Autistic (Late Diagnosed) vs Neurotypical Q&A from Jubilee Middle Ground

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  • Опубліковано 7 лют 2025

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  • @Urawizhar
    @Urawizhar  Рік тому +1

    Thank you Jubliee, Middle Ground for your hard work facilitating these important conversations. Your work will help change the world.
    Please check out their video, where I got the inspiration and questions from to do my own take on it.
    ua-cam.com/video/9FCixSEjUJ8/v-deo.htmlsi=6xDv_KAf9tTMiwVI
    First and foremost, I want to say that the hatred towards Abbey's mom Christine is so unnecessary. She knows her daughter better than anyone ever will, she has good intentions, has worked hard to give her daughter an amazing life and a huge reason why Abbey is so amazing is from her mothers care, dedication and love. That Every child deserves. As someone who grew up in an abusive environment and gets a good read on people sometimes, I do not see the signs that I am reading in the comments. I do not Reach or look into things unnecessarily because I am confident that we do not see every aspect of them or their relationship, due to editing and everything. That woman is a rockstar but that's my point of view. You are entitled to yours but I just hope you take a look in the mirror when dragging someone you do not know personally online.
    However I was and have been hurt by some of her beliefs on the popularity of autism and how it is "dangerous", becoming too wide of a spectrum, I fully disagree in my personal experience but I can understand or try to understand her point of view.
    My video went on much longer than I had intended, as per usual LOL but I hope that you can relate to my experience or gain a new perspective, what its like for just one more of us on the spectrum. Every story is entirely unique and offers insight so we can better understand ourselves and help others.
    Thank you for your support!
    Btw. I have no clue if I seem or don’t seem autistic. I think some would try to argue but I have been formally diagnosed. I struggled so much more when I was young, from being isolated, bullied, nearly mute sometimes, due to fear, of unknown places, people and situations, ALL the sensory issues from picky eater, to loud sounds to refusing to wear certain textures to the point I’m pretty sure I’ve given myself frostbite many a times, and I could go on and on.
    I struggled then and I still struggle today. From relationships to employment and bullying.
    But you know what helped? Actually getting diagnosed, learning through social media what Autism really was, I had zero clue until shows like love on the spectrum came out. How can that be might you ask?
    It’s another long and complicated reason that I could get into in another video but I have touched base on the summary of it here and in other videos.
    #autism #autistic #cptsd #ptsd #anxiety #adhd #depression #fibromyalgia #trauma #disabled #disability #invisibledisability #invisibleillness #aboutme #adultwithautism #jubilee #middleground

  • @kittydebs
    @kittydebs Місяць тому +1

    I like your intro♥I like the whole video. Thank you for talking about late diagnosed autism.

    • @Urawizhar
      @Urawizhar  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you! ❤🥰 Hope you are doing well.

    • @kittydebs
      @kittydebs 26 днів тому

      @@Urawizhar 😻

  • @Urawizhar
    @Urawizhar  11 місяців тому

    Lmao!!! I just noticed something funny. I have my videos set to allowing them to create titles for the “Chapters” and they have one called Why I Like To Talk. 😂❤

  • @Urawizhar
    @Urawizhar  Рік тому +1

    By the way. If anyone is curious.
    I do have ADHD as well. But some believe that is Autism. Or many Doctors are now saying that they go hand in hand. So to me it means that possibly most if not all Autistic people have ADHD. I don’t know if that’s right, it’s all a little confusing at times, once I got my diagnosis of both, I sort of backed off on the education of it all because I was so relieved, happy and very BURNT OUT. But since I’ve heard it from more than one Doctor I just stopped using ADHD as often when I do these videos. But I think I will start including it or we’ll see.

    • @Urawizhar
      @Urawizhar  Рік тому

      Or possibly Autistic people without ADHD are the ones who can hyper focus and excel in school and careers. What are your thoughts on that?

    • @Truerealism747
      @Truerealism747 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Urawizharsure my grandfather just had autism and my mum seams it's grey area and glad you asked that like to no how to tell can only hypofocus in special interests

    • @Truerealism747
      @Truerealism747 11 місяців тому +1

      But afterthought I've read ADHD comes out in stress and my grandfather had very peaceful Amish style life may explain why he kept so well

    • @Urawizhar
      @Urawizhar  11 місяців тому

      @@Truerealism747 Yes! That is very true! When I get too stressed EVERYTHING gets worse! Sleep, mood, pain, recovery, focus, everything! That’s why going to a more minimal lifestyle and letting go of a lot of bad habits has helped me a lot but I still face stressful situations out of my control sometimes, like we all do.

    • @Truerealism747
      @Truerealism747 11 місяців тому

      ​@@Urawizharyes stereotypical s give us stress I no now why I get stressed around none autistic I can feal people's emotions before they speak until diagnosis I wondered why and though everyone can also heds is made worse with stress check out Dr lenz worth a look ime awaiting ADHD meds to try for pain