrapisda3528
    @devendrapisda3528 Рік тому +119

    Be a nice guy and let women hate. Dont chase them, chase your goals.🌻

    • @jeffzee3791
      @jeffzee3791 Рік тому

      Iska circle wahi logo ke sath hai jo attention seek karti hai😅

    • @faizalmemon1947
      @faizalmemon1947 6 місяців тому +2

      Bhai sexual feelings zinda hai ke mar gayi.

  • @kuldeepsingh-un4cn
    @kuldeepsingh-un4cn Рік тому +60

    Simple Thing Bro :- Respect Yourself . Don't Be A Good Guy Or a Bad Guy.✅

  • @kermitdaphrogge525
    @kermitdaphrogge525 Рік тому +418

    Don't stop being a nice guy. Just know your self worth and when you're being used. If you aren't getting respected, ghost them.
    Build yourself, achieve financial freedom, level up yourself. You'll find the woman of everyone's dreams.

    • @bluexwave5930
      @bluexwave5930 Рік тому +7

      Bhai ye phonecall reject ho gya tumhara hota hai kya btana jraa

    • @hirenahir76200
      @hirenahir76200 Рік тому +5

      Bro muje nahi lagta ladkio ko nice guy Pasand NAHI ye log content bane ke Liye kuchh bhi dikhaye Matlab ladkio ko puchho unhe to nice ladke hi chahiye wo NAHI Jo Kisi bhi ladki ke Sath frenk ho jaye ya ego leke ghume

    • @tejas6323
      @tejas6323 Рік тому +6

      ​@@hirenahir76200 sahi kaha bhai...ladki ho ya ladka dono ko nice partner hi chahiye hota hai 😂 ye kuch bhi bakwas karte hai

    • @hirenahir76200
      @hirenahir76200 Рік тому +3

      @@tejas6323 issiliye muje ye social media influencers Pasand NAHI ye Kuch bhi afwa ko Sach bana sakte hai which is scary

    • @inzu4151
      @inzu4151 Рік тому +2

      @@bluexwave5930 bro, mere whatsapp message ak ladki ignore kar rahi thi, and I was really depressed about it.. Later I realised, the problem was with me and I was being too needy.. Boom I changed myself, now she's really close to me

  • @sarveshm6779
    @sarveshm6779 2 роки тому +95

    let go of the girls who hates nice guy; its their loss; not of the nice guy ones; they later on will regret their decisions in life; but sorry, im never stop being a nice guy; and that doesnt mean being innocent n dumb;

    • @SumitKumar-pv6wg
      @SumitKumar-pv6wg Рік тому

      Man I'm too nice guy. My father is a nice guy who genuinely love my mother and my mother is very mature good girl. They all love each other and never fight. So I'm also not going to stop being nice guy but now with boundaries. I will be nice to only my Loved ones. Being nice to toxic people is idiotic. First search a good girl and then be nice to her. Enjoy with her. Dont behave like dick to her becoz I can't live happily after putting my family in sadness. All these immature women dont deserve a good husband they are like use and throw for bad boys. I wish body counts can be visible on head of women so we can easily identify good people.

    • @sarveshm6779
      @sarveshm6779 Рік тому

      @@SumitKumar-pv6wg yes, i know friend; but i love a girl ; who has been used by bad boys; she is from a very nice family background; despite knowing that i love her too much; maybe she now knows what true love is; but at one point i feel she will use me too; for her own benefit; to get ahead in her career; jst not able to decide; havent talked and met her; but i know some things abt her; she's a local tv actress; and you know how life of an actress is; what you suggest?

    • @SumitKumar-pv6wg
      @SumitKumar-pv6wg Рік тому

      @@sarveshm6779 That's victim mentality. Some people loves to suffer. Dude you have only 1 life don't waste it on any hoe. Not everyone deserves kindness.

    • @sarveshm6779
      @sarveshm6779 Рік тому

      @@SumitKumar-pv6wg bro, she's not a hoe.dont call her that;her father is wll known businessman in her town;

    • @jeffzee3791
      @jeffzee3791 Рік тому

      Girls hate nice guys BUT MATURE WOMEN DON'T AS THEY WILL REPLACE YOU IF YOU IGNORE THEM

  • @aksourov4632
    @aksourov4632 Рік тому +214

    Broh You just helped me change my thoughts about my life and relationship. It's time to break that nice guy mentality. My girlfriend just broke up with me this Evening. I never found the reason why she doesn't like me . Now I got the actual reason. Because iam too nice and everyone is taking advantage of that .Time for a change. No more Mr. Nice Guy. Time for a change. Thank you man 🖤

    • @MohitMaheswari
      @MohitMaheswari Рік тому

      The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent
      Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth
      This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh
      Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai
      Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain......
      Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro
      Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother

    • @aksourov4632
      @aksourov4632 Рік тому +1

      @@MohitMaheswari It's complicated broh 🙂
      GIRLS are the most complicated species on earth 🌎. Nobody ever understood what they really want actually. They are interested in fun things fun boys cause they don't think long term like boys . Tell me your opinion??

    • @MohitMaheswari
      @MohitMaheswari Рік тому

      @@aksourov4632 yes

    • @hopestar5287
      @hopestar5287 Рік тому

      Us bruhhh

    • @aksourov4632
      @aksourov4632 Рік тому

      @@hopestar5287 hm 🖤

  • @garimasapkota6772
    @garimasapkota6772 Рік тому +16

    Actually I like people who have wisdom and are in control of their emotions but still share happiness and are playful but still impactful!

    • @garimasapkota6772
      @garimasapkota6772 Рік тому

      @Angaraj Boruah at least I have control on my emotions can't tell for other human beings.

  • @harshvst1
    @harshvst1 2 роки тому +124

    well, most girls are intrigued by what you define as "asshole" as both of the parties crave for attention, validation, and they are in the same boat, ready to drown anytime.
    Some people just want solitude and someone with values, loyalty, and genuine attraction which is and always will be maturity.

    • @Darth8304
      @Darth8304 2 роки тому +1

      bhai pura video toh dekh le thik se

    • @naveenmalik8100
      @naveenmalik8100 2 роки тому +5

      Samajh nahi aaya lekin, sun ke achha laga👍🤓😂

    • @amitjesur
      @amitjesur Рік тому

      agree. They (Assholes and the girls who like them instead of nice guys) wont understand the value of relationship, honesty, loyalty. They end up Alone with mental illness.

  • @prataptiwary8555
    @prataptiwary8555 Рік тому +58

    Dude, You changed my thinking process completely in this 26 min videos, I can say with bet this is one of the finest content I watched. Thank you so much

  • @HimanshuSingh-gu4cs
    @HimanshuSingh-gu4cs Рік тому +84

    Brothers going on a date with someone doesn't make you socially strong.
    Date is not a destination, it is the by-product of the respect that you have given to yourself over a period of time.
    You are waking up early, achieving your daily tasks, dressing well, going out socializing, travelling etc.
    These things increase the masculine energy which reflects beautifully when you are around women.
    You feel more confident because you have practiced respecting yourself.
    Women respect the guys who respect themselves.

  • @amanansari7319
    @amanansari7319 2 роки тому +34

    Hearing everything happening to me from someone other. It's painful realising all this but enlightening too. Thank you brother ❤ for this counselling.

    • @DesireNSuccess
      @DesireNSuccess 11 місяців тому +1

      I m like you may be more than you

  • @vishal99300
    @vishal99300 2 роки тому +44

    Dont be a nice guy, instead be a Good Man. This is all I try explaining my people.

  • @benclaude6932
    @benclaude6932 2 роки тому +26

    Don't ever leave making videos , love your content , improving India's confidence

  • @jaymishra5284
    @jaymishra5284 Рік тому +11

    We need more people like Kshitij out there .
    Thanks man for speaking truth

  • @AUSTINGANGAR123
    @AUSTINGANGAR123 Рік тому +99

    Guys there's nothing like Nice guys.
    It's just about having self esteem and respecting others.
    Give respect Take respect..!!
    Simple
    Giving is the Best Virtue but only for those who value it..
    Now a days there are 1000's of people who are waiting to take advantage of people with low self esteem..!!
    Don't be the one..

    • @tusharmhatre4360
      @tusharmhatre4360 Рік тому +4

      Yes, i think defining clear values and principal like health, career and family over other bulshit and fake social media thing will keep balance in life and will not cause regret later in in terms of health and career.
      Be truthful to own self and others make life alot easy.

    • @user-cx4xo4qb7x
      @user-cx4xo4qb7x Рік тому +1

      being nice is good unless one becomes a despo

    • @devanshgupta4107
      @devanshgupta4107 Рік тому +1

      💯💯

    • @piceditz6334
      @piceditz6334 Рік тому

      So true

    • @jeffzee3791
      @jeffzee3791 Рік тому +1

      Yes it works on immature women only who seek attention

  • @viraj5132
    @viraj5132 Рік тому +18

    The big brother advice we always wanted but never had.

  • @debdutchakraborty6417
    @debdutchakraborty6417 Рік тому +11

    Thanks God I'm in a committed relationship with someone who's childish like me❤️

  • @mohammadaaquil4007
    @mohammadaaquil4007 Рік тому +12

    People should learn to say No to others... Because everytime we are agree with them, if it's not true and making you fool then disagree with them and your relationship get harm then it's okay, it is better than for made joke of your to them..

  • @Leviathan-
    @Leviathan- Рік тому +63

    I think that's clear difference of a husband material and boyfriend material 😂😂

  • @otakuROHIT
    @otakuROHIT Рік тому +8

    I will never change my self unless I feel it's bad for me.

  • @bhushandiwakar320
    @bhushandiwakar320 8 місяців тому +3

    always be a nice guy, always be a genuine one not a fake one

  • @world_explorer69
    @world_explorer69 Рік тому +15

    Being nice is always good for me but if you be tooo nice you will find problem 🌝

  • @atleastvicky
    @atleastvicky Рік тому +10

    Bro...your words are amazing! This video is around 27 minutes, but believe me, I've watched it for 40 minutes 😂
    No, seriously, just to hear some particular lines again. Hats off. 🙌🏻

  • @newdivide6770
    @newdivide6770 Рік тому +42

    The fact is a woman with values and self respect prefers a nice guy but the one who's arrogant, wants attention, prefers toxic relationship want bad boy. I always had problems in relationship because i was way too nice but one day i realised women don't want me because i am too nice so i lost the hope but one day i met a beautiful girl online, we started talking and i really liked her and i told her i am into her and she said yes. She's beautiful, talented, kind and peaceful, she is involved in my life completely. She cares about my family, takes news always, remembers every small thing about me like she's my mother, her character is pure, no male friends, not so many ex boyfriends and whatever i do to her as a man she's putting the same efforts to keep this relationship going in the direction.
    One day she told me that i am so nice to her that no man will ever treat her the way i do. It's been more then 1 and half year we are still together and planning our future together. Many times came when i felt she will go away because of my situations but she stayed and stayed, when i could not talk to my mom i talked to her and she listened to me very carefully and motivated me.
    The point is being nice is always good you just need right woman to appreciate that, bad boys works too but that relationship won't last long.
    Nice man with bad women - you'll get dumped
    Nice woman but bad man - one day she'll give up on that relationship
    Bad man with bad women - no hope but toxic relationship
    Nice woman and nice man - great future and blessings.
    Some people in comment down here saying i am lying, well to be honest i understand that knowledge and wisdom is not for a fool. My only intention was to let guys know the reality, i don't watch porn so obviously i don't live in world of fantasy..

    • @aryasartistry
      @aryasartistry Рік тому +1

      Well said!

    • @itznav_sin
      @itznav_sin Рік тому

      Hat's 📴

    • @inf783
      @inf783 Рік тому +1

      dude literally wrote a whole essay 😂

    • @sabijatt8449
      @sabijatt8449 Рік тому

      @@inf783 Bhai jhoot bol Raha hai je reality me aisa nhi hota 🤣🤣 ye sala fantasy story likh ke self satisfy kr rha hai

    • @inf783
      @inf783 Рік тому

      @@NeerajKumar-tr5jr you also have a fantasy like that guy?? bro wtf happened to you guys?? 😂

  • @anonymous6910
    @anonymous6910 Рік тому +8

    I really needed this video when I was 14 years old. But I'll make sure I will teach these things when my child will be of 14 years of age. Thanks for the video !

  • @rashmii_kashyap02
    @rashmii_kashyap02 Рік тому +14

    "Mistakes and experiences makes you a human better person"☺️
    Life mein ek insan ekdum se mature ni banta,,,dheere dheere hi chinjen samjh aati hein...
    Har insaan ke life toxic log aate hein and tough phase....yeh humpe depend krta h ki humein unhein kaise handle karte hein

    • @RG-iw4c
      @RG-iw4c Рік тому +1

      Mistake nhi vo jrurte hoti h jo puri kre
      Vhi premi
      Na koi acha psand krte na koi bura.

    • @faizalmemon1947
      @faizalmemon1947 6 місяців тому +1

      Their are many mistakes of Indian Men in their approach to women and one of their famous ones is being nice to a women. Well this is what Kshitij is saying to not be nice for no reason. We Indian Men are learning the hard way ha ha.

  • @mr.billionaire_76
    @mr.billionaire_76 Рік тому +8

    this channel is so so underrated and this man is also so underrated....more Men should reach out to his content and his value

  • @simulatorlover3042
    @simulatorlover3042 Рік тому +11

    Be a nice guy but don't be too much that other people will take advantage of you. Help others, be kind, earn lots of money, have vacations, also have badass bike & cars but above all this make your parents proud, be with them for lifetime they are the only people who truly loves you. It doesn't matter if you get a girl or not, perhaps you can live your life alone.🙌

  • @gulraizkhan6158
    @gulraizkhan6158 2 роки тому +104

    Can anyone describe me with few habits ?
    1. I'm the man with attitude
    2. i hate girls even look at them
    3. I'm feeling less person with no expectation
    4. Love is a joke to me
    5. i love to live alone specially apart from girls.
    Who would be the most expert to understand me

    • @mihirtyagi1117
      @mihirtyagi1117 2 роки тому +21

      Incel energy

    • @turing4991
      @turing4991 Рік тому +16

      Bro your literally me. I cant be arsed to even talk to them now, just gave up. I thought some one will be different, but believe me they are all the same. They all want the same shit like, funny guy, great instagram, bike, body building and all. Im not a loser, i am a country level hackathon winner. Even this is not attractive to them..
      They have always liked and will like garbage.

    • @rohitnayak9952
      @rohitnayak9952 Рік тому +10

      Fake account with anonymous name 🤣

    • @biswarup21
      @biswarup21 Рік тому

      @@rohitnayak9952 lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sujalverma4326
      @sujalverma4326 Рік тому +2

      your pronouns?? 😂😂😂😂

  • @garymonteiro
    @garymonteiro 2 роки тому +27

    The part about being the clown of teh group is interesting but I have a different take from Kshitij. One can successfully get one self to be treated better...for that you wil have to stop meeting that group for a short while (1 -2 months) so all the memories around you being a pushover are gone for you (and also for your friends). then reintroduce yourself into that group and it wil be easier to quell down any signs of the bullying starting again...if it still doesnt work , please take the advice that Kshitij gave and leave

  • @god_is_great88
    @god_is_great88 6 місяців тому +1

    This video is not limited to get a girl, Dude you made the whole psychological trauma handling being a NICE GUY. Thank you very much!

  • @ajaymotla1000
    @ajaymotla1000 Рік тому +4

    I am 10 months late watching this GEM, Thanks alot bro, You cleared my doubts, You cleared that thin layer becoming a Nice guy & a fool.

  • @johnnys8691
    @johnnys8691 Рік тому +6

    Trauma is a big factor, I still very careful while talking to anyone,so that I might not offend that person, or I just avoid talking to anyone most of the time. Picking up phone is still like an impossible task for me, I mostly stick to messages.

  • @Followwithshibin
    @Followwithshibin 2 роки тому +24

    Bro that's the main problem.. if i leave my friends group i would be more lonely because i'm too much introvert and shy person. Doesn't have a confidence to talk to new people and because of my introvert behavior and low voice pitch they bully me with spontaneous words and things

    • @ABHISHEK-id2eb
      @ABHISHEK-id2eb 2 роки тому +8

      Brother take some time. Sit alone and think carefully. That you're really a introvert or you're just shy. People often misunderstood introvert and shyness.
      I myself thought that i am introvert but I was just shy, had low confidence.
      By reading your comment i assume that you want to talk to new people. But you can't.
      And if you want to make new friends , talk to new people. Then you are not introvert , mate.
      You're just shy. Like i was.
      In my opinion i think you should start by talking to atleast one new person daily. No matter one minute talk or long talk. Or just hi , hello.
      My friend you need to get rid of your shyness.
      I was also a shy person. And i misunderstood myself as a introvert. But now I can talk to any new person. I know what i have told you to do is not easy. It was not easy for me either. But if you do the same, you will definitely see the difference in yourself.
      I hope that helps you. Good luck Mate 👍
      And the meaning of introvert :- a person who enjoys to spend time alone or with him/herself.
      Or A person who gains energy in other words a person who feels amazing by spending time with himself.

    • @ankitjadhav6641
      @ankitjadhav6641 2 роки тому

      Hii bro

    • @harshgoyal4952
      @harshgoyal4952 2 роки тому +3

      Man, just go out and start giving genuine compliments to people walking on streets. Kshitij has a separate video for it, you can scroll the channel but don’t just watch content, apply. Within a week you’ll feel great energy and high confidence inside. And you can join some networking groups or maybe a team sport, class, event if you wanna get over your previous friend circle which is hard to avoid. Let’s make happen man, awaiting your positive reply on this thread as soon as you start working on it! Cheers.

    • @rahuls8613
      @rahuls8613 2 роки тому

      Man this is the same problem I am facing.
      Basically I am very shy and a very low voice.
      I have suffer from past traumas.
      And I have done some mistakes.
      All these things are holding me back.
      I want to grow,meet new people , make connections but my mindset and past experiences are stopping me.

    • @ankitjadhav6641
      @ankitjadhav6641 2 роки тому

      Anyone in Mumbai wants to go out for daygame sometime???

  • @korchageen
    @korchageen Рік тому +92

    I am a nice guy, and I have friends who are nice too. After a certain time and marriage, women say that, it was a mistake to not to marry you. Don't change yourself nice guys. Have the fun later.

    • @whoami-qc9pn
      @whoami-qc9pn Рік тому +11

      Lier

    • @dhirendrarath8001
      @dhirendrarath8001 Рік тому +16

      I don't want to be that nice guy who has no self confidence, no self respect willing to sacrifice his money , his peace for any girl .. ♥️de na nice 🙂🙂🙂

    • @bhabanishankarpradhan7237
      @bhabanishankarpradhan7237 Рік тому +4

      If your income will more than her husband then she definitely going to tell that..not marrying you was a mistake..other than that no way 😀

    • @saurav999
      @saurav999 Рік тому

      Ha pehle c@ck ride baad me tum financial help ke.liye baithe hi ho chutiya wali baate mat karo

    • @saurav999
      @saurav999 Рік тому

      @@dhirendrarath8001 bhai yeh chutiya hai women baad mai nice guy paiso ke liye chahti hai pehle fun baad me settle

  • @UnShEeP924
    @UnShEeP924 Рік тому +7

    The video's topic is true but it's also true that if you're truly NICE , then STAY NICE. Changing yourself for anyone even for women won't give you peace in life. you have to find someone who's going to be ok with how your temperament is.....

  • @sanibLangthasa
    @sanibLangthasa Рік тому +6

    You open my eyes
    I gotta stand up for myself

  • @kxbir_est
    @kxbir_est Рік тому +5

    Adding values to the men....
    Keep going brother👍

  • @vishalsadat1997
    @vishalsadat1997 Рік тому +36

    But Sad Reality is..
    Aghar Iss Tarah Ka Attitude Rakhenge To Koi Log Zindagi Me Sath Nahi Rahenga, Aakele Reh Jaoge..🙂

    • @malcomnoronha4828
      @malcomnoronha4828 Рік тому +8

      MR Bean Deka hai bhai, Kitna Kush rayta hai. Focus on yourself and life. Aaj kal kon sab apnay baray Mai e Soch Tay hai. Its about keeping myself first then others.

    • @anil6191
      @anil6191 Рік тому +3

      @@malcomnoronha4828 bhai wo fictional character h

    • @malcomnoronha4828
      @malcomnoronha4828 Рік тому +1

      @@anil6191 Pata Hai bhai, all I am saying is put yourself first and then others.

    • @warrior1219
      @warrior1219 Рік тому +2

      Bhai already akele hi hae aur kitna akele honge

    • @coldbloodstorm9729
      @coldbloodstorm9729 Рік тому +1

      Mutual respect and care both matters...not any single thing

  • @addykaesthetic
    @addykaesthetic Рік тому +6

    Worth my time watching this video!! Keep making such type of content broo ❤️ wish you good luck 🤞

  • @sashankakumarnath7809
    @sashankakumarnath7809 Рік тому +4

    A true man doesn't stop being a nice guy because his self respect is more important than a girl's attention towards him. In this world there are also women who love nice guy because not everyone is made my the same viewpoint.

  • @jazzmusic8137
    @jazzmusic8137 Рік тому +11

    Bro I swear this is one of the best video of my life, my teenage would have been different if I'd come across this earlier, hatts off please keep doing honest work, it buys you loyalty which no money can buy. Thank you

  • @sandipupadhyaya8017
    @sandipupadhyaya8017 Рік тому +19

    I don't think it's bad to be good. I have always been a nice guy since my childhood. And it's very interesting that, I didn't have any girlfriend till the age of 21. But finally a mature and beautiful lady chose me as her lifepartner forever. One thing I came to know about girls (thanks to her who told me the secret) is that, "Girls like 'the so-called alpha/sigma/bad guys' only as their boyfriends, but they don't want them to be their husbands or lifepartners, because those assholes are quite immature and impractical about their lives and it's very unsafe for the future of their relationship."
    Soooo, Be good... it's not so bad

    • @sandeepchoudhary7257
      @sandeepchoudhary7257 Рік тому

      @@vysakhr5888 Thailand chaloge

    • @abinashdehury8922
      @abinashdehury8922 Рік тому +2

      @@sandeepchoudhary7257 3000 baht

    • @sandeepchoudhary7257
      @sandeepchoudhary7257 Рік тому +1

      @@abinashdehury8922 😋😋😋hehe boiii

    • @sahajsoni3946
      @sahajsoni3946 Рік тому +1

      The thing is here that girls always have that sense of excitement for those assholes always. Its just that they have tasted them and now they fear about their future so they settle with a comparatively balanced guy

    • @saurav999
      @saurav999 Рік тому +1

      @Fek Smile YT bhai yeh bhi chutiya hai women ne ise paiso ke liye chuna kyuki usne badboys ke sath fun kar liya uska man bhar gaya ab settle hona hai

  • @rishabhmanglani6745
    @rishabhmanglani6745 Рік тому +2

    bro i dont think you have realised that this is not just teaching how not to be a nice guy, its also kinda of a therapy knowledge
    you went so much in detail
    shows your clarity towards the topic
    wonderful stuff dude🔥

  • @anmolbajaj1178
    @anmolbajaj1178 Рік тому +28

    This video in two words-- self respect

  • @parthshah3718
    @parthshah3718 2 роки тому +57

    I experienced that trauma bonding in college and made cool friends as I was academically focused and had friends in school who had the same mindset ....all those college friends had very influential parents and well connected to top people and had achieved whatever they had by their parents help ...I wanted to learn so called coolness by being with them...ultimately time came where as you mentioned I couldn't control and had to beat the shit out of one of them ..it was the best feeling in the world ...bc kisi ka baap mere age kuch nai bola

  • @adityanag8934
    @adityanag8934 Рік тому +5

    Apart from the amazing explanation I must say I am really happy listing to an Indian coach (I usually listin to foreign coach) having a High energy Vibes 😁 , and cool explanation. Now come back to the topic I shall surely apply this teaching in life . Thank you sir 😊❤️

  • @parthrajpal3574
    @parthrajpal3574 Рік тому +6

    This is awsome this video helped me ov from my ex after 3 years of breakup thank you so much khitij sir you're my inspiration ❤️🔥

  • @harrychess9532
    @harrychess9532 Рік тому +8

    Bro 100% relatable content... Thanks bhai 🫂

  • @Sinha_jee_09
    @Sinha_jee_09 Рік тому +9

    Now I'm gonna say all of this in front of my friends when they tease me because i don't have a girlfriend 😂
    Awesome kshitij bhaya❤

  • @pgovindrao1471
    @pgovindrao1471 Рік тому +10

    thank you for literally helping me strike out of my shit nature.. the fact of we was raised doing things for other in childhood make literal sense...

  • @shamimanohar
    @shamimanohar Рік тому +4

    Be nice. If she goes away, then let her go, she wasn't worth your time. Only be with people who deserve to be around you. And also, there are no nice guys. Stop seeing in Black and White.

  • @alexdunphy4358
    @alexdunphy4358 2 роки тому +10

    Love is a wierd drug which makes you strong and weak at the same time.

  • @freakygamer720
    @freakygamer720 Рік тому +6

    Value yourself ,value your time , value your money , value your hardwork this will only make you a man 🔥🔥🔥

  • @harshitsingh7521
    @harshitsingh7521 Рік тому +5

    This man is doing a lot for us hats off bruh

  • @mohitrajpal266
    @mohitrajpal266 11 місяців тому +18

    Why to change our identity for women?

    • @souravpaul7653
      @souravpaul7653 4 місяці тому +2

      Sometimes change is the only option

    • @EpicBongBoy
      @EpicBongBoy 3 місяці тому +1

      Not for women bro...for this generation...being nice is worthless today...you have to change yourself.

    • @ashwinmiyer6159
      @ashwinmiyer6159 2 місяці тому

      ​@@EpicBongBoy Nah... Being nice and being innocent/stupid are too different things.

    • @KhushalBadal
      @KhushalBadal Місяць тому

      When u decide to be real whatever the situation is...U r a real man🫵. But if u have to change a little bit in ur personality temporarily so that things would go in ur favour... It's absolutely fine.

    • @29.ispeakpower
      @29.ispeakpower 25 днів тому

      Its not about women... Sex... Love... But not being a nice guy will increase your chances of survival in this uncertain society!! Be nice ... But not for everyone

  • @soutampaul1341
    @soutampaul1341 2 роки тому +4

    This video has almost everything a man needs .. Great Content

  • @ybt595
    @ybt595 2 роки тому +5

    This is my first video on your channel, I just know you got it very well. So I am subscribing and binge-watching all. Keep it up!

  • @ayushkaushik9144
    @ayushkaushik9144 Рік тому +4

    What a great video i have watched today. Mad respect for you brother 🔥

  • @ricebeer4573
    @ricebeer4573 Рік тому +3

    Dame i recently had an breakup and it makes much more sense now..😊 I'm of those one so-called nice guy..i guess soo .. trying to improve myself i will now invest my time and power in me rather than someone else

  • @rudrakshpangotra
    @rudrakshpangotra Рік тому +2

    when i was in 10th standard i spent 2000 rs on a gift for my girl.(she had both mercedes and audi in my tier 4 city).
    At that time my pocket money was 300rs(My parents Were Strict).
    And she Cheated me On day Of her birthday.

  • @belief1111
    @belief1111 2 роки тому +9

    Another good video to watch on this topic would
    Be "the nice guy trope explained" by :the take

  • @ganesh_2365
    @ganesh_2365 2 роки тому +6

    bro, I think, be a "psudo nice guy"
    because "act like a fool and think like a brillent"
    ye concept muze achha lagta hai !!!!!!!

  • @rajatraut9345
    @rajatraut9345 Рік тому +1

    Your self esteem is more important than anything.

  • @geetaramesh3149
    @geetaramesh3149 Рік тому +2

    Moral ye hai ki matlabi ho jao or ye cheej sahi bhi hai .. i agree

  • @Denguevil
    @Denguevil Рік тому +4

    Best explaination! TYSM for opening my eyes

  • @theprogrammer6815
    @theprogrammer6815 2 роки тому +6

    Hey kshitij,
    please make a video on "How to not give fuck about what people think about you....??"😀😀

  • @kartikaytripathi2272
    @kartikaytripathi2272 Рік тому +2

    bhai this video lasted an hour for me. everytime i relate the things u say. and then pause the video and remember of myself being this type of guy.

  • @lawjeet7088
    @lawjeet7088 Рік тому +4

    I have all the qualities hence I not end up in relationship. 😂

  • @amitjesur
    @amitjesur Рік тому +8

    You know what, I am not gonna stop being nice because some girls used me. I will treat a girl as nice as I am. If she has not cheated me, I wont be rude to her. I can't punish someone for my pain who never cut me. I am not changing myself. Thanks😊

    • @SumitKumar-pv6wg
      @SumitKumar-pv6wg Рік тому

      @Kartikey Pandey yes man

    • @MB-ux4bb
      @MB-ux4bb Рік тому +1

      I am a woman, and l love your reply

    • @amitjesur
      @amitjesur Рік тому

      @@MB-ux4bb thank you dear😊❤️🙏

    • @amitjesur
      @amitjesur Рік тому

      @Kartikey Pandey yes man I am not rude to anyone, not just women. 😊

    • @jeffzee3791
      @jeffzee3791 Рік тому +1

      ​@@MB-ux4bbthis trick of video works on immature women only who seek attention 😊

  • @asadraza3826
    @asadraza3826 Рік тому +5

    Don't fear of anything.
    Put your goal on priority, & run for it like a beast. And don't care about what others think.
    U don't need to take advise from others.
    Anyway... This man is telling truth very well. 👍

  • @sankhabratabagchi8871
    @sankhabratabagchi8871 9 місяців тому

    even the sense of good or bad which is hammered in our heads since childhood plays a crucial role in this. I can totally relate.

  • @samujjalsengupta9653
    @samujjalsengupta9653 Рік тому +1

    I can totally relate to this and realised how much self esteem matters for oneself. 🙏✌

  • @adnankhanswagstar
    @adnankhanswagstar Рік тому +4

    Great content and explanation 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @mysteryman2213
    @mysteryman2213 2 роки тому +15

    I don't want girls or there attention and validation.
    Ima make my mom proud by being a nice guy and respecting all women 💕

    • @rohitnayak9952
      @rohitnayak9952 Рік тому

      What's your age ?

    • @mysteryman2213
      @mysteryman2213 Рік тому +1

      @@rohitnayak9952 19

    • @rohitnayak9952
      @rohitnayak9952 Рік тому +3

      @@mysteryman2213 take care of your mother and father... they will find good girl for your marriage 👍

    • @RR3DS
      @RR3DS Рік тому

      @Abhishek Mohite bhai hum ladki choose krne me andhe honge par hamare parents nhi.

  • @AnupKumar-no8wn
    @AnupKumar-no8wn 10 місяців тому +1

    Just be yourself dont predent never try to impress girls. Be grounded.

  • @choudharysahabmusic3513
    @choudharysahabmusic3513 10 місяців тому +2

    women love nice guys when it comes to marriage.
    Not as a boyfriend

  • @niteshdey8138
    @niteshdey8138 Рік тому +7

    The main thing is Self respect barao...Dont be a slave and agree to do anything to take her on bed or OYO..Dont Grant her wishes...Be Selfish..or Diplomatic...Ye sab Bollywood ne sikhaya hai...toxic love

  • @24x7opgaming4
    @24x7opgaming4 2 роки тому +3

    ankhe khol de bhai ne toh ! hats off to you bhiya ji !

  • @aritrasengupta487
    @aritrasengupta487 Рік тому +2

    the indian Julian Blanc ! keep it up mate

  • @friensta
    @friensta 10 місяців тому +1

    Boundaries
    Not simp
    No special favours
    Do not visualise someone as superior
    Don't try to escape your now
    Take risks and do not fear to tease

  • @Sudeep_rawatz
    @Sudeep_rawatz Рік тому +3

    There should be a mix version
    Be 55%nice
    Rest 45% that type
    And achieve anything anyone

  • @mohammedmaaz4105
    @mohammedmaaz4105 Рік тому +14

    What I will say is
    In search of becoming a
    - Chad guy
    - good guy
    - bad guy
    - neutral guy
    Don't lose yourself you don't knew
    .
    While you are becoming you have to understand what it is costing from you ..
    Hope you get it...🤞

  • @drcosmon8312
    @drcosmon8312 Рік тому +1

    Yes It's completely trueee , at point I was completely nice guy , this makes them difficult to be with u . U need to be strong mentally 🧠

  • @mukeshprajapati2677
    @mukeshprajapati2677 Рік тому +2

    🤧 don't be so caring guy just chill and love yourself...end me katna hi ee

  • @thepratikgoswami
    @thepratikgoswami Рік тому +3

    Damn! This is a gem of a video!

  • @dad-ms8mz
    @dad-ms8mz Рік тому +4

    I am a nice guy and no matter womens likes me or not I will be a nice guy.😅

  • @aceallen2505
    @aceallen2505 13 днів тому +1

    Be Strong and real man💪

  • @surajp4575
    @surajp4575 10 місяців тому

    Don't leave your niceness..just ignore them who ignores you..make people run towards you.

  • @ramchandratudu9704
    @ramchandratudu9704 Рік тому +4

    I just broke up with her....due to being in my boundaries...

  • @soham9496
    @soham9496 2 роки тому +6

    Ngl from ur thumbnail I thought u were another based zeus type youtuber who clickbaits and talks complete nonsense throughout the video. But u are a knowledgeable person. U just earned urself a subscriber 😀

    • @theaquibjaved
      @theaquibjaved 2 роки тому +1

      Based Zeus. That guy is not even confident about his own voice. And gives "alpha male" gyaan 😂

    • @slayerkewal7650
      @slayerkewal7650 Рік тому

      @@theaquibjaved correct 😂

  • @heartbeat6280
    @heartbeat6280 2 роки тому +2

    ❤️There are many videos on this topic in youtube but you are the best, thank u so much for making this video love u ❤️

  • @ghostof7thsol
    @ghostof7thsol 10 місяців тому

    That's the first video which I have ever seen on UA-cam, It really can change our lifestyle and thinking process .

  • @kangtheconqueror2540
    @kangtheconqueror2540 2 роки тому +4

    100 percent useful video thank u for changing me

  • @gauravkumartrader
    @gauravkumartrader Рік тому +5

    Just be real and don’t change yourself for a girl( a human with opposite sex)
    You can be comfortable in your own personality rather than being someone and the right person will find you for sure.
    This person is just gathering audience for selling his course because he knows very well these days boys are very insecure.

  • @shubhamchorwadi357
    @shubhamchorwadi357 2 місяці тому

    I dont wanna stop being nice because i want to get girls , i wanna stop being the nice to become someone better , someone who gets respect from others , to be at the top

  • @ashish4599
    @ashish4599 Рік тому +2

    Focus on your goal after you reach it. Then you get many holes.
    Don't change your character for any girls.