My father used to say, "Sometimes, it's better to say "No comment."" Women only want the truth they can handle. This is why we can't open up to women about all our vulnerabilities and fears. We'll lose their respect. They'll throw it back in our faces during an argument. Be very mindful of what you tell your woman.
@MrsWitherspoon yeah right. Just shows that women love lies more than the truth. After the truth, the looks, digging stick and money doesn't matter. Only her feelings. Goodbye and goodriddens. 🙄
@@MrsWitherspoonThen she would have never married him…people keep saying you should have told her the truth up front when they know there are very few women that would allow this without them getting something in return…most women are going to say well if you can do it then I can too…
@brianscott3503 Why get married in the first place if you want multiple women? You men complain about the divorce courts being biased against men, but then get married and do everything in your power to motivate a decent woman to divorce you lol. Asinine.
Ain't no way you think a guy is suppose to not cheat if you let yourself go and won't do nothing about it. Even if you have a good man, he's going to eventually get tired of looking at you whale around. I've seen this happen in many instances. Yes, the guys in these situations stayed active.
Society has taught men to look at their feet and be quiet when knowing you’re dealing with a hyena or the smartest person in the world. Debates or exchange of ideas. To be helpful should never go above level of 5 volume. And debates should be about learning. When talking to the average know it all. The listening is to respond. The responding is about shaming tactics. The learning is nonexistent. Translation. Stay quiet. Look at your feet. Get back on your grind. Make your money. Leave the hyenas where they stand. They’ve already shown you their intelligence levels. Back away. Call it a day.
7:42 bless her heart. Here’s the scenario: you’re married to a woman who consistently withholds sex. You’ve talked and gone to couple’s counseling and so on. Nothing works. Now you know if you leave, you’re gonna take a major financial hit so you decide to delegate the sexual part of your relationship to another woman. Does that man not have integrity?
I am usually at odds with Anton and his opinions, but he was 100% on point with this one. Women like to believe that they're prepared for the truth, but you can't even tell them that they're not a 10.
Started telling my now ex-wife the truth about the direction of our family, and everything went off the rails or so seemed. The mental breakdown that her family had as a result of her telling them my thoughts exposed to her the type of people I had been telling her they were from the beginning. I now have ex in laws and am no longer welcome anywhere near them. This has actually done me the greatest favor because now I literally don't have to see or hear from them ever again. On top of that, we are rebuilding our relationship because she now understands what im trying to do by keep our family together. Gents, stop being afraid to have the tough conversations because you are afraid you might lose her. You losing her can happen at any time, so what makes you any different?
Anton right again modern women not built to have totally honest conversations in marriage. Because women are emotional and the laws incentive women to divorce me.
@@th3azscorpio No I'll date women over seas. Because women in America are masculine and emotional and usually like you over 30 bisexual and a man hater
Anton is right 💯!!!! I use to lie when I was younger now I’m a little older I tell women straight up what is take it or leave it. If she leaves I’m like next ! 🤷🏽♂️
Just being attractive for your man is sometimes not enough…As a young man I liked being with a variety of women it didn’t matter how fine she was…when men have options oftentimes they get bored with chicks and just want a variety of women…but understand it’s not just about sex it’s really that one woman just doesn’t satisfy you time wise, intellectually, sense of humor, femininity, support etc. So you find yourself dating more than one woman because you enjoy the variety and because you can.
@@johnthompkins9593 Wanting to be with more than one woman…The problem is most guys don’t have the ability to…Now I bet if you found out that woman you’ve been so in love with all those years “stepped out on you” you would think differently…also, let’s say your woman said you could “step out” from time to time you would do it…guys that believe in that “soul mate” nonsense usually get played 😂
@@brianscott3503 this is a double standard women can't do what men do and get respected. You're the man if you attract many women , woman that with many men is a ho. We are not the same.
@@brianscott3503 a man's nature is to spread seed to as many women as possible. Cause men can impregnate many women. Woman can only get pregnant 🤰 by one man once a year.
If she love me she gone let me have whatever’s good for me. If it’s good for me, it’s good for her. If that mean another woman; so be it. Let me be great, don’t love me no differently 😎
Facts see the real problem isn't men or women infidelity, it's the fact that these women today are weak can't hold down a man and have been lied to that they were told they were the prize. That man is the prize and high value. Men is not something that is for every woman because it comes with certain standards and certain sacrifices that she has to make for the betterment of him
@@greenblazetheflyeagle6048 Expecting monogamy from your spouse isn't "weak" smh. Especially when both parties have agreed to be exclusive to one another.
@@alexisc7565 what's delusional is thinking that a high value man of many resources is going to be faithful to you and only you. It's just not realistic. So, you can be with the average everyday guy making a $50000 a year living and trust me he will be faithful and come to you everyday and struggle to build a life with that brother but a 6-7 figured making brother, you would be lucky to come 3rd to maybe 4th in his life before he's out building Wakanda for you and the family. These are alpha men who their career comes, the number one priority in their life and their women most likely third, maybe even fourth fiddle in their lives. It takes a special type of woman to keep these types of men. Sis, that's all I'm saying
I’m glad these conversations are being had..many men desire more than one woman..and it’s not a bad thing,men have always done it..but it’s not the modern world it has been Taboo and shamed
What Jas is saying is ridiculous…What woman is going to agree with her man having other women just because you were honest up front…I can tell you that a lot of marriages would last and families would be together if you allowed your man to occasionally have other women…this may sound crazy but this would actually benefit most women because number one the woman wouldn’t always feel “obligated” to always have sex, number two it would eliminate “cheating” because you know he has other women, number three it would create competition for the “main chick” and she knows she must stay on point, number four it would eliminate a lot of the bickering, complaining and arguing because she knows he has other options, number five he would be more satisfied because his needs are being met…
What's the point of being "on point" if he's gonna cheatt anyway? Lol there is absolutely nothing in it for the women except heartbreak, possible STDs, side chick drama and outside babies. And yall wonder why women divorce yall at such a high rate.
Women do it all the time , it’s just looked more down on if she gets caught . But cheating regardless is bad either way . So many men are willing to screw wives/ girlfriends and play his role . I know I’ve been in that situation The more men get caught cheating I truly do believe women will just keep cheating as well. Both sides complain about cheating , but we keep doing it
@@jazminedawson6745Females and Males are designed different Jazmine. It's 2025 and black females still think they are the same as Males. A woman mind body and soul is designed for only one man, if she had more than two men inside of her, she's most likely unfit for girlfriend or wife. FACTS... stay in your lane black woman and stop trying to strip black men nature, we are designed to have more than one woman
Jas is the only one on this panel with any sense. If a man is going to step out and cheat, he's going to do it regardless, of how well to keep yourself up. If you want an open marriage, that needs to be discussed upfront. Its the consequences they dont want to face. Not the truth.
not true. most marriages are sexless and she rations out cat for leverage/laziness cuz she tired esp if she has kids. the reality is a lot of men are trapped in these marriages due to morality being used against them.
It actually happens quite a bit! Ever heard of the term "cuck"? Do you know who initiates open relationships more? And who benefits from open relationships more? It seems you are the one not prepared for the conversation or you just wanted your "what about the men" moment.
People always trying to use society escape goat that s*** be getting on my nerves like you can't blame everything on society. People are just how they are that you don't need society to do anything
On top of the fact women tell each other EVERYTHING AND MEAN EVERYTHING. There is no such thing as a private conversation with women. It doesn’t matter if she’s your wife or best friend they tell EVERYTHING. Men take your honesty to the grave
The only man who desires another woman, even sometimes is the one who has a wife who delivers peace and all he needs. If he was receiving hell, he wouldn’t want that other woman who would be double hell for him, because negative experiences are like Velcro to the brain and you learn faster from pain than you do pleasure, hence, the movement that’s trending. The good woman, again, is punished for being a compliment. Self control and discipline is what we need to tap into more. And everybody ain’t meant to be slim. Healthy, healthy, healthy.
Home run. Hit it out da park. They wasn't even built to accept this conversation let alone some deep words from their man. Talk to ya friends fellas and keep feeding the lady the shit to keep ya life in PEACE. They just can't handle the heavy shit, bottom line.
Today's woman can't keep they body count on 2 hands... Majority of them at least. There is a HIGH PROBABLY most women have been another man's side chick at one point. Now you make not have known you were the side chick but that's a different STORY.
@@Mrs.704 where here in the U. S.? If they are its cause of western influence. The wealthy Arab who can give every wife equal 💍, 💰, 🏡 👦 👧. Unless he's is abusing his wives that's the only thing I see why they want to get out.
Randi said she thinks sidechicks are raised by sidechicks...... But she refuses to acknowledge the damage that "single mothers" cause. She only focuses on the men and dismisses the poor decision making of women
Anton just spoke truth about women in general, but definitely the chicks on this panel; especiall, Randi. That's why the chicks on the panel started giggling. Clearly the panel chicks are not ready to have the type of discussion with their man that Anton spoke about. Also, people cheat because they're afraid of the consequences of being honest about their real desires.
Why hold someone back from the life they want. If you want other women, but we're married, why would I stand in the way of you happiness. Sign these papers and let me go on about my day, sir.
@8:00 you can’t go on a whole sentiment about how men should be up front about them being interested in other women and wanting to step out while there’s an entire demographic of men that were perfectly fine sexually and then got married and watched their now spouse go months without making sure that their man’s sexual needs were met 😐 that’s not how this thing works. Don’t get mad when he seeks it somewhere else if you’re going to pull the rug from up under him once you get that ring. And clearly that’s the case for a lot of men
That’s why you need more than one woman because when one gets on your nerves you go check out another one…I’ve always said it takes 4 or 5 women to make one brain…😂 Why do you think most kings had more than one wife or woman at a time…now I’m not suggesting that every man do it because most men don’t have the ability, options, stamina or resources to maintain more than one woman at a time…but for those that do it can be very satisfying and in some ways peaceful
Women just don’t get it…sometimes a man just wants to be with more than one woman…it may not sound right to you because you have been conditioned to believe that a man is supposed to be with just one woman…but let’s say he works with Halle Berry at 25 and she wants to get with him…now you have a good woman at home but this is Halle “freakin” Berry in her prime. Do you really think he is going to say nah I got a good woman at home and I don’t want to get with one of the finest women on planet earth. Really? Like they say a man is only as faithful as his options. 😂
Same logic applies to women who come across men with money. Don't complain when when she gets her needs met elsewhere. And not just physical needs either
@@alexisc7565 Then she's a hoe and I don't want her anyway…this idea that women can do anything a man can do is nonsense…show me one women that sleeps around and is not a total mess…
I was a side chick at 25yo and I knew my place, I was there to make sure I attended meetings with him, be his emotional support while his wife was pregnant and to be provided for. Once I turned 27yo and met my husband I knew that karma would definitely pay me a visit. I accepted my karma and after trying to rekindle our marriage after 17y we divorced. I am now engaged 7y later and my man is 7y younger than I and we've had this conversation and I've said as long as he doesn't disrespect me or allow her to disrespect me or impregnate her and be discreet about it while taking care of our household I don't have a problem with it honestly!
Men can want as many women as he desires. Acting out on having extramarital affairs can be, for MOST women, a deal breaker. That being said, men can expect women to never forget infidelity even if it is understood that you’re all good now. Beware of a scorned woman’s revenge. Then don’t be on social media crying and bi***in about being left broke
Anton speaking to the mentality of most women today 11:05 - "Ya'll are with somebody base off what YOU want, you are not with someone base off what THEY ALSO need"
First off, that sidechick term has to be thrown out the window. Its derogatory, the terms "sister wife" and historically "concubine" are more honorable than a side chick. A man can love more than one woman, but it's best that a man be upfront and honest about what he wants.
@@matthewadams8772 because in every religion on earth the gods have always blessed men with multiple wives. from ancient kemet to hinduism to jainism to islam all the way to judaism and christianity. i would like for you to point to ANY religious text in which their god forbids a man to have multiple wives. i'll wait.
@@jondo3817 in Christianity they did that in the old testament yeah and no but after Christ came nw my brother if your a Christian that’s forbidden pick up the Bible and read my brother
Hate I missed it live. Men need to be real about what they really want and then be able to take what women want and need 🤷🏽♀️ if my husband came to me to honestly say he wanted other women then there needs to be an adult conversation had. Real women can handle it but men aren’t honest. Jas is also correct don’t marry me then say I need others. Upfront! It should have been a conversation about it, then if I choose not to stay that’s me and just something you have to deal with because there are a lot of women who are okay with it! But most men lie and cheat and wanna “sorry baby honey” after the fact. The problem is MEN need to be honest and there are women who will oblige with those kind of men.
How bout this men will be honest about wanting other women and Women be honest let the men know your only with him so have somebody to take care of you. And 90% of the men you don’t even like. That’s why y’all divorce the most
Men don't normally cheat just to cheat, it's in our nature to have more than one woman but black women think we the same. The man might love his wife to death but that nature kicks in and he must act accordingly or suffer for fighting against his nature.
Women just don’t get it…sometimes a man just wants to be with more than one woman…it may not sound right to you because you have been conditioned to believe that a man is supposed to be with just one woman…but let’s say he works with Halle Berry at 25 and she wants to get with him…now you have a good woman at home but this is Halle “freakin” Berry in her prime. Do you really think he is going to say nah I got a good woman at home and I don’t want to get with one of the finest women on planet earth. Really? Like they say a man is only as faithful as his options. 😂
Okay but you get with Halle Berry and shit most likely will nevee work out ? Now you've lost something good. I hear your point but choosing a good loyal woman will always prevail. Would you pick being with Lori Harvey over a good woman at home? Maybe sleeping with them but you still end up loosing a good woman over a short term fling ?
So many women are fine with their man cheating. I see it everyday. Women will even take a man back after having a baby on her. Just find a woman that is ok with sharing and stop wasting time with women who want commitment.
My father used to say, "Sometimes, it's better to say "No comment."" Women only want the truth they can handle. This is why we can't open up to women about all our vulnerabilities and fears. We'll lose their respect. They'll throw it back in our faces during an argument. Be very mindful of what you tell your woman.
Yesss! Agreed
Facts. Started telling my wife the truth and she lost her mind.
Happens
Should have been real upfront
@MrsWitherspoon yeah right. Just shows that women love lies more than the truth. After the truth, the looks, digging stick and money doesn't matter. Only her feelings. Goodbye and goodriddens. 🙄
@@MrsWitherspoonThen she would have never married him…people keep saying you should have told her the truth up front when they know there are very few women that would allow this without them getting something in return…most women are going to say well if you can do it then I can too…
@brianscott3503 Why get married in the first place if you want multiple women? You men complain about the divorce courts being biased against men, but then get married and do everything in your power to motivate a decent woman to divorce you lol. Asinine.
The funny part is the women on the panel are quiet and listening to him as thou they understand but spit rubbish as a response.
Crazy right.😂
It’s textbook. They’re on his panel all the time yet it shows that they don’t take his words seriously by how single af They are
It’s one of the most fascinating things’ God has designed. It’s like watching a robot malfunction 😂
Yep. Pause @2:28. They know
What else can they do?
Ain't no way you think a guy is suppose to not cheat if you let yourself go and won't do nothing about it. Even if you have a good man, he's going to eventually get tired of looking at you whale around. I've seen this happen in many instances. Yes, the guys in these situations stayed active.
They do believe he supposed to remain locked in lol
Jas & Randi... are the Jadakiss & Styles P of DELUUUUSION.
Lol. That’s a crazy analogy.
😂
😂😂😂
Why is that Randi even there?? She has an entire track record of nonsense and foolishness online.
That's hilarious....your are goated bro
Society has taught men to look at their feet and be quiet when knowing you’re dealing with a hyena or the smartest person in the world.
Debates or exchange of ideas. To be helpful should never go above level of 5 volume. And debates should be about learning.
When talking to the average know it all. The listening is to respond.
The responding is about shaming tactics.
The learning is nonexistent.
Translation. Stay quiet. Look at your feet. Get back on your grind.
Make your money. Leave the hyenas where they stand. They’ve already shown you their intelligence levels. Back away. Call it a day.
7:42 bless her heart. Here’s the scenario: you’re married to a woman who consistently withholds sex. You’ve talked and gone to couple’s counseling and so on. Nothing works. Now you know if you leave, you’re gonna take a major financial hit so you decide to delegate the sexual part of your relationship to another woman. Does that man not have integrity?
More than the damn woman
I am usually at odds with Anton and his opinions, but he was 100% on point with this one. Women like to believe that they're prepared for the truth, but you can't even tell them that they're not a 10.
Started telling my now ex-wife the truth about the direction of our family, and everything went off the rails or so seemed. The mental breakdown that her family had as a result of her telling them my thoughts exposed to her the type of people I had been telling her they were from the beginning. I now have ex in laws and am no longer welcome anywhere near them. This has actually done me the greatest favor because now I literally don't have to see or hear from them ever again. On top of that, we are rebuilding our relationship because she now understands what im trying to do by keep our family together. Gents, stop being afraid to have the tough conversations because you are afraid you might lose her. You losing her can happen at any time, so what makes you any different?
Anton right again modern women not built to have totally honest conversations in marriage. Because women are emotional and the laws incentive women to divorce me.
I hate how emotional women are it's annoying
@@yessir8805 Then date men, and be done with it.
@@th3azscorpio No I'll date women over seas. Because women in America are masculine and emotional and usually like you over 30 bisexual and a man hater
@@th3azscorpioEXACTLY get a boyfriend
Anton is right 💯!!!! I use to lie when I was younger now I’m a little older I tell women straight up what is take it or leave it. If she leaves I’m like next ! 🤷🏽♂️
Just being attractive for your man is sometimes not enough…As a young man I liked being with a variety of women it didn’t matter how fine she was…when men have options oftentimes they get bored with chicks and just want a variety of women…but understand it’s not just about sex it’s really that one woman just doesn’t satisfy you time wise, intellectually, sense of humor, femininity, support etc. So you find yourself dating more than one woman because you enjoy the variety and because you can.
What is in a man's nature? I'll wait.
@@johnthompkins9593 Wanting to be with more than one woman…The problem is most guys don’t have the ability to…Now I bet if you found out that woman you’ve been so in love with all those years “stepped out on you” you would think differently…also, let’s say your woman said you could “step out” from time to time you would do it…guys that believe in that “soul mate” nonsense usually get played 😂
@@brianscott3503 this is a double standard women can't do what men do and get respected. You're the man if you attract many women , woman that with many men is a ho. We are not the same.
@@brianscott3503 a man's nature is to spread seed to as many women as possible. Cause men can impregnate many women. Woman can only get pregnant 🤰 by one man once a year.
💯🎯
Anton is spot on, even women lie to each other rather than tell each other the truth
Get your passports men. Let American women date each other.
nah bro, stay in your country... we don't want no passport bros over here
😂😂💯
GoOOOOOO
Women and accountability >\= bloods and crips
Black men are the least accountable of all men though, so many deadbeats
AHAHAHAHA
If I meet a Jas and after we're married you turn into trigger; side chick is on the menu.
😂😂😂. Attitude wise of course 😅
Tukay can smell a side!🤣
If she love me she gone let me have whatever’s good for me. If it’s good for me, it’s good for her. If that mean another woman; so be it. Let me be great, don’t love me no differently 😎
Sound like manipulation. It don't work on me and nobody risking my health
Facts see the real problem isn't men or women infidelity, it's the fact that these women today are weak can't hold down a man and have been lied to that they were told they were the prize. That man is the prize and high value. Men is not something that is for every woman because it comes with certain standards and certain sacrifices that she has to make for the betterment of him
Delusional lol
@@greenblazetheflyeagle6048 Expecting monogamy from your spouse isn't "weak" smh. Especially when both parties have agreed to be exclusive to one another.
@@alexisc7565 what's delusional is thinking that a high value man of many resources is going to be faithful to you and only you. It's just not realistic. So, you can be with the average everyday guy making a $50000 a year living and trust me he will be faithful and come to you everyday and struggle to build a life with that brother but a 6-7 figured making brother, you would be lucky to come 3rd to maybe 4th in his life before he's out building Wakanda for you and the family. These are alpha men who their career comes, the number one priority in their life and their women most likely third, maybe even fourth fiddle in their lives. It takes a special type of woman to keep these types of men. Sis, that's all I'm saying
They're not ready to accept the truth🤷🏿♂️💯
Correct‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Anton is on point on this
facts what anton is saying, all facts!
Side chick's are realistic.
Facts....💯
I agree with Anton and 2k on everything....🤷
You can be the side without knowing lol we do it all the time. Just cuz you don’t know something don’t mean it ain’t happened!
I’m glad these conversations are being had..many men desire more than one woman..and it’s not a bad thing,men have always done it..but it’s not the modern world it has been Taboo and shamed
Point: My side chick was not raised by a side chick.
What Jas is saying is ridiculous…What woman is going to agree with her man having other women just because you were honest up front…I can tell you that a lot of marriages would last and families would be together if you allowed your man to occasionally have other women…this may sound crazy but this would actually benefit most women because number one the woman wouldn’t always feel “obligated” to always have sex, number two it would eliminate “cheating” because you know he has other women, number three it would create competition for the “main chick” and she knows she must stay on point, number four it would eliminate a lot of the bickering, complaining and arguing because she knows he has other options, number five he would be more satisfied because his needs are being met…
What's the point of being "on point" if he's gonna cheatt anyway? Lol there is absolutely nothing in it for the women except heartbreak, possible STDs, side chick drama and outside babies. And yall wonder why women divorce yall at such a high rate.
So, how would this benefit anyone but the man? All the points you listed were for selfish reasons.
You’re preaching to the choir. They know men lie them, THEY DON’T WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH. lol
Most women understand that a man can have more than one woman, but they are upset that they can't have more than one man.
Women do it all the time , it’s just looked more down on if she gets caught . But cheating regardless is bad either way . So many men are willing to screw wives/ girlfriends and play his role . I know I’ve been in that situation
The more men get caught cheating I truly do believe women will just keep cheating as well.
Both sides complain about cheating , but we keep doing it
Yall can sleep with more than one woman...but not have and love more than one.
BINGO. FEMALES ARE DESIGNED FOR ONE MAN, maybe 2 , but anything after 3 she's unfit for girlfriend or wife material.
@@jazminedawson6745Females and Males are designed different Jazmine. It's 2025 and black females still think they are the same as Males. A woman mind body and soul is designed for only one man, if she had more than two men inside of her, she's most likely unfit for girlfriend or wife. FACTS... stay in your lane black woman and stop trying to strip black men nature, we are designed to have more than one woman
@@jazminedawson6745lol nobody wants to love more than one woman. Just sleep with more than one
Jas is the only one on this panel with any sense. If a man is going to step out and cheat, he's going to do it regardless, of how well to keep yourself up. If you want an open marriage, that needs to be discussed upfront. Its the consequences they dont want to face. Not the truth.
not true. most marriages are sexless and she rations out cat for leverage/laziness cuz she tired esp if she has kids. the reality is a lot of men are trapped in these marriages due to morality being used against them.
The 2 ladies on the bottom left are going to be experiencing the results of their own perspectives. Probably for the rest of their lives...
Correctamundo
Biggest facts in a long time AD
It goes both ways.Can a man handle if a woman tell him he is not enough.Why do women let men con them.
It actually happens quite a bit! Ever heard of the term "cuck"? Do you know who initiates open relationships more? And who benefits from open relationships more?
It seems you are the one not prepared for the conversation or you just wanted your "what about the men" moment.
People always trying to use society escape goat that s*** be getting on my nerves like you can't blame everything on society. People are just how they are that you don't need society to do anything
No one wants to think for themselves anymore. I could give af about what society thinks. Too many people, especially women, are group thinkers.
Women reject open polygamy so they accept polyamory behind closed doors by default.
On top of the fact women tell each other EVERYTHING AND MEAN EVERYTHING. There is no such thing as a private conversation with women. It doesn’t matter if she’s your wife or best friend they tell EVERYTHING.
Men take your honesty to the grave
The only man who desires another woman, even sometimes is the one who has a wife who delivers peace and all he needs. If he was receiving hell, he wouldn’t want that other woman who would be double hell for him, because negative experiences are like Velcro to the brain and you learn faster from pain than you do pleasure, hence, the movement that’s trending. The good woman, again, is punished for being a compliment. Self control and discipline is what we need to tap into more. And everybody ain’t meant to be slim. Healthy, healthy, healthy.
And women want more that none man.
And old people wannna be young.
And people in hell want ice water.
Why is Jas acting like women can handle the truth? Men being honest with women would def be a disservice.
Kamryn with that big ass forehead reflecting all that light lol
I'm crying 😂
@@AchilliBreeze lol
Home run. Hit it out da park. They wasn't even built to accept this conversation let alone some deep words from their man. Talk to ya friends fellas and keep feeding the lady the shit to keep ya life in PEACE. They just can't handle the heavy shit, bottom line.
Today's woman can't keep they body count on 2 hands... Majority of them at least. There is a HIGH PROBABLY most women have been another man's side chick at one point. Now you make not have known you were the side chick but that's a different STORY.
Funny how cultures that practice multiple wives don't seem to have these problems.
Exactly!🤣🤣🤣
You do know they have shows now of women wanting out of their polygamous marriages.
@@Mrs.704 where here in the U. S.? If they are its cause of western influence. The wealthy Arab who can give every wife equal 💍, 💰, 🏡 👦 👧. Unless he's is abusing his wives that's the only thing I see why they want to get out.
Randi said she thinks sidechicks are raised by sidechicks......
But she refuses to acknowledge the damage that "single mothers" cause. She only focuses on the men and dismisses the poor decision making of women
Damn they all look guilty. Plus when a woman says they are single it doesn't mean they aren't getting it. Side chicks for life.
Anton just spoke truth about women in general, but definitely the chicks on this panel; especiall, Randi. That's why the chicks on the panel started giggling. Clearly the panel chicks are not ready to have the type of discussion with their man that Anton spoke about. Also, people cheat because they're afraid of the consequences of being honest about their real desires.
mrs foxxy it doesn’t matter
So does the men speak or just Anton and the females
Noelle definitely a side chic 😅😅😅😅
Are these the same women that leave their husbands at what rate, again?
Why hold someone back from the life they want. If you want other women, but we're married, why would I stand in the way of you happiness. Sign these papers and let me go on about my day, sir.
Jas remind me of diary I of a strong black women 😂
I can clearly see some "buy a dog and die alone" here
At least dogs are loyal.
Lord god thank you for making me ur wife ❤❤
A man can’t cheat !
So. If a man needs to be with more than one woman can the side chicks have other men?
@8:00 you can’t go on a whole sentiment about how men should be up front about them being interested in other women and wanting to step out while there’s an entire demographic of men that were perfectly fine sexually and then got married and watched their now spouse go months without making sure that their man’s sexual needs were met 😐 that’s not how this thing works. Don’t get mad when he seeks it somewhere else if you’re going to pull the rug from up under him once you get that ring. And clearly that’s the case for a lot of men
Trigger quiet.this not her lane appreciate it
Every chic been a side chick if they got a body count ...
Put them women on a lie detector Anton 😅😅😅😅😅😅 for the next show and ask this question
Men don’t cheat they exercise options 😂
Tukay 😭
noelle forget it men will not do that
Jas be quiet... You can't speak for MEN!!
Jas who hurt you???
Who needs more than one woman especially if they can’t STHU 😂
That’s why you need more than one woman because when one gets on your nerves you go check out another one…I’ve always said it takes 4 or 5 women to make one brain…😂 Why do you think most kings had more than one wife or woman at a time…now I’m not suggesting that every man do it because most men don’t have the ability, options, stamina or resources to maintain more than one woman at a time…but for those that do it can be very satisfying and in some ways peaceful
@@brianscott3503 Do u know why each wife of the king always has separate dwellings? He doesn’t sleep with 2 or 3 wives simultaneously.
Jaz proving Anton point…..again 😂😂
Women just don’t get it…sometimes a man just wants to be with more than one woman…it may not sound right to you because you have been conditioned to believe that a man is supposed to be with just one woman…but let’s say he works with Halle Berry at 25 and she wants to get with him…now you have a good woman at home but this is Halle “freakin” Berry in her prime. Do you really think he is going to say nah I got a good woman at home and I don’t want to get with one of the finest women on planet earth. Really? Like they say a man is only as faithful as his options. 😂
Same logic applies to women who come across men with money. Don't complain when when she gets her needs met elsewhere. And not just physical needs either
@@alexisc7565 Then she's a hoe and I don't want her anyway…this idea that women can do anything a man can do is nonsense…show me one women that sleeps around and is not a total mess…
Exactly why I dont feel bad when men get taken to the cleaners in divorce.😂 Just getting our reparations.
I was a side chick at 25yo and I knew my place, I was there to make sure I attended meetings with him, be his emotional support while his wife was pregnant and to be provided for. Once I turned 27yo and met my husband I knew that karma would definitely pay me a visit. I accepted my karma and after trying to rekindle our marriage after 17y we divorced. I am now engaged 7y later and my man is 7y younger than I and we've had this conversation and I've said as long as he doesn't disrespect me or allow her to disrespect me or impregnate her and be discreet about it while taking care of our household I don't have a problem with it honestly!
ok, that's great, you convinced us. now see if you can convince the rest of your girlfriends.
Girl bye
Pathetic lol
At least you’re honest, the majority of these women would never admit stuff like that!
I hope he doesn’t come back and give you something that can’t be cured.
WTF! All these "simps" running around here-REALLY???
😂 these hyenas are crazy
Men can want as many women as he desires. Acting out on having extramarital affairs can be, for MOST women, a deal breaker. That being said, men can expect women to never forget infidelity even if it is understood that you’re all good now. Beware of a scorned woman’s revenge. Then don’t be on social media crying and bi***in about being left broke
Anton speaking to the mentality of most women today
11:05 - "Ya'll are with somebody base off what YOU want, you are not with someone base off what THEY ALSO need"
I hate trigger voice 😅😅😅
First off, that sidechick term has to be thrown out the window. Its derogatory, the terms "sister wife" and historically "concubine" are more honorable than a side chick. A man can love more than one woman, but it's best that a man be upfront and honest about what he wants.
You can’t be a man of God with more than one wife
nonsense.
How is it nonsense my brother
@@matthewadams8772 because in every religion on earth the gods have always blessed men with multiple wives. from ancient kemet to hinduism to jainism to islam all the way to judaism and christianity. i would like for you to point to ANY religious text in which their god forbids a man to have multiple wives. i'll wait.
Whatever
@@jondo3817 in Christianity they did that in the old testament yeah and no but after Christ came nw my brother if your a Christian that’s forbidden pick up the Bible and read my brother
Hate I missed it live. Men need to be real about what they really want and then be able to take what women want and need 🤷🏽♀️ if my husband came to me to honestly say he wanted other women then there needs to be an adult conversation had. Real women can handle it but men aren’t honest.
Jas is also correct don’t marry me then say I need others. Upfront! It should have been a conversation about it, then if I choose not to stay that’s me and just something you have to deal with because there are a lot of women who are okay with it! But most men lie and cheat and wanna “sorry baby honey” after the fact.
The problem is MEN need to be honest and there are women who will oblige with those kind of men.
You are missing the point which proves Anton to be right. 97% of women cannot handle the truth.
I would like have multiple women but u can't cheat if u do u get put the house u can't Even cheat with a woman without my permission is that cool
How bout this men will be honest about wanting other women and Women be honest let the men know your only with him so have somebody to take care of you. And 90% of the men you don’t even like. That’s why y’all divorce the most
Men don't normally cheat just to cheat, it's in our nature to have more than one woman but black women think we the same. The man might love his wife to death but that nature kicks in and he must act accordingly or suffer for fighting against his nature.
@@BDAthleticInsider Women can't handle the truth 90% won't accept it
Women code is the strongest code in the world
Jas will never be honest on here neither one of them always Men against Women
Women just don’t get it…sometimes a man just wants to be with more than one woman…it may not sound right to you because you have been conditioned to believe that a man is supposed to be with just one woman…but let’s say he works with Halle Berry at 25 and she wants to get with him…now you have a good woman at home but this is Halle “freakin” Berry in her prime. Do you really think he is going to say nah I got a good woman at home and I don’t want to get with one of the finest women on planet earth. Really? Like they say a man is only as faithful as his options. 😂
Okay but you get with Halle Berry and shit most likely will nevee work out ? Now you've lost something good.
I hear your point but choosing a good loyal woman will always prevail.
Would you pick being with Lori Harvey over a good woman at home? Maybe sleeping with them but you still end up loosing a good woman over a short term fling ?
So many women are fine with their man cheating. I see it everyday. Women will even take a man back after having a baby on her. Just find a woman that is ok with sharing and stop wasting time with women who want commitment.