You're not hearing the good stories of great relationships because your music mostly speaks to those painful relationships. You are attracting the audience of what your music is projecting.
Exactly, and she will continue to attract those same experiences as long as her mindset stays the same. Maybe she is unaware that she is creating/attracting more of the same events, ppl, and situations that confirm her belief... I hope that things get better for her.
Yea, you attract what you are. She gonna continue to believe this about men if all she allow is a toxic man. With that attitude a good man is not gonna invest in her bc he don't want her to bring him down, especially when she already set in her way. When them women come cry to her bc she's a candidate for toxic women. I bet if their relationship going good they wont run to her. K.Mitchell too old sounding like an early 20yr old girl experiencing men for the 1st time.
Derrick's a "simp," but he has one thing over this K chica: logic. The radio show host used logic as well, but home girl just doubled down with the BFF.
That was tough to watch. The older I get the more I realize how few people take accountability for their own actions. It truly is rare for someone to be open to owning the consequences of their decisions.
D'Crypto Space No no no. Cancel Culture is the result of a group of people not taking accountability for their actions who also end up disallowing other people to take accountability for their actions.
Seems to me that most women are the ones who are most likely to deny accountability. "Turn it over to Jesus" and "God's got it" is par for the course. This chick is blaming men for her actions in choosing who she has been with. Other women are the same as she. No one is coming up to her telling her about their issues. And then, if I state that maybe women need to make better choices in men, Derrick feels as if it is a trick and I'm trying to get with the woman I'm giving information to. No matter what we do as black men, we get it from both sided. That is why I ignore 99% of people because they think ass-backwards like these bastards up on this show.
Girl, bye. Quit with all that drag. You operate from a position of “this bad thing HAPPENED to me”...no self accountability , that’s why it will keep happening. Grow up.
yes, she sound like a little girl. take time out to be single & learn the fault in your self as well. you will find yourself then accepting nontoxic men bc you begin to know your worth & what you wont tolerate
@@teegee771 I would solely recommend you start to take accountability for yourself and your actions if u r attracting men like this. It always takes TWO!!!
@@legendfamilyvalues6483 what does this have to do with me? I'm a grown 42yo woman and I'm doing great.. You take your own advice. I don't listen to strangers. And further advice, don't think you know a person because of a response. OK.
@78mfleet Wtf my statement have to do with my decision making of men. Like I said! You don't know me so speak about what you know and not make an ASSumption. Some of the things she say about men are true and I don't think I need to elaborate what exactly I mean. It doesn't mean it's true for all! I owe none of you an explanation.
K. Michelle: all men are bad people Big E (caller): you (K. Michelle) made bad choices in men K. Michelle: you don’t know me Me: K. Michelle, you don’t know all the millions of men you call bad people.
When she admitted that she's traditionally gone for thugs, it completely negated her argument that "men are not good people". It seems like she's avoided the good ones, and in turn, she's gotten exactly whom she's pursued over the years. You can't get a gourmet steak if you're only browsing the Mickey D's menu.
First time I heard that fool not completely blame men...EVER! And how you a relationship guru but single? That's like taking credit building advice from someone who's score starts with a 5.
I swear I said the same thing!! And you'd be Surprised at how many mothers raise their daughters with this type of attitude and mindset..smdh! And then we wonder why women behave and act the way they do these days.. there are beginning to be little to no women worthy of marriage to be honest! Because of the way they are out here moving.. and worse most dont have a chance unless they can fight against the toxic indoctrination they were deal through their childhood and teachings.. imagine her raising a daughter... that's some scary shit and poor who ever dates that little girl later in life with someone that bitter in their ear everyday of their life.. she is everything a man will and should stay away from yet she's confused!???👀👀👀 she is the meaning of delusional in the flesh! Sadly to say
Kemikazi __ no not lack of self esteem, its a lack of self accountability. She aint looking at this dudes that she is entertaining. So once she realizes she is letting these same type dudes come in her mix, she can fix that
Right. People often speak the truth initially, and then add that “but.” Everything after that “but” is the list of lies they tell themselves that obscure the truth. So rinse and repeat all the shit you do wrong.
Exactly, exactly. She is nuts and to be honest with you those men in that studio knows it but won't say shit about it because they know she will show her natural ass and take it out on them. That is why they where essentially kissing her ass and trying to make sure they weren't the reason she goes off on them.
@@BuckFutterd And Derrick is a good guy, I love his relationship nuggets of wisdom. I think both sexes have encountered some folks that have taken advantage, but there's not a man that has left me in the emotional state of K-Michelle. Thank God, because she's sad to watch!
@@loyal_cake9121 If Im not the one who caused her pain I'm not accepting it. Im not paying the tab for someone else. Women have walls up because they have an inability to allow good men into their lives so they just go to extremes and block everyone out.
Yeh I feel that. A lot of people need to take better care of themselves then they wouldn't have those issues with trust, neglect and whatever else that may hinder you from having successful, healthy, safe and durable relationships. Being and living as an example of what you want in a person. >Reflection< mirror what you wish to have hence law of attraction. Why get into a committed relationship when you don't trust to begin with like jumping in the deep end and can't swim!
@@loyal_cake9121 but that's it right there in your question, the man who caused her pain is the one she needs to address. We can't go through life charging our current partners for the crimes of the one or ones who came before them.
@@35rich74 women do but way less unlike men portray bc women actually like men and willing to give men a chance. Women have loved men, in and out. When he's up and women loved men dead broke. Let's face it. Men don't care about women. Derrick left his wife for his side. Let's be real.
@@loveyb9090 lol y’all literally have more access to sex and cheating then any average man I probably would’ve agreed with you years ago, but this is 2023 and you just pandering so you don’t have to seek the therapy you need
He told her, she knew a man for 20 years and just now got with him, meaning he was there all along and she passed on him...who else did she pass on that are no longer even available anymore! Only a poor choice of man is going to pass through your std walls to see what else you don’t have to offer but misery and mistreatment.
This aged well. K Michelle dont seem so crazy after all... Black women be saying shit and everyone looks at them crazy until we actually see what they talking about. And a year later, we see it lmfao this comment section is a perfect example.
No it doesnt. It was simply a joke in poor taste... funny as hell though and poignant When You observe Kay Michelle and many women like her only ever see themselves as the victim.
That's what women don't understand who wants a woman they got to argue with all the time or you come home and have to deal with her who wants that then they try to shame you oh your weak for not putting up with it. No it's not weak only a fool will deal with any woman like that
And I never understood that. If you want to put those walls up that's fine, but realize that you are the architect and you have to break those walls down.
I think their are a lot of women who do go for better because deep down they don't believe they are worthy or able to be a good woman to a good man... Because the dont know self love BUT alot of men do take advantage of that fact
She said if you cant pay my bills then obviously all she sees a mans worth is how much money he has and that makes her a bad person. This is why i don't think women are good people. You will leave him if he has no money he left you when your health was bad.
Every time I run into these type of broads now that I'm a little older and wiser, I'm always like, Nope, nope, I'm good. These women are so broken up by hood dudes. It's nothing but headaches and constant drama with them
correct. yes young man run. I tell my son to avoid these women too. don't try to prove you can save them. it will only stress you & bring you down to a point sex is the only good thing they offer
Exactly. This has been my response for years. You can't pass on a Man, choose a Male of a Man's age then, when he does what he does, you say "Men ain't sh!t." You never chose a Man.
@Saunders Maxine you misunderstood his comment. You see in the dating game women make the choices if they're going to be with somebody or not . There are a lot of bad men out there not a lot of women choose ... most women do choose the bad boy. And to sit up here and label "every man has no good" ? Says exactly what we've been saying and if you sit up here if you keep picking mr. Wrong then that is your fault don't label every single one of us has "No Good Man" that discriminating against the male gender. That means the male children in your family automatically deemed not to be any good. It's who she picks it's who she's attracted to that's the problem she needs to change what she goes for and who she's attracted to that's in her head she has a bad choice of men it's not the other way around because last I checked there are a lot of good men out there it's just that they're now have the bad boy image and there are women out there that are not attracted to guys that do not have the bad boy image. She has a problem in her head and she needs to fix it Chillicothe psychiatrist or therapist it down talk about what she's attracted to this one is sick and that's what feminism does to women sometimes they have everything the way you want it. Sometimes it's not what you want it's what you need that makes your life better.
Derrick proved her right. She wasnt bitter but telling the truth about alot of them. No empathy and lack of compassion. Its crazy how ppl think she is bitter but its been like that 4 plus generations. Side babies and public humiliation.
@@reffa2858 Very true..it helps when you are someone who can take in advice from regular people but she has proven to not. So, maybe when she understands and feels like this is a professional..she could trust them enough to open up, hear them, and ultimately heal. She has the money...she can afford help..lol
She needs to heal, she is broken, she might even need some therapy. Men do the same thing when they are broken..they bash all women. She needs to be alone for until she heals.
She will NEVER have or be anyone's life partner!!!! This video was 17 minutes long and I was sick of her by the 4 minute mark so that being said no man is ever going to sign up for a lifetime hitch with that looney ass she wolf. Trust me.
Andromedon Same thing I was thinking. If you don’t have the ability to look inner or be accountable for you thoughts and actions you will lose. I see no space for a man to even compromise with her. She’s married to that negativity. 🤦🏾♀️
@MelvinDiggsIsChillin ahahahahah Same here... Couldn't agree more with you.. I feel for her but first of all for her future mate... She is so angry and agressive. That is really not feminine energy at all.... I sincerely feel for her she seems so unfulfilled
Jovonte Arnold sometimes you have to take responsibility for the company you keep or in her case entertain..especially when her outcome is the same every time,
She said “ that’s real but guess what” meaning you agreed with the caller and he was 100 percent right so she tried to play jokes on him, typical girl. He right so let’s make jokes. But she’s in a relationship so you hate all men but you still got a man, makes sense
@Kimmminem West she's judging ALL men based on the BAD men that SHE chose to deal with- REPEATEDLY. She's not taking any accountability for HER shortsighted actions, and that's a bad look at her age
@Kimmminem West 1. She keeps saying all men but the 1%, which according to her is Jesus and Obama ONLY, so try again. 2. Why can't she use the experience of some females who AREN'T broken down and brokenhearted?
She way pass bitter. She is seriously damage. And no way a man that is good comes in her life because he see and hear what she saying. A good man would not want her in his life.
isytown in order from anybody to move on from toxic relationships. You have to take a step back and look at what part you played in it and what you won’t do going forward. She mentioned men cheating. If a man cheats and cheats and cheats and you continue to be with him, he won’t change. He will continue to cheat on you because he knows you will forgive him and take him back.
She just speaking how she feels. How is it ignorant? She's been hurt a number of times by countless men. She's hurting. Bitter. Again, giving her opinion. I dnt necessarily agree 100% but I understand how she feels🤷
@@MrsBryant1024 She negated everything she stated when she admitted she went after those bad boys that don't represent that supposed "1% of men are good." Don't get mad you're attracting bums if you choose to walk down alleyways.
@Ash Wednesday there are men around the world who are there taking the best care of their wives and being who a husband and father should be - Men are natural protectors. Based on your style of argument. News papers never go into all those homes to document these normal men, but news of abuse spreads from the ends of the world like wild fire. Men are not natural predators, your opinion is your opinion you know.😄. Except there's a gene in men that codes for natural violence which is absent in female genes. To test your assumption, when you have a baby boy, train him under the best care and company, if he turns out to beat women up or mess them up emotionally for no explainable reason, then your loud statement holds water. Till then, I'll hold on to my own opinion too cos judging from the men produced in my lineage I think wife abuse is a myth, of which I know it's not. Hehehehehe. 50-50 till then.
@@MrsBryant1024 She was hurt by the men that SHE chose. None of those low vibrational men put a gun to her head. She was a willing participant. She has to take responsibility and learn the lessons needed in order to ATTRACT the good men she wants. She saw the red flags, she just chose to ignore them.
@@sid2daknee Again I understand what she said. I too have chosen the wrong types of men in the past before I met my husband. Nobody wants to be hurt. I just get what she is saying.
I like K Michelle but she is deeply wounded and needs some counseling. She's generalizing all men based on the bad men she has attracted that hurt her.
I think she did very well. It’s hard to hear someone give you definitive advice without knowing all the facts. None of them have taken the time to listen to her explain in depth all her relationships. So how can they have a complete solution or opinion about it. She took what resonated with her when it did. But, she can’t take it all because they don’t know it all.
ijugreen I respect your opinion. However, I have to respectfully disagree she is damaged her philosophies, perspective & thought processes are stagnant. As soon as she opened her mouth all the issues she has with men was confirmed when she said “Everything that I’ve gone through has to do with lack of SELF-esteem & men being in the middle”. There are issues possibly traumas she needs to address internally.
THIZZAVELI lmao nope, the guy was too loud to begin and stating nope facts. Let’s be clear if he’s a good man he’s good to everyone not just the people the people he finds special or it attached too. He got on the phone talking about “battered women” as if he knew her personal story. And if in fact she battered why shame her and other women for it. Can someone point up what he said that was so meaningful. Black folks love raising mediocrity.
Hideaway Hotel Music Videos so it’s ok for her to yell all in the mic but the mans “tone” was harsh.... which is subjective in itself. My BM is just like her and you can’t win. If you talk to her with respect she will try to run over you, if u talk to her like a real one (like the caller did) you are mean 🤦🏽♂️. And the part that was so real was him proving that these “women” overlook good guys to go get smashed n dashed by the JR Smith’s of the world 😂 then come back to the good guy from high school 20 years later after she been used and abused. Y’all will never admit that part
K Michelle, do you really think a woman would walk up and start telling you how good there man treats them? Of course they only come to you with drama, because y'all can relate.
Derrick Jaxson is not a fool. He has mastered the art of being a toxic black women whisperer. (Please ladies, if this comment doesn't apply to you let it fly.) Its unfortunate K. Michelle is her own greatest obstacle from happiness but she doesn't see it or refuses to acknowledge that.
Nice!!! I hope you don't mind that I use that!!! I hate on Derek Jaxn, but only because I didn't think of the idea of telling women what they want to hear and getting paid for it like he does. Make no mistake he does not practice what he preaches; I guarantee that he wouldn't touch the women that he panders to with a 10 foot pole.
@@KelAda44 nah you don't have to hate on him for that. i guarantee you that if right now you started a channel pandering to these dumb broads, you WILL make money. try it and see these females nowadays just can't get enough of feeling themselves
SOMETHING ABOUT DUDE HAS RUBBED ME THE WRONG FOR YEARS... LIKE WHERE IS YOUR QUEEN KING? YOU GOT ALL THIS WISDOM BUT WHERE IS THE WOMAN THAT IS RECEIVING OF IT
Stephon J right you saw how she couldn’t even respond like an adult talking bout some damn “big e do you want a happy meal” dafuq bitch he dropping drip on ya silly ass but she too defensive to even recognize it
FoodLover101Paradise you definitely hit the nail on the head,you can tell She has deep rooted Bitterness towards Men also I agree that ownership goes both ways blessings to you My Black Queen💯
@Paul Lunsford sometimes, that is conditioning on that person's part. Sometimes, we are acclimated to our scenarios, that we have no knowledge of anything else out there. It is very much a cycle pattern, and it is difficult to break, unless we are shown otherwise. Sometimes, even after those three or four "baby daddies", we get tired and feel there is more of an outlet. It is not my position to judge where a person is in their life. I just put it out there that they receive a positive outcome, no matter how long it takes. Sometimes it takes longer for some than others.
These type of chicks don't want a good dude! I've seen it time and time again!! They RUN from good dudes! " He's corny" "He's boring " They love drama! The Pookies, the June Bugs, the jailbirds.. GTFOH!!
Anyone peeped that she’s in a relationship for 3 years in with a guy she’s known for 20? She’s really just pissed that the men SHE ACTUALLY WANTS don’t want to do right by her. No one actually dates people they’ve been friends with for that long unless they are just settling 🤷🏽♂️
Special Melanin Star eh, bag size don’t really matter when you’re at an income that makes it virtually impossible to go broke, if that’s the case her bag size makes her unmarriagable. She just flat out don’t find him attractive. She’s known this dude for 20 years and is only dating him because the men she wanted just wanted to hit it and quit it. We see this all the time regardless of bag size, the only difference is since she possibly makes more she can afford to act out while women who are with men they don’t want act submissive just to have a place to stay.
Special Melanin Star You missed his point completely..... What does her money have to do with her keeping this dude on standby for 20 plus years? She played around with dudes that DIDN’T WANT HER...and payed the consequences. She wanted dreads, hood, and grills; and she got just that, while her now husband was waiting for 20 years. Shes gonna ruin that man and drive him to insanity.
You know how many times he gets caught contradicting himself in videos he'll say one thing any turnaround next video on contradict what he just said and yeah he's not a great therapist he's not even a a good life coach he gets paid by telling women what they want to hear he's good at it as long as he's bashing a men and telling a woman that she's never wrong they're going to continue listening and he knows this and he's getting paid to do this
UA-cam University thats what people keep telling her. Her bitterness and resentment makes her indirectly push away a majority of guys, including potential good guys
No some rich women attrack broke ones, some timid women attrack agressive abusers, some straight women attrack downlow men. Sometimes opposites attrack to your personality and see something in you that helps them.
A lot of women will sleep around with bad guys and once they are done doing that and they're in their late 30s or early 40s they'll marry any beta simp that they see can take care of them and use them as a retirement plan.
A good man would stay clear of this broken woman. She will never be happy. As a self certified internet psychologist I say she suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Well looks like k.michelle was on to something after all ... 1 yr later... Derrick has gotten exposed for cheating on his own wife with multiple women ... Smh ....
@@BlackHawk0674 No one can say for sure, but I'd like to think that she is doing like many financially responsible people and preparing for retirement through several investments. Also, the lonely cat-lady trope is rather old...I've seen a few viable alternatives for women being cared for in old age outside of relying on one man to save for two retirements (which has a statistically low probability anyway). I mean, technically, all married women need to plan to have enough to live for the 10-15 years they typically outlive their husbands.
@Tough Love and miserable like K. Michelle. It's called compromise. You can be the bread winner but it's called compromise for a healthy relationship. If money defines your relationship .....you will never find happiness.
@Tough Love no they're not. You can't do all of those things successfully without a ton of help.You definitely can't raise a family. You can do what black ppl have been doing for generations... surviving. That's just producing more broken ppl with issues.
Munny Mark What Big E. should’ve said is “DON’T TALK TO ME ABOUT COOKIES AND HAPPY MEALS WHEN YOU’VE BEEN FUCKING FROM THE DOLLAR MENU ALL THESE YEARS. And nothing to show for it but surgery scars”
There was not a lick of logic spoken from one of those three men. They said what they THINK to protect their male egos, they did not address the behaviors that she spoke of that men do to women worldwide. They should have had me on there with her.
@@Debsterism so are all women perfect? Are there not some wretched spawns out here that call themselves women? Aren't there conniving, manipulative and delusional one that blame everyone else for their problems except themselves? The men in this video made excellent points!!!! Only women that weren't truly listening would say the foolishness you said!!!
K Michelle is lost!! Someone took her heart and shredded it. She NEVER got over it. Now she's generalizing all men!! And she can't see it. Poor thing. She needs therapy.
@@thesummrbaby the opposite of feminine, alot of women take being feminine as a sign of being weak, so they feel they need that extra edge, that's when they indoctrinate feminism, taking on a more masculinity while sacrificing they femininity at the same time.
I think the same way she has stated it's not her job to be a man's mother, it's not a man's job to be her therapist. I hope good men stay away from women like this.
She dont know what she want. She want a man from "the 1%" but a MAN from "the 1%" ain't putting up with her
So True!! This was a total waste of time to even hear. Reciprocity is a must in any relationship.
At all
Exactly lol.
SHE'S TRASH!!!
shamika slater exactly
Your comment restored my faith in the intelligence of my sisters!
Moral of the story: K Michelle is angry.
And she needs to seek counseling.
💯
ITS TO LATE. SHE IS WALLED USED UP WASHED OUT MOWED OVER. OVER OPINIONATED AND KNOWS NO HUMILITY.
Yea, she still angry about what has happened to her. And she can't get past that, but I'm no doctor.
@@Meg-cn7kw DONT NEED TO BE A DOCTOR TO HAVE COMMON DECENCY OR SENSE OF HUMILITY.
Anthony Smith a lot of it this bitch is crazy no man wants a woman with that attitude
You're not hearing the good stories of great relationships because your music mostly speaks to those painful relationships. You are attracting the audience of what your music is projecting.
Lisette G. Facts
Exactly, duh. She dumb as a rock
Well said!
Exactly, and she will continue to attract those same experiences as long as her mindset stays the same. Maybe she is unaware that she is creating/attracting more of the same events, ppl, and situations that confirm her belief...
I hope that things get better for her.
@@krey404 she's not dumb she's hurting. There is a difference.
Fast forward K Michelle is correct when it comes to Derrick Jaxn
😂😂😂😂
Right!! He was supposed to be a representation of a "good man", now look at what he has done. This is just sad.
K Michelle was right all along 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The irony...
CORRECT! She was talking to a guy who was deceiving so many of us. This is still so hurtful to watch
Big E was correct. And she clearly feels threatened when someone is giving her the truth. You get whatever energy back that you put out. 🤷🏾♂️
Like most women these days, whenever you tel them the truth it’s misogyny or some other crap
@@danrich5628 next thing you know, Derrick ends up being a serial cheater and reinforces K Michelle’s point in this video…cute
Very Toxic!!! She’s the wrong person for “broke down” woman to come to for advice. Broken can’t fix broken.
Yea, you attract what you are. She gonna continue to believe this about men if all she allow is a toxic man. With that attitude a good man is not gonna invest in her bc he don't want her to bring him down, especially when she already set in her way. When them women come cry to her bc she's a candidate for toxic women. I bet if their relationship going good they wont run to her. K.Mitchell too old sounding like an early 20yr old girl experiencing men for the 1st time.
She's a pessimistic witch. Women like this smear everything around them with their own shit.
Powerful! What you speak is what you get.
Love Joy...You are absolutely right, women will give advice based on their emotional state at the time.
So true
*The Simp vs. The Succubus* 😆🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
The simp sees no wrong in women,
The succubus sees no wrong in her actions 💯
Speak On It!!!!
That's real
😂 Facts
Derrick's a "simp," but he has one thing over this K chica: logic. The radio show host used logic as well, but home girl just doubled down with the BFF.
Exactly
He was cheating at this point. And still had the audacity defend “good men like him”. A whole con artist
this is true however he was speaking facts even though he does not live what he preaches and got super exposed
Very nasty work!!
That was tough to watch. The older I get the more I realize how few people take accountability for their own actions. It truly is rare for someone to be open to owning the consequences of their decisions.
Yes indeed!!! Accountability is rare
@D'Crypto Space you must be a bLaCk FeMaLe
D'Crypto Space No no no. Cancel Culture is the result of a group of people not taking accountability for their actions who also end up disallowing other people to take accountability for their actions.
Seems to me that most women are the ones who are most likely to deny accountability. "Turn it over to Jesus" and "God's got it" is par for the course.
This chick is blaming men for her actions in choosing who she has been with. Other women are the same as she. No one is coming up to her telling her about their issues.
And then, if I state that maybe women need to make better choices in men, Derrick feels as if it is a trick and I'm trying to get with the woman I'm giving information to.
No matter what we do as black men, we get it from both sided. That is why I ignore 99% of people because they think ass-backwards like these bastards up on this show.
1000 percent true
K. Michelle DOESN'T WANT things to change. Nor does she want to be responsible for her choices...
Stages of Mental illness!!!!
@Alarak The Highlord Absolutely.. they have little to no accountability at all
Doesn’t want things to change?? Like we’re supposed to predict the future that the man is a dog?
Actually she’s standing by black men when she shouldn’t be. White men treat you better!!!!
Alarak The Highlord lmao we don’t come back!!!! That shit is a myth!!! Ask JLo and Mariah and Hallie Berry!!! All tried it and never went back
Girl, bye. Quit with all that drag. You operate from a position of “this bad thing HAPPENED to me”...no self accountability , that’s why it will keep happening. Grow up.
A woman speaking rationally kudos
Thank you for saying that!
Loool TRUTH!
yes, she sound like a little girl. take time out to be single & learn the fault in your self as well. you will find yourself then accepting nontoxic men bc you begin to know your worth & what you wont tolerate
True.....
She said she's not submitting then turns around and said "you supposed to be the head of the household" smh 🤦🏿♂️
She's dumb... I never saw the big deal with her. I mean, she got hella curves, but her face is very hard to look at.
@@KtotheG the ass wasnt hers. She borrowed it from the doctors 😂😂
Yea that's most modern woman's logic, at least most that I've met.
😂😂😂, mental illness is in full affect!!!!
@@vincentsullivan9120 Right..Agree..❣🥂🍾
Mental health should be the number one issue to discuss when it comes to these relationships
Agreed.
Agreed. I laughed the first time I heard it, but PTSD from bad relationships is a real thing.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK 🙌🏾
Yes, narcissism, sociopathy, lack of empathy, and superiority complexes are major factors of failed relationships are on both sides of the spectrum.
A1 💯
She always blaming stuff on MEN have you ever thought you the toxic one in your own life 🤷🏾♀️
Its a classic game of "blame & deflect" females like her play
#sotypical
A Black woman taking accountability and admitting she’s wrong? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Good luck with that.
Never waste your attention on women like this.
She's full of shit...
She's a bitter bitch.
NEVER!
Too late... I clicked on the video :(
Agreed
Fast Forward, Derrick Jaxn has made her point valid
This young lady is clearly wounded. And bleeding all over the place.
But she's still speaking plenty of truth about men.
@@teegee771 she's speaking from a wounded place. So her words can't be properly weighed
@@teegee771 I would solely recommend you start to take accountability for yourself and your actions if u r attracting men like this. It always takes TWO!!!
@@legendfamilyvalues6483 what does this have to do with me? I'm a grown 42yo woman and I'm doing great.. You take your own advice. I don't listen to strangers. And further advice, don't think you know a person because of a response. OK.
@78mfleet Wtf my statement have to do with my decision making of men. Like I said! You don't know me so speak about what you know and not make an ASSumption. Some of the things she say about men are true and I don't think I need to elaborate what exactly I mean. It doesn't mean it's true for all! I owe none of you an explanation.
K. Michelle: all men are bad people
Big E (caller): you (K. Michelle) made bad choices in men
K. Michelle: you don’t know me
Me: K. Michelle, you don’t know all the millions of men you call bad people.
female logic
Thx for the comments
Exactly, walking contradiction.
Ravenlife 1372 you trying to speak logic to a bitter female? Good luck
Then proceeds to say the caller isnt a good man.
"I'm only submitting to my bag and my kids!"
Guess what? Both of those will eventually leave.
😂😂😂😂😂
A man will leave too! Nothing is guaranteed except for The Most High Yah!
Sherion Clarke typical Black female response haha don’t work on yourself just leave it up to god right? Lol
Preach
@@unpopularopinion149 very intelligent
So Derrick has just proven k michelle right at this point
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i know right
When she admitted that she's traditionally gone for thugs, it completely negated her argument that "men are not good people". It seems like she's avoided the good ones, and in turn, she's gotten exactly whom she's pursued over the years. You can't get a gourmet steak if you're only browsing the Mickey D's menu.
Great point.
BINGO!!
tincredible
Right yo dumb ass choosin these niggas🤣🤣
Facts
This comment should be highlighted.
Derrick jaxn finally got a taste of the type of women he panders too 😂😂
Lol no, this the type who think he’s crazy and caters to “pick me’s”
Other Guy Exactly!
Not at all he tells women about their toxic behavior and was saying it here.. he panders to women who want more or say they want more
@@kaylahoward4671 amen
First time I heard that fool not completely blame men...EVER!
And how you a relationship guru but single? That's like taking credit building advice from someone who's score starts with a 5.
I DONT THINK SHE NEEDS A MAN SHE NEEDS A THERAPIST
True true
Yes! She shows signs of a personality disorder the way she misprocesses information
I’m embarrassed for her... Yikes! Please get therapy, do the internal work because it impacts her on so many levels. Sad
Exactly
Since when then OPINIONS MEAN YOU NEED THERAPY, OR you have a DISORDER.
Imagine the type of "advice" she's giving the women who approach her. SMH.
😂
Caller gave her the truth that got her in her feelings. Radio host and Jaxn ain't did shit but sugar coating smh
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It cant be good advise
I swear I said the same thing!! And you'd be Surprised at how many mothers raise their daughters with this type of attitude and mindset..smdh! And then we wonder why women behave and act the way they do these days.. there are beginning to be little to no women worthy of marriage to be honest! Because of the way they are out here moving.. and worse most dont have a chance unless they can fight against the toxic indoctrination they were deal through their childhood and teachings.. imagine her raising a daughter... that's some scary shit and poor who ever dates that little girl later in life with someone that bitter in their ear everyday of their life.. she is everything a man will and should stay away from yet she's confused!???👀👀👀 she is the meaning of delusional in the flesh! Sadly to say
She calls out the problem at the get go,
"Lack of self esteem"
Kemikazi __ no not lack of self esteem, its a lack of self accountability. She aint looking at this dudes that she is entertaining. So once she realizes she is letting these same type dudes come in her mix, she can fix that
Right. People often speak the truth initially, and then add that “but.” Everything after that “but” is the list of lies they tell themselves that obscure the truth. So rinse and repeat all the shit you do wrong.
That holier than thou attitude ain't lack of self esteem. It's too much.
the opposite. too much ego for the most shallow things.
@@kalstonii it’s both💀
K-Michelle is NUTS and she's so angry she's not even listening!
Exactly, exactly. She is nuts and to be honest with you those men in that studio knows it but won't say shit about it because they know she will show her natural ass and take it out on them. That is why they where essentially kissing her ass and trying to make sure they weren't the reason she goes off on them.
I noticed that too, it's irritating
@@BuckFutterd *FACTS* 💯💯💯
Shes a damn fool.....
@@BuckFutterd And Derrick is a good guy, I love his relationship nuggets of wisdom. I think both sexes have encountered some folks that have taken advantage, but there's not a man that has left me in the emotional state of K-Michelle. Thank God, because she's sad to watch!
DEAR WOMEN, IT IS NOT A MAN'S JOB TO "CLIMB YOUR WALL"
FIX YOUR OWN PAIN
What if the man causes the pain. Most men are predators you are what you attract also.
@@loyal_cake9121 If Im not the one who caused her pain I'm not accepting it. Im not paying the tab for someone else. Women have walls up because they have an inability to allow good men into their lives so they just go to extremes and block everyone out.
Yeh I feel that. A lot of people need to take better care of themselves then they wouldn't have those issues with trust, neglect and whatever else that may hinder you from having successful, healthy, safe and durable relationships. Being and living as an example of what you want in a person. >Reflection< mirror what you wish to have hence law of attraction. Why get into a committed relationship when you don't trust to begin with like jumping in the deep end and can't swim!
@@LordWinter Well said!! This person gets it!!
@@loyal_cake9121 but that's it right there in your question, the man who caused her pain is the one she needs to address. We can't go through life charging our current partners for the crimes of the one or ones who came before them.
Damn she was so right about this dude It's like she knew his exact story of what he was doing to his wife.
Agreed!!!
But shes acting like all men cheat and women never cheat
@@35rich74 shut up …….women do cheat but we’re talking about men if you want to hear how women cheat go to a podcast talking about women. 🙄
@@35rich74 women do but way less unlike men portray bc women actually like men and willing to give men a chance. Women have loved men, in and out. When he's up and women loved men dead broke. Let's face it. Men don't care about women. Derrick left his wife for his side. Let's be real.
@@loveyb9090 lol y’all literally have more access to sex and cheating then any average man I probably would’ve agreed with you years ago, but this is 2023 and you just pandering so you don’t have to seek the therapy you need
Big E gave her the real and she still ain’t want it
She was TRIGGERED by the truth
hell yea. She got mad af outta nowhere lol
JoeJoeRunya facts lol
Exactly bro bitter asf
That's how women are.
As soon as you tell them about themselves they go loco
That caller was stating facts!!!! K Michelle you’re going way overboard and you know it😂🤣🤦🏽♀️
He told her, she knew a man for 20 years and just now got with him, meaning he was there all along and she passed on him...who else did she pass on that are no longer even available anymore! Only a poor choice of man is going to pass through your std walls to see what else you don’t have to offer but misery and mistreatment.
YES INDEED.
If men in her life are the clowns then she is the three ringed circus...
LMAO
@willie boyland Truth
#Facts
Speak🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
She’s the constant in all of the relationships.
This aged well. K Michelle dont seem so crazy after all... Black women be saying shit and everyone looks at them crazy until we actually see what they talking about. And a year later, we see it lmfao this comment section is a perfect example.
I was thinking the same thing he was trying to make her think that he wasn't that type of guy. The lies
Kevin samuels was right as well About black women wear black women don't listen and he was right Derek Jackson can't save these women
she said herself in the last video that she cheated too. So this "aha" moment all these women in the comments saying, ain't what y'all think it is lol
Maybe she’s not hearing the Great relationship stories because only batterd women come to her shows
100% facts, her target group is totally on the other end of the spectrum... She needs one of the keys to life, some balance!!!
That part.
That's the point of her show. The problem is that she projects it onto the rest of society
Like attracts like.
Caller: "Man I had to wake up and listen to these battered women."
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I dont know if I wanna cry or laugh at that!😢😢😢🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😭😭
I almost flung my wig! 🤣🤣🤣😫
His dismissive statement proves her point.
@@learningearning8385 How?
No it doesnt. It was simply a joke in poor taste... funny as hell though and poignant When You observe Kay Michelle and many women like her only ever see themselves as the victim.
She is done.. This why good men dont hang around who would want this attitude around.
That's what women don't understand who wants a woman they got to argue with all the time or you come home and have to deal with her who wants that then they try to shame you oh your weak for not putting up with it. No it's not weak only a fool will deal with any woman like that
Her attitude & mouth is why she got "dealt with" by the men who she was with . . .
#FACTS
I would block her number...and get a restraining order against her.
Toxic
Well this aged well 🤣 K Michelle is SO right.
😂😂😂
Same reason why I came hear😭
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K Michelle is so disrespectful!!!! And she is wounded, no man will ever break through that steel wall!
She's damaged goods and needs to just be alone.
These men are all assholes.
Debborah Cooper I pray one day you don't box the millions of us you dont know in with the few that have hurt you. And I pray you are blessed
@ousmane barry when does personal responsibility come in to play. You choose niggas and you going to get nigga shit. 90% is her.
@@757Automatic please don't don't pray for these ignorant loud ass sad ass bitches.
Gives herself to hood dude but good man has to break down brick walls
And I never understood that. If you want to put those walls up that's fine, but realize that you are the architect and you have to break those walls down.
@@sid2daknee lol, that was deep!
REAL TALK.......smh. but it's all the man's fault. And WHO did she choose?
I think their are a lot of women who do go for better because deep down they don't believe they are worthy or able to be a good woman to a good man... Because the dont know self love BUT alot of men do take advantage of that fact
Super19900991 she needs sincere self reflection
K.Michelle is clearly hurt and broken in so many pieces.
She said if you cant pay my bills then obviously all she sees a mans worth is how much money he has and that makes her a bad person. This is why i don't think women are good people. You will leave him if he has no money he left you when your health was bad.
She is quite busy being defensive, that she isn't listening.
True
She had the NERVE to tell the caller that HIS tone was inappropriate?! SMH.
@You deserve to be happy 😆stfu really? You got issues
Every time I run into these type of broads now that I'm a little older and wiser, I'm always like, Nope, nope, I'm good. These women are so broken up by hood dudes. It's nothing but headaches and constant drama with them
correct. yes young man run. I tell my son to avoid these women too. don't try to prove you can save them. it will only stress you & bring you down to a point sex is the only good thing they offer
Maybe she needs to choose better men.
Nah, women like this NEVER take responsibility for ANYTHING.
TempeSoldier123 #facts it’s always someone else’s fault with the victim mentality
Exactly. This has been my response for years. You can't pass on a Man, choose a Male of a Man's age then, when he does what he does, you say "Men ain't sh!t." You never chose a Man.
@Saunders Maxine you misunderstood his comment. You see in the dating game women make the choices if they're going to be with somebody or not . There are a lot of bad men out there not a lot of women choose ... most women do choose the bad boy. And to sit up here and label "every man has no good" ? Says exactly what we've been saying and if you sit up here if you keep picking mr. Wrong then that is your fault don't label every single one of us has "No Good Man" that discriminating against the male gender. That means the male children in your family automatically deemed not to be any good. It's who she picks it's who she's attracted to that's the problem she needs to change what she goes for and who she's attracted to that's in her head she has a bad choice of men it's not the other way around because last I checked there are a lot of good men out there it's just that they're now have the bad boy image and there are women out there that are not attracted to guys that do not have the bad boy image. She has a problem in her head and she needs to fix it Chillicothe psychiatrist or therapist it down talk about what she's attracted to this one is sick and that's what feminism does to women sometimes they have everything the way you want it. Sometimes it's not what you want it's what you need that makes your life better.
Truth
95% of women. Don’t take responsibility for their actions that’s the sad part
We need to raise our sons to stay away from women like this.
Majority of black men's are raised by a single mom with fake hair just like her" that's why the killing in black communities are high💯
Exactly I don't know what went on in her life but to generalize men as no good is foolish when women are equally to blame as we are
@Katie Cunn yeah you right, because they was raised by a single mom with fake hair just like her💯
@Katie Cunn 😢😢😢
Katie Cunn
A present mom can be worst than an absent father
Derrick proved her right. She wasnt bitter but telling the truth about alot of them. No empathy and lack of compassion. Its crazy how ppl think she is bitter but its been like that 4 plus generations. Side babies and public humiliation.
Exactly‼️💯👏🏾 that’s why I fucked with her honesty & bluntness
Her hat was facts. She the Bad Guy. Truth hurt. She was on point.
But u choose to open and keep opening ya legs for these bum n!gg@$ 😮😮😮😮
She is severely damaged and needs time to start healing.
She's ruined there's no coming back.she's gone.
@@harryking4007 majority of are FEMALES gone, no coming back 💯
@@kingrollo8199 LOL this is true!
With all the anger and defensiveness..take your money and go to therapy. Smh
one sided loyalty is for suckas she talking to YOU too. Psycho. People are weird.
Lol seems you have the same problem. Lack of knowledge or ability to communicate. Good luck with life
Just talk to a good genuine friend. Therapy is just talking. Why pay 600 dollars an hour when all it takes is 60 minutes an hour.
@@reffa2858
Very true..it helps when you are someone who can take in advice from regular people but she has proven to not. So, maybe when she understands and feels like this is a professional..she could trust them enough to open up, hear them, and ultimately heal. She has the money...she can afford help..lol
That energy is bad @k Michelle
She's hurt and feeding her demographic. Hurt ppl not only hurt ppl but feed the cycle.
well put.
She needs to heal, she is broken, she might even need some therapy. Men do the same thing when they are broken..they bash all women. She needs to be alone for until she heals.
Derrick Jaxn just got quiet like, "Yeah I'm done with her." She don't LISTEN.
Big facts she doesn't
Talking to a brick wall. Imagine her being your life partner.
She will NEVER have or be anyone's life partner!!!! This video was 17 minutes long and I was sick of her by the 4 minute mark so that being said no man is ever going to sign up for a lifetime hitch with that looney ass she wolf. Trust me.
Andromedon Same thing I was thinking. If you don’t have the ability to look inner or be accountable for you thoughts and actions you will lose. I see no space for a man to even compromise with her. She’s married to that negativity. 🤦🏾♀️
@MelvinDiggsIsChillin ahahahahah Same here... Couldn't agree more with you.. I feel for her but first of all for her future mate... She is so angry and agressive. That is really not feminine energy at all.... I sincerely feel for her she seems so unfulfilled
Absolutely not.
@Love 23AmazedThank you for your speech which will change my life.
The caller was dead on point! They def negated his comments
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Naw he was generalizing too
Danny White facts
Jovonte Arnold sometimes you have to take responsibility for the company you keep or in her case entertain..especially when her outcome is the same every time,
She said “ that’s real but guess what” meaning you agreed with the caller and he was 100 percent right so she tried to play jokes on him, typical girl. He right so let’s make jokes. But she’s in a relationship so you hate all men but you still got a man, makes sense
Wow! K was talking to that exact man she was speaking about.
It all made sense when she said she was messed up in the head...She’s still messed up in the head💯
Damaged Goods: Return To Sender.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's the truth
..that's what's wrong
😂 😂 😂
@Kimmminem West she's judging ALL men based on the BAD men that SHE chose to deal with- REPEATEDLY. She's not taking any accountability for HER shortsighted actions, and that's a bad look at her age
@Kimmminem West
1. She keeps saying all men but the 1%, which according to her is Jesus and Obama ONLY, so try again.
2. Why can't she use the experience of some females who AREN'T broken down and brokenhearted?
And she chose every one of those men she dealt with. Look in the mirror.
Lmaoooooo She tells the caller "you dont know me" but makes a generalized statement about half the population she has never met
K. Michelle so toxic, she made Derrick Jackson support men for the 1st time he started doing videos in his car 😁
lol hahahaha
Lmao that is kind of funny
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣dawg
Brian Johnson 😂😂😂😂😂
I'm a female and I think K Michelle is just bitter
A Lannister pays his debts How can she move on from this?
She way pass bitter. She is seriously damage. And no way a man that is good comes in her life because he see and hear what she saying. A good man would not want her in his life.
A Lannister pays his debts I’m a female and she was making me mad like I was a dude. How disrespectful and foolish.
isytown in order from anybody to move on from toxic relationships. You have to take a step back and look at what part you played in it and what you won’t do going forward. She mentioned men cheating. If a man cheats and cheats and cheats and you continue to be with him, he won’t change. He will continue to cheat on you because he knows you will forgive him and take him back.
Christine Idokogi right. Her pov is so limited and narrow minded
She just showed her ignorance...... interviewers did a great job questioning her bs
She just speaking how she feels. How is it ignorant? She's been hurt a number of times by countless men. She's hurting. Bitter. Again, giving her opinion. I dnt necessarily agree 100% but I understand how she feels🤷
@@MrsBryant1024 She negated everything she stated when she admitted she went after those bad boys that don't represent that supposed "1% of men are good." Don't get mad you're attracting bums if you choose to walk down alleyways.
@Ash Wednesday there are men around the world who are there taking the best care of their wives and being who a husband and father should be - Men are natural protectors. Based on your style of argument.
News papers never go into all those homes to document these normal men, but news of abuse spreads from the ends of the world like wild fire. Men are not natural predators, your opinion is your opinion you know.😄. Except there's a gene in men that codes for natural violence which is absent in female genes. To test your assumption, when you have a baby boy, train him under the best care and company, if he turns out to beat women up or mess them up emotionally for no explainable reason, then your loud statement holds water. Till then, I'll hold on to my own opinion too cos judging from the men produced in my lineage I think wife abuse is a myth, of which I know it's not. Hehehehehe. 50-50 till then.
@@MrsBryant1024 She was hurt by the men that SHE chose. None of those low vibrational men put a gun to her head. She was a willing participant. She has to take responsibility and learn the lessons needed in order to ATTRACT the good men she wants. She saw the red flags, she just chose to ignore them.
@@sid2daknee Again I understand what she said. I too have chosen the wrong types of men in the past before I met my husband. Nobody wants to be hurt. I just get what she is saying.
Derrick proved K Michelle right 😒
I like K Michelle but she is deeply wounded and needs some counseling. She's generalizing all men based on the bad men she has attracted that hurt her.
She’s so set on proving her point & being on the defense, trying to get through to her is pointless. Which is why she’s in the predicament she’s in.
This is typical behavior for most women. They argue to respond/win some game they've made up, illogical, and emotional.
Leave em be!
Naw she just know that men ain't shit....by the time a women is 30 yrs of age she should no that it's In man's nature to cheat
Types like her listen to respond, not to understand. It's truly sad that they overlook the good ones because they are "lame" or "not they type".
I think she did very well. It’s hard to hear someone give you definitive advice without knowing all the facts. None of them have taken the time to listen to her explain in depth all her relationships. So how can they have a complete solution or opinion about it. She took what resonated with her when it did. But, she can’t take it all because they don’t know it all.
ijugreen I respect your opinion. However, I have to respectfully disagree she is damaged her philosophies, perspective & thought processes are stagnant. As soon as she opened her mouth all the issues she has with men was confirmed when she said “Everything that I’ve gone through has to do with lack of SELF-esteem & men being in the middle”. There are issues possibly traumas she needs to address internally.
The caller hit her where it hurt. And she couldn't take it.
The caller was trash too, good is subjective
Hideaway Hotel Music Videos
Is that you Kimberly?
She hit him with "you want a cookie, you want a happy meal". The reality tv K.Michelle came out and disrespect too.
THIZZAVELI lmao nope, the guy was too loud to begin and stating nope facts. Let’s be clear if he’s a good man he’s good to everyone not just the people the people he finds special or it attached too. He got on the phone talking about “battered women” as if he knew her personal story. And if in fact she battered why shame her and other women for it. Can someone point up what he said that was so meaningful. Black folks love raising mediocrity.
Hideaway Hotel Music Videos so it’s ok for her to yell all in the mic but the mans “tone” was harsh.... which is subjective in itself. My BM is just like her and you can’t win. If you talk to her with respect she will try to run over you, if u talk to her like a real one (like the caller did) you are mean 🤦🏽♂️. And the part that was so real was him proving that these “women” overlook good guys to go get smashed n dashed by the JR Smith’s of the world 😂 then come back to the good guy from high school 20 years later after she been used and abused. Y’all will never admit that part
K Michelle, do you really think a woman would walk up and start telling you how good there man treats them? Of course they only come to you with drama, because y'all can relate.
Derrick Jaxson is not a fool. He has mastered the art of being a toxic black women whisperer. (Please ladies, if this comment doesn't apply to you let it fly.) Its unfortunate K. Michelle is her own greatest obstacle from happiness but she doesn't see it or refuses to acknowledge that.
lmao @ "toxic black women whisperer." yo that's a classic right there!
Nice!!! I hope you don't mind that I use that!!! I hate on Derek Jaxn, but only because I didn't think of the idea of telling women what they want to hear and getting paid for it like he does. Make no mistake he does not practice what he preaches; I guarantee that he wouldn't touch the women that he panders to with a 10 foot pole.
@@KelAda44 nah you don't have to hate on him for that. i guarantee you that if right now you started a channel pandering to these dumb broads, you WILL make money. try it and see
these females nowadays just can't get enough of feeling themselves
Erik Killmonger exactly
SOMETHING ABOUT DUDE HAS RUBBED ME THE WRONG FOR YEARS... LIKE WHERE IS YOUR QUEEN KING? YOU GOT ALL THIS WISDOM BUT WHERE IS THE WOMAN THAT IS RECEIVING OF IT
That caller started saying too much real shit for k Michelle lmao 😂😂
Stephon J right you saw how she couldn’t even respond like an adult talking bout some damn “big e do you want a happy meal” dafuq bitch he dropping drip on ya silly ass but she too defensive to even recognize it
He was too real for all of them...lol...i wanted to hear more
He definitely struck a nerve. She said bring ya bass down but she was the one getting loud with him. She's pathetic
@@JRO.86 You know dude was right by her response. He was exactly right.
She wasn't ready because she was gettin real defensive lol
She’s definitely bitter and hasn’t realize ownership goes on both ends.
Let her stew in her hatred. Can’t help everyone.
FoodLover101Paradise you definitely hit the nail on the head,you can tell She has deep rooted Bitterness towards Men also I agree that ownership goes both ways blessings to you My Black Queen💯
There are no lies told here...
@Paul Lunsford sometimes, that is conditioning on that person's part. Sometimes, we are acclimated to our scenarios, that we have no knowledge of anything else out there.
It is very much a cycle pattern, and it is difficult to break, unless we are shown otherwise. Sometimes, even after those three or four "baby daddies", we get tired and feel there is more of an outlet.
It is not my position to judge where a person is in their life. I just put it out there that they receive a positive outcome, no matter how long it takes. Sometimes it takes longer for some than others.
Chile, I feel the same way, she needs to recognize she is apart of her failed relationships
These type of chicks don't want a good dude! I've seen it time and time again!! They RUN from good dudes! " He's corny" "He's boring "
They love drama! The Pookies, the June Bugs, the jailbirds..
GTFOH!!
I rescued a woman from her abusive boyfriend and she went right back to him.
BKSTANDARD88 same shit happened to me
BKSTANDARD88
Been there. Them chicks love toxicity I don’t get it.
Very true
"He's too nice"
K Michelle looks weird...Almost looks like she's wearing a mask.
These celebrities do wear masks. They are not who you think they are.
Monster face...
Facts!!
That's why she's wearing that dumbass hat..she does look hideous
Joker face
Anyone peeped that she’s in a relationship for 3 years in with a guy she’s known for 20?
She’s really just pissed that the men SHE ACTUALLY WANTS don’t want to do right by her.
No one actually dates people they’ve been friends with for that long unless they are just settling 🤷🏽♂️
They're having twins via surrogate..so she probably dont want to get married because her bag bigger. Mary j blige learned hard way.
Most folks settle at some point, usually when they mature or get tired and lazy.
AMPM Ri most people are going to settle the way these expectations are set up.
Special Melanin Star eh, bag size don’t really matter when you’re at an income that makes it virtually impossible to go broke, if that’s the case her bag size makes her unmarriagable. She just flat out don’t find him attractive. She’s known this dude for 20 years and is only dating him because the men she wanted just wanted to hit it and quit it. We see this all the time regardless of bag size, the only difference is since she possibly makes more she can afford to act out while women who are with men they don’t want act submissive just to have a place to stay.
Special Melanin Star
You missed his point completely.....
What does her money have to do with her keeping this dude on standby for 20 plus years?
She played around with dudes that DIDN’T WANT HER...and payed the consequences.
She wanted dreads, hood, and grills; and she got just that, while her now husband was waiting for 20 years.
Shes gonna ruin that man and drive him to insanity.
Derick Jaxn is not a certified therapist. Everything he says is his opinion, some are good but some are very bad.
@StunniGod 666 I'm a black man idiot.
smoovechi1 , that may be true but he was speaking FACTS on this topic
You know how many times he gets caught contradicting himself in videos he'll say one thing any turnaround next video on contradict what he just said and yeah he's not a great therapist he's not even a a good life coach he gets paid by telling women what they want to hear he's good at it as long as he's bashing a men and telling a woman that she's never wrong they're going to continue listening and he knows this and he's getting paid to do this
Derrick is a simp
most are very bad
🤣🤣🤣🤣 This didn't age well. Ya'll mad at K. Michelle. Time exposed Derrick Jaxn 😂😂😂
She sounds like someone I wouldn't want to date.
Lol..ditto
UA-cam University thats what people keep telling her. Her bitterness and resentment makes her indirectly push away a majority of guys, including potential good guys
A blk woman would call you, a weak man bc you think like that😂😂😂 equality. I know i love it
@@poweredbygarri1 Thats not true. Im married to a black woman, and she doesnt think like that. Maybe you just dont like Black Women?
She sound silly as hell. You attract what you are. She's going to continue to be miserable.
Water seeks its own level.
Facts she is a toxic person that attracts other toxic people she damaged goods.
No some rich women attrack broke ones, some timid women attrack agressive abusers, some straight women attrack downlow men. Sometimes opposites attrack to your personality and see something in you that helps them.
They're talking in circles without accomplishing a damn thing.
Rite this shit is trash lol
Yeah people that are looking are looking for solutions to live out
@@kp2855 what opposing solution was either party open to implementing?
@@mrrdw77 I was agreeing with. I didn't here them speak on any solutions. Just talk
She not even answering the questions. She just goes straight into emotional mode
Nothing she said actually made sense. It’s all emotional garbage
That’s a woman
A S not all women are like that. Only toxic ones.
Monique that’s what you all say-most cannot think and process information logically, and most think they are the exception lol
nick dunn hurt and anger is talking
@@SkiMoni98 " I'm not the same as all women"- all women.
The dude who was the first caller was speaking STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!
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I like how the bitch tried to bash the caller for calling her out
Uncut 100% Raw Facts
A lot of women will sleep around with bad guys and once they are done doing that and they're in their late 30s or early 40s they'll marry any beta simp that they see can take care of them and use them as a retirement plan.
So true
A good man would stay clear of this broken woman. She will never be happy.
As a self certified internet psychologist I say she suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Lol dawg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
Alpha Views facts she is bitter and doesn’t want to see the God in anything
I hateeeee youuu!!!💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂💀💀💀😂😂💀💀😂😂😂💯
Self certified? Awesome! 👍🏿
Lawd! he just said self certified internet psychologist!!! 😂😂😂
If men are not good people, then why has she had multiple cosmetic surgeries to impress them?
Stone Cold she’s a clown 🤣🤣🤣
Stone Cold facts
😐😐😐😐😐😶🤐
Facts 👍
The Armours to upstage other women in their competition to impress and catch a man
Derrick sat up there and pretending like she wasnt talkn bout the likes of him 🤣
Her "wall" will keep her in a painful prison.
@@thankfulblessed3043 another way of saying Father Time
BIG Facts ✊🏾✊🏾💯💯
Good
She’ll end up alone and be even more angry about men...Vicious circle of toxic feminism
Naaa plenty betas for that bitch
This is a sad example of why I cut these types completely off
Really sad💯💯💯
Real talk 💯
Well looks like k.michelle was on to something after all ... 1 yr later... Derrick has gotten exposed for cheating on his own wife with multiple women ... Smh ....
Soon as she admitted that she's messed up in the head her mic should have been cut
She needs healing
That is her goal until she turns 63 yrs old and ready to find a good man to help her with her future cats
I liked that she admitted that there was a pattern rather than one particular man that caused damage over time. That honesty is super important.
@@BlackHawk0674 No one can say for sure, but I'd like to think that she is doing like many financially responsible people and preparing for retirement through several investments. Also, the lonely cat-lady trope is rather old...I've seen a few viable alternatives for women being cared for in old age outside of relying on one man to save for two retirements (which has a statistically low probability anyway). I mean, technically, all married women need to plan to have enough to live for the 10-15 years they typically outlive their husbands.
Red Pill Academy 😂😂😂
She’s makes poor choices and blames the many.
Women : I pay my own bills a man can't tell me nothing
Men: good luck with that
Watch Remedy h
@Tough Love and miserable like K. Michelle. It's called compromise. You can be the bread winner but it's called compromise for a healthy relationship. If money defines your relationship .....you will never find happiness.
@Tough Love no they're not. You can't do all of those things successfully without a ton of help.You definitely can't raise a family. You can do what black ppl have been doing for generations... surviving.
That's just producing more broken ppl with issues.
@Josh Johnson absolutely right but screams they're independent gtfo
*WHERE ALL THE GOOD MENS AT???*
This is awkward watching now that the back story has come out about Derrick
She was on point. Bet she sitting back like 💅🏽 “I tried to tell y’all.”
@@mistressjuicygallore1252 right
@@goddesstreasure he out here writing checks his ass can’t cash.
@You deserve to be happy, we need to hear from her 🤣😂
@@mistressjuicygallore1252 hell yea. She need to release a song rn too lol
Dude should of told her “I got a wife who fixes my meals, I don’t need no happy meals” 🤷🏾♂️
I knowwww!! She was very disrespectful. What he was saying had nothing to do with her response.
BLACK AMERICAN FEMALES are like dueds with WIGS
"Happy meals", who said that? Y"all trippin.
Munny Mark What Big E. should’ve said is “DON’T TALK TO ME ABOUT COOKIES AND HAPPY MEALS WHEN YOU’VE BEEN FUCKING FROM THE DOLLAR MENU ALL THESE YEARS. And nothing to show for it but surgery scars”
She’s too masculine. She over talks when confronted with logic. She uses shaming language to deflect. Inconsistently delivers content.
She's trash herself, she lied about dealing with domestic violence to ruin her ex boyfriend's life.
miguel santiago-davis yet y’all still chase black women, so what does that say about you?
ousmane barry that’s why I avoid all females with daddy issues
There was not a lick of logic spoken from one of those three men. They said what they THINK to protect their male egos, they did not address the behaviors that she spoke of that men do to women worldwide. They should have had me on there with her.
@@Debsterism so are all women perfect? Are there not some wretched spawns out here that call themselves women? Aren't there conniving, manipulative and delusional one that blame everyone else for their problems except themselves? The men in this video made excellent points!!!! Only women that weren't truly listening would say the foolishness you said!!!
She’s in attack mode against a man that ain’t even do shit to her lol. 🗣 Iylana
Her on Iyanla would be a sight to see. I'd have my popcorn
ReesePiece88 😂😂😂
Man she needs Iyanla FOR REAL!
This
Iylana can’t fix that
When women act like cheating is gender exclusive tho... 🤦🏾♂️
I think they are slightly ...autistic
K Michelle is lost!! Someone took her heart and shredded it. She NEVER got over it. Now she's generalizing all men!! And she can't see it. Poor thing. She needs therapy.
She need a white guy.......💯
As a man, her toxic energy and masculinity is a huge turn off
Too many women acting masculine these days, they don't realize how much of a turn off that is
Can u explain masculine energy to me???
Pat Adams Amen
@@thesummrbaby the opposite of feminine, alot of women take being feminine as a sign of being weak, so they feel they need that extra edge, that's when they indoctrinate feminism, taking on a more masculinity while sacrificing they femininity at the same time.
Who wants to be better man with an attitude like that
She's damaged and defeated. There's no hope for a healthy relationship with a chick like that.
Kelvin Washington exactly
Whelp! One year later, I guess Derrick J. proves K. Michelle’s point.
Exactly
LMAOOOOO Word.
Facts!
Smh she'll will always be single with that small mind 😴😬 i feel sorry for her .
I feel bad for the man she is with
@@grovilite4220 20 years! 😆
I don't
Yes she is hurt and want to hold on to the hurt.
TTaylor I think singleness would be a remedy in her case...at least until she heals.
I think the same way she has stated it's not her job to be a man's mother, it's not a man's job to be her therapist. I hope good men stay away from women like this.
She didn't ask anyone to be her therapist but they are saying a woman needs to make a man better...
Why? She's not his mom! 🤷
You also have to be accountable for the guys you choose!!!! Don’t expect a “Good Guy” out of someone that displays Suge Knight tendencies!!!!
I thought of her straight away. She was so right