Gay Man’s Journey To Acceptance: “I’m Muslim. I’m Gay. And I’m Totally Okay With That.”

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • Growing up in a small, conservative town in Turkey, Tolga was not happy when he realized he was attracted to men. After moving to New York City for college, he hoped to overcome these feelings once and for all, but wound up embracing them instead.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 92

  • @p.rabbitt4914
    @p.rabbitt4914 5 років тому +22

    Tolga- this was beautiful- THANK YOU!
    You embody the future of evolved humanity by your blessed spirit. I was raised Christian, & you've helped me understand how to relate to my Muslim husband better.
    You've given me hope that we will reconcile our challenges. Shukran~

  • @id_emotion
    @id_emotion 4 роки тому +26

    Okayyy but has no one told you how cute you are? Loved hearing your story, I can relate :)

    • @tuneaddicted
      @tuneaddicted 3 роки тому +2

      A total babe

    • @thabetsafi4026
      @thabetsafi4026 3 роки тому

      Very delirious

    • @cxarhomell5867
      @cxarhomell5867 3 роки тому

      This is very wrong in Islam. Astaghfirullah.

    • @Mcfreddo
      @Mcfreddo 3 роки тому

      @@cxarhomell5867 Blows bubbles. Islam's a load of shit.
      You may believe in it, but the fact of any belief is, is it not in fact. It resides only in people's heads. Fiction/ fantasy.
      Can you show that it's real? No, no you can't.

    • @remyazharyyosef1811
      @remyazharyyosef1811 2 роки тому

      @@cxarhomell5867 Then that is their/our choice. If it bothers you then you should be adult enough to move on to other places.

  • @sumguy2581
    @sumguy2581 6 років тому +26

    I'm gay and still identify as Christian. If he could calm a storm and heal the blind, I know he can understand my heart!

    • @namelessmillennial
      @namelessmillennial 5 років тому

      I'm here to tell you that you're wrong and you're going against nature. science and facts don't care about your feelings but obviously you're putting your feelings over logical thinking

    • @Cabin13houseoflife
      @Cabin13houseoflife 5 років тому +1

      @@namelessmillennial Good for you dude Jeuse love you

    • @boombangpow889
      @boombangpow889 4 роки тому +7

      Mkultra90 K If you really felt that way, why are you watching this?

    • @christopherthorkon3997
      @christopherthorkon3997 4 роки тому +2

      Me too.

    • @omarduncan4904
      @omarduncan4904 4 роки тому +2

      @@boombangpow889 ikr😒

  • @remyazharyyosef1811
    @remyazharyyosef1811 2 роки тому +4

    I'm a gay Muslim and HIV positive. People can say that sexuality and religion don't mix. Fine, it's their choice to believe whatever they want. Personally, I am living my life and no one can dictate how I decide to live it. Society will always have their thoughts and ideals of how to live one's life. For me, just as I won't meddle in your affairs so too you shouldn't meddle in mine or others.
    My sets of beliefs and faith are my own. And no one has the right to decide for me. As a Muslim, I am accountable for MY OWN ACTIONS, NOT WHO I AM. Only God decides my fate.
    What's important to me, where society is concerned, is that I have to respect others and not causing any harm to others.

    • @Chad_1235
      @Chad_1235 Рік тому

      Bro 😭
      Do you know who prophet lut is?
      You can’t be Muslim and gay. If you’re gay you’re not a Muslim. It’s as simple as that, Allah himself said you will have hellfire for this.
      You’re not a Muslim. Simple as that.

    • @esasuleiman6835
      @esasuleiman6835 Рік тому

      May Allah bless you and forgive you

  • @robertmccannel8598
    @robertmccannel8598 2 роки тому +8

    Coming out is painful. Bravo to you for surviving it with grace and integrity.

  • @ted1091
    @ted1091 4 роки тому +5

    So moving. Wonderful story

  • @arnoldstafford4718
    @arnoldstafford4718 9 місяців тому +1

    Once you suck you are hooked

  • @Tripper111
    @Tripper111 7 років тому +8

    Good for you Bro...

  • @powerblades
    @powerblades 7 років тому +15

    I don't believe in God. When someone show me the pen that God used to write the bible I'll convert myself. Sorry I usually don't believe stories told by humans.

    • @elitestar
      @elitestar 6 років тому +3

      powerblades then you shouldn't believe history or any piece of science without doing everything yourself first hand

    • @atexyz6928
      @atexyz6928 4 роки тому

      It actually has nothing to do with God and I never talk about God with anyone. It's merely about accepting past and present, the way I was raised and the way I am.

  • @demo1636
    @demo1636 3 роки тому +1

    Fulll of liee😑

  • @tplmic5866
    @tplmic5866 4 роки тому +8

    I have a great smile on my face because of what you said. Thanks.

  • @Kyle-453
    @Kyle-453 6 років тому +28

    This story made me so happy! I cannot imagine how encouraging this must be for Muslims struggling with their identity and faith. Thank you so much for sharing and inspiring others to find a place of peace and faith while maintaining true to love.

    • @cxarhomell5867
      @cxarhomell5867 3 роки тому

      And this muslim has strayed too far from the straight path.

    • @remyazharyyosef1811
      @remyazharyyosef1811 2 роки тому

      @@cxarhomell5867 And this coming from a Jew. Wow, talk about adding fuel to the fire.

    • @cxarhomell5867
      @cxarhomell5867 2 роки тому

      @@remyazharyyosef1811 Of course, this needs to stop. Between the abrahamic faiths, of the Jews and the Christians and the Muslims, this needs to end.
      No degeneracy.

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u 7 років тому +15

    Thank you Toga for your very personal sharing. As an American educator and counselor, I totally agree with your experience here and with your conclusion. I think you are a very insightful and intelligent, good young man.......Kudos........Ray

  • @monica8833
    @monica8833 6 років тому +6

    Intresting story...thanks for sharing

  • @pchilds80
    @pchilds80 7 років тому +6

    He's cute. :-)

  • @ArfaSaman-u2g
    @ArfaSaman-u2g 2 місяці тому

    Okay can somebody gay men please marry me because I am asexual too, I don't have any feelings, only declared me as a wife in front of society and you can bring your gay partner at home. I am totally okay with it.

  • @dmsnickmoore
    @dmsnickmoore Рік тому

    ❤🌈🏳️‍🌈💜💙💛🧡💚❤️🥰😍I am so supposed not homophobic comments in this video

  • @Bazroshan
    @Bazroshan Рік тому

    The insensitivity of the man in your first experience is saddening! But the sensitivity of your second experience it heartening!

  • @totaro-o4s
    @totaro-o4s 4 роки тому +3

    A touching story

  • @ArtsyMark
    @ArtsyMark 6 років тому +8

    tolga is beautiful

  • @kasnarfburns210
    @kasnarfburns210 4 роки тому +1

    I knew someone who was from Turkey. He became a naturalized citizen in the USA. He told me what it was life growing up for him in Turkey.

  • @danielfecklessness2796
    @danielfecklessness2796 5 років тому +2

    That's nice and all-but how?

  • @atzonaftaniel4798
    @atzonaftaniel4798 4 роки тому +1

    How endearing.

  • @taytaybeynippy486
    @taytaybeynippy486 7 років тому +11

    I would love for more people like him to come out and talk about their experiences especially from Muslim countries.

  • @CAPCUTROXY
    @CAPCUTROXY 2 роки тому

    He's gay and muslim it is a rule to not sadly but that's just actually abit rude but hope u don't take this as a offence

  • @rothvinbosley1335
    @rothvinbosley1335 7 років тому +4

    I think unless you decide to take your religion less literally, it would be difficult to remain a devout Muslim and out gay man. Even few Christians can remain in their different sects. That is why more and more are moving to reject faith, I think for rational thinking if not out and out atheism and a questioning of the books that a person relies upon for moral rectitude.

    • @cxarhomell5867
      @cxarhomell5867 3 роки тому

      I mean you can't, if you pledge to read the Bible or the Qur'an.

  • @shaistahjavaid3120
    @shaistahjavaid3120 5 років тому +2

    Qayamat

    • @cxarhomell5867
      @cxarhomell5867 3 роки тому

      @@totaro-o4s No he isnt

    • @cxarhomell5867
      @cxarhomell5867 3 роки тому +1

      @@totaro-o4s The people of lut were turned to ash because of this.

    • @totaro-o4s
      @totaro-o4s 3 роки тому +2

      @@cxarhomell5867 Yes, and elephants can fly with their ears

    • @cxarhomell5867
      @cxarhomell5867 3 роки тому

      @@totaro-o4s Your point?

    • @totaro-o4s
      @totaro-o4s 3 роки тому

      @@cxarhomell5867 Sleep over it. If tomorrow you still don’t know I will tell you (that is how I educate my children - 6 and 8 year olds)

  • @superyachtchef
    @superyachtchef 2 роки тому +2

    Stop talking - this is an embarrassment to our community 🌐

    • @lovemyself6441
      @lovemyself6441 2 роки тому +1

      And you are embarrassment to humanity