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People often fail to realise that skinny shaming is also body shaming.Just because curvy body type is in "trend" it doesn't mean that other body types are odd ! We should love to embrace who we are before it's too late
Literally no one think curvy people in trend. For the last 20-30 years, the fashion for thin bodies has continued. Everyone always idolizes and idealizes skinny people. what are you talking about LMAO.
@@crybaby9893 Curvy bodies are a trend. People don't like just skinny. They like a big butt and chest. What are you talking about.
@@xQuizzyx yes s3xually but after that they don't really like them ppl want big butt or chest but no tummy thin arms and thick thighs
Being thinner has always been on trend it was trend before and now it's overweight ppl on trend now but thinner ppl still always in trend
@@xQuizzyxgirl wdym so one been starving myself for nothing 😭
"You gonna finish that?"
"No I'm full"
"GIMME THAT ARGGH 👹"
EDIT: OMG MOM IM FAMOUS
Same 😂
thats me im like "GIMME IT ILL EAT IT"
My siblings 💀
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Yeah, I will eat it, I am eating for 3! Me, myself and I. 😅
lmao the “and you shut keep your mouth shut” is so true. like dude, i aint asking for ur cup of opinion. lemme do me. u do u
IKR👏
692 likes and 2 replies?? Lemme fix that
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Tbh I really enjoyed skinny shamming you because you have always wanted my attention. Now repeat after me "I'm a stick and I love fat shaming you"😂😂😂😂😂@@ClaraDao
*should
There was this one time my friend (ex-friend) bodyshamed me... so I was talking to her and said that I might join the cheer team next year and she went on to tell my best friend behind my back that I was never going to get a chest and that I prob wear bras to bed... like that doesn't do anything. And she also said that there's things you can do to get a bigger chest... no there isnt... it takes time, I'm late and so was my mom... and I don't even wear bras to bed... she made me even more insecure that I actually was. I love watching your videos and were both struggling with similar things, and your videos help bring my confidence back up.
Female gaze can be unbelievably toxic.⚠️☢️
Boobs are weird like that. Why's it always the people around us that make these unwanted comments?! Everyone grows at their own rate, there is literally nothing anyone can do to force them to exist without medical interventions. Every body is beautiful anyway.
@@erinbanana22 Even worse the people that are considered to be close to us like family or friends.
When I was skinny everyone always said to “eat more than that” “finish your plate you need it” but now that they put me on medication that made me gain weight as a side effect, everyone always calls me fat, says to not eat so much, that I need to lose weight, but when I was skinny I was just made fun of just as much? They say don’t be skinny and don’t be fat so what weight should I be? The double standards suck, you’re beautiful just the way you are and someone’s image of a perfect body doesn’t have to be like yours.
What medication are you taking?
@@yomilala8929 I could have spelt it wrong but it’s called Abilify. It’s a mood stabilizer
@@yomilala8929 it’s Abilify, it’s a mood stabilizer but I don’t recommend it because you gain a TON of weight and its basically impossible to lose weight when on the medicine. But it also can take years after getting off the medicine to be able to even lose weight
dont listen to those bullies they are just jealous of you because your pretty and better than them every is perfect in their own way and the way we are .
In between fat and skinny is what people expect and accept.
People need to understand that commenting negatively about any body type is literally bodyshaming. It doesn’t always mean “fat”
Thats actually true
People do
@@Asr26363 A lot don’t though
@@QueenK-popUnnie True
Or even positively!
Let’s just not talk abt ppls bodies if they don’t specifically ask us smth?
“Men should ruin your lipstick, not your mascara.”
-Marilyn Monroe.
Its irrelavent here
I’ve seen this comment somewhere else
Fun fact: i DIDNT like my own comment :3
Its just not men.
Istg if I see this one more time
Bro they were just trying to support her all u guys are doing is ruining there self confidence
The blue dress is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS
I can totally relate.
People don't even know what we go through and they are just normalising body shaming
Ya
I mean when my sister and brother js told to eat dinner because they will eat everything but vegetables that aint body shaming
@@Toby-z2z but forcing someone to eat more and telling them that they should gain some weight is!
@@theartspace2 im just saying because i know some people will complain if they have to eat healthy
Eww her arms is even skinnier than my 80yo grandma. I think she is obese after eating one meal
“Nobody is born ugly. We just live in a judgmental society”
-Kim Namjoon
How many times will I have to see this quote before I believe it 😭😭😭
"You gonna finish? "
"Yea im full"
"GIMME DAT BISH"
"HAUGHHHHHHHH"
yeah that's how I would react
LMAOO FRE
That's how you should react
The hardest is getting bodyshamed by your parents. Its the only reason im so insecure...
Honestly, people think it's a "compliment" when they call us underweight. It hurts me every time and thought maybe I should gain more weight, until I stumbled upon your chanel. You've made me feel less insecure Clara, thank you for everything you've done for not only me, but for all of us!♡♡
Yes
The fact you take being underweight as a compliment is concerning 😟
@@chrissyscholl816 They don’t take it as a compliment, did you read their comment?
@@chrissyscholl816 They said that when people call you underweight THOSE PEOPLE consider it a compliment, not that THEY consider it a compliment
I get it but I struggle with weight a bit and I’d rather be underweight than overweight 😕
Thank you for spreading awareness, skinny shaming is so normalized nowadays and they dont realize that its just like fat shaming. They are the same
Yess I agree with you 😔
As a person that used to weigh 400 pounds and is now super tiny, yeah, they both hurt the same and cause the same kind of damage.
Exactly
Skinny shaming is awful and I’m sorry you experience it. But when I was bigger (not even obese) I got stopped on the street by a random men who told me to lose weight, a cashier did the same, and my school bullied me for years and I’m in therapy now to fix that. I don’t want turn this into a competition. But the hate people have for fat people is extremely high. Just imagine your mere presence being too much for people
fat shaming hurts more.
My mom, she’s a really great mother but she sometimes makes me feel bad about being skinny without knowing it.
You should gently talk to her about it.
@@Berryations”gently” talking about something like that is usually never an option. At least for me. Because of my mom, I stopped carrying about my weight for a bit because she kept saying I’m going to be anorexic. So I just stopped really caring
She should gently gain weight 😂😂@@Angelica0216
Um
Same,I have fast metabolism but she didnt know😭
I hate body shaming. That is the way that they look so don’t judge them because they look different. You are so beautiful and don’t deserve that at all. I hope that everyone has a wonderful day and if today wasn’t a good day for you, I hope tomorrow is.
"it's not you, it's the toxic society we're in."
-my mom(love her)
Exactly!! Body shaming is shaming someone’s body, not just calling them fat!!!
Yk that’s still body shaming.. and it might not seem as much if someone just calls you fat but it actually hurts a lot.
@@Skibidinerine it says not JUST calling people fat, go do a comprehension test please
@@SkibidinerineYou could also just lose the fucking weight? It's not like you came out of the womb as a whale.
@@emporertheplusle8329 Ik it says that. I’m js saying that calling people fat is a part of body shaming. I’ve been called fat a lot of times and it actually hurts both ways if someone keeps mentioning it or if they just call u that one work skinny or fat.
Yea!!!!!!
Body shaming comes in all FORMS being shamed for being fat with cellulite and stretch marks from giving birth and I had men criticizing me on the beach for wearing a high waisted bikini. On the other hand, my sister struggles like this woman does and she gets mean comments too. Body “Trends” shouldn’t be a thing, look past to see personality and so many other qualities. ❤
You are GORGEOUS honeybun ❤.
I’m so glad you are giving recognition to skinny shaming, I’ve been skinny shamed all my life and I’m so glad someone is finally addressing this.
Same here😢
As long as your healthy I don't see the need, alot of skinny people have been ignored around me and ended up being really sick. Some people genuinely care. Especially if you actually have poor eating habits. Not shaming though. We all beautiful.
Same here 😔
And some people like me cant physically gain weight. Its called fast metabolism. Its when your body loses the weight you gain realy quickly
I was also skinny shamed all through high school and college, especially by family. I never took notice of calories, ate what I wanted etc. I was okay with my weight since that was the only "me" I knew and I had no problems finding a boyfriend.
When I entered mid-20s and my lifestyle changed, I gained around 15 pounds in 6 years. My family kept giving me compliments that I'm finally built like a woman, but I know I'm less healthy now so I'm trying to eat better and move more.
Thank you for content like that. Majority talks about bodyshaming towards overweight people. But as a girl with a petite figure and a woman who called to have a childish figure, your content makes me feel seen and heard. ❤️🙏🏻
Yes you have a great point
People always talk about how hard bullying for fat people is, but they never think that skinny body shaming exist too. I really hate bullying for both fat and skinny people. but I’m really happy that I finally found a contact that talks about body shaming but not about being fat but about being skinny, and I also when I feel full, my parents would’ve immediately point out that I should eat more and I’m pretty sure you know how that feels being forced to eat, my parents always say the same things you’ve mentioned in the video no matter how much I talk to them, they don’t understand they say it’s for me for my own good, but my insecurities are only growing more because of it. Thank you for mentioning that I really really appreciate it. Thank you
I think cus most people get bullied for being overweight or fat and maybe now being a little overweight and now society os doing fat acceptance I think both fay and thin people get bullied for it its is sad tho hopefully ur able to look past the negative people's comments cus I don't think anyone should be shamed for whatever body type they have
So true! Sometimes I just don’t eat that much and already feel full, my parents would always comment on how I didn’t eat much like... they would be like “you eat this little how are you supposed to grow”? I mean growing isn’t ALL based on eating a lot. Sometimes it’s just full for me like everyone’s stomach are different. Some people need to eat more to become full while some get full early, so maybe some days if I’m tired I’m hungry and some I’m not.
In my country of kid is underweight they may have check ups if everything at home is ok. As underweight might be a sign of kid being malnourished etc. I was underweight till starting to having periods. My Mom said she was always looked bad by doctors etc.
exactly, everyone talks about body shaming of overweight ppl but never/rarely about underweight ppl who are naturally skinny and cant put on weight no matter how much we eat or try - we are totally healthy though.. I grew up being skinny like that.. some ppl even think we dont eat or to be that skinny on purpose as if we chose to have that body and how "ugly" we look. Even my mom used to say she wished I had some boobs to look better in certain clothes. Over or underweight body shaming is the same, it is wrong. Appreciate and encourage each other. Appreciate her pointing it out... :)
@@nikitasiaYour: “I can’t get fat” sounds like a mockery.
Eat fatty and high-calorie delicacies that will be small in volume but very high in calories. There is a lot of such food. Same Snickers, nuts in general, chocolate.
You will gain weight if, instead of cramming an extra vegetable into yourself, you cram in a tasty treat. Just eat what gives you pleasant sensations and emotions, more than satiety.
If a person eats something tasty, he is more likely to overeat.
If you are not sick with worms or some rare genetic diseases, then it will help you.
And this will be a very pleasant way to gain weight. Unlike the path to weight loss, when you are often deprived of the last relaxing remedy - food.
That's all I wanted to say.
I'm sure you don't really want to "gain weight", you want to "have a nice body". And these are different things. It’s just that your fatter body is unlikely to be included in the standard of beauty, you understand that. And truly, your complaint should not be “I can’t gain weight,” which is equivalent to “I can’t gain fat,” but “I can’t make a body that fits beauty standards.” And this already implies complexity, and not just eating tasty treats. You won't have to eat high-calorie bombs, but a lot of protein and exercise. And now this is difficult. And this suffering is understandable. And “I can’t gain weight” is nothing more than a mockery, because you are not depriving yourself of anything, you are only gaining.
I feel this... I understand that being thin is idolized in a lot of ways and fatness bears a lot of stigma - so it's almost like people who experience fatshaming expect us to take skinnyshaming as a backhanded compliment or sth. But I spent my entire teens worrying about not being feminine enough thanks to all the comments ppl made when I entered puberty and barely had boobs/curves
"You should keep your mouth shut" Most wisest words ever be spoke.❤
I was skinny shamed my entire childhood. "Finish your dinner." I was full. "You're not leaving the table until that plate is empty." "you're so skinny! Like a stick!" "You look weak." "You should eat more, you're too thin." "Are you getting enough food at home?" I was healthy, it was the medications they put me on that made me thin. I started to binge eat in an attempt to have people stop commenting on my body, I listened and forced myself to eat more than I could. It was disgusting. Now I'm almost an adult and I still binge eat, but thanks to that I'm edging from average to the larger side. If people didn't say all those things I feel like I could atleast be at a comfortable size rather than eating until I'm sick. I'm emetophobic too so I can't just..yanno. I wish people would realise that words do actually impact others. Hopefully one day I'll break through and stop.
Whar medication made you thin?
@@etcwhatever as much as I'd like to think you're just genuinely curious I'd rather not answer for the sake of ppl reading this 😓 it was for my adhd though
@@almsivii im autistic. But im not sure if i have adhd. Im doing therapy. Well i binge because i was made to eat more than i wanted as a small child too. Since 8 i was never thin again. I have an auto immune disease which doesnt help. I look like 2 different people depending if im having an inflammatory flair up or not. The water retention is crazy. I change size from one week to the other. 😪
My teacher was body schaming me basically.. "You don't eat anything" like bffr girl, you dont know me then dont say that im not eating anything..
no one should have to go through this. i'm sorry you had to.
HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY EVERY PERSON IN THIS WORLD ❤❤❤
@StableGoat I honestly don't know search it up
Father’s Day is one national men day just celebrate the most
is there a man day? no? but we have womans day and fucking gay pride month whilest men also have a hard life like me and im 12 no girls no confedence i atleast hve somethings its not fun to be me
@StableGoat nov 19
Your video is so right when j in was skinny they use to Tell me to gain weight and now when I did they call me fat they say lose weight you know and it’s just hard and painful
I mean when I was I did not mean to say j in
True, I’m way too skinny and my family make fun of me. But I’ve learned to live in my body and I’ve tried to gain more weight! I’ve learned to love myself more and I just want ppl to understand that being skinny is also a insecurity for some ppl, it’s not the “perfect body” everyone says💗💗
You are brave and I hope u get past the hate or negative people that say mean thing about ur weight it's upsetting to see both overweight and thin people get body shamed this is the society now ig but now fat acceptance is being accepted maybe they will accept thinner people too
I wish I had your confidence I tried to gain weight too but I only gained about 5 pounds in a little more than a year I am glad you are doing good though
💗💖💗💖💗💖
I used to get bullied for being overweight. I would constantly be made fun of and picked last for group activities. I started having a really bad mental state and was completely relying on one or two friends to keep me confident. A few years later, I met my bff and she helped me realize my body wasn’t bad. My bff is struggling with being skinny and we both were very insecure atm. I even started to do gym time and do a really hard sport all to lose weight. What I didn’t realize was that I was doing it all for the wrong reasons. I can proudly say that I now do things for my enjoyment and love my body. I love my beautiful curves and every patchy section of skin. I know I am beautiful in my own way, and me and my bff are now happier and more positive. (Btw when this started I was in 3rd grade. It is so terrible that people are so cruel to young kids and it can make them suicidal and depressed!)
XOXO,
Insecurity girlie❤❤
Thank god you got better!
@@brooklyn.Q thanks!
Bingo.. 😊 I'm a male and I'm 6'6" I'm a human too
Wish I’m like you. I’m just skinny like a stick 😭
That’s so horrible. I used to think that people only got body shamed if they looked overweight, I honestly had no idea that people got shamed for being underweight too.
It’s almost like no body fits the criteria or is good enough but everyone has to realize that every single body is beautiful regardless of if it appears underweight or overweight, and let’s not forget that personality is most important
Even though people can get body shamed for being skinny the truth is that the the body shaming suffered by fat people is worse, more cruel and more constant.
You look beautiful the way you are no one should treat you like that don't listen to them
yeah, like all my life I was told by so many people stuff like "aren't you gonna eat more?" or "go eat a burger"
@@edsvi asked my babysitter rate me from 1-10 and she said 10/10 and i give myself a 2/10 and she said yoir not ugly you should learn to accept yourself . and then i said im insecure about my legs and she said you should not be inscure about them
@@Yojeong_moonlights243aww she sounds so sweet ❤
All these years, I didn't even know I was getting body shamed for being too skinny. I thought it was normal till I watched your videos, you really helped me gain confidence❤️❤️❤️
As a 14 year old girl, ur such an inspiration to me and other young girls out there. Even if I don't relate to some videos that much. Thank you so much for speaking up about society and making these types of videos. I love you Clara 🩷!
🥺🥺🥺luv you
Yes I am 14 too and you make me feel so good about my self your like a older sister to me 😊
As a fellow 14 year old I can personally agree, she is the one who has been helping me feel better about myself ❤
omg i completely agree, 14 year old girl aswell, teens are a-holes
@@Bubble_Kayl36 Especially the older ones, they're more rude to us than each other 😔
If someone body shamed you just know you're enough, even if they don't like it.
you are butiefull just the way you are
Exactly!!!
*If someone thinks they're a special snowflake and can change the world's opinion, you just know they're enough, even if they don't like it. 🤭
Or when you lose weight, they say,” look, you have become so good, otherwise you were so ugly”.(I'm 14 years old and I think I started having an eating disorder. I hope everyone who does this to me experiences the same thing.)
U want then to experience bullying and eating disorder its sad that people do bully people for both being overweight or thin I hope ur doing okay despite the experience ur having and ur very brave and strong
She is very good at wasting food no wonder mother earth hates her so much
That’s such a horrible thing to say to someone 14 years old.
What-
It isnt shes just complemeting her.
No but the black dress with the white lace and bow is actually so adorable I WANT IT
I hate being skinny shaming and im skiny but ur channels made me more and more confident stay strong❤
I'm also skinny,I hate when ppl discriminate against me
Same😢😢😢😢 like all girls I cry a ton about it in my bathroom😅
oh boo hoo you’re literally the beauty standard, no one makes fun of you because you’re skinny🙄
I'm curvy and even my family often tells me to lose some weight.
I don't f*cking care, as long i'm happy and healthy, still eat good and healthy food and do some workout regularly, i think i'll be fine.
To all the girls out there: we should be proud of ourselves and be confident, gurl🔥🔥
A lot of people need to realize that Bobby shaming isn’t just fat shaming.
I agree with bobby shaming
Fr
Who is Bobby and why are we shaming him? 😂
Poor Bobby :(
Bobby shaming is the worst of all shaming
Ive been super skinny and body shamed. Called twig, told to eat more. Told id be prettier if i gained weight. "You look like a stick figure" and now that im mid sized (size8-10 in jeans) i get called fat, cow, told i looked better thin. Told id be prettier if i ate more salad. You cant please everyone and if people learned to keep their mouths shut and their opinions about others bodies to themselves, the world would be so much more beautiful❤
People just have to find any reason to hate someone. I'm so glad that you're not letting the haters get you down!
I think sometimes concern from loved ones should not be confused with criticism. 😊
"Everyone is perfect, we are just on a toxic society"
~Me
no ones perfect 💀
@@randomizerL2012😂i can't- it's so funny the way u say the opposite of what the comment says plus that emoji 😭😭😭💀💀🤣🤣🤣but true tho everyone is perfectly imperfect
we are not perfect but god is we are perfect in our own way and the way we are
YES, people need to understand that body shaming is universal and can hurt everybodys' feelings!
You should be proud of yourself some people want the exact same body
It happens with me to 😢 because I'm short and skinny😢 you are so confident 👌
Body shaming can happen in many different ways, comments like these stick with people and it can cause others to develop EDs. ALL body's are absolutely beautiful, don't shame others ❤
I've always being body shame😞
I relate to this alot, we can never make people happy :(
You are right. You can never make people happy. Don't become people pleaser bcs they always find something to body shame you. Instead of this try to just like yourself and you body and don't ever listen to these stupid shits they are telling you. I realised that body shaming never stops, but it's not about them stopping. It's about us. We are those who mustn't listen them ❤
@@zuzkaneubauerova215 tysm for this comment, you're absolutely right. 💕
same
strawberry jennie
@@frairbear63 💗
GIRL you are beautiful ❤❤❤ there are just jealous because you are beautiful 🥰🥰🥰
ok
Nobody deserves being bullied or made fun of because of their body. However, extreme body weights of either side(under or overweight) are equally destructive. Please take care of yourself, everyone. I'm not saying she's underweight but there's a lot of influencers influencing the wrong stuff nowadays from Eugenia Cooney to fat "activists". Which skews the wonderful message of body positivity into something truly disturbing. I thank this creator for reminding people what real body positivity is.
The constant judgment, clothe swap reminds me of my mom. I’m big for my age and it feels like to her it’s an excuse. You’re such an inspiration making me feel like someone gets it
It's your body not hers. You should be able to wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. I'm really sorry she makes you feel that way, you are beautiful the way you are, don't allow anyone's insecurities stop you from loving you the way you are.
@@bellajoy9216 thanks, I needed that
Same 😢
It also happens to me 😢But u make me feel so brave thank u 💓
Bro, why the hell does someone complain when another person is 'skinny' but still complain when another person is 'fat'
Any weight is alright as long as you're healthy and able to go through your daily life without a problem
being overweight/underweight is not healthy though. To me, she looks too skinny. Women need to have more body fat than men.
@@tempejkl yeah but she can't help it, sometiems some ppl is just- born with a body like that and sometimes some skinny ppl seems like they can't gain more weight even though they eat alot(take one of my friend as an example)
@@Itz_Keyla.25 Not how it works. I've been both underweight and overweight. If you're overweight - eat less. Underweight - eat more. It's not that hard.
@@tempejklIt actually is that hard. Because fast metabolisms exist. Some people have a very hard time gaining weight because their body burns calories faster
@@trixieagustina6163 Not how it works. Your body will only burn calories faster if you eat alot (digestion burns calories), sleep more, or exercise more. Genetic factors make very little difference. You need to suck it up and stop making excuses for yourself, just fucking eat more, its what i did and it worked. And i do multiple hours of exercise a day, so its even harder for me. What's even worse is i take appetite suppressants. You don't have a fucking excuse.
I still think fat shaming is worse bc at least when you are skinny you are not as mistreated as someone who's considered fat
I want to make clear I agree this is body shaming and it's important to acknowledge it as well. Just don't think it's fair to those who are fat shame to make it the same as it diminishes how awful society is towards bigger and heavier women specially
I've been fat shamed a lot and I have no doubt that it's not as worse as being skinny shamed. But I still can't believe I let their words get to me. I started to eat less, to the point where I just starved myself and hoping that will make me skinner. I went as far as almost becoming bulimic but thankfully my mom noticed and stopped me. The words I remember vividly from our conversation, "They can say what they want to say but they will not see you the way I do."
This is why I'm thankful to have a mom like her 💜
As a girl who is also fat shamed, and I also struggle to lose weight (I've starved myself before too), I just wanted to let you know that we only live once. Love yourself no matter what other people say. True beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself. Don't try to change yourself just for others.
When I say that I am full, they say that I am on a diet, but I am like this 😞😭
Omg I absolutely love and agree with this content. I literally feel like anything I do someone relates it back to my weight and how I need to do more of this or less of that. I struggle with that exact problem, whenever I where leggings there baggy and when someone comments or jokes about how things fit on me I always just make up an excuse. Even at a young age I struggle with this and get the exact same comments. So thank you for addressing it! 💗
Body shaming on skinny people is a lot common than people think. Social media has a lot of this, I saw a lot of skinny people just posting pics and all the comments hating bc theyre "normalizing eds/ana".
If it's body shaming to tell you when something doesn't look good on you, the only option left is to not answer or respond to you weather you look good or bad in something.
It can't be that people are allowed only to make a positive comment on something. An honest person would prefer putting his or her true opinion
Pro-tip: If they didn't ask for your opinion, don't feel entitled to give it. You're a grown person, you don't need to vocalize every single thought that runs through your brain like a five year old. If they ask your opinion and it's negative, that's one thing. Otherwise, it's unsolicited and incredibly rude.
Gurl i feel u even my parents body shame me-
I'm insecure about my weight so the last one really got my heart warm that she stood up for herself
that's my life in short, wherever i go people keep saying "why don't you gain weight? don't you eat" or "you're so skinny, you should eat more, you're just a skin on bone", that's so annoying, why don't they just care about there own business, they keep making me feel like my body is a shame, but it's not a shame tho, every girl is beautiful. the true Beauty is the beauty of the soul after all so every girl should love herself and don't let anyone words affect her.❤
That last line, ✨ G I R L B O S S ✨
But fr tho, people should really stop shaming people, like its 2024 -_-
Exactlyyy🥹🥹✨
@@ClaraDaoHII ILYSM BAE
@@ClaraDao I LOVE YOUR VIDS GIRLIEE
in 2030 it will be cringe to even speak
I WAS THINKING OF SAYING GIRLBOSS TOO OMG
Girl you're pretty no matter what
You are beautiful don't be sad ❤
I've been there... I still am. Justice for naturally skinny people!
Chunky
Skinny
Curvy
Wavy
Tiny
Long
Wide
Any body type should be accepted❤
Like if you agree
Lanky: Tall and thin
Model: Tall and thin
You are perfect just the way you are ❤
It’s crazy how similar skinny shaming and fat shaming is
You just tweak a few words and it goes the complete opposite way
I mean, I have that curvy body, it just curves the wrong way 😂😂😂
Fat shaming is also hurtful,i was body shamed by my aunt for having 56(i think) galleries. Now i feel self conscious about my body and face.
It has so many different forms
So many you can never win
You're never good enough for everyone
And that's okay
I know it hurts
But it'll be okay
REMINDER🌱
You're beautiful, flaws are what makes yourselves beautiful. You'll be happy once you know to love yourself
"and you should keep your mouth shut" by the way working out can help underweight people gain weight. Exercise is good for anyone.
People could be cruel and so would the world but if we let it hurt us then what’s the point on trying to change who we are? We can’t just change over night and we can’t change who we are because it’s not right some people weight a little more that people and some people weight less but that doesn’t mean you have to change who you are because people tell you to. You are unique and beautiful in your own way your unique because no one could be as unique and as beautiful as you are today or tomorrow. If you can’t change what people say about you them you can change on how you listen and see yourself as your own unique person❤
My Nana (grandma) always skinny shames me 😢 she makes me eat more even when I’m full…(I live with my Nana, she’s my legal guardian.)
Love your videos you have definitely helped me to feel better about myself bc I’m always having a hard time and your videos really help 😊
“Look at the perks” sleeping on your stomach🤞🏻🎀💕🔥✨♾️👽
The last word you said is so GOOD AND yes they need shut their mouth
Sadly it’s so true I’m really under weight and ppl always say stuff like that but they don’t know it is offensive ig
My mother used to pick a lot on my body, because I had some hair
"Why don't you do laser so you can get rid of the hair from your body, for like ever?".
I was shaving my legs and my arms so much, until no sign of hair was left on my body.
Then she focused on my hair. She used to say how ugly and curly they looked, until I dyed them and bleached them, so they can look more "fresh". Also of course she was talking about my make up. She was asking me why I wasn't wearing enough make up, when I was out.
Last but not least, I was called a crybaby and useless.
It really hurt me a lot as a teen and as a young adult, when she was saying these things to me. She just saw me like a monster, especially with my big height. But I realised much later, just how much projection she had with me.
My sister was a bit kinder with me, because at least, she wasn't judging my appearance or what I did all day.
Beauty standards and double standards, are the most harmfull things, which were created by society, because they want to get rid of our imperfections. Which they just make us more humans and not only dolls of entertainment. After all, we can't be accepted by everyone for who we are.
This happend soy me today in the shool bus a boy told me “bro shes doing that because she think your fat 🤣🤣” and y was so so so sheamed 😔 and the girl also told me “Your like super false because you where makeup” y just told her “Its just a lil bit” she just told me “yes but im natural and preaty 🫤” 😔😔😔😔
THANK YOU for this people don't get it
A question for all of those people: What’s wrong with her? She’s more than gorgeous. 😊
this happened to me when i was preparing for our prom. i want to wear pretty dresses but i'm flat chested.. it may look like a small thing but i cried about it lol :') i can't wear just anything i want because i feel insecure :
Me realizing back I got body shamed. This girl is a bully and when I was full she said you need to eat more. You are wasting for. My parents got me school lunch and some times it looks and taste horrible so I didn’t eat it. Now I know I was getting body shamed sometimes to be silly I called my self a twig. People call me it behind my back also. That is how I get and got body shamed
People also go to the gym to become physically stronger, not just to lose calories. Also, everyone has a great body and should be proud of it, not ashamed of it. One can bring any want
if she accepts it, she will have a nice ideal body but a lot of depression from accepting it, especially if she stops half way.
I remember one time, I got this dress that I was super excited about, it was purple and sparkly and I was really excited to wear it. I wore it over to my friends house because they were having a special occasion dinner. My friend told me that I shouldn’t wear that dress because it made me look flat on my butt and my chest. I’ve never worn that dress since.
And the other side of body shaming looks like this " look at your friend there shes so skinny and look at you!" "Are you gonna really finish that?" "Eat less!" And a lot more.
Edit: i am struggling with all of the above
It is so wrong that people phink that skinnny people only whant to look like that because that is "standard" and "conventionaly pretty". That is so not thru. If being skinny in America is pretty and attractive, that doesnt mean that it is like that in all other countries. Fore example, i whas skinny all my life and people where mocking me and bully me because of that all the time. In elementery i whas called anorexic and that i am ugly and promoting anorexia (i whas only 10 years old) and there where girls who where fat and they where find attractive by all the guys and praised by other girls fore that. I just saying that if in America being skinny is attractive, that is not the case in a lot of parts of the world and that skinny people are getting bodyshamed and bullyed too.
As a person who was 70 pounds I can relate people should worry about themself no matter if your fat or skinny you are amazing beautiful everyone in the hole world and god gave you that gift don’t let people take it away from you.
My prom is close and I’m going to wear a similar dress but longer and just as you I have a small chest but thanks to you I don’t care, I like the dress and that’s the only thing that matters 😊
I hate when people make comments about how great it must be to be skinny. Like, yeah sure, it's great when I can't find clothes that fit properly and my appetite is inconsistent at best .-. My roommate keeps saying stuff like this to me and it sucks, but she's a lot older than I am so I dont feel confident enough to tell her it makes me uncomfortable.
It shouldn’t matter what someone looks like as someone who hates there body from other ppls opinions I think others need to stop body shaming it causes lots of mental problems leading up to stuff much worse,love urself ❤
You should never listen to those body shamers.You look beautiful in any way
BODY SHAMING ISN’T ONLY WITH FAT PEOPLE BUT ALSO SKINNY ONES AND EVEN OTHER TYPES OF SKIN DISORDERS
It's okay girl I'm just like you 😊❤❤
Im always shamed for being too skinny but i try to gain weight but it never works😔
Why do people care so much abt something that doesnt belong to them? If you feel comfortable in your body, then it doesbt matter what others say
Sis i dont care if im being cringe but your the best dont let those idiots make you forget that ❤❤❤❤❤
Body shaming feels unfair,if your too skinny they shame you for being too skinny, and if your too fat they fat shame you life is unfair🥺😢😭
Actually, you look good in that sweater because it suits your style very well.
every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top❤❤❤❤❤